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What I don't understand is why are you trying to talk like a 13 year old from 5 years ago?
/r/seduction21/06/17 07:38 AM
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Holy shit, this post.
/r/seduction20/06/17 06:54 PM
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Of course it's possible. People do it all the time. I really haven't found this to be possible in my case. I mean what else can I do? I already meditate, journal, been to therapy, tried anti depressants, nootropics, some drugs. Weird self affirmations. How the hell does one change one's desires. No because the moment you do it you realize how much time you wasted. At least you could move on from that sticking point in life. Honestly for me it's sometimes like a parasite on my head wailing me dow…
/r/seduction25/04/17 08:03 PM
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Let's see how she will defuse the awkward situation when my response to her laughter is "let's see who's laughing once I've actually done the deed".
/r/seduction25/04/17 07:42 PM
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I'm not even disagreeing with that it is not a shitty way. I'm just talking about whether it's possible for someone to change one's priorities and desires. But you know assuming one hasn't fucked a lot of women, wouldn't it be good for that one to then fuck them to realize how empty and pointless it was so that one could move onto more productive things in life?
/r/seduction25/04/17 07:02 PM
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I don't know anything about Maslow's pyramid. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow%27s_hierarchy_of_needs I disagree with that. Just because you've decided that you're not going to be happy until you became an NBA player doesn't mean you should ignore everything about focus on being an NBA player, even if you fail at it and it never brings you happiness. Being an NBA player I think is more on the self actualization part. What I meant regarding the levels is that if one doesn't get laid and this …
/r/seduction25/04/17 06:38 PM
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But isn't that just Maslow's pyramid then? https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/6/60/Maslow%27s_Hierarchy_of_Needs.svg/2000px-Maslow%27s_Hierarchy_of_Needs.svg.png By that I mean of course one gets bored of one level and goal when this one has achieved the goal. But one can't reach to self-actualization if one still hasn't fulfilled the goal on the lower level. So this one is still blindsided by everything else. So there are two solutions. Maybe the guy who hasn't managed to stri…
/r/seduction25/04/17 03:27 PM
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So can one choose what this one desires? What if one just doesn't care about changing the world. We do not even know if any change we do for the world is eventually for the better or not. What if one doesn't have extreme passion or interest in anything else? How does one exactly change what this one deep down desires or wants. If this was choosable why not just choose to be content with nothing. Why not choose to be content with just the way I am right now. You are describing the problem, that p…
/r/seduction25/04/17 03:08 PM
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How can I put myself into that mindset when my past experience has shown it to not be true? It means lying and deluding myself. I can't do that. I also didn't mean that by pretending. I meant being a lot more subtle than that. But it still means acting more 'confident, positive and loving-of-life' than I really am. Essentially what I did was just 'actions', that I thought a guy who has it made would do. But deep down I felt extremely scared and insecure. I thought I could fuck up at any time. I …
/r/seduction19/03/17 05:14 PM
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I tried that, the girl thought I was a player despite I have never had any good sexual situations or relationship in my life before. But I think she never came to trusting me in all actuality... And then I fucked it up. Now I think all this pretending simply takes too much effort. I wonder if women are worth this type of effort for me. Maybe there is someone out there that would be worth it, but I have yet to meet her.
/r/seduction19/03/17 04:30 PM
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Yeah I think 'all men are creeps' mindset stated there by default is not the best. Also I think the point of the post is just to 'have options'... But how is someone who is not getting any able to get into a position where that someone could 'have options'. Should that one just be pretending?
/r/seduction19/03/17 04:11 PM
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Well. To be fair I still think that depression is just a label and often reasons for becoming fat can also be caused due to depression as well. How do you know if a fat person is fat because of depression or anything else, really? I don't think it is as simple as to categorize those things as physical and psychological. There is a lot of gray area. Could it not be possible someone eats in order to make the mental problems of his/her life to go away. Maybe shaming and the low self esteem caused b…
/r/PussyPassDenied04/03/17 02:40 PM
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What do you think exactly is the difference?
/r/PussyPassDenied04/03/17 02:32 PM
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I have never been fat, but I've had other obviously bad habits. I had depression and what eventually helped me was someone believing in me and pushing me to do something that showed me how if I am productive I can get results and become happier. The person didn't shame me. Any shame I received just made me worse and made me lose even more faith in myself.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/03/17 02:22 PM
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How do you know that shaming produces a better result than discovering the underlying issues behind being unmotivated and becoming fat?
/r/PussyPassDenied04/03/17 02:05 PM
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Yeah, it's no fun being self-absorbed. Oh well, I'm just pitying myself now and I'm also envious of you.
/r/seduction27/02/17 10:00 PM
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How can I know that I will find something. I mean I do go to the gym and work out, but I do it out of discipline rather than anything else. I feel like I do everything in my life out of discipline and out of anxiety that if I don't do those things I will never become the success I desire or the kind of man I desire to be. But I feel like this is all I do is just 'faking till making it'. I have done it for 2.5 years. Everything just discipline and putting effort in. Not really enjoying it. When w…
/r/seduction26/02/17 08:03 PM
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If I had billion dollars I would just hire a maid, buy bunch cocaine, MDMA, prostitues and try them out one by one.
/r/seduction26/02/17 07:29 PM
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How does one achieve that optimism? Because 'faking till you make it' hasn't worked for me at all.
/r/seduction26/02/17 07:26 PM
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What if one is not passionate about any such thing or enjoys something like this? I mean hobbies would be all fine and dandy to do, but is it right to do a hobby if you don't enjoy it and it feels like work?
/r/seduction26/02/17 07:23 PM
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Yeah, I agree and I'd never do that in real life. I see value in anonymous social experimenting though. You can basically say and do a lot to see how different people react or respond. This can satisfy one's curiousity so that one won't have to do it in real life or one can just observe others. I would only consider doing it wrong if I knew it would affect the other persons life negatively.
/r/seduction07/02/17 02:15 PM
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I think in this case it's also important to insult someone's character to see how they respond. Because of the type of advice (how to be a man) you give out and what you write implies that "you've made it" which means you should be confident and secure. Responses to insults of character I think can show whether it is so. If someone responds to insults with confident kindness I gain a lot of respect towards to this person. I'm just speaking my mind here, not trying to justify what I said earlier,…
/r/seduction04/02/17 10:04 AM
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Or maybe I think that it's good to try and insult and/or challenge anyone who writes those types of posts to see how exactly they respond. It gives a better measure on how legitimately that person's content should be taken. I think it's necessary for this type of advice. You have a lot of claims in the post. If you handle what is dished out in a good way I think I believe the content more legitimately so this might be one reason for insulting.
/r/seduction03/02/17 06:39 AM
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Difference is that my goal was not to insult you. I just wanted to express my thoughts I had during reading the content. What is the point of not expressing your thoughts on Reddit just not to insult someone? Obviously you are not retarded, but I just really dislike the content and it pissed me off. It's the fact that something very simple is covered with so much irrelevant text and it gets up-voted is what flipped me off. I did it because the content was very frustrating. I do a lot of question…
/r/seduction03/02/17 06:32 AM
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I just find the esoteric bullshit around it extremely disgusting. I'm also not calling you a retard, I'm thinking that you are retarded, there's a difference. Why on earth would you go around sun, planets and energy thing when the real social dynamics are actually logical and sensible.
/r/seduction31/01/17 10:53 PM
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You really like the word cuck though. I'm not entirely sure what to reply to you anymore. I actually do not know how living out cuckold fantasies in real life would affect one's psychology, so I can't argue on that. I doubt though that for me if it turns me on when girl takes the dominant and active side in the bed is psychologically in any sense bad. I doubt I would do cuckold stuff in real life even if I could jack off to it. But to me right now it just seems that you find it disgusting and yo…
/r/seduction24/01/17 08:50 PM
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You are talking more about your feelings rather than logic though. That you find things 'disgusting' etc. Your judgement derives from the narrative that 'If there is no explainable or clear reason for something to be there due to it being evolutionary advantegous it must be bad'. First of all the environment changes rapidly and a lot of things do have evolutionary reason behind them that might not seem to at first. Or if we are talking about being 'traditional' why exactly is it necessary to be …
/r/seduction24/01/17 06:44 PM
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Never said I thought I was special or anything. Also I am very self aware. I know my weak sides, my strong sides. I keep enhancing my strong sides as well as I work with my weak sides which I consider worth to be working on. I do value questioning everything and anything, even the common sense. And in this case I'm questioning you and pointing out the toxicity within your post which won't lead to a happy, successful and fulfilled life. I'm not really throwing a tantrum and I actually enjoy argui…
/r/seduction24/01/17 05:10 PM
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I do not expect to convince him or anything, but I still think it's important to point out flaws in his 'opinions' in case someone might think the advice would be good and healthy to follow. I think bringing a point of sanity is very important.
/r/seduction24/01/17 04:20 PM
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It doesn't really matter whether you care about the criticism of your advice. It's in my opinion however important to point out how your advice can be extremely toxic if anyone would come to believe it. I'm not sure if it's possible to point out to you how flawed your statements in general are, but it's important to recognize that by spewing that type of shit you are also affecting anyone else seeking advice here in a miserable direction. It hardly matters though whether you consider someone 'fr…
/r/seduction24/01/17 04:16 PM
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I think your advice is not that good to be honest. I'm pretty sure it's actually toxic. I'm not sure at all where all this is coming from, but I'd still rather live life the way that I will enjoy it and rather I'd live out my fantasies than suppress them because I'm sure that suppressing my fantasies will not get me anywhere. Calling it 'sickness' is also very misleading. I do not let anyone humiliate me in real life. I'm into entrepreneurship, start ups and things like that. I'm ambitious. I lo…
/r/seduction24/01/17 12:40 AM
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I'm sure some people will get their panties in a mess but fetishes aren't natural and are created through porn, trauma or any other brain damaging element. Source on that? From my own experience I had fantasies of girls beating me up preschool. I don't think I had any earlier trauma or brain damage for that matter.
/r/seduction24/01/17 12:28 AM
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What
/r/seduction24/01/17 12:19 AM
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Dude it's nothing to do with EGO. Or being bitter. It's the bullshit that is pissing me off so much in this post. I wouldn't care at all if this wasn't so upvoted. TIL: Not giving a fuck and not caring about outcome gets you laid. But why the fuck put some sun bullshit in there and bring out some extremely odd metaphors and weird science into it? It's disgrace to logical thinking. It also hides the truth and makes things that actually make sense 'magical'.
/r/seduction23/01/17 11:52 PM
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I think OP is retarded tbh. It's so pissing me off, because the things he's talking about are still common PUA inner game things and he's presenting them as something 'new' or that he's solved the most important problem in the world, alone. His main lesson is just not to be dependent on the outcome. But he has to present it with some odd metaphors and some of what seems like just simply magical thinking to me. It's hard to take him seriously. It's as if he's on some great la-la-land and YET he f…
/r/seduction23/01/17 11:34 PM
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Go to the door, knock and then tell them you are a pizza delivery guy or a cable guy. This in most cases should be a clearly obvious hint for them what is going on and the action should naturally ensue. Keep us updated!
/r/seduction07/01/17 04:13 PM
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Being ready to solve any problem the princess has was also not what you did in your post. Being kind and helpful is NOT that.
/r/seduction07/01/17 03:37 PM
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Okay and how exactly do I not THINK about things. I think it should be generally proven that avoiding to think about something doesn't work even for most people. You can't actively decide not to think about something. I don't think I've managed to do something like this even ONCE in my lifetime. I could go in front of a mirror and just repeat those slogans 'I AM a quality guy', but I can't ignore my inner monologue of thinking just how ridiculous it is. What even is a quality guy? What defines q…
/r/seduction07/01/17 02:56 PM
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This is where my only real evidence actually originates from. Rest of the evidence is just based on research and perceiving others. That most women won't find my type of personality attractive and the few who would there's a bigger demand than supply for them. And I don't see anything healthy coming from even if I found some of these rarest and beat all my competition.
/r/seduction07/01/17 02:53 PM
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Life is not an entity that owes anyone anything. I don't see where I have implied anything of the sort or that I'm supposed to get nothing out of anywhere. It's a bit insulting for me to read this and it's as if I had implied that anywhere in my comment. I can provide value. But all the value I can provide is either analytical insights - which work very well in a work environment as my insights are logical they help the business grow. However I'm unable to provide value in a sense that girls or …
/r/seduction07/01/17 01:16 PM
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Yeah, this has nothing to do with white knighting. It was the other actions you did that resulted in you being successful. I don't understand how the takeaway here can be about white knighting. Obviously you can be positive, friendly and helpful. Just don't lose your principles or spine. White knighting is more like when you defend the girl unnecessarily and imply that girls are superior to guys in some manner with hopes that the girl will fuck you for that reason. You did nothing of the sort an…
/r/seduction07/01/17 12:41 PM
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How can one take oneself seriously when repeating those things in the mirror? I've tried it and it always leads up into overthinking and a philosophical debate in my head...
/r/seduction07/01/17 12:32 PM
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What if the billionaires ARE willing to pay? If we are talking in metaphors which I for some reason find completely unnecessary instead of talking of facts and the way things are. The way I have perceived world is that nature of my personality and thinking which I've been unable to change despite conscious attempts for 8+ years girls find me unattractive. There are guys better looking or having a better personality always be able to get those girls from me. The most important thing seems to be a…
/r/seduction07/01/17 12:30 PM
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What if you are the type of person that can't 'believe' in anything without a shred of evidence?
/r/seduction07/01/17 12:24 PM
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What do you mean by not worrying? Do you consider him to be a human that is far too gone? That cannot be made into a productive member of society? Not wanting to guilt you or anything, but just curious about your perspective.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/16 02:02 AM
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I don't see this as shit talking at all. You are essentially saying the same thing. If those guys want to be a good guy they just have a misunderstanding of what a good guy actually is. Good guy does not do 'nice things'. Good guy is someone who influences everyone around him in a positive direction. Both sexes are manipulative to each other. Why focus on putting blame to either sexes and why try to change them when the past has clearly shown that it's impossible to benefit from this. It's not a…
/r/seduction18/12/16 12:44 PM
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Yeah, it's because people like to pretend they are less superficial than they really are.. for some reason. Why even have shame in that.
/r/seduction25/11/16 08:52 PM
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Calling out low effort marketing content has nothing to do with being a hater. Your reaction to the criticism pretty much shows a lot about you though and especially as someone wishing to be a teacher/role model.
/r/seduction25/11/16 04:01 PM
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TIL improve yourself (and buy their course)
/r/seduction24/11/16 08:30 PM
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It means that she created an excuse to not having to spend time talking to the guy, but still have the benefits of him providing for her. I know you didn't mean that translation, but this is just so grossing me out.
/r/seduction19/11/16 01:36 PM
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Aka never
/r/seduction19/11/16 12:26 PM
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You were afraid to fuck it up. It's quite common.
/r/seduction19/11/16 09:40 AM
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Feel like a niceguy(tm) waiting to happen if no interruption is made. Soon enough after enough providing he will get frustrated that no progress has been made and eventually through all this cycle will get just jaded.
/r/seduction19/11/16 09:28 AM
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Maybe it's just me, but I'd urge you to mention somewhere that it's based on your own experience, because otherwise it can be misleading. If a more socially skilled, attractive guy comes along for this guy it's really usually easy to sway a lot of girls from their boyfriends. He'd have to be a certain level above the boyfriend though. Enough so the girl wouldn't mind negative consequences from cheating. In OP's case I wouldn't assume though as well that it'd be good idea for him to keep trying. …
/r/seduction19/11/16 09:11 AM
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The reason it escapes is because some people's ego makes them think they are unique, special, different whatever and that's why it won't happen to them. If they would actually be special then it could be logical that it won't happen to them, but in most cases it's not.
/r/seduction19/11/16 09:04 AM
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Yeah, but I must say that it varies from school and general upbringing on how far they go with having fun.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/11/16 02:10 PM
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Statistically it's possible that it is this way, but whether the reason is genetics or rather the environment they were brought up is a different matter. If environments and general upbringing was switched then perhaps there were white kids dancing on those tables.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/10/16 01:40 PM
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Maybe, yes you come off boring, impossible to tell based on this text. Maybe she was trying to make Chad jealous by hooking up with you and it worked so he left off with Chad?
/r/seduction02/10/16 04:30 PM
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Came back here to say I'm feeling a whole lot better though my head hurts real heavy, but all the comments are deleted.
/r/seduction17/09/16 04:28 PM
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What exactly is shit.
/r/seduction29/08/16 06:31 AM
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Northeast European country.
/r/seduction29/08/16 06:31 AM
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Northeast European country.
/r/seduction28/08/16 09:35 PM
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I am confident in other areas, but it doesn't transfer over to social situations. It's always been like that. I used to play soccer when I was younger and while I scored the best on the fitness/general test which tested various skills and usually the best one got to be the captain of the team. The coach basically ignored that I got the best result this season while all the other seasons the captain was selected according to that and chose the 2nd spot to be a captain and 3rd spot as a co-captain…
/r/seduction28/08/16 09:31 PM
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My view is only focused on social skills and confidence as these are the things that I'm lacking the most as I have IMO above average or at least average looks, clothing, I work out (I'd say I'm more fit than at least 80% of guys around me) and make decent money. I'd say I'm top 20% in other areas in life and in some areas top 0.5%, but since I don't have the first two it's all for nothing.
/r/seduction28/08/16 09:15 PM
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It's not ok for me. I will never be happy unless I solve this shit.
/r/seduction28/08/16 06:46 PM
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The self promotion makes me cringe. If the content was decent maybe it wouldn't have, but it was some generic lame ass clickbait advice. Wonder if you actually make any money off it? And do you just google stuff and repeat whatever content you see to try and sell it as your own?
/r/seduction28/08/16 05:51 PM
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It doesn't really matter what actually happend. What matters is yeah that you should not give a fuck about this. Is it possible for you to realize that in 1 years time this doesn't matter at all and it's in general a ridiculous and unproductive thing to worry about.
/r/seduction28/08/16 05:35 PM
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The sooner he asks the less chance of a friendzone. The longer he waits and the more comfortable he gets the bigger chance girl loses attraction. The more he tries to overcome the anxiety by asking earlier the more he lessens his future anxiety and develops his character so it's a win win to ask earlier. Need to show the girl that you have balls by asking her out.
/r/seduction28/08/16 05:31 PM
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How exactly did you practice?
/r/seduction28/08/16 05:27 PM
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No, you should not hesitate and do it ASAP. Now go and do it or otherwise you will end up forever alone. It's your choice whether the direction of your life is going to be upwards or downwards from this single moment now. If you do ask her out now, it will go up, but you will be doomed if you don't. Remember the important part is to ask her out and the results are unimportant (such as her rejecting or accepting). First one will get you a long term advantage while the second one is just something…
/r/seduction28/08/16 05:14 PM
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I'm not even good at tech support or anything to do with troubleshooting. I can google, but I usually do not have patience to fix some obscure windows os problems. I'm good at coding and abstract logic so I only do that and I only enjoy doing that. Anything with UI and using a mouse and I get annoyed. But luckily I don't have anyone pestering with looking for help outside of work time. And I don't think being an IT support for a girl would get anyone further from being friendzoned.
/r/seduction28/08/16 05:04 PM
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How did you exactly start and what is the description/timeline of your progress?
/r/seduction28/08/16 04:43 PM
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The learning curve depends on person. Not everyone has the same potential. At work I practice social skills every day, but I'm still retarded in this field. If I saw some progress, I would believe this, but otherwise I see no proof.
/r/seduction28/08/16 04:42 PM
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I'd believe the approaching bit would work if I saw someone succeeding at it in my cultural location. I can understand it working in USA, but in a small country where noone else actually does that?
/r/seduction28/08/16 04:40 PM
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I still think that skills don't matter to girls as much as how confident on is about themselves. My skills are related to IT, which is particularly not interesting to girls and anything I can tell them about this is highly specific and they wouldn't be able to understand this. If it was being a doctor, lawyer or anything like that it would seem more attractive, but otherwise all they can understand is that I'm a computer person.
/r/seduction28/08/16 04:36 PM
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The day game cold approaching applies more to US where people do that naturally. Where I'm located at, it's culturally a different thing so the approaching doesn't work - I have not heard of anyone really doing that here or seen it in action. US people are used to small talking each other, here most what people dare to do here is ask for a cigarette - and this is very rare as well. And with all the VISA stuff it's not very easy to relocate to something like US as well. The reason why approaching…
/r/seduction28/08/16 04:22 PM
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For me personally, I have not seen a clear proof that hard work pays off really. Maybe for some people they can get good at something with heavy practice, but in my experience, I can get very good at some things with relatively no effort and for some things I just can't get good no matter how hard I practice, read about it and apply. If it's the lack of hard work, practice and effort then how come I can succeed in some aspects of the life, but no matter how hard I try I can't succeed at this? I …
/r/seduction28/08/16 03:58 PM
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That sucks a lot. I mean it would be possible to be a lone wolf and get girls, but you have to have tremendous confidence and faith in yourself and it still narrows your circle of potential girls to get by a heavy margin.
/r/seduction27/06/16 05:26 AM
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Social circle is more important since that is like a proof that your social skills are at least on some level decent.
/r/seduction27/06/16 05:22 AM
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I am quite fit, decent looking, make good money, but it's all useless when I have low self esteem and no confidence. None of this shit matters. Only confidence and self esteem matters. Doesn't matter if you are ripped, spend a lot of your life on self improvement and working to produce value to the society when you do not have these key things. These things only matter if they actually give you confidence. My point is that all you need is confidence and social practice. Your current mindset is i…
/r/seduction26/06/16 12:53 PM
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Nice, I really hope and want this to be true.
/r/seduction22/05/16 10:46 AM
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Darn, I really hoped someone would comment and tell me that everything is okay.
/r/seduction22/05/16 10:14 AM
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I also imagine how if someone would videotape my ridiculous interactions and attempts at PUA it would be put on cringe subreddit and the whole of Reddit would be writing judging and belittling comments. I'm already 24 years old and I have no real proof of female validation so there is like something huge missing from my life. I have to do it, but it seems like acting properly in social situations just seems so overwhelming. Knowing the theory just does not seem to help at all, but make me feel l…
/r/seduction22/05/16 08:47 AM
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People, in general, are becoming more and more selfish and shitty, especially when it comes to dating. Nothing misogynist about saying that. Where does that come from? Are you certain it's not just your perception that is changing for whatever reason? If not then why people are becoming this way? Agree with most other things though.
/r/seduction14/05/16 03:26 PM
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To feel better about oneself.
/r/seduction24/02/16 05:28 PM
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I mean, results from Tinder can be very random and highly affected by your profile pictures IMO.
/r/seduction21/02/16 11:05 PM
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Man, why do I even go to gym if I can't pose shirtless.
/r/seduction21/02/16 10:44 PM
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Face -> with plastic surgery maybe, but even then it probably won't look good. It's expensive as well, but if you were rich then yes it could be changed. Ability to be witty/charming/funny -> depends on the individual. For some it can be changed, for others not.
/r/seduction06/02/16 04:28 PM
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In the end I think we just have to learn to accept ourselves for who we are Is it possible? Is it really learning? Or you just accept or you don't. Does it just happen? Do you read books to learn this or do you keep repeating to yourself good things about yourself until you finally accept yourself? What is this process?
/r/seduction06/02/16 03:33 PM
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What about your face? Facial expressions? Difficult to upgrade one's face. Or voice tonality. It can be somewhat improved, but just to an extent. Also the ability to be witty, charming or funny. Some say it can be learned, but from personal experience I haven't found a way. I mean these questions instantly pop in my head when I read this type of advice and it makes me distrust it as biased advice, not reflecting reality.
/r/seduction06/02/16 01:00 PM
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Yeah, it's sad. Lifting weights is easy for me, but developing a personality. At the current rate, maybe by when I'm 90? Lifting weights alone does nothing. And I definitely see skinny charismatic dudes pull of hot chicks all the time and leave me just in envy.
/r/seduction04/02/16 07:07 PM
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