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RELATIONSHIPSlafleur00/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 10:42 PM
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LIFESTYLElafleur00/r/RedPillWomen23/05/18 11:16 PM
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That makes me very sad to hear! I don’t know anything about your situation but I will say that loving my husband deeply is a choice I make every day. I don’t wake up to singing birds and rainbows every morning or come home to a love letter every night. He says things that annoy me or leaves his dirty clothes on the ground in the bathroom regularly. But all that stuff is insignificant in the long run. I would sit down and think hard about why you don’t feel that way. Is your husband the type of m…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/18 09:36 PM
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My husband makes me feel like I have a flower blooming in my chest. My heart actually aches with happiness when I think about him and our life together. That doesn’t mean it’s always like that. He also has made me so frustrated or angry that I want to scream (although I’m pretty good at keeping my cool ;)). But 95% of the time I’m blissfully happy to be spending my life with him.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/18 12:54 AM
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I’m 24 (nearly 25) and a new doctor (just passed my boards!!!!!). I JUST now have started feeling like a woman and not a girl. I spent all of undergrad and most of graduate school feeling insecure and childish. Consider college a learning experience, and not just an academic one! Experiment with your wardrobe, practice talking to people, put yourself in uncomfortable situations that will help you grow, perfect your makeup application technique, find a signature perfume, go out on first dates, le…
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/18 04:27 PM
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I probably would have said something along the lines of “I have such a wonderful time with you no matter what we are doing!” Acknowledges that you love fine dining with him, but also love staying in or doing free activities!
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/18 12:49 AM
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I do a quick makeup routine that involves concealer, eyebrows, eyeliner, mascara, and a flattering lip color. If I’m wearing my hair up, I just make sure it looks neat. If it’s down, I usually flat iron or curl it. I can get away with 2-3 days of one hairstyle before it starts looking too scary. Dry shampoo is a must if you’ve never tried it! I also always try to wear perfume and earrings. I’m currently (and temporarily) working with horses and am getting up at 5 am daily. So it’s messy and I’m …
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/18 11:23 PM
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I never leave the house in the morning without doing a quick makeup routine and making my hair presentable. At maximum I spend 30 minutes doing these things, usually less time. So few people these days actually “get ready”. The fact that I make myself presentable everyday is extremely attractive to my fiancé. I would also say being soft spoken and pleasant is feminine. I have an extremely raunchy sense of humor that my fiancé loves (so I’m not saying hide your personality!) but he also loves tha…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/18 06:58 PM
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I wear concealer and bronzer on my face. I usually do a complete eye look including winged eyeliner (my signature) and then a rosy lip. All together it takes me 10-15 minutes.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/17 06:43 PM
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You might have to try online dating. Some people frown upon this (although I am not sure why). It will vastly expand the number of people you are exposed to. You will probably have to go on lots of first dates to find someone worth a second date. That is a lot of investment for sure, but so worth it when you meet the right match. I think it's so hard to tell if someone is RP right off the bat. Obviously there are clues, but until you discuss morals and values there is no way to tell for sure. An…
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/17 09:14 PM
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Sounds pretty toxic. Sometimes it's impossible to salvage things once a relationship reaches a certain point. You will find someone that meets all your expectations that you don't have emotional baggage with!
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/17 10:30 PM
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I am in my mid 20s and my boyfriend is in his mid 30s. Our age gap works because we are at similar stages in our lives. He is just now reaping the benefits of his hard work (he's a business owner) and ready to settle down. I am a medical professional and am also at a point where I am ready to settle down. Yes we have an age gap, but our goals for the future align and we are on the same timeline. Honestly, this guy is right to keep his distance from someone 18-19 years old. You guys may click, yo…
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/17 04:01 AM
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That is actually incredible advice! So many problems in life can be solved by placing ourselves in the other person's shoes. Thank you so much!
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/17 03:47 AM
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I've chosen to place trust and faith in my boyfriend because I believe he deserves it. This is difficult for me sometimes because of my own insecurities. What can I do to continue to be secure and confident in my relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/17 04:53 PM
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That was so sweet of your boyfriend! I don't have anything specific, but it is so wonderful to be in a relationship with someone that speaks my love language (words of affirmation). Not a day goes by that he doesn't tell me how beautiful/smart/whatever he thinks I am and how proud he is of me.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/17 04:48 PM
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I'm a new doctor and I consider it one of my "purposes" of being on this planet. However, my job will NEVER be more important than my personal happiness (which includes a happy relationship and eventually children). Just make your personal life a priority and there is no reason you can't fulfill your career goals as well.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 05:48 PM
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My n count is higher than that and my boyfriend actually thinks of it as a positive thing. He knows I am loyal and appreciates my experience and enthusiasm in the bedroom. That may be a more open mindset than many men, but at the very least you should not be condemned for it! You can't change the past nor should you dwell on it. However, I think it's very wise to be more selective with sexual partners in the future.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/17 09:11 PM
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Moodier than me but I wouldn't say overly so.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 12:47 AM
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Thanks for the advice! Certainly something to consider. I think I would like to learn to brush off those snarky comments, but everyone has a limit and I may employ that technique if need be.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 12:46 AM
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I think you're spot on in your observation about the difference between how men and women deal with issues. I also tend to want to feel like I am "in the loop" and want to know what's going on in his life. But that is my desire and I think I need to balance that want with his desire to decompress on his own.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 12:44 AM
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No, usually not! That was just the example from today. Most of the interactions are in person because I know how easily tone can be misunderstood via text.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 12:42 AM
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You're right, lol. We tend to joke by poking fun at each other but I could have been more tactful with my choice of joke.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 12:41 AM
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Thank you for your response. I think I will try to change my reactions to his bad moods first and if that does not help, bring the issue to his attention.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 12:39 AM
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Thank you so much for your reply! I have a very stressful, demanding job so I know that I tend to be less patient with his moods during times of stress for me. It is very easy for me to say "well I don't snap at him, so why is he snapping at me???" but that is not productive or helpful behavior. I think I need to take time and focus on recognizing that everyone deals with stress differently and it is nothing personal. :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 12:37 AM
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