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Welcome :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/19 02:48 AM
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Sorry you're hurting :( I understand how disappointed you must be, especially after such a great first date. But it sounds like it has very little to do with you. He only met you once, and there was someone else before who he has built up in his mind over months. It's hard to compete with that when you've just met him. It was good of him to let you know and not lead you on. If you're still single in the future and he is too, I would give it another shot. Because you liked him on the date, and hi…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 02:02 AM
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Thanks, I think you're right that in a lot of cases it can slow things down by causing complacency and removing the need to get married. My boyfriend has good intentions but I could see him doing that too.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/18 06:38 AM
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Awww this is such a cute story, I hope it works out! ​ How to tell if he really likes you or is just interested in sex - wait a while (at least 5 dates), preferably until you are in an exclusive relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend. Some people don't have sex outside of committed relationships, and if you choose to take that path, most decent people will respect that when you explain it to them. If he is really interested in a serious relationship with you it will be worth the wait (and poss…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/18 03:21 AM
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IMO you should leave. Do you really want to be tied to this woman for the rest of your life? And not only that, but share your husband with her? Imagine co-parenting with this woman. Having children with this man will make things become much more complicated and leaving will be even harder, even if you're unhappy (which it sounds like you will be). He is being very selfish by disregarding your feelings on this. This is a big deal, and to go into without both parties fully on board is a recipe fo…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/18 12:41 PM
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I sent it to him and he's seen it. So nervous right now...
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/18 02:23 PM
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This might be TMI: I am attracted to him, I was on my period and in a terribly upset state of mind which is why I didn't want to... I would have if I wasn't on my period. I just didn't want to get messy on top of everything else.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/18 02:22 PM
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He is committed. He's always been the one pushing our relationship forward (making it facebook official, inviting me to meet his family (too much sometimes...) , I'm in his profile picture, he bought me a toothbrush to keep at his place... I've never felt insecure in our relationship and he's always made it clear he's looking for something real and longlasting. He's just a bit weird about money.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/18 10:57 AM
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Thank you. You're right, I need to tell him directly what I think. I need to reflect on my values and exactly what it is I need in a relationship and share it. Not sure what the mercenary manner bit you're referring to is? He is inexperienced in dating too and sometimes goofs up, but when I explain how his actions made me feel he is always very empathetic, apologetic, and does not do the same thing again. He is a very kind person, and truly is almost perfect (for me).
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/18 10:54 AM
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Yes my instincts were on point but I don't regret continuing to see him. With the exception of this and him occasionally being emotionally tonedeaf, things are great. He is a truly good person. ​ I've thought about breaking up with him a couple of times over it though. The second time was the weekend of his birthday, I made him a picnic basket filled with all of his favourite foods including homemade sandwiches (with specially purchased gluten free bread - he's intolerant). That was actually the…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/18 10:45 AM
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