Tarot Tuesday: November

Shaela90 · 2017-11-01T14:24:09+00:00

Hey, I loved your insights from past readings tremendously, here am I, turning into a regular, hehe :):

About a month has gone by from my relationship 'crisis' and things are slowly starting to fall into place. I took a few steps back and right now I'm trying to resurface the wonderful connection we had in the beginning, as I believe it's still there.

What is the best way to do this? Currently, I'm trying to just take it one day at a time and enjoy the pleasant times we spend together? Is there more I could do ? I learned a great deal from this crisis and I keep wondering, is it smart to still invest in this relationship or would I be better off cutting my losses and move on with this new knowledge I gathered?

Also, from my partner's perspective, is it still worth it to invest in the relationship? He has not left although he had(and still has) ample opportunity to do so and some parts of our relationship are still going strong, I know he's still very attracted. Does he still see the connection?

ThatStepfordGal · 2017-11-01T17:15:01+00:00

I have 1.5yrs left at University and have been strongly considering looking for a mentor in my field. I attempted to develop that type of relationship this past spring with an instructor that I had for one semester, and things were going really well initially (we got along well and she seemed to genuinely like me), but she went no contact for reasons that are unknown to me, so I stopped working towards a professional relationship with her. This experience has made me hesitant to pursue other professional/mentor relationships with current/prior instructors.

Should I try and work towards another mentoring relationship, let it happen naturally (if it ever does), or just put all my focus on doing well in my classes and extra curriculars and forget about finding a mentor?

Asking this specifically b/c I'm genuinely confused and consider this part of my self-improvement.

pancaku · 2017-11-01T22:41:23+00:00

Hello! I am a tarot reader myself, but I never like to read myself. I wanted to ask about my job. I recently went about making a change and taking on a new classroom (I work at a preschool). *I feel like I saved myself by taking on this class. My last class is literally going down hill. Was this a good choice I made? *I'm thinking about going for my directors in April. Should I do this? Is there a chance to go higher ill my job? Thank you!!

holyNATcrackers · 2017-11-15T04:29:35+00:00

It is almost mid month so I hope this isn't too late! Your response last time was phenomenal and I felt a tug to reach out to you.

What is on the horizon for my love life? How can I prepare myself for the next phase of my love life? What is the next step I need to take? What should I remain aware of during this next phase?

If it's better suited for another month let me know! Hope you are well, and as always, you're greatly appreciated!

Nessunolosa · 2017-11-01T15:42:20+00:00

What is the biggest thing I can improve in my own self to build intimacy in my marriage?

EDIT: I'm married for almost 3 years, living abroad and somewhat isolated. Want children soon, but so far it's a little tough to picture when that will happen. Feeling depression creeping in, and work is tough (teacher in a big, low-income primary school). Don't know if more information helps! Thanks!

pisellipod · 2017-11-01T16:24:52+00:00

I have the same "cycle" in my LTRs - I almost married my last LTR and the one before that also came close to proposing. One of the biggest reasons was long distance (different countries) and feeling like maybe we weren't compatible.

What can I do to make my current LTR successful?

lafleur00 · 2017-11-01T16:53:07+00:00

I've chosen to place trust and faith in my boyfriend because I believe he deserves it. This is difficult for me sometimes because of my own insecurities. What can I do to continue to be secure and confident in my relationship?

mytenthmuse · 2017-11-01T17:02:03+00:00

Hi! I'm back because the last reading you did was so helpful (and thanks for also being so gracious with my follow-up questions!)

So I've focused on self-improvement and strengthening connections with my girlfriends. I've realized in the process that I don't know whether I want to be in a relationship with anyone I know right now, because we are all growing and we all have a lot of work to do to better ourselves. And after all, I shouldn't be improving myself with the end goal of a relationship in mind, but rather for itself.

At the same time, I do wish that someone I am attracted to would pursue me. How should I approach this inner dilemma?

jumping_jackrabbit · 2017-11-02T03:14:11+00:00

My boyfriend of almost 2 years just left after a visit over Halloween (he goes to college 300 miles away), and we talked about the possibility of marriage in the future. I told him I wanted to marry him, and he told me he felt the same way but that he was not ready yet, and I'm not sure I'm ready myself, as we're both 21, and he still has another year of college to go. Is he being sincere about a future marriage? I am always worrying about time; when we can live together, when we'll be together for a permanent time rather than long distance.

Title	Tarot Tuesday: November
Author	ThatStepfordGal
Upvotes	8
Comments	42
Date	November 1, 2017 1:43 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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