lajos93 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Those who made it what is your sex life like?		lajos93	/r/ExRedPill	26/12/20 10:34 PM
3	Going out solo 30 day rejection challenge without spending a dime?		lajos93	/r/seduction	10/10/19 07:04 AM
2	Therapy vs seduction skills?	Inner Game	lajos93	/r/seduction	10/08/20 08:48 PM
2	Focusing on oneself vs adapting to our surroundings		lajos93	/r/ExRedPill	31/12/20 08:57 PM
0	Ex-redpill = red pill without hate? -> stoicism		lajos93	/r/ExRedPill	01/07/20 09:45 PM
0	[SERIOUS] Do you think understanding is the enemy?		lajos93	/r/ExRedPill	06/09/23 06:50 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	[SERIOUS] Do you think understanding is the enemy? I dont think I think that. The objective of the post was to get close to a worldview that is not RP based but it seems strangely difficult	/r/ExRedPill	07/09/23 07:01 AM
-1	[SERIOUS] Do you think understanding is the enemy? whats not red pill about it? Its a clear and objective way to value someone without the person having to go on extensive lengths to "prove" it, its just there Thats why the looksmaxing makes so much sense nowadays	/r/ExRedPill	06/09/23 08:49 PM
-5	[SERIOUS] Do you think understanding is the enemy? yeah but there is also a point where you feel like you gotta get your shit together and if people do nothing around you but to reflect that you dont have your shit together then what are you supposed to do other than leave them and get your shit together? Lets call that a "temporary MGTOW state" "He may date more then the first guy." Well quess what, what would you want 100 women you dont find attractive or 1 you are head over heels for? The first guy might go for that 1, the second might go f…	/r/ExRedPill	06/09/23 11:16 AM
-19	[SERIOUS] Do you think understanding is the enemy? wait..My parents are average to below average? Like its a fact? Like am I an average to below average dude and thats just how it is? Is that what youre reading from my post? Like there is no way a chad type of guy gonna write down these lines? I mean you can objectively tell, not just tell but guess whether someone is a chad, ugly or average (you just did that) And youre saying that youre not assigning any more value to words of a chad than an average or ugly dude? Do you think its realistic to …	/r/ExRedPill	06/09/23 11:10 AM
-20	[SERIOUS] Do you think understanding is the enemy? ok So we got this really handsome, respected, well dressed guy and you find women like him, as in the majority of them. And then there is another guy that is objectively not as handsome, got weird clother, weird sense of humor and he got less friends etc.. Where is that not indicating that there is something like an objective perceived value to people?! I dont get why the RED PILL makes sense to be demonized, and writen off as total bullshit Like how else can you interpret that situation than wh…	/r/ExRedPill	06/09/23 09:53 AM
-5	I’ve lost more girls to inaction than to overpursuing cause with more action sure you would have got them ?	/r/seduction	11/08/23 08:17 PM
2	Get your shit together before you start doing "game" and cold approaching women. I feel like the loneliness will eat you up alive eventually that will get you even further away from getting your shit together.. like you cant just think that once I have that THEN I'll do it.. been doing that for a decade.. this is the end of my 20s.. gonna be accepting the "loser, not having his shit together "title but still gonna keep the attitude of a winner and talk to girls..	/r/seduction	11/08/23 06:46 PM
1	Why does so much dating advice say that you can't feel sorry for yourself? What is the difference between someone you would have lost attraction towards after opening up and those you didnt? Can you elaborate on this	/r/ExRedPill	17/02/23 10:13 AM
1	Are therapists aware of red pill / black pill theory? Can elaborate or give some hints what thats about, what reversing this mindset is about? Essentially going against your rational mind and reversing this red pill understanding of the world. What does that imply? Can you even talk about this to those who are not aware of these strategies(redpill/black pill) ?	/r/ExRedPill	17/02/23 10:10 AM
1	I’m falling back into the red pill due to being jaded that I have to do all the approaching That I think so to Its probably the best option out of the 2, but sometimes I feel like the level of your interest really matters and influences how you'll be able to deal with "pretty distractions" and go back to your focus Like you cant just be mildly interested. The players might be able to do that but those whos personality is not wired like that cant afford that sort of thing, that majority of the times I guess	/r/ExRedPill	30/09/22 06:34 PM
1	Should we normalize men feeling fulfilled in life despite not having success in dating? Responding to the title: Lets be real unless you reach the next stage in consciousness, you're drive to reproduce will always be there And then to your last lines: Yes, not having success in dating is seen as a psychological issue after a certain age cause everyone know that everyone wants it. Maybe the stigma of it being embarrassing could be healed but how do you supposed thats gonna happen especially because it starts in school, boys after going through puberty talking about sex and pushing t…	/r/ExRedPill	30/09/22 06:23 PM
1	I’m falling back into the red pill due to being jaded that I have to do all the approaching Yes but what Im trying to say is you can still come across thirsty even in groups where you didnt join just to meet women Actually I think you're typically coming across thirsty when you cling onto the women regardless of them liking you back or not. If they like you back "you wont be thirsty" What do you think?	/r/ExRedPill	30/09/22 06:04 PM
1	I’m falling back into the red pill due to being jaded that I have to do all the approaching Are you saying If you're interested in the topic you absofcklutely cannot come across thirsty? Like I have a hobby that i really do care about but as soon as I see some girl in these meetups who makes me feel like it might be she likes me and I also find her cute then it does take over my mind to the point of losing focus over why I originally went there If I asked her to meet outside of these events and she said no that would obviously make it embarrassing to the point I wouldn't wanna go to th…	/r/ExRedPill	30/09/22 09:30 AM
2	I'd appreciate some feedback on that topic. I'm getting the result that I want but I don't like the way I'm getting it. yeah, energy(going for that thing) attracts energy, no energy dulls energy	/r/seduction	30/05/21 07:33 PM
1	Do you feel that the Red pill has anything good advice? I think it's a spectrum, on one end - youre the prince waiting for the princess from the tower that you'll save one day - on the other your this super tough, super manly guy who doesn't care about anything other than yourself Life is the happy medium. You'll be disappointed if you start identifying with one or the other	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/21 07:11 PM
1	My experience with men who struggle with sex and long term relationships And you suggest therapy? What are some of the possible ways if one is born in a male body to change their mindset?	/r/ExRedPill	26/12/20 10:26 PM
1	I think fundamentally men just want to be loved by the opposite sex and not having that leads to groups like incels, MGTOW, TrueForceLoneliness Masculine energy is about creation, a creator is not loved the same way his supporters are loving him. You can't really love a directionless individual you can't really manage a boat without a steering wheel, if you do you lose hope into do it cause it's so untrustworthy Love comes as a reflection self expression and a direction in life.. Metaphor: Imagine the yoyo toy, you throw it away and it comes back with the same force you threw it.. - - > Express (love) yourself->love comes back When you …	/r/ExRedPill	05/11/20 02:30 PM
1	Would you rather be alone/single or in a toxic/abusive relationship? yes but since you are here to make a vote that probably means you have some awareness about your life so im not sure why continue once you have that	/r/ExRedPill	30/10/20 06:49 PM
1	Would you rather be alone/single or in a toxic/abusive relationship? Why would you pick Option B once youre aware?	/r/ExRedPill	29/10/20 08:31 PM
1	Therapy vs seduction skills? how long did this take?	/r/seduction	11/08/20 07:37 PM
1	Therapy vs seduction skills? And to get better im supposed to bring exactly this up in therapy?	/r/seduction	11/08/20 07:26 PM
1	Therapy vs seduction skills? Do you still have the piercings after the awakening?	/r/seduction	11/08/20 07:22 PM
1	Besides confidence, what qualities attract women? Yes	/r/seduction	19/07/20 07:17 AM
2	Besides confidence, what qualities attract women? yeah looking hot brings massive difference in terms of how women and other people in general perceive you ..people don't say this because you gotta be confident bro	/r/seduction	19/07/20 07:11 AM
5	Besides confidence, what qualities attract women? I get your pain, the reality is, your own happiness should be at least one percent more important than who you're banging(else it won't happen anyway) ..how to find that, that's a mystery	/r/seduction	18/07/20 10:28 PM
22	Besides confidence, what qualities attract women? Looks, health, humor, style, social presence, being fit, being OK with oneself no matter what	/r/seduction	18/07/20 12:45 PM
2	80/20 is bullshit, women don’t have high standards, they aren’t that different from us, and they don’t care about anything TRP or PUA want you to think they do All they have is a joy for life and thats done by putting themselves first	/r/ExRedPill	15/07/20 06:34 PM
2	How do I (F27) seduce my fiance (M29) Either stress or porn or asexual, we guys normally wanna bang girls at least once a day we find attractive U sure he is super into you?	/r/seduction	08/07/20 09:36 PM
14	"Nothing is more threatening and simultaneously attractive to a woman than a man who knows his value to women and the world." Nobody just knows it, its developed through making decisions and being aware of your innate talents	/r/seduction	03/07/20 08:49 AM
1	Can you fall in love with someone if you secretly hate yourself No, at best you can hide it, but sooner or later its going to come out, you are going to come across needy which is the ultimate way to drive people away. You might as well give up on love ( loving others ) until you fix that	/r/seduction	01/07/20 09:55 AM
1	The Easiest Hack To Get Anyone To Like You You have to be authentically enthusiastic for that to work, if you force it its gonna back fire bad	/r/seduction	29/06/20 09:40 AM
1	Realized I want to save myself with someone I care about and have no desire for hookups At what age is this realization expected to come about? how old are you?	/r/seduction	28/06/20 01:43 PM
1	Cold approach from a girl's perspective You just wrote something every self aware human being knows deep down	/r/seduction	26/06/20 07:21 AM
1	Why talking to strangers (including beautiful ones :) ) is so hard... Fifthed	/r/seduction	29/05/20 02:25 PM
5	The best way to impress girls is to have better things to do than trying to impress girls. A dating coach in my city once told me he always tells his clients to have at least 3 things more important to them than girls. Now in isolation, it's a good time to figure out what those 3 things are for you. Yes, true!	/r/seduction	11/05/20 07:32 PM
7	The best way to impress girls is to have better things to do than trying to impress girls. A dating coach in my city once told me he always tells his clients to have at least 3 things more important to them than girls. Now in isolation, it's a good time to figure out what those 3 things are for you. But you know whats weird, is that you clicked on this question - one that is aimed at figuring out how to impress a girl .. knowing what you've just said - is that the aim is to prioritize your life to do something else than trying to impress a girl In other words, you are aiming to impress a girl by learning how to not impress a girl, because its not the highest priority while keeping in mind that your highest priority is to really impress a girl, you are just finding another way Thats how you …	/r/seduction	11/05/20 07:14 PM
1	The best way to impress girls is to have better things to do than trying to impress girls. A dating coach in my city once told me he always tells his clients to have at least 3 things more important to them than girls. Now in isolation, it's a good time to figure out what those 3 things are for you. This!	/r/seduction	11/05/20 06:58 PM
1	The best way to impress girls is to have better things to do than trying to impress girls. A dating coach in my city once told me he always tells his clients to have at least 3 things more important to them than girls. Now in isolation, it's a good time to figure out what those 3 things are for you. Agree	/r/seduction	11/05/20 05:32 PM
31	The best way to impress girls is to have better things to do than trying to impress girls. A dating coach in my city once told me he always tells his clients to have at least 3 things more important to them than girls. Now in isolation, it's a good time to figure out what those 3 things are for you. You can be an astronaut, shredding guitar like no one else, while having the cooking skills of Gordon Ramsay and still be clingy to random girls..its entirely possible, the same way you can have absolutely nothing to show yet be smooth with girls Its how you live those moments when you do those activities not how good you are at them thats what matters	/r/seduction	11/05/20 04:44 PM
1	Takes balls and a lot of confidence to cold approach women Society is built by daring individuals.. most of them are male	/r/seduction	13/03/20 06:40 AM
-1	How do I take girls off the "pedestal"? eg.: Alexander Grace is a good one	/r/seduction	09/01/20 12:29 AM
0	How do I take girls off the "pedestal"? Watching youtube channels about female psychology, how simple their needs and wants are By not fapping therfor consciously telling yourself that you'd keep the life energy rather than wasting it away Meditation, observing your emotional state from an objective standpoint Accepting where you are now and setting goals how you are going to get where you want to be ( how would someone you think sees girls as normal would react to a given situation )	/r/seduction	08/01/20 09:27 PM
1	Going out solo 30 day rejection challenge without spending a dime? I live abroad currently and don't speak the local language yet, it's off the table for a while, thanks though	/r/seduction	10/10/19 07:31 AM
2	R/Seduction, What's stopping you from achieving the dating lifestyle you want? Confidence, too much focus on rejections/ repulsive signs and little focus on open and cheerful girls.. stupidity and selfishness I guess	/r/seduction	10/10/19 07:06 AM