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Word thanks man
/r/askTRP01/09/17 06:53 PM
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I get this too. I think over-excitability takes away from a more masculine, grounded presence. I would try pacing your words a little more and be sure to speak at the bottom of your voice. Awkward at first but over time it becomes second nature
/r/askTRP17/06/17 02:32 PM
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I'm definitely more productive when I wake up early. Testosterone peaks around morning time (need a source but I'm sure it's true) so part of the behavior could be attributed to that.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 01:22 AM
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My experience was good and bad. If someone had to ask me now (and this is what I do) if I haven't jizzed for a week I'll jack off. I don't watch porn. In my experience after a couple of weeks the flatline sinks in and t pretty much destroyed my sex drive. I didn't start jerking off for a little while after but I think the key is to just have common sense, I.e. Don't whack off six times a day and avoid porn because for me I perform better and have more time for other shit without such a distracti…
/r/askTRP09/06/17 12:29 AM
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You're thinking of other kinds of primates. Chimps have a promiscuous mating system, not a polygynous one like gorillas do (who are also significantly more dimorphic than chimps or humans which is part of the reason why). I would do some actual research before you take such a confident tone and make yourself look like an ass. Here's the Wikipedia article on mating systems that literally repeats everything I just said because I can't be fucked to spend more than five minutes on this. https://en.m…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 07:16 PM
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Humans are dimorphic for height and have some differences from sexual development (hair, hormones, etc.) but relative to other species were not very dimorphic. I'm on my phone so I can't be assed to find evidence but my minor is evolutionary anthro and I took a class last semester specifically about human evolution. And yeah chimps just fuck each other a lot. Their system is promiscuous meaning there isn't an alpha male or female that spreads all the genes, the whole group just kind of goes at i…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 01:24 PM
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Yeah also our closest primate relatives, chimps, basically fuck all the time with everyone, and humans aren't very sexually dimorphic.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 06:53 PM
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Personal trainer here. Never had a client with a hernia but I tell everyone - clients, friends, myself - the same thing, that when you get any kind of ailment or injury, don't push through it, be a pussy. Let it heal. The worst thing you can do is allow your machismo to create a permanent impairment from something temporary. I'm assuming you can't lift and any form of resistance training should be minimized, off the top of my head I would suggest you look into doing different forms of low-impact…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 02:49 AM
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Yeah, I know. Ego makes me do/say things I don't want to do or say. That's why I need to inhibit it from any control in my life.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 06:42 PM
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I'm struggling with this. The last 3ish months since I found TRP and began introspection/self-reflection I've basically been constantly sparring with my ego. Sometimes I'm winning, and sometimes I'm losing, and at the end of the day I have no idea what it is really 'to win', only that when I inhibit my ego from acting I feel better about myself later on and vice versa. Being honest with your flaws is the first step, but really being honest with yourself is the big one. Everybody attaches themsel…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 11:51 AM
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I would tease her more. And don't be afraid to pull your attention back a bit, be a little ambiguous with reply times and shit like that
/r/askTRP07/05/17 02:32 PM
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Makes my dick look and smell like a turd
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 06:43 PM
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Also, in my experience (I'm saying this so that I don't make sweeping assumptions), night game is much harder/more exasperating than day game. I have yet to truly cold approach at a bar/social setting at night; my plates have either been social circle or day game.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 03:16 PM
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doesn't matter, just do it. I can't speak for coming out of monk mode, but I used to be much less sociable, and I've come to realize in my personal experience socializing is very much a self-fulfilling prophecy. The more I approach, the more I talk/become comfortable with myself, my game improves, I give less of a shit, then I approach more. Expect your first 10-20 approaches to be shit. I took some advice from a youtube dude (can't remember which) who said to just go out and give chicks complim…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 03:14 PM
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Sounds like you might be developing feelings for this girl. BP: Stay with her, build a relationship. RP: Demand non-exclusivity or leave. Probably just leave because you're developing feelings. Either way, it's completely wrong/dishonest to cheat. You can do it if you want to and I'm not sure what rp philosophy has to say about it but I personally cannot condone it. You took her viriginity and have spent ample time with her so she's definitely emotionally invested. If you were a friend of mine i…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 03:09 PM
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Yeah I feel you there. I thought it would be funny if I sent her a screenshot of the plans I made with another plate but I feel like that's too far hahaha. If I don't hear anything I'll either drop it or make some hint that she's not that important and I've got other hoes on call
/r/askTRP01/05/17 08:13 PM
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I mean she's kinda just teasing no? We had this sort of dynamic when we were talking in person. She definitely busted my balls a lot
/r/askTRP01/05/17 07:57 PM
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Agree and also I don't think starting kino on a train in a cold approach is good. Like yeah always be escalating but also calibrate dude if I'm a chick and some random guy starts talking to me and brushing my forearm (unless he's a 6' chad with his cock dangling out of his pant legs) I'm gonna be freaked out yo
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 01:16 PM
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Dude just do it what's the worst that could happen? If you don't like it fine move on don't talk to her again. If it turns out she's a fucking maestro you get mad benefits.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 11:00 PM
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I'm noticing the same thing. I'm living with two women next year (would not have agreed if I had found trp earlier). My plan is to distance myself from hanging out with just them. My current female housemate often brings groups of people back to our house and I'll say hi and hit on chicks there. But if I hang out with her one on one it's more likely I'm going to exhibit beta behavior/ do things that will weaken my frame. So I'm going to hit up people from outside my house more often next year an…
/r/askTRP16/04/17 01:53 PM
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All relative to where you start/ your body. 6 months to 200 doesn't sound insane but like the other comment says, if you're starting with the bar you gotta put on 160 lbs in 6 months which is pretty tough even with noon gains. And I guess this is open to interpretation but when I ask people how much they bench generally I'm asking how much weight they use for a work set (pretty common in my area, because how often does anyone work with just their 1rm?)
/r/askTRP16/04/17 01:02 PM
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Personal Trainer here. I'll give you the healthy answer first: Do whatever you feel is best for you based on your body and goals. If doing MMA is the best way for you to get healthy, that's what you should do. Lifting is good for building raw muscle and strength, but with MMA training you'll build muscle too. It's not the same kind of muscle per say and chances are you won't be able to bench 200lbs but if that's not part of your goals who cares? All that being said, lifting can be a part of virt…
/r/askTRP16/04/17 04:33 AM
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Yeah that's what I figured. Ive been thinking I should have told her to get in line or fill out an application kind of going along with the joke but also implying abundance
/r/askTRP14/04/17 12:08 PM
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...isn't game a core tenet of trp?
/r/askTRP14/04/17 12:07 PM
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Sooo my reply was too serious?
/r/askTRP14/04/17 01:21 AM
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Word thanks man this is the kind of answer I was looking for
/r/askTRP12/04/17 05:41 PM
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Chill, I'm gonna go ahead and not fight you on an online forum. Nothing you've done has changed my mind. Bye.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 05:40 PM
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Yeah I know I'm not making excuses, just trying to note that I deserve some slack because I'm not the scumbag of the household. I've never missed rent/utilities but for some reason our water bill was enormous and I couldn't pay it all at once so im paying her a set amount each week for four weeks. I delayed the third weekly payment last week because I get paid on Friday and can give her the last two payments when I do. Naturally I'm a little resentful because our water bill was just fucking ridi…
/r/askTRP12/04/17 03:14 PM
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Can confirm, ldr made me the biggest beta I have been to date.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 02:52 PM
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Same as game elsewhere. Push pull, kino, escalate, etc. do the social stuff if they have it (pub crawls, go on tours) and focus on meeting people. Also try not to act like you just got out of high school, most backpackers are in their mid twenties so you'll seem like a child if you try too hard
/r/askTRP12/04/17 02:16 PM
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I'm 21, she's 23
/r/askTRP07/04/17 09:28 PM
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Yeah me neither but I have a lot of middle eastern friends so I kind of get it. I'm pretty sure she's just making me wait. She sent me a text afterwards saying she had fun/ she had sobered up so at least I can confirm she was into it. Think she's just trying to not appear like a ho
/r/askTRP07/04/17 06:35 PM
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Yeah I know. I think maybe she's making me work for it kind of thing? I dunno. She's pretty hot so I'm gonna pursue her a little more but if it becomes too much work I'll move on.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 06:31 PM
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Yeah I'm pretty sure she's tryna make me wait kinda thing, which honestly she's pretty hot so I'll keep pursuing for the time being but if it gets to be too much work I'll move on
/r/askTRP07/04/17 10:56 AM
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Yeah I was escalating pretty much as soon as we met up. I think she's a little more conservative or something because she's Arab? I'll give it another whack and see what happens. She's definitely the hottest girl I'm hitting on right now so I'm willing to put in a little extra effort but if it goes too far I'll move on
/r/askTRP07/04/17 10:54 AM
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I'm considering putting school on hold for a while to enlist in the marine corp. It's something I've always wanted to do and I'm at somewhat of a pivotal point where I feel like if I don't do it now I never will - I'm a sophomore in college, age 21, and I suppose my biggest fear is falling behind in life. I've always felt like it's something I wanted to do but I figured fuck it, I'll go to school, get a good career, follow the traditional path. I tried to enlist in the guard a while back but it …
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 08:43 PM
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More life is solid imo
/r/askTRP04/04/17 11:03 PM
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Honestly? Even if you disagree with it, your college campus isn't the place to pipe up about it. I'd let it go because people will demonize for not having the same liberal views as them.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 01:30 PM
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Aight I mean I just need more practice I suppose. Thank you for taking the time. Would it be alright if I hit you up directly next time I have a problem? You seem to know what you're talking about.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 09:04 PM
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So how do I build tension?
/r/askTRP30/03/17 05:30 PM
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No, I didn't really consider it at the time. Probably should have. I mean it was good practice but I don't think it's going to go anywhere. I really need to work on my push/pull I think once I get that down my game will be better
/r/askTRP30/03/17 04:03 PM
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Word thanks dude. I'm probably seeing her this weekend; we have tentative plans to hit the bars. See how it goes from there.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 03:15 PM
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Yeah I feel you. It's becoming clear to me that texting should be purely rapport building/comfort based. I have a buddy who will text chicks all the time and he sends them funny memes/pictures with text that relate or tease them and it seems to work pretty well. I might give that a shot in the future but definitely ending the alpha shit over text. As an aside, I feel like when I try too hard to be 'alpha' it never really works. The cases I've seen where it does is when a girl is trying to qualif…
/r/askTRP30/03/17 01:19 PM
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Word thanks man
/r/askTRP30/03/17 01:59 AM
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Did it, got the number, tentative plans to meet on Saturday night. I swear the more I game the less I feel like I understand about women. Thanks dog.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 01:59 AM
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Gotcha. You think I can pull something like this with the girl I'm on about? Or should I just move on?
/r/askTRP30/03/17 01:12 AM
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Dude just go say hi! It doesn't have to be a thing. If you're into the don't shit where you eat mentality (which you should be) just be friendly and make small talk. Don't hit on her, don't make sexual suggestions, don't escalate. Hell she could help you find a solid place if you happen to befriend her. Otherwise, move on. Don't dwell on it too long it's not worth the time. Millions of girls, all that jazz.
/r/seduction28/03/17 08:58 PM
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Say what's up. You got nothing to lose. If she thinks you're weird approach her and prove you're suave af If she wants you to say hi you're doing what she wants If you open and it fails go back to studying, write down what you did wrongness and how to avoid it in the future. Done
/r/seduction28/03/17 06:26 PM
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No I feel what venikk is saying. I go to a school with 40k undergrads and I inevitably see the same people on rotation throughout the week. It's not bad to start conversations but if you're a novice you may come off as creepy/thirsty/whatever and that's not something you want following you around at school. To me it's just an extension of "don't shit where you eat". I picked up a girl on the bus once, but it was during summer session and there was basically nobody there. She was playing pokemon …
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:08 PM
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This is what I need to remind myself of. Good looks bro.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 10:52 AM
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I'm 21 years old, and I'm not bitter about women or relationships. I put myself in this trap too often where I stop challenging myself like I used to and get "comfortable" in the sense that if I don't want to do something, I won't push myself to do it as much as if I were single. Maybe it's a problem I'm going to have to deal with at some point. My freshman year of college, I lived with my girlfriend of 3 years and was severely depressed without even knowing it. I loved her, just as I love the g…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 02:33 AM
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If anything our time together got more boring. I'm a pretty fun/outgoing type of guy and I did that a lot less, which led me to be less talkative and more withdrawn from social situations in general. This sort of thing has happened to me before on a much grander scale in another relationship I had and a big reason I acted on leaving her was because I didn't want to let the problem linger and potentially grow.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 11:54 PM
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Nah I don't think we were gonna work anyway. It had been on my mind for a while and I think it would have been wrong to stay with her if I didn't like her
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 11:51 PM
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I don't even know. I talked to him and it went okay. He played dumb like he didn't know what happened but I was like this shit needs to stop and at least going forward I confronted him
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 10:00 PM
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So for example, he wanted someone to move into the attic to help with rent but nobody else is down with that. He currently has this guy in the attic and he's slept here the last two nights. He has groceries in the kitchen and I saw him doing dishes and laundry the other day. We've already established that he isn't allowed to put another person in but he seems to be trying to do it anyway. At this point what do I do? Confront him with my roommates? Part of the problem is that my roommates are usu…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 02:31 PM
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Having trouble dealing with my scumbag roommate. He has the attic and is loud af when he comes home at 2am. I have a job that works variable hours so I end up sleeping through my alarm and catching an uber to work (which is costly as a student). How do I deal with his shit? He did this last night at 3am and I texted our house group chat calling him out for being an unemployed douche nozzle. I only have 2 months left at this house and I really do not get along with this asshole but I can't keep l…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 01:58 PM
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