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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	This app helps POC find therapists from their same cultural background. I'm not one for identity politics, but since the APA is entertaining the stereotype of "toxic masculinity", do you think something similar for men would be a good idea? I often hear incels complain about this in particular.		lbgravy	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/12/19 10:23 PM
6	Jen Psaki stands up for Maternity/Paternity leave. Could this be the start of something bigger?	Discrimination	lbgravy	/r/MensRights	21/10/21 05:07 PM
4	Is prostitution sex work or exploitation?		lbgravy	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/01/20 04:32 PM

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10	It's all the men's fault at this point This is technically right. But if you think like this, you're already giving away the game. Women are to blame. There is nothing wrong with men sympathizing. There is something wrong with women taking advantage of sympathy to create social movements for their own benefit and at the expense of men. Always consider anything that happens to women with a woman's agency in mind. Never blame men for things women do. Gynocentrism is a cancer. Women are protected more than male children ffs.	/r/MensRights	18/03/26 12:53 PM
2	Christina Hofsomers said: Feminism used to be Freedom, but now it's Marxist. Absolutely 💯	/r/MensRights	06/02/26 03:12 PM
1	Christina Hofsomers said: Feminism used to be Freedom, but now it's Marxist. How could Feminism be Marxist if it existed before Marx was born. Or before communes existed as a political movement. Can you please clear up for me why MRAs believe this anachronistic fallacy despite all the evidence that Marx, and the USSR made mention that they were not Feminists many many times to distinguish themselves from what they believed was a liberal movement bc liberal women started it in 1792.	/r/MensRights	06/02/26 03:11 PM
1	Are there any politicians out there that are actually willing to support men or have tried? It's all performative bc all of these politicians have programs targeting women that have double or triple the funding.	/r/MensRights	05/02/26 11:13 AM
2	Are there any politicians out there that are actually willing to support men or have tried? Keir Starmers idea of helping men and boys is sending them to Feminist re-education camps where they'll learn how to respect women. In fact that's actually what that article says, lol. Libs are the worst on mens issues because they are so devious that they'll pretend that men's issues can be solved by doing more Feminism. Essentially saying mens problems are men's fault bc they created the patriarchy. But they say it compassionately like they actually care about me. They care about men the least…	/r/MensRights	05/02/26 10:57 AM
2	Are there any politicians out there that are actually willing to support men or have tried? These aren't things for men. These are just not pro-female policies. Democrats will give women things like VAWA. Like they'll actually name a bill for women and their intent to discriminate against men. We need politicians who have the balls to say some of men's issues are actually the fault of women. And do things that exclude women because they need to be countered in government. This is how politics is right now. Everyone is getting something for themselves except men. Men are the only ones w…	/r/MensRights	05/02/26 10:52 AM
2	Are there any politicians out there that are actually willing to support men or have tried? Literally this. Politicians see the Men's Rights Movement and they see a group of people so broken that you can't work with them. You have everything from Warren Farrel who wants a government department for men to Redpillers who think the whole government is the problem, to incels who just want to die. But these groups all exist in opposition to one another. Feminists are a bloc. There are liberal Feminists, conservative Feminists, TERFs, Marxist Feminists and they stick together to advocate for…	/r/MensRights	05/02/26 10:44 AM
2	Do you think a strict policy of gender segregation might be better for both genders Women actually WANT segregation though. They want their own bathrooms, gyms, train cars and probably their own drinking fountains. They have never once advocated for the Civil Right to integrate anywhere except where they would gain an advantage. Until they can decide if they want to be treated as equals or treated as women it's probably best to keep our distance from people who hate us so much they'd prefer to be mauled by a bear.	/r/MensRights	29/11/25 05:37 PM
5	Just saw this on LinkedIn. This is actually pretty upsetting that “professionals” can speak like this without hesitation Why do they assume that a father without paternity leave isn't watching his children when he is off work? That's always been the rationale for why women need maternity leave.	/r/MensRights	29/11/25 05:14 PM
9	Feminist scholars attack on r/MensRights! Lol, the basic argument here is that anyone who has a problem with being falsely accused of rape is evidence of rape culture. You can't make up anything worse than this.	/r/MensRights	01/03/25 01:04 AM
8	To be a Man... That's just, like, you're opinion, man. Lol, Western women as a group have a higher quality of life and the highest life expectancy of any other demographic worldwide. But we're all supposed to care that they're freaking out about their personal problems. You realize you could excuse almost anyone for anything by focusing on their own individual struggle? Not to sound extreme, but Hitler literally wrote a book called "My Struggle" to excuse why he had to do horrible things. This is how Feminists…	/r/MensRights	27/12/24 10:42 PM
1	Anyone else just get exhausted around women?! I'm not sure what your confusion is. You're there to help each other become better. When someone needs help, you help them. When they don't need your help anymore then you leave them. Look at it like a challenge. For instance, if you LOVED playing tennis and got REALLY good. Or got so good that it was no longer a challenge, you'd get bored because you're wasting your time on it at that point. There's no point to sacrificing any effort anymore because you've gotten everything you can get out of i…	/r/MensRights	17/12/24 02:48 PM
1	Anyone else just get exhausted around women?! To each their own is the problem. What you are implying is correct. You should move on from your partner when you or they can no longer teach you anything. I'm not a pro-marriage extremist. There are reasons to leave. I'm just saying that a relationship necessarily cultivates trust and loyalty. So, for women to divorce at the rate they are means they are doing something seriously wrong. I'll just explain briefly where I'm coming from and end this conversation. We used to have at fault divorce. N…	/r/MensRights	17/12/24 01:21 PM
1	Anyone else just get exhausted around women?! Yes, I am trying to change them because that is the whole point of a relationship. To come together as one and become a newer, better person. Not to make you feel safe or happy. You're supposed to be learning what makes them happy and what makes them sad, and using those to make them better. This isn't really a woman thing. It's just how things are in general. But, women in particular have been the ones most encouraged to adopt this ideology of individualism and leave their partners by political…	/r/MensRights	17/12/24 11:23 AM
1	Anyone else just get exhausted around women?! How can somebody make you want to die in your relationship? This seems like an exaggeration. OP was talking about how women are exhausting bc you have to walk on eggshells to deal with them bc they're so sensitive. And EVERYTHING is a feeling or mood to them. What you're saying is more of that. Mostly women respond this way to any minor disagreement in their relationship. This is why we have an almost 80% divorce rate among women. A relationship isn't about your personal feelings. It's actually …	/r/MensRights	16/12/24 03:31 PM
2	Anyone else just get exhausted around women?! I'm just going to say that this is a bit extreme and probably why he would never talk to you about it. It's not something to divorce over. My job is exhausting, but I'm not going to quit just to make myself feel better. My kids are exhausting, but I'm not going to just leave them. And yes, women are exhausting little balls of emotions, but we will work to become better. As long as you are trying to get to know him better and specialize in making each other better people, then there's no need to …	/r/MensRights	11/12/24 03:41 PM
1	The problem with nordic model of prostitution and how swiss model does a better job of preventing human trafficking just pay them money to insult them. they're whores.	/r/MensRights	14/11/24 05:59 PM
9	Men’s rights to a fetus If you want a right to a fetus, make the woman sign a contact beforehand. Like a surrogacy agreement. Otherwise, he's SOL.	/r/MensRights	14/11/24 02:03 PM
1	The problem with nordic model of prostitution and how swiss model does a better job of preventing human trafficking If you want to fix a problem, look at regulating who benefits instead of who loses. In almost all cases, if a man is buying sex from a woman that could be (and often is) given free of charge, he is losing. Regulate pimps and whores. And not guys who had to lower themselves to buy sex.	/r/MensRights	14/11/24 02:00 PM
26	4B movement is pathetic Good luck. Feminists can't organize something like this because they can't tell women no on anything. The point of Feminism is zero accountability for women.	/r/MensRights	12/11/24 07:44 PM
3	The KKK believed women, and this led to the lynching murders of thousands of innocent black men Lol, you're completely missing the point. Most people don't falsely accuse anyone of any crime. Most people in general don't commit felonies. But it'd be insanely stupid to use that fact as evidence. Could you imagine your lawyer telling a judge: "Your honor, most people don't commit murder. So, my client is more than likely innocent. And I'm not sure why we're even calling it into question. #BelieveAllPeople!".	/r/MensRights	07/09/24 01:41 AM
2	Who do you consider a good male role model? George Orwell. He's not an impressive figure. He's self-admittedly not even a good writer. But that's why I like him. He's such an average person that made such a huge impact. Bc he was always dedicated to his beliefs, always critical bc he wanted to believe the right things, and even put himself in danger to defend his beliefs. But he was also undeniably a man bc of his background as a cop which he later regretted. But it affected his character. I think that's important bc it shows that men can…	/r/MensRights	30/08/24 12:22 AM
1	Man or bear? Ask them if the bear were to walk up to her, and they saw a man in the woods holding a rifle for hunting bears, would they want him to help?	/r/MensRights	26/08/24 11:52 PM
6	Punish men who buy sex, rather than women who are “lured” into it. Feminists play both sides on every important issue. The sex work "debate" is a facade. Classic doublethink: Feminists think sex work is good when women are making money over sex addicted men. In which case, men are perverts and deserve what's happening to them. They simultaneously think sex work is sexual assault whenever women can't make enough money doing it and are forced to prostitutes for income. In which case men are perverts who are victimizing women for their own sexual pleasure. Even th…	/r/MensRights	26/08/24 11:33 PM
-2	Why is so much pornography emasculating towards white men? Why oh why, I wonder, would a company be hesitant to depict Black people being beaten and/or abused by White people? Any important history behind that decision? Oh wait, I know! It must be Jews. Despite any evidence to the contrary, it's always a Jewish agenda. It was Jews who went back in time to force White people to make all those anti-Black laws and get Black people so sore about slavery. And then the payoff was producing cuckold porn that you never have to watch. Is this really the state of…	/r/MensRights	02/01/24 02:07 AM
1	The whole body count argument from feminists has a massive glaring hole in it Yeah, even most women understand this. Which is why they won't tell a guy who's going through the trouble of taking them out that they plan on getting railed by some random immediately after their dinner date. What self-respecting guy do you know who would pay for something when they know everyone else gets it for free?	/r/MensRights	30/12/23 03:05 PM
1	The whole body count argument from feminists has a massive glaring hole in it Yeah sure anything is possible. But everything has consequences as well. If you like casual sex with strangers, for instance, no one is saying that you can't do that. But no self-respecting person will commit to you exclusively through marriage. Why buy the cow when the milk is free?	/r/MensRights	30/12/23 10:16 AM
2	The whole body count argument from feminists has a massive glaring hole in it what. the. hell. are you talking about? firstly, I don't want my partner being intimate with anyone but me, male or female, without my permission. and that's pretty much the same for everyone. secondly, the argument against high bc has always been 2 things: 1) you're most likely a disloyal sex addict who will cheat on me, and 2) why would I be in a relationship with someone who routinely has sex with people who offer no kind of commitment? you don't respect me, and make me jump through hoops. Fe…	/r/MensRights	30/12/23 03:34 AM
9	Right wing trad cons are NOT your friend. Conservatives in general are liars. Most are hypocrites that lie to themselves, and the rest are paid to lie to their political opponents. They explicitly want a religious, moral society, built around the nuclear family, military service, and State power. Please stop trusting these people if you want anything other than that. No matter how edgy they try to look by backing a political opinion outside the status quo. No matter how much they tell you that they want a small government that respects …	/r/MensRights	05/12/23 11:13 PM
1	Dear Mens Rights activists, why do some of you vote left? I'm a Socialist, but some of my close personal friends are conservatives, so I can sympathize. I think the last point you made about picking politics based on opposition is the most off-putting thing. Somewhere along the line Conservatives got this idea that they were being attacked for their beliefs, and a lot of things gave way to defend Conservativism instead of just living out Conservative values. Now it just seems like they will endorse a bad idea if it protects Conservatives, or deny a goo…	/r/MensRights	27/11/23 08:14 AM
0	Dear Mens Rights activists, why do some of you vote left? He's actually right...somewhat. Ironically, in America at least, Conservatives have been able to reduce homelessness and housing prices particularly because they use the Scandinavian model of just giving housing to people. But Conservatives are literally worse on EVERY OTHER METRIC. Mississippi for instance has the lowest rate of homelessness in the country, but is also so poor in general its like living in a 3rd world country. How is this so? For one, Conservatives are penny wise and pound fool…	/r/MensRights	27/11/23 07:43 AM
15	Dear Mens Rights activists, why do some of you vote left? I'm in the same boat. It's either a vote for corporate welfare or welfare mostly intended for women. Either way, I'm not directly benefiting. I don't even vote anymore.	/r/MensRights	26/11/23 05:15 PM
5	EUROSTAT data disproves the narrative of lazy men and brave women suffering "second shifts" I wish society would "force" me to do work by requiring that I do none of it. And then I could divorce my employer to get half of what they actually worked for.	/r/MensRights	13/04/23 02:29 PM
6	EUROSTAT data disproves the narrative of lazy men and brave women suffering "second shifts" I never really get the argument here bc no one actually forces women to do unpaid work. They could just stop doing it today and problem solved, right? I don't go to work and start running production for free (to my knowledge, I didn't see wage theft included here). And I don't really need a woman to cook for me or wash my dishes either bc I've been doing that since before I met her. If you're really that concerned about doing unpaid labor, then set up an LLC and start charging your husband and k…	/r/MensRights	12/04/23 08:45 PM
1	I used to judge men who cheat, until I stopped pron Sexual activity is addictive. If you chase sex, you will just want more sex at the expense of other more meaningful things in your life. Cheating will make the problem worse for these reasons. You've already experienced this with pr0n. You have to have balance. You should aim to limit sex to a level that is just what's necessary. And learn to appreciate this lower level of sex more by focusing on the quality of the sex over the quantity. Experiment and analyze your feelings around sex with your …	/r/MensRights	07/02/23 02:35 PM
11	How the media frames the suicide epidemic. They only really care about male suicide when it's transwomen. For White males, it's their own fault. and somehow probably also their fault that trans people commit suicide as well.	/r/MensRights	31/12/22 11:50 PM
9	If we all agree, then where is the action for our boys? I'm pretty sure there are more educated women than men in Saudi Arabia and Iran. Even in cultures that are usually thought of as straightforwardly misogynist, the real issue is if there's enough money to educate women in a safe and comfortable environment. Like every commodity, men would like to feel a sense of achievement by buying it and giving it away to help women. Society educates men because it has to; and educates women because it wants to.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/11/22 12:31 AM
0	"ENOUGH" - UK Gov pulls a Gillette (yes, another one) suc·cumb /səˈkəm/ Learn to pronounce verb fail to resist pressure, temptation, or some other negative force.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/10/22 08:31 AM
0	"ENOUGH" - UK Gov pulls a Gillette (yes, another one) I always wonder about the political calculus here. Do they really think that the number of women who have suffered an uncomfortable cat-call is greater than the number of women who have succumbed to a successful cat-call, had a good time, and look forward to the next time? Who cat-calls anyway? Everything's done online nowadays. That guy might as well have sounded a wolf-whistle. This ad could only effectively improve the behavior of television actors who play groups of sexist construction worke…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/10/22 02:23 PM
1	Racist Cop Interrogates me after my ex-girlfriend falsely accuses me rape and abduction Yay! I'm glad you weren't being sarcastic in your previous comment. I was skeptical bc I was getting downvoted.	/r/MensRights	25/10/22 03:17 PM
1	Racist Cop Interrogates me after my ex-girlfriend falsely accuses me rape and abduction Quick question. What do you think the result of this incredibly racist action that was caught with video evidence will be? Do you think: a) nothing; bc the cops are unaccountable, and will take advantage of the fact that men's issues are ignored to sweep this under the rug. and also continue to use racism to interrogate innocent men b) this gets more press coverage during an election year and the cops use their union and political power to make sure they come out unscathed c) The officer will be…	/r/MensRights	25/10/22 02:24 PM
-4	Racist Cop Interrogates me after my ex-girlfriend falsely accuses me rape and abduction Lol ACAB	/r/MensRights	23/10/22 09:54 PM
2	I made a list of male oriented subreddits where we can discuss emotions, grooming, and other topics don't downvote. let's make lemonade out of this lemon. there should be a list of subs that are actually Feminist fronts. do you know of anymore?	/r/MensRights	19/10/22 04:09 PM
2	Jen Psaki stands up for Maternity/Paternity leave. Could this be the start of something bigger? What MRA's are mad? I hadn't read or heard anything in the Manosphere.	/r/MensRights	22/10/21 02:53 PM
27	Wait so women haven't made any progress? It's surprising how little stamina they have. Even Feminist disillusionment is history repeating itself. We've been through all this before. The #MeToo stuff, the Supreme Court judges, etc. It'll die out again so that real work can be made towards progress instead of a bunch of organized hissy fits. This is so sad and they have no idea why they keep failing.	/r/MensRights	02/07/21 05:14 PM
1	according to vice, all masculinity is toxic and must be ridden off for "morally sound and love-filled lives" lmao, the article in the OP was in that video. I thought all the articles were jokes but they're real. It's really no wonder Gavin McIness started far Right wing male chauvinist organization after starting VICE. Could you imagine working around anyone for more than a day who wrote an article like, "A Modest Take on Why Men Traumatize Women with Poop"?	/r/MensRights	05/01/21 01:59 PM
1	Men being massacred in prisons all over South America in riots as inmates starving to death link?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/05/20 02:43 PM
1	I can’t anymore I think the average person would rather trivialize White issues bc taking them too seriously had the opposite effect. And speaking honestly, it's not super common that White men will run into problems that affect minorities. Whites are a majority in most of the places that have these discriminatory diversity policies. Just by sheer numbers, they can be represented by race. I don't think race is a good indicator of diversity mind you, I'm just explaining what happened. But I also don't see why wo…	/r/MensRights	22/04/20 03:12 AM
1	I can’t anymore That's not really what I meant. Of course White people have specific problems, but so does every other race. Like Black people being disproportionately targeted by the justice system isn't exactly the same as anti-White job quotas. Supremacists/nationalists/identitarians of every race use this same argument. They try to prove that their race is being singled out, or say that the racism they suffer under is somehow worse than others'. It may or may not be, but that's beside the point. The point…	/r/MensRights	22/04/20 02:27 AM
1	I can’t anymore It's both. White supremacists use the pitch bc it's about problems that mostly affect White people. And they choose those problems specifically bc they are usu ignored and therefore the most likely to make White people feel like they are suffering some oppression that no one else is and need to organize with White people exclusively.	/r/MensRights	22/04/20 01:48 AM
3	I can’t anymore They're downvoting bc that is a pitch that White supremacists use to recruit disaffected and confused White people. However, ignoring the problems of White men specifically bc they are White has actually become a problem of late. For some reason, women aren't called out as White supremacists unless they've explicitly said they think their race is best and everyone else should be displaced. Otherwise, women are given carte blanche to express how the most meaningless problems are some form of viol…	/r/MensRights	20/04/20 11:56 PM
2	Continuing efforts to get leftbook and other lefty groups which aren't explicitly feminist to meet MRAs halfway The one place that I've found refuge for people that will tolerate anti-Feminist talking points are the chan sites. I occasionally browse bunkerchan, and Anarchists and Marxists on leftypol usually have a thread open hating on Feminists bc they were more pro-woman than Socialist at the 1st international. I've seen them call out misandry as reactionary too. But there's also tankie apologists which I'm ok with, but they sometimes take to an extreme. I've been trying to do the same as you. Kinda br…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/04/20 03:08 AM
7	What does this sub think of the accusations against Biden and the way the conversation is had both offline and online They've been playing the sexual assault game since the 19th century. If you think about it, that's really been the only method they've had to use. Everything is either rape/sexual assault or will lead to sexual assault. These threats will always be used in some form or another. I'm just gonna go ahead and say that Biden probably didn't do this bc I've seen no credible evidence and there are inconsistencies in her story. But since he's advocated for investigating these accusations with almost zer…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/03/20 09:39 AM
2	Male feminist reacts to vile scumbag who murdered his kids by telling ALL men to, you know, stop killing women and kids... I get it. That stat is still kinda sorta true, but there's just so much to the story that you can't fit into that stat. I'm Black and pretty much everyone I know is Black, and none of them have ever committed a crime in their lives. Much less a murder. It can be hard to hear stuff like that, but there is a problem that needs fixed. Most of my family are teachers in the inner-city. So I've definitely known the types of people that 13-52 is talking about. Just these shiftless, aimless kids who hav…	/r/MensRights	22/02/20 09:32 PM
5	Male feminist reacts to vile scumbag who murdered his kids by telling ALL men to, you know, stop killing women and kids... It's a lot of things. Bust it mostly falls under the umbrella of historic discrimination at every level that hasn't been fully addressed today. I'm surprised that in the Men's Rights sub nobody seems to realize this. Men as a group commit more violent crime than women, but they're also mostly the victims of that violence as well. Same with Black people. Neither men nor Blacks are inherently violent, but both are discriminated against in specific ways that make them react with violence. I haven't…	/r/MensRights	22/02/20 09:08 PM
6	The "bernie bro" smear campaign transparently exploits the popular leftist disdain for masculinity and, more specifically, masculine aggression, which derives entirely from feminist narratives about epidemic male violence If the DNC screws Bernie again I'm leading a coup at the National Convention like in 1968. I think I could probably count on 6000 angry Iowans' support so far.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/02/20 07:09 AM
1	Is prostitution sex work or exploitation? I think I answered this somewhere else, but I would ban SELLING those things bc they serve a medical need for good mental health. You can do them, but it should be on a more or less volunteer basis. You should do those things to help people and not to make money. That's a clear conflict of interest. Otherwise it's like going on a mission trip to a poor side of the country and then charging them for the house you built. If they had money to pay, they wouldn't need the help, right?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/01/20 01:55 PM
1	Is prostitution sex work or exploitation? Well it was presented like" you're not with anyone right now, and she's not with anyone". It wasn't "hey have sex with this pitiful monster and I'll buy you a coke." I dont think anyone told her all the details, but we talked and drank and she was really forward about it. Maybe they told her the same thing about me. Idk. I just know I wouldn't have approached her on my own and wasn't super proud after. But I know some people who are at such a disadvantage sexually that you couldn't gently persua…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/01/20 07:57 PM
2	Is prostitution sex work or exploitation? If it wasn't clear, I was trying to address people who can't have normal sex. Incels, trans, disabled, etc. Why should some people get free stuff and others have to pay for the same thing? I could understand if it was something they chose. I wouldn't sleep with a Nazi for example. They could easily change that by not being a Nazi. But I couldn't imagine myself not fucking someone bc they're Asian. Or bc someone else burned them in the face. I may just have lower standards than most, but it feels…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/01/20 07:27 PM
1	Is prostitution sex work or exploitation? I think of therapists like mental doctors. Not just friends. Actually it's probably best if they're not your friend. They're legally supposed to help you if you're a danger to yourself and make tough decisions in that regard. Friends can do that too, but I think the nature of friendship is that you trust them enough to say things around them you both wouldn't say to a therapist. Your therapist isn't going to tell you their most private details for instance. No, I dont tell anyone I had sex with …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/01/20 07:18 PM
1	Is prostitution sex work or exploitation? I think it's exploitative both ways though. If you can choose your clients, then that's just having sex. And you wouldn't charge for that unless you had a sexual advantage over a customer that you wanted to extract money from. In which case, you're now exploiting them. I'm still trying to figure this one out, but I'm centering this argument around the concept of ownership. It's a Socialist argument. Take a landlord for instance. It's not really ethical for him to profit off of the land simply bc…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/01/20 06:33 PM
1	Is prostitution sex work or exploitation? I said selling sex should be illegal. Not having sex. What you're saying makes it sound like I want to make doctors illegal. You can socialize healthcare bc you might die w/o it. This is a little different bc you technically don't need sex to live. But if you're charging someone for it, you're taking advantage. You can't really force people to be friends with each other or have sex via the State bc that defeats the point. People should be doing those things bc they want to do them. Not bc someon…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/01/20 05:55 PM
1	Is prostitution sex work or exploitation? If you're paying for a human connection or for health needs, then that's wrong too. I guess I'm thinking of this from the standpoint of not profiting off of others' pain. You can ethically profit from selling a t-shirt or other non-essential things, but to take advantage of someone who can't have sex normally, or cant find a friend, especially when it costs you maybe five minutes and zero actual work (literally you can just stay still), is kinda sad to me.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/01/20 05:25 PM
0	Is prostitution sex work or exploitation? Sorry, I answered your previous question wrongly. I don't feel the same about those markets bc you could literally die if you're denied service. I feel food and healthcare should be free or as cheap as possible as well. My bad. Edit: yes, a sex act is a product but it takes two to have sex. I just dont see why one gets to profit from a mutual act. What does one give that the other doesn't? Does one party deserve to pay bc they want it more or bc they're hideous? Edit 2: About porn, I imagine tha…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/01/20 05:08 PM
-3	Is prostitution sex work or exploitation? No. There is something produced at the end of those transactions.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/01/20 04:57 PM
1	Wealth Inequality I personally don't think so. I was just trying to connect men/gender to it. And get your thoughts on what might be causing this inequality.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/01/20 08:09 AM
2	Wealth Inequality I've noticed recently that wealth inequality roughly correlates with women's lib. And that women's employment surpassed men's after the 2008 crash. Any thoughts?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/01/20 07:43 AM
24	CNN article on gender is entirely one sided It's stuff like this that makes me sound sexist when I say I don't want the ERA to pass. And if it's people who have a female-centric bias like CNN, can you blame me? "Equal" almost always translates to, "we need to put more Feminists in each and every department". They'll almost certainly take all the disadvantages you've listed and figure out how women are the primary victims in order to send money to one-sided Feminist goals. And then ignore/defund any male problems they can't claim victimhoo…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/01/20 06:56 PM
2	2019 PayScale Pay Gap Report: When earnings are adjusted for job worked and years of experience, the pay gap is 2% We need to give EVERYONE an equal and mandatory leave. Under a capitalist system, single people will always be more profitable. But parents shouldn't be penalized for having children. The only way is to enroll everyone.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/01/20 07:20 AM
12	How do you usually respond to the argument that men's advocates aren't actually fighting for men's right but that it's feminists that are fighting for men's rights? I've tried over and over to try to come to an understanding with Feminists. It's kind of shocking how un-self aware they are. I'll explain a point, they'll turn red, appeal to emotion, imply that I'm a bad person in a very firm tone, but never get around to explaining why. If there is anyone to around to support them, then I get dog piled and the whole discussion breaks down. It's like they feel that they can will me into being wrong. It's not rudeness. They'll talk to me at length to try to get…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/01/20 05:15 PM
3	Are you aware that it's been almost a decade since Hanna Rosin's 'The End of Men'? I think some of the best thought on gender issues has been produced in the last decade. And at a time when a lot of issues surrounding sex and gender relations have confronted more and more people as an important thing that can and should be addressed. However, surprisingly, the needle has barely moved. The one issue making the most noise is trans non-binary stuff, but speaking honestly, the majority of people don't really have to deal with that outside of the media. Ironically, I think this has…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/01/20 12:48 PM
3	Vaush, the left winger who rants like a right winger Vaush is cool, but for some reason he still believes and pushes patriarchy theory. You would think that after the SJW left tried to cancel him, and the specific way they did it, would enlighten him to how counterproductive Feminism in general is to what he's doing. But in his review of Jubilee's MRA's vs Feminists "Is Toxic Masculinity Real?" debate, he kept talking about how the empathy gap for men is something that Feminists are working on bc they want to get rid of the stereotypes around male…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/12/19 04:20 PM
4	Is the current state of the Left due to Occupy Wall Street? That quote from Hillary. Why even say something like that unless you had a solution to racism, sexism, etc? I mean if she did, that'd be pretty amazing actually. I think most of the Left would be ready to cancel Communism if she could pull that off overnight.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/12/19 12:34 AM
0	Bernie Sanders disagrees with Obama that women make better leaders. u/FeminismMustGo shoves his fingers in his ears and screams LA-LA-LA as America once again posts the highest annual healthcare bill of any other country on Earth Lol. I'm set. My insurance covers everything. I'm just not an idiot. Go ahead and keep believing. Natural selection at work. But I defy you to prove that any of what I said was "Literally" untrue.	/r/MensRights	27/12/19 08:12 PM
0	Bernie Sanders disagrees with Obama that women make better leaders. Well seeing as his condition deteriorated, even after he was examined for the treatment, JUST LIKE THE EXPERTS SAID, if you're going to die it's still more likely under the US system. They only have to cover life threatening EMERGENCIES! If you lose an arm or leg, that's up to you. Is that how you want to live? It's kind of weird though that you trust an essentially "Socialist" program like the The Emergency Medical Treatment and Active Labor Act, which makes it illegal for a doctor to refuse to…	/r/MensRights	27/12/19 07:52 PM
6	A good read on men’s studies. It is absolutely terrifying that Michael Kimmel is the head of Masculinity studies. He's a Feminist sexist that hates MRA's. We do not need Feminists telling men how to be men. There was a HBR interview with his assistant though. Where they talked about how men had become less sexist, and he had to prove it to Kimmel. I'll look it up.	/r/MensRights	24/12/19 01:35 PM
1	Bernie Sanders disagrees with Obama that women make better leaders. If you don't like death panels, then I regret to inform you that private life and medical insurers have those as well. They just refuse to pay for treatment. And not just a weird experimental treatment like Charlie Gards. Routine heart surgery can be denied. My cousin works for the company that does the rejections. It happens more frequently under our health care system.	/r/MensRights	23/12/19 02:26 AM
5	A new feminist talking point that irritates me I'm sorry if it wasn't clear that I was using what happened to the host in that video as an example. He was just explaining how his narcissistic girlfriend gaslit him into thinking her physical abuse was his fault. And then, bc he's a Feminist, his explanation after leaving the relationship was that he was being too nice. I don't know if there's a better word for it that you'd like to share, but it just seemed to match the description of what I'd heard in the past.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/12/19 09:51 PM
18	A new feminist talking point that irritates me I'm not sure you understand how vacuous this talking point is. They're saying that women are doing emotional labor bc you are being stoic and refuse to have emotions or friends. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AeGEv0YVLtw&feature=youtu.be&t=1240 It's just more Feminist gaslighting. Not to be taken seriously. They just want victimhood points. I've literally heard Feminists use the opposite argument in different contexts to justify the same thing.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/12/19 03:35 PM
0	Bernie Sanders disagrees with Obama that women make better leaders. M4A is projected by all estimates (even conservative research) to save billions more than our current private health insurance system. Bernie wants to get rid of the premiums for private insurance that cost way more than what they cover, and make it up with a slightly lower tax bill. Medicare is actually cheaper even with the overhead of means testing, and it covers all the same things as private insurance. We're actually bankrupting ourselves now, but it's just millions of people that you proba…	/r/MensRights	22/12/19 01:02 PM
1	Bernie Sanders disagrees with Obama that women make better leaders. Bernie's been an Independent his entire political career. Bernie's position on most things are pretty good. He was anti-gun before he became Senator, saw that his base didn't like that, and then voted against the assault weapons ban in defiance of the majority Democrats he caucused with. This is just politics. He saw how Feminists sabotaged his running 2016. They legit called him sexist for not dropping out for Hillary when he sued her for bribing the DNC to knock him out of the primary. He's co…	/r/MensRights	22/12/19 11:16 AM
1	Bernie Sanders disagrees with Obama that women make better leaders. That's so weird for him to say bc he was poor. He had to take out a loan to run for Mayor in Vermont. What was he thinking?	/r/MensRights	22/12/19 11:06 AM
2	This app helps POC find therapists from their same cultural background. I'm not one for identity politics, but since the APA is entertaining the stereotype of "toxic masculinity", do you think something similar for men would be a good idea? I often hear incels complain about this in particular. That's cool. But I was focusing more on the cultural aspect of the therapist. I don't really care who does the therapy, as long as they can make them better. But it's nice to have the option open to choose a specific demographic. I was just curious thinking how someone who grew up in a "masculine" household could get around the APA guidelines by requesting someone who understands where they're coming from. Is that allowed? I think it would really help to know that your mental health expert relat…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/12/19 03:59 PM
1	/r/antifastonetoss doesn't know about LeftWingMaleAdvocates What do y'all think about stonetoss? Everyone says he's a Fascist, but I've never seen anything explicitly Fascisf of his. I feel like he's just another person who has some really bad takes and hates SJW's bc they're intentionally annoying and overly self righteous. But I haven't seen him do any ethno-state or "democracy is bad" stuff.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/12/19 07:09 AM
2	Another example of feminists blaming masculinity for a global problem that is more about Conservatives vs. Liberals than anything truly having to do with gender. Feminists won't stop this until they successfully shitpost a woman into the Presidency. That's literally their entire strategy.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/12/19 12:08 PM
3	Why are you guys left wing? I guess this gets into why I don't like Obama in the first place, and why I support Bernie. Obama is NOT A LEFTIST. He's a center-Right neoliberal. The latest refugees came from Hillary's legitimating and funding a coup in Honduras under the Obama admin. The refugees can't stay in Mexico bc Clinton wrecked their economy to the point that the cartel runs the place. If the US wasn't so scared of Leftist governments and stopped interfering with them, these people wouldn't end up at our doorstep. Bu…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/10/19 02:08 PM
1	Why are you guys left wing? I'm not sure what you're arguing. That Trump's immigration policy is good? It's not. The 9th circuit told Obama to stop keeping the kids alone in the cages. So he just kept them for 72 hours and tried to place them with extended family in the US. They ended up with the cartel bc Obama was deporting everybody so they skipped their hearings and just decided to be undocumented. Trump is NOT trying to determine if the families are related. He's just traumatizing children who probably came from traum…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/10/19 01:23 PM
2	Why are you guys left wing? Obama held UNACCOMPANIED minors. Not ones who came with their families.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/10/19 12:56 PM
6	Why are you guys left wing? Leftists want an expansion of rights for everyone. Think of it like slavery. Before the Civil War, the South was a collection of backwards agrarian Fascist states. The North was industrialized and freer by all accounts. The difference? Relatively little forced labor. Technically the Emancipation of the country's Blacks could have been looked at as taking away the voice of the country's Whites, but that didn't happen. Right wing theory undoubtedly reduces the voice of everyone. It has to. Otherwi…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/10/19 12:44 PM
5	The left isn't woke enough to accept men's rights This problem isn't unnoticed on the Left. I think that's the idea behind this sub. I've noticed even Anarchists are getting pissed at the selective idpol nonsense and just the sheer insanity of it all. Mostly anywhere there isn't a centrist liberal echo-chamber of thought people are tired of participating in their government representatives' political theater and the infighting between corporate donors. I'm sorry to say that I don't think we'll get through to these people. The problem is liberal…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/10/19 05:10 PM
2	Feminist author tells readers to "imagine" killing men I'm still looking for something I could link here. But it's on the CNN Netflix series about the 1970s. The episode Battle of the Sexes.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/10/19 03:07 AM
18	Feminist author tells readers to "imagine" killing men Radical feminism and all its variants are distinctly Orwellian. They don't actually seem to have any consistent ideology between them; just w/e happens to be pissing them off most that day. "The object of persecution is persecution... The object of power is power." I'm not just being facetious. I was watching an old video of a panel at the National Organization for Women and this was the discussion: Man: "So what are your demands?" NOW: "Why do you ask this question?" Man: "Suppose I would wan…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/10/19 02:47 PM