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| 2 | That Stepford Gal: Through Pregnancy, Postpartum and Profound ThingsThanks!! 🥹 Exactly - right?! It’s both at the same time, couldn’t have said it better. At least next time I know and now I’ve learnt to ask for that support and validation because I gotta be honest - I need it. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/24 10:02 AM |
| 1 | That Stepford Gal: Through Pregnancy, Postpartum and Profound ThingsGoodness your husband sounds amazing! It’s must’ve been great to see that caring side in such a new context. Even though I did have a natural birth - kudos to all those who’ve done a c section! You’re right about the community aspect and we’re so lucky to have some family we can call in - but we don’t unless it’s absolutely necessary (as in the zero sleep nights) because they’re 20min drive away. I’m sure you’ll do great as you’ve already got a great direction to go to! I’m hoping to do the same… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/24 10:02 AM |
| 2 | That Stepford Gal: Through Pregnancy, Postpartum and Profound ThingsI do use that term loosely! Even being through therapy myself I acknowledge and stand by the importance of being self-aware and regulating emotions. Though I also strongly believe in teaching discipline and responsibility from a young age - this my grandmother explained to me, that’s how back in her days you could have many children but still have some structure. Siblings were much more responsible… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/10/24 09:57 AM |
| 2 | That Stepford Gal: Through Pregnancy, Postpartum and Profound ThingsThank you! ☺️ | /r/RedPillWives | 28/09/24 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Breaking Good: Spoiling Your HusbandThat’s a great idea and kinda sentimental too ✨ | /r/RedPillWives | 14/07/24 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Breaking Good: Spoiling Your HusbandGoodness 🫢Alright that’s something you already know and do quite a bit! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/07/24 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Breaking Good: Spoiling Your HusbandThat’s great! It does take a bit if it’s a new thing. You can also be a bit cheeky and charge the service - a kiss surcharge 🤭 | /r/RedPillWives | 14/07/24 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Budgeting 101: How To Live Simply As A Domestic, Traditional WomanThank you! This can be used even if you’re just wanting to save more, it still applies | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/24 04:32 AM |
| 2 | The Temperament of You & Your Husband - It MattersI didn’t make that connection til now, that makes sense! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/24 04:30 AM |
| 2 | The Temperament of You & Your Husband - It MattersI’d say everyone got a ‘major’ and ‘minor’ like in degrees. So they have a little bit of another temperament in them. Sometimes work also demands a different temperament, it’s the same in my husband’s job. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/24 04:30 AM |
| 2 | The Temperament of You & Your Husband - It MattersYes do share and it’s all good! I’m a Catholic as well so this is even better ✨ I’m always happy to get some extra guidance in my spiritual life. This document is just gold too! Sharing it to my friends | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/24 04:28 AM |
| 2 | Budgeting 101: How To Live Simply As A Domestic, Traditional WomanThis is awesome and thank you for sharing! It’s good to see someone sharing their numbers too and it’s definitely quite doable. That idea about setting a budget for eating out for the year is genius - using that too 😄 | /r/RedPillWives | 26/06/24 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Budgeting 101: How To Live Simply As A Domestic, Traditional WomanYes I’m talking about those grain/herb bags you can set in the microwave and they get toasty. So if I’m just sitting down in the couch and study and I could just get it and set it under the blanket and I don’t really need the heater. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/06/24 09:31 PM |
| 4 | Budgeting 101: How To Live Simply As A Domestic, Traditional WomanThank you and goodness even more thanks for adding these! ✨ These are amazing, I almost forgot that we do check-in so to all those reading this check your budget, always have it available to browse and change I also choose independent phone and internet providers as they do great deals, you’re right. I think hubby gets his phone straight and then just $25 a month! Also just get any recipe that’s got cheap ingredients and then multiply the serving by 1.5x 🤭 Aww thank you, I’m just as excited and … | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/24 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Budgeting 101: How To Live Simply As A Domestic, Traditional WomanThat’s awesome and thank you! I’m all about the choices and if you can use these tips then do so - I’m glad! I just hoped to show that it’s all possible, since it’s so easy these days to assume it’s not. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/24 11:36 AM |
| 2 | Budgeting 101: How To Live Simply As A Domestic, Traditional WomanNah I just don’t go with dumb ✨ Somebody doesn’t know birth control exists??? Yep Dad did it all and had some family to assist since we have a close network - and still do.. In this country you don’t get to just dodge, you go to jail about it easily and also if you can’t afford it the government seizes your things/takes over. I got ears and it’s called having a conversation so it’s not something that we both believe in The reality is there’s rules and laws, that’s why they’re there. I don’t make… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/24 11:11 AM |
| 2 | Budgeting 101: How To Live Simply As A Domestic, Traditional WomanJust thinking about 2-3 kids! Not that we believe in separating that easily but I guess someone doesn’t know what marriage, divorce and child support is. Read it again, Dad did it great with 2 kids, single Dad. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/24 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Books about storage/organisation?Actually I got two Marie Kondo books, time to reread! I so love her belief about thanking items before throwing them. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/24 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Books about storage/organisation?Ah thank you, I’ll start looking into it | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/24 01:06 AM |
| 1 | That StepfordGal: To Become Wife And MotherThank you! Yes he’s even got socials and I enjoy seeing the videos and clips. Though I can’t believe I didn’t come across that title - looking that up next… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/24 01:06 AM |
| 2 | That StepfordGal: To Become Wife And MotherI always write in both but yes, thank you for saying that - I don’t realise but now I think about it, these topics are just as important. Thank you again! It’s such an exciting time with so much change. I totally agree about those blog ideas - I just wanted what mattered to write about and I’ve got something in the drafts! Keep an eye as I’ll set it up today 😊 | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/24 01:05 AM |
| 1 | That StepfordGal: To Become Wife And MotherThis is great and GOODNESS you remembered I mentioned that - I don't know if I did add I met the author, she's Australian and I still have it in my bookshelf. Such an inspiration! You're so welcome ☺️ I am wanting to update it - though I'd like to ask about ideas, what topics should I write about? I feel like there's so many directions | /r/RedPillWives | 13/06/24 08:56 AM |
| 2 | That StepfordGal: To Become Wife And MotherI did see this book in a bookstore before! I should've checked it again but it's time... | /r/RedPillWives | 13/06/24 08:55 AM |
| 1 | That StepfordGal: To Become Wife And MotherThank you! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/06/24 08:53 AM |
| 1 | This Harrison Butker situationBeing Catholic it's been refreshing to hear that, I wish someone told me during my graduation that just because I graduated my career wouldn't be the be-all-end-all, it could've saved years in an identity crisis and guilt, yearning to be traditional in living. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/06/24 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Grace: The Key To True FemininityExactly and that is such a stereotype, I think everyone - both men and women don’t really understand what Grace is. They see a caricature and think that that’s actually it. It shows immense maturity and wisdom to hold your emotions it and respond better, you also command more respect because you act respectable. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/23 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Grace: The Key To True FemininityYou’re so welcome! 😄 | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/23 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Grace: The Key To True FemininityYou’re all good! I’m glad this can be a guide, I hope it does inspire ✨ | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/23 03:39 PM |
| 1 | That Stepford Gal Gets Married: Microwedding Style!Yes! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/23 09:53 AM |
| 2 | I am back. Everything I learned.Thank you! I hope it can be so helpful to you 😊 | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/23 11:08 PM |
| 1 | That Stepford Gal Gets Married: Microwedding Style!Thanks so much! I managed to buy a cheaper dress and veils so I’m glad it’s all going along - even though it’s still a small event, I’m still intimidated with all the arrangements. So this is absolutely appreciated, thank you for the kindness ✨ | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/23 06:10 AM |
| 2 | That Stepford Gal Gets Married: Microwedding Style!That’s such a great idea and wow you’re so creative! You also tried something a bit new rather than a traditional white. 😊 Though I definitely enjoy the complete traditional look for myself 😅 Something like what Grace Kelly wore, modest but really feminine too - I don’t have a inkling when it comes to sewing ability…so I don’t trust myself lol Your special day sounds absolutely stunning though, you both know what you wanted | /r/RedPillWives | 17/12/23 07:58 PM |
| 1 | That Stepford Gal Gets Married: Microwedding Style!Thank you! ✨ | /r/RedPillWives | 17/12/23 07:56 PM |
| 2 | That Stepford Gal Gets Married: Microwedding Style!Thank you! Macedonian 😄 | /r/RedPillWives | 17/12/23 07:55 PM |
| 1 | That Stepford Gal Gets Married: Microwedding Style!This lady was actually recommended to me by my soon-to-be brother in law since he got married two months ago and they had her. But now maybe I should have a look around - I wanted some videography too. I think it sounds familiar to me, that name! Do they have that here in Melbourne? I wanted something kinda traditional and modest like a long sleeve, lace dress… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/23 10:30 PM |
| 2 | That Stepford Gal Gets Married: Microwedding Style!I always do 😂 I’m addicted to good nails but actually I’ll really have to think about a good bridal appropriate design… …so yes I didn’t really consider that thank you! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/23 10:29 PM |
| 1 | That Stepford Gal Gets Married: Microwedding Style!Thank you! Goodness how did I even forget Confession??? That is now going straight to my to-do.He isn't Catholic but European-Orthodox, so I'll have to just let him know. We didn't choose a nuptial Mass, since more than half the guests are the same religion as him...no-one in my family is Catholic either (lol) Adoration is also a great idea so thank you! Yes it's at 10am so nice and early. All good as the Church is definitely being compensated (as well as Father), so they have been so accomodati… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/23 02:12 AM |
| 3 | I want to work part time and focus look after the home , I don’t think my boyfriend will approveMy guy and I moved in after 6 months and I made it super clear that I don’t need to work full-time and choose not to. Before I met him I lived by myself in a tiny studio and worked 0.75 hours and though I didn’t save a lot…I am quite thrifty and can enjoy simple living. He never asked me to change this even when initially we moved in together and 6 months later - we’re engaged! And he didn’t need to asked but he covers 3 quarters the rent and bills and doesn’t mind if I worked even less at times… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/23 07:11 AM |
| 1 | I am back. Everything I learned.Thank you and yes I was there too! I’m more than inspired to write again, I do have some ideas Goodness 🥹 I am so absolutely touched that I could be any help - more happy couples and families makes the world a little brighter…I’m so glad for you! Congratulations, especially on having your second child! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/11/23 02:00 AM |
| 3 | I am back. Everything I learned.Goodness - when I said about the nuptials I meant in two months. No way am I having children not in wedlock! Always wanted something small and intimate just with family. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/11/23 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Books about emotional awareness and inner femininity?Thank you and I remember I have read this book! So I picked it from the shelf….though it feels like it’s very marriage relationship and action-based? I appreciate it, would you know anything more about the general feminine/emotional mindset rather than actions/words to say? | /r/RedPillWives | 21/06/22 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Nurturing a warm and pleasant disposition?Very true! | /r/RedPillWives | 02/11/21 04:05 AM |
| 2 | Classic movies with great relationships/feminine lead?Thanks everyone! This has been great and though I was looking for retro movies I can also check something different. WOW I MEAN GENTLEMEN PREFERS BLONDES IS AMAZING? 👀 | /r/RedPillWives | 25/10/21 03:02 AM |
| 4 | Nurturing a warm and pleasant disposition?You’re right! I do have some Austen sitting in my bookshelf, so thank you for the suggestion, I’ll start reading! I also have some books I researched: Feminine Lost and The Ladies Manual For Etiquette and Politeness | /r/RedPillWives | 14/10/21 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Advice needed - considering a breakupThis seems really important to you - I’d recommend not to risk it when he simply values your value just conditionally. That means it’s never really secure while you are in what he believes in. Discuss it again but if you do live in a developed country then it’s something that can be done with just the right sacrifices - if that’s willing to be made then go for it. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/08/21 07:25 AM |
| 0 | Boyfriend is funny about moneyJust don’t. It’s not worth it because you’ll never be able to respect a man if he can’t provide like he should be as the leader in your relationship. Equality isn’t what’s in the numbers. In relationships women give up a lot more. We risk more in time, sex and safety. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/08/21 09:03 AM |
| 2 | "The relationship is the woman's job"Thanks everyone 😌 | /r/RedPillWives | 18/07/21 07:43 AM |
| 14 | "The relationship is the woman's job"My grandmother says a similar thing. This does not mean the whole role is for women to bear, it’s an easily misunderstood phrase. It means because usually women are more emotionally intuitive, it’s us who can see the nuances better in the communication and tone and can adjust the approach better towards our SO, so he can understand the situation/us better. We have the subtlety and usually more emotional wisdom to lead the feelings in a situation to benefit the relationship, if that makes sense? … | /r/RedPillWives | 17/07/21 07:49 AM |
| 2 | Just a little insight to the women who struggle with the idea of staying at home vs being a career women.True independence is actually in the mindset and not the actual job. I’ve seen top notch CEO women making 6 figures become utterly emotional slaves to scrub-loser guys because they’re so in love and yet society thinks they’re empowered because they have money. But emotionally and mentally they’re like an underaged bride trapped in arranged marriage. A truly capable and intelligent woman who has real independence can be a housewife for decades and then figure her way into work if she needs to bec… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/07/21 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Steve Harvey’s Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man..I see where you’re coming from but doing this and how society in the decades have just kept pushing and pushing for quicker sex just makes women more vulnerable. I think it’s a fair thing to want to fully know someone and have a security in commitment before getting chemical biology involved. Perhaps encouraging this long term vetting can reverse the damage, maybe not 90 days to a tee but 2+ months is enough to commit and then have the cookie perhaps. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/06/21 09:20 AM |
| 2 | I hate societal pressure to work a regular job as a woman.Completely right and it’s disgusting for them just to put this pressure. It’s never been for many women and most won’t really even want it, find something you love and work in your terms, it doesn’t even have to be full-time, if you’re in a developed country you can manage it and enjoy more in life just by living small. Have a look at my series here in this sub, Dare To Be Domestic, I wrote about these issues. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/06/21 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Weight lossTry getting an exercise bike for at home, there’s cheap types from Home Depot/target/Kmart and perhaps even trade groups and set half an hour doing it everyday, every second day. Also count your calories vaguely. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/05/21 10:48 AM |
| 13 | Can't be it allHonestly feel like women are just more tortured now than ever, except it’s more subtle and dressed up as ‘empowerment’. When it’s the least empowering thing ever. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/05/21 10:45 AM |
| 4 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood Ch18 The Feminine AppearanceI dress pretty retro, a la 50s and definitely almost never wear pants unless vintage style high waist. It’s just so classy and versatile, highlights the curves in your body! The usual lipstick colors and I actually set my hair in curls, the style reflects my femininity and something I already do aesthetically like. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/21 01:17 AM |
| 3 | I am about to move in with my bf and I am nervousGood. Stick through all the way to your plan. Don’t forget it when you get comfortable and make sure he does have an idea this can happen, because it’s not an easy through, you also have to look after your well-being. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/05/21 03:30 PM |
| 5 | I am about to move in with my bf and I am nervousActually you’re not being logical. What’s logical is to consider should anything go wrong, you will have nowhere to go and less to live with. To see that technically right now there’s no reason why he should engage/marry you if he already has you completely living as if you’re man and wife. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/05/21 01:11 PM |
| 3 | I am about to move in with my bf and I am nervousYou’re giving less an incentive to if he knows he can just get what he wants because you’ll give. Men value something more when they have to work to achieve it. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/05/21 11:35 AM |
| 5 | I am about to move in with my bf and I am nervousI respect what he says, what about what you say? Remember though you will have a lot more to lose and if that’s a risk you’ll put yourself in go ahead. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/05/21 11:28 AM |
| 8 | I am about to move in with my bf and I am nervousIt’s still a little concerning and perhaps waiting for engagement is the safer choice. I’d normally say if he wants you to do more housework then lessen your work hours. Something has to give. But that puts you at risk because you’re not married, being some pseudo-house girlfriend. It’s very easy for you to lose a lot in this agreement compared to him, don’t you think? | /r/RedPillWives | 26/05/21 11:58 PM |
| 4 | My Grandmother’s Rather Wonderful AdviceNo worries and definitely all the credit is to her. Definitely great advice to have and it can incorporate this at the same time as well..in my grandmother’s advice children are not the centre but have a very set place in the family. They must show great respect to both parents. I’m from an immigrant Asian background and I truly believe this, no matter how ‘dated’ it may seem. It’s absolutely integral in a family unit. A solid husband and wife team with their roles! I’m so glad it’s useful to yo… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/04/21 12:28 PM |
| 21 | An Update on My Boyfriend Liking This Girl's Instagram PostsBe careful this isn’t a ploy get you to not be more aware. I’m glad he’s being kind and do accept graciously but me just as, maybe even more vigilant. You’ll find nothing if there’s nothing to hide. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/21 12:58 AM |
| 7 | Stepping back at workMinimalise your life. The quality that you live is what matters, having the basics and making it through. Your husband should be stepping up, especially if he’s the captain of your family. Think to when you’re much older, retired. No one in their 80s ever says they wish they worked more. It’s not worth it to what you trade away. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/02/21 07:53 AM |
| 1 | RP femininity and Why Men Love Bitches?Omg thank you now I’m binge listening to him 😂 | /r/RedPillWives | 22/01/21 12:59 AM |
| 3 | RP femininity and Why Men Love Bitches?Thanks for all the input so far everyone! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/01/21 09:29 AM |
| 2 | RP femininity and Why Men Love Bitches?Definitely I see it as something to avoid completely..I never did understand why people do that however it’s also my cultural background. That’s interesting, where are those articles about the psychologists? Since I want to read it. Tell it to people who I know believe otherwise. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/01/21 09:28 AM |
| 2 | RP femininity and Why Men Love Bitches?Oh I definitely understand that, though would you say those words to someone while dating them? The actual proposed act itself sounds not quite right | /r/RedPillWives | 21/01/21 05:23 AM |
| 4 | RP femininity and Why Men Love Bitches?Well simply because if that were me I don’t really care about light and casual. Playful but heading towards somewhere. Otherwise I’d rather stay at home playing video games, a better use of my time haha | /r/RedPillWives | 21/01/21 05:21 AM |
| 2 | RP femininity and Why Men Love Bitches?That’s fair enough, where are you based in? I feel like what I’ve seen around here and what I could tell, maybe here in Australia the people just take that not so seriously. If you say something like that they’ll still try to brush it off as something casual or interpret it as such. Could be a different culture too | /r/RedPillWives | 21/01/21 03:42 AM |
| 5 | RP femininity and Why Men Love Bitches?I completely understand all that, though you shouldn’t be saying exactly those words as she quoted right? Telling a guy you’re ‘not looking for something serious’ sounds like the ultimate douche magnet. So how would you personally incorporate this idea? | /r/RedPillWives | 21/01/21 12:45 AM |
| 4 | RP femininity and Why Men Love Bitches?Right? That’s what I thought too and though I agree with a lot in this book..this just struck me as pretty bad. It’s setting up someone for a bad dynamic. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/01/21 12:40 AM |
| 3 | Married two years and still no kids or houseThat’s why I said the rest of the way. If two people just want to be married and that’s it, great. She wants to do the whole package, kids and house. She was clear about this in the beginning and he also agreed with her (looks like by the implication) and now he’s not putting in his part. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/19 04:49 PM |
| 7 | Married two years and still no kids or houseI think you should contribute some to the house and then get it together. You’re 27 and I think it’s only fair that you’ve been together long enough to have concrete plans in place. If he can’t answer you, then go. It doesn’t sound like he’s intending to settle down the rest of the way anytime soon. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/19 09:14 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Eldredge books?That makes a lot of sense now and though I’d ideally like something with more domesticity in it (not a lot of books encourage that nowadays!) I’m still great with those ideas and talking about the differences of the sexes. I feel in Wild At Heart, that a bit of a traditional role is implied with the strength of men and the personal stories he shares. Thank you for explaining ☺️ | /r/RedPillWives | 13/11/19 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Eldredge books?Thanks for that! What do you mean about the underpinnings? Would it be more along the first wave or second wave of feminism? I do like the idea of reclaiming innocence and open warmth. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/11/19 02:46 AM |
| 1 | RPW friendly career ideas?Well have several jobs? Why not, spread yourself out. I do tutoring and nannying, a little bit of consulting on the side and still have some days just homemaking. I’m always waking up to do something different everyday, very refreshing! | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/19 01:53 AM |
| 1 | What's the one thing you disagree regarding TRPW theory?Yes, like I said it’s living simply and not in the middle of the city. I’m financially very comfortable in the Melbourne suburbs now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/19 06:34 AM |
| 1 | What's the one thing you disagree regarding TRPW theory?I didn’t say just do domestic work. Yet another assumption. It’s like people can’t work part time and share house or live with family and close friends. Live simply and you can. I am. Partially stay at home, doing domestic work, living with lovely family and have good amount of savings. 👌🏻 Living alone, unless you have the extenuating circumstances that you have to, is a waste of money. That money could be put away for the future. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/19 02:30 AM |
| 1 | What's the one thing you disagree regarding TRPW theory?I guess this is the more modern angle of things - that women can be domestic, at home, having more time there only after they’re married/have kids. It’s not an unlockable in a game. Women can be domestic and spend more time at home doing domestic work if they want to. No matter what time of their lives. People, usually Western people have comfortable, high financial standards of living (saying this as I grew up in a third world country) compared to most of the world. If you live in a first world… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/19 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Article: Where Are the Socially Conservative Women in This Fight?That’s how it is and on this path, I can’t tell you how many times you feel alienated and people will literally hate on you. It’s not emotionally easy..though it’s the right thing to do. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/19 12:18 AM |
| 20 | Article: Where Are the Socially Conservative Women in This Fight?Preach! I’ve been saying this for a long time on RPW and all over my blog as well. It’s amazing how many people will fight this idea when it is so obvious. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/19 04:43 PM |
| 1 | [Advice] So I realized I do want to have a traditional relationship, but no one around me seems to support thatOh dear. I know how you feel completely because I’ve been there and even until now I still feel that. Even here in RPW, many women will still disapprove if you live traditionally until you marry. That’s not true. You can live traditionally now, you don’t have to pretend to be a career woman or work so much and feel masculine. I don’t. You don’t have to either. I understand that you want to live out your values. I have so many posts on this - seriously. It’s all here. Learn how to live small so y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/19 02:38 PM |
| 4 | How to balance feminine desires while being single and working full time?If you can, take one day a week off, you’re not technically working full time and dedicate that day to cleaning and cooking, so you can have more free time during the week. Just work out your budget and live a bit smaller, it’s possible if you really want to. Also, consider living with someone, like a friend or family, especially if you work less since there’ll be less expenses and you can practice your domestic skills not only for yourself, though for them too! Live your values, it is tough tho… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/19 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Things your SO cares about that he probably isn't telling you.Oh that’s not too bad either, it’s definitely closer to $100 than the average Australian! I’m a bit closer to $150 if I combine my phone bills, if I get a book or small shopping and food. I found it so nuts that some people could spend just like that! I still live with family so when I can settle with my partner we could have a house together since I’ve been able to save a lot! | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/19 06:11 AM |
| 2 | Things your SO cares about that he probably isn't telling you.Bills too! The only thing excluded was mortgage/rent, according to the author. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/19 05:14 AM |
| 3 | Things your SO cares about that he probably isn't telling you.That’s right and I think you’ve said it perfectly. It’s all about how important it is for you to want to stay at home and as a result, have more time for your partner/family. I respect everyone’s choices completely and I’m not pushing everyone to live how I do- I just want people to know it’s possible. As many of the posters are from Western countries I’m not too surprised they can’t give up their luxuries and habits that are ‘normal consumption’ for people who live in 1st world countries. I’ve … | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/19 12:35 AM |
| 5 | Things your SO cares about that he probably isn't telling you.Thanks so much for that, I really really appreciate it. I just want to inspire women and show them that there are more options and they can break out of the restrictive ‘I can’t be a SAHP’ or ‘SAHP is only for the rich’ mentality. I think a lot dismiss it because I’m more of a house-daughter than partner. The truth is though, in my family, my father has made it clear that when he remarries, he expects the same from his wife as what I do around the house and what I contribute financially. There’s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/19 12:00 AM |
| 4 | Things your SO cares about that he probably isn't telling you.Exactly. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/19 11:02 PM |
| 3 | Things your SO cares about that he probably isn't telling you.I said under since I was being vague though I’ll give exact figures. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/19 11:02 PM |
| 3 | Things your SO cares about that he probably isn't telling you.Oh I meant under 90k though to be really specific I would say it’s around 80k for my household, 65k is my father. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/19 11:02 PM |
| 2 | As a SAHM, I want to talk about the changing culture towards the nuclear family and how it’s actively discouraged to pursue a “traditional” lifestyle. I need some good articles and would like to hear from other women about it, because it’s incredibly pervasive and I’m not a fan.I was just about to say this! It’s all about the $$$ because when you’re out of the home you’re another government cash cow though the more you’re home, the more your work benefits your family directly and no one else at all. The more stressed you are trying to juggle home and work (since of course most women still want to look after their home), you end up spending a lot. The oppression has only gotten worse, since while you love and can usually work things out with a husband, the same isn’t wi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/19 02:24 PM |
| 1 | As a SAHM, I want to talk about the changing culture towards the nuclear family and how it’s actively discouraged to pursue a “traditional” lifestyle. I need some good articles and would like to hear from other women about it, because it’s incredibly pervasive and I’m not a fan.Great list and if you can I highly recommend getting Domestic Tranquility as a book, it is such an in depth examination of how feminism has targeted domesticity. Suzanne Venker’s works as well, Phyllis Schlafly has also written books. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/19 02:22 PM |
| 3 | Things your SO cares about that he probably isn't telling you.Yes!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/19 10:12 AM |
| 2 | Things your SO cares about that he probably isn't telling you.I might get it on ebook so yeah I’m looking it up now, I think it’s right up my alley! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/19 09:11 AM |
| 2 | Things your SO cares about that he probably isn't telling you.Oh I’ve heard of Retrosuburbia and I’ll grab both of those books! Thank you for the recommendations! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/19 09:07 AM |
| 2 | Things your SO cares about that he probably isn't telling you.Yeah I live in the outer suburbs for that very reason. I wouldn’t label it a ‘luxury’ since that makes it sound mostly unattainable. I would say an option if you are willing to adjust your lifestyle and financial standards. It’s all about how much time at home and having more quality time matters to you. Reading the Art of Frugal Hedonism and similar books, my whole point is challenging the idea of COL (though you’re right that women entering the workforce has been a huge blow to the living wage… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/19 08:17 AM |
| 4 | Things your SO cares about that he probably isn't telling you.Really?! Oh wow a fellow fan! I think this book deserves so much more attention. Not just the tips, the way it handles the mentality behind consumption. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/19 08:13 AM |
| 2 | Things your SO cares about that he probably isn't telling you.That’s alright, yeah I think we do. I agree that every household is different, different because of their financial standards and lifestyles. People want a big home, two cars, private schools, etc. That’s more of an Australian example from my end of the families I know (since I teach). Well if it’s just you and you partner, it’s much easier to work part time anyway since you don’t have children to keep your hands full. Though some people prefer to be a SAHW without kids and that’s their thing so… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/19 07:45 AM |
| 5 | Things your SO cares about that he probably isn't telling you.I sure am not, though I contribute to the house and income the same way. When my father remarries, his wife will literally just take over what I do. Literally the same expectation. Yes you definitely can! It’s all up to choice and what your financial standards are and the reality is most Western people consume a lot more than the basics, I’ve seen it compared to a third world country I’ve lived in (where I grew up only the poorest of the poor couldn’t afford a spouse at home, even middle class h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/19 07:12 AM |
| 15 | Things your SO cares about that he probably isn't telling you.I think if you’re in a first world country, with the proper lifestyle adjustment and less consumption, a SAHW is more than possible. I’ve been the homemaker in my family for a long time now and we have two cars, have bought and sold a house, all on under 90k sole income and my part time income to add. Live small and know how to play the management game for money more and you can definitely be a SAHW or at least part time work. Research shows that once you can cover the basics, the happiness leve… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/19 06:20 AM |
| 7 | On Screening Potential Long Term Partners: Questions to Ask Yourself Before Getting SeriousIt’s important to also balance the money aspect. Some men concentrate so much on money and they will never live during the moment, especially if that is the attitude of their family and culture. A good guy knows how to enjoy moment and save some, not living like a slave worker who is too caught in the numbers or a free spirit hippie. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/19 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Traditional Dating In Modern Times: How To Date Well OnlineOhhh whoops 😬 Well then those days are past for you, you can take it easy in that sense | /r/RedPillWives | 12/12/18 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Traditional Dating In Modern Times: How To Date Well OnlineTo be honest I don’t know. I have one friend like me but we’ve been friends since high school. I’m not Christian either so I don’t go to church. My best bet is online and see who likes your profile when you’re proud of being traditional. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/12/18 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Traditional Dating In Modern Times: How To Date Well OnlineWell you know it’s only common courtesy for women who do want to be serious and settle down for people to be straight to the point and not waste time, you know? You do get used to it! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/12/18 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Traditional Dating In Modern Times: How To Date Well OnlineNo worries! I really want to help both sides if I can. Just remember that what you broadcast is what you get. It’s a cliche though be true to yourself and live to your traditional values, then that’s what you will attract. :) | /r/RedPillWives | 11/12/18 02:00 PM |
| 5 | Traditional Dating In Modern Times: How To Date Well OnlineThank you! Actually, I've written up a basic Dating Guide for guys looking for traditional relationships, I hope it will be useful to you! I do think University is a tricky place to start, though it's all about discerning the right groups and types of women. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/12/18 06:50 AM |
| 1 | It’s That Time Of The Year Again: Christmas Tips That Will Make December A BreezeThank you!! I realised I’m a little low on the eucalyptus bush 😂 Need to get more | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/18 07:43 AM |
| 1 | It’s That Time Of The Year Again: Christmas Tips That Will Make December A BreezeOkay I’m having issues- the eucalyptus bunch has a steel stem inside! Even my strong scissors won’t cut it! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/18 06:22 AM |
| 1 | It’s That Time Of The Year Again: Christmas Tips That Will Make December A BreezeGot it! What sort of thread? Just any thread? I’ll try small bunch by small bunch. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/18 06:20 AM |
| 1 | It’s That Time Of The Year Again: Christmas Tips That Will Make December A BreezeI did buy the metal wreath, though I don’t plan to reassemble it..do you think I can get away with hot glue? Thanks for the tip, I have to start with varying sizes! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/18 06:17 AM |
| 2 | It’s That Time Of The Year Again: Christmas Tips That Will Make December A BreezeGirrrrrl I might be 😂 How did you put it all together?? I might use hot glue and everything though I’ve never made a wreath before! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/18 06:10 AM |
| 1 | It’s That Time Of The Year Again: Christmas Tips That Will Make December A BreezeSo once I checked this out I went straight to Spotlight and got myself some wattle and Eucalyptus pieces and a wreath circle 😬 Thank you! In person, the wreaths they had were definitely a bit dull and too fake-looking. I wanted to mix the eucalyptus and the bright yellow wattle together as a nice colourful accent! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/18 06:05 AM |
| 1 | It’s That Time Of The Year Again: Christmas Tips That Will Make December A BreezeAlright will do! I just hope at this time since it’s already getting hot, that they haven’t dried up :/ I will definitely look up how to do this properly (the whole bunching) and start! Thanks for the suggestion! | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/18 10:32 AM |
| 1 | It’s That Time Of The Year Again: Christmas Tips That Will Make December A BreezeI’m not much of a green thumb and I suck at identifying plants..do you have any specific suggestions? I actually haven’t made wreaths before, though I want to do this! | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/18 10:24 AM |
| 1 | It’s That Time Of The Year Again: Christmas Tips That Will Make December A BreezeMelbourne?? I had no idea! It is a bit pricey though I’m considering it now. I’ll check out MYER and see it for real, actually. Unfortunately we don’t have much foliage outside since I’m in the suburbs. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/18 09:48 AM |
| 1 | It’s That Time Of The Year Again: Christmas Tips That Will Make December A BreezeWait you’re Aussie too?! What a relief! I barely know anyone online who can relate to the hot Christmas haha. Where do you even get those wreaths? I’m so on top of seasonal deserts. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/18 07:38 AM |
| 2 | It’s That Time Of The Year Again: Christmas Tips That Will Make December A Breeze:) We’ve done it the other way around! I used a table runner as a little decor over the top of our couch. People keep knocking it down, though! We already have all the red and green for the decor though icy treats should be on the way. Yes yessss! I love fairy lights. I know it is odd! It’s weird drinking a beer by the Christmas tree with the air con on while listening to White Christmas or Let It Snow 😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/18 01:20 AM |
| 1 | What Online Dating Advice To Give?Those are all great! I simply agree with all those points, serious and traditional seems to be a great phrase. Thanks for all the pointers :) | /r/RedPillWives | 04/12/18 01:16 AM |
| 1 | That Stepford Dad: Does anyone want to ask questions?Yes, though I thought this sub doesn’t discriminate in Eastern or Western, as long as you believe in RPW values. I do. I am a traditional woman. My father is too, though he has a new partner recently, she’s pretty traditional too so hopefully that works out too. I’m starting to see they are having a more RP relationship. We did what we could as a family after the divorce. To help each other. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/12/18 12:41 AM |
| 1 | That Stepford Dad: Does anyone want to ask questions?My father raised us alone at the start, with some help from my grandma, so now I’m older I’m trying my best to help out. It’s not the same as a complete family, we know that well. I just take over certain responsibilities in the house and beyond. It’s the least I could to help after all the struggle throughout the years. I don’t know how else to express that. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/12/18 12:38 AM |
| 1 | That Stepford Dad: Does anyone want to ask questions?Yes. I also know Australia is a land of diverse cultures and we are just one of many. We respect each other’s cultures. My Dad is my friend. Did you think we expected my mother..becoming the way she was to our family? We didn’t expect that divorce, that was such a new and horrible thing to happen. Someone had to take over while my Dad tried his best to fix things financially and emotionally. There was no wife-thing or whatever. My grandmother did help me in the responsibilities too when I was yo… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/12/18 12:34 AM |
| 2 | What Online Dating Advice To Give?Yeah I think it should be just fine. Some apps I think actually have that option to display, I think. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/18 12:28 AM |
| 1 | That Stepford Dad: Does anyone want to ask questions?Yeah but the word partner does too! I can’t find the right word to describe it. I will edit it out for now. Well my Dad deserves the help he gets and the support, after all he’s been through my mother and trying to raise two children by himself. Why would I not help when he raised me through all the struggle? My sibling also has a rare condition that needs a lot of care, when it happens and my Dad works full time, I usually take over with most of the appointments and the hospital. Why would I li… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/12/18 12:14 AM |
| 1 | That Stepford Dad: Does anyone want to ask questions?I see what you are trying to say. What other word should I use? We were trying our best to raise my younger sibling with the influence of a dad and while I’m a sister, I tried to be the female influence since I didn’t want them to feel that their upbringing was unbalanced. So my father and I do the groceries together, we go to their parent teacher appointments, hospital appointments. I am the second legal guardian of my sibling. My dad is like my best friend. He talks to me about his concerns, h… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/12/18 12:10 AM |
| 2 | What Online Dating Advice To Give?Yep. I agree with you now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/18 12:07 PM |
| 1 | What Online Dating Advice To Give?Thanks for all these tips! I think it is great to meet as soon as you can confirm. Or to take guys for their photos, haha. That is definitely an interesting way to do it. Upfront always works, online or in person. Though the whole idea about a question or curious fact is actually really applicable, anyone can put their own spin onto it. Breaks are great and I agree, it'a good to have a breather! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/18 01:07 AM |
| 2 | What Online Dating Advice To Give?Yeah no. Take your BP ideas and go elsewhere. RPW believe in the differences between men and women, this especially applies to dating. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/18 12:08 AM |
| 1 | What Online Dating Advice To Give?I see. Alright. I remember when I was on an app, my selfie was mainly down to my shoulders, it was originally a makeup selfie I really liked. Haha, don’t know how that worked. It makes sense guys would want to see more for a primary photo, that’s a very good point to add. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/18 11:52 PM |
| 3 | What Online Dating Advice To Give?Oh. Okay. Yeah the intended audience is more traditional people and that is generally not the mass population. Still, it would be good to sate my curiosity and have a good laugh. 😬 | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/18 11:50 PM |
| 3 | What Online Dating Advice To Give?Wow, okay. I'll give that as advice and now I actually want to check that subreddit out. I have heard of it before. Thanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/18 11:43 PM |
| 5 | What Online Dating Advice To Give?'What you can provide, rather than what you want' So true. I agree with this. I've advised this for in-person dating and it definitely applies online. I think you have to mention both in your profile and guys would like that better. Thanks for adding to this! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/18 11:42 PM |
| 3 | What Online Dating Advice To Give?Actually, I have been on the other side, a year or so ago my Dad had been on dating apps and he asked me for inputs and help. The women he was looking at were older, though sometimes I would lower the setting just to see for myself the younger women (not for him). It was definitely very curious...it didn't make me feel that hopeful for the females of the world, actually. :/ So I think this is a good way to look around. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/18 11:41 PM |
| 1 | What Online Dating Advice To Give?That is so true! Guys with great photos seem too metrosexual, haha. My Dad had been on a dating app before and he asked me to help with the photos, hilarity ensues. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/18 11:39 PM |
| 1 | What Online Dating Advice To Give?Thanks for the advice! I didn't even think about the height thing, really? When I used to date online, I never really thought much about the height thing...though the thing is I'm 5'2 so 99% of the time guys were already taller than me anyway. Yeah, I do remember the nonsense messages too, though with some apps, you can minimise that by not liking guys who just aren't your type, right? Or has that changed? 20 messages. That sounds like a good indicator actually, you can see that he takes the lea… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/18 11:38 PM |
| 2 | What Online Dating Advice To Give?Men and women are different. It doesn’t mean that if you want to do it, that that’s enough. Women who want to be overly dominant and become breadwinners while pushing their men to be at home are now enjoying a higher divorce rate than the already abysmal divorce rate of the general modern population. You can’t make a cat bark. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/18 11:36 PM |
| 1 | What Online Dating Advice To Give?Thanks, you've made another great point! A primary photo is the first indication and impression. I have actually some profiles of women myself (let's just say my Dad has been on dating apps before, though not anymore) and many use selfies. Do you think selfies are appropriate as primary photos? I thought, as a woman, some were appropriate and others not, though it may be different for a guy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/18 11:31 PM |
| 1 | What Online Dating Advice To Give?Oh congratulations! :) That's a good tip to have in mind, too. Definitely have something interesting/engaging about your hobbies on there for a starter. Thanks! | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/18 11:29 PM |
| 1 | What Online Dating Advice To Give?That's a good example of putting it. You don't want to sound like you're directly recruiting and I see what you mean. I did mention something similar to that when it came to commitment talks. Just asking/telling guys that this is your goal, not necessarily implying it's them specifically, just to know if that is in their plans at all for the future. I did hear it was tough :/ | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/18 11:28 PM |
| 1 | What Online Dating Advice To Give?Thanks, you've made another great point! A primary photo is the first indication and impression. I have actually some profiles of women myself (let's just say my Dad has been on dating apps before, though not anymore) and many use selfies. Do you think selfies are appropriate as primary photos? I thought, as a woman, some were appropriate and others not, though it may be different for a guy. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/18 11:26 PM |
| 1 | What Online Dating Advice To Give?If only it was about avoiding rejection, that would be easier. It’s not that. People meet and don’t work out, that involves rejection. It’s a fact, men like to feel they have achieved something and the more effort they put into something, aka winning a woman over, he values her more. Easy come, easy go. It hasn’t changed though, that’s just how it is. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/18 11:26 PM |
| 7 | What Online Dating Advice To Give?Nope. Guys that don’t message first are obviously not interested or proactive enough to seek what they want. A guy who messages first, shows they have one good quality on being proactive. If a girl has to chase, she counters a traditional man’s want to lead or chase. She’s less worth pursuing because she’s the one doing it. Men were hunters back then and though that mentality has evolved it’s still there. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/18 11:19 PM |
| 1 | What Online Dating Advice To Give?You definitely make a point with the profile, I wasn’t actually sure how to advise on that since I feel like I know the scenario more from being in person. I don’t know how that is transferred to a profile. So you would list marriage/family as an end game within your profile as well as wanting to meet a nice guy at the same time? That’s definitely an interesting thing to balance. I also agree on keeping conversations brief and meeting as soon as they can, as well as trying to be positive. I wrot… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/18 03:10 PM |
| 1 | What Online Dating Advice To Give?If you’re all willing I’ll also write it up as a post for RPW. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/18 03:10 PM |
| 1 | What Online Dating Advice To Give?You definitely make a point with the profile, I wasn’t actually sure how to advise on that since I feel like I know the scenario more from being in person. I don’t know how that is transferred to a profile. So you would list marriage/family as an end game within your profile as well as wanting to meet a nice guy at the same time? That’s definitely an interesting thing to balance. I also agree on keeping conversations brief and meeting as soon as they can, as well as trying to be positive. I wrot… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/18 03:09 PM |
| 2 | What Online Dating Advice To Give?Yes you have a point, it is about photos now that I think about it. Definitely the photos would be the ones mostly responsible for the vibe and the message. Wow, I could actually imagine a picture like that, cookies and everything. I wouldn’t have thought of that. I did think about advising her to seek much older, definitely within 20s and I’m glad to see someone agrees with that too. Like I have advised for when you’re meeting someone, be honest though simple about your intentions, no need to l… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/18 03:05 PM |
| 2 | It’s That Time Of The Year Again: Christmas Tips That Will Make December A BreezeThanks for adding to the list! Those are great suggestions, especially for those with cold weather. In Australia, it’s starting to get really hot haha. Though I enjoy your ideas and I think I can convert them into the other way, iced tea, more refreshing food, etc. :) Good luck this Christmas, it is truly memorable to enjoy it with your baby though! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/18 02:07 PM |
| 1 | It’s That Time Of The Year Again: Christmas Tips That Will Make December A BreezeWow that’s amazing! I would really love to do that too, though I actually feel a bit overwhelmed by some aspects of baking haha. We don’t bake much at this time of year since it’s hot! Though I can imagine it and that sounds so yummy.. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/18 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living & RelationshipsSome men, like my father, would disagree. It still takes time on top of your job to do domestic duties so while you can manage it, which is fine since that’s your preferences, I technically have a lot more time on my hands with my family due to not having a 40 hour schedule. You’re right that high earning doesn’t mean high stress, now that I think about it, one of my part time jobs pays quite well that if I put it all together (I have several part time jobs), I earn more than some lower wages wh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/11/18 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living & RelationshipsIt's all connected. Providing is a big part of traditional gender roles and if you have a high earning career, it is highly difficult to stress yourself between the more domestic demands at home and still maintaining that career. The statistics show that divorce is more likely when women have high earning careers, compared to their man. It seems like you've met most modern men, who do barely differentiate women and men for their roles in life. Why is that the only definition of self-sufficient? … | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/11/18 01:45 PM |
| 3 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living & RelationshipsWell, that’s a bit more situational. I meant in my post more about your current social circles, as in with other people. You can praise him without comparing to others. If you compare, you might end up offending your friends or without meaning to put down their partners. If it’s just you two then say and compare him better! | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/11/18 04:46 AM |
| 2 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living & RelationshipsI’m sorry for that. You definitely did well and making it through. I have heard of a situation likes yours too before, I see. I guess it’s up to not only you, it’s also if your husband wants to be more traditional too. If he is a leader and dominant, how has he been feeling about you being the breadwinner? Since being the breadwinner, even if you don’t want it to, it means that your husband can definitely feel not very dominant because leaders look after their team. You’re a team and by being th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/11/18 04:44 AM |
| 3 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living & RelationshipsThat’s cool, you can totally ask that and it’s good to be honest. Judging by what you’ve described, you don’t seem to be in a traditional relationship so I guess this post doesn’t apply to you much at all. Which is fine, as not everyone is the same. Though to answer you, I’ll give an example of how my father, my current patriarch, protects and provides for me and when I marry, it will be the same with my future husband. I am the matriarch, helping him raise my sibling as my mother is long out of… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/11/18 03:56 AM |
| 4 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living & Dating Well:) That or just avoid the situation if possible. Within some situations I can get away with it because I’m Asian and a woman (hehe). Though really I avoid if possible. When I was in university, the only time I did stay quiet and just focus on something else was when I was afraid my Lefty teachers might punish me and lower my grades for having the wrong opinion. They do that and there’s no way to prove it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/11/18 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living & Dating WellAs far as I’ve observed, this is what I surmised. People can contradict and present another view if they like, I’m curious to know. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/18 02:59 PM |
| 4 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living & Dating WellExactly! You don’t realize it though you give off those waves so make sure to send positive ones out to get the best back :) People underestimate how much women can be naturally good at this in social settings. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/18 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living & Part-time WorkThanks! :) I can totally relate to that! I do have some allowance with my work as to when I get things sent off however sometimes that temptation is there to go past it when everyone just got home. Just because it’s there and easy. Though I always tell myself, everyone just got home- it’s family time now. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/07/18 03:05 PM |
| 16 | A Field Guide to Retarded BullshitAlso fellow Asian here. I second everything you say. They want us to be traditional yet modern at the same time- they want everything and are quite hypocritical. So money-centric too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/18 08:14 AM |
| 6 | A Field Guide to Retarded BullshitPreach. Every bit of this. PREACH. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/18 08:13 AM |
| 2 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its MythsThat’s awful to hear! I do hear most of the vitriol from women though from men it’s different, they usually just get fearful, convinced that it’s just not ‘practical’ for them to be providers. Common modern beliefs for men nowadays, since they were raised differently, usually by feminist influenced beliefs. Though your husband sounds like a great guy! The time it earns is definitely worth it once you give it a try. My grandmother once said, “Why would anyone go out and spend when there’s somethi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/18 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living & Part-time WorkNo worries and you’re welcome! As long as it’s helping others and providing some ideas and inspiration :) it’s all possible! | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/18 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living & Part-time WorkNot only mothers and wives, you don’t get the ability to be a domestic woman just because you marry. This is for every woman if she has a family or group to take care of. This could be her birth family if they need her or even a group of friends who want to assign her to that role. There’s still a home and people to care for (except maybe if she’s living alone in a really small home then of course there isn’t much to do). I definitely agree with you with feminism there! Governments have jumped o… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/07/18 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living & Part-time WorkThat sounds quite good! I guess maybe the demographic is a bit different here in Australia and since I am home part time, even when I sit down to knit doesn’t seem too profitable if I consider the time. Though I actually need to learn quilting. Does she feel like her time pays off too with quilting, by the hour? I’m not sure how the process is there and the prices for fabrics vs hours vs the demand. I do wish to visit the Midwest sometime if I can visit the States. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/07/18 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living & Part-time WorkThat’s lovely and as someone who does needlework I think that would be great! Though knitting especially takes a lot of time, does she make a decent profit from it? With the hours and hours of work, it does seem to me (though I’m happy to learn otherwise) that there isn’t much of a profit from that. What does she do on Etsy that helps her make it a business? I’m actually thinking of the products too though I feel like at least where I am there’s already plenty of competition. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/07/18 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living & Part-time WorkWell my definition of part time work is outside/money earning employment but not the full 9-5 Mon-Fri, leaving some of that actual daytime for housework. I would say investing and trading is definitely that! You say you only spend a few hours a week and that’s definitely leaving a lot of time for the home. It’s a great suggestion though I didn’t add it, since I haven’t been involved with myself and don’t know much about it! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/07/18 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its MythsThen that’s not really within this topic. Here I am discussing being a Domestic Woman and being more dedicated to the home. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/18 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its MythsAh thank you! I used to think it was more conservative and while the chances are it is somewhat more conservative, people who are conservative financially also clash with that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/18 09:26 AM |
| 2 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its MythsThank you! It’s unfortunate with your dad being like that though I hope he will see the practicality of it with family as well. It’s good you have your mother’s support. I just have my dad and at first he wasn’t supportive since he was worried about me being outlasted though now he understands while it is challenging, it has always been our values and shouldn’t change. This isn’t really a conservative or liberal thing! It depends on how much you personally value family and work life balance. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/18 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its MythsIndeed it is! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/18 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its MythsI can totally relate! | /r/RedPillWives | 24/06/18 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living & Financial ManagementYou’re very right about that and I think it’s just a trend thing, if you’re into it. Now you see the baby food has graduated to all the organic and gluten free stuff, it’s totally just taken people for a ride along with food fads! | /r/RedPillWives | 24/06/18 09:50 PM |
| 0 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its MythsYes, I’m more concerned for the children than anything though I can’t tell people or force people what to do. They will have to deal with the outcomes that come with that afterwards, that’s all I know. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/06/18 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Dare To Be DomesticThat’s cool, no worries! | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/18 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its MythsThat actually really makes a lot of sense, now that I think about it. Instead of hating and being jealous, I actually want to show these women and everyone else who is interested, they can do it too. That way there’ll be more DW and we can be more supportive of each other and everyone else’s choices. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/06/18 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its MythsThat is definitely lucky! I would say my family would have been, initially, more supportive if we didn’t immigrate because where I was born traditional family structures are more common and part of the culture (though it’s also starting to fade there), I think my family felt that pressure to blend into Australian society and that’s why they were concerned when I decided I wanted to pursue a traditional way of life, for one my father was worried since he knew I would become an outcast. People wou… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/06/18 12:31 AM |
| 3 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living & Financial ManagementThese are all great, practical tips, thanks for adding some more! I think my father has said the same thing about maintenance and he fixes his own oil, etc and repairs things straight away. Also, reading the unit price! Definitely that’s something I already do and I totally forgot about it. It’s good to see that some of us here already have similar tips or doing similar things but we all have many types of advice to offer! | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/18 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living & Financial ManagementYou’re right! Thanks for the additional tips and I really like your advice in investing, investing isn’t something I actually know much about it since my father and I don’t really go into it, we just save. I do think when it comes to nutritional value it makes cooking at home worth it. Though still while I think of making this from scratch it isn’t cheap but I still find generally homemade meals are much cheaper and last longer if you cook big batches. You’re welcome! I’m so glad people are find… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/06/18 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living & Financial ManagementGreat tips and thanks for adding! I did find that some of the tips didn’t apply to me because I’m in Australia (yay for down under) but I think many people on here are from the US anyway and they’ll find this very applicable and useful! It’s also quite interesting to see the different stores there and there’s such a big thing about couponing. Here, I’ve barely ever heard of it! Amazon shipping to Australia is usually twice the price of the product itself, so I’m a little jealous of the Americans… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/06/18 08:03 AM |
| 4 | Too broke to consider marriage?If that is the values you both have, I don’t see the issue since he is meant to be the main breadwinner and not you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/18 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its MythsThis is so lovely to read and I'm glad that you have also enjoyed it too! This is exactly the type of career-oriented conditioning that in a way also conditions people to consume and consume and be used to certain standards of living. So you get more and work more and always want more, usually more than what you actually need. I already had a somewhat traditional upbringing in Asia and only partially grew up with that conditioning here and I still found it hard to get over that and also assert m… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/18 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its MythsI still stand by what I say, they should both live with friends or with family, it is the only way to avoid such risks. If you want to wait longer and cohabit then that’s your risk that you took. I’ve never believed in living together before marriage, I’ve always been advised of this specific risk and I see this risk still exists. If you really need to, live with friends. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/18 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its MythsI think they can be very similar and sometimes in the same boat. I would also of course pick a partner that does match this values, which is already generally good relationship advice. I plan to keep serving my family until I can’t anymore, though there’s other things I have in mind. In many countries and in the past women serve domestic roles without being married. We’ve been so conditioned to work outside as much as possible and accept that rush and juggle and I want to question and challenge … | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/18 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Dare To Be DomesticDefinitely, there is different mileage and the exact financial extent of what you want is completely up to you! Like I said earlier if you can manage to get those things and still be domestic at home, great. If you want to work more for all those things, all the power to you! You’re right about not being high maintenance and also not falling for every buying fad or trend helps. Some successful men just hoard their money since they are paranoid while some want to enjoy it - that’s fine as along a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/18 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Dare To Be DomesticSince it’s not the only work I do during work days. I do both outside work and house work and they are equal to me. This whole post, definite a domestic woman is about having more time at home during the week, not about being completely at home. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/18 02:54 PM |
| 3 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its MythsYou made some good points and I’ll clarify them, if that helps. There are some differences between a father and husband but they fulfil the same role in a traditional family, as protectors and providers. My father says I can work full time if I want to as long as I can still manage the home around all that, he says I don’t have to. We are doing just fine, is what his words were and don’t need much more. It is about women to have the freedom to choose and to be who they are, domestic women, freel… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/18 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Dare To Be DomesticI stay at home part time and work part time, some of the work is online as well. This ‘luxury’ we have was something we made work in a working class family and others can do it too. Like I said on my post, I advocate for women to have some time at home, not all the time unless they want to or have children they want to give more time to. I was very clear about that. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/18 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Dare To Be DomesticI do not have luxury. I’m actually working class and my single father does not earn a high income. Same with my friends. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/18 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Dare To Be DomesticI believe the opposite, if you are in a Western country since I’ve seen people do it. I’m doing it and people I know are. I do feel bad when people say they wish to- you can! I think most people they just accept that when they’re told and just go along with everything and what’s normal in society. It’s become like this because when decades ago we were told what’s ideal is two incomes as the prices rose, we just accepted it because equality. I don’t believe that was the case. I challenge that. I … | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/18 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Dare To Be DomesticI do not mean to give negative feedback to working women. Like I’ve already said before in my other post, if they enjoy it then they should be free to continue it. Otherwise, I actually just feel sorry and also annoyed at how the system has played those working women who do not want to be. This is a solution to show the women who want to be domestic that it is okay and possible. That is all. I’m showing how this can be done, if you are willing to make the sacrifice and effort. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/18 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its MythsOh I’m glad to see that! Yes I definitely am endorsing it, it is possible to be a domestic woman- not just a housewife, maybe even a house-daughter, designated house-friend. The whole idea is placing a value on time at home :) You have made a great decision! | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/18 01:08 PM |
| 4 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its MythsYou are very right and having been by my father’s side his years, doing what I could, I have seen him worry time and again about these things. Yet every time we learned something and adapted better and better until we were comfortable. I can say here, you can have some of the possessions you want, but you have to pick and choose what you like best and if you want to get more- be smart about it and plan your timing. I’ll cover this more on my following posts. Yes she is the home! Which is why she… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/18 01:07 PM |
| 12 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its MythsThis is unfortunate and I do not support this. I will post about it soon but I have mentioned it before on this sub, I believe in women being domestic and at home more when living with their families (husbands or their original families) or friends who are willing. I do NOT support this way of life for unmarried couples. It is not fair for the woman because she is vulnerable despite giving so much of her domestic work. This woman was basically just used by him- he got sex/relationship at home pl… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/18 08:25 AM |
| 4 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its MythsNo worries! I truly think they needed to be dispelled and women can stand up to them. These are just myths that have been perpetuated for decades, just as a ploy to get more out of women and con them into the system. A materialistic system. Really, people wonder why everything is becoming more expensive, because now there's an expectation that two people, not one, will pay for it! Self-improvement is a great thing to spend money on and can lead to happier, healthier lives. It also emotionally st… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/18 07:34 AM |
| 2 | Dare To Be DomesticYes these sacrifices can be difficult, but they can be made easier if you know how to work your way around money and be smarter about how you use it. Having grown up with a single parent, we had to adapt and learn and I’m thankful for that. I do. Women, as you can see from some of the replies here and some PMs I’m getting, still feel pressured, discriminated and that this isn’t possible. It’s not just about it being okay, it’s about it being possible in the first place and I want to show that. I… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/18 03:46 AM |
| 3 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its MythsIt is definitely so unfortunate when you hear of the previous flower power generation, your mothers and aunts being so hostile towards the traditional way of life. They really thought of themselves as rebels then. My friends and I are living this way and both online and offline this is exactly the sort of statements we get and it’s about time to push aside the brainwashing and answer them truthfully. It’s not about the money and no it’s not the Housewives of [Insert Place Here] show. It is a pos… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/18 01:39 AM |
| 4 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its MythsThe way you chop vegetables or make the bed, shouldn’t matter. That’s housework and your domain! As long as you do it decently and properly. If you dress properly and somewhat feminine that should be fine enough. He has a right to be concerned if your dressing very inappropriately or sending the wrong message but otherwise, that’s your feminine domain. You won’t tell him how to do his job at work, so the same goes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/18 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its MythsOkay, what do you mean by please him? You should be both pleasing each other. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/18 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its MythsWhen he does, just be clear with him and ask how does he see the future. Think about that question for yourself, too. All the best! | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/18 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Dare To Be DomesticThank you :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/18 12:58 AM |
| 8 | Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its MythsThanks! I do know what that feels like and it can be hard to make your own way when you are isolated. That’s a great way to think about how you make money and yes security does matter and you have to be smart about it. Your boyfriend has hinted that you move in together? For me personally, I wouldn’t live with someone unless we were engaged and close to the wedding date or actually married, it’s been proven statistics wise that people who live together earlier become more comfortable and feel le… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/18 12:58 AM |
| 3 | Dare To Be Domestic:) First Part is up! Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its Myths | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/18 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Dare To Be Domestic:) First Part is up! Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its Myths | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/18 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Dare To Be Domestic:) First Part is up! Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its Myths | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/18 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Dare To Be Domestic:) First Part is up! Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its Myths | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/18 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Dare To Be Domestic:) First Part is up! Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its Myths | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/18 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Dare To Be Domestic:) First Part is up! Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its Myths | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/18 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Dare To Be DomesticFirst part is up! Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its Myths | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/18 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Dare To Be DomesticFirst part is up! Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its Myths | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/18 12:26 AM |
| 3 | Dare To Be DomesticI have posted here! First part is up! Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its Myths | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/18 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Dare To Be DomesticCool! I understand people may apply this in different ways, either in other straight couples or even LGBT couples. This is a concept that applies to the majority, if they want to, but there will always be exceptions in different circumstances. I just don’t speak about it because I’m not in that situation, I don’t know what it’s like but you can take from it what you like! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/06/18 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Dare To Be DomesticOh thanks! I will post soon! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/06/18 11:09 PM |
| 3 | Dare To Be DomesticI was born and raised in a third world country and no, it isn’t easier to live on one wage there because you have less security overall. Bad healthcare, no support, etc. You can still get a house. My father did, as a single parent. You have to carefully plan, and know how to use money systems to your advantage, repayment schemes and etc. We have lived with one wage when I was younger and still in school, now we have one and a half wage since I am working part time and homemaking. It’s about sacr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/06/18 11:08 PM |
| 9 | Dare To Be DomesticThat is definitely quite the situation and unsurprisingly it is so typical of what I see in modern society. Knowing this already saddens me and I really want to do something about it. People are being told they have to juggle everything, despite new developments and technology and the notion of ‘work life balance’. People are told it’s normal that they’re stressed all the time and must buy this and have that and live here, at the cost of their balance. Did you know that sales teams target times … | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/06/18 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Dare To Be DomesticThat’s alright, I see what you mean. Yes I’ve been thinking about that for a while now and I guess call me ultra hopeful but I want to do something about it. I don’t like seeing women like this and more growing up thinking this is the only way. The only way forward is to start some change. That starts with myself and I’m doing what I can. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/06/18 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Dare To Be DomesticAwesome! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/06/18 02:34 PM |
| 5 | Dare To Be DomesticExactly! Since he has nothing to worry about he is less tired and more relaxed, which also means he’s more ready for work and motivated. That can bode well for the both of you! :) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/06/18 02:32 PM |
| 6 | Dare To Be DomesticI agree it is unrealistic if you live in a third world country or something like that. I live in Australia and have been doing this for years. I have two friends who also do the same thing and it is very possible. You just have to lower your financial standards (if you want to be a domestic woman, of course, if you want high financial standards and want to work for it that’s fine). You mentioned being in a high cost living area, it’s better then to move to a low cost one. This way of living requ… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/06/18 02:31 PM |
| 5 | Dare To Be DomesticOh wow thank you very much! :) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/06/18 09:32 AM |
| 6 | Dare To Be DomesticAwesome! You have all the right to live how you want, if you want to earn more time for your family than money, that’s your business and no one else’s. In fact by you being at home, your husband can become more like a king and be rewarded much more at home for the hard work he does. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/06/18 08:38 AM |
| 3 | Dare To Be DomesticThanks! :) I’m so glad people can see! I honestly feel women domestically have been wronged and undervalued, so it’s time to just right that, liberal or conservative :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/06/18 08:21 AM |
| 7 | Dare To Be DomesticOh thanks very much! :) Indeed, even within the conservative community there is still a push. This isn’t about right or left, this is just about domestic women’s natural domestic abilities being valued again and given the proper time, to ultimately benefit them and their families. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/06/18 07:55 AM |
| 7 | Dare To Be DomesticIt isn’t really about politics or any group in particular when I comment on tax, it was more of how I dislike how the government just supported a lot of feminist movements just to get more tax money from women working anyway and I really thought that was a big betrayal of their motive. Women used to pay much less tax when they were at home more and I believe that shouldn’t have been taken from them under the guise of supporting their careers or equality. It was a major tax grab for the governmen… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/06/18 05:23 AM |
| 4 | Dare To Be DomesticThat is awesome, thanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/06/18 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Dare To Be DomesticAwesome! You can use this for present and future. You won’t need it yet if you’re still living by yourself and don’t have more than a one bedroom and just looking after/cooking for yourself. :) but it’s better to be ready! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/06/18 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Dare To Be DomesticThat’s lovely! :) OMG I love the KonMari method and follow it myself! It’s been such a life changer. My posts will be beyond just domestic work or housework, it’s about establishing a way of life that allows you to be at home more :) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/06/18 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Dare To Be DomesticAwesome! :) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/06/18 04:15 AM |
| 4 | Dare To Be DomesticThat’s great! This can also be useful for men as a sort of observation, if a woman is doing all this and managing a balanced life, then you know what she’d be able to offer you in a relationship. You’ll know her values. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/06/18 04:12 AM |
| 4 | Dare To Be DomesticNo worries! :) I’ll start posting more tomorrow | /r/RedPillWives | 21/06/18 04:12 AM |
| 3 | I'm Glad To Be Back, More Domestic Than Ever! That Stepford GalThank you! I think people just start putting money on a pedestal when they are too comfortable, especially those who haven’t seen a deep set poverty as in third world countries. Time matters too and it’s a special income women can make- as of the last few decades, society started to see women just as money-making machines to tax just like men. Nobody earns that time anymore, everyone cares about earning money only. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/18 12:56 AM |
| 2 | I'm Glad To Be Back, More Domestic Than Ever! That Stepford GalThank you, I don’t believe in judging people for it. I used to be a bit more..passionate about it but really let people do what they want since they will have to be responsible for it anyway. Anyone can have their standard of living, I just didn’t like how people presented as if it was impossible to just work part time and there would be no financial security or future for that. There is. It is possible. You just have to go about it the right way- the smart and creative way. Yes those are the gi… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/18 02:49 PM |
| 2 | I'm Glad To Be Back, More Domestic Than Ever! That Stepford GalAwesome! Yes, there are a lot of things I do when it comes to domestic work (which also includes building my own small business soon!) I will do a post on that- thanks for the idea! I will also gradually bring over here my posts from my site about traditional living. I made posts about Traditional Living and Dating Traditional Living and Dealing With Society Traditional Living and Financial Management Traditional Living and Working Part-Time Traditional Living and Relationships (which is very RP… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/18 06:42 AM |
| 3 | I'm Glad To Be Back, More Domestic Than Ever! That Stepford GalOh it’s alright. Mainstream society does though personally in the anti-mainstream more conservative part of society I also get looked down upon. I mean, I’ve seen the recent posts here, there were a couple just the last week in RPW, where women who want to be at home more are received negatively because they don’t have kids or even a husband. Some people think staying at home more is just about being a contract nanny for when your kids are very little. I’m not talking about that- I’m talking sti… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/18 06:31 AM |
| 2 | I'm Glad To Be Back, More Domestic Than Ever! That Stepford GalA lot of society would already look down on adult women who don’t work full time if they’re not students. Different families have different situations, and you have all the freedom to set your own financial standards and the ideal you want for your family - for me mainly I just want to let women know that this doesn’t have to be the norm and they have the choice to live differently. Not everyone will be the same and like you said, it’s totally fine. Working full time isn’t the only way to have a… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/18 06:00 AM |
| 1 | I'm Glad To Be Back, More Domestic Than Ever! That Stepford GalHi there! It’s been a while. Thanks! I wouldn’t say looking after the house in your spare time but more accurately splitting the average work day (8 hours or 9-5) between outside/money-earning work and domestic/time-earning work. So basically after work hours are actually after work hours since you don’t have to do any more domestic work. It’s truly free time. I think a lot of people here, as you can already see there’s been up and down votes, think it doesn’t make a woman independent, makes her… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/18 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: The Rebootr/Nessunolosa Thank you for taking this on! I understand I had been away the last few months, having gone through some personal matters, some changes and overall, a lot of things. I truly admire how you have taken on this role, while I'm still figuring things out, if I can help you, feel free to message me! I am still not sure if I would be able to do as much as I did with the old Tarot Tuesdays, though I look forward to being involved once again with RPW. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/18 03:13 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else work part-time (no kids)?I am! I am unmarried, live with a single father and a sibling, so I am in a sense the matriarch of the house and work part-time while looking after our house and the domestic work. It is definitely a great way to live and I highly encourage it. You don't have to have kids to only work part-time, your house/home is a priority. It earns time for your family. You and your husband. I know all about the judgement, which is even more surprising when it comes from those who live in a first world countr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/18 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Not college, not career... what else?No worries! Just remember, be creative and flexible. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/06/18 12:42 PM |
| 7 | Not college, not career... what else?Hey there and all the best for your future! I’m not sure about how employers in your area though I highly recommend getting a bachelors degree in something, it just shows you have a good ethic and some qualification. This could be something more to your interest and doesn’t have to be anything STEM or overly complex. Or if you want minimal time involvement a certificate or diploma. So you have something. As for some options in career, go for part time jobs and keep it varying. I recommend small … | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/06/18 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Housewife and part-time workI’ve been lurking for a while now, I’ve been working on some big background changes for my blog and even in my personal life as I have some new part time work. This definitely is a straw on the camel’s back for me and I think I do have a lot to say on this. Funny how both of you are Aussies and so am I. I will be posting on this soon once I tidy up a few things! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/03/18 12:16 PM |
| 2 | A Clean, ‘Living’ Home: Why Neat Is Good, But Not ImmaculateWow whoever gave you that as a bridal shower gift is a wise and brave person. I collect home making and traditional relationship books in print :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/18 03:22 AM |
| 3 | A Clean, ‘Living’ Home: Why Neat Is Good, But Not ImmaculateOh that is just lovely! I definitely agree and just because of that- I ordered the book just now online :) I have it on ebook though I think having it on paper matters | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/18 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: Happy New Year! (January Pt 1)I’m glad it resonates with you! Thank you and I definitely did! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/01/18 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Bustin’ Through Resolutions Like A BossThank you and that's a lovely resolution and I wish you all the best! I could say the same for my father and some of my family! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/01/18 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: Happy New Year! (January Pt 1)Happy New Year too! Thanks for the question, I just got back from the weekend. Seven of Wands + The Empress R = What can really help you attain your goals is to step away from your emotional anxiety, you seem to let it make things appear daunting to you and so you become afraid to try new things or progress in goals. Accept delays and failures yet keep going and don't be scared off the path you are on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/01/18 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: Happy New Year! (January Pt 1)Oh that is very good! I meant when things do get bad because of course you will go through those things. Just don’t forget that positivity that you have, especially during those times. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/18 10:52 AM |
| 2 | RP Housewives, Do You Feel Extra Conscious About The Cleanliness Of Your Home?I'm glad to hear someone else feel this way! It's definitely something to be proud of and it is definitely a balance of all these responsibilities, I'm sure you are a great wife and mom for your family and household! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/01/18 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: Happy New Year! (January Pt 1)No worries, I'm happy to do them and I hope this helps! Nine of Cups + The World R = Focus on being positive even through the hard times this year. Positive as in learning to focus on the good things and being grateful while problems occur- he will see your strength of character and the positivity you can bring into his life, through ups and downs. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/18 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Bustin’ Through Resolutions Like A BossOh WOW. That is such a good idea and while I have a similar journal, this is such a proper way to do it! :) I will take the time to learn this. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/01/18 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Bustin’ Through Resolutions Like A BossYou’re already so focused! That’s quite good, do you write down your intentions or have a reminder for them? I’m horrible at remembering things. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/01/18 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Bustin’ Through Resolutions Like A BossI think so! :) That is also personally an area of work for me, I’ve identified it recently. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/18 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Bustin’ Through Resolutions Like A BossThat’s a lot of intentions and definitely a challenge! For myself I just chose one for now since I’m not sure if I’ll be able to track many intentions, though good luck for this year! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/01/18 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: Happy New Year! (January Pt 1)You're welcome and I'm very glad it made sense to you! I feel like I ramble sometimes about these things and I wonder if I actually make sense or resonate with people, since I'm just trying to translate the cards, I don't know the specific contexts. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/18 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: Happy New Year! (January Pt 1)No worries! Once you think of it that way, it might be easier to make a decision. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/18 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2Hi there! Here are some perspectives. King of Wands + Three of Swords = You can open yourself though there is still something to take care of. You still feel some hurt from the past and instead of trying to push it away, you can let it go and once you feel lighter, that's the time to start. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/18 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Bustin’ Through Resolutions Like A BossYes, definitely some people can feel this way and I understand that. I think the time of year, times like this, can just be simply appreciated without the pressure of goals or resolutions. Thank you very much and I also hope you have a great year! :) I intend to maintain as they have been great goals! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/01/18 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Bustin’ Through Resolutions Like A BossThat's a good goal- I don't think I can ever get rid of that for me, to be completely honest. Happy New Year mate! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/18 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: Happy New Year! (January Pt 1)No worries! I hope this resonates with you, congratulations. The Hanged Man R + Four of Cups = There seems to be plenty of time to put things on hold and consider your opportunities. Take the time to look at where everything is and if there are changes and opportunities that might benefit you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/18 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Bustin’ Through Resolutions Like A BossI actually think that's quite great since it is so practical! I still cannot seem to think of specific situations where I would have an idea of what to do - I might need to think on that, though I still think that is also a good approach. It can definitely be defined as an intention- I think when there are troubles or even confusing times, I just want to conjure up this intention and see what I can do to implement it in those situations. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/01/18 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: Happy New Year! (January Pt 1)Congratulations! I hope this gives you some ideas. The Moon + Ace of Cups = Since everything is so new, things can get exciting and confusing at the same time. It will do you both a great favour to appreciate what you have now though also remembering how you got here and how strong you were as a couple even before marriage. Reconnect often. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/18 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: Happy New Year! (January Pt 1)No worries! I’m glad! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/18 01:46 PM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesday: Happy New Year! (January Pt 1)Happy New Year too! Thank you too and I hope this resonates with you :) Four of Wands + Nine of Pentacles = He needs to see how far you have come and how you've become such a team. Celebrate a milestone with him, a somewhat significant one that may be unexpected, just to show how you appreciate what you two have become. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/18 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: Happy New Year! (January Pt 1)No worries! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/18 12:14 PM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesday: Happy New Year! (January Pt 1)Your question is very open and leaves plenty of space for great ideas and insight, I very much enjoy getting questions like this :) You're welcome and I hope it resonates. Eight of Swords + Wheel of Fortune R = Look forward to learning an important lesson about not holding yourself back. You have plenty of potential and you need to be able to recognise that the chains of the past are broken and need to be left behind, you are free to make great relationships. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/18 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: Happy New Year! (January Pt 1)Oh I wish I could see a party like that, I haven't heard of something like that! Three of Pentacles + The Empress = You have both done enough work and all you need to do is keep it up so things will go well, he needs to know from you that you are ready. You are emotionally and physically ready for the future and you are just waiting for him to take your hand and start. That you are ready for the future. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/18 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: Happy New Year! (January Pt 1)That's a good, open question and I hope this resonates with you :) You're welcome. Nine of Cups R + Five of Cups R = Actively choose to be positive about your dating prospects, instead of focusing on the negative. People can sense when you have a positive outlook, it makes you radiate and warm to others, while the opposite applies. Train yourself to enjoy the little things in life and be more grateful as that shines through and attracts good people. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/18 12:10 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: Happy New Year! (January Pt 1)That's the aim and I do hope it gives you some ideas! Five of Wands R + Four of Cups = It seems like you have had some distance and you've been focusing on some negative thoughts or any past negative events in your marriage. Let go of the negativity and celebrate what you both have now, since you have both come so far. Maybe with something romantic. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/18 12:08 PM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesday: Happy New Year! (January Pt 1)Hi there! I hope this resonates with you. The Chariot R + Five of Swords R = Which one is more relaxing and takes less time for you so you have more time for family? You can decide, do not rush things as that would only result in chaos. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/18 12:02 PM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesday: Happy New Year! (January Pt 1)Oh I'm sorry to hear that, though I understand what you are asking. I hope this resonates with you. King of Pentacles + The Fool R = You have to do both. While allow him to continue to do these things, remind him that you also have a right as First Mate to have an opinion and stance on the matter. Concentrate on any risks or concerns you may have when you do give your stance, he needs to respect that while he decides, you have a right to be involved in the process. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/18 12:01 PM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesday: Happy New Year! (January Pt 1)Oh thanks! You're welcome and I hope it resonates! Six of Cups + Queen of Cups = An interesting combination that basically says for him to be able to reconnect with you on nostalgic things, as in the beginnings and foundations of your relationship, what had brought you two together in the first place. Revisit the past and appreciate it, remind him of how excited and in love he was even when he had just first gotten to know you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/18 11:59 AM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesday: Happy New Year! (January Pt 1)Thank you! I hope this resonates with you. Six of Pentacles R + Knight of Wands R = It seems like in your relationship you both haven't been taking initiatives, such as doing thoughtful things or organising things out of nowhere (just because you have forgotten over time, not because of anything actually bad). Just be aware that you can do lovely or romantic things for him spontaneously and it can only bring good and warmth to your relationship- the same goes for him. This could also be opening … | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/18 11:57 AM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesday: Happy New Year! (January Pt 1)That's cool! I just answer one question at a time though, to be fair with everybody. Here is an overall message from the cards. I hope it resonates with you. The Sun R + King of Pentacles = Someone close to you, presumably with an older and wiser experience (likely a much older male) can lend a listening ear and give you some food for thought since they can be objective while knowing you very well. They might even give some suggestions for your purpose and career. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/18 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: Happy New Year! (January Pt 1)Hi there! Ten of Cups + Seven of Pentacles = It seems that most of your financial goals will come to fruition this year and make some progress. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/18 11:52 AM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesday: Happy New Year! (January Pt 1)Yes I am! I hope this resonates with you and any feedback is welcome. Eight of Wands R + Seven of Cups = Things might seem slow and there will be delays though don't let that distract you from continuing (as in get distracted and pursue other things), even if it is tempting. Have a direct goal and keep focus. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/18 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2Please don't be so worried! I asked the cards again and while the decision is up to you, this is what they think. Two of Swords R + Knight of Pentacles: As difficult as this decision was for you, you know which one will pay off incrementally in the long run, you know which is the more financially sensible decision in the big scheme of things. Keep that in mind. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/18 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2I don't read into other people and what they are doing or not, merely what they feel and the situation around you, rather than them. I hope this makes sense to you, I'm sorry to hear about the situation. The Moon R + Death R = He seems to be in a very vulnerable emotional position and it will be a while before he could get over the hurt or whatever else he feels, he needs to be able to shed that and you need to let him do so on his own. Just drop a straight line about how you feel, what your int… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/17 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2Hi there! I hope this resonates with you. The Hermit R + Nine of Swords R = It will be a while before it pays off and it will become harder to juggle before it eases though it will be worth it. Make sure you have strategies in place for when you feel stressed or frustrated to minimise the effect on you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/17 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2Definitely! I also have a soft spot for children and pregnancy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/17 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2No worries! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/17 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2:) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/17 12:19 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2Five of Swords R + King of Cups = He has a lot of conflicting emotions, I think he needs a little push from you to actually sort them out and see where he stands himself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/17 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2No worries :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/17 12:15 PM |
| 1 | RP Housewives, Do You Feel Extra Conscious About The Cleanliness Of Your Home?Oh I know that show and I definitely agree! I do love a clean home, though I like to see a few signs that it is a warm, lively one that people are frequently in. Things like a few wrinkles on the couch covers or even slightly shifted papers. It makes the home feel alive. However, at the same time, it's still clean and not dusty or has dirt on the floor. It's also breathable and well-organised overall. Good luck on your housekeeping, it seems like you are on the right track though! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/17 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Book Club: Secrets of Fascinating WomanhoodHmm I had a read of it, though I feel like right now due to my personal circumstances, it will be a little inapplicable at the moment. Though, I'm not married either! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/17 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2Yes I do remember your situation! Indeed, that is a very tricky one and you always ask yourself if it will end or change. Here is what the cards revealed, I hope it gives your some thoughts and ideas. Four of Swords R + King of Cups = Don't be passive about this, be active through your husband. If that is his sister, he has a responsibility to protect you from her bad behaviour (or at least get her to act decently civil, not like this). She needs to accept you for who you are as you are now part… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/17 12:08 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2Hi there! I hope this helps with your situation, it definitely can be tricky. Seven of Pentacles + Knight of Swords = Wait a little more (a month or less) and see if anything changes, there might be an extenuating circumstance. If not, confront him and ask him to lay himself out on the table clearly. What does he want for a relationship? What are his concerns? He needs to be able to take responsibility for his directions and be clear to you, otherwise it's not worth the time. Hold him accountabl… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/17 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2Thanks for this! I will also add something. I did not think there would be a question about this, so I will modify my next Tarot Tuesday master post. I will not answer questions regarding conceiving children, children who are not born yet and pregnancy- this is too health and science based (leave that to the medical professionals) and I do have ethical concerns about it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/17 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2That is quite a situation, I'm sorry to hear that you are experiencing this. I'm thankful for your holiday wishes and I am back from the festivities! Four of Swords R + Five of Swords = You may not have experience with financial matters, though you do with your family since you know them. Instead of being passive due to your lack of knowledge, use your knowledge of your family instead and be a mediator for the both of them. Help them to see each other's view by relaying their concerns clearly an… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/17 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2Thank you! :) Enjoy your cheery holidays! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/17 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2I think that may be something you can focus on on the trip. Just those loose ends for now and gathering the information you need to determine whether you are both on the same page or not. Also examine his intentions, look at why would he want to start the relationship again, truly? You’re welcome, I just hope you can get some insights and food for thought. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/17 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2Thank you very much :) Six of Swords + Ace of Cups R = Have breaks in between sex and don't seem eager for it, just for a little bit, then surprise him with your desire when he least expects it (in an appropriate place/time though). | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/17 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2Oh that's good to hear! I still get surprised sometimes how it resonates with others. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/17 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2That's the idea, I'm glad. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/17 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2No worries, I'm just glad it does! | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/17 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2Hope this resonates with you. Judgement + The Star = There's something that's been calling to you that you've felt like responding to, an aspiration you've been having in your head that you've been putting off. Put your mind to it, give it a try and this aspiration will bring you joy and contentment. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/17 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2That is alright, you can add in your input as well, though I notice you have a very different style. You do add a lot of information and while people digest this differently when you are in front of them, talking to them, it might be a bit big for someone in text who doesn't know very much about the tarot and symbolism like we do. If they do get confused, all I ask is that you clarify and simplify for them :) Otherwise, it's your style. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/17 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2Thank you very much, I really appreciate it :) That's quite a situation you've got there, here are some of the cards I drew. The Hermit + Page of Wands = You need to give yourself time to think this over seriously. Is your current boyfriend good for future material? Is time important to you? You need to weigh the pros and cons, without any influence from either man. Even write points down and go over it with a trusted, impartial acquaintance. Remove yourself from the situation and try to judge i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/17 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2You’re welcome to add your insight, as you can see I read very intuitively and I don’t use traditional spreads that have assigned meanings to positions- I just see how the cards interact with each other and my intuition just combines them and basically something pops in my head. A bit of advice from both the cards. They can then take both our readings and see what they get from it, of course. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/17 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2The Tower + Six of Wands = It seems your nun mode will be paying off and there will be some accomplishments for you! Arm yourself with what you know, what you've discovered and what your truth is and then go out there. Don't let go of them and keep your goals (especially vetting standards) in sight. You're welcome :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/17 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2Ace of Swords R + Queen of Cups = Let your emotions and intuition guide you a little more, it seems your tongue can be a bit sharp at times and it would help to think before saying anything, examine how you feel first and speak through the heart when communicating with others and communicating your truth. I hope that resonates with you! The emergencies have been going on for a while, thank you for your kind thoughts. We will do our best for the holiday season. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/17 12:03 AM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2Yes or No questions are a little too narrow for the tarot, they tend to give whole bits of advice, I hope this resonates with you. Six of Swords + Page of Pentacles = I think some time and space apart is how you can best help each other. Avoid being snide or even bitter, as if you know better, despite how frustrated you get. You may be tempted and find that it easily can happen, just be aware of it. One thing you can do during this time is maybe learn something new or go to something you've been… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/17 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2We are getting by, yes! Thank you for all the positive thoughts :) I usually don't directly apply tarot to an RP lifestyle so to say, I'm just about 80% RP if you ask me. I just draw cards every few days to have a good bit of advice to reflect on, even on relationships and I like to read for others too. If you want to know more, I can point you in a few directions? :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/17 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2That's alright, you're welcome! It's a great distraction. Six of Cups R + The Star: There seems to be a lot of potential! Don't let the past get to you though, it seems there may be some things you see now with this guy that remind you of some things in the past too. You have to avoid connecting these things and start on a new page. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/17 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2Good morning too and thank you! :) Yes or No questions are usually a bit too narrow for the cards, they tend to give me tidbits of actual advice. I hope this makes sense! King of Cups + King of Wands R = For now it seems to sit well with you, even emotionally. Just be aware of another colleague that seems to be a bit pushy and always wants things their way. Just remember, you are both equals and they can't push you unless you let them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/17 11:55 PM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2Thank you for the well wishes :) I hope this resonates with you. King of Wands + The Star = The year may seem to start off with not much happening, even if you have been trying to keep up with all your goals and keep up with a good attitude. Don't worry, it will start paying off after the minor road bumps. It's just a little delay. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/17 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: December Pt. 2Thank you! It is still a bit tough, though we get through. The Tower + Three of Swords = What makes you think of it as rekindling? There seems to be reconciling that can be done, tying off any loose ends from the past though rekindling any sort of romance right now seems to be an unwise idea. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/17 11:51 PM |
| 1 | RP Housewives, Do You Feel Extra Conscious About The Cleanliness Of Your Home?Oh I see! If I had floorboards I would be quite conscious of that too! I mop every week or sometimes twice a week because we have white tiles and the slightest stain stands out! It’s so high maintenance | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/17 09:51 PM |
| 1 | RP Housewives, Do You Feel Extra Conscious About The Cleanliness Of Your Home?Fair enough! That’s a relief to hear. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/12/17 07:35 AM |
| 3 | Book Club: Secrets of Fascinating WomanhoodI’m super interested! I truly love this book and the emphasis it puts on homemaking women :) A study group would be just swell! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/17 03:12 AM |
| 1 | What do you think is the cause of women becoming complacent?This is it. You expressed everything I would have said. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/17 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Is Formal Education Necessary?Education is very important, I would say more than a career. Since it is something that follows you from a young age, your formal education level shows how dedicated and hardworking you are to a partner, even if you are not career-oriented. It shows you can keep routine, be organised and follow goals. Especially if you can show you are high achieving. Formal education is also good if you want to pursue even specialisations at the side when you are a homemaker/housewife. It just makes it easier t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/17 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Beyond RPWCongratulations, that’s a lovely background and I’m similar to you in some of our background :) My family was quite similar to yours as well, before my parents divorced. It’s good that you have such a bright outlook on all this and you haven’t been as affected! Congratulations again on becoming a mom! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/17 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Beyond RPWOh wow! If there were part time options I think I would have gone into law enforcement. I’ve always been intrigued by that path, I was going to do criminology at some point and I’m pretty desensitised to a lot of things, due to having grown up in a third world country. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/17 02:53 AM |
| 3 | Beyond RPWI would say I’m a sassy lady! Not my quote, mind you. I was a high achiever in high school and achieved a top VCE score in the state, I went to the #1 university here and career-wise, I’m an expert homemaker (thanks grandma!) and caregiver. Which makes me great at looking after kids (when I teach), family members and my home (cooking and cleaning). I didn’t really need to learn how to be soft, that’s always been in my culture, I went through a brief sort of Lefty phase in high school however bef… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/17 02:40 AM |
| 8 | Pre + Post Christmas Megathread!!!If you celebrate Christmas Eve, have some activities for the family while waiting for midnight! I got Bon Bons and plastic Christmas balls that people can paint while we chatter, eat and listen to Bing Crosby. :) | /r/RedPillWives | 20/12/17 02:33 AM |
| 1 | RP Housewives, Do You Feel Extra Conscious About The Cleanliness Of Your Home?That’s good. I’m mostly the opposite. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/17 11:45 PM |
| 1 | RP Housewives, Do You Feel Extra Conscious About The Cleanliness Of Your Home?Fair point! I think that definitely makes sense and makes me feel a bit better. It’s just me who notices the little stuff most of the time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/17 11:24 PM |
| 1 | RP Housewives, Do You Feel Extra Conscious About The Cleanliness Of Your Home?That’s good to hear! My grandmother is the same though we get along well. At least you have some points of good faith. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/17 11:23 PM |
| 1 | RP Housewives, Do You Feel Extra Conscious About The Cleanliness Of Your Home?Congrats on doing that! I’m not complaining either way, I’m honestly just wondering if people were thinking about this like I am, if my theory is right that I notice more than my guests will. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/17 12:30 PM |
| 1 | RP Housewives, Do You Feel Extra Conscious About The Cleanliness Of Your Home?That definitely makes sense now! At least he’s quite happy with what you’ve done so far :) Sweeping is not too bad, do you think? Do you enjoy it? It’s less setup than vacuuming. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/17 07:27 AM |
| 1 | RP Housewives, Do You Feel Extra Conscious About The Cleanliness Of Your Home?Yep yep that makes sense! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/17 07:21 AM |
| 2 | RP Housewives, Do You Feel Extra Conscious About The Cleanliness Of Your Home?That’s understandable, you just wouldn’t have the time with it and of course I think people notice at different levels. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/17 12:05 AM |
| 2 | RP Housewives, Do You Feel Extra Conscious About The Cleanliness Of Your Home?Wow I didn’t think some SOs would be quite sensitive to that too, the men in my life don’t seem to realise until it’s all been cleared and they’re like.. “Whoa this look good.” Oh I can’t stand homes of people who hoard though I just think about this stuff when I’m cleaning. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/17 11:00 PM |
| 1 | RP Housewives, Do You Feel Extra Conscious About The Cleanliness Of Your Home?Maybe not that much! I mean something like a bit of dust around picture frames or even a slight stain on the bathroom sink, that would normally be white since it’s porcelain. A clean house is a relaxing one. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/17 10:59 PM |
| 1 | RP Housewives, Do You Feel Extra Conscious About The Cleanliness Of Your Home?Sounds good, you seem very organised and it’s great to have a system :) I have a weekly, twice weekly, daily or even fortnightly schedule for most chores and they just rotate regularly. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/12/17 10:58 PM |
| 1 | RP Housewives, Do You Feel Extra Conscious About The Cleanliness Of Your Home?I thought so, I think that is a thing, a trap that happens. I don’t focus on it at all with guests over, it just crosses my mind when I’m cleaning and I wonder about. I think being a homemaker and even the one mainly responsible for the children can definitely make one more conscious since it is your job. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/12/17 10:57 PM |
| 1 | RP Housewives, Do You Feel Extra Conscious About The Cleanliness Of Your Home?I’m obsessed with decluttering, living with a single father and a younger sibling, they are messy! Though I enjoy organising and constantly improving my home. You should be proud of course! It’s not just about a regular clean, your house just gets better and better, I notice that too. Well I meant tiny stains the size of your thumb on a white tile floor or something like that, a bit of dust around the picture frames on display. I notice that a lot in my own home, though I don’t think I do in oth… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/17 10:55 PM |
| 5 | RP Housewives, Do You Feel Extra Conscious About The Cleanliness Of Your Home?So do I! I take it very seriously too, when either my father or even a guest says the house looks nice, it’s one of the greatest feelings ever and I feel very proud and accomplished! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/17 10:53 PM |
| 1 | RP Housewives, Do You Feel Extra Conscious About The Cleanliness Of Your Home?Fair enough! I think I go through phases too and I’ve become more and more meticulous about cleaning the more my home improved, I’m gradually trying to get rid of all the clutter and reorganise things. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/12/17 10:52 PM |
| 3 | RP Housewives, Do You Feel Extra Conscious About The Cleanliness Of Your Home?I see, I don’t stress about it when guests are over at all, this just sort of occurred to me while I was cleaning and I was thinking back on the last time I visited someone else’s house. Did I notice the spots where I was cleaning now, in their place and notice the dirt? | /r/RedPillWives | 18/12/17 10:51 PM |
| 2 | RP Housewives, Do You Feel Extra Conscious About The Cleanliness Of Your Home?That’s exactly what I was thinking! I mean, there would be different levels and I was thinking, oh surely people don’t look at this stuff as closely as I do, right? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/17 10:50 PM |
| 1 | RP Housewives, Do You Feel Extra Conscious About The Cleanliness Of Your Home?Oh I see! That definitely makes sense! Even like a couple of stains on the floor that might be the size of your thumb? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/17 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Hate From Other Women Because I'm a Traditional Housewife.Definitely, I know what you mean since I grew up with a single father after a horrible marriage ending between my parents. These are definitely different definitions of poverty, though I feel lucky that I wouldn’t have to worry about begging on the street or knocking on people’s car windows. That’s very common for kids to do where I was born. That, or starve to death, literally. Of course! My blog is intended to be a little haven for domestic women like us, since it’s easy to fall into the trap … | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/17 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Hate From Other Women Because I'm a Traditional Housewife.It is and people spend their whole lives not realising this. I feel this is a valuable piece of wisdom that would be the key to having a happy life. Having lots of quality time. Monetary is the least concern, especially if you live in a developed country. I was born and raised in a third world country and it really broadened my perception of what real hardship and desperation is. I’d love to be online pals :) It definitely makes life easier when you feel you have similar friends who go through t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/17 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Wondering what are appropriate songs for a wedding playlist?Oh and congrats! What a lovely event to look forward to! | /r/RedPillWives | 18/12/17 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Wondering what are appropriate songs for a wedding playlist?Frank Sinatra and most 50s romantic swing. Great to dance to, very appropriate and very romantic :) | /r/RedPillWives | 18/12/17 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Hate From Other Women Because I'm a Traditional Housewife.This is how it will be for most of your lives, hon. I’m sorry to hear that however whatever they think or do shouldn’t really matter as long as you and your husband are happy. Domestic women like us who value time over money and value making a home over a career that everyone else does anyway, will always be under the scrutiny of society. Especially other women who treat each other like vipers. What matters is YOUR life, YOUR home and everything in it. The outside world shouldn’t even matter. Yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/17 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Do you get involved with politics?I do and I have a few contacts in real life, though I’m not sure whether I should participate publicly yet save for my blog. I do prefer a more domestic and home based life so if I ever do it will just be part time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/17 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Man On Married At First Sight Show Wants A Woman Who Will Respect Him: Sexist!I see your point there and that is a strong possibility though we won’t really know until the show airs. I want to give a little bit of a benefit of the doubt though if that proves wrong then it is. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/12/17 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: DecemberOh that’s great! No worries :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/17 02:45 AM |
| 3 | Appropriate expectations for emotional support?I’m sorry to hear this, I do think your husband needs to know how you feel, be calm and open at first. He may be confused if you come to him with lots of tears and sobbing and may be bewildered. You can ease into that further on in the conversation, though start calmly and clearly. My well wishes are with you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/17 01:19 AM |
| 5 | Tips for women with younger husbands/SO's?You are the first mate, so since you have a lot more experiences and knowledge, use that to advise but not tell him what to do exactly. Because of your unique relationship, he should give some more weight than usual to your advice when it comes to having more experience or wisdom in certain areas. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/17 01:13 AM |
| 8 | Do men respect women with a mission?Well my main mission is to serve my family and be remembered as a great maternal figure. To me that’s the biggest impact. Though on the side I do have a side mission, to speak out against the Left and to speak for traditionalism. You can have a main and side mission. It’s very honourable for a woman to prioritise family though you can have side missions. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/17 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Man On Married At First Sight Show Wants A Woman Who Will Respect Him: Sexist!Exactly. You wonder why the divorce rates are rising and marriage rates are dropping. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/17 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: November Pt. 2Flexible is the key! That’s cool, it’s the holidays and everyone seems to be quite busy :) no worries | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/17 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Man On Married At First Sight Show Wants A Woman Who Will Respect Him: Sexist!We should totally start a petition against that! Why can’t feminists accept that there are many types of women and us and our values exist? No, because women always love making it a hard time for other women. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/17 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Man On Married At First Sight Show Wants A Woman Who Will Respect Him: Sexist!I really hope that’s the case since I do want some balance at least, being hated and judged so harshly by most of society does suck at times. I do wish I have some more RPW like friends, it is easier when you have lots of values to share. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/17 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Man On Married At First Sight Show Wants A Woman Who Will Respect Him: Sexist!Of course! That is why in brackets I said if they are capable and responsible. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/17 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Man On Married At First Sight Show Wants A Woman Who Will Respect Him: Sexist!That’s exactly what I was thinking of and if people have enough courage, this might just give it the traction it needs. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/17 02:53 AM |
| 5 | Man On Married At First Sight Show Wants A Woman Who Will Respect Him: Sexist!Oh definitely. I don’t blame men much though, they haven’t had good role models for the past few decades. We just need a resurgence of values, I mean men like Dean are starting to come forward. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/17 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: DecemberOf course, that is fine! Though I will be starting a new thread soon this week :) Nine of Cups + Eight of Wands = At this stage, there is a good chance of being a united family, however, his older sister does see your attempts to get along with her a bit too pushy. Leave her be and let her come to you when she feels like trying to get along. Focus on yourself and don't stress yourself out about this more than you need to. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/17 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: DecemberNo worries, I hope this resonates with you or makes sense :) Nine of Wands + Seven of Pentacles R = If this man is a bit patient with how guarded you can be instead of attacking you for it, he can definitely be the right one. The right one will observe you and why you have guarded behaviour (don't abuse it though) and try to understand. Return the favour and give him credit. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/17 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Camille Paglia - Women should regard men with a mix of gratitude and rational fearVery true. I could say I am a woman who really fits this description. I’m just content to live, making and maintaining a home with a couple of side pursuits as intellectual challenges. Otherwise, I don’t feel the need to really build anything or leave a legacy, I don’t feel the pressure. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/17 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Help with incompatibility issues in relationship.Sometimes some people are criers and that’s just how you process information and emotion. You need to cry it out for a bit and empty it so you can get some clear logic in your head. He just needs to accept that this is just how you process things and that it isn’t personal. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/17 10:42 AM |
| 2 | I’m a 22-year-old alpha widow and I need help.I’m actually not too familiar with the system and some of the terms, maybe this user is describing themselves or their experience 😝 | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/17 10:36 AM |
| 4 | I’m a 22-year-old alpha widow and I need help.I don't think that's the term for it.. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/17 05:51 AM |
| 4 | I’m a 22-year-old alpha widow and I need help.They aren't, I think they are out there, you just need to know how to look for and filter for them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/17 05:51 AM |
| 3 | I’m a 22-year-old alpha widow and I need help.I can only agree with every point here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/17 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Don't be fat.Being fat ain’t all that. I agree with you completely. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/17 12:44 AM |
| 1 | How to talk to my brother about his lazy gold digging gfThere isn’t much you can do, he has to learn the hard way. This girl is horrible and wasting her time, she should be taking care of your brother instead. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/17 12:42 AM |
| 5 | Gaining Social GraceI recommend How To Be A Hepburn In A Kardashian World and A Guide To Elegance. Lovely books to start with! | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/17 12:40 AM |
| 15 | He's not fighting fair and it hurtsNo, show him that you can stick to your word. When you say you will leave (say it to him bluntly but respectfully) then leave. Don’t let him toy with you using guilt. Show him that you are steadfast with your boundaries- that is teaching him to respect you and not walk all over you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/17 12:35 AM |
| 2 | My boyfriend is broken.Marriage is about faith, does he have faith in you or not? We are not talking about all women, just you. Are the things that you have done for him in the relationship and your personality proven to be deserving of faith? If yes, then he should know that you are deserving of trust. Otherwise, he is choosing not to trust, he is choosing to keep looking at the past, you shouldn’t put up with that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/17 12:33 AM |
| 50 | I’m a 22-year-old alpha widow and I need help.Don’t go for a OTT alpha or a beta- find a guy with a balance of both sides, that’s what we endorse here the most. Seriously, there are in betweens and many guys who have the confidence and decision making skills of an alpha but the caring and considerate nature of betas. It doesn’t have to be this or that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/17 12:31 AM |
| 3 | How to add positivity to high value male life.I think everyone wants to be desired to some extent, even women. Desires can definitely manifest in feminine domestic work that can be done, after all you’re showing how much you want to care of him as the breadwinner. In essence you are honouring him as a provider and protector, one that you respect and desire. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/12/17 01:22 PM |
| 1 | How to add positivity to high value male life.I don’t disagree with that. I think he would desire you even more for not only taking care of him personally but also freeing up his time all week. It’s a lot more personal and affectionate. In my family we have almost every evening free just to relax and have quality time and it’s been the same when I’m at my SO’s during the weekday. The evening is all to ourselves. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/12/17 03:23 AM |
| 4 | How to add positivity to high value male life.It’s not about the money saved, it’s also about the time you save him from having to do it. Time is the much more important factor here than money ever could be. With the cooking as well, that’s something you can do and cannot be replaced to the exact by someone else. A warm home, personalised home cooked meals and more quality time in the evenings and weekends is worth much more than a $100. That’s just money. Time is priceless. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/17 11:59 PM |
| 3 | How to add positivity to high value male life.You’ll be surprised. Some guys rely on the other house members to do it or hire cleaners. Cleaners are more common than people think. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/17 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: DecemberOh I’m glad that made sense to you! Sometimes I feel like I’m just rambling. Don’t rush into anything financially, take your time, you have the time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/17 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Your husband or your child?This is definitely the way I think about it too. At the end of the day, children will come and then go their own way, your husband is your partner for life since you chose him to be that person. Both of you need to put each other first, aside from essential needs of the children. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/17 05:23 AM |
| 4 | Do Traditional Gender Roles Benefit Children?I truly believe in this as well. I was raised in a household with gender roles and I believe this was what had made my childhood very balanced, there was a clear leader and order in the household- my father. Moving here to Australia, where the roles were starting to be blurred, under cultural pressure and there was too much independence, was when my family broke down and divorce followed not long after. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/17 05:21 AM |
| 11 | How to add positivity to high value male life.Definitely, showing all this already makes you stand out from most women out there. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/17 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: DecemberOh I hope it does resonate with you! It can be a bit confusing for the first time. Judgement + Ace of Pentacles R: Focus on looking at yourself and seeing what baggage needs to be left behind so you can face this year with a stronger self who has less on their shoulders. try not to make big financial decisions unless you can be truly sure of positive outcomes, it's best to let financial matters run their course so you have more time to judge and see its true nature first. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/17 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: DecemberYou can still ask! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/17 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Happy December! Some Christmas Tips For The Early Bird LadiesWell, you could start off with having the basic Christmas dinner or lunch and have some music just for atmosphere and a bit of time in between (so maybe invite people a bit earlier?) so that people can just relax and start naturally doing something they enjoy while waiting for the food (or bring an activity), then that can become a 'thing' or tradition! It's up to you, at the end of the day. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/17 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: DecemberIt is a bit general, for me the cards tend to give very particular advice and here is what they say on the year in terms of romance. I hope it helps. Two of Pentacles R + Nine of Wands = Don't be afraid to follow your instinct and take some opportunities in romance. Your fear of not being able to manage a relationship or even the decisions and challenges in a relationship will only hinder you if you let the fears become rampant. Acknowledge they're there then move on to see the opportunities. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/17 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: DecemberYou’re welcome! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/17 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: DecemberThat’s lovely! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/17 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: DecemberCongratulations! I hope this will give you some ideas. Queen of Swords + Ace of Wands = Keep a logical mind, by that have a good record or idea of everything exciting you are planning so you know to count your blessings and at the same time keep on top of plans. There will be lots of energy to start you off so grasp that energy and make the most of it when it comes! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/17 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: DecemberNo worries! I pulled out some cards for you and I hope this helps. Eight of Pentacles R + Three of Swords R = You need to leave some serious emotional baggage behind. It may feel regretful and unfinished yet that's all there is and you need to focus on newer, positive things that are waiting for you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/17 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: DecemberThanks for the question! I can understand what you mean, I hope this resonates with you. Seven of Pentacles + Wheel of Fortune R = Take a good, long look at yourself and what you have achieved so far. Be honest and take your time, acknowledge your past rejections and failures, identify the lesson and then let them go. Then, move on to your achievements and strengths and truly analyse them, then own up to them as the positives in your life. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/17 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Happy December! Some Christmas Tips For The Early Bird LadiesOh I have separate traditions for my family and my SO (and our future family) :) My family's traditions are to observe the Christmas Eve and have steak, listening to Christmas music in our traditional language. With my SO, we will watch White Christmas and listen to Bing Crosby's Christmas album. Though these are interchangeable! | /r/RedPillWives | 07/12/17 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: DecemberNo worries! I'll try to focus on more specific questions since I'm only doing short, two or three card readings, though I did get something insightful from what I drew for you. This is advice for the year. I hope it resonates with you. Queen of Cups + Eight of Swords = Keep your emotions in control throughout challenges you may face this year. If you are frustrated or stressed, find a healthy way to let them out and don't bottle them up to the point it might become an outburst that might serious… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/17 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: NovemberThank you so much! I truly appreciate it :) We are getting through, step by step! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/17 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Happy December! Some Christmas Tips For The Early Bird LadiesWell that’s definitely early! I just like to plan ahead of the December rush, I’ve finished present shopping and will only get a couple more decor things. I know what food will be served on Christmas and our activities, haha. I’m pretty over the top! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/12/17 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Happy December! Some Christmas Tips For The Early Bird LadiesOh I haven’t heard of this, thanks for the link! I think I will definitely try this as well after I see what my family thinks of it. Thanks! It is just a random idea that I’m glad I came up with! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/17 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Happy December! Some Christmas Tips For The Early Bird LadiesWow that is definitely a different perspective! I’ve been places where they started some little Christmas cheer all the way from September, so it’s good to hear us Aussies are not too late then :) | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/17 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Happy December! Some Christmas Tips For The Early Bird LadiesThank you! It just came to me these days, randomly. It is definitely exciting to be able to celebrate Christmas the way you want to, independently! You can have traditions with your inner family or with your new family with your SO, for sure. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/17 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Homemaking & cosy catastrophesLovely to hear and I feel for you, fellow Melburnian! The weather has just been horrid and I definitely feel that cosiness calling to me. It’s great how you view this as a great way to connect with your family and spend quality time :) I plan to do the same! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/17 09:57 AM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesday: November Pt. 2Of course, I do enjoy being able to help and practising my skills at the same time. :) Good luck! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/17 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: November Pt. 2Of course! I myself have been quite late too due to all of the recent events. I hope this resonates with you. The Hanged Man + Ace of Cups: Your relationship seems to have been in need of some serious re-thinking and perspective shifts recently. It's time to keep that empathy for your partner, an understanding and to learn to be giving of love to start the kindles all over again. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/17 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Handling Hardships: Discrimination and Being There For Your SOThank you very much! I do appreciate it when somebody can see my perspective. This person has been through that though spent most of it working, having not had much of a choice then due to the desperate circumstance. That is the value of family, which I regard more highly than a second salary. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/17 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: November Pt. 2Oh that’s great! Good to know it resonates with you :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/17 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: November Pt. 2That's alright, I can understand as I have been here and there just recently. I hope this will resonate with you and help you out with some ideas! The Tower + Page of Wands R = There will still be a lot of changes and adjustments you may struggle through, keep your goals and your motivations clearly down and in front of you so you don't lose sight of who you are and what you stand for. Hold on to your values and identity. If not, start reflecting and writing these things down. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/17 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: November Pt. 2I hope this resonates with you! Two of Swords R + Two of Coins R = It seems like you might have to make some choices first about what you really want and what you will settle with before going into the fray, otherwise there would be too much confusion with the options! | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/17 05:22 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: November Pt. 2Hi there, you're very welcome and I hope this helps, thank you! The Star R + Two of Swords = Having to split yourself between both might spread you too thin and you might lose a bit of focus, it seems like having one at a time would be best for now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/17 05:20 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: November Pt. 2Thank you very much, I do appreciate it! I like having some distraction. The Hanged Man R + Page of Coins R = Expect to make some changes and reconsider your financial plans and remember to be flexible. Look at the financial situation through other people's perspectives and you will be able to make good adjustments. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/17 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: November Pt. 2No worries! I really do enjoy this and thank you for the well wishes! The Star R + Strength R = Focus on how you can help each other with your weaknesses at the moment. Is there something they are struggling with that you can help with? A personal problem whether big or small? A habit they want to get rid of? Develop some good habits and learn to 'catch each other'. Ie. If he is forgetful, develop a listing system to help him remember things (not in a forceful way at all). | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/17 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: November Pt. 2I'm sorry to hear that! It definitely can be helpful to have a bit outside insight into this, I hope this resonates with you. Six of Swords R + Eight of Cups = You need to still yourself and take care of yourself outside all these problems. There is a saying, let the problems get tired of you, not you get tired of them. You've been swept away by the emotions and drama, you need to step out of that and have your own space for a little bit to regain your strength and logical thinking. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/17 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Handling Hardships: Discrimination and Being There For Your SOIt also depends on where you are. If anything, start a small side business to help support things so you still have time at home. If you are in a first world country, you wouldn't have to worry about being hungry with no roof over your head, unless you're an old white male. Things can be worked out. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/11/17 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: November Pt. 2Oh, good luck with that! :) Five of Wands + Knight of Wands R: There may be a bit of workplace competition or conflict around you, just stay in the background and observe. Don't get involved or try to get yourself to stand out, even if you want to do the right thing. Just focus on yourself and what you do, the best improvements can only be achieved by your own discipline and no one else's pressure! | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/11/17 01:22 PM |
| 3 | Handling Hardships: Discrimination and Being There For Your SOLook, I am chill. I just had a moment. It has been a heavy couple of weeks with both families and hospitalisations- people are allowed to have a moment then regain themselves. We're just human. Well the thing is, this person said it off-handedly to someone else in front of me, not saying it directly to me, I wouldn't know how to interject! I just kept doing what I was doing, some needlework and ignored it, even when I was starting to get upset. Though I like your comeback though :) I'll keep it … | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/11/17 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: November Pt. 2Ooh, a fellow anxious person when it comes to driving! I think I need a bit of a reading for that myself too. The Emperor + Ace of Coins = You will build more confidence if you start small. Set small driving goals for your practice and gradually increase the difficulty. Make sure you have a supportive person who cheers you on for this! Ten of Swords + The Lovers = It's up to you really, though I think this person may have a lot to talk about, a lot going on in their life, both good and bad. You … | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/11/17 01:19 PM |
| 3 | Handling Hardships: Discrimination and Being There For Your SOThanks a lot, it's good to hear something refreshing like that. I definitely will be there for him, even my own family as both our families are now going through things, it's been hectic and emotionally tiring though you get through it. I definitely think it is jealousy and a bit bitter, I also believe in that anyone can replace you in your job though not as a wife at home for your partner or mother to your children. That's quite a nice story! That's good she managed to get degrees, even when sh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/11/17 01:14 PM |
| 2 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomThanks for asking and giving a background to your situation! Four of Wands + Page of Cups: This course, at this moment, seems to be a good fit for you, even if you feel you are a little too 'under' for it. Concentrate on the foundations you already have and use that to your advantage, what you may already know or be familiar with in this course. You're welcome! | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/11/17 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: NovemberThank you for your question and for reaching out to me! :) I apologise for the delay, I've just had some family emergencies going on though I'm back for the meantime! High Priestess + Ace of Cups: There are great opportunities to seize however they will only appear when you are feeling balanced with clear goals in mind. This means emotional balance, you are open to interactions and ready for new experiences. Keep being open, friendly and take new opportunities to meet people (naturally), when th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/11/17 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: NovemberNo worries! I do wish you the best! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/11/17 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Donald & Melanie Interview (2005)That’s a phrase feminists love to just hurl at women. Donald takes care of her but only as a man’s traditional role to provide and protect, you don’t see her running around in gold cars and buying mansions for herself. She is wise for her years and knows how to support her husband well with her traditional Eastern European values. She is a great wife. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/11/17 02:10 PM |
| 13 | Donald & Melanie Interview (2005)Definitely a graceful and powerful woman. She doesn’t have to be overt to show it, which is why so many underestimate her and that’s their weakness. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/11/17 11:34 PM |
| 1 | What is the mans vs womens "jobs" in a RPW household?I definitely see how busy she can be. Yet I stand by the inside and outside arrangement. Your mother had plenty ty of preferences to how often she cleaned, in my personal experience, it is not necessary to clean to that extent so regularly and she prefers to do some things the long way. Which is what took all her time since she had these preferences, not because of the uneven split. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/11/17 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: NovemberNo worries! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/17 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: NovemberAre you dire in terms of money? Could you lose your house or go hungry? Aside from those core essentials, maybe you can compromise on everything else and make some sacrifices. I hope things turn out well for you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/17 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: NovemberOf course! Six of Wands + Five of Wands = You seem to march headlong into these relationships without covering all bases properly. Once you hear 'let's see how it goes', get out of there already before it gets worse. Personally, I would think you need to just make sure marriage is a goal for this guy (whether with you or not, just that he actually wants marriage as a direction) before even doing anything. You should be able to talk about it. I would also say personally, men like that are bitter … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/17 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: NovemberIn this context, I would interpret the cards are saying you have done the right thing by putting yourself out there and to continue doing that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/17 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: NovemberI just hope it helps, you're welcome! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/17 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: NovemberThe only thing I can personally recommend is to look at others who are less fortunate to have a sense of the bigger picture. Stop and appreciate simple moments like a sunset or a good song. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/11/17 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: NovemberThe focus here is with the card, The Sun. Be a shining beacon to others and emit happiness and gratitude. This is a habit you would need to learn by being positively mindful and just paying attention to things to be happy about. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/11/17 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: NovemberOh that's great you got some ideas from that! :) I really hope it turns out well for you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/11/17 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: NovemberThat is definitely quite the situation, I too would be confused in that context. I hope this helps! King of Wands R + Two of Swords R: It seems he is intent on it, however, like he says now he isn't ready yet for it, there are still many things for him to consider and settle on, he's not the type of guy to rush headlong into marriage. Your ages may be a factor too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/11/17 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: NovemberThat makes it difficult. I would say from the cards to maybe try other things to take up your time. Maybe you can take some time off so you can clear your head of the teaching stress? So then in turn you can help him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/11/17 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: NovemberOf course, please do take care of yourself and I hope it helps! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/11/17 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: NovemberOh it's good to hear from a fellow reader! I'm a little confused about your situation, however, I hope what the cards say makes sense to you. Any feedback is welcome! King of Swords R + Two of Swords R: Take a step out of your comfort zone. Your overwhelming need for order and familiarity has made you a little too comfortable and is stifling your growth. Let go a little bit of rigidity and see what opportunities come in. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/11/17 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: NovemberThat is definitely quite the dilemma- I hope my reading gives you some food for though! Four of Swords + Ace of Pentacles R = This doesn’t seem to be the time to find a mentor, you need a break after that and just time to focus on everything else. After a bit time and you feel less sore (and has more time and energy) about the last mentor, then search again. For now just take it easy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/17 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: NovemberOh that’s so great to hear! I’m quite happy to see that my ideas can help :) Ten of Swords + The Sun: It’s up to them pursue you and it’s up to you to keep shining in your life. Focus on your improvement and your enjoyment in life. The more you shine and show your improvement and your happiness, the more people in general will be attracted to you- then you can just have your pickings, whether it’s this person or not. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/17 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesday: NovemberI hope this might help you, any feedback is welcome! Ten of Pentacles R + Hanged Man: Try to think about this in his perspective. When you show distrustful behavior, how do you think it would make him feel about himself? Would you want someone to feel like that? You don’t want him to feel insecure and unwanted too as a result of your behavior. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/17 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: NovemberI’m sorry to hear that, I hope this will give you some ideas! Any feedback is welcome. Five of Pentacles + The Hierophant: You need to get your values down exactly and what your non negotiable s are and vet for them straight away with your partner. Don’t take any negative emotions from the past relationships into this one, this is supposed to be a fresh start. Talk about the future and marriage as soon as possible- have a concrete direction or you might just lose any path you both have together. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/17 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: NovemberOh that sounds tough! I hope this resounds with you and can help. Any feedback is welcome. Nine of Wands + King of Wands R: Try not to bring home what you feel at work, ask for your partner’s help when you are feeling stressed and helpful. Let your husband help, he would want to- don’t push him away. Find solace in each other. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/17 10:14 PM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesday: NovemberI’m glad you liked my insights, I’m only happy that they helped! :) Definitely it seemed like you learned a lot from the experience and you’re on the right track. Two of Wands + Four of Pentacles R: It seems the cards believe that there is still great hope in your relationship. Focus on being grateful, like you said, yet at the same time be generous in the way that you are open to ideas and thoughtful. Surprise him with something lovely like a gift or a romance-related thing sometime just to sho… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/17 10:12 PM |
| 2 | What is the mans vs womens "jobs" in a RPW household?Oh goodness really? Was it a big house or lots of kids? She must have worked so hard. That’s fortunate for your father though. If your mother did enjoy gardening then that must have given her some relief. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/17 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Slave to My FiancéDitto. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/17 08:47 PM |
| 3 | What is the mans vs womens "jobs" in a RPW household?There is a balance in between and at least your mother would have had more flexibility in those hours instead of being in a confined workplace. It works for both parties. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/17 08:45 PM |
| 5 | Slave to My FiancéI’m sorry but your friends are ignorant and hurtful. It may be wise to either distance yourself from their discouragement or at least keep that part of your life away from them. You definitely know what you’re doing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/17 08:43 PM |
| 2 | We love and respect our men.I get what you mean, I am in awe when I see how hard he is working and I too become so motivated! | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/17 12:39 PM |
| 5 | We love and respect our men.My father raised my sibling and I alone, after my mother proved that she was irresponsible and unfit. He braved against the odds of society against him, the discrimination for being a single father and provided for us all on his own. He knows how to manage money so well, that he can do this and still provide for us the things that we want. We never wanted for anything, we were never hungry. He is so strong and as he is younger, he feels like my best friend who I can be so open to at the same tim… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/17 05:37 AM |
| 8 | What is the mans vs womens "jobs" in a RPW household?Basically domestic work for women, the general rule is, save for repairs of machinery, anything outside the house is a man’s task. Garage, lawn, BBQ, things like that and etc. if it’s inside the house’s walls, that’s a woman’s task, such as cleaning and cooking, decorating. Of course you can always ask for help if something is too physically strenuous, like lifting heavy items- though of course that normally isn’t a part of regular chores and tasks. Women can definitely run the errands since the… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/17 05:24 AM |
| 30 | Slave to My FiancéYou, a slave? Who’s the real slave? The woman whose boss is her husband and her home, with flexible hours and more quality time for her family or those stuck at 9-5 with a boss doesn’t really care outside of those hours? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/17 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Some Funny Images To Brighten Your Day :)Sent this to my SO and he loved it! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/10/17 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Some Funny Images To Brighten Your Day :)Same for my house and also my SO! :) Hehe | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/17 11:41 PM |
| 3 | What made you decide to continue being a SAHM or get a part time job? (If you were given a choice)If you’re in a developed Western country, true hardship isn’t really a threat, you wouldn’t find yourself hungry or on the streets. Everything else above basic needs is just a preference. Do you prefer this or that above having time with your children? Though I think having a small side thing to actually just keep you mentally active is also good, just watch the balance. Once a week or even something casual from home would be great. Coming from an immigrant who left a third world place to Austra… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/17 04:14 AM |
| 7 | What do you ACTUALLY wear around the house?I do this too to an extent! When I look great, I feel great and I think when you’re doing domestic work at home it still is work, so you may not be dressed to go out, but in a simple and pretty way. Oh and we’re name twins! | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/10/17 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Romantic Victories!Oh so true, I think you’ve put it very well! | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/17 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Romantic Victories!Oh that is just adorable! I’m not too good with hairstyles and I stick to a classic wave, though my whole wardrobe is basically 40s/50s. It’s just my style of dress and my SO is very similar so we are like a matching pair! I completely agree with you on that and I think in general, people just don’t think about their beginnings anymore. It is past and you are not the same people as you were before, yet it still is a part of you and has a lot of emotional significance in your relationship. It alw… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/17 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Romantic Victories!Oh that sounds so romantic! That’s definitely a good way to rekindle nostalgia. My SO and I will recreate our first few dates after this, maybe I’m just overly sentimental though I just like the idea of reliving those wonderful times. What we have now is also wonderful, though I don’t want to forget our beginnings! | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/17 12:24 PM |
| 5 | Romantic Victories!It’s nearly our first year anniversary and we will be ‘recreating’ our first meeting/coffee this weekend and I’m just so thrilled! I suggested it so we could reconnect with our past selves just for a bit and just rekindle that nostalgia, since why not? I’ll be wearing what I did on that day and so will he, walking in there like that very first time. All over again. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/17 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Best homemaking resources?Congratulations, what a wonderful direction you’re going in and I hope you’re positively excited! I suggest going to some craft groups where there will be retired women (preferably 70 and above, they are pre feminist), these women will take you under their wing and have some great advice :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/10/17 11:47 AM |
| 2 | Best homemaking resources?Oh thanks for the reference! I’m actually quite touched and feeling a little bashful now.. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/10/17 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Why Do You Have Faith In Your Man?Oh, I think that makes sense in your context. I definitely have a different background to that. For me I think faith and trust have a rapport, as in to why you have them, there must be a reason, a good reason that you see in your SO. If you've known him since high school, there's already a lot of unspoken, experienced context there. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/10/17 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberThat. Exactly that. Be a ray of sunshine, really. Enjoy everything around you and be grateful even for the smallest yet happy moments. Online dating is not as overwhelming as you think, you just have to know how to vet. Have you checked out our sidebar? There are some great tips there. I met my SO online and it was the best thing, since I managed to vet many people without having to meet them first. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/17 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Why Do You Have Faith In Your Man?I wouldn’t call it gratitude and more just something the SO deserves to know. I don’t see how a declaration of expectations can be part of saying ‘I have faith in you and this is why.’ You’re just talking about something that is already and not something you expect in the future. I just work on the premise of, well, he deserves to know why I think he’s just absolutely awesome and why I believe in him, a lot of men would be proud of themselves when they hear these things. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/17 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberWhile that is a good thing to have in the back of your mind, it shouldn’t be a focus and should stay in the back of your mind. Focus on other ways to improve yourself, don’t do it just because of that desperation, it’s better to find somebody on a positive note. Oh and finding people in university sort of sucks, look outside university. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/17 01:32 PM |
| 2 | Why Do You Have Faith In Your Man?You can, or you can just bring it up when you're happy together. Just ask him lightly, do you know why I support/have faith in you? Then you can just answer, this can be very positive and a light discussion, it doesn't need to be heavy or overly emotional. Depends on the situation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/17 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberHere we are and I'm back! Any feedback is welcome. Nine of Wands R + Ten of Cups: Have a good look at your main fears when it comes to entering a relationship. Have you actually taken measures to address them? If you're still fearing then you may need to do some inner work before meeting others. For example, if you have a problem of trust, have you taken issues to minimise or manage that, something like a proper vetting list or a list of values you need in order to trust someone? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/17 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Why Do You Have Faith In Your Man?I understand what you mean, it may not always be necessary since that depends on context though going over these things can't hurt and might be able to do some good. It is quite a positive discussion (or even just a statement) to have or make. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/17 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Why Do You Have Faith In Your Man?Amen! | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/17 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Why Do You Have Faith In Your Man?Oh you definitely have a point there. There are different preferences and my point was, it's good to go over these things if you haven't yet before, just for the sake of it since it can do some good. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/10/17 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Why Do You Have Faith In Your Man?That in itself is definitely hard to put into words, I know that feeling myself and I think one of my own weaknesses is being a clear communicator. I find myself stumbling through rambles, really. I have to think a lot before I even start a discussion. I think it is best to have these conversations simply when you're in front of each other, then you can see each other's expressions and even express affection when needed. It is much easier to communicate that way. Tell him it's not about him drag… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/17 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberThat's definitely both a good and nerve-wracking feeling! Any feedback is welcome. Two of Wands + Nine of Cups: Definitely there will be big moves and a lot of thinking and planning, as far as it looks right now. There will be some positive hopes and dreams for the future. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/17 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Why Do You Have Faith In Your Man?This can definitely be different depending on the man, whether it is support of faith, my point was just it would be good for him to know why you are giving him that support. It is less of a validation and more of just a positive explanation. To shed light on something a lot of people forget to talk about. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/17 02:46 AM |
| 3 | Why Do You Have Faith In Your Man?What I mean is not just handing compliments, it’s for him to know that you believe in him and what he does. Men strive for their families and I think the credit is due when it is. I’m also just saying it would be good to be explicit with your positive feelings with him at times, no harm in him knowing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/17 10:36 PM |
| 3 | Why Do You Have Faith In Your Man?Oh that’s lovely! Sometimes some men don’t really like talking or chatting and being open though they would prefer to listen and if you’re clear and honest, they’ll like hearing it or even reading it anyway :) That’s sweet! | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/17 10:34 PM |
| 3 | Why Do You Have Faith In Your Man?Well you’ve said a couple of times he’s good and you have faith, have you told him why? Did you give examples? He is going through a rough time, though based on your context I think one of these days you have to stand up for yourself and hold him responsible for his emotions. He can’t be angry and frustrated and you’re having to feed him compliments, he has to get up some point, accept his situation and decide to move forward with determination, even if he had to drag his feet through the mud. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/17 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Why Do You Have Faith In Your Man?I wouldn’t say this as just a compliment, I would say more of giving complete context and explanation behind the compliment. I think saying that you have faith in him isn’t much of a compliment and more of a very positive promise. It’s just good for him to know exactly why. Even if you just explain it once. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/10/17 10:31 PM |
| 1 | He offer me an official ring, but don't want to wear any ring himselfWell that definitely makes it confusing though I get what you’re trying to say. Hm well, then in that case, we would advocate for the strongest and most secure form of commitment, marriage or not. Personally I think, if you have have that, PACS or marriage, both people should be wearing a ring. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/17 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Why Do You Have Faith In Your Man?I completely agree. A proper statement with context is clear and easy to understand. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/17 10:27 PM |
| 2 | He offer me an official ring, but don't want to wear any ring himselfI don’t think I can understand PACS, though here at RPW we strongly encourage marriage as the end goal. I don’t think we can help much if you do have different goals. Marriage is more secure and is the ultimate symbol of commitment. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/17 01:30 PM |
| 4 | I am so proud of my husband!It's alright, I don't mind at all :) I agree! | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/17 12:31 PM |
| 6 | I am so proud of my husband!I’m not married though I am so proud of my SO’s kindhearted-ness. He is very understanding. When we have serious discussions, he definitely tries to look at everything with many perspectives, even so far as asking others (who he knows has more wisdom and experience than him) for advice. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/17 10:36 AM |
| 3 | He offer me an official ring, but don't want to wear any ring himselfI think you should find a compromise. Agree to wear the ring but set a definite date for the wedding not too long after so he would have to wear his ring too. You don’t want to be engaged too long anyway, since you’ve been together for ten years already! Time for marriage. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/17 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberYou can still ask if you like and thank you! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/17 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberI'm not naturally a spiritual person and the main reason I pursued tarot was people said I had potential there, not inherently as a hobby or just for fun. I like the opportunity, though it did surprise me. I'm glad you're enjoying my readings! I don't mind another reading, it's alright :) I hope it helps. Judgement R + Knight of Wands R = It doesn't seem like he is ready to let it go yet and this means you both need to focus on what he needs (or needs to do) to be able to finally let it go. Othe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/17 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberI do not know if you are in a relationship now or not so how you take this may differ. Any feedback is welcome! Two of Cups + Six of Pentacles = There are so many connections to be made, either with others or your partner. Be generous and it will return to you tenfold. Just show how loving and warm you can be, it's a good time to do so and people will really be receptive to it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/17 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberThat's alright, you're welcome! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/17 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Entertaining, Recipes, Crafts, Decor, Hobbies, etc. Megathread 10/18/2017They are definitely quite popular with just about anyone! :) | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/17 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberAs long as it’s helping then I’m good with that! :) Take from it what helps you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/17 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberYou're welcome! In this case, here is the cards' advice. You can decide what to do with it. Five of Pentacles R + Seven of Coins R = Don't nurture what you have any more and leave it be, focus on what is the next big thing for you in self-improvement. Do you have some issues or flaws you may want to work on or some aspirations about yourself? It's time to be a bit reflective and do some inner growing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/17 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Entertaining, Recipes, Crafts, Decor, Hobbies, etc. Megathread 10/18/2017I’ve started embroidery recently! I already cross stitch and knit, any advice or resources would be great :) | /r/RedPillWives | 19/10/17 08:49 AM |
| 1 | When you get tired of asking for help!Try to balance it? When it gets really too heavy, let him help or lighten the freelance work. Just during those tight times and don’t push yourselves too much. Your husband definitely sounds great, I think trading some of the money earned for a bit of relief from the great stress is worth it. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/10/17 08:48 AM |
| 3 | Stay at home housewifeFirst off, well done for accepting yourself, the judgement of society, especially other women, is the worst and it is a constant struggle. It is totally fine to want that, you are earning time and not money, you’re still earning if you think of it that way. The fact your husband is thrilled is the best you can ask for, it is his approval you would need above everyone else since he will be your partner in life and your provider. Everyone else doesn’t really mater and if they love you, they will r… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/10/17 08:42 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberNo worries! Just remember this is a guide, any feedback is welcome. Four of Pentacles R + Ace of Cups R = He doesn't seem to be ready for a relationship, he isn't emotionally mature or ready and would prefer to be away from the hassles that can come from a relationship. It seems very blurry at this stage. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/17 04:11 AM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberCongratulations! I hope you both celebrate your time together and enjoy yourselves. The Emperor R + The Queen of Swords: It seems these cards represent the two of you. The deepest threat for you both is for him to lose sight of his leadership role and become very misguided or even let go of his leadership, causing you to try and step in as leader, which is not optimal considering your preferences. Keep him sharp as a leader and always encourage to lead and take responsibility, praise him when cr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/17 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberI think this will definitely take some time, so both of you shouldn't rush! It is a gradual process. You're welcome :) So I once bought a tarot deck out of curiosity when I was 17, it wasn't a traditional but rather artistic deck. My family was still somewhat religious and cautious of such things at the time so I didn't really use it but I admired it. Years later I came across a tarot workshop in a New Age store and decided to try my hand at it. People told me there that I had a really great sen… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/17 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberYou're welcome! I'd love any feedback. Death R + Three of Wands = It's time for some change of pace, there may be some hidden opportunities and pursuing local/freelance work that you haven't explored. Aside from the cards and me personally, I think that if there is an unforeseen catastrophe, it would only strengthen your resilience and make you all a stronger family. Families do get tested. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/17 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberOh my! I'll try not to, you're welcome haha :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/17 02:18 AM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberOh goodness, I'm glad they're accurate! It still surprises me when people say how accurate I am, since I definitely do not like to claim I am, just in case. I'm just happy it helped! Two of Coins + Four of Cups R = I'll be general. He sees you two as having moved on from that recent bump and wanting to just leave that behind. There are some decisions to be made about deepening your relationship. Are you ready to trust each other with very sensitive areas of your life? | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/17 02:17 AM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberI never thought of it that way and to be honest, I didn't think I would be this accurate! It's good to know though :) I hope you're not too creeped out! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/17 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Tell your LTR what you needDefinitely! Though some people may know this and not be so good at executing it. That was what I meant. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Tell your LTR what you needDefinitely I agree with this, however, there are certain, healthy ways to do it and I’m sure all the details regarding that are in the sidebar. I recommend the Bring Your Captain The Problem, Not The Solution approach. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you RPW cook with your husband or boyfriend (sometimes)?I’m the opposite and I look at it very differently, according to gender roles. I take great pride in my cooking and since my SO doesn’t really cook (save for frying or grilling meat, basically) I’ve claimed that domain and really want to do great in it. I do enjoy when he grills things though there’s just something really special about it when I can present him complete and elaborate meals just to spoil him all the time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberThat sounds tough, good luck! I hope this helps. The Empress R + Ace of Coins R: Focus on your natural talents and believe in that, use your strengths. Money issues, even small, may occur at this time, as they do with most people, however, don't fixate on it to the point it will distract you from this important exam. The Magician R + Knight of Wands: Don't forget to reach out to your friends when times get tough or if you're feeling a bit hopeless. They can't help you if they don't know what is … | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberThis is a great thing to pursue! I hope this helps with it. The Tower R + Death: Definitely there are big changes, have a mindset of flexibility and be open to change in your weight loss plans and even everyday plans. Don't berate yourself and be carried away by the negative emotions when things don't go according to plan to the letter and focus on the big picture. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberThat's alright, any feedback is welcome! The Empress + Ace of Cups R: This sounds strange but turn off your emotions and daydreaming before you go to sleep. Your thoughts tend to stray too much and you'll end up just feeling too much rather than being tired and falling asleep. Exercise before bed if need be or read a book and focus on other distracting topics. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberYou're welcome! Any feedback would be great. The World R + Queen of Pentacles: When you have deep discussions, focus on when you have both personally faced obstacles and overcame them, rather than everything that has gone right so far. When he realises either how mature you've become or what you've gone through together while supporting each other, you will both be more willing to open yourselves emotionally. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 02:40 PM |
| 5 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberI hope it really helps! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 10:55 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberI’m glad you like them! I hope this helps, any feedback is welcome :) Nine of Cups R + Ten of Cups R = Manage your expectations and be realistic. Work on bettering yourself and recovering from the effects of this relationship, you need some space to breathe and learn more about yourself again. Don’t head into romance yet, you’re not ready. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberThat is definitely very tricky! I hope this helps, any feedback is welcome. Eight of Wands R + Four of Wands = The key is to approach everything carefully and slowly. You both know what the major issues are, put them on the table now and determine where you both stand and where you compromise (or not), discuss as if you are two professional companies and minimise emotional outbursts or any emotional attacks. Work through this all out before you decide to continue. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberFour of Wands R + Five of Wands R = Don't focus on finding true love, know yourself well, what you want and what you can offer. Conquer that hurdle first and everything else will be easier. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 07:36 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberThat's alright, I actually like letting the cards zone in on something themselves :) Any feedback is welcome. Three of Cups + Four of Swords = While things may get comfortable, don't get carried away and be lazy. Always find new things to engage in and do together, expensive or cheap, in or out of the bedroom. Continue having an adventure into the new. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 07:34 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberOh thanks! :) I definitely am touched! Any feedback is welcome. The Hanged Man R + Two of Cups R = You both need to make a decision to get past some major things. Past hurt or sensitivity that leads to mistrust and letting go to bring yourself to committing to each other. Look into yourself and ask what you are afraid of, he needs to do this too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberNo worries! :) I'm glad it helps. You need to be ready for the challenges that would come up and have more patience. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberIs it? Even I'm surprised! That's alright, ask away :) Knight of Cups R + Knight of Wands R = Don't rush him or even try to manipulate what he thinks. Just focus on pointing him to directions and letting him make what he thinks of it once he goes there. Like before, remind him of tradition, religion and family and let him make his discoveries and conclusions. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberNo worries! Any feedback is welcome :) Queen of Cups + Knight of Cups R = It seems you are good at making these connections though he may need some time to see how good you are with a relationship and may be less mature than you when it comes to love, he will have to learn from you, are you fine with that? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 03:48 AM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberOh that’s great, you’re welcome :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 03:45 AM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberOh that’s so great to hear! I’m happy you’re enjoying my content, even here :) Any feedback is welcome! The Hermit + Four of Swords = I don’t think that it lies with them and the relationship, you need to finalise yourself to be ready for a long term relationship and even marriage. Then you will instantly know if this will go somewhere or not. You need to mentally prepare yourself and try to tick all the boxes to show you are ready for full commitment and a future. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 03:10 AM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberThat’s alright! Just remember I’ll be general :) Any feedback is welcome. The Hierophant + The Moon = Your SO seems to be doing a lot of soul searching and may seem a little too distant or even quiet. If he needs help, he will most likely find a better direction in something familiar like tradition or religion. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberAny feedback is welcome! I’m sorry to hear about this situation. Eight of Swords R + Ten of Pentacles R: It seems like you should be ready for this to not work or for it to not work for a while. Brace yourself since it is a hard road. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 03:06 AM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberOh I didn’t know that! I think the most important thing is to be open, happy and ready for any conversation, that will light up the room! :) You’re welcome! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberI just hope it helps! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberAny feedback is welcome! The better question to ask would be 'how', at the end of the day it is up to you. Four of Swords R + Queen of Pentacles: As long as you resist any temptation to be just a wallflower or just observing too much, you will do great. Immerse yourself and be open to any conversations, have an air of brightness about you and people will be drawn to that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberYou're welcome! Any feedback is welcome. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 02:14 AM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberI usually don't read for other than the querent (you and about you) though I will give a general overview! King of Swords + Ten of Swords R: To him this is a really good spot, he is finally letting go of some major hurt or emotional pain in the past and for the first time in a long time, he feels he knows where he is at, where the relationship is at and where everything stands. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 02:08 AM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberAny feedback is welcome! Two of Swords + Seven of Swords R: Be cautious and focus on investigating more about your prospect, there's something major that you should know about him that you aren't seeing quite yet. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 02:06 AM |
| 5 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberThat can definitely be difficult. I hope this helps, any feedback is welcome. Queen of Cups + Six of Swords R: You are definitely ready for children, you as a person though I think your husband may have some insecurities deeper than he thought. He might possibly think that he may not be ready for children since he doesn't think he'd be a good father or a source of wisdom for your children. Explore this with him and talk gently. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 02:05 AM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesdays: OctoberThank you! It’s good to know they are accurate though I just hope they help! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/17 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Vetting For Marriage?Oh definitely! I agree that duties and roles within the household should be clearly set. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/10/17 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Vetting For Marriage?I think those questions definitely need to be asked! When those negative situations come up, it is important to observe. I believe in gender roles too, very strongly and I think they are a great key to a harmonious marriage. Weddings definitely led my recent thoughts to that area! :) | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/17 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Vetting For Marriage?What I mean before is that the more you are longer in a relationship the deeper you have to vet and think seriously when it comes to marriage. Of course I understand you would have a different experience and I'm happy to listen to more points about this! You are right about giving up vetting for marriage, I think. Congratulations once again! | /r/RedPillWives | 12/10/17 10:43 AM |
| 2 | Vetting For Marriage?I do understand that dating decisions are supposed to lead to marriage however I feel they are very over-the-surface that you can figure out within a few months if you know how to look and ask the right questions. When you are just standing right before marriage, I think it is a much deeper level. You bring up so many good points and I agree with them. Seeing how he reacts in negative situations definitely make a lot of sense, seeing him at his worst. As for roles I do think the more clearly the… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/17 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Vetting For Marriage?Another great point to have a look at, actually. Thanks for bringing that up! There are some guys out there that don't have priorities straight. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/17 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Vetting For Marriage?Oh! Definitely another point that hasn't been considered by some of the answers and I think having a talk about this is definitely going to be wise. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/17 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Vetting For Marriage?That's a great way to look at it and I think that is a very introspective question to ask, it's beyond just the logistics, yet considers an emotional reality. Interesting! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/17 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Vetting For Marriage?That's alright, thank you for the input! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/17 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Vetting For Marriage?Definitely. I think you're making a good point there and I agree with that. I'll reply to you soon by the way, I've just been away from my computer. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/17 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Vetting For Marriage?Oh of course, that definitely is an important part, having no debt would make things much easier. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/17 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Vetting For Marriage?Of course! I think for many people they want to marry in order to have a life together and have a family. I think you are right about the social statement. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/17 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Vetting For Marriage?Yes that's what I was asking and that makes a lot of sense! There are a lot of people who do marry quickly though and also have successful marriages- many of our family friends from the 50s to 70s. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/17 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Vetting For Marriage?Definitely this is a great thing to think about! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/10/17 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Vetting For Marriage?You mean just jump in to marriage? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/17 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Vetting For Marriage?These are wonderful questions to ask! Thanks for provoking some thought, I've always been curious about it. If there is a difference vetting for dating and vetting for marriage. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/17 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Surprised by the difference staying at home vs working made in our relationshipThat's cool, I'm glad you know that and you're making these choices that you're aware of For me that's still about money at the end of the day, impact, success and legacy- that's caused by money. For me impact, success and legacy is measured by other terms, that's just my personal opinion though. It's good you know of the trade off and you're reflective. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/17 10:05 PM |
| 11 | Surprised by the difference staying at home vs working made in our relationshipWhat a lovely reflection to read. I understand that working and having a full time career is now the norm and what people are normally proud of, however I hope you don't think that's lesser than a career or for that matter, your BF. The way you phrase how you are dependent on him financially- you may be however with more time on your hands he depends on you for time. Working part time or being at home doesn't earn money-it earns a different type of currency- time. It isn't any lesser and I truly… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/17 05:39 AM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesdays: September Pt.2Oh that's great! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/10/17 09:36 PM |
| 1 | There Are More Traditional Men Than Women Now, I Think!I think the case for men in terms of perspective might be different-- it's easier for a woman to see all the traditional men since it's easier for them to open up about being traditional to a woman who they realise is also traditional than other men or layperson since they wouldn't want risks. You don't know who to trust. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/17 02:10 PM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesdays: September Pt.2It's alright! :) Any feedback is welcome. The Fool R + Page of Coins R: Don't be hindered at all by any delays or setbacks in your goals for romance, you seem to take it to heart too easily. Look at the big picture always and keep a clear list (don't just feel your way in the dark) of your 'core' green and red flags in a man. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/17 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Article reminds us that everything falls apart when you try to destroy gender rolesI can only nod and agree! Roles gives a greater sense of responsibility and clear lines simply make it easier discussing and negotiating household management. There are no grey areas and people will become more proud since they are solely responsible for their assigned gender role tasks. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/09/17 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesdays: September Pt.2Awesome! | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/09/17 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Melania TrumpI would say much more than that based on the news, also if you follow her social media, you will also where she is a lot of the time and what's she's doing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/17 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Hiring a house keeper?Some women are like that and that's fine. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/17 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesdays: September Pt.2I only hope it does and I'm happy to be doing it! :) The Lovers R + The Chariot R = The cards think you need to slow down with both and just take some time to relax for yourself. Not being too harsh on yourself with schoolwork, not being overindulgent. What I mean is quiet time, down time where you can just enjoy being in the moment. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/17 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesdays: September Pt.2I hope it does help in some way! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/17 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesdays: September Pt.2As long as this helps, you're welcome! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/17 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Using your looksI'm quite small and I dress traditionally (vintage 50s style) so it helps when I work with kids, I've been told I look very maternal and warm, combined with my demeanor, which is very feminine. I'm proud of it! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/17 10:51 AM |
| 3 | Hiring a house keeper?I personally would not since I take pride in my homemaking. If ever my household has to get one I would only accept if I was heavily incapacitated or something like that, otherwise that reflects badly on me and my abilities. I dedicate plenty of time to homemaking over outside work. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/17 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesdays: September Pt.2Any feedback is welcome! The Fool + Ace of Cups: There is potential for the friendship to rekindle again though I think some things need to be laid on the table clearly (any due apologies, misunderstandings, honest statements) before they can finally be put aside for a new beginning. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/17 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesdays: September Pt.2No worries :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/17 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesdays: September Pt.2That's alright, you're welcome! Sometimes the family has the best interests but does not execute them well. Good luck! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/17 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesdays: September Pt.2That definitely sounds difficult, I hope these ideas help! Nine of Cups R + Nine of Swords R: The cards advise that it would be good to look for a career change, at least just to expose yourself to something new even just for a while, since you are weary and you wouldn't be able to relax at all with your current job. You might find something else you are passionate about if you try new things. Remember this is just an idea and at the end of the day, it's up to you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/17 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesdays: September Pt.2I'm sorry to hear that, that definitely can be difficult to just get them off your back! Any feedback is welcome, I hope this helps. Five of Wands + Five of Coins: There is something to be concerned about, keep campaigning with him and stand your ground as this may get messy and might get you down, though it will pass and it will be worth it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/17 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesdays: September Pt.2Of course, no worries! Any feedback is welcome. Eight of Wands + Two of Swords R: Stop sitting there and thinking- just start doing things. Whatever catches your interest, whether it is one thing or many things (even if the interest is just little), just try it and do it. You will find your motivation and passion for things will grow from actually being engaged with activities. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/17 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Melania TrumpThat's the thing, we barely even see her with her kids- I don't think we see a few hours of her, she's basically there wherever Trump is, it's always on the news. I think we know where she is most of the time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/17 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesdays: September Pt.2Oh that is just wonderful! :) That's basically solved. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/17 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesdays: September Pt.2I do find it challenging too and I actually get readings from someone else when it comes to myself! I'm sorry to hear about your situation, I hope this helps. Any feedback is welcome. Page of Swords R + Queen of Swords R: The cards are saying to leave as there is no practicality/sure way of him letting go of his fear, it's too big a risk. However, the cards also say to make sure that when you do leave, don't be bitter about your last relationship, find ways to be bright, appreciative and happy a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/17 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesdays: September Pt.2Oh I'm sorry to hear that. It can definitely be a struggle. I hope this helps! Any feedback is welcome. Ace of Coins R + The High Priestess R = Don't be carried away by impulses, because of the emotional tensions right now it could be easy to just lose it or make careless 'in the moment' decisions. Take things slow and consider all factors, make some time for you to actually just relax without having to think too much or let the tensions run too high. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/17 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesdays: September Pt.2No worries! I'm glad it has helped :) Any feedback is welcome. The World + Temperance: A great combination, show him how full of life you are and how you can find the brightness in everything. Also show your emotional strengths, such as being balanced in tense situations, not losing your cool, being a calm and wise (comforting too) advisor. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/17 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesdays: September Pt.2I see, I have pulled out some cards for you and I hope they resonate! Any feedback is welcome. The Lovers + Six of Swords R: It seems you are just hitting a minor bump in communication though it doesn't look like there is a major issue behind it. Focus on romance, actually. Spend some time in a romantic way through a date or an outing where it specifically encourages you both to interact and talk with each other, that might start to ease into more communication. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/17 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesdays: September Pt.2Oh that's great! :) It's good to have a set you love, though it is important that you feel connected to the cards rather than just attracted to their look or something. Try the book Tarot Plain and Simple by Anthony Louis. How I learned the tarot was basically studying three cards' meanings every night (First observing the pictures, how I felt about them then the actual meaning by the book and just making sense of it altogether) until I finished the whole deck! You're very welcome! I'm just so h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/17 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesdays: September Pt.2I'm glad you do! :) Any feedback is welcome. Knight of Cups + Five of Coins: It seems you did have an overly grandiose view of your career and school life that it was a little unrealistic, you are easily disappointed when it even slightly differs from what you perceived it would be. Knight of Swords + Eight of Cups: Let go of the unrealistic illusion you have set for yourself (it's good to dream, though not at the cost of your emotional and mental exhaustion) and stick to what you can practicall… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/17 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesdays: September Pt.2You're welcome! I hope you do get some useful ideas and any feedback is welcome~ Ten of Swords R + Page of Coins: Look at how he recovers from hardships and how he handles finances. Does he learn from his mistakes and get up from his lowest? Is he responsible in managing his money, even in the simplest ways (does he make his money work for him instead of the other way around)? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/17 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesdays: September Pt.2Oh I'm so glad! :D To see people follow up and get great results from some of the ideas here gives me the best satisfaction. Congrats! As always, any feedback is welcome. The Fool + Seven of Wands = It's a fruitful time, though of course some (even minor) inconveniences or hitches might happen, just make sure you are right there by his side ready to comfort and advice the moment he needs you. Stand by him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/17 02:53 PM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesdays: September Pt.2That's alright! I personally don't prefer apps since I like handling the cards personally, though if that is a great way for you then of course :) I'm glad it has lead to some great changes! Four of Coins + The Emperor: Stay exactly to your plans and don't be more meticulous or harsh on yourself than you need to be, such as adding more goals and making the conditions harder. Stick to your agreement with yourself and relax when you can. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/17 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Melania TrumpThere's an example right there. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/17 04:41 AM |
| 3 | Melania TrumpI love the approach she takes as a mother and wife, I think it's the right thing to do. I on the other hand don't like what Ivanka is doing as a mother - she's basically never there for her kids except maybe to sit there and take fancy instagram photos for social media and then I'm convinced she basically leaves for some other appointment. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/09/17 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Organising Christmas in September: Tips?Oh that's a great idea for kooky gifts! In my family people may take that a bit funny though I can see how that works with others :) It's totally okay since you were nesting! At least that made for an eventful Christmas! I actually want to make some garlands now though they would probably be fake as it's summer in Australia for Christmas. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/09/17 10:33 AM |
| 5 | There Are More Traditional Men Than Women Now, I Think!Good. :) I can't wait to be at the kitchen again and at home all day! I'm also excited to have babies. Best job ever, your boss is the love of your life. You control your own hours and everything you need is there. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/09/17 06:34 AM |
| 2 | Organising Christmas in September: Tips?Oh that's true! I don't write big but I write a lot so the A4 ones really help! There's a few playlists called Retro Christmas on Spotify that are great :) | /r/RedPillWives | 22/09/17 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberI'm on mobile at the moment so I wouldn't be able to reply with proper quotes though I'll address things in number detail to keep it clear. You've also missed my points and I'll reiterate them here. There's a difference between asking for validation and asking for ideas on how to improve. I don't see validation seeking in this thread, maybe your perception is different, I see people looking at their situation and wanting some extra perspectives on improvement. You can object to divination all yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/09/17 03:56 AM |
| 1 | There Are More Traditional Men Than Women Now, I Think!No worries! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/09/17 12:27 AM |
| 1 | There Are More Traditional Men Than Women Now, I Think!I think even before that some men just have the natural instinct to be traditional and protect and provide and be gentlemanly and they get frustrated when women don't act like ladies and treat them well. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/09/17 12:27 AM |
| 3 | There Are More Traditional Men Than Women Now, I Think!Do it. Add traditional to your profile, it scares the wrong type of men away though traditional guys will be immediately intrigued! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/17 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Organising Christmas in September: Tips?I think you make a very great point about having relationship traditions during the holidays- I actually think I need some time to think about this and talk about it with my SO. It will be my first Christmas with him so I might feel things out for this year and see how I go with that. I don't want to be overbearing and I just want to see what everyone in each family does first. I don't know my neighbours though I did plan some gifts and cards for my friends! :) My family and SO is a bit introver… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/17 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Organising Christmas in September: Tips?That sounds quite yummy, like a hamper! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/17 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Organising Christmas in September: Tips?Oh that's so true! I am quite the opposite since I plan so much for the everyday stuff. Yes I do love Elvis' Christmas stuff as well as Bing Crosby! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/17 04:43 PM |
| 1 | " you're way too nice", but isn't this what I am supposed to be?I think what sets someone apart as someone who isn't a pushover is somebody who is clear about their values and then fights for it whenever applicable. You can be nice though what makes you a pushover is changing your values for someone else. Make sure the person you are with knows your values from the beginning and show them when you are fighting for it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/17 06:43 AM |
| 1 | R-E-S-P-E-C-T: Find Out What It Really Means To You!Thank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/17 05:22 AM |
| 2 | Crabs in a bucket or just trying to help?I don't think this is your issue, the crab mentality as it is the fault of those who engage in it. It's part of their group personality and you can't change that since that comes from the inside and from will. You can only control yourself and not engage in this behaviour. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/17 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Want To Be Less Of A ShrewEveryone has different styles, so no matter how you journal is up to you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/17 05:02 AM |
| 2 | Want To Be Less Of A ShrewJust to add to this, you need to start a gratitude journal and actually get the skill of being constantly grateful and choosing to feel great and approach every day with optimism. Also for cleaning, look up FlyLady! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/17 05:01 AM |
| 1 | R-E-S-P-E-C-T: Find Out What It Really Means To You!Oh I've only seen Lauren when she is in TheRebel so I'm not subscribed to her independent channel, I didn't know about this! I definitely think that would be great to cover since I don't really want it to be RPW as the focus- traditionalism is and a domestic way of life for women, including their relationships. That's when some of RPW will come in. It's simply because I'm in education, Australia is also very liberal, which is why I would want to protect my family. I think I will talk about this … | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/17 04:38 AM |
| 2 | There Are More Traditional Men Than Women Now, I Think!There are some men like that, especially in a liberal city. If they don't want to work for it, leave them be to suffer and they will deeply regret that they missed out on all you could offer. My tip is to tell them straight away you are traditional, be blunt and even go into some detail (though in a nice way). They need to know exactly what you are about before anything continues. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/17 01:57 AM |
| 2 | [Homemaking] I made our place spotless and organized, then my husband paid me the greatest compliment he's ever given me!You were?! :) Thank you! I feel very encouraged when I hear people enjoy my content, I want to strive even more! You're welcome! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/17 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Organising Christmas in September: Tips?That is so organised! I'm just about to start now though my grandmother is already ahead of me :) I did ask the family for what they wanted and the meals have been sorted since they do have typical favourites. We don't really gift food though I still think that's a good idea. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/17 01:55 AM |
| 1 | R-E-S-P-E-C-T: Find Out What It Really Means To You!Is she? I haven't seen this joint series so definitely I will have a look for it now. Indeed if I did start something it would be solely on the traditional/homemaker path, mixed with RPW principles (I'm not 100% RPW, though mostly). I definitely will also cover this from a secular perspective. Now I'm actually really feeling eager about starting something like this- you wouldn't be the first to tell me this sort of suggestion. Maybe it's a sign! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/17 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Organising Christmas in September: Tips?Oh I see! That definitely makes the event easier as potluck :) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/17 01:53 AM |
| 2 | There Are More Traditional Men Than Women Now, I Think!That is true, I think traditional women should really encourage this and bring it out, it has been suppressed by feminism long enough. That sort of sounds like snowflake behaviour, I'm sorry though people like that need to grow up. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/17 01:52 AM |
| 2 | There Are More Traditional Men Than Women Now, I Think!I think it depends on which part of the Bible Belt. My SO has been there a couple of times to visit and he loved places like Savannah and he says people there are fairly accepting. In some ways I don't look fully Asian so I'm not too fussed really. Racism doesn't really get to me that much at all, just to be honest. I have better things to worry about and I'd still rather a more traditional atmosphere for the sake of my future kids. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/09/17 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Organising Christmas in September: Tips?That definitely sounds much bigger than my gathering, though I'd like to take the opportunity to have more time and less people to worry about to focus on the quality of it. My grandmother and I are sharing the load between two houses luckily, though of course I want to add to her event on Christmas Day. Is Heiligabend a Christmas Eve thing? In our culture Eve is a big thing. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/09/17 03:24 PM |
| 4 | Organising Christmas in September: Tips?Oh a google doc! I have a thin bullet journal just for it with different categories and pages. Outfits are a good idea! I think I definitely have to add that just so I look good and festive every year :) I think I might rely on Spotify for music. Retro Christmas tunes! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/09/17 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Organising Christmas in September: Tips?Oh that just sounds great! I definitely started this partially because I think Christmas shopping needs to start early. The Lame Gift Exchange sounds like a brilliant idea to me, actually. Will you share your board? If you're fine with that, it'd be cool just to have some more inspiration. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/09/17 03:21 PM |
| 3 | [Homemaking] I made our place spotless and organized, then my husband paid me the greatest compliment he's ever given me!That's so wonderful! :) You truly deserve that compliment and you should be proud of your hard work. A warm home has a lot more of a positive effect on us than we think. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/09/17 05:23 AM |
| 1 | R-E-S-P-E-C-T: Find Out What It Really Means To You!Thank you so much! :) I'll check them all out though I have seen Lauren already, she's great though definitely more political. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/09/17 05:10 AM |
| 1 | R-E-S-P-E-C-T: Find Out What It Really Means To You!Good idea! Do you know who they are? Any usernames I can check out? | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/09/17 12:48 AM |
| 1 | R-E-S-P-E-C-T: Find Out What It Really Means To You!No worries! Actually my SO has recently pitched this idea to me too. I've been thinking about it a lot, I do work in education so if my content is deemed on the wrong political side it would be difficult- that and I wouldn't want my future family to be exposed, to protect my children. However I also feel like there is a calling there-there is something for me to achieve. I'll think more on it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/17 11:36 PM |
| 1 | There Are More Traditional Men Than Women Now, I Think!Fair enough! Here in Australia it does. It was what a more conservative government put into place years ago to appease liberals and churches at the same time. They allowed gay marriage already just by a 'technicality' and difference in wording. I am pro-gay marriage- I just think it's stupid people haven't realised that we really already have it here. They're trying to make it sound like it isn't. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/17 03:30 PM |
| 2 | There Are More Traditional Men Than Women Now, I Think!That just sounds scary! Yes well today I just voted no to Same Sex Marriage actually, since while I believe in it, I know that there are already plans to use it against churches by the government/law forcing priests to marry same sex couples against their will, etc. I don't believe in forcing anybody to do anything in both sides. We already have marriage equality here, it's called a civil union and you can get exactly the same rights as marriage. It's literally just a technicality where the word… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/17 02:57 PM |
| 1 | There Are More Traditional Men Than Women Now, I Think!I am an immigrant though the people I met then were a mix of Asian/European and White I think. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/17 02:59 AM |
| 1 | There Are More Traditional Men Than Women Now, I Think!I'm sort of a little different. My close friends just 'get' what I do and they don't question or berate anything, it's more neutral. However to outer circles of females like at that event before I feel a little bit funny because I won't join their 'sisterhood' or something like that and makes jokes about your SO or something. I make jokes, though not jabs. I am very traditional which I think my SO's guy friends don't care about at all, they're so easy to talk with. I have had..some annoying expe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/17 01:35 AM |
| 3 | There Are More Traditional Men Than Women Now, I Think!That really makes sense! Then that means their inner sense of masculinity and chivalry is there naturally, sometimes they are born with it, maybe. I really agree with you on that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/17 01:11 AM |
| 3 | There Are More Traditional Men Than Women Now, I Think!That makes sense now that I think about it. Before I used to think that guys just weren't capable of that anymore or they just weren't raised with it. I tend to be quite dainty in general and am very feminine. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/17 12:20 AM |
| 1 | There Are More Traditional Men Than Women Now, I Think!That sounds really horrible, what part of America is this? If I had to go I would definitely stay within the bible belt. That is very similar to my situation, I understand the feeling you would have had, it's always about power play with these women, you always have to beat men or make them your slave, etc. It's such an unhealthy approach. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/17 12:19 AM |
| 2 | There Are More Traditional Men Than Women Now, I Think!Thanks for sharing your side, it definitely makes a lot of sense there in Canada- I actually thought that it was more liberal there than here in Australia. Since you guys do have some crazy SJW organisations and laws there. Though you're still very lucky, I wish I knew even just one girl with a traditional/domestic life too to be friends with! These modern-liberal-western girls are a horror show. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/17 12:16 AM |
| 4 | Do you think it's reasonable to expect to be the closest woman in your SO's life?I definitely agree- especially if he is planning to spend the rest of his life with you. You're his First Mate and so that would make sense. There is only spot for the First Mate and that is the wife/spouse. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/17 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberYes! Sorry I can't tell what gender you are and it doesn't matter the gender, the same reading applies! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/17 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberThat's cool, I am happy to answer! Any feedback is welcome. Justice + The Hanged Man R = You need to change something big about you- there is a common denominator about all these when it comes to you, you're attracting a certain type of woman, a woman who actually enjoys power play over you too much. Re-arrange your radar and write down your ideal traits and stick to it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/17 10:54 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberNo worries, I do enjoy doing this and I love hearing feedback~ Three of Pentacles R + The Devil: Focus less on the numbers and physicalities, the tangible things- it's almost consumeristic. Linger more on thoughts and feelings and ask your SO in terms of a loose, interchangeable goal from a set of goals. Present a set of goals then give him control over which one would be the main goal at any current time. Be firm and clear with this, it will be too easy to be tempted into disagreeing or finding… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/17 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Thank you LadiesWelcome! I hope you enjoy some of the wisdom here and that it changes your life :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/17 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Dating for the Modern WomanI love these tips, especially 2. You really have to invest in yourself and know yourself, 'get yourself ready' and it will all fall into place. That's just how it goes- sort out your values and exactly what you want, I think that acts as a magnet for the right guy, since you'll give off the right vibe. Speaking from experience :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/17 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberThat's a great way to have a look at the situation and I think your approach will very much work :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/17 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberNo worries! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/17 12:21 AM |
| 1 | So, where are we..?I actually just thought of that then and you have a point. :/ Now I'm not sure what to tell the reader who asked this question! | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/17 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberHello there! Let me address your points, one by one. I agree that many women here handle things well and have plenty of wisdom. However, women who ask for a bit of tarot advice are not seeking validation and I do not see how them making goals to better themselves is exercising bad judgement. Not a single one of the cards' messages are telling them to do anything negative- they are all food for thought towards a positive perspective. Peope rely on a lot of things, though to use the word 'rely' is… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/17 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, what is your personal style that helps you feel your most feminine in?I'm actually very similar to you though I go for the more Old Hollywood vintage style of the 50s! I think I would have a more mature version of Larme Kei, now that I've had a look at it! I'm Asian so I try to be aware of not looking too young since that makes me seem underage.. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/17 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberNo worries! :) I'm happy to do so! Justice R + The Chariot R: Slow down and really boil down the reason for your frustrations, get it out there loud and clear or even discuss it with somebody who may have a more neutral opinion. They might be able to help you think of some objective solutions for this, listen to them. Knight of Pentacles + Eight of Swords: It seems she also worries about this too just as much, she feels a bit trapped by the expectations of the social circle and what damage can h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/17 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberHmm, it would be interesting if I had the chance to see them. Definitely maybe Cups cards. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/17 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberThey can be complex, though of course I can take care of that from my side! Any feedback is welcome. The Tower R + Two of Cups: Do something really romantic, arrange a date that would be a surprise for him or a special event. Focusing on a bit of romance would definitely help him de-stress. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/17 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberThat's all I want for this thread! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/17 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberI'm glad it helps! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/17 12:55 AM |
| 2 | So, where are we..?I'm all open for that and any other ideas! Maybe even a social media site. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/17 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberNo worries :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/17 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberYou're welcome! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/17 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberThat's okay! I keep this open for a few days :) Any feedback is welcome~ The Tower + The Hanged Man: The relationship is technically on the good side though there will be some changes and realisations that will definitely give it a whole new meaning, you will start looking at it in a different way (not in a bad way) but you may realise you are looking at more of the bigger picture, that there is more of the bigger picture. King of Swords + Five of Pentacles: Keep your wits about you when it come… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/17 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberYou're welcome and I hope it helps! Ace of Pentacles + Page of Cups: The best thing to focus on and ask him what is his financial goals and if he has done something about them, he should have taken some steps already. Tell him that you love him and support him though of course both of you won't be young forever, it is the time start new things and see where it leads. Don't focus on the talk, ask about the walk. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/17 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberHi there! Any feedback is welcome and remember, this is just a guide! Four of Cups R + The Sun: Whichever place this is, take the option that feels like more of a challenge to you and out of your comfort zone. Staying where you are comfortable is dampening some of your talents. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/17 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberMaybe your father or even grandfather? An uncle, even. Ring any bells? This is someone who misses you that you haven't seen in a while though he cares. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/17 02:32 AM |
| 2 | So, where are we..?That's exactly the sort of background stories I keep hearing. The sad truth is there isn't much of us out there or if we are, we are in hiding and until now we are trying to figure out how to notice each other! | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/17 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberThank you! :) I hope it helps! The Fool + The Chariot R: Slow down and learn to appreciate what is in front of the both of you, no matter what it is. When you are hanging out at home, learn to appreciate that you actually have time to just be near each other and when you are exploring, tell him 'Isn't it such a great thing that we can do this? We will look back on this and smile.' | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/17 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: September:) Any feedback is welcome! Queen of Pentacles + Judgement = Focus on what your strengths are during hard times and not on criticising yourself. One of your greatest weaknesses is that you zone in on your actual weaknesses and it cripples you in thinking straight and being brave enough to handle things. The Star: Simple and easy! He already thinks you are quite beautiful however one thing you can add on top is the beauty of cheer. Consciously find things to be happy about and celebrate even the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/17 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberNine of Cups + Six of Wands = You don't need to worry about this too much, the best thing to focus on is to celebrate and appreciate that you reunited and slowly build a routine around when you'll see each other, how often you will talk, it will come smoothly. As long as you appreciate and focus on treasuring each other, it will fall into place! No worries, I hope it helps and feedback is welcome! | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/17 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberWow, that is really a bit scary! Water and play, I'm guessing they kept pulling out either Six of Swords or Cups cards. Play can also mean a lot of different cards depending on context. I personally won't use tarot for specific questions like that myself, I would only use for general directions in situations. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/17 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberNo worries! Any feedback is welcome, I'm excited too~ Nine of Cups R + Knight of Cups = Have you planned something specifically romantic during that trip? A special date or a dinner? It's time to get started on that, you need to put some time away just for romance. I'm talking red roses, nice dresses and candles. The Fool: I think this is more of health in the way you think of things. Physically you are doing well however you may be a bit exhausted mentally, you're forgetting things, being clums… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/17 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberI'm glad it helps! You're welcome :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/17 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberGood evening! Any feedback would be welcome~ Nine of Cups R + Judgement: Focus less on yourself and looking at your body- literally. Focus on your health routine (without measuring weight or spending longer judging in front of the mirror) and reward yourself for keeping up to schedule. When your husband sees your drive towards bettering your body and worrying less, he will find that confidence more sexy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/17 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberAny feedback is welcome~ Five of Cups R + Three of Cups R: You have to allow yourself to let go of bitterness from the past, manually. Make that decision and go through the process, be fully aware of it. Also, learn to celebrate the achievements, little or big, that you have now in the present. You don't celebrate them enough. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/17 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberAny feedback is welcome! Page of Wands + The Emperor: Stay and take control of the situation, express yourself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/17 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberI'm glad, I do hear that a lot so I hope it helps! | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/17 09:08 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberHi! It's all good :) Any feedback is welcome Ace of Pentacles + King of Cups = Focus on your work and aspirations instead of yourself. An older but wise guy around can definitely help you through some venting (by that I mean meaningful chat) and quality time. He wants a chance to help you, so pay attention to him. The Hanged Man R: You need more information before you can be sure, try to find out more about him by asking him questions and listening to him talk more than dominating the conversati… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/17 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberNo worries, it is quite fun! Any feedback is welcome. Four of Wands + Judgement = Don't be harsh on him for his exhaustion, give him plenty of chances to rest. So if that means random naps or earlier bedtimes for a while so he can recharge and get his libido back, then so be it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/17 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberNo worries, I enjoy doing so! Any feedback is welcome~ Knight of Cups R + Ace of Pentacles: You know those little sideline ideas for making a little extra cash that you had? Look into them now and just keep them in hindsight, pursue them even on the side. Knight of Swords: The cards think that you can create fulfilling relationships if you keep your head on your shoulders, your goals and values clear in your mind and that you are brave to go out there. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/17 07:20 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberIt is! Any feedback is welcome~ Judgement + The Moon R = Focus on your new beginning together, what the basics are (what is okay and not okay in a nice way that you both agree on) just to get that out of the way and have a little celebration to show him you are happy he is there. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/17 07:18 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberThey're alright! Any feedback is welcome. Justice R + Knight of Cups: Your heart is in the right place though there are a few things you need to make sure of in your current romance. Ask the right questions, the questions for him that you really need answers to, to put your mind at ease. The Hanged Man R + Six of Swords: Stop being unsure and take a break from actually thinking. Write down what you know, what you worry about and what you question then make a conscious decision to leave those thi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/17 07:16 AM |
| 1 | So, where are we..?That was the best I could come up with and I understand what you mean! I also think the journey is a big part, shortly after everything came together for me, my identity and values I met my SO. Though of course you're not 100% sure that that really is the magnet. Ooh I like the idea! I've always wanted to wear a brooch though I'm picky. I'd wear one like that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/17 05:47 AM |
| 1 | So, where are we..?Ah sorry, though the dating stuff is right at the front page and easily accessed, there's several posts. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/17 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberIndeed it is! I do like this site. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/17 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberOh I'm glad that this can help! :) It's just some fresh ideas and perspectives to throw your way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/17 04:47 AM |
| 3 | So, where are we..?Yes I did cover this in my Dating For The Daring Man series! You can check it out on my [blog](ThatStepfordGal.com). I feel like finding more women like us is the only sort of question I've not covered at all since I don't know how to. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/17 04:47 AM |
| 4 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberI'm glad you do! Any feedback is welcome. 1) Judgement + Page of Cups = It's time for a change but before that happens think about how your lying affects others and what they would think of you once they find out. One little lie might be fine but what about another and then another? Tally it up and pay attention to any dangerous levels. It will tally up and result in someone else's disappointment and resentment. 2) Knight of Cups + Queen of Cups = Be a soft place to land and a constant source of… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/17 04:05 AM |
| 3 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberNo worries! The Sun R + The Hanged Man R = You are on a good road however something is still hindering you to achieving a better you. You need to get off your questioning pedestal and determine exactly what you stand for and believe. Write it down if you need to, since this is where your direction will come from. When you make goals, check it against what you have written down, does it align? Any feedback is welcome! | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/17 03:53 AM |
| 2 | So, where are we..?So do I. Luckily my SO and I didn't meet on any religious strands and we don't have any religions to worry about. That's why I said that only certain craft communities are like that- something like embroidery or knitting are more old fashioned. You're right that there is no RP hobby set, which makes it hard. I do want to give some suggestions if possible though, so people can try. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/17 03:37 AM |
| 1 | So, where are we..?I'm not religious either though I'm just trying to come up with ideas. I understand that you're right about the downsides. I disagree however in finding an RPW wife in a certain community. I don't live in a traditional community at all in the West however it's just how the couple chooses to live their life and continuously ignore the BP things around them. You can't force someone to keep moving around just to have a family, I think everybody who strives for it deserves to have a happy marriage a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/17 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Tarot Tuesday: SeptemberAnything related to your self improvement or relationship. 'How' questions are great. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/17 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Having Panic Issues over wide Income Gaps?Preach it! This is exactly why I stand for a more traditional outlook for life, there's more balance between time and money, with a focus for values rather than consumerism. It's really everywhere in the culture nowadays, it's hard to fight it when you've been brainwashed since birth. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/17 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Having Panic Issues over wide Income Gaps?That's so true! It really is confusing, which is why for many people it is a difficult road to accepting themselves, it feels like all of society is against you. Money has become the new God that controls people more than they need to. We are a modern society (in the West) and nearly all of us have all our basic needs, we don't need more! What we are all poor in is time. However getting more time and being rich in quality time doesn't serve the government and the big companies, does it? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/17 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Having Panic Issues over wide Income Gaps?It's a very toxic way to think, getting rid of these modern standards are definitely very difficult in our generation! It has really been stamped into our minds from a young age. Think beyond money, think about quality time, the time you are able to bring to your household. Sometimes earning time is better than earning money, time is priceless. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/17 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Honing your soft skillsThere's nothing wrong and you won't lose anything talking to people this way :) in fact it also helps you slow your thoughts and relax while talking! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/17 12:46 AM |
| 7 | Honing your soft skillsTalk like you are talking to an intelligent child, so with the same maturity and wisdom as your normally do though mixed in with more gentleness and pleasantly. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/17 01:37 PM |
| 3 | Having Panic Issues over wide Income Gaps?You should be so proud! Why are you holding yourself to a modern female standard? Your relationship seems to be financially sound and you both have great roles to assume. Let him be the great manly provider that he can be-you're taking care of him your own way. You have more time on your hands so you can do the majority of domestic work, right? Don't count all your contributions to your relationship just by pure money, that's such a limited point of view. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/17 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Fiction recommendations?You definitely have a great point, I've read a couple of Austin novels though now I plan to read through all of them properly. I don't mind the smut novels though I don't want to be reading just that type as well. I didn't know the old Soviet stuff was pretty RPW! I'll look them up, thank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/09/17 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Fiction recommendations?Oh great! I'm not strict on RPW though does this have a traditional, gender role based relationship? That's what I'm looking for. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/09/17 03:19 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomI'm glad that it helped you out! That's what already makes this very enjoyable and fulfilling for me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/09/17 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Fiction recommendations?Alright! No worries | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/17 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Fiction recommendations?Oh wow! I've heard of the Outlander series before! | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/17 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Fiction recommendations?Ooh thank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/17 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Fiction recommendations?Do you mean Call the Midwife, the one that got adapted to TV? Also, do you mean Outlander by Diana Gabaldon? :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/17 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Fiction recommendations?Oh thanks! Will look him up! | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/17 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Fiction recommendations?Ooh Dune is by who? I want to look it up! | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/17 02:32 AM |
| 5 | Should i tell him the real reason?He is a man and traditionally a protector and main provider- I understand why you would find it hard to respect if he does not have much establishment. By that age men should be able to prove that they know or have some good knowledge of working around their industry and preparing for the future that could mean a family. I agree with your point completely and I would feel unsure too. It's not really about what he makes- it's how competent he is as a man. My father is a single father who struggle… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/17 12:11 AM |
| 1 | What RPW "idea" DON'T you subscribe too?I do have some statistics for that though it doesn't shed light on how this is recognized or not. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/17 11:51 PM |
| 2 | What RPW "idea" DON'T you subscribe too?I'm not sure how this falls in line though I truly believe most women shouldn't really work full time and would be happier should they have more of a balance with home. I also believe a mother should be at home with her kids until they are older, a mother at home is a great stabilizer for the family- she takes care of domestic work so that when everyone gets home in the evening they have more quality time, which leads to great family experiences and balance. There's less stress, rushing and all … | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/17 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Fiction recommendations?By who? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/17 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Fiction recommendations?Thank you so much! Now I'll definitely have a lot to look forward to reading :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/17 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Fiction recommendations?Oh thank you! I will look them up then! | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/17 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Fiction recommendations?Thank you! I'll look them up :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/17 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Fiction recommendations?Thank you for the recommendations! I would prefer some romance with traditional gender roles and whatnot so I'm liking the sound of the Amish romances :) any particular titles from Beverly Lewis you would recommend? | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/17 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Housewives, Part-time Workers: Your typical Monday sched?As long as at the end of the day it satisfies you, it's all worth it :) You're right, you're doing very well! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/08/17 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Fiction recommendations?Ooh okay thanks for the idea! I'll have a look at my local Christian book store in the city then :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/17 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Fiction recommendations?Should I? The thing is I'm not religious at all and personally I've had enough biblical references for a while. I definitely will share if I find anything! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/17 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Housewives, Part-time Workers: Your typical Monday sched?That sounds like such an interesting schedule! :) I wish I could be a YouTube too. You have a little bit of everything to do. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/08/17 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Fiction recommendations?Thank you! Any modern books? :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/17 12:02 PM |
| 1 | On Elegance, Manners & Poise: Outer FemininityGet shoes with a thicker heel, more like the block square ones and not the sharp thin ones so it helps you with your balance and slides less. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/17 12:01 PM |
| 1 | How should a RPW handle life once she becomes an adult?Oh I do cooking not as a hobby though as my duties. Not much of a green thumb, though I love crafting and sewing, that's my other set of hobbies :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/17 07:07 AM |
| 1 | How should a RPW handle life once she becomes an adult?That's true, I go through periods of gaming on and off, I find it better than going out and whatnot, if you know what I mean. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/17 06:35 AM |
| 2 | How should a RPW handle life once she becomes an adult?As a RPW who loves video games they can be a great thing! Some are a bit more educational and they are a great de-stresser. My SO and I love playing games together. I agree with everything else though! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/17 05:12 AM |
| 15 | How should a RPW handle life once she becomes an adult?Relax, you're still young. Go to college though don't linger there too much and there's nothing wrong with keeping an eye out for the one. I reckon a great age to start asking those questions again is 22-23. No need to rush right now. Do what you can at college first. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/17 04:41 AM |
| 1 | On Elegance, Manners & Poise: Outer FemininityThat sounds great, no worries! Get yourself some black class heels. They are the ultimate essentials. Also get black heels that only have a two inch heel, they are very comfy and yet still elegant. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/17 01:28 AM |
| 1 | why feminism isn't helping who it's supposed to (or anyone else)Hallelujah and amen to the great goddess that is Feminism. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/17 11:29 PM |
| 1 | New RPW - help would be greatly appreciated with current 'relationship'!That's a great idea! A general post like that would definitely cover a lot of ground about RPW, you may even want to toss some statistics in there for better emphasis. I would love to see how that post would be like! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/17 11:28 PM |
| 1 | New RPW - help would be greatly appreciated with current 'relationship'!Haha alright then! Just give me the link/handle you want me to link the credit to. True, I feel this way about what I write too, I just don't want more women like me to feel alone against this Leftist mainstream, I hope it makes a difference. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/17 11:13 AM |
| 2 | "Yes, I know.""Oh yes you did mention that before, right?" | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/17 04:26 AM |
| 3 | What is some of the worst dating advice men are told?Pretend that you like babies to awaken her maternal instincts. What rubbish. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/17 04:25 AM |
| 3 | The captain has almost completely jumped ship.To me it just feels like he hasn't tried to help you, even when you were not that great. To have an affair while you are having such a stressful time and carrying his baby? Not captain behaviour. Look it's your life and your choices, you do what you believe is best. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/17 04:23 AM |
| 1 | On Elegance, Manners & Poise: Outer FemininityYes those are great styles to aim for! I wear pearls all the time, I find they just go with everything :) No worries! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/17 02:52 AM |
| 1 | New RPW - help would be greatly appreciated with current 'relationship'!Oh really?! Are you okay with that? I'm happy to post it, of course and credit you. I can do that on my blog too if you like more exposure. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/17 10:17 PM |
| 4 | The captain has almost completely jumped ship.You need to jump ship, not him. Get a new ship and aim to get a proper captain in the future. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/17 11:24 PM |
| 3 | New RPW - help would be greatly appreciated with current 'relationship'!Yes that would be great I think! Though of course please also address emotional factors and compromise. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/17 06:47 AM |
| 1 | New RPW - help would be greatly appreciated with current 'relationship'!That's a great way to think about it! I think I might write that down somewhere :) Sometimes I write something I believe then I see somebody look at it much better! | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/17 11:30 PM |
| 1 | On Elegance, Manners & Poise: Outer FemininityI love your attitude, definitely you have had some disadvantages because of your sight however that's like starting a game in Hard mode and since you're going through it, you're pretty resilient! That's a big plus to have. You're constantly learning also and gaining new skills, such as how you noticed those men! I'm glad you enjoy what I write, all I want to do is help. Try buying from stores with Afterpay, they let you pay gradually over eight weeks with four payments, no interest. It's just wo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/17 03:00 PM |
| 2 | New RPW - help would be greatly appreciated with current 'relationship'!Let him be. I think you need to take this time to think it over whether you want this man for forever or not (well, that's what relationships and marriages are for). You've seen his flaws, they're what's in front of you now, can you deal with it? You're welcome, I hope things work out. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/17 05:32 AM |
| 3 | New RPW - help would be greatly appreciated with current 'relationship'!You know what you do have a great point too, his behaviour is definitely concerning considering the circumstances. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/17 05:11 AM |
| 5 | why feminism isn't helping who it's supposed to (or anyone else)It's not even just kids, it's also about quality time at home in general, with your spouse/other family members you may have. Kids or no kids. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/17 03:57 AM |
| 6 | why feminism isn't helping who it's supposed to (or anyone else)You know what it is? It's all just about money. So many feminists/left wing groups get plenty of funding for all the whining they do, whether as government programs/university subjects. The government also just wants more tax from the population, which means tax from women. The more women are 'encouraged to pursue their career dreams' and the more the media glorifies career women over homemaking women, the more money the government gets- someone else is also raising your kids, you have less qual… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/17 03:55 AM |
| 2 | New RPW - help would be greatly appreciated with current 'relationship'!You both need the time apart. For you to calm and rest your hamster (keeping learning about RPW, start journaling and writing your behaviour down, track what would you do about it, etc, set goals). For him, he needs to be able to get back on his feet, especially with his financial issues. Let him be for a while, he needs to focus on work too. A man will find it hard to concentrate on loving you/your relationship if he isn't able to protect and provide (as he should traditionally). Men take pride… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/17 03:51 AM |
| 4 | RPW, please don't have this mindset when you get olderThere is a way to age gracefully, whining like a harpy isn't going to do it. Hating on younger women isn't going to do it and I can sense the animosity from this post, the subtle virtue signalling. Being bright, happy and grateful is the way to stay young and radiate youth and playfulness, beyond physical looks, those things shine through. On a side note, thank you Asian genes for everlasting youth! (My relatives don't get wrinkles until 50, literally). | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/17 03:44 AM |
| 1 | On Elegance, Manners & Poise: Outer FemininityThank you! I'm glad to hear that this post is still helping women and you're very welcome, that's all I aim for. Even men can sense when women are trying to be feminine and elegant and they appreciate it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/08/17 03:26 PM |
| 5 | [Advice] Learning Womanhood - Women Without MothersYou've come to the right place for this, I definitely count as a woman who would go under that title. My mother was not a good example and here at RPW I learned so much, though I'm also very thankful to my grandmother for stepping in and offering me some great womanly advice. She is the first person to teach me about submission and an RPW relationship and I regret that during my childhood and growing up I first disregarded her because being an immigrant, I wanted to fit into Australia and she wa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/08/17 09:14 AM |
| 3 | How can I allow vulnerability yet maintain my independence?Women need to be vulnerable sometimes and let our man take care of us. While it's great that you're emotionally independent you need to open yourself up to him and tell him there is a vulnerable part of you that he needs to man up and take care of. We are women, not men. We have different vulnerabilities. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/08/17 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Try this: The 36 Questions That Lead To LoveI'll delete it and repost- I can't seem to edit on mobile. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/17 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Try this: The 36 Questions That Lead To LoveOh. My. Goodness. My apologies! Let me fix that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/17 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Is it me or are clothing styles either too young or too old in stores?I look at this shop in Australia called Princess Highway. They have some good stock and definitely perfect for summer and winter. I actually prefer summer for retro clothes because you get to wear nice dresses and shirts and flared skirts with heels without freezing! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/17 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Is it me or are clothing styles either too young or too old in stores?Definitely! I am very choosy with my style so definitely that makes it harder for me, haha. Though you can get the right shirts and sometimes skirts at more mainstream stores if you know how to look! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/17 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Homemaking and Housewifing: I'd Rather Be Rich In TimeOh I'm sorry to hear that, I hate all this affirmative action lately, there's no reason to have that happen at all. When I mean wages being low and hardship, I mean third world standard where you would have to live in a tin house and beg for food, with no basic needs. Because of where I grew up, I'm quite desensitised and I'm used to a certain definition of poverty. I've lived with a single father for years now, who has supported me and my sibling- we don't have a lot but I'm grateful to be in a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/17 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Housewives, Part-time Workers: Your typical Monday sched?That's quite true. I used to babysit and mess just piles up too quickly! Good on you for persisting! | /r/RedPillWives | 18/08/17 12:29 PM |
| 6 | Is it me or are clothing styles either too young or too old in stores?I wear clothes from the 50s, literally in that style, it combines youth and beauty but is also classy! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/17 07:20 AM |
| 1 | How does your childhood inform your behaviour in relationships?I've been asked this before- simply because we were immigrants and we wanted to fit in. Naive as we were, we thought the 'modern, progressive' Western way must be right because the countries were economically successful. We didn't think things through. I don't honestly know, I don't speak to my mother often, though I think she can't make up her mind. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/08/17 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Housewives, Part-time Workers: Your typical Monday sched?You're so organised! I like spreading things out too at home, I'm not a cramming sort of person, whether chores or anything else. It has to be paced. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/17 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Housewives, Part-time Workers: Your typical Monday sched?Oh that's a good way to look at it 😬 The way you arrange it definitely allows for more rest and you just have more of it to spare. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/17 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Housewives, Part-time Workers: Your typical Monday sched?That sounds pretty hectic but productive! I'm guessing you don't work full time or all days of the week? It's good to have a variety of things to do in a day. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/17 04:04 PM |
| 1 | How does your childhood inform your behaviour in relationships?I grew up in a happy household during my childhood, my parents divorced in my mid teens. Thus I could say that I enjoyed my childhood and since I immigrated at a young age I know what it is like to live in a traditional patriarchal family where the father was the breadwinner and my mother was a housewife. It was a very happy childhood and that is ideally what I want for my family, we had plenty of time for each other and we enjoyed ourselves. I guess I would try to aim for my parents' behaviour … | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/17 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Homemaking and Housewifing: I'd Rather Be Rich In TimeNow that's just brilliant! Some Sundays when I'm over with my SO I cook for our lunch and for his lunch for the week. I love making full fledged lunches that are packed with rice and everything. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/17 05:47 AM |
| 3 | Homemaking and Housewifing: I'd Rather Be Rich In TimeWhether you want to do all the domestic/extra work or pay for it yourself, what's more important is to have that quality time for sure. You can't put a price on that. For me personally, I'd rather do those things myself because they are my strength and I take pride in taking care of my home myself. It's good you two are enjoying yourselves! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/17 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Conservative and classy clothingOh damn! I'm in Australia :( | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/08/17 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Conservative and classy clothingIs this in the US? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/08/17 01:09 AM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomThe tarot, to me, is not for giving exact dates or times, though to others it may be, it's for giving direction-based advice and ideas. Seven of Pentacles Reversed: It doesn't seem as if you are ready yet for a new relationship right now so don't think heavily on it yet- though it will be sometime in the near future. Based on this card, it feels like somebody coming from a new direction, someone new. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/17 03:01 AM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomI'm glad it resonated with you, you're welcome! | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/17 02:52 AM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomThat's cool! Any feedback would be welcome. Five of Cups + King of Wands = Your fears are unrealistic and mostly rooted to your past, which you need to let go of. Seize your power and your potential for the present and the future, recognise your strengths, claim them and use them. You know what your strengths are, it's now the time to recognise them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/17 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Homemaking and Housewifing: I'd Rather Be Rich In TimeThat's just unfortunate to hear. The sad thing is that people really think this is the normal way people should live life. They don't stop to question and criticise anything. So then they suffer. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/17 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Homemaking and Housewifing: I'd Rather Be Rich In TimeI completely agree! It depends on what makes you happy, I know for most people having quality time is the best though a small section of people really do enjoy being at work (I have a relative who does and that's fine). As long as you are financially meeting your basic needs, then it should be all fine, I love the way you think. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/08/17 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Homemaking and Housewifing: I'd Rather Be Rich In TimeOh great! :) [here it is ](ThatStepfordGal.com) | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/17 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Homemaking and Housewifing: I'd Rather Be Rich In TimeOh wow thank you! I'm glad that people understand what I say and enjoy it :) It's like that with my blog too. It's alright, I love doing this, I want to inspire women to be strong- not the feminist definition of course. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/17 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Homemaking and Housewifing: I'd Rather Be Rich In TimeAw thank you! :) So are you! It definitely is OKAY. The thing is with life, the OKAY things, the great things are what most people don't actually know. Because most people don't care or don't really think deeply about things. You don't want the sort of life most people have now, you may fit in better, but why sacrifice your happiness and quality of life? At the end of the day, if you're thanking yourself and appreciating how happy you are with your life, then you are doing the right thing. Don't… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/17 12:48 AM |
| 3 | Homemaking and Housewifing: I'd Rather Be Rich In TimeThat's great, I do want to look for options with working from home too. Even if it is part time. I'm glad that your family is happy- you and your husband. That is what matters. The way that we chose to live our lives seals in the judgement for a long time, the only thing to do is accept it and ignore it, focus instead on how happy you are. Everyone else is miserable but you both know better. You're welcome :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/17 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Homemaking and Housewifing: I'd Rather Be Rich In TimeThat's exactly what I want to be able to offer to my husband too, since money may come and go though time is more precious than that. I've had some old people tell my relative at their workplace that they would give all their assets in exchange for their youth. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/17 11:37 PM |
| 4 | Homemaking and Housewifing: I'd Rather Be Rich In TimeVery very true. The gender wage gap is fine to have, its explainable and it's not a bad thing-I think it just goes to show the natural differences between men and women, that's just how it is. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/17 11:36 PM |
| 3 | Homemaking and Housewifing: I'd Rather Be Rich In TimeI used to do that too in high school, I know what you mean. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/17 11:35 PM |
| 5 | Homemaking and Housewifing: I'd Rather Be Rich In TimeWhen both parents work that's just what happens. My mother and grandmother even before stayed at home even when there was a maid/nanny since they believed a maid and a mother should never be confused together, they are separate roles. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/17 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Homemaking and Housewifing: I'd Rather Be Rich In TimeThank you for sharing your story, that is very touching and I'm glad that you had made your decision and your family is reaping the benefits. :) I used to be the same in corporate, even just for a little while, my initial family, my younger sibling and father and our home basically, suffered greatly. Being at home more now has increased our quality time beyond expectations. I know this sounds strange coming from a person with my background but I like to let many people in the West know that they… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/17 02:25 PM |
| 4 | Homemaking and Housewifing: I'd Rather Be Rich In TimeExactly. I have had a maid before since it is normal where I was born, even for middle class families. While it is good to have a consistent figure there, it is never a full replacement for a loving mother. I've seen relatives who had working mothers where the child loved and respected the nanny/maid more than mum. Sad. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/17 02:12 PM |
| 3 | Homemaking and Housewifing: I'd Rather Be Rich In TimeOf course. Due to my background, I hardly see any situation here in Australia where money becomes dire, not as dire as what I grew up with so I can live very simply and am resilient in that context. As long as that time is quality and set aside. I want to be there for my family as a refuge when things do get busy and stressful for them, it's not much help if we all are feeling that way all the time. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/17 01:42 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomThat's great to hear! So many people here seem to be familiar with tarot. Any feedback is welcome. Seven of Pentacles + Seven of Wands Revered = Wait a little longer and be cautious, you don't know everything that you need to know yet about this man for a relationship, though you're on the right track. Knight of Pentacles Reversed + Ace of Pentacles = Not everything financially beneficial rests in your college aspirations, don't forget to look outside the box for independent financial ideas. You… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/17 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Any extroverted RPW here?Not always- it depends on what you like to control and be in command of, I like to be so with my house and kitchen, which I hope would make me a good future housewife :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/17 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Any extroverted RPW here?I'm an ENTJ and my captain is an ESTJ. It works very well because though I judge highly and can be controlling, he has proven himself to me to be intelligent and very capable so I submit myself to him to an extent, though I still offer my views and he asks for them. Full submission would be for marriage. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/17 12:49 PM |
| 1 | RPW and relationships with your parentsI grew up with a single father from my teens. It has actually helped me a lot- since by being old enough I learned to be a stand-in 'partner' for him, I learned how to respect him and his authority even more, he confided in me for major matters so I matured quickly and I learned how to comfort and understand him when he is sad, angry or frustrated. These are great skills for my future husband. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/17 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Appreciation for our men and their Myers-Briggs personality typesI was right about before- just an update! My SO is an ESTJ haha. We are basically the same, like I thought ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/17 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Coming Full CircleThat is a wonderful way to put it. I had a great time this weekend starting to reconnect and just starting to come full circle- I know what you mean. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/17 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Birthday gift ideas?I'm not surprised! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/08/17 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Coming Full CircleOh that is a great scientific perspective! I didn't know all that. It is just like 'never stop courting' though more of 'let's go right back to the start' every now and then :) | /r/RedPillWives | 12/08/17 09:28 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomNo worries, I'm glad it resounds with you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/08/17 01:24 AM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomYou're welcome, any feedback would be great! The Emperor Reversed: Ironically, you are too controlling and harsh on yourself, so you are losing focus and motivation. Be kinder to yourself, be practical with your goals though give yourself time and self-care. Eight of Swords + The Devil = Be cautious that this person is not only attracting you because of how different they are. Don't do it for the sake of the niche and 'stepping into the unknown', get to know this person as well as you can and do… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/08/17 12:20 AM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomAny feedback would be welcome, it's cool! Eight of Swords Reversed + Five of Cups = At the moment it is iffy, the only way forward is for the both of you to truly let go of the past. It doesn't seem you've both fully let go of any strong sentiments from the past and it still holds you both somewhat like a prisoner. Tend to that first. Ace of Swords Reversed + The Empress = You are the type to nurture you devotion to your career and you will be successful, just make sure to keep a logical mind (b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/08/17 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Coming Full CircleI love talking about it and my SO and I love going to the cafe where we first met all the time, the first time we returned I became quite emotional. You can definitely do it! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/08/17 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Coming Full CircleI think it's just one part of a relationship that shouldn't be really set aside as just memories. There's no reason you couldn't do it again, it's just fun! You're welcome :) | /r/RedPillWives | 11/08/17 11:06 PM |
| 2 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomIt's just good to have that in the back of your mind! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/08/17 11:06 PM |
| 0 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomAnything can mess with your head if you let it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/08/17 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Coming Full CircleI understand what you mean, though what I mean is there is nothing wrong with revisiting the past, it's still a part of your relationship, especially if you were really enjoying yourselves. This is merely when going out or dating, not as a lifestyle of reliving your past. For me I see remembering and connecting with the nostalgia is a great way to make the relationship more wholesome, with both parties treasuring the present, future and the past. The more they treasure the better, right? It is g… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/08/17 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Coming Full CircleThat's wonderful! I didn't mean just recreating the romance- it's simply reliving the first moments you two hard together. Basically having a flashback date :) It's a great time to dwell on nostalgia. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/08/17 02:24 AM |
| 2 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomOf course! :) congratulations and good luck! Any feedback is welcome. Ace of Cups Reversed + Queen of Cups = You will be a great nurturing and emotionally understanding mother, though you may not realise it and at first doubt yourself, it might take a while to realise this though you have it in you. King of Wands = Keep your energy levels intact as much as possible, it is easy for you to be emotionally distant if you are tired so take steps to prevent that or to be mindful. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/08/17 12:07 AM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomOh that's great to hear! Good luck :) Thank you very much, I like using irony. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/08/17 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Birthday gift ideas?Oh I've decided to stitch him something! My SO does have a very specific dress code all the time so a t shirt wouldn't be something he could use very much, though I agree Etsy is so useful! | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/08/17 04:56 AM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomYou're welcome! I think this just needs a little more time so you can be your best self. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/08/17 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Birthday gift ideas?Oh wow that's so creative! My SO is more worried about his stubble growing too quickly haha. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/08/17 12:48 AM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomI know how you feel! Try to observe what he does and learn from that. I tend to avert my eyes since I focus on looking at something else to gather my thoughts. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/17 10:56 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomNo worries! I hope it helps, good luck! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/17 10:26 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomNo worries! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/17 10:26 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomThat's fine, I'll go on until the thread wanes and then maybe I'll have it again in the near future! Any feedback is welcome. Queen of Pentacles Reversed + Ace of Wands Reversed = Keep a friendship though don't date him yet. You haven't fully recovered for the moment and you need to work on your past hurt and cynicism regarding relationships, since that will eventually hurt what you two may have. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/17 10:25 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomYou're welcome! Any feedback would be great. Two of Wands Reversed = The cards are not a determiner of the future but more of advisors. Get off your feet and improve and sue your dating skills instead of simply thinking about marriage and family, then you will get there faster. Five of Wands Reversed + Ace of Wands Reversed = You might find work to be tiring and too competitive eventually, it is totally fine if you shift to school then. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/17 10:22 PM |
| 2 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomOh you definitely seem to know the cards! I did have a similar take to it. As in there are also lots of other good options and it seems that you have what it takes to make a good choice because of your wisdom and your options anyway. It would be hard to make a mistake at this stage. You're more than welcome, too :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/17 01:13 PM |
| 2 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomYes I am! Any feedback would be great. Ace of Wands + Five of Cups = Find strength and new energy in letting go of the past. Actually put it in the back of your mind, just for a little while and focus on some new goals, you can come back to it later if need be. For now, a burst of energy can come from some new interests or goals you've been wanting pursue. Concentrate on finding that energy first before anything else. Four of Wands = The cards don't give dates and exact instructions, though they… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/17 01:12 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomWell here is the chance! Any feedback is welcome. Nine of Cups + Nine of Swords Reversed = Find positivity in your job and concentrate on the pluses it brings you, though also take care of yourself and don't deprive yourself of sleep, since it can affect you more than you think. The Moon + The Hierophant = Just let your bf know about your routines and kindly ask him about his own, work out your compromises (if need be) straight away- literally. There may be some confusion and adjusting first but… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/17 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Share your fun date ideasGo to a dance lesson (group) together and learn how to dance as partners. It's a beautiful skill to have. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/08/17 09:51 AM |
| 2 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomYou're welcome, any feedback would be welcome. Queen of Swords: You seem to be somewhat on the right path, though learn to be in touch with your emotions and be warm and open (to an extent) when it comes to how you carry yourself. You may seem harsh and overly practical to some, even if you don't realise it. Eight of Cups Reversed + Seven of Swords = It seems like you need to downsize some of your goals, you don't want to tire yourself out too much, don't trick yourself into thinking you can do … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/17 05:23 AM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomThat sounds like a plan. Even if it is one by one, make sure to just cut them off straight away, with no fuss. Even if you start small. You're welcome, I'm glad it's resounding with you and can help! King of Cups + Ten of Cups Reversed = Listen to him more now than you would from any negativity that may come from your family and friends. Focus on him and his emotions when he opens up, notice how he starts conversations and model your actions from there. Learn from his emotional skills. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/17 05:20 AM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomOf course! Any feedback is welcome. Four of Wands Reversed + Ten of Swords Reversed = There's no smooth way to do it but to simply cut it off. The struggle and frustration you feel from just cutting off those bad habits will be the thing to teach you a lesson. Queen of Cups Reversed + The Lovers Reversed = Focus more on facts than emotion when communicating to your boyfriend. Start with calm facts and logic and have measures in place (things to say, etc) if you feel too upset. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/17 03:27 AM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomOh really? I would love a reading! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/17 02:30 AM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomI can see where you are coming from and thank you for clarifying. By reminding her that you are family and you are a team, it is for her to see that you aren't enemies because you happen to be on different sides of this issue. In the end you both want the same thing, it would be good for her to remember that. Good luck! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/17 02:12 AM |
| 2 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomYou're welcome, there's only one way to find out! I'm just glad if it is giving people several ideas and new perspectives :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/17 01:57 AM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomIt's all good! Any feedback would be great. Three of Wands + Ten of Pentacles = Remember the importance of family, that you are both family and she can always rely on you when it comes to making the right decisions at the right time or if she needs advice. Emphasise how you are partners in life and that she can turn to you if she has any worries or hesitance at all. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/17 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Birthday gift ideas?I just love making things by hand since I know I've put a little bit of me in it :) It feels more feminine to make crafty things too. I will definitely let you all know! <3 | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/17 12:17 AM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomPage of Cups + King of Pentacles Reversed = It seems you have been a little immature with how you handled your emotions lately, you need to look at the more logical side for now and balance your views and how you express yourself. Four of Pentacles Reversed + Four of Wands = Be more giving with yourself, if you have been quite withdrawn and not as open with your husband, try starting some new and interesting conversations, tell him some personal stories, maybe from your childhood, allow him to f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 11:31 PM |
| 2 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomNo worries! I would love to, any feedback would be fine. The Star + The Emperor = You have a great potential for your goals in life, it's time to move on from just thinking about your goals and feeling great about them to grasping them by the stem and take control of how you achieve them, from the very first step. Take the reins. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 11:26 PM |
| 2 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomOh hello hello! :) I am hoping to do a little more with my tarot reading in the future too, any advice would be great. I understand what you mean completely, I do have a stronger trust in the objectivity in orders when reading for me. Any feedback is welcome. Strength + Seven of Cups = Look out for additional options that may be available to you, though your wisdom seems to be quite sound. You'll figure it out- check through everything one more time and ask every person involved one more time, i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 11:23 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomI hope they are both good, viable ways that have given you new ideas, good luck and you're welcome! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 11:02 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomNo worries! I hope it helps, ultimately it is up to you and what you think is best, the tarot simply gives some ideas and fresh perspectives. Good luck! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 11:00 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomEveryone has definitely been doing well, I was able to understand their questions and tune in. Any feedback would be welcome! Nine of Cups + Queen of Cups Reversed = By being ashamed you are losing your power since you are letting your emotions control you too much. Accept how you feel, acknowledge it then just move on to what you wanted to do. It may still be there, though don't let it stop you, let it just sit there and move on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 10:59 PM |
| 2 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomIt's important to have a life balance, it is a rare thing to see nowadays, if you really think about it. I hope you will feel better soon, you're welcome! Oh true, I wouldn't mind doing it even every week! I really enjoyed it. I'll message the mods :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Birthday gift ideas?Oh that's wonderful! I would consider it though my SO has very scattered interest in books, I never know what he might like next! That's the thing, he doesn't seem to be someone who needs anything, he doesn't seem to want anything either. I also want to make him something since that is more personal. Thank you very much! :) I think I will stitch him something! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 10:54 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomOf course, it isn't science. I never claimed it did. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 10:52 PM |
| 2 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomSometimes you need to gather some thoughts, you're welcome! Any feedback is welcome. The Devil Reversed = Don't be tempered to focus on one, even yourself out and aim to maintain a balance. Not a balance with just your job but a balance with yourself and your life. Two of Swords Reversed + The Sun Reversed = Avoid putting money over everything as you might lose yourselves in all that worry. Enjoy even the little things in life, your time. If you have to make decisions, get to the facts quickly a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 10:49 PM |
| 2 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomThank you! Any feedback is welcome. Five of Swords Reversed + The Star Reversed = It seems that you need to deal with your tendency to be indecisive. You are progressing well in general though your hesitance has hindered some of it. Consult with people you trust, write down all the facts and start making some of those decisions to get them done and over with. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 10:42 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomOf course, any feedback is welcome! The Tower Reversed: Your LTR will get rocky soon it seems, however though it may get challenging, there is a great opportunity for you to learn and grow as a couple, with new perspectives. The Fool + Ten of Cups = Don't think too much on letting your loved ones down when you try things, they believe in you. Take smaller steps first until you feel confident enough. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 10:37 PM |
| 2 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomYes I am! :) Any feedback is welcome! Page of Pentacles Reversed + Eight of Pentacles = Focus on working as a team early on, find out each other's strengths and weaknesses then support each other. Don't be overconfident and think you know how to handle a relationship all yourself. Six of Wands: As of now, it seems to be very much so! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 10:17 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomIt definitely is! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 10:08 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomThat's alright, I'm still good! Of course any feedback would be great. Eight of Cups Reversed + Knight of Wands = As far as the cards say for now, he is a good man to marry, thoughtful and romantic. Keep in mind though, you both need to leave some things behind, hurt or insecurities from the past, you need to shed these things to have a strong foundation for your marriage. Justice: For the first year it seems to be an organised marriage and relationship that does right by each other. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 01:30 PM |
| 3 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomNot always, in some set spreads they are. The way I read is a lot more intuitive. I just look at the two cards, see how they relate or what I can interpret disregarding the order and then type it down. Though yes that is a very standard spread too! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 01:12 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomI hope that helps! It's merely an idea. Oh I see! Definitely the movies can portray it inaccurately. They each have an individual meaning, both upright and Reversed. Each of the suits also have separate meanings (cups are about emotions, swords are about logic, Wands are about will/energy and coins are about material/money), the court cards (king, queen, page) can also represent people who have certain personalities based on their suits. Looking at the cards and the pictures you can also relate … | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Birthday gift ideas?This is such a great idea, definitely for my future kids :) Thank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 12:22 PM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomI'm surprised some people are fairly new to it! It definitely is well known in the West. Thanks for the context! The Moon Reversed + The World Reversed = Don't let doubts consume you, if you feel confused or unsure about anything, put it aside for the moment and deal with it when you two have enough time again. Just enjoy what you have for now, it will only be a couple of months. Any feedback is welcome! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 11:21 AM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomIt's alright, I enjoy doing it! Feedback is welcome. Eight of Pentacles Reversed + Page of Pentacles = Dont get ahead of yourself and think you know everything in the situation. Study the situation well and ask for lots of opinions, look at detail or your efforts will waste. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 11:18 AM |
| 2 | Birthday gift ideas?I can't believe I haven't heard of this and I'm quite the craft nerd! I will look into pursuing this! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 10:44 AM |
| 3 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomI do enjoy it, it's all good! Any feedback is welcome. Six of Pentacles: Think about how everyone else around might be affected when you lose your willpower. Will people trust you or lose faith in you? Use that as a motivation to keep going. The World Reversed: Stop and appreciate how much you already have in life- you can gain motivation by thinking of it as not building something out of nothing, you're building on top of the good things you already have. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 10:03 AM |
| 2 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomNo worries! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 09:00 AM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomIt's my pleasure! :) Feedback is always welcome. Six of Wands + The Fool = You will be quite successful as of now, just avoid making split second mistakes. By that I mean quick impulses that seem perfect for a moment though it can get in the way everything. Take literal time to decide. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 08:21 AM |
| 2 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomOh no it was my pleasure! I was really bored while doing other things. What I meant was that instead of worrying about trying this or that, just try something and keep going. Don't think too much on it besides that. I just saw your edit and yes! That's what I meant, just focus on external goals right in front of you. Of course, it's good your partner is with you, don't feel like you're introverted by staying close to him in this new place, you deserve stability after moving. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 07:37 AM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomI'm just glad if it helps. Well you can look up the meanings of the cards and they're matching, however how I interpret them and they come together just comes to me. It's not much different. I just say what I would type straight away. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 07:23 AM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomOf course! I'm still up for it :) As usual, feedback is welcome. The Sun + Six of Pentacles: You seem to be quite weary about being too generous to people, so you feel a little hesitant in giving or making yourself available to others sometimes. Think of your help as a karmic thing, it will come back to you in a great way anyway. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 07:03 AM |
| 2 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomIt can be a bit confronting, however readers can be the least judgemental when giving advice because they don't know you, that really helps in giving good readings! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 06:52 AM |
| 4 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomOf course! I'm sitting right here with my cards and I've really enjoyed it, I hope it helps. Actually, that's a funny story. I had a couple of sets of tarot cards for years because I was curious about them then forgot. Then one day I was at a magick shop and I just decided to enrol for their classes, people commented I was very intuitive though I didn't know much about the cards. I researched on a few books about learning tarot, picked them up and read them, studied three cards every night and j… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 06:50 AM |
| 2 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomThank you! These are quite big questions so I'll draw two cards each, any feedback is welcome. Ace of Cups Reversed + Temperance Reversed: As of now, your partner is not fully aligned with you, it seems he is having trouble connecting emotionally, even though it may not show easily. This is because his life seems to be out of balance. The way to deal with this is to be supportive to him when he asks (RPW style), make sure he knows you're there for him, wait for him to sort it all out and then yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 06:43 AM |
| 2 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomI got ya! Any feedback would be welcome. Seven of Cups Reversed: To improve your health, don't spend too much time thinking of the ways how and just trying to pick what is the best. You've spent enough time on that- just pick one or two ways that you already feel is best and just go. Queen of Wands Reversed + King of Swords = This is more about people. An older female figure around in the area will seem quite pushy and even a little annoying, keep interactions to a minimal. The closest male frie… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 06:37 AM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomOh you read too? It's good to know there are others in the sub! The Devil is also about moving past temptation and old habits. As RPW is about self-improvement, it does make sense! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 06:34 AM |
| 2 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomYou're welcome! It still surprises me when people say that, since I'm not that into a lot of spiritual things, I'm mostly agnostic/atheist and I just click with tarot well? Lol. Surprising as in, when the honeymoon phase weakens you will see some flaws and/or notice things you haven't before that may not be optimal, though that's just part of your partner and who they are. You realise every part of the package you are planning to take, as long as it's not a red flag. You realise where compromise… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 06:25 AM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomNo worries, you're welcome! Any feedback would be great. Two of Wands + The Moon = As of now there are a lot of things that are out of your control and you will feel quite powerless. There is a way to take back power though, think deeply about the options you have, not by dwelling on them but more so writing them down and really pinpointing the logic in the least amount of time possible so when the time comes for you to choose, the choice will be easier to pick and clearer. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 06:16 AM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomI'm glad you like it! Any feedback is welcome! The Hermit Reversed + The Page of Pentacles = As of this moment your LTR seems to be getting cozy and you feel like you already know each other very well. Keep your mind open and though and still continue to observe and learn from each other, some things may still be surprising. Five of Swords: Focus on your self positivity and not others' negativity. People sometimes don't realise the sort of damage they cause by their covert behaviour or words, ho… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 06:13 AM |
| 2 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomYou're welcome! :) The questions were just fine. Any feedback is fine! King of Swords Reversed + The Hermit Reversed = Focus on trying something new and getting yourself out there. Recently things have been feeling out of control and you tend to just withdraw from things than take risks, even small ones. Pursue something you've always wanted to, start small. The Hierophant: Keep your values and your traditions close to you as they will always be your grounding, your guiding light no matter how m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 06:06 AM |
| 3 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomI definitely am! Any feedback is welcome. Death: You will find the new job daunting and very new at first, even with the atmosphere, it will take a while to adjust, only then will you start to enjoy it. Five of Wands: When you make financial decisions you seem to get very scatterbrained quickly and your thoughts and worries tend to make your mind crowded. Write down your goals and values clearly and literally count the pros and cons, on paper if need be, when making decisions. Don't let your min… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 04:48 AM |
| 5 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomNo worries :) Five of Wands + Death = It seems there is still a lot of conflict as to how you want to proceed (what you want, what you feel, etc). It's time to get things straight and leave the rest behind, go in one direction. Reflect deeply (though not for too long) on who you are right now, what do you want to do the most and what you want yourself to be, keep it short- then disregard the other thoughts and fears and past memories, focus on those new goals. Concentrate on a few positive goals… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 03:57 AM |
| 2 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomThat is the most common thing to do, though it doesn't always mean it's the right and only path, take your time and you will still achieve things and minimise negativity. Maybe you can have a scaling reward system. The rewards get bigger and better the more you go through your checklist! You're very welcome! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 03:47 AM |
| 5 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomOh alright! Five of Pentacles: Your tools had stopped working because you haven't practiced as much self care. You need to be in great condition to be able to use and follow up with your tools. Take care of yourself for a bit and take a break to revitalise. Strength + The Sun: You definitely have what it takes to continue with your systems though you need your energy and motivation again. Work on 'refilling your batteries' with some self care and remind yourself of your motivations. They will po… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 03:46 AM |
| 3 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomI love doing this! I'm surprised at how enthusiastic everyone is :) What do you mean by system? Just for clarity. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 03:31 AM |
| 5 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomGood question! Three of Cups Reversed + The World Reversed = Stop thinking about how everyone else or even your husband will react- ask yourself, am I having fun? Am I taking advantage of all the opportunities to have a good time and enjoy myself with my husband? If yes, you're doing the right thing. Two of Wands = What will be the biggest impact on your husband? If you take steps to be proactive in enjoying yourself and being confident. He doesn't like seeing you worried or hesitating because o… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 03:30 AM |
| 2 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomThat's alright, you asked in a very open way so that's great :) The Hierophant + The Four of Swords = Focus on both physical and mental rest while your husband is away. You may be tempted to dive head long into goals in your free time or just to keep yourself busy, though that might just tire you out and cause you more stress. Whatever you decide to do- your goals- take it easy, relax in between and take your time. Nine of Swords + Nine of Cups = When it comes to your health goals, spend less ti… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 03:27 AM |
| 2 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomNo worries! Just have to refocus sometimes, that's all. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 03:17 AM |
| 1 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomNo worries! The Lovers + The Chariot Reversed: It seems that you haven't been focusing on your health goals as much, you're not as driven as you used to be. What is the big thing distracting you now? May that have something to do with your relationships? This distracting thing may not even be a really bad thing but a good thing that makes you very happy, you're in love with it, though it is distracting you. Any feedback is welcome! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 02:26 AM |
| 3 | A Bit Of Tarot: Fun And WisdomWonderful! :) Those are very direct questions so I'll pull two cards for the first and then one for the second! The Devil + Ten of Cups Reversed: Memories of the past and broken relationships (partnerships or even family) seem to be influencing you a lot, in a way that you are dwelling and thinking about them a little bit too much. Eight of Wands Reversed: Focus on your talent to slow down and appreciate everything around you in the present rather than the past. This may make you feel much bette… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/17 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Check In #2: Summer 2017 Challenge!Inner Beauty: I really want to improve on my wifely skills, I do have most things down pat though I think I can use some more practice being by my SO's side and being bright, helpful and of course, speak well about him. I will soon have some time with his friends in a large social setting, so I will take that opportunity among many others. I want him to be even more proud of me when I'm by his side, in every way. Update: My SO was quite proud of me when it came to meeting many of his friends, he… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/08/17 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Birthday gift ideas?Omg these are just adorable, okay now I want to make something through felting! I hope my SO likes plushies too, I was thinking of sewing something too! Definitely Nintendo. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/17 11:58 PM |
| 0 | Birthday gift ideas?Oh I SEE now what you mean! That's what felting is! I have done that before, now I will definitely visit Daiso (I need hand warmers too)! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/17 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Birthday gift ideas?Oh I think that is a little bit much for me, I don't really like working with 'hard' tools or anything like that. Though I could suggest that to my father for something he may want to do in the future. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/17 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Birthday gift ideas?Thank you very much! :) I will definitely look it up now, I can't believe I don't know of it! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/17 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Appreciation for our men and their Myers-Briggs personality typesThat's crazy! I think it definitely works into RPW since we do look into psychology as in psychological femininity. Personality types definitely play into that. I live in a very liberal city and I love the crowd here, I am not 100% with everything, though I am pretty close! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/17 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Birthday gift ideas?Oh wow I didn't know that! Where do you get materials from? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/17 11:00 PM |
| 0 | Appreciation for our men and their Myers-Briggs personality typesOh why wouldn't they though? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/17 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Birthday gift ideas?What do you mean..felt something? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/17 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Appreciation for our men and their Myers-Briggs personality typesThat's true! No I didn't mean your post in a negative way, I've just had reactions like that before on this subreddit. :) See, someone has even downvoted me, haha. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/17 10:27 PM |
| 0 | Are there women of colour on this subreddit or is everyone white?Asian. Full Asian with a slight mix generations ago. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/17 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Appreciation for our men and their Myers-Briggs personality typesWith how traditional and feminine I am, people are always surprised that I am ENTJ. However, it's a very narrow view to look at being an ENTJ as being modern/career based. My leadership and career is both caring and the home-I am just as passionate about it as a CEO woman about her company. Just different context. I also respect and trust my captain deeply, because he proved himself to be very intelligent and capable to an ENTJ like me. I think he might be one himself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/17 08:51 AM |
| 2 | Birthday gift ideas?Those are both really great ideas, thank you! I will definitely look at those options and I didn't even think of that, I'm pretty unfamiliar with Etsy. Thanks again! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/17 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Birthday gift ideas?Oh that looks good! I just hope he would find it quite useful at the same time. I think a decor piece would also be great for his desk, though I need to really look into what he would like from Nintendo! I want to give him an item he could keep and look back at rather than experience, though thanks for the idea! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/17 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Birthday gift ideas?Oh true! He does love Nintendo things. What do you mean by artsy stuff specifically? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/17 02:45 AM |
| 0 | I had an epiphany this weekI'm very protective of my kitchen. If he cooks (he only fries stuff) and asks for my help then I will though when I'm cooking he isn't allowed in the kitchen inner area. I love it when he watches me cook though, it makes me proud! | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/08/17 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Have You Filled A Bucket Today?Oh nice! | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/17 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Have You Filled A Bucket Today?Oh, this is very true! That was the fine line I was referring to earlier. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/17 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Have You Filled A Bucket Today?You know that is actually another way to look at the quote, what I mean was most people look at it in a different context and use it in a very entitled meaning. Though I see what you mean! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/08/17 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Have You Filled A Bucket Today?Another teacher! It is a great book and I know there are other picture books on the same concept, it's become popular. Thank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/08/17 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Have You Filled A Bucket Today?Oh I like that metaphor too! I definitely think I can use that one as well. It's important to be aware for both whether they or the other are overdrawn or not. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/08/17 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Have You Filled A Bucket Today?Very very true. That's all I can say since I know that you know what you are talking about. I think because of how men can be ignored for their troubles and the resentment from that, they can become entitled, like a lot of MGTOW guys and even some TRP. Being entitled is just wrong, either way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/08/17 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Have You Filled A Bucket Today?Thank you! It was just something that's been lingering on my mind for a while now. There is also a thin line about giving and being taken advantage of however, with how this sub is many people don't really cover that, I noticed. However, the way to check is just to vet and always, a good captain will make the decision but always factor in his first mate's view into that decision and how he gives. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/08/17 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Dating For The Daring RPW ManI'll delete if it really is something the mods don't want, it's fine. I'm still a little confused as to where to really put it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/08/17 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Dating For The Daring RPW ManI wouldn't know where to start, I've been on Reddit less than a year and I just don't think I know enough for it. I don't mean to make it such a noise, though this is the only place I've seen some traditional men who are single and looking. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/08/17 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Dating For The Daring RPW ManOh I can see that and I actually thought about it before, though considering the way TRP normally is, I don't think they'd want something like this either. I'm actually really keen to write this series and I just don't know where more traditional marriage/relationship minded men could be for me to post these things. Wouldn't married red pill be already past that dating stage? | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/08/17 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Male Archetypes!Oh I'll check out the link, I didn't notice that there was one! I always do get a little surprised when I see something that makes sense with thoughts I've always had floating around in my head. That it's already out there, if you know what I mean. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/07/17 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Congratulations Iris!!!!!!!!Hon congratulations! There is definitely something so special about a first child since it will be your first experience in so many things. It's bewildering though it's all worth it, you have now transcended another level as a family, you all deserve each other, your family is very lucky to have you. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/17 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Male Archetypes!Definitely, many of the men in my life embody the King archetype though I think that comes with age and experience. I have a feeling that most men start from discovering the other archetypes first. I think becoming a good father or husband can help in solidifying the King archetype. Just a theory. I didn't even know there were female archetypes save for the Madonna/Maid idea! I just thought of it, almost like in the way tarot works. I think in modern society it mainly becomes a problem when one … | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/17 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Male Archetypes!To be honest I'm attracted to all the types, since I did grow up around very King like men and many others as well, I can appreciate each one, however I'm cautious of the Lover type because of how it's aspired to in modern society. By modern society I mean how now in the left being the Impotent Lover is the result of men basically being emasculated and for the douchebags it would be the opposite. I think the right tends to focus on the King a lot, the patriarchal. I think every archetype has a p… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/17 02:53 AM |
| 2 | What does your perfect marriage look like?Actually, now that you mention it I like them both! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/07/17 04:21 PM |
| 5 | What does your perfect marriage look like?Basically like the 50s traditional marriage. Like the main couple in Bewitched, so sweet! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/07/17 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Where Do You Find Like-Minded Women? I Figured It OutOh that's great! I think it's better when we just grow as a group and make more connections. Really? Around here they're so feminist. Always eager to be some high shot career that makes lots of money because of their parents (not their fault but it's been conditioned) and wouldn't even think of being submissive even in the home. The parents are hypocritically in a traditional relationship. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/17 03:09 PM |
| 1 | GratituesdayOmg I completely forgot this! I'm so thankful that my family has been supportive of me through hard times. I understand they can be biased though I appreciate their comfort and concern. I'm so grateful for my SO and his consideration of me, we've had a tough period just before and there has been miscommunication and I'm glad we finally got through to each other, I love how genuine he is. I'm thankful for my best friend, who has been patient with me lately and I enjoy getting to catch up with her… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/07/17 06:32 AM |
| 1 | 25F freaking out about the wall, just want to get engaged and married already.I believe you are definitely entitled to know the timeline, though this discussion should have happened much earlier, maybe a year ago. It is definitely a good time now to have times set for these things, tell him how you feel, how uncomfortable you are though don't demand anything and let him think about it. Just make sure he knows how you feel. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/17 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Where Do You Find Like-Minded Women? I Figured It OutYes, though a majority of people are stupid. Einstein was right about that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/17 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Divorce: Ugly TruthsPeople like that deserve the worst. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/07/17 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Where Do You Find Like-Minded Women? I Figured It OutThat's the thing though, they were the first (not the ones past 70 though) but that also means that many of them may have rejected it too since it is the first time wave, it is definitely a lot more normal and accepted now. Exactly! They are the most interesting ladies and they are so sweet. I also met some younger ones in their 50s that were housewives during the 90s family era. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/17 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Where Do You Find Like-Minded Women? I Figured It OutThat's just wonderful! I gave up mostly on seeking out RPW my age, though if I do meet any they are warmly welcomed as friends :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/17 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Where Do You Find Like-Minded Women? I Figured It OutAs someone who has previously been very religious, I'm very averse to heavily religious people when I can sense them trying to convert me. I've seen it all before. Though I am an immigrant myself so I can definitely relate with the second point! The problem is immigrant communities often also lose their RPW side since they feel the pressure to fit in with BP Western culture. It happened to mine for a while. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/17 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Where Do You Find Like-Minded Women? I Figured It OutWhat are these home groups? I have stayed a bit away from evangelicals because they do try to convert so strongly to the point where I'm actually turned off. Do you know which side of Melbourne mostly? City? Suburbs? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/17 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Where Do You Find Like-Minded Women? I Figured It OutI can really just hope they do. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/17 06:07 AM |
| 2 | Where Do You Find Like-Minded Women? I Figured It OutReally? You gotta tell me where these women are! I was looking more in Baptist/Hillsong circles. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/17 06:06 AM |
| 4 | Where Do You Find Like-Minded Women? I Figured It OutNot here in Australia, personally Melbourne. There's so many feminist Christians it doesn't make sense. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/17 04:32 AM |
| 3 | Where Do You Find Like-Minded Women? I Figured It OutPersonally, sometimes your own age range are just no use or in some areas where people live, non-existent. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/17 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Divorce: Ugly TruthsI think there is less pressure on this whole issue for those who do not have children however I do not think that negates the importance of marriage and the opportunity for both spouses to learn by working together if there is no real danger in the relationship (emotional, financial, etc). I agree for the celebs that that is a good move in order to protect them from publicity, you make a point. With normal people though, I just feel as if they should be classified properly with fault or no fault… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/07/17 11:46 PM |
| 1 | ThatStepfordGal Fairytales: ThatStepfordGal In Assumptionland😂 Ignorance is bliss. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/07/17 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Divorce: Ugly TruthsIt definitely is, I also feel divorce should be allowed but as a Fault option with a set of conditions that will definitely accomodate any real dangers to the family and the children. Marriage makes people stronger. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/07/17 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Hoping to Nest Though Husband is UnsureExactly. You know what type of woman you are and what your calling is in life, a good husband should know that and accomodate it, just as you do the same by reserving him as the man of the house. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/07/17 04:08 AM |
| 3 | Husband wants a baby (soon). I don't think I'm ready.My parents had me when they were 22 and until now I feel like my dad is my best friend. He used to pull up at my high school gate to pick me up with sunglasses and playing loud 90s rap music from the car-it was embarrassing but a lovely memory! | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/07/17 05:28 AM |
| 3 | "Getting Married Is Not An Accomplishment" - Let's Discuss!I keep trying to read it, but all I can make out is "Whine whine whine, my man sucks and I'll sh*t on our wedding joy.." Well, I already had my whole rant about this here. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/17 04:31 AM |
| 10 | Husband wants a baby (soon). I don't think I'm ready.Exactly agree. The younger you are the smoother your pregnancy will be and you will also relate to your children much more easily. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/07/17 04:16 AM |
| 3 | Hoping to Nest Though Husband is UnsureI believe you should express your feelings about how uncomfortable you are with the idea and tell him why. If he is a good captain he will consider your wishes and compromise. I think you are in a comfortable position to stay at home, especially since it is what you truly feel as a calling. He should know that, you should have had this discussion. Sometimes it's good to try for what you want in life, since you don't want to waste your good years. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/07/17 04:01 AM |
| 3 | Divorce: Ugly TruthsThank you! For me, I was being retrospective on my own life as well as those of my family and friends when they experienced divorce. There is so much more involved and having the option of 'divorce' should not be something people should take comfort in, unless the circumstances are dire. As women usually initiate divorce, I do think it caters too much to their preferences and feelings and comfort, the more people divorce the more people see it as the 'norm' without noticing all the damage it act… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/17 12:29 AM |
| 1 | ThatStepfordGal Fairytales: ThatStepfordGal In AssumptionlandYes! I'm not doing anything until there's a ring on my finger. Not a thing! He did give me his timeline and I believe him when it comes to that because it coincides with the way his work is. He just can't take time off certain times of year, we were also discussing travel because we wanted to determine what place for our first holiday and what place would be for the honeymoon (so they'd be two different places). | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/17 04:49 AM |
| 1 | ThatStepfordGal Fairytales: ThatStepfordGal In AssumptionlandI thought so! 12 months out? I might have about ten, in that case, if he really does propose at the start of next year. I care more about the church we marry in than the reception venue. To me, the religious marriage ceremony is vital. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/17 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Grati-WednesdayThanks again! :) I'm quite grateful this week that my SO has been so understanding of my..misunderstandings. He made our plans clear and I now know how to approach our future. I'm thankful that I can be there for our family. I've been spending plenty of time discussing and just bonding with my father lately, who needed the comfort. I'm grateful that I managed to self regulate myself this week, putting some goals in place and setting my actions down. Now I know what to focus on for the next few m… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/17 12:16 AM |
| 1 | I'm so happy! (short life update)What a perfect image! | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/17 12:12 AM |
| 1 | ThatStepfordGal Fairytales: ThatStepfordGal In AssumptionlandIt would be! I'm not fussed about reception, I just want a nice church. When do most people start contacting the church or whatnot? I am hoping to wear a long sleeved dress. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/17 12:04 AM |
| 25 | Dealing with rude girl friendsDitch Regina and The Plastics. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/17 03:37 PM |
| 1 | ThatStepfordGal Fairytales: ThatStepfordGal In AssumptionlandOh you're in Sydney! That's so lucky. I know I'd be good in a church though I want to have a casual photo shoot afterwards and I just don't want to be too cold. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/07/17 11:31 AM |
| 2 | ThatStepfordGal Fairytales: ThatStepfordGal In AssumptionlandThat's so sweet! My SO is the opposite, he is so good at surprising me, which is what made me nervous in the first place since I always worry whether I look alright if the moment comes! It's a funny thing I know though I want it to be memorable. I really wonder what my SO has in mind now for a proposal, though it won't be until early next year. I actually think he might do it while we are on holidays, he knows I am sentimental and I know he would want something really big and memorable so I know… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/07/17 02:59 AM |
| 7 | How to raise a daughter?As the daughter of a single father, a relationship between you and your daughter can teach her so much about life (this is my story). 1. Show her the example of what a man should be. Protect and provide for her and always tell her, literally, that's what men should do for their women. This way, her idea of what a good man should be is concrete as she gets older. 2. Teach her how to be a good woman by letting her interact with you. I learned how to respect and develop my wisdom from actually bein… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/17 04:37 AM |
| – | Expressing a need in Love Languages?Fair enough. I will recommend the book for her soon. I know I can be biased as I am her best friend after all, though I think she is trying to find ways to communicate this effectively. Especially about these things. For me there isn't really an issue because my SO very much is aware of my love languages (hence the love letter is a perfect combo of both my love languages) so I can't relate to her on this level, I've never had to talk about this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/17 06:47 AM |
| – | Expressing a need in Love Languages?She knows some about Laura Doyle and we mostly agree on these concepts but we still have some major differences. She is a bit more 'modern' than I am. I guess to work with your analogy, she hasn't had cheese and crackers for a long while and though she's been going through the buffet and has had everything else, she's longing for cheese and crackers since she's missing them a lot. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/17 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Expressing a need in Love Languages?Oh I just saw this now! I wouldn't say failed or anything, though I think people lost track of these things at times. I know they both know each other's love language, clearly. My point is for them to be able to be responsible for each other's love language because they know it, they know better. Most people are definitely not like this because they don't bother to find out these essential things. I don't see it personally as asking for seconds, it's asking him to speak her language as she speak… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/17 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Expressing a need in Love Languages?Of course in most relationships definitely that's the instinct though I think consciously putting those preferences forward because you are fortunately aware of them can improve things. Most people are not aware and it becomes just guesswork after a while. If you know then why not use the knowledge to your advantage? I questioned her if she was working to his love language and her answer was yes, so I made sure that this was working both ways of the street. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/17 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Expressing a need in Love Languages?True! Sorry, I was actually just copying her text here basically word for word (that's what you get trying to focus on posting on reddit and trying to mop the house at the same time). I'll send her this, I actually like the sound of that! She's a bit more shy of sounding needy or something, though I personally think this is easy to say myself. Thank you very much :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/17 05:57 AM |
| – | Expressing a need in Love Languages?She has done that a couple of times though to them they weren't exactly Gifts given one to another. She does give him little gifts every now and then, which I think shows how much people really do express love in their own language as a first instinct. I agree partially, I still do think partners should still keep in forefront each others' language above others. Thank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/17 04:38 AM |
| – | Expressing a need in Love Languages?My secondary love language is Gifts, so I can understand where my best friend is coming from. The reason why she likes them is because she likes sentiment and to her sentiment becomes very tangible and lasts as something she can hold in the form of an item. Whether a love letter, jewellery (because that is guaranteed to last a long time without eroding) or something she can hold. I have received a love letter myself and it's something I like to touch and read periodically :) What she means is th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/17 04:25 AM |
| – | Expressing a need in Love Languages?You're right, though that's the thing. How do you ask that? I've been texting her and that's her exact question to me now | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/17 03:51 AM |
| – | Expressing a need in Love Languages?Oh I did say something to her along the lines of that. She assures me she has been grateful, to the point she even writes him notes and makes him lunch. I do believe that people do appreciate gestures of love in certain ways more than others, it's a personality thing. She doesn't know how to communicate her love needs well. I normally have some advice though with this one I'm stumped. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/17 03:46 AM |
| – | Expressing a need in Love Languages?That's alright! Thanks for phrasing it this way. I just texted this to her, should she do the same with Gifts, too? That's her main language, mine is Words of Affirmation so that is easier for me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/17 02:34 AM |
| 4 | Grati-WednesdayThanks, /u/jade_cat! :) 1) I'm very thankful that my SO and I are open with our communication and have cleared some things out successfully, I'm looking forward to our future plans! 2) I'm so grateful that I had great family time this week, I definitely feel like we have bonded and become much happier together. 3) I'm also thankful for the motivation this week to get some ideas down for creative projects, I'm re-starting my beautiful scrapbook soon. Bonus: When I cooked carbonara for the first t… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/07/17 04:06 PM |
| 1 | R-E-S-P-E-C-T: Find Out What It Really Means To You!I'm actually thinking of doing that already! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/17 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Check In #1 - Summer 2017 Challenge!It's Winter now here in Australia so, eh. Inner Beauty: I really want to improve on my wifely skills, I do have most things down pat though I think I can use some more practice being by my SO's side and being bright, helpful and of course, speak well about him. I will soon have some time with his friends in a large social setting, so I will take that opportunity among many others. I want him to be even more proud of me when I'm by his side, in every way. Update: I feel I have grown with this, th… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/07/17 02:04 PM |
| 1 | R-E-S-P-E-C-T: Find Out What It Really Means To You!Thank you so much! I've only been a member here for the last year but I've learned and discovered a lot, I'm also quite young-I'm glad people think I'm doing great! :) Thank you for the link to the video- I really like this explanation! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/17 05:52 AM |
| 2 | Link List: RP, Relationships, Self Improvement, Education, BlogsThank you thank you! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/17 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Link List: RP, Relationships, Self Improvement, Education, BlogsOh thank you! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/17 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Link List: RP, Relationships, Self Improvement, Education, BlogsOh that's great I'll download that! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/17 03:09 PM |
| 9 | Meeting His FamilyI've been told this golden piece of advice: praise his mother and thank her for raising a good son that you respect very much. After all she contributed to that and she would feel very proud. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/17 03:06 PM |
| 4 | Free Friday F8ckery :)Playing Elvis out loud, the music the couple inside preferred.. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/06/17 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Link List: RP, Relationships, Self Improvement, Education, BlogsThat second option sounds tempting! I'll ask him about it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/17 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Link List: RP, Relationships, Self Improvement, Education, BlogsAgreed. The guy just knows how to think already. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/17 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Link List: RP, Relationships, Self Improvement, Education, BlogsWow, can I get this on iTunes or Podcasts? | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/17 08:23 AM |
| 5 | Link List: RP, Relationships, Self Improvement, Education, BlogsThis guy is pure genius in relationships and he doesn't even really consider himself RP. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/17 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Link List: RP, Relationships, Self Improvement, Education, BlogsWhat an amazing list! I will go through and read them now. May I add my blog? [That Stepford Gal](thatstepfordgal.com) | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/17 08:20 AM |
| 3 | Childlike vs. ChildishThat is very true! My family is quite like that so I really think it has stuck with me and my SO and I can be both goofs, I just love it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/17 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Lies We Tell OurselvesI understand but when immigrating the context of fitting in becomes (or made to look) much more vital. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/17 11:46 PM |
| 2 | R-E-S-P-E-C-T: Find Out What It Really Means To You!They do pick up on a lot more things too, if you let them! Sometimes my SO already knows what I want before I do. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/17 04:04 PM |
| 1 | R-E-S-P-E-C-T: Find Out What It Really Means To You!Of course! I just feel that while both need these two things they need one more than the other, intrinsically. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/17 04:03 PM |
| 1 | GratituesdayThis is becoming a great routine for me, I've been feeling great. I'm so grateful for my ability to make things creatively, I'm getting to make wonderful things through knitting and sewing for my family and friends..not many people can do this. I'm thankful for my SO's comforting demeanour, I know I can confide my worries in him and he reassured me that anytime, no matter what worries me I can come to him. I'm thankful for the extra time I have this week to do some general clean up and rearrangi… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/06/17 02:08 PM |
| 9 | Lies We Tell OurselvesThis is annoying. As an immigrant who moved to a Western country, I felt like I had to accept all these modern feminist mantras growing up to fit in. As a result I never really did fit in... ..which I never regretted. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/17 02:01 PM |
| 4 | Childlike vs. ChildishTotally true! I've been told I am quite childlike in some aspects, a more womanly aspect though before I had been cautious that I seemed childish (it doesn't help that I have a baby face). Though now I have a better idea of myself and realise that there is a difference and my womanly childlike qualities can be charming, or so I'm told! | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/17 01:59 PM |
| 2 | My relationship is becoming transactional, how can I stop thinking this way?I think you are giving a bit too much, he has to prove himself too on his end! Don't think of it as transactional but more like each of you has responsibilities and he hasn't really been much of a Captain, he has to take care of you and provide for you (despite struggling financially, then this is something you can motivate him to work on). | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/17 11:11 AM |
| 4 | Girl Game: Encouraging Your Captain To Lead - This has helped me a lotAll too true. As a woman who has been academically successful early on in life, you always get encouraged and told that you're better than everyone else. This is hard in a relationship since I have to always remember to trust my SO instead and not get ahead of myself. I manage to do it all the time, luckily but sometimes the temptation is there! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/06/17 11:08 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of relationships progressing very quickly?I definitely agree with this. There are many other alternatives. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/17 12:19 AM |
| 1 | struggling with criticism two years inOh I see, I'm actually curious what career is this, if I may ask? I can't guess it at all from your description. That makes sense though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/17 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Summer 2017 Challenge!!Southern Hemisphere stuff! Oh well, it's okay I know there are other Aussies here :) | /r/RedPillWives | 23/06/17 02:20 PM |
| 1 | struggling with criticism two years inThe circle of concern may be small, it's the amount of space each component takes in that circle. There's a reason why women are more depressed now than in the last five decades, we now have more on our plate time-wise and it hasn't done us much good. Men are also worse. In RPW we say that you can't have both a family and a high career, for the most part it just drains you and your quality of life. That's only two things in a circle of concern but two big things. You don't have a family yet but … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/17 02:19 PM |
| 2 | struggling with criticism two years inThe norm in modern society is a competition as to who can squeeze as much as they can in their daily lives. Ie the instagram life, social media boasting, etc. People just don't care about actual balance anymore. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/17 09:19 AM |
| 1 | struggling with criticism two years inI normally don't tell every woman this but simply because you sound like you're struggling to focus on all the things you need to do. For me, that's really the only solution I recommend. Of course you don't have to take it on, I just hold a balance of life as a value close to my heart. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/17 08:22 AM |
| 1 | struggling with criticism two years inWell that's the thing, I guess it would have to be a sacrifice. Most people who try to do everything are constantly delaying high amounts of stress. I also wanted to ask, is there no way to minimise expenses? Do you have to live together, maybe you can live with parents and save? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/17 08:01 AM |
| 1 | struggling with criticism two years inCan't you work part time? The way you describe this is a rush of life. You may work from home but it's full time and still takes a toll. Working part time would be able to give you breathing space, so you can approach your household duties at a better pace and in a better 'zone' rather than trying to do everything. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/17 07:32 AM |
| 2 | Summer 2017 Challenge!!It's Winter now here in Australia so, eh. Inner Beauty: I really want to improve on my wifely skills, I do have most things down pat though I think I can use some more practice being by my SO's side and being bright, helpful and of course, speak well about him. I will soon have some time with his friends in a large social setting, so I will take that opportunity among many others. I want him to be even more proud of me when I'm by his side, in every way. Romantic Relationship: Sticking to my mai… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/17 01:50 PM |
| 1 | GratituesdayHiya! 1) I'm very grateful this week for the balance of my life. I actually enjoy getting to do my study, take care of the house and all the errands as well as help my relatives while have time to relax with my family on evenings. 2) I'm grateful to be feeling better after a cold (as well as for others in the same boat), I really don't like the weather right now. 3) I'm thankful that my SO is very understanding when we discuss very serious matters, we definitely go down to the foundations and I … | /r/RedPillWives | 21/06/17 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Asking Or Telling Your CaptainWell of course, though I've been surprised by some of the diverse opinions here or different takes on RPW principles. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/06/17 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Asking Or Telling Your CaptainReally? That's pretty unusual to hear. I know this woman and all her friends would accuse her husband of trying to be the boss, none of them follow RPW, they're very liberal. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/06/17 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Asking Or Telling Your CaptainFor sure! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/06/17 09:44 PM |
| 5 | Asking Or Telling Your CaptainI completely agree. I'm actually surprised that everyone here basically agreed completely! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/06/17 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Book recommendations for women in relationships, but not yet married?I just feel it had that 'fuck you' feminist vibe, very entitled tone. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/06/17 01:04 PM |
| 4 | Asking Or Telling Your CaptainThat's exactly what went through my mind. I know she can definitely phrase this as 'him blowing it out of proportion' however I just don't see it that way. It's these nuances that actually do matter. I just think that it's more about asking/consulting than telling-telling with the implication that you already made the decision. You're just notifying him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/06/17 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Asking Or Telling Your CaptainI definitely agree-I just don't see it as controlling, I see it as a matter of trust. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/06/17 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Do boys generally want stay at home moms more?When I was a young girl, I had a stay at home mom, though I didn't miss it until now. Girls may not say that as much because stay at home moms may be teaching them the cooking and cleaning and especially in the teenage years, moody teen girls might just see them as chores and not the big picture of learning. Boys generally don't have to deal with this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/06/17 07:43 AM |
| 8 | Applying RP principles in young LTRThis guy Jordan Peterson is a treasure trove when it comes to relationship advice! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/17 07:05 AM |
| 5 | Men are forgivingI think women tend to thrive on the drama around fighting and apologising-I truly know many women do. Men are the opposite, they just don't like being involved in emotional conflict so they try to finish it as soon as possible and resolve it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/17 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Book recommendations for women in relationships, but not yet married?For me I'm not at that point yet so I'm definitely wanting a different approach in a book! | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/06/17 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Book recommendations for women in relationships, but not yet married?I forgot to mention I've read that too! As well as the Why Women Can't Read Maps book! My mistake. I've seen the Kindle Preview to those books and they seem to be really marriage centered or about people who have marriage issues after many years, is it really still relatable? | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/06/17 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Book recommendations for women in relationships, but not yet married?This sounds like a good one too, thank you! :) Sometimes I feel the older books can be better. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/17 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Book recommendations for women in relationships, but not yet married?Oh okay now I'm interested in that! :) Thanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/17 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Book recommendations for women in relationships, but not yet married?That's alright, if anyone does know please do comment! I will research on this book and read reviews and descriptions. I'm definitely on the RPW side of things and we don't see eye to eye with TRP much at all. Thanks though :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/17 02:14 PM |
| 1 | A Little Metaphor: Bring Your Captain The Solution, Not The ProblemFor me the main difference is, a good captain would know when to ask for your suggestion, you won't really have to step forward and tell him straight away (most of the time). He will know when he needs your help and will wisely ask for it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/17 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Book recommendations for women in relationships, but not yet married?Do you think this book might be TRP based? | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/17 01:51 PM |
| 3 | Book recommendations for women in relationships, but not yet married?Oh this is interesting, thanks! Though I don't really like TRP. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/17 01:51 PM |
| 1 | A Little Metaphor: Bring Your Captain The Solution, Not The ProblemAs per the RPW concept, this is for those who want the problem to be solved by their partner. If you can and want to solve it yourself, you can, though this metaphor does not apply. It is a problem involving two people to fix it. The difference in the two options is the initiative, which connects to a sense of achievement. Physically, tangibly the outcome is the same but the emotional take-away is different. Option 1 is she took over and helped me fix the problem, thanks to her. Option 2 is my w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/17 01:49 PM |
| 1 | A Little Metaphor: Bring Your Captain The Solution, Not The ProblemAs for that first point, I just don't really see it that way, as a difficult goal or not. A closer example I would use is if...your partner said something that upset you and they didn't realise. Or if you disagree on something you both want and it becomes a conflict. That's what I mean-not...choosing a meal for mealtime. I wouldn't say the metaphor applies to that. This may be a little long. In teaching, there are several learning and pedagogical approaches. One is constructivism, which is what … | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/17 12:25 PM |
| 4 | Book recommendations for women in relationships, but not yet married?Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man Straight Talk, No Chaser | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/17 12:07 PM |
| 1 | A Little Metaphor: Bring Your Captain The Solution, Not The ProblemFor me it's just mealtime is not a problem. The metaphor is about a problem. I just don't see mealtime as a daily issue but merely a routine. Sometimes people disagree but it's not really an issue. I will have a look at the comments too. I'm a teacher. You can let the child's curiosity lead him to try the puzzle and if he doesn't figure out, a child with initiative will ask you if you are there to help. There's nothing wrong with letting him try it first than basically doing half the task for hi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/17 06:44 AM |
| 2 | A Little Metaphor: Bring Your Captain The Solution, Not The ProblemThank you! It is just a metaphor meant to convey the idea in a universally easy way. Indeed the dragon can take many forms! | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/17 05:12 AM |
| 1 | A Little Metaphor: Bring Your Captain The Solution, Not The ProblemI think the two situations you presented are completely different. Offering in advance, like at mealtime, is not really a problem-it's an everyday thing to get through. This metaphor is for when there is quite a problem. It just sounds to me prompting his needs in advance when there's a problem is like a mother teaching a little toddler a puzzle and getting ahead of him by solving part of it before he even begins. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/17 05:11 AM |
| 5 | GratituesdayGreetings! I'm quite thankful for an amazing weekend with my SO, we went to great places to eat and had a romantic time! I'm thankful for my students' kindness to me, I love hearing the positive things they like about me since I truly care about them. I'm very thankful for my father and his wisdom, he has been a wonderful guide in my life and if it weren't for him, I'd be a much less mature person now. Bonus: I did try scrapbooking and I've got materials though I'm such a procrastinator when it … | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/17 01:32 PM |
| 1 | A Little Metaphor: Bring Your Captain The Solution, Not The ProblemWhy offer? Why not just wait for him to ask? If he really is smart and knows that he needs more information, what makes you think he won't ask? You don't think he will value you enough to not ask? When it comes to big topics with my SO and I, he automatically knows when something is large enough that he needs my input. He has initiative to ask. That's how I know he trusts me and has a good level-headed view of the situation. I don't disagree with you on that premise, I just don't like the idea o… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/17 05:19 AM |
| 1 | A Little Metaphor: Bring Your Captain The Solution, Not The ProblemI studied this. These stories provided the guidelines on how women and men should act. So you're saying that you need to offer help? He can't even figure out that he needs help in a situation? Letting him ask for help when he decides he needs it is not dumping your problems on his lap-it's giving him an opportunity to use his brains and his skills first to achieve something. Men feel achievement when they solve problems, not when others solve it for them. Let him have some initiative! Do you alw… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/17 04:55 AM |
| 1 | A Little Metaphor: Bring Your Captain The Solution, Not The ProblemThis isn't really a fairytale. This is a whole medieval era, like Chaucer's tales. It is actually the practice of courtly love. Courtly love being the key phrase, this stuff actually happened. Though it may not be a dragon, daring feats to prove themselves were a real thing for knights and ladies. Of course moments isn't really an instant, but it's so easy to tell when a guy knows his way around life despite the bumps (even before he met you) and having you in his life improves it. By strategy w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/17 04:16 AM |
| 2 | A Little Metaphor: Bring Your Captain The Solution, Not The ProblemEverybody has weak moments, even the smartest people. There is a difference between an idiot who has no strategy in life to a man who is intelligent and like everybody, has his moments. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/17 03:10 AM |
| 1 | A Little Metaphor: Bring Your Captain The Solution, Not The ProblemI understand it is a metaphor but I prefer to use it in the sense that everyone will understand it, not everybody has the same everyday experiences. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/17 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Advice needed pleaseOhhhhhhh boy. You were me last year! Take a read of my story here. This is how I came to realise things and began to change my life, then things started coming together. All I can say is, it's time to accept yourself and start making that change, you need to do a lot of reflection though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/17 01:35 AM |
| 3 | A Little Metaphor: Bring Your Captain The Solution, Not The ProblemWell only some of the time! In RPW we don't say every problem should be brought to the captain. Only if you are prepared for him to fix it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/17 01:14 AM |
| 3 | A Little Metaphor: Bring Your Captain The Solution, Not The ProblemYou can have that view, though for me, assuming that knight will be my love and husband in the future, I would really not rather an idiot. That will cause plenty of practical problems in the long term. He has already proven that he has done well under pressure and adapts to his environment. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/17 03:16 PM |
| 4 | A Little Metaphor: Bring Your Captain The Solution, Not The ProblemDon't worry, I know it's about the metaphor. If he is truly weary and smart, he will ask. Even just for a hint or when he realises he needs more information. Though he needs to judge that for himself first once he gets there. Why would you want to be with an idiotic knight? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/17 03:05 PM |
| 2 | A Little Metaphor: Bring Your Captain The Solution, Not The ProblemThere's a difference between ordering and directing, to offering a piece of useful information. Of course you can warn him, though if you dictate step by step, don't expect him to be too happy once you're saved because he wouldn't have that feeling of achievement. He definitely would not boast about what he did. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/17 03:04 PM |
| 3 | A Little Metaphor: Bring Your Captain The Solution, Not The ProblemJust to add to this, a smart man will probably ask for the damsel's view/opinion. She won't have to order and direct him. Achievements motivate men, it gives them purpose. Let gem make those achievements. This is how the newer generations of men have no drive or are not capable of successfully having families, they don't know what it's like to strive or to be motivated to succeed because since feminism, women are always trying to outdo them instead of being a source of support and inspiration. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/17 02:25 PM |
| 3 | A Little Metaphor: Bring Your Captain The Solution, Not The ProblemWell, you got to give him something to be proud of and boast about. I'm not saying you can't help him, you can, just wait for him to ask for it and don't order him around. Otherwise he's not really accomplishing anything, he's just following a princess' orders. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/17 02:22 PM |
| 2 | A Little Metaphor: Bring Your Captain The Solution, Not The ProblemThat's exactly what was on my mind when I thought of this metaphor. I love her books. I know about the advice, I just thought the metaphor really makes sense :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/17 01:13 PM |
| 1 | A Little Metaphor: Bring Your Captain The Solution, Not The ProblemHaha thanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/17 01:12 PM |
| 3 | A Little Metaphor: Bring Your Captain The Solution, Not The ProblemHey she might be trapped in there and the dragon may have been ordered to kill her if she tried to learn more about it. She can always help him, if he asked. No knight wants to come home and admit that his success was only because the damsel gave him the cheat sheet. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/17 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Honest question....That's alright. All I meant is this as a general rule. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/06/17 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Honest question....Of course, there are always exceptions. That is to me, a personal rule. What I meant I by biology is in general, if everyone was exactly the same that would be quite boring! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/06/17 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Honest question....Not when it comes to biology, biological and gender differences. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/06/17 09:34 PM |
| 6 | Honest question....I like the idea of accepting reality. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/06/17 07:14 AM |
| 22 | How important are shared political beliefs in a relationship?Politics is not just politics. Someone's politics connect very strongly to their values and if you're too different in that way, it won't work because it all boils down to values. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/06/17 11:53 PM |
| 2 | GratituesdayAs an educator as well, I love seeing that spark that shows they just completely understood what I said! Amazing. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/06/17 12:48 PM |
| 1 | GratituesdayHere we are! :) I'm grateful for the time I'm getting to spend with my older family members, especially my grandparents who are so wise and supportive, I'm so happy they are proud and excited for me. This also goes for my father, who has always been a great protector and patriarch. I'm so thankful for the routine of my life. It is a great balance, I get to spend time with study, with family and domestic work while occasionally with friends and with my SO regularly. I'm thankful for my SO's conti… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/06/17 12:47 PM |
| 3 | I feel alone when he's angryI know you won't like to hear this but forcing him or pressuring him to talk things through right at that moment won't work. It just doesn't. Suppress your impulse, in the end both of you would be happier with each other for it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/17 12:09 PM |
| 10 | I feel alone when he's angryPlease make sure he is not angry in an abusive way. If he is not, keep your distance for a while. I have a family member who has high blood pressure and a bit of a temper. Just leave the scene (or listen until they're finished, don't abruptly leave without saying anything) or say 'Alright. Well I'm going to ___.' To another room or a different place for a bit. Let him cool down and distract yourself with something else. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/17 09:09 AM |
| 6 | How long should two be dating before engagement/marriage?It really is up to you and your priorities in life. I'm in my early 20s and I don't want to wait for longer than a year or so. I'm very traditional, dating is for marriage and should be taken seriously. Getting to the point of engagement shouldn't take long if you approach it carefully and vet properly. People linger too much in a relationship nowadays and don't set clear goals and ideas. Time is priceless. Fortunately my SO agrees and we have plans. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/17 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Women receiveHow did you find him? I am actually interested in getting to know such people-we need more people like him as community leaders. I love that book! It was an interesting concept and I actually believe in it. Definitely, proving yourself shouldn't be a narrow definition :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/17 02:17 AM |
| 5 | Women receiveOoh I want to talk to this priest! It's great to receive advice from those who honour gender roles, which is now a rare thing nowadays. Receiving has changed my life and it has been, honestly, a bit of a challenge. I'm only in my early 20s, I grew up in the feminism-soaked society that teaches you from all around you growing up to take control, prove yourself, you won't be pushed around, etc etc. That is just so wrong, especially in a relationship, it gets you nowhere but misery. Patience is wha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/17 01:33 AM |
| 5 | Monday Mayhem - Games to Take the Grind Out of The Grind!So Now Our Relationship's Gold! I really need to nap now haha. THISL | /r/RedPillWives | 05/06/17 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Monday Mayhem - Games to Take the Grind Out of The Grind!Awesome! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/06/17 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Handling Conflicts The RPW Way?Great guidelines! My SO had said something similar, he wouldn't call them arguments either since it was a very negative term. So basically it means just present your case really well, without rebutting the other person in any other way? I can definitely take those pointers down! So many people make those mistakes one after another and it just spirals down from there. Thanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/17 02:54 PM |
| 3 | Monday Mayhem - Games to Take the Grind Out of The Grind!Is it now?? :) | /r/RedPillWives | 05/06/17 02:51 PM |
| 3 | Monday Mayhem - Games to Take the Grind Out of The Grind!Bring The Problem For Redpilling I tried, haha. HTFSL | /r/RedPillWives | 05/06/17 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Handling Conflicts The RPW Way?It's not on the sidebar but I haven't read the sidebar since last year! You should tell the mods to add it :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/17 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Handling Conflicts The RPW Way?Oh thank you! Is that new? I don't think that was there when I first read the sidebar! | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/17 06:31 AM |
| 8 | Hobby for a 25 year old?Needlework! You can keep your hands busy while watching your favorite shows. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/17 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Compromising on cohabitationI understand that that is the statistic, though I just don't get the feeling these majority Christians are very strict in that way. Compared to other more conservative countries with Christians (like America or even Spain, Hispanic countries), the Christians here are not that judgmental of things like broken engagement. Most of Australia even supports gay marriage and considering this poll, that means many of those who answered yes would be Christian! It's just, I've been through and lived in mu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/17 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Compromising on cohabitationOh that's right! I've done this once. Yes then I would definitely not identify as religious. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/17 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Compromising on cohabitationOh! Like a poll or questionnaire? Yes I wouldn't count in the 61% then, I thought the census was based on records/birth records/etc. I didn't really have any control of that when I was a child. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/17 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Compromising on cohabitationNo I don't identify! When I first came to Australia as a child my papers were registered and I had a Catholic baptismal certificate. I have since then become non religious as I got older, though I'm sure the records only assumed because of my certificate. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/17 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Compromising on cohabitationThey do, like I'm a baptized Catholic but not really religious though in the census I would count in that 61%. Easter bunnies is a good term, that's exactly what I mean! Those types, which is the majority, won't really judge an engagement being called off. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/17 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Compromising on cohabitationOh wow! Yes of course the guy will get a bad rap but it's not something that will stick with him forever or something. It will just be a bad story, compared to a divorce. He's not really losing anything except temporary reputation. I'm not religious at all so that may play a factor, most people in Aus are not religious or Christian however so that may be just certain areas that he will get a bad rap. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/17 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Compromising on cohabitationI see that. I'm in Australia and I've never really seen a big backlash when it comes to that. What is your culture, if I may ask? | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/17 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Compromising on cohabitationOh I see! It is good to acknowledge it and I understand it, though I just don't think the risk is substantial enough for consideration. It's a very minimal risk on his side. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/17 12:16 AM |
| 14 | The male equivalent of "I love you so much!""I truly respect you, _" | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/17 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Compromising on cohabitationThis is what I meant, you worded it better haha! | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/17 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Compromising on cohabitationThe risk is still lesser with him, as you said, so I think for her it is a bigger matter as it is a bigger risk. Engagements can be easily called off, much more easily than a marriage. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/17 10:21 AM |
| 3 | Compromising on cohabitationNot as big as hers, I see. There is much more to lose for her. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/17 06:34 AM |
| 6 | Compromising on cohabitationPeople marry all the time without having lived together. There's always staying over for a few days and even holidays or trips together, to see how someone is to live with. Engagements are a promise but they are not as a concrete commitment as a marriage is. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/17 05:57 AM |
| 3 | Compromising on cohabitationI see. I just don't understand how him not getting to live with you is a sacrifice or risk in any way. It just seems to be time missed. For you, it can take away the focus of marriage because you're already having all the living arrangements of husband and wife but without the actual marriage. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/17 01:25 AM |
| 7 | Compromising on cohabitationI understand you want to balance but I don't see this as a balance now since it doesn't really require much out of him in his part. You are however, harbouring a large risk. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/17 11:55 PM |
| 2 | The ComputerIndividuality is exactly what you want it to be but with structure. By forcing people to steer away from that lifestyle it's actually diminishing their individuality. I'm just very tense right now and this happened to be one of the things I'm thinking about heavily. I really hope so too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/17 03:18 PM |
| 1 | GratituesdayWith that sort of progress and results, you'll get there! | /r/RedPillWives | 31/05/17 02:57 PM |
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