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| 5 | BBC reports David Cameron is ready to "tackle gender pay gap" by "pressuring firms into boosting women's wages". Public comment section absolutely rejects gender gap as myth.Same it's always been. 92 out of 100 work death coffins hold men. Equality exists when it's 50/50, or at least equal to the gender percentage of the population. No one in their right mind wants absolute equality. Equal Opportunity is already here. I wish they'd just go away. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/15 07:35 PM |
| 0 | AWALT - Found out my younger sister is a whore, and I can't even look at her anymore.Obligatory repost, of a post I did a while ago. Why is this still not common knowledge? Accept it. How often do you see 5s get hit on? About ? Twice a week? Three times? Five if she knows how to use her body? Make that number daily for a social 7. So a seven is getting maybe 3 serious offers a day? More if she's searching? If she is very selective and only allows one in a month to get through, she's turning 89 rejections a month and still doing 12 dicks a year, and believe me, one time a month i… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/15 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Why You Should Become A Sex GodPerfect description. I've personally have found sex drive ranges greatly in women, just like in men. However women are much lower across the board (if you want to talk standard or average). The only things I've found tied to it are desire as you've said, and imagination. I've definitely noticed girls with a much higher level of creativity than their surrounding women are likely to masturbate and watch porn a lot more, Hell, it is probably just me, but writers and artists seen to be insatiable, e… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/15 02:11 PM |
| 18 | The Red Pill and interacting with other subredditsPeanut butthurt and jellousy | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/15 01:48 PM |
| 2 | If you have a high value job/are rich, it is not something to openly mention...and how a man escaped the BB.Very good point. Keep in mind, this is not my original content. Metalageddon will be back the 15th or 16th, the thread he posted this in is under value management, or, banqueting or something. You can find it under the gold filter of trp. From what I remember "more" is completely reliant on your values, not objective, so i should presume "more" means if you're a mrp kinda guy, not an objective and quantitative "more" as far as benefits. Thank you for pointing that out bro! Edit : I do know even … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/15 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Best books on building confidence? Not just with women but with everyone.There is no book worth buying on confidence building. Those who build it do it in one way. First, small measurable successes. Second, always increase the goal when achieved. Follow these and you'll build confidence. Provable quantifiable success builds confidence. That's why go lift is the most common phrase around here, and why physical fitness is a common instruction in most self improvement methods. It's small successes, measurable, and ever increasing. Treat your life that way in every aspec… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/15 08:45 PM |
| 1 | If you have a high value job/are rich, it is not something to openly mention...and how a man escaped the BB.That's up to you. If I haven't upgraded her to an ltr she doesn't need to know. Even then, most of my girls never knew precisely what I did/do, until at least a year had passed. Normally I just redirect. If it's very obvious the target is fishing for an income bracket I just laugh and say (we'll talk about it sometime, but work is boring let's have fun!) or (oh man you sound like my mom, aren't you a fun girl?) Edit u/the10thrider has this straight. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/15 04:09 PM |
| 1 | What can I do to last longer with my plate?If this is happening, quit spanking the monkey, porn too. Just for a month and see what happens. During this month, use it to your advantage. If she's any good at a blowjob you can have her swallow the easy one then use the follow ups to hit her hard. It'll just become obligatory and if executed properly it'll become the default way she let's you know she's in the mood. (win!) When the blowjobs begin to last too long, then start moving towards penetrating. Also practice your muscular control, ke… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/15 02:02 PM |
| 9 | [MR] We-Consent: American businessman launches sexual consent app for students and athletes which records mutual sex agreementYeah, he's genius, but not in an attempt to stop any serious issue. Only in that he's recognized a way to abuse societies iniquities in order to make a quick buck. Smart guy, smart marketer, nothing against him. However it won't fix shit aside from his bank account, until people realize it's ultimately not useful. You really want to fix it? Make rape cases gender neutral by force, or change society. I don't see either happening soon. Edit :i'm not disagreeing with you. Just thought it should be … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/15 02:48 AM |
| 6 | Husband does everything wife claims to want, Wife takes off one day saying "I'll be back" and never returns.Women do not appreciate what you give them. They only appreciate the fear of it being removed,and only if that value is higher than she believes she can get elsewhere. Tldr, why dread is always necessary. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/15 02:21 AM |
| 3 | How a hot woman *really* responds to your nice guy approach.Eh. It's not strange about her lie. Women truly don't lie, they believe what they are saying the vast majority of the time. Even when the world is objectively smacking counter evidence in their faces. It's actually quite amazing, but also why you must know the system to avoid it. Lie detectors are useless if the silver tongue believes it to be true. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/15 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Attention WhoreHere's a simple system. 1) Go out, so your thing, with the goal of not speaking. As little as possible. You are only allowed to communicate through action. I recommend a group of people you're comfortable wit(know well) justify it if you must, "really sore throat, a lot on your mind, or something" 2) record what actions worked which ones didn't. Repeat every week until you've internalized that your actions count louder than words. (jumping up and dancing on the table is funnier than saying would… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/15 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Replacement for cigarette?Oh yeah, edit overhaul. Completely misread last time. So you want to pick up something that'll help up look cool and also like a bad boy, but not take any implicit risk? Get a washable tattoo! Or, dress well, lift, read, and make yourself more interesting without props? | /r/askTRP | 10/07/15 11:04 PM |
| 4 | Please help me understand why this workedI [don't] believe trp is about seduction. Yeah you're spot on. It's about preparation meeting opportunity You make yourself the best, you're ready for the opportunities. (and better at recognizing them) | /r/askTRP | 10/07/15 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Why does TRP consider "alpha" and "provider" as opposites?Seems to me your confused. There is such a thing as alpha bucks. Just not commonly possible or likely. A very few can be the best possible option and provide with high statistical chance of avoiding the downfalls. However, if your on trp for learning instead of sharing, it's probably not you. Hell I'd say it's probably further, you would lovely not know of trp if you're at that level. But we can get close. Regardless, there are two ways to discuss alpha and beta, in Traits and commonality of act… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/15 03:24 AM |
| 2 | What to make of being hit on by gay men?Yes. This can not be understated and I don't know why it isn't common knowledge. Males are more aggressive and assertive. Period. Sexual preference for male or female is irrelevant. If a gay guy is hitting on you, that's letting you know you're desirable. Faster than how you can know with women by far. Women also find you desirable, maybe you need to start learning signs. Props if the fast guy is hitting on you, and you know that by any women's stand point, he's attractive as fuck. At least an 8… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/15 03:01 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Armored myself with TRP and took the LTR plungeIn addition to this (I have a great mattress, and I replace it whenever I move, usually about every 3 to 5 years) also grab yourself an isotonic pillow. I honestly thought they were just a fad but Damn. Girl bought me one, and I'm loving it. If you radiate like a space heater when you sleep you will love yourself for having two nice cooler than the other sides of the pillow. Also to op, this is an on point post. I myself am in a similar situation, and all my ltrs have a capitan first mate dynami… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/15 01:05 AM |
| 1 | The next step after maxing out your sexual market value and being the best version of yourself.The women in my area are so full of it. I make a lot of $$$ through software, have good facial aesthetics, I'm not ripped yet (I'm scrawny.) but everything else about me is great, and my entire existence gets ignored sometimes when approaching. I don't even get a respectful rejection by the majority. You're still missing a core Tennant, keep lifting! Asking out co-workers on my sidejobs is insanely easy, it pisses me off the amount of disrespect I get from strangers, they look at me like I'm les… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 11:12 PM |
| 2 | The Manufacturing of Betas and marriage by the numbersOne of my close friends, one I've posted about before, exemplifies this. He used to chill "when we were young" at my families place as a second home. Shit, to this day he's one of three males that are given keys to my parents house, with free reign, "i haven't lived with them for years, but that's how close even my parents feel to him." He had no father figure. Two sisters. Alcoholic mother. One time we drove him home, it's pissing rain, complete torrents, this had been predicted for days, every… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 10:24 PM |
| 1 | HUMANS - british TV remake raises interesting questionsId posit that a truly hard AI would choose another hard AI as a partner or "mate", presuming it was "masculine" as a basis. It would want a partner who could keep up with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 10:12 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend left out the number of guys she blew in her partner count...As I said, once a girl is active, she's at minimum once a month. That's low libido and low opportunity "introverted average looking girl" It is a realization turned rule I will never question nor forsake. Only thing coming close to an exception are extreme unusual circumstances "being a truly rp woman falls under that as far as I'm concerned" | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 10:09 PM |
| 1 | A website which women openly describe their tactics regarding getting what they want, hypergamy etc.Yeah a thief hits your house once. You lose a few valuables. An average woman is a parasite. She hits your life profitability and will take more every opportunity given. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 02:01 PM |
| 1 | College girl complains hookup culture is probably bad for girls. Still participates.Exactly. I still firmly believe, any girl who complains they were used for sex over and over, has nothing else to offer. You don't see RP women acting that way. They have other things to offer that upgrades them from plate to ltr right fucking quick. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Can't tell if girl is trying to friendzone meThanks in the good catch, you had caught it, but didn't recognize it. "pro tip, being late to, or forgetting other obligations is usually just prioritizing the value they're getting from you. Always a good thing." | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Why would you want other guys to turn TRP?No. Those who use trp as an active way to achieve many lays, yes. Those who actually follow the core as self improvement and agency, no. The reason is simple. You improve the world around you "the resources you draw on constantly" to in turn improve yourself. If you really are totally self centered and informed, you improve your imports. "when not opportunity cost deficient" Otherwise you're short sighted. Improving your ingredients improves the food you can potentially cook right? Same thing fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 04:07 AM |
| 8 | My girlfriend left out the number of guys she blew in her partner count...I know. It's actually disconcerting, that trp hasn't booked it to a numbers analogy. I knew this long before joining trp, only because I watched girls get hit on, and knew a few who mentioned their exploits. This is a hard truth that needs to be made more prevalent. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Guy is paying $10k if you introduce him to a girl he dates for 6 monthsShit. He should try the dating ring scam on startup podcast. Those girls are so horrible at everything, but i'll be damned if there isn't a nitch they'll filling "poorly". | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Daily reminder to hit the gym. It makes people respect you.Not just chicken. If you're that skinny, dirty bulk your shit. Make a big two months of it then measure tdee afterwards, go from there. I can't empathize, I was never "skinny" I was always heavier but strong. "worst percentage at 200lb 5'11 but 23%" Why? Active heavy workload life and hobbies. But i fucking love cake. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 02:56 AM |
| 5 | hot/cold test barrage?Too direct, abrasive beyond usefulness. Though it could be recovered. If you do, post a nice fr about it. As to how to recover? Don't know, I wouldn't have said that unless it was someone i wanted to hard discard, not soft next, but discard permanently from my life. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Quick easy advice neededI wouldn't honestly be asking for anything. I'd keep doing what I had planned and let her know you'll allow her to tag along. Nothing to say on the marriage thing, I avoid married like crazy. Anything near it, engaged, ltr, I avoid if I am aware beforehand. I cut all contact if I know afterwards. That being said, I don't see an issue with it if you want to, but imo it's extra drama. She followed up with you after all, so You did fine inviting her out. Wouldn't worry about it but id escalate hard… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Can't tell if girl is trying to friendzone meOh man. Picking up the gym WHILE quiting is much better. Much better believe me. Two of my friends quit this way and it only reinforced them, when you're getting out of breath practically dizzy after two sets, and your gym buddy is barely finishing his first muscle group, SHAME hits hard. Regardless id recommend it op. Also, she really likes you. -pulled into your hobby? Check -set a repeat date? Check -lost track of obligations while with you? Check -receptive to kino? Check You know what check… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 02:20 AM |
| 21 | My girlfriend left out the number of guys she blew in her partner count...Accept it. How often do you see 5s get hit on? About ? Twice a week? Three times? Five if she knows how to use her body? Make that number daily for a social 7. So a seven is getting maybe 3 serious offers a day? More if she's searching? If she is very selective and only allows one in a month to get through, she's turning 89 rejections a month and still doing 12 dicks a year, and believe me, one time a month is way below average libido. If they've been active for four years, they've slept with 48… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Top list of best books for men (not including self-help ones) ?Charles bukowski- pleasures the damned Shogun The art of war Any one social psychology textbook, "300 level or higher, probably going to get some flack for this" Dostoyevsky- crime and punishment Mahabharata and ramayana Odyssey (maybe the illiad too) Dantes inferno Chris Matthews - "hardball" At least one thing from John Locke, sartre, Plato, Aristotle, gottleb frege Nietzche - thus spoke zarathustra Just a few personal favorites. Aside from that start going to the library and picking up random… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/15 01:48 PM |
| 1 | You need to surround yourself with people of your own backgroundCompletely agree with You, not op. Op is a bitter guy who could use some wisdom and experience, "and also some introspection" I specifically like your post because I too saw good people fall to addiction. My old friend, one of the most intelligent people I've ever spent time with, had a serious heroin problem, to the point where he was kicked out of college a semester before finishing a double major "analytic philosophy and law" at the top of his class's "at the time, yes, both of them". Why? He… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/15 04:56 PM |
| 9 | Field Report; putting her ass in checkThis is barely an fr, much less meta. This is a self masturbation post. The most blatant I've seen in quite a while. So blatant I actually believe it happened, a good liar would make it more believable. There is no real lesson, no real value, just a guy telling a story that makes himself look good. "in his head" ...cool story bro... "dripping sarcasm" go away. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/15 04:43 PM |
| 1 | You can get revengeYou know who holds on to revenge? Women and betas. Screaming ten years later that "you didn't invite me to that birthday party, and invited Haley Mc higher value instead" Revenge is silly, unhealthy, and completely not red. Revenge by contingency, or in other words negative confirmation, "they regret it because you crushed overtime and study and got that better job, you spent the hours to lift, you are screwing people way out of their perceived zone, you're HAPPY and doing well? That's revenge, … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/15 08:32 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Tough beginning trying to meet new womenI'm waiting for a perfect opportunity. That doesn't exist. Not until you've passed the hundred denial mark. After you've built yourself "through rejection and approach and idgaf frame buildup, forged in failure" girls will approach you. The perfect situations may happen. You've stepped outside and been blinded and scared by how big the task actually is. It's not easy, though it is simple. Approach every girl you meet, until you really don't give a fuck. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/15 08:00 PM |
| 3 | A few thoughts after mediationIf you are the best man in the room. Wrong room. Push yourself. Get a social group where you as the alpha are average, there are those below and above you, and you have models to learn from. Do not wallow in stagnation. If one such group is not available, make one. If such resources are not available to make one, move. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/15 07:06 PM |
| 1 | She flaked with a weird excuse.Man that sucks about your friend, I'm going out regardless it's my party night, if things go well i'll be at (x), swing by and wear green, we'll celebrate together. If it turns out badly and you need to get away, swing by and wear red. We can play away the pain. Also, if she didn't offer another time, next until she does attempt to make an appointment. Brad Pitt rule. Edit : just had the color demand test work really well for me. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/15 06:42 PM |
| 7 | Sugar Daddies Are Paying Their Share Of The $1.3 Trillion Student Loan BalanceIt happens sometimes. I dated a girl younger than me at one point who offered to pay me for sex. Outright paid for everything, and even then bent over backward for me in any and every way. She was great while she lasted. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/15 07:29 PM |
| 3 | Women can't take feedbackThat's shocking. The second Ramsay video I've ever watched, shocking. How can that cook "Amy" be so obtuse and controlling? How are they in business, outright subterfuge? How can she argue with someone internationally recognized for their skill set, who is TRYING to HELP! Dear God. Thank you op I think i'll be watching him again soon. On the flip side, I've employed and worked with plenty of women, they take criticism well, we have biweekly releases, one complaint, it's fixed by the off week. I'… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/15 07:27 PM |
| 2 | The Disposable HeroesValue chain management. Like in business, only for men personally. Every person uses external inputs, improve the quality of those inputs and you increase your potential output. This is why "selfish charity" is actually very healthy. Pure Samaritans are still kinda silly imo | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/15 07:09 PM |
| 3 | The Dark Triad Personality TestWow. Guess maybe I have some issues. Psychopath at 25,but the other two at 88 and 86 | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/15 12:53 PM |
| 1 | So I met a wedding planner tonight.I'm... At a loss for the value of this, what, field report? Rp example? Follow the posting rules before your post is removed. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/15 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Can you be friends with a woman?Perfectly put. I have two female friends, one of which I explained I would never pull her out of an oh shit situation because she played that card and I found out later it was relationship drama. If she's talking to you about your mutual hobbies and interests, there's absolutely no mutual attraction "or at least None on your side" then have fun, be a friend. The moment you see her shifting to validation and support conversation, even at a 50/50 split, she's crossing the line. Drop her. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/15 10:06 PM |
| 1 | An actual possibility for an offline, real world TRP network.Meh. Still don't like the idea, but I definitely see your intention. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/15 09:13 PM |
| 11 | An actual possibility for an offline, real world TRP network.No thanks. You can already pick up on red pill individuals largely because of their actions and responses to social pressure/circumstances. Even if they're not actively on trp, an alpha acts like one in recognizable ways. That's someone of the same mindset, you may become friends. Posting something like this on reddit by function completely defies secrecy. All it takes is one person, troll, saboteur, or otherwise, to link or repost and now you've got an excellent identifier for any trp individua… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/15 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Get laid, get money, look good, and have a few cool friends to chill with.Yes. Realize why op said that silly statement. The people who follow everyday platitudes are the people akin to the writers of them. "the caved in jock who works at Mc Donalds, the valedictorian who realized not a single worthwhile alpha in the job market thought her above a six. The jaded and wasted." Its probably all he knows, but it's good to take the kids gloves off. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/15 08:30 PM |
| 6 | How to stop being a loser in life.This is much better, I think anyway, than the original post. Progress is less about the goal, and more about making change easy. One tiny step at a time. For example, never lifted before? Don't simply say tomorrow I lift. Say, "by Friday I'll have done 3 days in the gym" don't stop there, build a system, have the shake ready, grab the muscle milk before hand, the night before "so you've already invested" get a friend you can't let down to go with you. Set up a system to take advantage of your tr… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/15 08:24 PM |
| 1 | What is a Sigma? Is Alpha a physical dichotomy or a state of mind?Great example. I'm an alpha, my boss however is a Sigma. "alpha at work, he's founder, owner" almost nonexistant aside from work. " He gets an invite to every party and every gathering, in two years I've seen him maybe at two. Total. (there's at least one big one per two months) He's a long term friend so I see him daily otherwise but you just wouldn't recognize him aside from how Machiavellian he is. The above is correct op, they just show up, kick the door in out of nowhere, clean your kitchen… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/15 07:08 PM |
| 3 | What if I don't want towhat if I don't want to? More for other men. Go join mgtow. Be happy with your life. We're simply providing objective amoral information. We are not telling you what is right, wrong, what you want, what you don't. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/15 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Women have no foresight, so be the man with the planThis is tangentially related to a rule that should be a trp suggestion, Learn. Multiple. Languages. You don't have to be a linguist, but be fluent in two and conversational in an additional one. Preferably your native one or two and an additional non related one, "for me, English, French, Spanish" learning some minor Polish. Learn languages, it'll open a world of wetness and passive dread to you. People immediately associate knowing multiple languages with being traveled "even when that's defini… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/15 03:02 AM |
| 1 | I think I am addicted to porn due to feeling inferior to other men, help?Self fulfilling prophecy. You feel feel inferior to other men? Sounds like a great idea to overly imbibe a media built by selling attractive, powerful, sexually improbable men. See where I'm going with this? | /r/askTRP | 03/07/15 01:35 AM |
| 1 | "Tinder Flakes" How do you handle them?If a girl asks me my immediate response is, "yeah, I'll give you one shot". Playful, but serious. Set the tone immediately, if she, "or anyone" cancels, it better be for a Damn good reason. Be that guy people don't want to disappoint. Serves me well at least. Edit : any date should be on your terms. Just my opinion. Don't commit to anything after someone bails, "well i gave you a shot...but i'll be here at x time. Maybe I'll see you." | /r/askTRP | 03/07/15 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Questions vs StatementsWith the closest friends of mine, 15yrs or more, been a trio forever, we do not ask, we do not apologize, and we will cry or bleed for each other. It is expected. With every other male except employees, I am polite and appropriate, if demanding. You know someone's your best friend when I'm sorry is meet with annoyance, they understand just by how you've acted. When an order is met with compliance, because shit must've hit the fan, when silence is comfortable, because you know you don't have to s… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/15 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Does hooking up with an ugly girl lower your SMV?Who saw it? Is this something frequent or no? Do you only go for girls who are throwing themselves at you, but they're only 5 and 6s? Depending on the answers, yes it can, increase your smv, challange yourself, and maintain self respect. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/15 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Immersion into Social MasteryI completely agree with this. I don't and have never had issues with socializing, however, I did have issues with public speaking. A speaking diary helped a lot, and now I'm great at it "if I do say so myself" What you did right, what you did wrong, how to change it. After every event. Just review it once a week and plan it into your schedule to address the failures and strengthen the successes. Any habit or hobby should be measurable, if your goal is improvement. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/15 08:14 PM |
| 1 | TRP just kept me from losing out on $2100...I don't believe in karma. I do believe adding value to everything you do is key, "improve your inputs to in turn improve your outputs". I don't believe we live in isolated bubbles,though I do believe in guarding your effort. "recognize things/people detracting from your effort and value, and discard them" Other than that I don't feel I can help. There's a lot of endorsed and veteran contributes floating around here, much better people to ask than me! I'd post it to asktrp and see what you get. N… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/15 07:53 PM |
| 1 | TRP just kept me from losing out on $2100...Haha flattered. Thx for the complement. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/15 07:36 PM |
| 3 | TRP just kept me from losing out on $2100...Start any retail position you can get that is commission based. I worked as sears automotive for 8 to 10 months on commission, not because it's a good place to work, not because I needed it. Only to master person to person sales. Once I was top commission month to month, I left. I've always been "good" At sales, but learning how to sell, how to guide decisions more than push, how to maintain control of the interaction regardless of who is coming in the door, that ten months taught me a lot. You'… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/15 04:20 PM |
| 0 | "Strip" Part 1Cool. Same thing I think, just very curious about someone with obviously more research. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/15 01:21 PM |
| 2 | "Strip" Part 1Awesome post! Thank you, I'd definitely like to point out that attention is actually, in this case, a service. Limited, non repeat, but a paid transaction for a service. To the old man this is like paying for the super bowl. Completely agree with you, I dislike strip clubs, unlike many of my acquaintances, but I've also been close friends with few strippers, female and male. I would also like to add, male strip clubs are just the same, only instead of paying for female attention and a fake abund… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/15 12:45 PM |
| 14 | TRP just kept me from losing out on $2100...I recommend anyone do sales at some point in their lives, preferably commission based, and do it for at least six months. You will learn that skill and it serves you a lifetime. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/15 12:10 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill now illegal in New Zealand.It would be much more effective to ask the mods to allow a survey, via survey monkey or Google Forms, to verify that data. Really easy to set up and if mods sticky it for 7 days, incredibly useful. They should also throw in some common questions that keep appearing, "will the pill handbook ever be edited and polished, made available print on demand, is it possible to get top comments reconstructed into news feeds monthly or weekly, etc" | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/15 12:08 PM |
| 3 | FR - My story - She is not who you think she is, 15 years to find this out (the hard way)Thank you for sharing. I wish you the best, though it's clear you need no wishes, you've got it within your grasp now. A few of the other posters are saying this is enough, I disagree, this is the fuel that keeps me improving, the Daily dose of Reality that reminds me why you go to the God damned gym every day, why you diet, why you pull extra hours for a promotion. I'm hungrier each time I read a post like yours, and I thank you for bearing yourself for our communities benefit. I'll be looking … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/15 07:58 PM |
| 2 | When should one "fire back" during an interation?I watch my boss do this, works like a charm. Anyone insults him, he turns his back slightly towards them and entirely ignores them, while continuing his conversation. Totally unphased. It probably helps that he just spills influence, you don't want to fail this guy. If they try to escalate, he turns his back towards them completely "he's fit and very intense, so he doesn't worry about getting hit" In an one on one situation, or one where he can't do that he simply laughs in their face and says "… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/15 07:40 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over the anger phase? How long does it last...It lasts as long as you let it. It's your agency and your mind. You can channel your anger in many ways to help turn it into something productive. You can use meditation to address the core reasons you're angry, and move to acceptance, amusement instead. You can simply stay angry, "not recommended for the vast majority" but I have seen perpetual energy generators in the form of habitually angry people who turn it all to hobbies and Health "fitness". It can't be controlled at the beginning, but s… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/15 07:29 PM |
| 1 | GF (LTR) will be traveling alone, how to react TRPWouldn't ask her to cancel, wouldn't keep her as an ltr. What's the nature of the trip? Who is going with her? Do you know her sexual history? So many variables. Regardless of what they are, plate her softly, if she's throwing a lot of shit tests before leaving she's probably just planning or accepting there may be some Dick in the near future. If she's stopped shit testing and has moved almost completely to comfort, and it's ramping up, "getting sexual aggressive, curious, doing more than usual… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/15 07:25 PM |
| 1 | How important is Facebook/social media for my SMV?It's as important as your social fishing spot thinks it is. If where you're fishing it's important to have a strong online presence, in order to be invited to events, parties, meet people, be verified as an option, then spend some time in it. If your fishing place doesn't seem to use it for house parties, outings, etc, don't waste time there. I feel like you're the only one who can really answer how important it is, but always keep in mind, it's just snapshots of what people want others to see, … | /r/askTRP | 30/06/15 07:14 PM |
| 2 | The US normalizing of marriage rights, is going to flip the apple cart for women and they don't see it coming.Gotcha. Thank you! Now I definitely understand where you're coming from, and it's evident you understand my point too. Thanks for the morning philosophy, always good with coffee. ( | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/15 01:04 PM |
| 1 | I Took the Red Pill a Year Ago, Now I Hate EverythingCare for your mother, adopt a daughter? Just curious if you've considered the second one seriously. "young daughter, it'll be expensive", maybe you can raise her with your knowledge and experience to be a well adjusted RP woman, who will love you as a child can. Maybe you can't have exactly what you want, but you might get close enough to find some slivers of happiness. Also, there is nothing wrong with settling in the rare cases of impossibility. "though you sound incredibly driven, so I doubt … | /r/askTRP | 28/06/15 01:01 PM |
| 1 | The US normalizing of marriage rights, is going to flip the apple cart for women and they don't see it coming.No it's more like rather than being a black man, you are a mulatto, who could pass for either side, yes white people see the black in you, and black people see the white, but you could identify as either, both or neither, I know many a mulatto who more or less ignores their white side, and vice-versa. -I do not pass as white, but I see... Something? Yes if you can be mistaken you definitely choose which you can identify as. Likewise, black in terms of non-agency is ridiculous That's silly I have… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/15 12:46 PM |
| 2 | The US normalizing of marriage rights, is going to flip the apple cart for women and they don't see it coming.Just wanted to point out, being in a place on a spectrum by no means implies choice. The color red cannot choose to be green, it is by its nature red. There can be a a dozen shades of red, on a spectrum, which are not given a choice about their redness. I don't have a problem with what you're saying, however you may want to work on actually having a solid basis on which to say it. Choice and however does imply agency, and agency is only useful insofar as you can control something. I'm a black ma… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/15 11:59 AM |
| 7 | Hypergamy 102 - Her Perception and Context Means EverythingGuided. Had to fucking happen. Surprised it hasn't already. You keep posting, keep the quality, and help the novices. This is what trp should be. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/15 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Someone help me understand why my girlfriend wants to be with me?You sound okay. All i can say is if you're not getting, or stop getting comfort tests, the entire relationship should be flagged. When comfort tests stop, beware. That's when you've moved from "maybe someday" to "right now". A step from forgotten. Always be maybe someday. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/15 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Wife cheats on husband, gets knocked up, and has lied for 8+ years that the child is hisI believe there's probably a correlation with risk taking behaviors and high stress environments, "which those run by alpha Traits are likely to experience" In other words, living safely may have much to do with it "a result of many beta Traits" | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/15 02:47 AM |
| 1 | On Hobbies/Addictions and AWALT/FRs/ForeignwomenPosted, deleted, and reposted. "sorry op, he had mixed feelings, so if you saw the previous post and its gone, my bad" I'm sending you something my best friend is working on during his yearly monk. If you'd care to analyze and critique it. He won't be back until July 15th or 16th. I'm sending this to you because your post is really good so far as I've seen in comparison. Hope you have the time. Also, as a disclaimer, it's about hobbies and their quality. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/15 12:53 AM |
| 2 | No need to prove AWALT. Even they know themselves.You can definitely use friend zone to meet their other options, IF 1) you friend zoned them, from a position of being desired. You must still have desirable value or you'll just get spinster matches 2) you are willing to hit the odd comfort and shit test from someone you are not fucking. Any "friend zone" - read 'non sexual relationship' decided by the woman happens because you're not valuable enough. You cannot expect good reviews on performance even she didn't want. I have multiple women as ac… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/15 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Other than lifting, what do you guys do in your free time?Nah. What you really enjoy is likely challenging yourself to tactical and puzzle solving situations, but in a familiar atmosphere. That's cool though. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/15 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Other than lifting, what do you guys do in your free time?Really? What an interesting combo! Separate circles or overlapping groups of people? I wouldn't call magic a healthy hobby though, it's very expensive to stay updated considering they focus on planned obsolescence exclusively and there are few people I've seen play it who can push you to improve anything more than your milling strats. All things considered though, I don't know you or your social circle, could be awesome, if it works, keep it up! | /r/askTRP | 27/06/15 12:08 AM |
| 8 | BP "friends" don't want you to succeedAt 22 a friend of mine by complete accident, saw my account balance. The shit ensued for the next two months, to the point that he said something very inappropriate IN FRONT OF A GIRL I WAS WITH at the time, and got fucked up by my other two close friends. They wouldn't let it pass. I was, avidly hurt, but not angry. "he said that the 80 to 90 hours a Week I put in to start my own business was a joke because I didn't 'need' the money, I wasn't 'at the edge' Also, the girl began treating me diffe… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 11:36 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Fighter GirlsThat's really informative, thanks for the response to his post, what do you practice "hopefully not capoeira" you should check out pencak! Brutal and lively! | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Beta male allows his wife to be gangbanged by Chad Thundercock, wife leaves hubby for Chad but he won't commitYes. Marketing and management textbooks. Ignore leadership textbooks, as they're a dime a dozen and usually a thinly veiled advertisement for a few sponsoring, expensive, leadership seminars or groups. Power talk is plausible deniability and bartering subterfuge. That is all. Nothing more. Learn it or eventually be brutally used and tossed. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Oneitis rant and need help.My best friend was literally in your exact situation a few years ago. Same timing too. Great girl, red girl, employed, sexy, active, workaholic, "they worked at the same company in different locations". Move in after six months, bam. Lupis. Next few months are fine, gets worse. Next year is worse still. She finally says to him, "go. Just go. I can work from home, but let's be real, this isn't what you want, and I won't keep feeling guilty. Just go." I truly believe she loved him almost as much a… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/15 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Is there a secret handshake?Watch their actions. Red men share a lot of the same actions, cold approaching, abundance mentality, stoicism, spinning, agree and amplify, camping bullshit, the list goes on and on. Watch for the actions, and know they're red. Whether they're the red pill, as opposed to just having red Traits is irrelevant. The people I've learned most from are the already red alphas who would most often, never waste time looking for or needing trp. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/15 10:05 PM |
| 2 | In The End, You Win!Haha. No, Thankyou though, I apologize, but I don't share on family, though I have and will happily share on my relationships. "I'm positive I've been recognized for what I've shared already" in my place of residence we're a bit higher profile, so i need to be aware. I can say that I've seen the like on trp though, girlfriends hate mothers, at least RP mothers. Those mothers know exactly how they conned and screwed your father, their previous boyfriends, their beta men, and that means they know … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 09:57 PM |
| 7 | A passage from No Mr. Nice Guy, explaining the anger towards women.Agency. It all comes down to accepting your agency, and that other people have it. You are the only person who will ever be responsible for how you feel, act, or react. If you're angry, it is at yourself. If you're happy it's for yourself. You cry because you hurt, you laugh because you enjoy. Any exception is either a lack of introspection and knowing your actual value, or a symptom of a lack of experience or knowledge on the external world's mechanisms. Take responsibility. Great post op. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 01:50 PM |
| 4 | unplugged, no oneitis, but can't get over my exI'm still hurt if I think about her/new bf Yeah. It's still exactly onitus But it sounds like you've taken steps to deal with that. Continue taking steps. More abundance, knowing the words and living it are two different things. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/15 12:41 PM |
| 4 | In The End, You Win!A mom truly loves you, and for that reason, she shields her child boy, but prepares her Darling son. My mother was the supplier of the worst advice in my teen years, thankfully I had an rp as fuck dad. However, now, at 27, my mom is brutal in her assessments and advice. Why? Because she landed my dad. "Wealth. Status. Power. Options." She knows. She loves me unconditionally. She hates what she's done, but only in the way that she KNOWS they will try to do it to me. To elaborate, when I turned tw… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 01:46 AM |
| 67 | Guy on r/tinder spits truth about the brutal reality of dating. Welcome to female hypergamy 101.There's a phrase for this. "Silence is the soft consent" | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 01:08 AM |
| 4 | You have a sexual relationship with your smart phone and your computer and it's killing your desire to pursue women.It's not your phone. It's your inability to build fortitude in an effective way. You can retrain any habit if you're good enough at replacing it's triggers and logging small successes. I love porn. When I WANT to take a break from shit or comfort tests. Maybe once a month I may flash some up. However I broke that habit in highschool. How? I replaced it with mental stimulation. It's more satisfying to me to call someone and have an interesting conversation than flash a few images on a screen. I h… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 01:04 AM |
| 7 | Observing a Flock of Wild BetasThere is always someone more alpha, well there's always a more beta than you've ever imagined. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Be the SunIt's... Mildly entertaining, but why post it? This is material anyone whose read the sidebar would have a dozen times over. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 08:32 PM |
| 9 | [FR] My year since taking the Pill.Ignore those guys. This post is a PROGRESS report. You've made great progress for one year. Next year your report will be even better. In five years you'll laugh at how "great" things are going now. Anyone who laughs at progress, doesn't understand that everyone starts somewhere. Just don't stop! Nice post man, good to see PROGRESS with HUMILITY. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 08:14 PM |
| 6 | Observing a Flock of Wild BetasI kind of understand. The thing is, in their mind, there's a good chance they felt good about how the night went. To them, the hug, and the fact that she actually invited them back probably means they're moving in the right direction. They probably hamstered away the idea of why she made them leave in the first place. That's the real sadness of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 08:00 PM |
| 27 | Observing a Flock of Wild BetasJust like this! Was with an hb9, legit nine, she lives alone, her three neighbors are beta sjws. Always pining after her. SHE ACTUALLY GOT TWO OF THEM TO COOK PIAYA FOR US while we're watching a movie. Nothing but looks of daggers the entire way through eternal sunshine of the spotless mind. She's groping me, kissing, everything but getting me off. We eat dinner, she gives each of them a hug, they look at me like they're in "omfg so amazing" then she grabs my hand, said and I quote "see you guys… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Is it wrong for me to find African American and West African woman unattractive?No. If you can love a persons voice, scent, eye color, or hair style, you can love their race. Second verse, flip from the first. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/15 02:54 PM |
| 2 | How do I deal with the fatties?Start actively improving yourself more, girls tend to not approach guys they perceive as three or more full points above their smv. If they are, you must be screaming beta traits somehow which lowers your attractiveness from your proclaimed seven to something much more brutal. Additionally if you think women are hard on men in the market, they're MUCH more brutal on other women. An unattractive girl will be put in her place for chasing a hot guy incredibly quickly by other women. Additionally, t… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/15 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Knowing what you need to do, but not doing itWanted to post this, thank you for doing so. Also check into depression, you may have it. Both are likely, and depression is often a side effect of the issue, "it's the head cold of sickness in general from what I've heard" | /r/askTRP | 25/06/15 02:42 PM |
| 9 | Interesting conversation with my 87 year old grandfather about working women, and why they will never be satisfied.That sounds incredibly familiar to me for some reason... There's this sub on a thread site I go to regularly that has a lot of great advice for men who want to improve their lot in life, but there's a female ceo now and the entire system is going to shit. Gimme a minute and I'll look up the name... You'd probably like it! | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 03:11 AM |
| 3 | "It Didn't Mean Anything!"Bj cert is required for an internship. As part of the red board of hiring interviewers we demand that you retake the requirements and litmus test, go over the mission statement, and review immediately. Edit- you probably were referring to the deep throat cert, my bad, management has been informed. Carry on citizen and send that new secretary my way. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 02:32 AM |
| 4 | "It Didn't Mean Anything!"Or in the very rare case, she actually adopted so many alpha traits she's no longer tolerable by any male. So rare I probably wouldn't have bothered posting this had I not been drinking. "I also love outliers" | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 02:30 AM |
| 7 | "It Didn't Mean Anything!"Definitely exists, but you can always tell from the other women in that family. Dated one, 22 looked like 15, her mother was about 40 but was constantly, and I mean PREDICTABLY recognized as an older sister, maybe 25 at most. Her aunt was the same and the girls younger sister, "19" looked like she was a middle school kid. All the women in that family had severe, almost detrimental baby face, baby bod, short, and hit the gym 5 days a week, minimum, plus cardio from their swimming obsession. more … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Girl on TwoXChromosomes continues hooking up with "an inconsiderate, disgusting douchebag" for 3 years straight. Hamsters ahoy!Summarize the entire comment with, "if they are truly attracted, they'll justify" | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 04:41 AM |
| 1 | "This isn't how things were supposed to go..." FRNot at all. I won't explain, you face a lot of learning, but I feel you can do it on your own. Since I'm not contributing to op I'll just be leaving now. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 04:28 AM |
| 2 | Five simple things that you can do to become immediately above averageThe guy who first got me into lifting, 5'8 180 something of pure brutal 8 percent BADASS. Wore wire rimmed glasses, bald. Carried it like a champ. The dichotomy was captivating, "no homo". Unfortunately he was beta as hell when it came to sustaining plates. His lifting was literally a coping mechanism for his childhood trauma. AND HE VOLUNTEERED THAT INFORMATION! Plenty of offers, couldn't ever sustain interest. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 01:25 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Cold approach at a stop light.Higher? Speak on that. Are you implying that the most biologically attractive legal and least baggage carrying age of women available to the majority of seeking men in the US is somehow BENEATH him? In comparison to what, a unicorn? I rarely care about up and down votes, "reddit functions on a recency and circle jerk system anyway" but at this moment it is very satisfying to see you in the negatives. Shit. Grab hbs 18 until you're at least 21, then decide if you'll limit it to those who can publ… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Others before us already knew... we are not the firstObligatory: "Give me the strength to change what I can, the fortitude to accept what I can't, and the wisdom to know which is which." Or something like that, trp deals exclusively in this. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 12:53 AM |
| 3 | Survival show exposes how betas are viewed even when they provide shelter and foodshe takes half She fucking does NOT. SHE TAKES WHAT SHE CONTRIBUTED. Her whining, stupid, foolish, entitled, bitchy self. I may barter some grubs for the magnifying glass,I CAN use that, any five year old with an anthill could figure it out... Or daily bj. Cup of water if she swallows. Edit: another thing this post outlines which is great, is that even a beta Brad, is worth potentially more than the average woman when shit hits the fan. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 12:40 AM |
| 3 | "This isn't how things were supposed to go..." FRThey are not mutually exclusive. Massively common misconception. Logic is a system of truth and falsity, "unless you're one of those trimodal weirdos." Seriously though, you can measure how something makes you feel in areas of truth and falsity. The major issue is that men often are disposed to measure quantitative information, while women act using logic on qualitative variables. Tldr, don't make the mistake of presuming emotional discourse is necessarily not logical, be acutely aware that it's… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Employers and Shit Testing: A mirror of the transaction of traditional marriage?Thank you. Trp is choosing the entrepreneurial path in a world of part time minimum wage no thanks at will employment corporations. Like most entrepreneurs, you fail hard. You learn. You adapt to your market after studying it, and in the long run most of trp success will always limit to main street not wall street. But god damn, I'll take a God in the city than forgotten in the civilization. Especially if the former is on my own terms. Overall this metaphor is forced, coffee shop philosophy, alr… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Heart Condition- can't lift. Is it REALLY as mandatory as every post seems to claim it is?Watch what people do, not what they say, especially women. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/15 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Why do I always lose my alpha attitude around certain people?First off, observe mastery: good on this so far, take responsibility, and watch and learn, if he's better than you pick his brain, don't devalue or debase yourself while doing it. Second, divide and conquer: take your plate to a more separate place, work on her there. Don't fight on more fronts than necessary. Third: don't focus on analysis or justification: this guy is absolutely no reflection on you. At all. You're still in control of your sphere. Yeah other bigger spheres are out there, and b… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/15 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Do people disrespect skinny people? Is lifting the only way?There are things you can do to offset that, especially what you wear. Look up color meanings and suit tie combinations, add tie tac and maybe use an "older" aftershave. You can be youthful and modify yourself to appear more seasoned. Lucky guy though! It's easier to appear older, not younger. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/15 02:03 PM |
| 2 | I feel threatened by another guy's SMVNo matter who you are, if you're playing the red game, you will meet others who are better then you. This can not bother you. This is a constant and healthy reminder that red is a process, not a goal. It will never be complete. You're in the big leagues now, which means your old competition is now obsolete, you're fighting other pros and need a pro mentality. Take notes, keep improving. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/15 01:55 PM |
| 1 | What protects famous Chad Thundercocks from ONSs that have their children?I have an old friend whose recently become a minor celebrity, even that shifted his life drastically. "Recently as in the last two years". Just to see if he could he banged a new girl each night for two weeks. He went from full on blue to alpha red guard mode simply from abundance and the number of times "you don't need a condom" were said. Now he rarely does ons, and is getting snipped, freezing kids for the future. Oh and to directly answer your question, there is no free ride. High value is t… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/15 01:48 PM |
| 2 | The one thing that feminists and white knights do not want you to acceptNo, you hear it largely regardless of race. It has more to do with conditioning. If the girl was raised and treated like she was the entitled shit, she probably will be. For example, yes, white girls say princess, but black girls say Queen, and I've noticed two Latinas I've had calling themselves Women or Ladies. With capitals. Pretty sure there's a self masturbating status term for almost all who share that mentality regardless of culture, at least in the US. "don't know about otherwise, I've t… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/15 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Other than lifting, what do you guys do in your free time?That shit is amazing, unknown, and cheap as hell. I recommend it to anyone and everyone who asks about learning things in a solid field. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/15 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Other than lifting, what do you guys do in your free time?I will! I'm actually very comfortable and in my element public speaking, I think the largest group was around 2k people. However, walking out on a crowd and them expecting me to be funny instead of informative, that's the catch! | /r/askTRP | 22/06/15 01:33 AM |
| 1 | What are some tools you have in your arsenal for social interactions?Public speaking, pitching, and lots of it. Seriously, go pick up a public speaking course and begin pitching to people. Additional, learn how to dance, it's nice natural fitness and learning how people lead and follow spills heavily into noticing what their intentions are socially. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/15 03:27 PM |
| 6 | Other than lifting, what do you guys do in your free time?Pick up a book on hobbies, or find an internet list of them, and start picking at random. Any hobby you can begin with minimal cash, try for a few days. Within a few months you'll definitely have things you love filling your time. When picking hobbies make sure they are active. Even better if there are local groups of people you can join to practice day game. Personally I: -am an accomplished pianist. "Mastery lvl" -run a tg business -visit craft breweries twice a month. -play ultimate twice a m… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/15 03:21 PM |
| 13 | White Knight DefinitionNice post. I prefer my definition. A white night is a man whose happiness and sense of entitlement \worth is contingent on the satisfaction of a woman, or women. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/15 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Low life betasYou can easily do both options. As the leader, you can tell him how to improve. As a man on a mission, you can tell him you do not have time to speak right now. This post seems like you're riding a fine line between NGAF and giving too much of a fuck about this stuff. Just stay focused on what you're there to do, and handle things that stand in the way of that. Don't be concerned with what others do. Follow this advice. It's solid. Another way of saying it, add value, but only when opportunity c… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/15 02:32 AM |
| 3 | Anxiety not from the approach, but from fear of success.First op, you do not have a "fear of success". You have the same fear of failure everyone does. You know you can close " success " and you are afraid of the uncertainty that follows. The simple answer is there is no answer until you've tried it. A lot. And learned. If you've stepped up enough to close consistently, you are ready to step up to the after care. It'll be just as awkward as learning how to approach, then close, but for about the same amount of time if not less. Lots of good advice he… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/15 02:24 AM |
| 2 | This is a pathetic statement, and I have no right to say this: I am bored.You need structure? Pick up a starter job in a field you're not interested in, part time, it volunteer a skill you have. I used to run into this every summer, just go do construction, or dig ditches or something. Set up obligations that are active with people you will not disappoint. It helps. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/15 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Overcoming Inertia; or How to Break out of the Old Mold; or Why the Fuck is Finding Motivation so DifficultSo your issue isn't motivation, is goal setting. Smart goals: Simple: "a Twitter post in length" Measurable: "success can be quantified" Attainable: "realistic, getting ripped isn't a smart goal, working out tomorrow is" Reasonable: "it gels with your schedule and priorities" Time specific: "always a hard deadline to measure success by" Just work on your goal setting, motivation is a lot easier in small steps and achievements. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/15 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't we base our self worth on how many women we can attract?How long have you been working at this? Unless you already had many of the skills trp recommends, this is easily a year process. More if you have extreme counter issues, like social anxiety disorder'diagnosed " or obesity, autism spectrum, etc. Massive debt. You need to measure progress in a hard metric. Numbers. Write down a journal each week and keep pushing. Don't count the successes first count the attempts. "10 approached this week, fifteen the next, twenty the next and I got two numbers!" … | /r/askTRP | 21/06/15 01:28 AM |
| 4 | Not Completely Unplugged. Faggot Mindset : " I want to be Special and Unique "Sounds like you need to LIFT. I think you need to simplify. Focus on one or two areas to improve... stop reading TRP for a while. You're at the stage where you need to cool off from the depressing and infuriating posts here and just focus on building up some willpower muscle one step at a time. That's exactly it. Get off trp, and go focus on yourself. The disgust will subside, just like the disgust at any unpleasant realization. It takes time to adapt. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/15 01:24 AM |
| 12 | Innocence and ToughnessEnthusiasm. That's the thing that differs for me. All other things being equal, I'd always pick enthusiasm over experience. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/15 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Doing things by yourself is goodYeah, I should add, he's advertising it correctly, he doesn't talk about what he's doing, people just started seeing pictures of him doing cool stuff and having fun. They latch on by contingency | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/15 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Confused if Alpha or Orbiter?Another perspective, even plates have comfort tests to pass? I'm not sure what the others would say about this but it sounds like maybe you failed a comfort test somewhere in there after crushing all the shit tests. She may have been craving comfort so much she went to beta feel good bucks for a spin, then realized that wasn't as satisfying. Regardless you should have been less concerned when she addressed you about it. My suggestion would be next time, laugh, fuck her, maybe marathon service fo… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/15 01:33 PM |
| 1 | A really interesting video that explains how body language - even when forced - can affect the level of testosterone in the body.Downed for format, plus this is posted constantly, hell I posted it earlier to a guy who was unaware and using power poses without realizing it. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/15 04:59 AM |
| 20 | Another reason to always make a good first impression; People will want you to succeed to justify their own judgement.Good post good point. To add a miniature FR I meet with my fast track group every week, "for my business", Thursday at the session I was told by the person who runs it " you're the best person here." Now this was objectively false. Completely wrong. However, she completely believed it. To the bottom of her soul. To the point that my company got an additional grant and resources, because "when I saw you, though I knew nothing of your industry I just knew, this guy has to go through us." Now I've … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/15 04:50 AM |
| 8 | Question about this high status/high value stuff..That's because status is relative in a personal environment, and statistical in nature. If it's tons of surgeons, the top ten percent are king. If it's a trailer park the same follows. As far as what they think, you shouldn't care unless your primary prospect is at work. Don't shit where you eat, but if you must, then just watch. Regardless of what's said, who screws who? What characteristics did they have? Emulate those. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/15 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Is there something wrong with me or am I just a douche?Sounds like he's accidentally mgtow. Try monk mode for a while, ignore girls, focus on simply making people smile. Approach several times a day for a month, and get this, without having a goal of a number. The only goal is to make them smile, male or female. After a good thirty days, doing this every day a few set times, in person, you'll probably have figured the while "likeable fun guy" thing. Pro tip- people don't want advice or to hear the truth casually socially, they want confirmation and … | /r/askTRP | 20/06/15 04:10 AM |
| 4 | Doing things by yourself is goodOne of my good friends just did this. He got into a relationship, had five people going with him for a paid exchange summer program, "to Spain". It was looking great until about a month before, people began dropping like flies. Note that he and I are similar in many ways, two of them being red, and being skeptical about group follow through. He had purposely invited five people, but only expected 3, maybe 4, (though five would have worked), just because things happen people bail. Well everyone b… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/15 04:06 AM |
| 3 | What reasons would a girl have for being with a beta?Really OP, lots of good answers here. But it really boils down to one thing. Supply and demand. Even if women want to share alpha individuals, the fact is, there aren't many. Most girls, even before wall won't get in spitting distance of a top ten percent alpha, much less a top five, in their lives. If they did, what would he want with them? The bottom 80 percent have nothing to offer a top ten percent alpha. He can bang 8 and 9 all day if he wants to, and he's got his status largely because he … | /r/askTRP | 20/06/15 03:55 AM |
| 7 | First Impressions matter; how to bring him/her into your frame quicklyThank you for linking that. Regardless, I find with things like this the question is less about the empirical proven effects on the body, more is there a positive effect for YOU the user. Hell I'll try many things once. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/15 03:47 PM |
| 121 | First Impressions matter; how to bring him/her into your frame quicklybefore interviews I always throw up a double bicep pose < This is called power stance. You should do it before any social outing, if something seriously shakes you hop to the bathroom and do it again. You'd be shocked how effective it is. http://blog.ted.com/tag/power-posing/ Also, good post. Thanks for sharing. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/15 01:32 PM |
| 4 | Being told I have a huge ego/am too arrogant?You're challenging peoples classification of you. If a circle became a square you'd double take and comment right? Don't let it bug you unless you're spitting out checks you can't cash. In that case, talk less. Do more. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/15 01:25 PM |
| 1 | How much sex is too much?how much sex is too much? When one person in the relationship no longer feels desire enough to maintain the output equal to the other. Tons of possible reasons, maybe you're literally raw (addicted to the point of damaging yourself) maybe one has started to lose attraction. Maybe sex has become boring. Maybe there's an inequivalent exchange of sex to comfort. Financial problems. Depression. Chemical imbalance. Birth control. Menopause. Shame. Attraction. The list is inexhaustible. To emphasize t… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/15 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Girl Roommate. Need advice.That... That's rather silly bro. Not well thought out. You setting limits is not playing into her frame, nor is making your expectations known. In general this is an excellent thing to do whenl getting a room mate. Establish the tone and expectations immediately. What you're saying is sounding like: "telling her if she disrespects you, you'll walk, or there will be repercussions" is in her frame. That's... So silly it's ridiculous. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/15 01:13 PM |
| 3 | The women seeking rich older men to pay their university feesYou hit the nail on the head. One of my (shamefully) exes was an international escort for several years, highly intelligent, killed school to become a divorce attorney, paid by her patrons. Hot, smart, and seriously mentally damaged, and also a long term acquaintance of mine (through church and school!) She was banked. At any point she had more in cash and investments at 23 than any dozen guys I knew at the time put together. (And I'm a fucking tf kid as are many of my circle). She even offered … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/15 01:18 AM |
| 29 | Anti-Rape Program Teaching Women how to say "no" Halves Number of Campus AssaultsYeah, this is a perfect example. Every guy believes he's a secret agent under fire, every girl believes she's untouchable. Stupid, but at least the former learns to take precautions, sometimes too much to the point where it's damaging, but still, they have agency. I had a conversion much like yours a few weeks ago. Though this was about something so stupid I don't want to post it here. Same mentality though. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/15 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Should Red Pill men have long hair and beards?Don't... Why are you asking this really? This is too much a worry if your willing to post on this, "I'm glad you are though" but follow basic rules. Don't be feminine, stay sharp and clean. If you don't have a feminine cut, just keep it taken care of and well maintained and move on. Personally? I've always been buzz or grow out long. Nothing in between preferred. Either way I take care of that stuff. You every heard of static shock? That characters hair is what I have long, about chin line wet. … | /r/askTRP | 18/06/15 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Girl Roommate. Need advice.Set your limits now. Right now. Sit down and chat with her, find out her hard limits, after she's talked about herself, lead it to your own. You have to draw a line, and hold to it. Women are messy. They'll clean a guys house if they're trying to get him, but rarely their own unless spurred to do so. The only exception I've seen had a massive amount of abuse as a child, had to keep everything pristine to deal with her issues. She was also probably the worst roommate because of those issues and t… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/15 12:18 AM |
| 1 | The average American woman now weighs as much as the average 1960s manVice versa as well man. That's what to focus on. The supposed nice girl became a monster, the supposed monster was taught to follow. It all came down to how the men were acting. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/15 11:58 PM |
| 5 | The average American woman now weighs as much as the average 1960s manTo you specifically, op as well, never seen mentioned on trp, but read it or watch, "the taming of the shrew" Pure brutal efficient honesty in a rp perspective, from the age where writers had to be talented to sell. This is not to speak to what part of the works they come from "a woman" but what the perspectives around them actually mean for playing to ltr. Just freaking read it. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/15 03:11 AM |
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