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| 4 | As a lady who also has Asperger's, I can't feel sorry for this dude... or for any so-called "male autistic incels" after reading this. | laguaguadecarne | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/22 11:14 PM |
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| 0 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.ITT: men who have ZERO ACTUAL CLUE about long term relationship dynamics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?There is some truth in this, tho. However, a lot of women do grow out of this eventually. They routinely compete for the attention of men, skip on each other in preference of male company. As someone who's the opposite of you, gets naturally along better with men (but due to upbringing), it is the same with men when in the presence of a sea of beautiful youthful women. I tend to avoid the competitiveness aspect of female friendship by not going and/or severely dressing down with my female friend… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?Important distinction. People who split from their partners, yet keep co-parenting (despite no longer being a two-parent home ) or have strong support systems/networks do just fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?If by that you mean men who only talk/see each other once everything decade. I may not have a lot of female friends. But the few ones I have, I've been heavily cultivating my bonos with them, reaching out to them, and visiting them at least once a year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 01:05 AM |
| 1 | He didn't use you for sex. Sex as a female resource for social exchange in hetero interactionsThis right here!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 07:53 PM |
| 0 | Modern day women have absolutely zero accountability whatsoeverYou couldn't be more fucking wrong!!! I was this womam almost ten years ago. However, you know why it never got to the point of HARMING MY BABY?! BECAUSE MY HUSBAND MADE SURE I GOT THE HELP I NEEDED AND HE MADE SURE FOUR EXTRA SETS OF EYES WERE ON OUR SON AND I WHEN NEEDED THE MOST!!!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 11:37 PM |
| 1 | CMV: A woman’s ideal in a man should be a -1/2 SMV and a +1/2 RMV.When he was much younger (think between the Once Flew Over The Cucko's Nest until right around Twins ), despite his very short height, his facial attractiveness was still on the upper end of average (say, a high six using a numerical scale: despite at times they might be somewhat dehumanizing) during his younger years. Then again, his Italo-American accent gives (until THIS DAY!! ) him MBDE (massive big d energy). Hence so many people find him attractive, and has zero to do with him being famous… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 05:23 AM |
| 1 | He didn't use you for sex. Sex as a female resource for social exchange in hetero interactionsAnd even within marriage, marriage won't guarantee that a man will pull his weight as a committed partner. He can still cheat and/or abandon his wife (and possible child/children) right after legally tying her down (and possibly isolating her from her friends and loved ones). And not all places have strong provisions for alimony. For example, where I live (this link) has very crappy alimony laws. So even "waiting until marriage" won't protect women from being frame/lied/deceived by men who truly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 03:27 AM |
| 8 | Why would people attracted to the Red Pill philosophy listen to you when you claim it doesn't work?I think men who have legitimate self-respect don’t chase after women. Idk if this poster is even a real woman. If she was, she'd know that women are the ones who UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES are to EVER CHASE MEN!!! Men are naturally the pursuers. Period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 02:45 AM |
| 1 | CMV: "I'm ugly" is just an easy out for men who can't understand the complexities of human relationshipsObviously hot people are more attractive. Hot is rather subjective. As a woman who's very looks oriented in regards to men, this is how I tend to view men's overall physical attractiveness: Face. My #1 attractiveness criteria. A handsome symetric face is a non negotiable. Then again, I am aware people age and all that. But I also take relatively good care of my own skin (and been doing so since my mid teens). However, I don't seek perfection either: I know photoshop exist, and not just that, I k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 09:30 PM |
| 5 | CMV: "I'm ugly" is just an easy out for men who can't understand the complexities of human relationshipsPartly true. Some men who claim to be ugly are nowhere near being ugly. They're just super insecure or have very bad social skills. A few here and there are also just flat out horrible people, paired up with their massive insecurity or because they're so unpleased with their horrible existence... they have to bring others down. But I've known tons of lesser looking people (of both sexes) in otherwise happy, loving relationship (even long term marriages). Why? They have other qualities their part… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Men do care about earning potential and education in a woman, just not the same way women value it in men.As a lady who's mildly educated, but seeking even further education I've been (for 12 years) with a dude who's been equal to me on an intellectual and socio-economical level. We've taken turns in being the higher earner in our relationship (mainly due to how things had turned out): at the very beginning, it was him, then me, then him, then me, then it was about the same, then him, then about the same again right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneI know that women don't like to be in the fuck zone, but I would absolutely love to try it. Women with low to normal sex drives. I have a very high sex drive. Me, circa 2006-early 2010 (between dating my 1st husband to when we were getting divorced) Hello, so and so, let's do it!! Again?! But we did it twice yesterday!! Yes, and I'm horny again. Don't worry, I'm bringing more rubbers. But I'm exhausted!! ...They all say the same, until it's time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneOmg, I want to be in the fuck zone !!! Almost all men want to be in the fuck zone. That's what all men say... until they get to be in the ACTUAL fuckzone... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneI do go for looks, I said it before. But if a man doesn't stimulate me intellectually, I said earlier what I've done before with them: straight into the fuckzone. But when it comes to looks, I'm a face person first and foremost. I rather have a slightly shorter man with a very good looking face than a tall average looking chump. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneI do go for looks, yes. But intellectual connection matters just as much. Dumb jocks aren’t my thing. As someone who has six bookshelves I need someone who’s able to have deep intellectual conversations with me… while also keeping me all turned on at the same time. Most women (both NT and ND) had been leaving in masses dating apps. You’d be better off finding ladies at, say, yoga classes, bookstores, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 07:08 PM |
| 3 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.Thanks babe!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 07:06 PM |
| 0 | Women are emotionally driven and live for emotional validationThis is wrong as all hell. I’m very sexually driven. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneOther women on the spectrum that “say it how it is?” Well, if more men weren’t so scared of giving more women on the spectrum a chance… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneThat they catch feelings? Yes, the horror of me telling them: I don’t like you “like that.” Then I have to change my # and block my emails so they don’t stalk me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneI like artsy and intellectual men; like my ex husband and my current husband. They both have very attractive faces, but are also extremely intelligent: my ex did biology and history, and my current husband did EE and now does public policy. They’re also neuro-divergent too. Let’s use celebrities: I much rather be with hot yet geeky scientist like Neil de Grasse Tyson or a DnD book nerd like Joe Manganiello than some football star like Tom Brady or Cristiano Ronaldo. They’re both as attractive as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneA pattern that emerges with my platonic girl (friends/acquaintances) is that they get romantically entangled with emotionally distant guys who only watch the sports channel. The profile of the men who fuck is a cliche; sporty type, exclusively "manly interests", frat bro who is concerned not coming off as "gay", emotionally distant, and borderline dumb about topics outside sports. All of this DOES NOT APPLY TO ME AT ALL!!!!! THAT’S WHY YOU ARE SO DAMN WRONG!!! The only thing you might be sort of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:48 PM |
| 1 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.I mean, Penélope Cruz and her hubby (Javier Bardem)? HOTTIES!!!! Alejandro Sanz? HOT AS HELL, on top of being a guitar virtuoso!!!! Paz Vega? HOT MAMACITA!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:40 PM |
| 1 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.Here’s my TikTok take on the subject. Veredict? the whole country should just go naked, since they’re so HOT!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:38 PM |
| 1 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.Mayra Flores (freshman GOP Congresswoman) is from that area (not Laredo, but nearby). I think she’s super pretty, and I’m a bit bothered that the Texas Río Grande Valley area was mentioned as an area filled with ugly broads, especially when such a pretty millennial (like Mayra) hails from that part of the country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:38 PM |
| 1 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.The Spanish PM (who's HOT AF ) said about a month ago that because of how hot the temperatures in Spain were (over 40°C/about 110°F), people should ditch ties when going to work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:35 PM |
| 3 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.I find a lot of the Latin countries have hot people - Puerto Rico, DR and Cuba has some sexy mo fo’s but their usually concentrated in the bigger centers. As a Puerto Rican (a jíbara, straight from el campo ), thank you for the compliment!!! Basically, the PR equivalent to a redneck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:33 PM |
| 2 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.Laredo is a town in the southernmost part of Texas. Heavily Hispanic town. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:16 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on men who will not marry women whose parents are divorced?I'm married, yet I'm from a divorced household. Then again, both of my parents remarried when I was a teen (mother) and young adult (father). Their 2nd marriages are much longer than their 1st marriage. They also co-parent to this day. Them being divorced has never been a hindrance in them being active co-parents. In fact, it has made of us an even bigger family: my half-sister has even become part of my dad's extended family as well. Heck, my dad's baby sister is the one who pays my half-sister… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:07 PM |
| 0 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneAs a lady on the spectrum, you couldn't be more wrong!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 06:06 PM |
| 4 | Blue Pillers, What Is Your Most Surprisingly Red-Pill Take? Red Pillers, What Is Your Most Surprisingly Blue-Pill Take?True. Kindness is free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Blue Pillers, What Is Your Most Surprisingly Red-Pill Take? Red Pillers, What Is Your Most Surprisingly Blue-Pill Take?shared culture, values and compatibility matter as much if not more as income/wealth when it comes to LTR’s FTFY. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 04:42 AM |
| 4 | Blue Pillers, What Is Your Most Surprisingly Red-Pill Take? Red Pillers, What Is Your Most Surprisingly Blue-Pill Take?Men must be able to be able to run a household as well and efficiently as women. Women must be able to be fully financially solvent without falling back on men and/or relatives All genders must know basic maintenance (even vehicular) and yard chores. Edit: forgot to include vehicular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 04:21 AM |
| 1 | do women envy men in dating?Why would I? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 02:58 AM |
| 4 | What do you advise a young woman (18-21) to do?Do whatever you want. Whatever you do in life has to serve your own life purpose. If you choose to partner up with a man, it HAS TO BE BECAUSE YOU WANT A MAN, NOT BECAUSE YOU NEED A MAN. Men have no NEED for women in present time. Other than your physique and your youth, what else can you bring to a man's life FOR THE LONG TERM?! ○Can you keep a man's interest beyond your sex appeal? ○Can you be resourceful? ○Are you a fully functional adult? ○How's your financial health? Are you able to be fina… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Women HAVE to be told to “pick better” because kindness, chivalry, and gentlemanly behavior doesn’t turn women on IN GENERAL as much as it shouldThat's why I made the comment of OP types aren't publicly into women like me (I have ADHD/Asperger's and yes, BPD and take Adderall) because I was their dirty secret at work... then I met my looks and intellect match about 12 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Women HAVE to be told to “pick better” because kindness, chivalry, and gentlemanly behavior doesn’t turn women on IN GENERAL as much as it shouldIt’s always beyond what’s outside… no matter how hard y’all deny it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Women HAVE to be told to “pick better” because kindness, chivalry, and gentlemanly behavior doesn’t turn women on IN GENERAL as much as it shouldUh, you like casual porn sex with lots of hot chicks, not lovey dovey bullshit missionary with plain janes. Like a lot of men here. And dudes like OP tend to like shy, demure neuro-typical women who don’t have strong opinions about anything in particular … yet clamor for a smart woman who can hold a conversation. And when it happens, it’s always: but not like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 09:27 PM |
| 6 | Women HAVE to be told to “pick better” because kindness, chivalry, and gentlemanly behavior doesn’t turn women on IN GENERAL as much as it shouldEasy: I am NOT their (personality) type. Good enough explanation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Women HAVE to be told to “pick better” because kindness, chivalry, and gentlemanly behavior doesn’t turn women on IN GENERAL as much as it shouldWomen HAVE to pick better. But nothing about men having to DO better as a whole, right?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Guys like saying guys only cheat because they need sexual variety but isn’t it usually in combination with other stuff?I keep seeing on internet forums and on the so-called Intellectual Dark Web that many men who cheat tend to do so because they are not intellectually stimulated in their relationships. I regularly encounter posts from men who say things like: Women aren't deep enough to have conversations about philosophical matters. You can't talk about the economy to women: they just don't get it, since it's all numbers. I need a woman to talk about politics who isn't going to go all communist on me. Yet w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:So the BMI being randomly changed from 27 to 25 in the 90’s was people are getting fatter, let’s artificially create more fat people rather than go straight to the source? Don’t get me wrong, I’m not a fat apologist, nor a HAES activist. But I don’t condone any form of body shaming either. Like, really: the BMI is super inaccurate in a myriad of ways, and not just for jacked up athletes. Also for old people, most women, and the rest of the world outside of Western Europe (since the BMI was creat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 12:40 AM |
| 3 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:White, Euro-centric feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 11:55 PM |
| 3 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:Female obesity rates are largely inflated due to how BMI is calculated. l take obesity rates with a grain of sand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:You, apparently, since you replied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 11:25 PM |
| 3 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:Oh boy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Is it reasonable for a man with an average physique to want a thin/non-fat female partner?I can't say yes or no. HOWEVER... I've been a keen observer of assortative mating. Most people tend to be with their looksmatches. So unless you find a thin lady who's very into regular looking dudes because you have other traits a thin lady prefers... more often than not you'd most likely be with a looksmatch. Then again, being thin and not being fat are not synonymous with each other. For example, I'm not thin-thin but I'm not fat either. I wear a single digit clothing size (eight) on most gar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:I've been married for over a decade. I choose one who's an even looksmatch, but on my socio-economic level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:Tall, successful, and educated don't mean much if a man isn't good looking, can't be a functional adult, be intellectual beyond the degrees, and be good in bed. So many men put so much emphasis on their height and their bank accounts, and those two things don't mean much to me (if any). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 06:49 PM |
| 4 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:Exactly. A man having money and being tall means shit to me if he's not overall good looking (especially face wise), good in the sack, be a fully functional adult (like myself), and can stimulate me intellectually. I have my own sources of income (both active and passive) and all sorts of fringe benefits. A man should add a complement to my life, not solve it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 06:46 PM |
| 0 | Ladies - Would you 2nd guess your boyfriend/husband if other women didn't find him attractive?Not a bruh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 01:20 PM |
| -4 | Ladies - Would you 2nd guess your boyfriend/husband if other women didn't find him attractive?I'd dare to say 2:1. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Face and Status is way more important then Height.That's why my flair says what it says. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 07:12 AM |
| 0 | Jealousy drives much of the resentment displayed hereFeminism Liberal Feminism is a farce. I'm sorry math and statistics offends you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 07:10 AM |
| 0 | Ladies - Would you 2nd guess your boyfriend/husband if other women didn't find him attractive?I don't see the difference. Enlighten me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 07:04 AM |
| -3 | Ladies - Would you 2nd guess your boyfriend/husband if other women didn't find him attractive?Don't lie either. She'll notice if other women aren't checking you out around town (or if men aren't either). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 01:23 AM |
| -5 | Ladies - Would you 2nd guess your boyfriend/husband if other women didn't find him attractive?My husband and I are open about people hitting on each other. Why? We always decline other people's advances. I guess you aren't able to do that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 01:22 AM |
| 6 | Face and Status is way more important then Height.Face, =======> size, and intellect, are WAY MORE important than height and status/money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Jealousy drives much of the resentment displayed hereJealousy drives much of the resentment displayed here. I magine it does. Then again, with 8+billion humans, I don't see why so much jealousy. From women's perspective, the fierce competition for the most desirable men is a high stakes game that inevitably results in many losers. I ain't jealous of no woman on this planet. I'm secure enough on myself. I've managed to land the kind of man that TRP describes as a Chad. And if things were to end, I can find a similar man to him if I felt like it. Wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 12:52 AM |
| 6 | Ladies - Would you 2nd guess your boyfriend/husband if other women didn't find him attractive?YES!!!!! If other humans aren't finding him attractive, then he's not overall attractive. People approach me left and right when he's not around. I'd expect the same as well. Granted, I always tell them about him. Likewise, he does the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 12:47 AM |
| – | everyone is scared of turning 30I have a great understanding of all pills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 01:59 PM |
| – | everyone is scared of turning 30You get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 01:59 PM |
| – | everyone is scared of turning 30TIL: I am a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 01:58 PM |
| – | everyone is scared of turning 30I've been graying since I was Sixteen. Now at 34, I'm almost all gray. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 01:57 PM |
| – | everyone is scared of turning 30True. At 34 I feel my life is at its best. Things just keep getting better and better for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 03:58 AM |
| – | everyone is scared of turning 30I've been with the same man for about 12 years. And even if things were to suddenly end, I'd be fine either way: I'd be fine alone, and if not, I know where to find IRL (only) new partners almost immediately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 03:57 AM |
| – | everyone is scared of turning 30Oh heavens, no! I'm 34 and my life is parsecs better than at any point from any of my 20's. Not only I know exactly what I want out of life. But my mental health is way better, my credit, finances, and overall stability is just better. All of these markers of stability are shown on the outside. How and why? I radiate confidence and security in myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 03:55 AM |
| 1 | For those of you 30+, do picky people really start to settle?We've been together for over ten years (12 to be exact). So... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 03:40 AM |
| 3 | For those of you 30+, do picky people really start to settle?20 years ago it was quite common a husband would be right of his wife. I am more conservative than my husband. Not by a super lot, but as a whole I harbor significantly more right wing talking points than him. ^^<sup>Granted,</sup> ^^<sup>I</sup> ^^<sup>had</sup> ^^<sup>never</sup> ^^<sup>supported</sup> ^^<sup>Donald</sup> ^^<sup>Trump.</sup> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 03:26 AM |
| 3 | Shouldn’t the buyers set the standards?Hence the /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Shouldn’t the buyers set the standards?Not just SF, but a lot of big tech hubs. I live in another major tech hub… and it’s an even LARGER sausage fest. However, modern day Genghis Khan is taking care of that. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 01:35 AM |
| 3 | Shouldn’t the buyers set the standards?You said it: men with options. Then again, for every three men WITH OPTIONS, there are FOUR women WITH EQUAL OR BETTER OPTIONS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Shouldn’t the buyers set the standards?To a good extent. Then again, the seller ALSO decides the market where it decides where it gets to make sales. Second, the seller also gets to dictate the terms and conditions of who gets to be the buyer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Are men really worthless?I'm 34. I'd say it is more cultural and/or regional. ___________ Those who tend to be rural, tend to harbor more male/female Egalitarian views. The opposite seems true for urban dwellers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 05:12 AM |
| 1 | This sub is toxic for women (as well as men)Oh freaking boy... the whole Reddit TRP/RPW/PPD is all toxic as hell. In fact, it has been hella toxic for many, many years. When TRP stopped becoming about self-improvement and stoicism and suddenly became some alt-right fringe subculture about tradwives, replacement theory, western civilization this or that, etc it went down the drain. How and why a mildly facetious self-improvement theory mainly based from 80's and 90's stand-up comedy, with some dosis of stoicism, Machiavelli's The Prince, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 02:43 AM |
| 1 | This sub is toxic for women (as well as men)I'm going to message you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 02:17 AM |
| 3 | What is it with women and "exceptions"?Men who themselves are communal dicks have no room to complain about women who were promiscuous before won't be able to pair bond. That's the height of hypocrisy. I do, however, get if men who aren't promiscuous themselves not preferring a woman who's promiscuous (especially for spiritual reasons). But community dicks being massive hypocrites? FOH!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 10:45 PM |
| 3 | What is it with women and "exceptions"?Women seem to frequently assume they'll be the exception to rules whereas men are less likely to. Even when I was actively dating, I was not that naïve. My dad was smart enough to introduce me to stoicism as a teen. As an example, men judge body count harshly, because statistically you're less likely to be "the one" That’s why I never bothered with insecure men. Any men who had ever had a problem with my previous life prior to him, could just kick rocks. whereas women frequently assume "I can ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 07:11 PM |
| 2 | It’s not that looks don’t matterLOOKS MATTER. THE END!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 07:04 PM |
| 7 | Do you prefer online dating or in person dating?When I was actively dating, I only did good in person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 07:04 PM |
| 3 | Dating is the most interesting thing many women do / will ever doEven when I was entirely single, my life was very fun and interesting. I came of age at the height of pop-punk, so I’d occasionally played guitar with local bands. Yea, I was single. Then, after divorcing my first hubs, I coped the loss with singing karaoke. Was not single, but my new gent was FAR from the center of my life. Present day, I am degree and careermaxxing after COVID-19 made me rethink life. While I have not gotten sick with COVID-19, seeing death so often has changed my gears and pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI think the worst part of being ND in here is that people's friendliness shouldn't be taken seriously, both men and women here are vicious wolves, when men stop you are ND they WILL try to abuse you, like a shark smelling blood in the water, you become a walking magnet for thirsty men looking for an easy lay. If a Romance language is the dominant language is the dominant one… IT’LL BE HELL FOR THE NEURO-DIVERGENT FOLKS!!!! Given how much of the communication is body language and situational reli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 12:41 AM |
| -1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenI’m not Brazilian. I am, however, fluent in Portuguese: I learned it (you guessed it) by watching Brazilian telenovelas. laguaguagdecarne is West Indian inside joke between my husband and I: guagua is West Indian Hispanic for wagon, bus, truck, SUV (depending which island one is located, guagua will have a slightly-ish different meaning). It is meant to be meatwagon. Glad you’re Latino. Why? you’ll get why I said what I said in a moment. Yes, being ND had a lot to do but also just being me (my o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 09:15 PM |
| -1 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenIs fun for women. As a neuro-divergent woman, when I was actively dating, dating would start off as a fun adventure. HOWEVER, once things began to slowly advance a bit more… they were suddenly not that fun. How and why? A lot of the men who pursued/chased me did so because they saw me as their real life Manic Pixie Dream Girl. So no. Dating was NOT FUN. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 07:58 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Girls can be completely attracted to and interested in a guy but still reject himbut I would like to have a girlfriend of my own age and ethnicity. Are those two things THAT critical for you?! My first husband was someone of my same ethnicity who lived in my same city of origin. However, my current husband is of a different ethnicity. Believe it or not: the one who's of a different ethnicity is way more compatible in all the things that really matter in a marriage. Second, despite being of different ethnicities, we also have way more in common culturally due to having simila… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Niche game doesn't work past high schoolAbout 1/4 on the EQ, and 3/4 of intellect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 03:07 AM |
| 1 | A Woman Is Never Truly Single - What Would You Do In This Scenario?Here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 11:44 PM |
| 2 | A Woman Is Never Truly Single - What Would You Do In This Scenario?Let me flip the script: Amanda never asked Mike about HIS past, barring previous STDs or if he had children... because Amanda is not an insecure little twat (unlike Mike, who's insecure AF). Turns out, that Mike ALSO has an in-between relationships plate he likes to spin named Carla. Carla now lives several counties away because she found her dream job in a different city, a city where Mike also has a few mutual friends with Carla. Mike contacta Carla via email. Amanda finds out about Carla via … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 11:43 PM |
| 5 | Are a majority of women Bi?I find women sexually attractive. Per the Kinsey scale, I fall on #\3. However, I am visually put off by vaginas: no matter how aesthetically pretty they might be. Sure, they might feel nice to the touch, and seeing how former female partners get aroused when Ive played with theirs... but I don't like looking at them. Now, when it comes to ROMANCE, I am 100% hetero-romantic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, how true is this statement......"We women are the ones who make long lists of what we want in a man, and then throw the list away, as soon as there is good chemistry". I've never had long requirements for men for that reason: I'm very attracted to a wide variety of physical attributes on a man and a wide of intellectual attributes as well. If chemistry and compatibility are there, then those two things will triumph at the end of the day. I'd feel it'd be asinine to throw away a man that's perfectly compatible because he might … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 07:36 PM |
| 6 | Q4A At what body fat percentage is a woman's dating life hindered?I carry my extra fat very well. Given how the bulk of my goes to my lower body and very little centers in the middle, the highest body FAT % I've been able to secure a relationship at has been 45%. At this %, my behind was very large but the rest of me looked normal. My weight was in the mid 200 pounds. I've been heavier, tho (albeit for a very short period of time). Right now, my body fat percentage is at 22%. That has been my usual % for most of my life. I am quite slender at the moment (I wea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Niche game doesn't work past high schoolI did not date in high school. However, I didn't pay attention to cliques or subcultures albeit I always sported a somewhat alt style (and still do, to some extent). I had always been more concerned with overall physical appearance, and then with overall intelligence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 07:15 PM |
| -1 | it’s not a normal RPW post but this girl just landed her alpha and she’s sooo excited 🥰 when’s the last time you looked at your wedding stuff???I mean, nobody IN MY CLOSE CIRCLE who has had an actual wedding has lasted more than five or six years. And I'm talking about people who waited to get all their ducks in a row, to be close or past 30, etc. I'm hardly an isolated case as well (again, in my close circle). The only people who had real wedding and are still together are those who are over 50. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/03/22 12:10 AM |
| 1 | it’s not a normal RPW post but this girl just landed her alpha and she’s sooo excited 🥰 when’s the last time you looked at your wedding stuff???I did not have a wedding: we just signed the marriage license at City Hall... and that was it. We have a stronger, more stable, and happier marriage than everyone else we know that had an actual wedding. Why so much weight is put on the wedding... when the important part is the marriage itself? | /r/RedPillWives | 17/03/22 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Tea TimeI've actually been avoiding any war-related news as much as possible. My husband and I met while we were active duty in the military. I lost a 2nd cousin (with whom I grew up very close) and a co-worker (aircrew, who cross-trained in my area of work) in combat. I am fed up with war. I had to be active right in the middle of one, and I'm sick of more war. I'm 1000000% in favor of receiving whatever refugees (and was also in favor as well back in 2014 as well) want a safe haven until things are be… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/03/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Tea TimeThis was just like the end of Baby Bush's administration. Gas prices were THIS expensive once already. At that point in time, I was living in the West Indies (where I'm from), and gas was about $1.10 per LITER (which is closer to $4.20 per gallon). So this isn't something new. It is mainly OPEC manipulating the global prices due to war: this has very little to do with domestic public policy, and a lot to do with foreign policy and economic instability. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/03/22 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Dear fellow red pill women, I have a question! now there is an amazing man who I’m dating but I’m not sure how to tell him I want to be a traditional wife. My mom was a homemaker and possibly I’d love to be one as well. How did you fellow women told this to your partners?One detail you need to be aware of being a homemaker is that YOU run the household. Being a homemaker goes beyond doing cooking, cleaning/tidying, and child-rearing. You're also the overall household administrator more than anything else. You've probably heard in pop culture of the saying: the man is the head, but the woman is the NECK... and the neck makes the head turn around. THAT'S how it works when you're the SAHM homemaker. You have to be wary if your husband tries to hide any money from y… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/03/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | I think the red pill applies to me in most waysHow exactly does TRP applies to you? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/22 11:54 AM |
| 3 | Men often say “agreeableness” is a top trait they desire in a partner more so than women state that. Why is that?I scored very high on openness. I scored just as low on neurotism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 11:39 AM |
| 6 | Men often say “agreeableness” is a top trait they desire in a partner more so than women state that. Why is that?Assertive women. That doesn't translate to difficult or rude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 02:31 AM |
| 8 | Men often say “agreeableness” is a top trait they desire in a partner more so than women state that. Why is that?Humans aren't dichotomies of "if you aren't this then you must be that". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 02:03 AM |
| 7 | Men often say “agreeableness” is a top trait they desire in a partner more so than women state that. Why is that?Huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 02:02 AM |
| 14 | Do older RP men really have a chip on their shoulder about not having gotten with younger women when they were younger? Why does it motivate them?Yes, they are. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/22 12:54 AM |
| 1 | What do you care for in your partner?The main three things I love about him: The intellectual connection we both have. In all the years (nearly twelve) we've been together, we had never run out of things to talk about. Physical/sexual connection/attraction. Same as with intellectual connection: we can't get enough of each other. It's such an insane attraction and even more insane sexual life. We take great care of each other in all sorts of ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Men often say “agreeableness” is a top trait they desire in a partner more so than women state that. Why is that?Touché | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 12:47 AM |
| 8 | Men often say “agreeableness” is a top trait they desire in a partner more so than women state that. Why is that?But what if you were the one in the wrong at that point in time? You're just going to force your partner to admit fault when she isn't the one at fault?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 12:41 AM |
| 6 | Men often say “agreeableness” is a top trait they desire in a partner more so than women state that. Why is that?Form what I’ve seen men get bored with agreeable women. THEY DO!!!!! This is why my husband (10+ years) has not gotten bored of me. However, he hated with a burning passion when I tried to be more submissive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Men often say “agreeableness” is a top trait they desire in a partner more so than women state that. Why is that?Some women just love to play Devil's advocate... I do a lot of Devil's Advocate situations (with almost everyone). Why? To challenge people's preconceived notions of whatever flawed POV they may be having. They like a power struggle dynamic. Not necessarily. Someone who isn't entirely agreeable isn't necessarily a person who's always seeking a power struggle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 12:29 AM |
| 28 | Men often say “agreeableness” is a top trait they desire in a partner more so than women state that. Why is that?According to the five personality test (the OCEAN test), agreeableness is the area I scored the very lowest (like the super bottom of the low). This doesn't mean I'm nagging or difficult. It just means I'm highly assertive, I know when to say yes/no, and I know how to pick my battles. At one point in time in my relationship, I tried the whole submissive route... and it did not work. My husband, who's just as assertive as me, did not like that was all: "I don't like this submissive, passive you. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Tea TimeI used to be active years ago in the old subreddit, but quit it once it got overrun with men. I don't like the red pill label due to its super negative connotation. However, being from the West Indies had just given me a more traditional lens in how I view man/woman relationships by default. So I prefer these sort of forums to find relationship advice out of any other forums. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/03/22 10:04 PM |
| 6 | What fictional character inspired you to embrace your femininity/reject feminism?Their manga relationship. That was a very healthy relationship. The original anime relationship was a very bad, borderline abusive, relationship. And if you are even familiar with the real-life relationship the author has with fellow manga author Yoshihiro Togashi (Yu-Yu Hakusho, Hunter X Hunter), they also have an equally healthy relationship (since they've very supportive of their manga careers and health issues). | /r/RedPillWives | 08/03/22 09:56 PM |
| 3 | How the hell do you meet people?I met my ex husband and current husbands at rock shows. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of sh*ttesting?Since this is getting buried, here are my takes: I think a lot of what the manosphere says makes sense. NO. It's just squeezed through a patriarchal male supremacist lens. Shit tests are real. But it's more like playful teasing banter and it's the same thing as "negging". A shit test and a neg are two different things. A neg is similar to a backhanded compliment. A shit test is to do something considered rude as a way to test one's boundaries. You're ALMOST pretty. Is a neg. A bait and switch ty… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 04:11 PM |
| 4 | Husband just turned redpill, what do I do?1000000000% THIS!!!!!!!! There is a reason why "the starter wife" is a real thing. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 06:23 AM |
| 4 | Husband just turned redpill, what do I do?You can happily tell him to fuck off. You being 28 with a kid already means jack and shit. A woman can be 18 or can be 88 and still make a man fall in love and get him to marry her. TRP is all lies and projection. If men are willing to do it with animals or inanimate objects... you think they are THAT concerned over THE WALL? Of course, they are not. My mother remarried (to my step-dad) at my age (34) while having two teens (myself, 16, and my younger brother, 14) and a tween (my youngest brothe… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 06:14 AM |
| 0 | What do you think of sh*ttesting?I think a lot of what the manosphere says makes sense. NO. It's just squeezed through a patriarchal male supremacist lens. Shit tests are real. But it's more like playful teasing banter and it's the same thing as "negging". A shit test and a neg are two different things. A neg is similar to a backhanded compliment. A shit test is to do something considered rude as a way to test one's boundaries. You're ALMOST pretty. Is a neg. A bait and switch type of date or the usual I forgot my wallet are sh… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 05:08 AM |
| 9 | I’ve noticed a lot of red pill men tend to blame their shortcomings on bs dating statistics.Whenever I see anyone bringing the Pareto principle regarding dating, all I have to do is show this: THERE ARE LITERALLY EIGHT MEN PER EVERY TWO WOMEN ON DATING APPS!!!! | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 04:21 AM |
| 0 | Do you think young men are becoming more or less sexist?Sexism isn't limited to violence facepalm. Sexism is also about the so-called "second shift" women have to work that most men don't work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Do you think young men are becoming more or less sexist?Not like it hasn't changed much. If any, more like in the 90's... where gendered violence peaked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 05:41 PM |
| -1 | Do you think young men are becoming more or less sexist?Yes, millennial men are becoming MORE sexist. But a lot of it has more to do with diversity ... something leftists have been preaching. I guess that's one of the consequences of "globalization." Edit: Gee, I see downvotes. Okay... go ahead and down vote the facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Isn't the fact that people hitch up with others with similar attractiveness prove leagues exist and looks aren't that subjective?Class, as in... societal class. Not school classes. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/22 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Isn't the fact that people hitch up with others with similar attractiveness prove leagues exist and looks aren't that subjective?leagues exist and looks aren't that subjective One's socio-economical class has much more to do with this than one's sole physique. I'd say leagues are more drawn on class than looks. People are more likely to get together based on class than purely on looks. I've seen way more people with their class matches compared to people I see with their looks matches. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/22 03:17 AM |
| 0 | Isn't the fact that people hitch up with others with similar attractiveness prove leagues exist and looks aren't that subjective?Outside of the waist to hip ratio and facial symmetry... everything else about looks is entirely subjective. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/22 03:12 AM |
| 3 | Does your dating options really decrease past your 30s male or female?It also depends where you live. I live in a big metro with a lot of middle aged singles and divorcees, and it's one of America's largest sausage fests. (more men than women). | /r/ExRedPill | 02/03/22 04:02 PM |
| 3 | Does your dating options really decrease past your 30s male or female?And this argument that people (particularly women) "expire" past a certain age is so ridiculous because dating and marriage is about much more than just looking youthful and fertile. Obviously. Yes! Such massive bullshit! Just turned 34 and because I got back in shape... I'm back to get the same of attention 22 year old me was getting. Of course, all I do is half smile, and say "no, I have a husband" and show off the band. And like I've said before... even my 77 year old grandma gets attention a… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/03/22 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Does your dating options really decrease past your 30s male or female?Since I'd be both of these (divorced and single parent), and most likely any new gentleman I'd be dating most likely be one of this as well (also divorce and/or single parent), this is such an non issue to me. I KNOW our kids will be the ones taking precedence. I much rather have a living apart together type of relationship than cohabitating with another man. At least for the first two years of a relationship. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/03/22 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Does your dating options really decrease past your 30s male or female?NO!!!! | /r/ExRedPill | 02/03/22 03:51 PM |
| 6 | Isn't it hilarious how the actual 'alpha' of the planet right now, Volodymyr Zelensky, is nothing like the redpill clowns say an 'alpha male' should be like?He's cute-handsome. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/03/22 02:36 PM |
| 4 | Isn't it hilarious how the actual 'alpha' of the planet right now, Volodymyr Zelensky, is nothing like the redpill clowns say an 'alpha male' should be like?It's a job they asked to do. They volunteered. Besides, I did my time... so I can get away with making these sorts of comments if I feel like it. There's a very big HONORABLE written on the bottom part of my DD-214. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/03/22 02:35 PM |
| 9 | Isn't it hilarious how the actual 'alpha' of the planet right now, Volodymyr Zelensky, is nothing like the redpill clowns say an 'alpha male' should be like?You mean the bullet sponges? | /r/ExRedPill | 01/03/22 01:04 AM |
| 2 | I’m a young female in her early 20s who discovered the red pillI'm originally from the West Indies. Abortion is the norm in most of the developed world, and the rest of America (the continents) is catching up with either decriminalizing it or legalizing it. While stricter gender norms are the norm are people get way less easily offended, I will vastly admit, this über ridiculous woke upper-middle-class gring** who had never had to experience multiple days without running water nor electricity (like I had, even tho I lived in a classically liberal democratic… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/22 09:29 PM |
| 2 | I’m a young female in her early 20s who discovered the red pillI'm not a pill person. But if pill cultists were to describe me, that's how they'd be doing so. I just happen to be originally from the (Hispanic side) West Indies. This, by default, had given me a more "traditional-ish" view on man/woman relationships... and it's NOTHING like the modern TRP/RPW types that abound in the alt-right, Neo Nazi circles spaces. You're more than free to browse this subreddit for my previous posts since I write a lot about the female POV regarding traditional relationsh… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/22 09:20 PM |
| 1 | I’m a young female in her early 20s who discovered the red pillSoooooort of... | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | I’m a young female in her early 20s who discovered the red pillCheck the r/redpillwives subreddit. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/22 08:16 PM |
| 13 | Single moms and pregnancyThese men love to parrot BS claims from pop evolutionary psychology claims, yet these same dudes don't ever seem to have ever taken a basic 7th-grade biology class. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/22 08:15 PM |
| 1 | I’m a young female in her early 20s who discovered the red pillYou're free to let it all out. I'm a slightly older female who hates the concepts of pills but some would say I am mildly red pill, others would say I'm closer to either magenta or even purple pilled. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/22 07:46 AM |
| 1 | I hate that Red Pill has made me feel ashamed of attracting men that make a lot of money. I now have a strong desire to reject them solely based on their income to avoid being seen as a "gold digger" even though I know I'm not one just to continue to "prove" myself. I'm over it.Not quite. But rather dispelling TRP's myth of the "men age like wine". Even if the gents from FRIENDS weren't to the same level of Tom Cruise in levels of attractiveness, they could had still taken measures to stay in shape and the like. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/22 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Ladies of r/exredpill what inspires you to help and advice men here?Because at the end of the day... y'all want to be with us, right?! So who you gonna listen?! Some greasy incel in sheep's clothes.... or the real thing (an actual lady)? Second, neuro-atypical people tend to be prone to TRP poisoning. As a late in life diagnosed, I must prevent further poisoning. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/22 11:05 AM |
| 1 | I hate had Red Pill caused me to hate myself and beat myself up for years because I was a traditional woman with decent behaviour and ethics but stuck in a body that has faught me for most of my life. I know I have so much to offer and yet they'll always make me feel as if it's never enough.Even better! | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | I hate that Red Pill has made me feel ashamed of attracting men that make a lot of money. I now have a strong desire to reject them solely based on their income to avoid being seen as a "gold digger" even though I know I'm not one just to continue to "prove" myself. I'm over it.They still operate over the notion of: Men age like wine, women age like milk. I mean, if said wine is the sort that becomes vinegar and said milk is the one that ends up becoming fine aged extra sharp Cracker Barrel white cheddar... then they might have a point. If y'all saw the FRIENDS reunion, you'll know I'm right: all the women looked flawless (Courtney, Lisa, and Jenny all looked 100% gorgeous without a fault)... but the men looked average at best (David) to flat out poorly aged (either ba… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 10:49 PM |
| 2 | I hate that Red Pill has made me feel ashamed of attracting men that make a lot of money. I now have a strong desire to reject them solely based on their income to avoid being seen as a "gold digger" even though I know I'm not one just to continue to "prove" myself. I'm over it.If you want a man with money, go for it. Just make sure to have some sort of financial solvency of your own in case you end up like this: this is much more common than you'd expect, so have a big financial backup plan to remain financially solvent and not assume you'll get a big settlement, alimony, or big child support.. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 10:39 PM |
| 0 | You don't have to completely leave TRP behind, just ignore the bullshitJordan Peterson? For such an educated research clinical psychologist, he sure likes to parrot a lot of crap. It's rather sad he's just chasing the mighty dollar. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Just another guy realizing he can be better.Dude! It's a high school relationship! Those rarely last! | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 10:28 PM |
| 1 | I hate had Red Pill caused me to hate myself and beat myself up for years because I was a traditional woman with decent behaviour and ethics but stuck in a body that has faught me for most of my life. I know I have so much to offer and yet they'll always make me feel as if it's never enough.TRP is a bunch of nonsense. Go to r/redpillwives They'll have the info you'll want. r/redpillwomen is male TRP conditioned advice conditioned for women. Not worth any women's time. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 10:27 PM |
| 4 | Having a job and being dependable doesn't make you "beta"Having a job and being dependable... Is what makes a man A HIGH VALUE MAN!!!! Whether he makes $30K as a supermarket shift manager, or $3m as a C-suite executive... if on top of that he's also reliable and an overall decent human being. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 08:29 PM |
| 1 | I hate had Red Pill caused me to hate myself and beat myself up for years because I was a traditional woman with decent behaviour and ethics but stuck in a body that has faught me for most of my life. I know I have so much to offer and yet they'll always make me feel as if it's never enough.be a complement to his life If a man has not committed himself to you, you aren't nothing to him other than a stranger! I'm telling you this as a woman from an ACTUAL traditional culture with very defined gender roles (Hispanic West Indies). If a man has not explicitly told you he has any intentions to commit to you in any form (whether is a proper LTR, cohabitation, or an engagement that will lead to marriage, or an actual marriage), then he's just a stranger. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 08:26 PM |
| 3 | It's a common sentiment within the Red Pill and Pickup communities to idealize Eastern European as "traditionally feminine" and "submissive" in contrast w/ feminist Western women. What these guys are totally oblivious to is that this veneer of "trad. femininity" is informed by a culture of violence.One of my favorite fashion historians is Polish. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 07:35 PM |
| 3 | Is being with the hottest women really all that like I think it is?It is about ego and about what would others say/think (in Spanish: el que dirán). | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 07:32 PM |
| 2 | I hate had Red Pill caused me to hate myself and beat myself up for years because I was a traditional woman with decent behaviour and ethics but stuck in a body that has faught me for most of my life. I know I have so much to offer and yet they'll always make me feel as if it's never enough.Did you do any of those things for a man without being actually committed to any of them?! | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Made this little thingLove it when I see men saying Wife material. Because I can explain things about man/woman relationships, and either sound like the ultimate, perfect little wifey... or a bitter, salty radfem. THEY ARE NOT MUTUALLY EXCLUSIVE. Being one doesn't cancel the other. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 07:27 PM |
| 2 | The redpill destroyed my self esteem. Any advice.I'm a lady. It is quite unusual to reach one's 18th birthday single... ESPECIALLY IN LATIN-AMERICA!!! | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/22 08:54 PM |
| 8 | The redpill destroyed my self esteem. Any advice.I'm Hispanic as well, and I'm aware of this...but this is also an issue in some places more than others. Where I'm from (PR), it was a bit on an issue... but is a way smaller issue than in other places in LatAm and in the USA. My top male preference are actually North Africans and Central Asians out of all the men in the world. Then again, as a way taller than the average Hispanic lady, I was NOT that popular with the gentlemen (solely on my height, despite the rest of me fitting the overall i… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/22 08:26 PM |
| 3 | explain why i am wrong(actual redpill)As a lady from a more traditionalist (non-Northern European) minded culture, I'd like you to help me dispel some (possible) misunderstandings I have about TRP. Many of y'all claim your ideals are the truth and rooted in tradition. However, A LOT of the things you guys claim are so far out of the truth... that at best is comical and pathetic at worst. Here are some of y'all's greatest hits: The sexual market value. This one is so comical. But before going into further detail, I wanna hear your … | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/22 08:16 PM |
| 9 | The redpill destroyed my self esteem. Any advice.people having racial biases with online dating. While there is a small degree of truth of degree of this, the reality is that MEN, much more than women, are the ones to give much more weight to ethnic preferences. The women who give more importance to ethnic preferences, tend to be black loyalist females who rather die all r/foreveralone than venture with men of other ethnicities. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/22 07:45 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on betatization?I love a good neg. As a teen who wasn't aware of her autism, I learned to study human behavior and studied those things. So I trained myself on how to spot these things. Some of men's greatest hits... and my favorite comebacks: You just think you're so bold (implying I'm ballsy). Well of course! I grew up being the only girl! What did you expect?! Me being just a cute delicate flower?! I have a somewhat abrasive personality. Not apt for the weak. You're all exotic, not like so and so. Hey, so an… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/22 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Has the RedPill Turned into an incel Movement?That's not being broke at all. I just don't like European cars. Personal preference. I guess I got even more turned off by them at my grandpappy's funeral: it looked like a mini European car dealership. He was an old money big time rancher, but the oddball among his brothers (other big time old money ranchers) and his peers in the business (some who were local political figures): he was the only one who liked regular brands, but he traded his cars every other year for the lols (his brand of choi… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/22 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Has the RedPill Turned into an incel Movement?I don't like European cars whatsoever: their maintenance is just too expensive for no reason. Either American or Japanese: Cadillac, Lexus, Infinity, or Lincoln. They don't need as much maintenance, and when they do... I can normally do it myself or with a bit of help from my dad (via video) for the most part. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/22 11:34 PM |
| 0 | Redpill incels do not deserve love and are not entitled to anything AT ALLBut he ain't wrong. I mean, someone has to tell those incels of TRP the truth. Even if he's not being nice about it, someone has to. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/22 03:50 PM |
| 8 | As a Red-Pilled Guy, I had no Idea it was this Bad, and My StoryNext time, go read books and blogs by actual mental health professionals. Not dudes selling systems on "how to get laid". | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/22 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Single Mothers yay or nay, Are they damaged goods?And like I said in another comment, it also goes both ways: men who baby trap women. I literally have a childhood friend who talked out a lady from having an abortion... and now he's crying foul about paying child support... for a kid she did not want. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/22 02:13 PM |
| 3 | Single Mothers yay or nay, Are they damaged goods?You fear being homeless so you work. A lot of homeless STILL have jobs. That hasn't stopped homelessness. Women fear being a single mom so they don’t have unprotected sex. This won't stop relationships from not working at the end of the day, from birth control not working, and from policy makers creating or striking down laws that will affect family planning, creation, and stability. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Single Mothers yay or nay, Are they damaged goods?Have money. As if women can't have money themselves. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/22 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Single Mothers yay or nay, Are they damaged goods?The whole baggage BS always bothers me because a lot of MEN assume that a barely legal teenybopper won't have any baggage. But what if they get with said teenybopper... yet said teenybopper has a lot of emotional baggage from either: abandonment. foster care. failing school. death of relatives. using drugs. or just anything that can cause a lot of heavy baggage. Like I've said before, people don't exist in a vacuum. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/22 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Single Mothers yay or nay, Are they damaged goods?How a bad investment ? | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/22 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Single Mothers yay or nay, Are they damaged goods?The vast majority of my relatives and friends who are single mothers have all their stuff together, it's insane. My mother had a short stint as a single mother after divorcing my dad. She had all her stuff in place: a good paying job, a college undergrad degree, a support network, and a good co-parenting relationship with my dad. Then, about four years after the divorce... she met my step-dad. My step-dad and his family became my third family. Thanks to him being in my life, I gained a third set… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/22 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Single Mothers yay or nay, Are they damaged goods?I'm married with a tween/pre-teen son. And also, if I were to find myself single... I wouldn't date a man with very young children either. His kids better be around the same age as mine (+/-). Also, I'm fixed... so my factory is all closed down. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/22 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Single Mothers yay or nay, Are they damaged goods?And men who have been divorced more than two times, with multiple kids from multiple women aren't damaged goods also?! Why is that women are still being held to the Madonna/Whore complex dichotomy standard?! | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/22 06:18 PM |
| 9 | Single Mothers yay or nay, Are they damaged goods?And baby trapping is also a two way street. For every woman that tries to baby trap a man, there's another man doing the same as well: from poking holes in condoms, hiding pills to doing more sinister crap like TRYING TO REMOVE A GODDAMN IUD FROM THEIR PARTNERS. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/22 06:17 PM |
| 7 | Single Mothers yay or nay, Are they damaged goods?When will this obsession with single MOTHERS stop?! If you don't want to date them... DO NOT DATE THEM!!!! Single mothers don't exist in a vacuum and they didn't just appear out of nowhere. Just don't dehumanize them, and move on with your life. Is that so hard?! | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/22 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do redpillers whine and bitch so much?If you were to check my comment history, you'll known that I don't harbor that sort of hatred... and that I DETEST society's imposed dichotomies regarding women (eg. Madonna/whore or housewife/careerist). But I'm glad I managed to clear that misunderstanding. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/22 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Do not adopt the defeatist mindset that redpill promotesYou sure, tho? | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/22 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Why do redpillers whine and bitch so much?Tell me you didn't see the video without telling me you didn't see the video. If you saw the video, you knew it was not meant as a jab to the ones who VOLUNTARY choose to be a housewife. If you felt offended by the "some little housewife" comment", you're mad at the wrong person. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/22 01:11 AM |
| 1 | How do I lower my standards?I mean its not like she finds me attractive anyway. I mean, you sound like you have a nice body. She should at least find your body appealing. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/22 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Is there any reason other than validation for men to pursue sex with other people?Think for a second: Why you need the validation of others? | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/22 12:54 AM |
| 1 | What your opinion on Robert Kiyoaski becoming a red piller?A lot of what is considered "TRP" is heavily cultural, tho. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/22 04:55 PM |
| 1 | The red pill makes relationships sound extremely unappealing.Male sex robots exist too. I mean, while the idea of sex robots sound good in theory for those who are too socially awkward... at the same time this is kinda scary to some extent IMO. I'm sure Henry (from the link above) will always crack a funny joke and leave the clt and the V sore over and over... but it'll get old quickly. After all, Henry won't eat my food nor will be able to talk to me about his day. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Do not adopt the defeatist mindset that redpill promotesYou don't become a better man by negging women and stacking them as plates. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/22 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Is there any reason other than validation for men to pursue sex with other people?Yes. This is why as a neuro-divergent person, I care very little for 3rd party validation. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/22 04:31 PM |
| 1 | How do I lower my standards?Kindness and compassion are a must, thats just being a basic human in my book. See? This is the sort of things I mean that also counts as a standard. I workout a lot because not only do I have to because im a varsity athlete but I just like lifting weights, doesnt mean she has to though. As long as she is physically healthy I don't mind. This is good. But this girl makes me feel so, I guess afraid. Im not scared of her but something about her makes me feel so unsure about everything. This is whe… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | How do I lower my standards?You shouldn't lower them, but also you need to put in perspective what are REALISTIC standards vs unrealistic standards. Let me give you an example of what is realistic vs unrealistic standards. Having realistic standards isn't the same as lowering. Say, you want a good-looking lady. Don't we all want a good looking partner? We all do! BUT!!! What is your scene? This matters! Second, what NON physical standards are just as important to you as well? Good conversation? Similar values? Higher educa… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/22 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Has the RedPill Turned into an incel Movement?I don't get his obsession with expensive cars. Cars depreciate so quickly. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/22 10:59 PM |
| 3 | Do not adopt the defeatist mindset that redpill promotesIt IS a defeatist attitude. There is really nothing truly positive about the red pill at the end of the day. Where is the positive aspect of treating women as objects rather than normal human beings? | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/22 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Why do redpillers whine and bitch so much?Redpilled incels fall into the latter category. They don't have any internally isolated sense of self worth, its based on the external. This is why they try and fuck as many women as possible, treat them objectively and with little empathy. Yet its never enough for them, the insecurity never goes away. Leaving them with perpetual feelings of shit, causing them to be bitter, like what OP was referring to. That's a problem with their self-esteem, not with the rest of the world. They, themselves, n… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/22 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Why Kevin Samuels Delivers Toxic Messages to Both Men and Women - Personal ExperienceThe real value of a so-called HVM is not in the money he has in his bank account, but in his values, how he treats his loved ones (especially his family, friends, and his life partner), and how is he as an overall human being. If a man loves his family, is a hard working man, and has all his life in order (whether he has $1 in the bank or $1,000,000 in the bank), that makes him a HVM. I mean, loom at the likes of Donald Trump or Elon Musk. They may have money and power, but they're overall the d… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/22 07:30 PM |
| 6 | Why Kevin Samuels Delivers Toxic Messages to Both Men and Women - Personal ExperienceWomen are still able to have healthy children past their 40's. In fact, that's the demographic that's having the most kids. Kevin Samuels can choke on a big, fat BBC | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/22 07:25 PM |
| 5 | Why Kevin Samuels Delivers Toxic Messages to Both Men and Women - Personal ExperienceI've never liked Kevin Samuels. Now more than ever, he can fuck off! Trying to pit Hispanic women (like myself) against black women (like one of my best friends)? That's something I can't ever forget nor forgive. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/22 07:22 PM |
| 5 | Why do redpillers whine and bitch so much?I'm a woman (Puerto Rican like OP at that). I ALSO had to earn my worth as a human. Being pretty doesn't give me any intrinsic value. Why? A man isn't an insurance plan nor a retirement plan. A man can just dump me without warning and leave me destitute, or randomly die. Caring for my own financial solvency and education are the things that add value to my life. My own FATHER and uncles taught me all of this. My grandmothers, mother and aunt also taught me the same. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/22 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Why do redpillers whine and bitch so much?Because red pillers are a bunch of sad miserable fuccs. This kind of crap doesn't help either. I even cried like a baby when I saw this clip (from a well-known red pill coach). I can't believe there are people in this world peddling this sort of hatred in the world. As a Puerto Rican woman, I am not the enemy of other women. In fact, I believe all women around the world should unite in arms against the evils of the male red pill. I was never groomed to be some little housewife. In fact, my own F… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/22 06:19 PM |
| 1 | As a lady who also has Asperger's, I can't feel sorry for this dude... or for any so-called "male autistic incels" after reading this.You keep talking about how you worked on your social skills and because you fixed it all up so easily that everyone else may be able to. I do think almost everyone can work on their social skills. Make social behaviors a new special interests. You have NO idea how fascinating is the human psyche... WHEN YOU ARE NOT DATA MINING BULLSHIT TO BRING AN AGENDA TO VULNERABLE, IMPRESSIONABLE YOUTH!!!! Are you aware that maybe you're not that good at it and reading those magazines didn't actually help, i… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/22 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Why are a lot of red pillars dishonest ?So do most women in my family (myself included) in relation to the men we are currenty married, were married or had children with. They just so happened to: either be our looksmatch, somewhat better looking, or despite their lack of material wealth, they added something intangible we wanted (eg. physical safety or physical comfort). That's why, by process of elimination... it HAS TO BE that . | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/22 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Why are a lot of red pillars dishonest ?I know! They're sooooo ugly, it hurts seeing them with women who are the paramount of perfection... and I'm a somewhat conventionally attractive-ish lady myself (but I have a husband who's my looksmatch). Like, come on!!! Megan Fox should be with some Liam Hemsworth clone, and Kim Kardashian should find some Idris Elba look-alike. not those trolls... unless they happen to have massive junks. That's the only explanation I have for those beauties to be with those trolls: they're probably packed do… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/22 03:47 PM |
| 1 | I analyse and evaluate the trend of unhappy people romanticising a past that never truly existedMy grandmothers and great-aunts had repeatedly told me "the good-ol' days were anything but "good". I was not there, but the women who brought me were there. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/22 01:05 PM |
| 21 | Is anyone else sick of their bullying??M en G etting T riggered O ver W omen | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/22 01:01 PM |
| 57 | So uh… What do women want again?That's it. Nothing else to it. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/22 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Is there any story where dating a single mom has worked out?especially if you have something going for yourself. So if I get divorced, which would make me a single mother... that ALSO HAS A LOT going on for myself on top of having "everything in place"... shouldn't I find someone similar as well? It doesn't compute... It just so happened that I procreated about a decade ago, but at the same time I've been "edumaxxing", "careermaxxing", and ESPECIALLY "looksmaxxing". Why? A happy, well rounded mother will be able to provide a better life for her Offspring… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/22 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Is there any story where dating a single mom has worked out?The fuck?! People marrying single parents (both mothers and fathers) has been done throughout the entire existence of humans. It's more than okay that's not your thing. Just don't be a jerk about it. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/22 07:53 PM |
| 13 | Thanks to this sub, a man and a woman somehow fell in love with each other and we thank you for it existingI love this beautiful happy ending!! Btw, I must also make a note of the following. Having a relationship with a traditional man/woman dynamic doesn't mean one has TRP ideas. I loathe all the BS theories TRP parrot, but given both mine and my hubs upbringing (both being rural country folks, albeit from different parts of the Americas) we are still heavily traditional in how we relate with each other. This has little to do with some BS that came from some sci-fi movie. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | As a lady who also has Asperger's, I can't feel sorry for this dude... or for any so-called "male autistic incels" after reading this.But they're chasing him (ew), not the other way around. Women must NEVER chase a man. He probably doesn't care too much for them. Boys take note of that when they're young; they don't like it when girls are too clingy and chase them. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/22 07:32 PM |
| 2 | As a lady who also has Asperger's, I can't feel sorry for this dude... or for any so-called "male autistic incels" after reading this.Yup! Dudes always get a pass because boys will be boys. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/22 03:05 PM |
| 1 | As a lady who also has Asperger's, I can't feel sorry for this dude... or for any so-called "male autistic incels" after reading this.Were you expecting for a lady to knock at your door? Not how it works. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/22 03:05 PM |
| 4 | Is there any story where dating a single mom has worked out?If this thread has been anything, is that dating and marrying single mothers isn't the end of the world. Sure, nothing wrong with not wanting to do it... but that should be OP's sole decision. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/22 04:01 AM |
| 5 | Is there any story where dating a single mom has worked out?My mother met my step-dad when I was 13 (my younger brothers were 11 and eight). She was 31... yet owned her own home, had a college degree, had a full time job, support system, and was both co-parenting AND in good terms with my dad. She made sure not to introduce us to our eventual step-dad too soon: she wanted to make sure things were going to be serious with him. They married when I was 16... and they're still together. They have a daughter: my half sister, who's about to graduate high-schoo… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/22 03:52 AM |
| 2 | As a lady who also has Asperger's, I can't feel sorry for this dude... or for any so-called "male autistic incels" after reading this.And about pairing up with an autistic man...lmao. I'm literally on this sub because I had to endure RedPill rage from an autistic man I was in love with and pursued. I've seen both sides: I've seen some ASD men very into the pills, while other ASD men being ambivalent to "pills" (due to their rejection of societal norms). But in the bigger scheme of things, it has been better than with normies. There hasn't been an NT to this day that has ever been able to put up with so many of my particular in… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/22 03:39 AM |
| 3 | As a lady who also has Asperger's, I can't feel sorry for this dude... or for any so-called "male autistic incels" after reading this.Can't feel sorry when the author writes: In fact, people I’ve been with have berated me in the past for missing chances to flirt with members of the opposite sex who have apparently given indications of romantic interest. This was me during high school at nearly 100%. I had a moderate case of "face blindness" and couldn't "get it". So, I spent years learning about facial expressions and body language. How and why? I borrowed books from the school library on the subject, read teen and young adult… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/22 12:42 AM |
| 4 | Ladies, or even gentlemen, how much do you agree?If atheism/agnosticism/secularism/deism was a bigger thing across North Africa, Middle East, Central Asia, and South Asia I had been much more open to seriously date MENA and Central/South Asian men. I've dated several of them, just nothing serious. The main reason I never wanted anything serious was that: the religion aspect, and the same applies for Christians, Jews, and other devoted religious people. Me being such a fervent atheist basically had left... other secular men who are/were okay wi… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/22 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Is dating easier if you’re white??Middle Eastern technically falls under Caucasian as well. In my lifetime, I've met and dated quite a few men that I've thought were either Iberian, Italian, Greek or Slavic (at first glance)... just to find out a few minutes later that he was North African, Middle Eastern, and/or Central Asian. Second, there IS a reason why so many women in the show "90 Day Fiancé" find grooms from those parts of the world. Third, in Latin-America Turkish TV shows had become THE obsession in the past 15 years +/… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/22 11:31 PM |
| 1 | What are single females past 35 really like? Are they as big of a mess as RP claims?EXACTLY!! Or even funnier coming from men who want to remain childfree. I mean, if a man wants to remain childfree why would he needs to be concerned over a woman's fertility?! Shouldn't a woman being in good shape and having relatively decent good looks suffice? A woman's age are irrelevant in this regard. No, a woman being 22 does not automatically mean she'll look better than one who's 32. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/22 05:00 PM |
| 2 | How to let go of the “high value” or smv thinking?No lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/22 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Black Manosphere Profiled in Elle Magazine (I was interviewed)Powerful stuff. Every American woman of African origin needs to read this... and commit a mass exodus against the male black species. Can't they get the hint?! BLACK AMERICAN MEN DON'T WANT THEM!! GO FIND MEN ELSEWHERE!! The world is way too large to be pining over a class of men that don't want them. Go look elsewhere. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/22 03:10 AM |
| 4 | What are single females past 35 really like? Are they as big of a mess as RP claims?If I was single now, I would have way more options now at 34 than when I was 22. I look better now than when I was 22 body wise, and my face still looks very similar; I've made sure to keep up to date with skincare with sunscreen, moisturizer, and topical vitamins. Plus, unlike when I was 22, I have way more to offer aside physique. From a higher level of maturity, higher financial stability to better professional development. The men around my age or older who SPECIFICALLY want very young, non-… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/22 02:59 AM |
| 3 | The redpill works but with certain types of woman.. If you meet girls your type u don't have to do shitI mentioned it above in an earlier comment. But like I said, to me those are as credible as horoscopes. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/22 02:31 AM |
| 3 | How to let go of the “high value” or smv thinking?Someone with similar facial faces to mine. Similar body proportions to mine. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/22 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Something I never understood about redpill logicthe physical act of having sex and being in a relationship may offer different utility to each individual. So I would argue that it’s not the same. Have you talked to ACTUAL human beings IN REAL LIFE?! | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/22 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Something I never understood about redpill logicWomen offer sex. So do men: they also offer sex as much as women can offer sex. He mainly offers me physical attention more than anything else. I'm not with my husband out of NEED. I'm with him out of WANT. Men offer resources/relationships. He's not offering me anything resourceful that I can't offer me on my own: I'm able to provide my own financial resources. I own my own real estate properties on my own name and were entirely paid by me, and my TWO vehicles are 100% on my name and he didn’t … | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/22 11:13 PM |
| 11 | How to let go of the “high value” or smv thinking?For me, "high value" means: Being a functional adult: Steady income (commensurate to mine +/-). Working vehicle. Being able to run a dwelling. Having a dwelling (owning or renting doesn't matter). Not being a deadbeat parent. Having similar values to mine. Overall physical compatibility. Being my "looksmatch". | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/22 11:03 PM |
| 3 | How to let go of the “high value” or smv thinking?The SMV concept works like this: The seller decides in which market they want to advertise. Then, said market decides if they'll be in demand. If they're in demand in any way or form, it then I'll be determined how scarce or ample supply of said seller is available in that market. Depending the laws of supply and demand said market has dictated, the seller then will decide the best way they will market themselves. If said market isn't a good market for the seller, the seller has the choice to hu… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/22 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Curious to know what y’all think of this statistic?THERE ARE MORE MEN THAT WOMEN ON DATING SITES!!!!! | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/22 10:38 PM |
| 6 | The redpill works but with certain types of woman.. If you meet girls your type u don't have to do shitI'm doing alright. You're demonstrating a case of confirmation bias... and that doesn't mean much in the big scheme of things. It's great you're having monetary success. That for me doesn't have a lot of value: I've noticed that the more I have, the more miserable and stressed out on the inside I am. Personally, I value intellect and knowledge more than anything else in life. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/22 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Curious to know what y’all think of this statistic?ALL OF THESE MEN LOOK ABOUT AS DATEABLE IN THE SAME WAY TO ME. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/22 06:58 PM |
| 7 | The redpill works but with certain types of woman.. If you meet girls your type u don't have to do shitThe owners of the MBTI CLEARLY warn employers on their website against using this phony thing as a hiring tool. The MBTI can be seen by some as a pseudo-psych eval... and it's LITERALLY illegal to make mental health related questions to prospective employees. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/22 06:56 PM |
| 7 | The redpill works but with certain types of woman.. If you meet girls your type u don't have to do shitThe MBTI isn't any different than the Zodiac signs or Harry Potter houses. According to those BS things, I'm: Aquarius. ENTP. Ravenclaw. None of those goofy labels matter! They're just quirky fun things, not scientific screening tools. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/22 06:52 PM |
| 10 | The redpill works but with certain types of woman.. If you meet girls your type u don't have to do shitDo people still think some cute little test made by a mother and a daughter has any scientific validity? The MBTI isn't any different than those Buzzfeed quizzes. Y'all might as well say "TRP works on Gemini and Leo, but not on Aquarius and Cancer". See how dumb all this sounds?! | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/22 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?I like hairy arms and legs on nearly every men. Other parts (aside the head and face) are very dependent on the individual. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/22 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?The "dad bod" is the so called "BBM". | /r/ExRedPill | 01/02/22 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?You're a sad, bitter, salty man. What you mentioned above from when you were in college, sounded more like you not making an effort to truly be social. That's nobody's fault. If I’m still single when I hit 30 I plan to just waste the time of women who wouldn’t have given me the time of day when I was in college and broke. Unless you become massively millionaire, this is actually going to cost you more than what it's worth. Just enjoy life and forget about the past. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/02/22 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?Women are turned on by the way you make them FEEL...not the way you look. Who told you this bullshit?! I get very turned on by visual stimuli. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/02/22 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?However I do recognise that many women appreciate the female gaze as it gives women agency over their attraction and their own aesthetics. So I can understand why you may be defensive of it and not see it as toxic the same way I do. Idk what the hell is that female gaze normie thing is. But at least to me, it doesn't seem to be too different from whatever the male gaze is. I am as visual as men are in the way men describe their visual sexual urges. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?I've had HORRID experiences with men. Still, this doesn't mean I had changed my focus from looks to personality. I've met nasty uggos and likable hottest. A person being homely looking won't mean they will be nicer to me. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 10:43 PM |
| 4 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?My ex husband was 5'7". The reasons he's my ex: 1. HE CHEATED ON ME WITH A VERY SHORT, DAINTY FILIPINA. I'm a tall voluptuous Hispanic. He began showing man-child traits. He began developing alcoholism. REASONS I DID NOT DUMP HIM FOR: HIS HEIGHT. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?I'm a TALL, voluptuous Hispanic (5'9"/1.75m, with a natural hourglass shape), and if Tom Holland was older, but just a regular middle class schmo (eg. lived in a modest $200K-$300K bungalow and drove an Accord) I'd still date him. He has a pretty face and he's in overall good shape. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?The only thing I can do is to workout. And that is the least important thing since women notice height and face first. Different women like different things. You need to go find women in your areas of interest. If your things are, say, cars... don't go looking for women at raves or metal shows. Go to car events or auto shops. Even if I have great body I will never be over 6 feet and have a pretty face. And when I workout and get muscles everyone makes fun of me for "compensating" so even working… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?It's not that. I just don't look good in pictures. I've never had luck online. I've ONLY had true success meeting long term unions at concerts. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 10:23 PM |
| 7 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?FUCKING LIES!!!! Men are WORSE about being shallow!!!! They're so into about nitpicking women regarding physical attraction, they're willing to reject women over having the wrong body shape (even if they're NOT fat) or being too short/tall. Or worse, they reject women over things like having too many freckles or "weird" moles/birth marks. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?I’ve had 3 total girlfriends and all of them were with me because of my money. I only was able to date when I hit 24 and started making close to 6 figures. Did you try to do something about this BEFORE you had "money"? "Close" to six figures isn't much anymore, especially with the current inflation. I have about as much as you money wise (plus fixed properties). You sound conceited. My only option is to wait until my late 20s when girls look for security instead of looks/feelings. I will have a … | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 10:17 PM |
| 49 | Curious to know what y’all think of this statistic?Pareto principle because there's way more men than women on dating sites. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?The female gaze is toxic, think about it too much and you'll fall into a pit of inadequecy that is so very hard to come out of. The fuck?! If you have this sort of mindset, the problem is all on your attitude and has zero to do with how you look. Don't focus on it and instead be attractive to yourself. It seems you had a "broken clock" moment. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 07:06 PM |
| 15 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?Lastly, I've almost never had to hit on anyone in my life When I was single, I'd occasionally do a very mild approach... but the men in question: Would normally take the lead within seconds instead. Upon me walking their way, they'd walk up to me to lead the way. And ditto on dating apps: they've gotten rid of romance. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 07:02 PM |
| 6 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?Have you done something in your life to improve yourself to get to the point where women can act like this towards you? | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 06:54 PM |
| 18 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?A lot of women will say a dude in boxers or something is hotter than a naked dude. Nothing hotter than my naked husband. His hairy arms and legs does it for me... along with seeing "that" constantly. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?Duh! Why bother with an Aussie? Ew. Iberian men, Italian men, Colombian men, Dutch men, Algerian men, Swedish men, Russian men, Dominican men, German men, Argentine men, Turkish men are WAY BETTER LOOKING. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?Chris Hemsworth is one of those that are "nice to look at". However, I would never want to have anything beyond "boots calls" with a dude like him. I take a lot of pride in my Caribbean/Southern fusion cooking... and dudes like Chris Hemsworth don't normally eat hearty Caribbean goodies like viandas and plantains or any Southern variant of barbecue. They have to eat very specific cutting and bulking diets, and I don't have the patience for that. However, I AM heavily attracted to men overall. It… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 06:48 PM |
| 12 | Are women even sexually attracted to men?I am very attracted to men. I'm also highly visual (in the same way men claim to be visual) in regards sexual stimuli. Second, the Pareto principle (the whole 80/20 about online dating) only seems like a real thing for this reason: There are way more men than women on online dating sites, and many of those men don't put any effort on their profiles. So they "feel" like nobody likes them... when in reality they're just boring. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 06:38 PM |
| 0 | Something I never understood about redpill logicNope! As the seller, I get to decide the market where I want to advertise myself. I won't advertise myself in a market where I won't be "on demand" or where my kind will be on "high supply". I will be in a market with a lot of buyers willing to bid on the product I'm advertising. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/01/22 01:15 AM |
| 3 | Something I never understood about redpill logicThese are my thoughts about the (imaginary) sexual market (from a woman's perspective): What a load of BULLSHIT!!!!!!! Let’s use the sexual marketplace analogy, and let me flip it for a second; Okay, as the seller I get to decide which market I feel like advertising. Whether I’m 18 or 180, there is a willing buyer that will fit my needs. The purpose of being the seller and deciding the market I get to sell myself, means I get to focus on attracting better quality buyers… even tho there might be … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/01/22 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Do women really start to have a crisis when they start to age and realize they aren't pretty as before?My grandma is 76 and has such an amazing complexion because her bone structure is keeping the rest of her skin in place. My mother, 51, is losing a lot of weight and this is making her rejuvenate instead. I'm sure neither of them are having a crisis. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/11/21 05:08 AM |
| 2 | Are there any women here who had a redpill phase and are trying to get out?For the most part. I'm very versed in TRP/RPW theory, and I do hold plenty of traditional tenets in my marriage (ten year long marriage). Actual traditional unions are almost nothing like what TRP/RPW parrot. Sure, men often do the bulk of the providing and women do the bulk of the domestic duties ; commonly, the man does all the financial providing, the woman does the financial planning, the bulk of the domestic duties, and the man at times does some assisting with some domestic duties (but typ… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/11/21 04:44 AM |
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