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ADVICElaurathnxoxo/r/RedPillWomen15/10/21 06:35 AM
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What are you missing from him that you feel like you are doing so much and he does so little? Did you ask him to do something and he doesnt do so?
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/22 06:42 PM
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Exactly and it is worrisome to see how many people defend/excuse this behaviour (of a grown man).
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/22 06:57 PM
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I dont think that silent treatment is an excuse for not wanting to blow up…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 09:47 AM
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Imo a high value/ traditional man is not linked to a specific income but to a character trait. That you have to send him job offers and that he used to work in seasonal jobs is not very high value or traditional to me. It would irritate me and turn me off… so i would advise you to ask yourself if this is what you want long term. I ve been with a man like this for 3 years and as much as i tried to help hin ir communicate that this issue irks me so much (because i am always working a lot) i realis…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 04:36 AM
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I agree with you especially on the happiness part in the beginning. But i must say that i dont find him giving you the silent treatment good too. It shows that he hd communication issues too. In my opinion you both should re evaluate your communication. And that he „threatens“ you that the relationship can be over any time is not a good sign too. Of course a relationship can be over anytime… why is he bringing that up so clearly? The only answer in my opinion is that he brings it up because he k…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 04:30 AM
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I am together with my bf for 8 months and his birthday is on Valentines day sooooo yeah it will be a special day for us 😂 but i dont know what we will do or what i should do… :) hmmm
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/22 12:01 PM
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I would have run for my life after him telling you to start having sex with him to receive the spoiling…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/22 08:19 PM
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I am maybe exaggerating here but did he know you wanted an ipad and still sold his one? Because if yes… idk 💀 red flag. Especially when he is blaming you to spend YOUR money on sth you need
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/22 02:48 PM
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I havent continued reading after „keeps calling me stupid and retarded“. I dont need to know more. No person in your surrounding should call you that. This is negative energy, that will influence you sooner or later negatively. On top it is disrespectful and NOBODY deserves this. Major red flag
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/22 10:37 AM
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Is he meeting her alone or with the group? Because if it is only with the group, then i think he just accepts her as a part of the group. It sounds like he knows her for many many years and sometimes we tend to accept annoying traits more when we kind of grew up with someone. And that he finds the same traits off like you do, is a good sign, isnt it? Would it make you feel better if he disagreed with you and you had to explain to him why she is sometimes weird and then hoping he agrees with you?…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/21 09:16 PM
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I would leave it as is. I know it is hard but you are better than that and if you try to act against it you are looking a bit childish (imho) and you will push him away from you because your actions will kind of push him away from the group.... because what do you want to achieve? Him not meeting her in the group anymore? That will look kind of off and you will look jealous infront his friends which i feel like is not a good trait and also you will maybe give her exactly what she wants: your jea…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/21 08:19 PM
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Honestly, i feel that. Do you use hormonal protection? I am seeing my doc tomorrow to change that because i feel like since using the hormonal protection, i am not easy going anymore and more difficult to handle... i have a harder time to be soft and loving without crying about BS all the time. 5 months ago (before using hormones) i was different.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/21 04:00 PM
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I hope this was helpful. I am sorry if it was hard to read. English is not my first language
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/21 09:52 PM
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To me there is a difference in hearing someone say "wow i am happy to be home finally. Work was hard but i look forward to relax now" or "wow. What an awfully tiring work day. You wont believe what happened..." and then this person goes on for 20 min to tell me about all their nasty and tiring work stuff. Same goes for someone being sick. "Ugh. I am sick. I will go to the doctor tomorrow to get it fixed" is much different than "Omg ive been sick all week. I am so annoyed. And i had to work on to…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/21 09:49 PM
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Love me some Jordan P quotes 🥰
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 06:59 PM
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Omg whoever says sth like this must feel so insecure inside. Jesus. What a horrible character trait. How butthurt can one be?i hope you are in a much better position nowadays and were able to heal from these words! I know you were able to experience the opposite of what he said, but still... hearing sth like this can leave deep wounds
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/21 12:51 PM
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One thing that helped me feeling more secure was getting busy by dating. I know this sounds weird but i was always so sure never to meet someone again who thinks i am attractive or loveable. Dating around has helped me to see that this was just a thought in my head... and i am talking about dating around. Not hooking up with x amount of men!!!!!
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/21 10:26 AM
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Wow. They key words "love language" really released something in me. This is such a good way to adress it without sounding too judgemental. I know he loves me, i can see it clearly in some rare moments, but i just need to hear it and it seems like we just dont have the same love language which is not bad at all because we can still learn each other's! Thank you so so so much!!!
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/21 01:40 PM
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Yes, thank you. I dont think that "leave him alone and let him figure out" is the way to handle things. I am more the conversation type, who likes to address things but i do find it hard to word things correctly because i dislike it when people come to me and tell me in rage "you did this and that and this and that" and i dont even know what happened and they dont talk about how it made them feel like. I much rather talk like you suggested "i need xyz and realised that it has been given less to …
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/21 02:23 PM
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I had the exact same thought... this is no hvm imho
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/21 07:16 PM
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Could you explain further why you are ignoring him Currently ? I didnt understand that
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/21 03:37 AM
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