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Shorter women exists. Most of the guys I know that are shorter than 5’6” have girlfriends. One is like 5’4” and has a baddie wife. I low key think they have threesomes with other baddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:35 PM
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You know, a lot of people think that it is easy, but they still don’t do it. Crazy. It’s like the black Pillers who “know” that women just want not rich chads yet do nothing to get in shape, make more money, and develop a personality. .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:48 AM
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Second.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:49 AM
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I don’t think they are. Most miserable women by surveys are older single, especially if they’re childless and never married.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:15 AM
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Because people are responsible for their own actions. Putting down the fork and picking up a weight is not hard. Taking the red pill instead of the pill is not hard. Red pill and the things that create success with women are learned and validated over and over again by experience, but the experience is somehow wrong or immoral because it isn’t “nice” and therefor not true. Even the black pilled guys in this thread are losers that would rather complain about women than change. They’re the most fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:25 AM
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Attraction gap is widening. More men are getting fat af. More men are getting fit af. Very few average not fat guys. And those fat guys are also likely beta-tazing. Men are weaker than they used to be. T count is lower than it used to be. They’re having less sex than their parents did. All around, being a modern man is a bad deal, but it’s modern men’s fault. They can change. They’re just too lazy or scared to change. The blue pill is comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:46 PM
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That’s the goal of RP: making them aware and getting them to do something about it. Prevention is the way to go, though. Start working out and developing a work ethic and social skills young. My kids will be raised with the intention of making them into valuable, desirable adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:06 PM
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Not even certain fruits are safe. Jesus Christ, fellas.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:56 PM
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You’ve never gone shopping and wanted to buy something but you wanted to buy but were hesitant bought you bought it anyway because “Treat yo self”? Were you “tricked” or forced to buy it? No. Did you want that product despite your hesitancy? Yes. I can’t sell you something you’re not interested in. I can only sell you something you want. A girl that is NOT interested doesn’t give you Last Minute Resistance because she never even gave you the first minute. Example: I would never give last minute …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:54 PM
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PR and PUA are different things. You can be blue pilled and still pursue that. Further, if you can’t tell the difference between “no” and “yes, but”, you’re lying to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:58 AM
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“LMR” is a pick up thing, not a RP thing. And It’s not really “persuade her to say ‘yes’”. A woman knows if she wants to have sex with or not. You’re not going to turn a real “no” into a “yes”. The question is how can you get her comfortable enough to give herself permission to say “yes”. Most of this needs to be handled upfront and a man needs to be observant to know which way she’s heading. Anecdote: I was with a girl. We start making out. She turns away after a few seconds. I say, “we should …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:53 AM
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Yes and it’s also so common that it became a meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:58 AM
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Yes, but cheating is degenerate af. Don’t cheat. A lot of Red Pillers will say, “it’s different when a man cheats. Our biology blah blah spread seed bro” That’s true, but our biology also makes us crave sugars and fats. Is our biology then an excuse to be a lard ass? Our environment has changed and we must change with it. Obesity is not acceptable, nor is cheating. Control yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:46 AM
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It is obvious that the phrase is used to mean develop a fun, pleasant, and charming personality that attracts people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:25 AM
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Work out, develop a personality, go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:21 AM
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10 minutes but how much time is spent looking for a video? Hmmmm??? Porn is daily for tons of men. Probably close to 90% if men were honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:18 AM
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In addition to being able to market one’s self, “Game” is also about being able to read signs as feedback so you can better tailer your marketing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:31 PM
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They probably don’t know how to talk to women. My brother is objectively better looking than me, but I’m pretty dang charming compared to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:03 AM
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I always recommend getting ripped af. Being bald ain’t so bad if you’re jacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:28 AM
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Understanding reality is needed to work with it and enjoy it. It allows you to take responsibility into your own hands rather than leaving to chance. It removes the mystery of success. Black pillers be like, “gurlz onlii want handsum guis wif munnii” but then do nothing about getting in good shape, adopting a nice style, and working on ways to not be broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:17 AM
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In this thread: people giving useless anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:32 PM
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Kids are most likely to get molested at a public school than anywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:25 PM
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The clergy of the Catholic Church is pretty liberal on most issues. The followers are pretty conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:25 PM
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I get that you’re being tongue in cheek, but it’s easier to love them if you understand them. Still upvoted you anyway ;p
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:55 PM
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That’s a retarded thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:16 PM
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Guy here: it also prevents you from saying something that, without a real moment to contextualize, can be interpreted the wrong way. A phone call is better than a text.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:40 AM
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You’re not exchanging money for sex in dating. You can have a cheap date that’s a really nice experience: walk on the beach, home cooked dinner, watching Kung Pow on Netflix (though this was back when less people had Netflix), going up to a hill to see the city lights, walking your dog at night. I don’t think I’ve ever spent more than 20 bucks on a date unless we were in a relationship and I wanted to do something nice for her. Shit. A gin and tonic costs like 6 bucks at a dive bar. If the conve…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:11 AM
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You can’t be that autistic to not to be able to see the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:07 AM
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Yeah. Maintaining physique is a lot easier than building it. A couple hours of good work at the gym and eating your protein will keep muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:04 AM
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3-4 hours a week at the gym and good eating and you’ll look better than 80% of people in 1 year and better 99% better than 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:44 AM
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There is a difference between leveraging your money and assets to create an experience for a woman and paying for sex. You don’t pay for dates because that’s what leads to sex. That’s Nice Guy nonsense. You pay for dates because that’s part of displaying your lifestyle and inviting her into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 02:58 AM
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This person gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:30 PM
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{{does helicopter dick}}
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:21 PM
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Well, my pops gets bitches and makes fat stacks. Unless your bitches are finer and your stacks are fatter, I will be deferring to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:16 PM
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My weakness is my fleshy meat body. Jab it hard enough with any sharp object and that’s it for me, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:54 AM
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Lolol. Reminds me of the guy who said that they weren’t addicted to porn and could stop for 90 days if he wanted to… but didn’t feel like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:13 AM
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How many abortions are there? What is 40%-50% of that number? That sounds like tons, bro. The PDF has data from 2018. That’s old?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:09 AM
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I mean, I’m 32. It would be sad if I’ve only had sex with 3 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:06 AM
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What’s the best song ever written and why is it Stick Stickly?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:42 AM
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‘Cause they’re hot enough. Difference between lust and love
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:37 AM
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My pops is a pretty wise man. When in a bar fight over a girl, make sure to lose but not too badly. You’ll get the girl if you weren’t the aggressor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 11:52 PM
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That’s women in general, dude. Not a cultural thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:14 PM
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Yes. Happened to me a couple times. Women want the best man they can get, but also keep. Unless she’s just looking for a hook up, she’s going to want to feel secure that she can keep her man around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:11 PM
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“If you don’t want me to have sex with hookers, then have sex with me.” How about becoming a man that a woman will want to have sex with because of who the man is?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:26 AM
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Based. Men shouldn’t be using prostitutes even “for convenience”. Women shouldn’t be selling sex. That’s degenerate af.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:36 AM
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Disagree. Most (not all) of the liberal men I know aren’t doing well in the dating arena or are being “chosen” by lower quality woman than they could otherwise get. My center-left leaning friends are doing well, though. The other issues are a matter of education rather than attitude. The attitude is the problem. Information can be learned easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:42 PM
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Some RP wannabe harem runners preach “it’s different when men cheat” as a way of justifying their promiscuity or to fantasize having extra marital/relation affairs. It’s absolute filth. That’s different from “spinning plates” as nothing is official yet. Cheating loses the respect of the people that matter most in a man’s life. What is RP about losing respect as a man? Especially if it losing the respect of your wife and kids. Jesus. What kind of father loses the respect of their kids? Being a hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:33 AM
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It’s hard if you’re not willing to experiment. I go out and I regularly get out of my comfort zone and say and do what I wouldn’t feel comfortable with. I have a friend who is blue pilled af. And I ask myself, “would friend do this?” And if he wouldn’t, I do it. He wouldn’t do it because “it’s not nice” or “they’re humans too with worth or whatever”. Blue pilled stuff. What I’ve learned is that it doesn’t really matter how you say as long as you say it in the right vibe and you are quick witted …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:50 PM
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You get out what you put in. Nobody is entitled to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 02:20 AM
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Okay, that sounds hard. Can I just drive a Porsche instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:33 AM
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It’s like actors in a film who you can tell are acting while the good actors are merely being. Stop acting. Start being.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:34 PM
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Meh, maybe, maybe not. You’re not obligated to do anything, but a relationship considers more than your wishes. Sometimes, you gotta take one for the team. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:38 AM
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EMS at least provided a social good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:54 AM
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Lol. Classic. "I'm not addicted. I can stop. I just don't feel like it."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:19 AM
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Cool. Then stop for 90 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:10 AM
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Not to mention the immorality of the industry itself. Sure, every industry has its problems, but the problems do not outweigh the benefits of an orgasm. In what industry is it standard practice that the talent endure physical, emotional, and substance abuse, and contract incurable strains of STDs? And it’s not like with factory farming where at least it’s products legit keep people alive and ingesting nutrients. And the problem with the amateur stuff is that it’s hosted on platforms that support…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:07 AM
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Find out if you’re addicted: can you stop watching porn for 90 days?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:03 AM
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If I know short, overweight male 3s that get laid, getting laid is doable. Sure, they’re banging 3s and 4s, but DM;HS. Develop a masculine personality. Hit the gym. Be fun to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:30 PM
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^
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:04 PM
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Color influences emotion. Much like the configuration of your eyes and your nervous system, you will only be able to see particular wave lengths of light. It isn’t “anti-eyes” or whatever to say “humans can’t see infrared!” nor would it be misanthropic to say “humans base their decisions on the fact they can’t see infrared”. Who knows how our lives would be like today if we could see it. One could feel bad about their inability to see infrared, but that’s irrelevant to the facts. My point: Biolo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:16 PM
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Economic level is a better indicator. Rich black guy has more in common with rich white guy than he does a poor person from the hood. Rich white guy has more in common with rich black guy than he does a poor red neck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:43 PM
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Simply by making them realize the point of RP is to improve, not by hating on women. Being mad at women because they’re women is like being mad that 2+2=4. It says a lot about a person’s mentality and where they are in life that gets upset at 2+2=4.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:38 PM
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“Not The American Average” is so cringe but such a good song (if you’re into early 2010’s metalcore).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:42 AM
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Women are dating up. The only time I’ve seen that this isn’t true is in middle school and high school underclassmen when kids don’t fully understand where they are ranked in terms of attractiveness relative to their peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:40 AM
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Women have the advantage in the early game. Men have it in the mid game (only if they’ve worked for it) and sometimes late game if they play their cards right. A woman’s value floor is pretty high and their value ceiling is also high. A man’s value floor is pretty damn low, but also pretty damn high.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:24 AM
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If that’s what you think femininity is, you don’t know the 1/8th of it. Women run 1/2 of the population, control the majority of the money, and manage pretty much every child. Women control the present and have a huge role in shaping the future. Modern women are so numb, or the quote woke people, “blinded by their privilege”, that they think it’s a better deal to throw that all a way for… what? The possibility of having a “high powered” job they hate?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:40 PM
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Women have no idea how much power they have and they have no idea how much of that power modern feminism throws away. To somewhat quote Nietzche, “Feminism has an almost masculine stupidity”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:10 PM
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I didn’t mean to silence. “Smacking down” was probably too heavy a connotation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:52 AM
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Furreal. RPers need to be the first ones to smack down misogyny. Ordinary people confuse us for them. They stick out more than the rest of us that have our head downs and working on our own lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:25 AM
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I’m “anti-feminist”. My tinder matches are all woke chicks looking for a stable masculine presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:45 AM
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Yes. That would make me feel a lot better and he’d be a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:44 AM
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I’m here to see if any opinions will shift my view point! Lots of bad RP opinions (mostly guys trying to validate their desire for more sex “promiscuity doesn’t hurt men blah blah blah”) have definitely refined my RP view points. Also, to clarify any questions as to what the benefits are with, you know, working with reality and the pitfalls of blue pilled thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:43 AM
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That’s what I told my girlfriend when she wanted me to take her to a nice dinner on Valentine’s Day - “because I’m your girlfriend!” Smoooooth
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:09 PM
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Especially if it is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:08 PM
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Do you stay in doors all day? Live with your parents? Even if you go to a bar and stand perfectly still, a man will approach you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:47 AM
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I don’t think you’ll find an actual RP man that claims they’re owed sex by women. Maybe you’re thinking of r/niceguys? RP thinking about “not getting sex” is that if a woman isn’t willing to have sex with you, it’s because you’ve not demonstrated a sufficient level of value for her to want to drop her panties for you. That could be because you actually have insufficient value or because you weren’t displaying it sufficiently. Your value telegraphs itself naturally in your actions. Women pick up …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:14 AM
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Yep. Once you learn how women desire in men, you can become that and more. And that’s a good thing. As a man, women should want to be with you. Good men make happy women. Happy women make good societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:03 AM
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100% true. Sounds like you got your idea of what RP is from Twitter hot takes and bitter men that just yell at tipsy IG/OnlyFans models (shout out to the douchebags at Fresh & Fit for selling drama to bitter, low value men). If you have any questions about what an RP opinion is about x or y, feel free to ask here or in the DMs. I think most women would appreciate that the purpose of RP is to make high quality men that are actually valuable to themselves and to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:01 AM
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“Based and Red Pilled” is a pseudo-inside joke you’re not a part of. My based count is triple digits and my pill count is respectable. XD But question for you, what’s not red pilled about not having weird anxieties about sex? A confident, capable man should be able go out and find that he has a great chance of getting laid. I’m referring to transient sex partners, btw. Sex in a relationship is fun af.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:52 AM
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RP is not anti-love. It’s anti-simping and some may be anti-marriage. MGTOWs aren’t anti-love, either, but they’re definitely anti-marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:38 AM
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Haha nothing wrong with being the default ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:38 AM
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Sex isn’t a big deal. Losing your virginity is not a big deal, which, is only realized after it’s lost. You’d probably be having regular sex if you were red pilled, though: striving for masculine excellence, working out, and learning how to treat women like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:37 AM
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There is plenty reason for men to turn down marriage. Everything you’re saying and makes 100% sense. Maybe it’s the “toxic masculinity” talking, but I think the optimal solution is to learn about mate selection and max out your potential across the various verticals of life. I don’t want to miss out on the aspect of life regarding marriage, love, and child rearing, so what I need to do is become stronger than the problem. Become irreplaceable and invaluable as a man and your family and wife will…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:29 PM
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Gooootcha. I missed your point. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:19 PM
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I agree. Lots of wisdom on religion. Hard to beat thousands of years of philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:10 PM
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Kids need two happily, married, functioning parents to grow up their best. As someone who aspires to be a DILF, the “dad” part is going to require being a fantastic dad, which requires a strong marriage and good kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:28 PM
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The male-female dynamic is like the dynamic of between between the left and right hand. Their functionality compliments each other. Nothing religious about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:26 PM
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Most men aren’t promiscuous. Most men that want to learn to talk to women just want a girlfriend. Interestingly enough, the best way to become attractive to a woman is to become attractive to women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:35 PM
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Well, yeah. They’re the other half of humanity. A man can’t fully step into his masculinity and a woman can’t fully step into her femininity without a relationship and children. That we need the other to become more complete people isn’t centering life around women, but it can turn that way if a man isn’t careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:33 PM
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I think it comes from emotionally disturbed individuals. People like black pillers, sjws, commies… all they have to do is “go outside”, but they don’t see reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:04 PM
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RPers don’t center their lives around women. To quote Rich Cooper, “chase excellence, not women.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:01 PM
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pua: learning how to display value to women in a way they find acceptable for the purpose of acquiring sex or a relationship. Target demo is men who want to get better at the above. trp: understanding what it is women value, what a valuable woman is, what a valuable man is, becoming a valuable man, and acting within those parameters. Target audience is all men. Black pill: defeatists that think you have to be a rich Chad to get laid, women are just users, and anyone that is not a rich Chad is do…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:59 PM
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It is if you’re a 3. Totally missed the point there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:41 PM
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The only simp I respect :’(
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:40 PM
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Working from home has preserved much of my sanity. Don’t gotta worry about parking, being attacked by hobos, or stepping on poop 😍😍😍😍
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:28 AM
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I’ve seen 3s shack up with 4s because those 3s had swagger. In college, I remember a chubby, 5’4” Indian dude clapping a 5’5” white, blue eyed blonde’s cheeks on the regular. My friend from middle school is a solid 5, strong chubby, 5’10 date girls that are spicy af. Why? Because he’s cool as hell and has a masculine presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:24 AM
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Bahahaha I like you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:35 AM
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Living in Los Angeles and surrounded thus by lib fem hoes, they’re miserable people that require drugs (street and prescribed) to numb their emotional issues. Not saying being a lib fem hoe will make you miserable, though a crap ideology can exacerbate your issues when your expectations don’t match up with reality, but I do think that miserable people create warped views of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:33 AM
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Yeah. Keep wondering what Pokémon characters are virgins, coomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:48 AM
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toxic masculinity I miss when we just called these people “assholes”. There is no reason why this needs a whole theory behind it. “That guy is an asshole.” “That girl is a cnt.” Self explanatory. How utterly useless are these “academic” navel gazers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:33 AM
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No. The part about wanting a woman for the attention it brings you. Like I said somewhere else in the comments, I want a Porsche for the same reason you want a woman, except the Porsche is merely an object.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:10 PM
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I do not often agree with this user, but I agree with their observation that it’s unusual to bring up how much money was spent on previous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:07 AM
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Yeah, gonna highjack the top comment to say that desiring a human accessory is not at all why a sane person desires a partner. I want a Porsche for the same reason OP wants a wife, but, you know, one is a car and one is a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:40 AM
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Ooof. Idk, man. Sounds like you need to sorted yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:38 AM
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Same. If my wife is going to work, she’s going to be a software engineer. Shit, I’ll teach her to be a dev if she doesn’t know how. 5 hours of honest coding is probably what can be accomplished in a day and still not neglect other duties/interests. We can split some daily tasks and be dual income with minimal impact to our daily lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:40 PM
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Bruv, a high n count man, and I say this a RP, HVM, is indicative of a man who can’t form good relationships. I say that from experience and observation. I’m sure there’s the rare exception of someone who is building a business 24/7 or is competing on some really high level, but that’s not anywhere near being like 2% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:42 AM
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I think it’s just natural and then it just became a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:01 PM
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Too many choices. Women want the best guy they can get, so they don’t want to see that they’re getting pumped and dumped by high value men in hopes they might stick around. High value men have way more options than they used to and don’t feel like they need to commit. Ordinary men have it tough. Less than ordinary men are invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 07:57 PM
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“acting like real men” I’ll bring that up in a second, but you’re so close to something you don’t even know it. First, Spinning plates isn’t an attraction “strategy”. It’s dating multiple women at a time to filter out women that don’t desire you the way you want to be desired. Personally, I wouldn’t date more than 1 or 2 women at a time because I just don’t have the time or energy but that’s just me. “Negging” is only noticed when it is done poorly or from a man a woman has no interest in. I gua…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:37 AM
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Treating women and others poorly isn’t Red Pill. That’s just being an asshole. A lot of anti-RP people are anti-RP because they confuse being a dick with what Red Pill means. Same goes for a lot of men who think they are RP. Look at the dorks on the Fresh & Fit podcast that think yelling at IG models and pressuring them into sex is “red pilled”. They’re just cnts but they’re the ones that stand out because your actual RP men are keeping their heads in their own lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:40 PM
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Interesting that women will generally disagree with the truth because of how it’s phrased rather than agree with it because it’s true. But you’re right. The delivery does matter. :p
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:08 PM
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Don’t try to solve women’s problems. Just empathize and say “damn that sucks.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:17 AM
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Surveys and what babies tend to stare at comes to mind. Female babies like to stare at people. Male babies tend to stare at things. Babies also like to stare at people with aesthetically pleasing features. Girls that want to be President as kids tends to drop to the floor right around the time their body start going through puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:17 AM
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I upvoted you for the first half, but took it back in the second half. The most socially free countries, you see women and men choosing “gender role” jobs. If you want to see tons of women in stem, check out what Middle Eastern and Asian women are up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:11 AM
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Nope. Move on. There’s a difference between “friendly” and “friend”, though. Be friendly. They couldn’t be your friend even if you both tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:47 AM
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You can’t improve what you can’t measure. You will be as successful with women naturally as you are naturally attractive. The law of diminishing returns applies here. It’s not that hard to be good with women, but more effort is required to improve the more you improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:31 PM
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Very few guys are that attractive that they can just show up and get sex. Very few women are automatically willing to offer sex just on initial appearances. For us 99.99% of men, it’s important to learn what women value (what they value depends on who they are and the circumstances you meet them at (eg, the same woman will be more open to a one night stand in a bar/vacation environment vs when they’re reading at a coffee shop, etc) and social dynamics and then work on yourself to cultivate the v…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:01 PM
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Eh, not really. A guy would have to be incredibly attractive to just get pussy while he actively shows how unattractive and off putting his personality is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:35 PM
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No. I got the power of street nawlij. I stand out in the curb and I learn from real g’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:33 PM
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I often see that what people think is RP and FDS is often the result of reading the worst takes possible from each community. And those takes need to consider where in the journey a person is. A lot of people, at the start, I reckon, are kinda bitter that what they thought worked didn’t match up with reality. Getting burned sucks across the board and I think it takes a little bit for people to learn to live and work with reality. Luckily, I got over this mid high school and really killed in in m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:51 AM
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A good salesman will sell you without making you feel like they sold you. You’ll even be proud to buy. Many good puas are like this. What people hate are bad salesman. And like bad salesman, bad puas get noticed while the good ones float on by.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:26 AM
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PUAs are basically taking sales techniques - getting attention, discovering what the buyer values, displaying value without being pushy (nobody likes a pushy salesman), asking soft close questions to test for interest, and possibly even asking hardclose questions to seal the deal - and applying them to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:24 AM
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If you call yourself a “cisman”, you’re blue pilled. Further, if you think RP think poorly of women, you’re wrong. RP acknowledges the strengths and weaknesses of each sex and advocates that we play to our strengths and minimize our weaknesses when it comes to dating/relationships. If you believe acknowledging that women will seek to attain best man they can get in competition with other women and disregard men they don’t consider their best choice as looking down on women, you’re blue pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:07 AM
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Only if you don’t develop your lats. The kite shape is desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:08 PM
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Bruv, traps make your shoulders and your neck thicker. I get compliments on my shoulders often. It’s like the top 4 body part chicks dig: Forearms, chest, shoulders (delts and traps), arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:02 PM
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RPrs will definitely do the work. It’s just that being RPd will inform the kind of work you do. You know, useful work that actually yields desirable results.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:43 PM
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Squats are the key to big arms!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:39 PM
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Traps and delts, my boii. Triceps, chest, bicep, and lats. Don’t forget legs and glutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:11 PM
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Better definitions that are more accurate but not perfect: Blue Pill: If I am nice, flirt right, make her laugh, and show her what a great guy I am, she’ll see that I’m a really great choice for her! I am oblivious or in denial of her female nature and I will let her change me slowly over time, letting her cross my boundaries on occasion. Optional: And if she doesn’t see my worth, that’s her fault! Red Pill: Women are going to optimize their dating and sex life to get the best man they can get. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:55 PM
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I stopped reading where you defined what you thought Red Pill was. Sounds like you got the origin off Twitter hot takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:35 PM
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https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/11760788/ ​ ​ Study: Endocrine response to masturbation-induced orgasm in healthy men following a 3-week sexual abstinence ​ ​ Relevant snippet from abstract: These data demonstrate that acute abstinence does not change the neuroendocrine response to orgasm but does produce elevated levels of testosterone in males.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:28 AM
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I mean, sex is pretty great if it isn’t consuming your life in a destructive way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:52 AM
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It makes sense to me that scaling back is good. But if you’re an addict, that’s probably not gonna cut it. I didn’t masturbate for the whole month to make sure I was masturbating by choice. It’s a useful enough experiment to find out whether I was addicted or bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:32 PM
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I went a month without it because I wanted to make sure that I was doing it because I liked it and not because I had an addiction that compelled me to do it. I'm telling you, when that month was over my knees buckled and I almost collapsed in the shower from the orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:23 PM
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Eh, you should just for the reason that this can create weird men and weird men inhabit every day reality. A man who bugs out from heavy porn and masturbation can't interact with women in a healthy way and that's just not good for women, for men (we get lumped in with those guys), and our daughters (for those who have those).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:21 PM
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For men, abstaining from masturbation gets your testosterone up and "rewires" them to actually be able to cum from sex. Some guys are so bugged out from porn use and iron-gripping their penis that sex with women isn't enough. Ever hooked up with a guy who just won't cum? He probably jerks it way too much. And what's true for both men and women is that heavy porn use creeps into weirder and weirder porn and sex habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:18 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:43 AM
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They always caught shit. Maybe it’s one of those things where you weren’t aware of it and now that you’ve noticed you see it every where?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:14 AM
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Men can be happy and bubbly, but that’s not what sparks attraction. It can help amplify attraction, but it does not create it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:00 AM
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Afraid to be perceived as anything but pleasant. Hot girls like excitement. That sometimes means pushing boundaries, setting boundaries, and poking fun. He’s almost a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:25 AM
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Yeah. I mean, personality isn’t going to bridge a 2-3 point gap alone unless you have some huge compensating factors, but it’s going to help a man or girl get the person that’s juuuuust out of reach if they were less interesting or attractive personality wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 09:18 PM
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Your body fat is probably too high. Get down to 12% and start mewing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 09:02 PM
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I’ve seen absolute footy looking men that were 3s date 4.5s and 5s with 6s on pure personality. Your vibe goes a loooooong way with women. My friend, who is a handsome guy but is weird around women, has a tougher time keeping them because of his personal stuff. First thing men with no to shot personalities can do is develop one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 08:54 PM
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Saying commie/woke bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:47 AM
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These are troo fax bro. I’m charming af and can establish connections with anyone, but “friend” is a deep and meaningful connection that desire gets in the way of. The word has been absolutely stripped of its meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:31 PM
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Pass. I don’t shit where I eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:30 AM
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If Tyrone was your goal, nice! If not, I’m sorry. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:12 AM
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I’m funny as hell and pretty fit. I’m not tall, though. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:30 AM
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Yes. Of course, it will get misconstrued intentionally by those with agendas, but it’s a start. We are severely lacking competent men that can exercise their masculinity in a way that invites women and men to engage with life rather than protest it. Red pill is a path to understanding and exercising masculinity successfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:21 AM
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Your ex is based.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:19 AM
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Can you give examples of “restricted” and “unrestricted” features look like? I have no idea what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:14 AM
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So it’s fine for a 20 year old to choose who gets to lead an entire country and perhaps have their choice impact the entire globe… but they can’t choose what dick they want to suck because of mental development?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:11 AM
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When I was 19, my girlfriend was 15/16? Idk. Whatever sophomore is. Although I don’t consider it to be explicitly immoral, I do consider it immoral to open yourself up to the long arm of the coming to fuck you in the butt. It’s called “jail bait” for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:09 AM
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Yeah. When I was trying to figure out my SMV, I would intentionally say the most absurd shit to see what what kind of woman would let me get away with saying what kind of absurd thing. One of my favorites was “Can I shit on your tits?” She said “wtf! No!” I said, “No. you misunderstand. What I mean is like, can I shit between your tits and then you can squeeze your tits together and get all sloppy with my shit.” It was a positive interaction, believe it or not. Edit/Pro tip: if you want to figur…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:03 AM
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based and Reddit is gay and stupid pilled I second the idea that this is younger men upset that older men are taking the women they like and older women upset that they “aged out” of a lot of hv older men’s preference (if they ever were preferential to these men to begin with).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:57 PM
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Get verbal consent if you don’t know how to read cues. Learn to read cues and patterns, though. Very few things will kill her mood faster than verbal consent when she’s doing her damndest to communicate with her body and tiny verbal cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:48 PM
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George would not be able to get a single girlfriend if he were George in modern times :p
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:38 AM
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No. It wouldn’t get to that point, though. I’d give the feedback when the problem begins to occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:08 AM
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I’m also 5’7-5’8”, but I was a scrawny kid. Getting fit helps. Long but worth it to read: If youre 5’7” and north of 200, I highly recommend taking Rauwolscine. I’m wondering how much of that weight is just impulse eating and snacking. I’m currently using it (I’m leaning out to make my muscles really pop) and I actually haven’t been hungry in a long while. Granted, I still eat right, get all my protein in, and lift because I’m trying to persevere muscle as I drop fat. If you’re 5’7”, 160lbs is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:37 AM
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Shouldn’t ask what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:38 AM
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You have to learn how to read cues. A study was done that women do make the first move most of the time with their body language to signal to a guy that they are interested. It’s even as simple as her just standing around you when she has no reason to be near you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:04 AM
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Yes. If you weren’t rich or a mobility, shit kind of sucked. If there are any intersectional feminists in the sub, I’d like to know why it’s called patriarchy if it also sucked for ordinary men. Haven’t gotten an answer that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:44 AM
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Same with the voting age, but that’s a different bag of geese.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:11 AM
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“Friend” in the classical sense of the word where the relationship exists for itself for the sole purpose of enhancing itself without eros, utility, convenience, or because of proximity or because of other social factors? No. The girlfriends I’ve had wouldn’t even fit in this category. “Friend” in the cheap, bastardized modern sense where someone you greet with a smile, see once in a while (or everyday because of the proximity factor), maybe do small favors for each other from time to time, etc …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:05 AM
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“Genuine male friend” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:31 AM
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Women are going to be women and men should expect that a woman views their actions as them trying to smash. It’s mens’ obligation to learn to talk to women to get passed their initial objection, because even when a woman likes a guy, she’ll tend to throw up barriers to see if he’s smooth enough (read: SMOOTH, not necessarily persistent) to handle her objections. We are the sellers in the buyer-seller dynamic and we need to learn how to slang dat dicc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:12 AM
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Average looks Being overweight degrades their average looks Not MAKING time to go to the gym (you don’t “have time”, you make it). Not learning what women value Not learning how to approach women and display their value in ways women appreciate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:53 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:19 AM
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Haha nice flair 👌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:07 AM
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I think you might have to log into the desktop version. It should be in the right hand side tool bar. There might be a way to do it on mobile, but I’m dumb af so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:47 PM
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Average guy will not get approached. The fate of the average guy is to either learn game and get an average to slightly above average woman… Or be selected by a below average woman That’s actually the fate of all men: choose or be chosen, and women mainly choose men of higher social value.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:55 AM
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Yee. Source: See my flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:25 AM
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Most women, if you approach right, will put down their phones to talk to you. If they stay on their phone, it’s a subtle rejection. Some women will be too nervous to put their phone down because they don’t want to admit they’re interested, but that just means she considers that there is a huge value gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:42 AM
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OLD and porn has made dating easier for men that are of relative high value and are bold enough to talk to a woman in person. While all the average to lower their men are getting their dopamine hit off porn, lowering their motivation to meet actual women, bolder men have a higher chance of in-person success just because they have less men approaching the same woman over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:40 AM
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I’m an advocate for interracial dating - genetic diversity is the only diversity that matters. Fight me - but I cringe when I see an attractive Asian girl with an average looking white guy. Good for the average white guy, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:34 AM
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Pfft. Don’t act like you know what a “free market” means.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:29 AM
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No. Marriage is becoming a status symbol for the well to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:35 AM
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The Adam guy from Adam Ruins Everything. God.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:52 AM
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I think most guys would be bummed to find out they aren’t the first choice, especially if they’re blue pilled. Part of the reason I work my ass off at work, with my nutrition, and at the gym is to ensure that I am in fact the first choice. I don’t need resentment creeping into my relationships and putting in a lot of work upfront to minimize it at least in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:51 PM
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Men generally want their woman or potential woman to not sleep with other men. Some men are into swinging and cuckoldry, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:24 PM
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Gitiboiii
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:20 PM
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That’s not necessarily the issue. The issue is that women want the best man they can get. This is understandable and good and proper for her to do seek the best she can get. If a woman is making stacks over her man, she’s very likely to work in an environment where there are men making as much or more than her. There is massive temptation to leave her man for a man with similar or better qualities and a better paycheck. It’s similar to having an attractive man that works at a strip club or as a …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:10 PM
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I don’t understand your question. Rephrase?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:59 PM
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Heart attacks are pretty common amongst steroid users, especially the ones that use other drugs for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:58 PM
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Honest effort to improve already puts a guy in the top 30% lol A guy can be in the top 15% with a clean diet and moderate effort at the gym in 6-8 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:57 PM
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The “always look full and pumped” is super subtle. I work out regularly and my muscles are different “hardnessess” throughout the day. I’m literally at the gym right now and my triceps aren’t as dense as they were 5 minutes ago since I’ve moved onto delts lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:35 PM
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I want to try steroids, but I don’t want to shrink my balls, inject anything into my body, damage my liver, or shrink my balls :’(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:32 PM
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Infidelity is infidelity. If you don’t want exclusivity, be honest and upfront about it and accept with grace her response. Is it “high value” to hide behind secrecy and subterfuge? The truth is that there is more to “high value” than money, sex appeal, income, and personality. Character is lost on many RPrs. Love and respect is hard to earn and so easy to throw away.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:11 AM
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According to the aspect of masculinity known as self-mastery. Pursuing pleasure as the highest ideal is self-destruction at worst and stagnation at best. The right thing to do is hardly ever the most pleasurable thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:15 AM
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The problem with TRP community is that the men making the leading continent are either assholes or frauds that prey on unstable women (see: Fresh & Fit podcast) or, understandably, push drama/playing to men’s egos because that’s what gets clicks and views. Selling the idea that men should form harems of women that have a hawt burning desire for their cck and cm (censored for mod reasons, not because I’m afraid of being obscene) and that women should be okay with that is a product men will buy. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:50 AM
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Absolutely. A man that can’t be responsible for his SOs feelings is not high value and is not worth a woman’s time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:46 PM
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Yeah. I’m pretty red pilled af and the “it’s different when men cheat” is either coming from promiscuous men or men that want permission sleep with multiple women and not upset their SO. If you want to live the bachelor life and spin plates and sleep with multiple women, cool. Be safe so you don’t get infected and you don’t infect other women. If you want to have an open relationship, threesomes, or group sex, fine. That’s you and your SOs business. But RP men shouldn’t go around and justifying …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:40 PM
1

Ass wasn’t the most poppin’. That much is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:20 AM
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Culture war (political correctness and all that, media being in the pocket of Democrats, anti-American sentiments in Academia, Hollywood, government, Obama and Clinton just straight up shitting on half the country) illegal immigration endless war (first President to not open up a new war and have a net decrease in troops abroad in like 30 years, and we went a solid year and a half with no troops dying in the Middle East… this record was broken by Biden’s piss poor handling of the Afghanistan wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:18 AM
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I have both been the long hair beach surfer and the clean cut business guy off and on threw the years depending on my work environment. I tend to “let loose” when I work from home. I tend to attract different kinds of women. Emotionally unstable, artsy chicks tend to like me with long. More mature, kind of “bitchy” (as can be perceived by some) women tend to be attracted to Business Leda.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:06 AM
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I saw The Count of Monte Cristo for the first time in a decade and a half. I had no Idea Cavil was in it and I got irrationally upset about how handsome young Cavil was. I was like, “Nobody should be allowed to be this handsome!” I laughed about it when I caught myself feeling the way socialists probably feel when they think about rich people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:41 AM
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Trump only had 30% of the Republican vote during the primaries. He was never the clear favorite, but he was everyone’s 3rd choice. When everyone else’s first and second choice couldn’t get the votes they needed, he became the default choice. If there were less Republicans running, he likely would have lost pretty quick. Rubio and Cruz actually burned Trump pretty sick to the point where Trump was left speechless, but this was late into the primaries and it was too late to unravel Trump at that p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:04 AM
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My ex is 5’2” with 32Ds and was underweight. 100lbs on a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:02 AM
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Of course. Same goes for men. What kind of woman do you want? What kind of men do those women want? Become that man so that kind of women you want want the kind of man you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:49 AM
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Why not both? I do it for both. I met a frail old person with shitty bones. They were wheel chair bound. That’s not gonna be me. I want to get the hottest girl I can get. That increases the more desirable I become in the various areas of my life. Fitness and health are actually the easiest to control. 30 minutes of honest effort at the gym 3-4 days a week is honestly good enough. It’s the consistency that creates fitness. I go 45 min to an hour only because I’m trying to get ripped af. A strong,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:43 AM
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Bru, only Hillary Clinton could lose to Donald Trump. Don’t make excuses for her bad she is. “Because of the internet…” pfft
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:26 AM
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Just cover my weak points, be a good mother, and keep me focused. I was pretty clear on that. I wrote a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:23 AM
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What people say on the internet is generally not reflected in reality. Internet is largely a place for idea vomit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:22 PM
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Generic answer: does she compliment my goals? Specific answer: Is she: someone I would consider to be a potentially good mother? I don’t want my kids ruined with wokeism, blue pilled thinking, and other ideas that will debilitate their ability to succeed in life on their own terms. someone who will be a great co-captain? A relationship is both of us working in tandem to achieve in life, whether it is at home, raising kids, or building a business together. someone who speaks her mind honestly and…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:48 PM
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Vibe goes a long way, especially for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:19 AM
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Wish I had the study on hand, but fat women do not want to date fat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:18 AM
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I don’t think so, Tim. You can fool someone some of the time, but you can’t fool someone all the time. And unless you define “successful dating” as a increasing your notch count and then leaving them shortly after, people are going to figure out your lies sooner than later.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:11 AM
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It sounds like you’re getting your data from anti-RP/blue pilled twitter personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:57 PM
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RP isn’t about criticizing women. It’s about dealing with yourself and dealing in with women in a way that is congruent with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:51 PM
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Bruv, if you need a shoulder for anything major, that’s what your mom is for and maybe your dad if he has the ability to be empathetic. They’re the only ones who offer unconditional love.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:51 AM
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Some people think any time you say anything to criticize women, you’re RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:49 AM
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Yes. I wouldn’t let it get to that point, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:45 PM
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Absolutely. Kind of weird that you’re asking, doe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:19 PM
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Anything from “looks a bit like JGL…” onward is a little optimistic. Average guy is chubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:10 PM
2

Don’t you sing at me!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:01 PM
0

It takes a particular kind of degeneracy to pay for a prostitute regardless of how much money you make or don’t make. “Convenience” is just an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:29 AM
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The “immeasurable” value is not the value that is referenced in the “marketplace” of dating. For example, you can more or less quantify height, style, attractiveness, and plenty of the physical metrics people hold. These are the initial metrics people use when meeting others.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:09 AM
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The solution is to inculcate masculinity into these low value males... and burn at the stakes anyone that gets in the way of improving society. Better men == less bitter women == a better world
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:33 AM
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On a side note, I just got banned from there because I upvoted a genuinely funny post on r/cringetopia. Don’t take advice from people who are literally so fragile that upvoting a funny meme is a ban-able offense. I thought I got banned for not being female, which makes sense. Nope. ‘Cause meme lool
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:33 PM
1

If all you think a good woman is is a free maid, it indicates you’ve never had a good woman in your life and/or you aren’t one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:12 PM
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The right relationship is good for all: man, woman, existing or potential children, other friends and family members of yours and theirs. As a software engineer working to launch their own start up, my future wife will play a vital role even if she never touches a keyboard or lifts a pen just with her support, encouragement, keeping me sane, keeping me fed, and the other various support duties she’ll be taking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:28 AM
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In the most egalitarian societies, women do select more traditionally feminine jobs: teaching, nursing, child care, HR, etc. Egalitarianism is not a friend of 50-50 job occupations. If you want to see more women in STEM, go to the Middle East, India, aaaand maybe other continental Asian countries(?)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:43 AM
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“Retard” isn’t a slur. It’s a medical condition. You’re being really ableist right now, sweetie. Do 👏🏽 better 👏🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:55 PM
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retard in this thread: men are more dangerous, so it’s okay we ignore their issues normal person: wtf is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:05 PM
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What’s snake oil about recognizing women primarily want capable, confident men that are respected by others? Sure, a lot of RP YouTubers like Fresh & Fit (disgusting frauds each of them) that get clicks yelling at women, but they’re drama queens blowing up a tiny thing for views and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:26 AM
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Long movie. Character driven. Disjointed plot lines it seems. I liked it. It’s worth watching.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:20 AM
1

Don’t know anything about the guy other than learning today that he lets other dudes bang his wife. If he just likes group sex, then whatever. It’s just plain ol’ degeneracy. If he’s getting cucked (which I think has a humiliation aspect, no?), then he has some ‘splaining to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:16 AM
2

I ain’t gonna get shit particles in my pee hole, bro. my pee hole is for pee pee and cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 11:26 PM
1

Based and cycle pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:07 AM
17

I’ve noticed that this is also sometimes the kind of woman that drops “sapiosexual” and buys books they never read.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 06:04 AM
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Nah. She cut it off when she was almost caught by her boyfriend…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:42 AM
8

We can use the gamer word in this sub? 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:32 AM
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Anything to do with an anus, I’m out. Turned down sex from a cute girl because she wanted anal almost exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:28 AM
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Eh, idk. I’m pretty charismatic. I’d rather try to make something out of it than burn it down. Some girls give shit just to see how you handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:02 PM
1

Never heard of Book of Pook. I’ll check it out! Ty!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:00 PM
1

Trying to get down to 13% 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:43 AM
2

I wanted to know about his personal success. I’m already based and red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:25 AM
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BMI is a crap metric. I’m 5’8”, 18% body fat, and muscular. 18% body fat is within the average range and BMI says I’m almost overweight at 160.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:04 AM
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Doesn’t matter if it is or isn’t. If someone has something you want, going scorched earth is almost a guarantee that you won’t get what you’re looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:02 AM
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Right. Todd V’s concept on leveling and his value/comfort model are really good pointers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:04 AM
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“Hypergamy” is essentially CONTINUOUSLY seeking out the best sexual/relationship options. Are women hypergamous? Yes. I forgot what study found this, but most women who break up with a man have another man in mind. Are men hypergamous? Not really. Yes, men want the best woman they can get, but your average guy does not have the option to cycle through women. Most men don’t have options and the data shows they tend to date down. Further, fellas, quit the porn. The content is immoral and it’s hold…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:32 AM
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Yee. I just turned 32. I’ve naturally been good with women in environments where they’ve been around: school, college, work. But entering self employment and software engineering remotely, not many women around. I’ve been going out since March just to local bars. I’ve had success. I’ve had burn outs. I’ve had ultra successes. I moved back in with my parents when the shutdown hit rather than keep my lease, and I need to get back out. Been nearly 2 years since I came back and am fixing to leaving …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:14 AM
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Teach them frame control, social dynamics, and charisma in general. These are skills that can be developed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:29 AM
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I’ve always wanted to have the balls to respond with, “Well… I’m not trying to fuck him. Leave him at home.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:17 AM
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I was at a Taco Bell in Las Vegas, saw a cute girl, walked up to her and said, “I’ve always wanted to flirt with a girl at Taco Bell.” She choked on her crunch wrap supreme. Eventually, she said “I have a boyfriend”. The battle was lost, so I just had fun with the interaction instead: “I know. He’s leaving you for me. He asked me to tell you. Sorry you had to find out this way.” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:02 AM
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Sex is not that important. But it’s very very very fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:56 AM
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Gotta ask, what did you do for yourself that took you from unsuccessful to successful in this field?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:18 AM
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Feminine, mother material, not a party girl, very beautiful, very attractive body.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:16 AM
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A combination of health reasons , respect from others, setting a good example for my future children, *enforcing and fostering discipline and work ethic, and just outright being desirable to the opposite sex. *creating discipline and work ethic is a waaaaaaaay underrated aspect of working out. This consistency and work ethic will likely spill over to the other areas of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:24 PM
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This ^ In addition, online dating is 60% window shopping. People don't window shop for things they can afford.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:26 PM
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“Too busy” is an excuse. If you want something, you make time for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:38 AM
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I don’t think that’s true what you said about older men not wanting to deal with a 21 year old. The women my age (I’m 32) have gotten fatter to some degree, have children… and can’t compete with the younger, more attractive, childless women I can attract due to who I am, what I do, and my lifestyle in and of itself. Many men in my position do date younger by preference. Only thing I would caution against is that many beautiful women have been cheated on by men with options simply because they ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:05 AM
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That likely takes age and maturity to figure out. You’ll get there with time or date older men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:53 AM
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RP is far closer to accurate than not. And as a male, you should seek to activities that generate excellence in the many areas of your life, making you desirable by consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:44 AM
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Honest question: Are you an incredibly attractive woman + motherly toward children + feminine? 250K a year is in the top 3% of earners for men, nvm the 250 “disposable”. I used to work in high commission finance before switching to software engineering and I know guys who make at least that much to 3 million + a year. Only one of them is married and the others cycle through women pretty regularly. They seem to mellow out in their late 30s. Statistically, one that meets your profile and is under …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:39 AM
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What they’re saying is someone who has thought their positions. If I meet an 18 year old kid with 0 life experience and believes everything I believe, it’s likely all ideas they’ve gotten from other people. You can describe that as sheeply. If I meet a 70 year old man that believes the opposite of what I believe, he’s probably thought through a lot of his ideas and can hold a conversation about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:29 AM
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I mean, are you boring? Some women are a blast to be with. Some, less so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:26 AM
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I was gonna ask if you were Nigerian, too. I like statistics and that’s one of the main ones I like lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:24 AM
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A capable, genetically acceptable man that others respect and/or desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 12:03 AM
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I go to a commercial gym. We have free weights, sure, but only 2 squat racks, a dozen benches, and a million machines for other shit :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:25 PM
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Some people think debating is just saying things. Debating is actually really hard to do right, so I don’t do it anymore. Better to shit post. More fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:41 PM
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The DILF lyf is eternal, brotha. Can’t get love and genuine companionship from prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:11 PM
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By survey, Brad Pitt’s body in fight club is ideal from a woman and a man’s perspective. But you’re not wrong, men have other factors women consider. Men’s formula for a desirable woman isn’t as complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:00 PM
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Do you go to a fancy gym that offers Pilates? Most of the women at my gym are old ladies doing the Zumba stuff and then maybe half a dozen or so women at the squat racks and smith machines. Maybe a couple on the tredmill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:59 PM
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You can’t change your face, but you can change your body composition. Find something heavy. Pick it up. Put it down. Repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:48 PM
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I personally enjoy cleaning. I wouldn’t mind if she wanted to do all of it, but I like to contribute to my household. Idk what the big deal is about cleaning to some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:12 PM
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^
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:50 PM
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Eh, it’s still true. From experience, one of the best way to sleep with a girl is to sleep with someone she knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:56 AM
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That’s literally my goal. I workout 4 times a week and have my start up that I’m building along with my regular income from working for another start up. If I could wife up another software engineer that can work from 10-4 when the kids are in school, that would be cool, too. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:49 AM
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I would probably be more successful if I were married in my 20s. The main reason I can’t really endorse MGTOW and some of the RP thinking about women is that the right woman will keep you focused and elevate your game. Yes, RPs description of what men and women want and how they behave is accurate. But I think guys just don’t know how to pick women, even RP guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:10 AM
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You: Nice cock, bro. Guy: So, you wanna hang out some time? You: fuck no, creep!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:34 AM
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Daddy vibes > Tarzan vibes I had no choice 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:22 AM
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I just turned 32 and have to prepare for the DILF lyf. My Tarzan 20s are behind me now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:27 PM
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I just chopped my beautiful, swirling locks. I hate the feeling having wet hair and I just got tired of having to wait for my hair to dry before going to bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:45 PM
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I’m not complaining about it. Just pointing out that I disagree with OP because his point of view is overly generalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:21 PM
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Yeah, was gonna say: 99% of the time, people go to ignore, avoid, and non-responsiveness than just straight up disrespect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:33 AM
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For both sexes: they generally don’t keep people they aren’t attracted to around to really create situations where they’re disrespectful to someone just because they’re unattractive. Maybe in grade school or really shitty work environments?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:32 AM
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^ anyone know what this guy is on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:27 AM
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Girls still like jacked guys 🤷‍♀️ I’m RP af, btw, so idk what is being communicated…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:04 AM
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I’m not sure what the point is? The athletic and lean guy with the more attractive face gets more female attention than the average looking buff dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:52 AM
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My silhouette will do for now. Going from uncancellable self employment to working for a Sillicone valley start up was not good for my cancelability. :p
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:20 AM
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You look like you still need to get your parent’s permission to log onto DisneyChannel.com.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:19 AM
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There’s a Chris Rock joke about black women hating it when black men date white women due to them not wanting to fucc white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:00 AM
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Promiscuity is definitely bad. It will prevent you from forging relationships, self control, and increase your chances of contracting an incurable sexually transmitted disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:43 PM
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Interacting with women as they are rather than what you want them to be is manipulation these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 08:07 PM
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Did you learn Red Pill from Twitter or left wing YouTubers? Red Pill teaches that women are going to do what women do and it’s best to live with that reality rather than try to shove them in a box. It teaches to cultivate yourself so that who you are becomes attractive to women. I don’t see what is misogynistic about not being delusional about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:15 PM
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Whom ever taught you that word, hit them with a broom for teaching it to you incorrectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:10 PM
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I see. Well, I’m no physical therapist so I probably can’t give you good advice for your situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:51 PM
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There are ways to workout your chest with just your hands and some pressure. Basically, put your hands up close to your chest like you’re gonna pray, interlock your fingers, from your left hand, apply pressure to your right hand. With your right hand, apply slightly less pressure to your left hand to create some resistance. If you do it right, you should be slowly rotating to the right, not because your torso is moving but because of the pressure you are creating with your left arm and left pec.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:35 PM
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If you absolutely can’t, watch what you eat and stay limber. My brother sustained a back injury that prevents him from lifting weights. He does light calisthenics: push ups, pull ups, lunges, squats, whatever body weight exercises that aren’t a big strain.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:06 PM
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When working out, focus on building traps, shoulders, triceps, and lats. Trap workouts will widen out your neck and make you appear more masculine. Shoulders and lats will widen out your… shoulders and back and help you appear more masculine. Yes, legs, chest, and biceps matter, but people too much emphasis on them. Still do them, but focus on the above to increase your masculinity if appearing feminine is your chief concern. If you ever catch yourself not wanting to go to the gym, ask yourself …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 02:29 AM
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Two. One from college and one from high school. Had chemistry with both of them but I didn’t pursue it. Both are in relationships now. Don’t really spend time with them, but they send me memes and we talk about financial shit a couple times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:42 AM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:37 AM
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They either end up single chosen by a woman, end up single, or learn to talk to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 07:34 PM
1

Considering that, by statistics, the most depressed demographic is childless, single, middle aged women, I think monogamy provides more benefits to women than just protection and provisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:13 AM
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Cheating because you think they’re cheating is not a healthy mentality and it will obstruct you from being capable of having a meaningful and honest relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:58 AM
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Monogamy and the traditional family unit is becoming a luxury, borderline status symbol. Statistically, the poors are becoming single parents either from divorce (or more likely) babies out of wedlock. The well-to-do or soon to be upper-middle class are sticking together. Literally, the only people I know that I came of age with are that are married are traditionally minded people (and likely religious), engineers, high commission sales people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:51 AM
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Well, I’m pretty high libido. I wouldn’t change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:17 PM
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Not the yiddies; though you are indeed blessed, my child. It’s your look on your face. That look is a look of a woman who has strayed from The Lord hahaha Edit: fuck. Is this how I’m spending my Christmas Eve? Arguing with my brothers about what movie we want to watch and talking about some girl’s tits? Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 04:54 AM
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That’s true, but orbiters aren’t a threat at all. She probably respects them less than I do, tbh. And if she leaves, she leaves. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 09:36 PM
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Idk what you mean by “easier to trust”, but charming people are charming 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:05 PM
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^ I find myself being attracted to average looking and maybe even a little bit below average looking women from time to time if their personality is A++.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 06:55 PM
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Disagree. Having consistent feedback is good. A man who has had sex with the same woman 1,000 times and has given and recieved honest feedback is likely to be a better with the second girl he sleeps with compared to the guy who has had 1,000 one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:57 AM
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Honestly, I’m more impressed by low counts than high counts precisely because sex is so cheap. People say “but muh sexual compatibility”, but they overlook that good sex is a skill and skills can be learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:46 AM
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As a naturally confident and handsome man, a high body count says something about a man’s ability (or lack thereof) to forge a meaningful relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 09:05 PM
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There is a correlation between how much a country is considered egalitarian and the general adherence to gender “roles”, or put more accurately, biological realities that drive men and women to make different decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:38 AM
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They’re both people who don’t give a fuck, often to the detriment of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:03 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:06 AM
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I think it says more about the question itself than the answer. If you’ve progressed in life, this really isn’t a concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 12:44 AM
0

Are you aiming to be a teacher?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:56 PM
1

Maybe colleges will start teaching that 1 + 2 = 3 soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:37 PM
1

Working the fields for the local aristocrat/chieftain/industrialist has been the norm for ages. Check out book: The Way We Never Were. The stay at home 50’s house wife thing was a brief break from the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:49 AM
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Women have always worked. Only women from well off/aristocratic/wealthy families didn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:44 AM
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I would expect them to be red pilled. If my kid can’t get laid, it would be a personality issue. My genes plus my future spouses genes are pretty solid. Mgtow seems like too much work for “prioritize your goals, women are a beneficial addition to your life, not the focus.” Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:50 PM
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Idk if it’s me being red pilled or sexist, but I don’t let women pay for any meal I invited them to. Doesn’t matter if it’s a friendly meal or if it’s more than friendly meal. Most women will insist to contribute (its cool if they don’t as I’m generous for its own sake), so I say they can cover the tip if they have cash or they can buy the first round at a bar or something. Works well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:53 AM
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There is a difference between not wanting to get taken advantage of/not letting women take advantage of you and being cheap (understandable if you’re broke). Sounds like you were the latter and just calling it “red pill” as an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:47 AM
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What should be a surprise is having gone through that many people at that age and not have been married or something, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:35 AM
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People are surprised, but if we do some math, assuming you’ve been getting laid since 18, that’s pretty much 2 people a year. Not that bad, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:53 AM
1

8? 32M
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:50 AM
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It would reduce them. Prevention > cure
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:00 AM
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I'm not saying "me". I'm talking about men abandoning women and their unborn child, making abortion a more palatable option.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:05 AM
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Raising a child should absolutely effect men. Babies don’t make themselves. That fathers are abandoning their children in greater numbers year over year is criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:04 AM
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Based and trad pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:01 AM
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I reckon we’re caught in a negative feedback loop. A lack of respectable, masculine men is breeding resentment toward men. If men that are lacking in masculinity and esteem from their peers tries to develop their masculinity and develop some respect, they’ll get slapped down because “who is this guy thinking he’s worthy of respect and masculinity?” Men have to push through this. And if they succeed, they’ll have earn their masculinity and the respect of their peers. Society doesn’t want men that…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:28 PM
1

I can’t speak to the history of those women. I know it’s me of them was in a 3 year relationship with a younger guy, though. But what makes sense to me is that these formerly very attractive women always had the ability to trade or get a new guy of equal or greater value without trouble. But then, one day, they woke up past their prime and they didn’t realize it. I imagine it’s tough to have to face reality about not being able to get the kinds of men you’re used to and start dating the kind of …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:05 PM
2

If you have bad judgement and bad criteria, yes. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:17 AM
1

To call relationships transactional is reductionist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:07 AM
1

Gross. Don’t buy sex. It’s degenerate nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:37 AM
2

The trick is finding out what your dollar is really worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:08 PM
1

RP man here. Men are severely deficient in ways either cultivate value or express their value and desirability. I’ve been going out to local bars recently because I need something to do with my Friday nights. Man. I’m seeing tall, handsome, strong men come in alone and leave alone. If you have sons, please keep this in mind when you’re raising them. Help them cultivate value and express their value however you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:17 PM
1

It depends on the woman. I had a woman in her 50s cry on my shoulder how her 30 year old boyfriend dumped her and how she can’t compete with women in their 20s. Yes, women can get dates/sex easier than men can and even the “forever alone” women I know have men that simp for them, but they’re upset that they aren’t getting either a) the men they want b) the caliber of men they used to attract when they were younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:44 PM
1

The person you’re responding to has more feelings than they do thoughts. That their flair makes a reference to the irrelevant fact/meme that Kyle Rittenhouse crossed state lines tells you a lot about their perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:36 PM
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Analogy of the conversation so far: Person: Don’t listen to your doctor. Drink plenty of fluids and rest when sick. Other person: Doctors agree with that. Other other Person: They didn’t say doctors didn’t agree with that. They said ignore doctors.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 12:13 AM
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Entitled fat women… It’s true. I made out with three 5s yesterday and a 6 let me caress her ass. And these 5s and 6s inflate their rating because they can get a one night stand with a 7+. Older woman in her 50’s cried to me a few weeks ago after her young 30something boyfriend dumped her because she said that she couldn’t compete with 20-something. In other words, she needs to be more realistic about the men that actually want to make a life with her rather than hoping a Chad that just wants to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:58 PM
12

Monday morning meetings are really annoying, and it’s nice to have a sugary snack in the mornings to improve our moods before we start conspire against the wamin and the communists and discuss general patriarch stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 12:05 AM
11

Free donuts at the morning meetings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:55 PM
9

Patriarchy is cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 10:34 PM
1

I actually traded them at a loss. No way am I going to pay capital gains on fucking nudes. Hashtag: TaxAvoidance
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 07:44 PM
1

I traded them with the mail man for postage stamps so I could write to your father.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 06:56 PM
1

Sex is for married people!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 06:48 PM
1

I’m not talking about boats. I’m talking about an enormous coooooooooock
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:23 PM
2

Yes. I hacked you. I also stole your nudes. You can have them back, though. They’re not as good as I thought they’d be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:19 PM
1

The penthouse is a self sustains hoe farm. And the Porsche only plays good music: 00’s nu metal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:18 PM
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1) pee per big 2) rich af 3) 6’2” no more no less 4) strong af 5) drives a Porsche 6) owns penthouse condo where he brings back da hoez
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 06:17 AM
1

Because the promise of love is a cool thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:52 AM
1

You: If anime is the genre where characters are most likely to pull powers out of their ass last minute and save the day, how come most anime characters die? Someone who gets it: It’s the protagonist that pulls powers out of their ass. Characters that arerent the protagonist are likely to die. You: Yeah, but the those characters are anime characters. Anime is the genre where characters are known to pull powers out their ass, so why… Someone who gets it: THEY’RE NOT PROTAGONISTS!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 08:06 AM
9

You’d be surprised. If I add up all the body counts of my friends group, most of the count, and I mean well into the double digits, would just be like 2 guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:17 AM
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Reading your tag line, “eeew gender roles”, I wonder about the details of your life. I’ve literally been told by feminist/woke women in relationships, “I’d fuck you but I wouldn’t date you” and my tinder matches seem to share the sentiment. Most of my woke/feminists college classmates also aspire to be get pregnant and be a housewife and maybe work part time once the kids are in school. They want to follow traditional roles on their own, not because “society” tells them to. I’m genuinely curious…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:38 PM
1

How do you think she feels about not being in your bed if she weren’t attractive? Nice shit (career, body, finances, car, assets, etc) won’t close the deal, but it’ll get your foot in the door and also serve as the cherry on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:23 AM
1

I’ve been using the shutdown to change careers, make munii, pay off debt, and get in shape. It’s been a productive 2(?) years, but I’m ready to fuuuuuuuck
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:21 AM
2

I'm in California. People are wearing their masks in the mall. Can't tell who is hot or not. :( Local dive bars don't give a fuck about masks, but those are mostly full of fat older women.... which I may or may not have had one night stands with...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:15 AM
18

It’s hard to go out. It’s more comfy to be at home, but being alone is not good in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:32 AM
2

There is a range of things that you can cry about such as feeling overwhelming joy and as sorrowful as your dog died. Anything that isn’t overwhelming joy or your dog died, keep it to yourself. If you absolutely need someone to cry to, that’s what your mom is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 11:07 PM
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80%…90% Yep. And because of this, becoming more desirable as a man is not as hard as it seems. Just trying with alright results puts you into the top 35% of men. Vibe, appearance, and psychical fitness can put you in the top 15% even if height and money aren’t there. << this is where shorter guys like me at 5’7”-5’8” can compensate for our lack of tallness and achieve great results in the market place
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:42 AM
4

MySpace recently deleted a ton of their shit a couple years ago. Thank goodness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 05:46 AM
11

Happiness: 8/10 and climbing. Decline of male happiness is degeneracy (porn, weed, too much booze) and failing to raise their responsibility level to a point that makes life interesting and challenging enough. The ultimate test of a person is the ability to make things go right. They don’t have to have perfect lives to make things go right, since making things go right means winning the fight even if it is at a slow pace. I’m surrounded by guys that would rather just complain about their wage, l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:09 AM
3

Women are just as horny as men. In some ways, hornier. A man will fuck anything that moves - (wide breadthe horniness) A woman will pretty much do anything she’s told to do by a man she’s interested - deep breadethe horniness)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:29 AM
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Eh, idk I’d say most dudes aren’t resentful about it. Most are just happy to get laid and have some affection for once. Some probably get jealous or insecure I’d imagine. Even fat and kind of unattractive chicks get dudes in their DMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:36 PM
3

Most men end up in a relationship with whichever woman let’s them have regular sex. Most men don’t really have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:04 PM
0

Men and women can be friendly, but they can’t really be friends. Only way men and women can really be friends is they’re both ugly and it never crosses the other’s mind to want to sleep with them. A friend is someone you want nothing from and the association exists for its own sake. It’s why Plato, or was it Aristotle, considered it the highest form of relationship. It might be Plato because the word is “platonic”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 03:26 PM
1

He wasn’t my friend. And he cockblocked me because he wanted her for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:38 PM
4

Friendzone exists. It’s where guys who women don’t want to sleep with but feel at least okay-ish around end up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:37 PM
14

This is standard simp behavior. I did some of this stuff in my teens when I didn’t know any better and knew guys that did the same. I knew a guy that wrote a whole senior thesis in high school for some chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 10:51 PM
3

Men and women can’t really be friends. They can be friendly, but they can’t be friends. Sometimes, people get a case of the hornies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 10:31 PM
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Most of the complaints I see about RP in this sub are about things that aren’t RP. You’re accidentally confessing that you don’t really know RP entails. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 08:40 AM
1

Leftists aren’t liberal. Leftists are leftists.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 06:14 AM
2

You have to learn how to deliver the nerdy communication in a way that an ordinary person can experience it. It’s all in the delivery. When I was testing out delivery, I literally asked a woman if I could shit on her and she wasn’t disgusted by it because of how I said it. My friend with anxiety issues was freaking out, though. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 12:07 AM
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Google: Divorce Weightloss In one of the articles, some places offer pre-surgery counseling to talk about the possible divorce. https://www.healthcentral.com/article/divorce-rate-after-bariatric-surgery-is-high-my-bariatric-life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:11 PM
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I've been there, too. Being that guy when you're young is understandable. The trick is to learn and grow out of being that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:26 AM
1

My ex’s simping for me turned into me simping for her when she started seeing another guy. I was the one that broke up with her originally, too. Early 20’s, man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:41 PM
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There’s a stat that like 70% of women leave their guy after weight loss surgery or just weight loss in general within 2 years. I’ve seen it happen as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:33 PM
12

Looool. I’ve been on the other of this. Her guy friend dropped her off at my house. Out of courtesy, and because I thought her friend was a girl, I told the girl that her friend can come, too. Homeboii hung around until like 2AM trying to cock block unsuccessfully. Him: You’re drunk. I don’t want anyone to take advantage of you. Her: I’m not drunk. (She didn’t even drink that night). Anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:32 PM
1

Number 1 reason is I didn’t follow through on a lease when the lockdowns started due to uncertainty, so I moved back in with my parents. I’m 32 and no way am I gonna bring back a chick back to my parent’s house. Picked up a chick a couple months ago, but sex in a 2 door coupe is not fun, so I put a pause to that. Number 2 is Masks. I don’t like shouting in bars or clubs, and the only place to meet women were I don’t have to shout are places where masks are the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:57 PM
0

Feel free to smash women whose faces you can’t see 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:32 AM
1

Pandemic has really ruined dating for me. I haven’t approached a woman in about 2 years or whatever because she might be ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 10:56 PM
3

If people want something in a free society, they have the chance to work for it. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:15 AM
1

Looks: 6.5-7 if you use r/TrueRateMe’s make standards Financially: 8 and still going to climb (software developer) Attitude about life: Sigma male grindset bro max grinding dawg can’t stop dis hustle son whoop whoop/10 bro Socially: 10/10. I’m smooth af
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:56 AM
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As someone that changed up their style from alt in high school to clean-cut business guy in college (slacks, button up, tie, nice watch, oxfords), to long haired, bearded business hipster post-college, I can tell you right now that I attracted different kinds of women with different iterations of my personal style. Style is more than appearance. Certain styles also correlate with attitudes towards life. And part of being attracted to certain styles is being attracted to the underlying assumption…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 05:22 PM
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Niche. You want to be a small number of women’s first choice than be everyone’s 2nd, 3rd, or 4th choice. You might as well not exist if you’re a 3rd choice or higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:23 PM
2

Reduce. Bernie Sanders gets confused by having 30 deodorants to choose from at the store. Women have 30 men to choose from at any given time. Men have porn to escape to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:39 PM
1

Guy here. Based and red pilled. I was banned from RP woman because I said OPs boyfriend or ex or some guy involved with the girl or whatever was a simp. Moderator didn’t disagree with me. She just didn’t like the way I said it. Figures…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 02:35 AM
1

A 6 is actually a cute girl. A 6 is attractive out of 25ish people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:55 AM
1

Miami is closer to what you’re thinking. LA is skinny fat pretentious people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 06:40 PM
1

He did. I saw him do it. Kyle was there. It was sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 05:47 PM
0

College is wear dorky people go to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 06:00 AM
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It is trashy, I agree, but if he grew up with drug dealers, he’s probably not as civilized as a well-adjusted person (for better or for worse). A savage man who can learn to control themselves is an interesting creature.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 05:22 AM
2

I’m a conservative in LA. If they’re woke, they poke. They’d just prefer to be in a relationship with a soiboi. Woke Progressive women that are in managerial positions or run their ow businesses don’t care. They enjoy the contrast because they tend to run over soibois with their presence. Half of my Tinder matches are woke progressives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 05:10 AM
2

It is if you’re woke. Ordinary liberals, moderates, and ordinary conservatives don’t really care.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 05:07 AM
2

6’2” that explains it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:01 AM
3

Not necessarily. Go over to r/BigDickProblems and some of these dues aren’t even sure if they have a big dick. A guy who makes 500K a year doesn’t feel well off. Model-level women don’t feel hot and beautiful. Why? You’re used to your own face/penis/whatever and think it’s at least regular. On top of that, and you know all your insecurities. When you meet a person brand new, you only know of them whatever and whatever you perceive they present in that moment. Way less baggage in the eye of the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:25 PM
1

You fundamentally misunderstand Peterson.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:20 PM
6

OP doesn’t know they’re attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 09:46 PM
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Yeah. The vast majority of men don’t even get 1 date much less 10 in the span of a couple months.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 09:45 PM
3

We, as a people, like to fuck 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:18 PM
0

I gotcha. “Yet insisting you know things”. I agree, but just saying “knowing things” is lame. I’m on an Anti Knowing Things crusade.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:12 PM
4

I like new reggaeton. The old stuff is really poorly produced. A podcast kind of ruined a bit for me, though, because one of the guys said it’s easy to rhyme in Spanish when every other word ends in “o”. And as someone who speaks Spanish, he’s right. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:08 PM
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Doing things has a greater impact on your life than knowing things. People who get stuck on knowing things usually don’t accomplish the things they want to accomplish in life. And often times, people who don’t do things but “know things” post their annoying opinions on social media non-ironically. Further, people that “knowing things” usually don’t know shit about the subject. They just know enough to write a crappy brochure about it. Knowing things is fine, but not if the things you know don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:06 PM
3

What about droning music like synth wave? I have it going on in the background while I’m working. Beat keeps me focused.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:40 PM
1

Knowing things is overrated. And I’m saying that as someone who is not any of those above things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:38 PM
1

Chick A comes over Tuesday night. Chick B comes over Wednesday night. Not that I’m a Mega Chad, but that’s how I’ve done it. When a scheduling conflict occurs because sometimes they’re only free on the same day, the girl I prefer becomes my girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:52 AM
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Good scheduling. Not even kidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:23 AM
2

Degenerates pay for sex, rich or poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:26 PM
2

Even wealthy men simp. It’s not just for men that aren’t if means. Simping is for men who don’t know how to meet more women and don’t know how to talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 11:10 PM
5

Low quality men are losing. Mediocre men… they’ll get largely chosen in their 30’s-40’s. Becoming RP aware, a man can increase his value since he knows what women are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:17 AM
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Unless she sees you pull up in a Ferrari, don’t wear sweats to a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:07 PM
2

It’s okay to feel how you feel. It’s okay to be true to your own aims in life. And if the man you love is not the one you want to make a family with, then that sucks but you have to be true to your aims.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/21 10:50 PM
2

Denise Richards 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 05:03 AM
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The lens they are using is not a portrait lens. It exagerates distances and makes features all weird n shit. That photo shoot is just “omg no make up or hawliwoo majik” to make ugly feminists feel better about themselves. False propaganda. Take a selfie with your front facing camera and then your back facing camera. Make sure the distances are the same. Go look in the mirror at the same distance you held the camera. You’ll look totally different in all 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 05:01 AM
4

Mila Kunis
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:58 AM
2

I have degree in socio-political philosophy, have studied political theory for over a decade and a half, and what they taught at my uni was mostly Marx. I know Marx. Marx is crap. The only good thing about Marx is that he talks shit about people like Bernie Sanders. Marx had a chance to be proven right, but he was proven so wrong that people like Ardono, Horkheimer, Eduard Bernstein, and Gramscii had to go back and make excuses for Marx.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:22 AM
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Gross. Karl Marx is the last person you want to talk to about family. He was a dead beat dad who leeched off his friend that leeched off his rich dad androgen blamed “the system” for how shitty is family is. “You shouldn’t attack the person. Ad hominem shit is a fallacy. No. That’s wrong for the same reason you don’t take finance advice from poor people. They don’t know what the fuck they’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 01:22 AM
1

Duuuuuuuuuuuumb. Even war men cooperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:05 AM
2

He said “spend 100K”, not “make 100K”. Probably making 500+ if you can spend 100 without thinking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:32 AM
2

They don’t “get” benefits from red pill. They get benefits from reality. Red pill isn’t a lifestyle choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 06:18 AM
0

Medical fatphobia? “It’s not my fault I hate fat people. I have a condition.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 07:50 PM
1

They’d probably cry lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 07:32 PM
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I read the whole thing, but I didn’t need to read past where you said you don’t feel like he can protect you, he doesn’t make you feel feminine, and he can’t pick you up. He’s 30. If he hasn’t developed a temperament masculine enough for your desires by now, it sounds like you already made up your mind and you’re looking for internet strangers to make you feel better about a decision you already made.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/21 06:51 PM
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Maybe if they’re very religious and you’re wanting to get married within 1 year.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/21 11:40 PM
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A combination of your IG pics and other women being down to hook up is the source of this behavior. It doesn’t matter if you’re down, some other woman will be, so he has no need to put in “real” effort or mask his intentions too much.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/21 10:56 PM
1

Yes. She should have a good time, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 05:46 PM
1

I agree. I sometimes even scream my own name.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:41 AM
1

You’re describing woke women. My problem is probably too much confidence.🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:40 AM
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Hi. Based and Red pilled male here. Women don’t necessarily want assholes, just that traits women find desirable often manifest themselves in assholes: assertiveness, a willingness to make their own way in life, tackle obstacles, and are not so restrained by social convention. If we reference Aristotle’s idea that virtue is action between two extremes, what women find desirable is between “nice guy” and “asshole”, but is closer to “asshole” than “nice guy”. It’s hard to describe, but to put it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 09:41 PM
8

As a right winger in Los Angeles, the answer is “kind of, but not really”. I have literally heard the words “I would f*ck you, but I wouldn’t date you” come out of a woke woman’s mouth who was in a relationship with a soyboi. My Tinder matches share a similar sentiment. Women are still attracted to masculinity at the end of the day. And yes, there is a certain masculinity in bucking the status quo and being left wing, but it more often than not reveals itself (at least in Los Angeles) as coming …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:15 PM
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TL;DR
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:54 PM
1

Does your husband know you’re questioning another man’s basedness and pill color?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:13 PM
1

Girl on the right. Throw her ass out if she cheats. I’ll get a trad wife when I’m ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:48 PM
2

The cure for being stuck on someone is to meet more people.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/21 09:26 PM
4

Buttholes are for pooping, young lady!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:52 PM
2

I’m just trynna cum, dude. I don’t need all these fancy ways to cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:47 PM
5

Types of sex? You only need like maybe 4,5: Missionary, doggy style, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, sideways, legs on shoulder. What kind of cursed shit are you up to?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:30 PM
1

I don’t know who those people are. I’m surprised people even keep track of who is who on Reddit. o.0
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:04 PM
7

10 dollars says you know good guys that would love to be with you treat you fantastically. It’s not that you don’t attract them, you just done choose them.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/21 07:03 PM
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You’re 19. You and your partners thus far are barely learning how to have a relationship. Don’t get too hung up on “being hurt in the past” because scraping your knees is how we learn about ourselves, others, and other subjects. Yes, It sucks. The pain is real. But it’s part of the process and it shouldn’t be given more weight than it deserves. HONESTLY use your experience to learn how to look for love and how to cultivate it in a meaningful relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/21 07:00 PM
1

I don’t understand the question nor the answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:13 PM
1

Thank you, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:12 AM
1

Oh, and the girl that did hand stuff let me finger bang. That’s some kind of penetration?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:04 AM
3

It’s a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:50 AM
3

7 if you count only a hand job. 8 if you count only a blow job. Would be higher, but I’ve turned down sex from women I can do better than, were a little too crazy. And not to mention the “jokes” about having sex with me. I didn’t realize at the time that women don’t joke about sex with guys they don’t want to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:35 PM
0

K, well, I choose suicide then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:50 PM
2

Let me ask you this: why did you guys break up?
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/21 11:45 PM
11

Tell your ex the truth about her craziness and then move on. You’re too young to be hooked on one guy, especially since you’re a girl and it’s a girl’s dating market. Statistically speaking, you can get a guy “better” than your ex.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/21 11:32 PM
2

no u
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:55 PM
2

Shit. I’m only 93rd percentile :/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:54 PM
4

Omg… she’s right! 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 08:53 PM
12

He’s young. He needs to learn to balance the present with the future. He’s literally putting himself in a position where he can’t eat for a possible loooooong term pay out. His comment about not being able to treat you to nice things is a bit dramatic, though. Your complaint wasn’t him not getting you stuff, but him literally not able to feed himself.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/21 06:57 AM
15

Maybe drop "incel" as an insult? It's more cringe than "betabux". You can have sex and be RP aware at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 04:48 AM
3

Welp, assert your rights in the relationship. Him stepping into his masculinity opens the door for you to step into your femininity. Assert your rights as woman in the relationship to keep your man as YOURS. :p
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/21 10:47 PM
3

Makes sense. Like I said, I tried something similar when I was his age. Sounds like he’s still feeling out what it is to be a man. Its great he’s becoming Red Pill aware at the very least. I hope he steps up to the challenge of becoming a man. Most guys just stagnate.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/21 08:39 PM
4

Its true that high value men are harder to find than a high value woman and it’s true that women would rather share a high value man even if they’re doing so reluctantly (been there and seen it, tbh), but your boyfriend is in a relationship with you. Relationships have different rules. Sounds like you already have your mind made up, though. How old is he? I tried doing something similar when I was in my early 20’s lol
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/21 08:29 PM
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This stuff came out about a month ago. Unsubscribed from them immediately. Oh, and they challenged a guy to a boxing match after they insulted his wife when the guy disagreed with them and then they backed out when the guy accepted. But to answer your question, if you’re cool with him sleeping with other women, go for it. If not, draw the line. If he insists, let him go. If he’s really Red Pilled, he’ll know that men are typically the easily replaceable ones 😂
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/21 07:52 PM
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Fresh & Fit are bottom of the barrel and I’m saying that as a red pilled male. I would never want my sons to ARGUE with women to get sex, manipulate OnlyFans girls into sex and then pressure them to kill their own children if there is no threat to the mom’s life, pay for sex, and get emotional when a woman disagrees with them.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/21 07:31 PM
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She has a nice body (which is not a 9/10) and her face is a 5.5. She’s barely not a butter face.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/21 11:16 PM
2

I agree with the others. These concerns are discovered best by what happens in the long run. Asking about them right now won’t do you any good. Just let the situation be the situation and hope for the best.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/21 05:29 PM
3

“everyone can chose what they want to I just happen to have a conservative personality” I'm from California where this kind of attitude is borderline Literally Hitler.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/21 08:38 PM
3

That's kind of cute ngl XD
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/21 08:35 PM
1

That sounds tedious. Pass. Sex is cool, but it’s not everything in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 01:14 AM
11

Some women are just achievers. People’s impulses and choices are gonna have trade offs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:58 AM
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Depends. By pure weight and height, yes. You’re fat. But if you’re a little bit chubby and you voluptuous, it’s fine. Even if pure voluptuous, you’d probably be a total bombie if you weighed 115. BMI is garbage metric, though. I have an athletic build, but my BMI says I weigh too much because I’m 5’7”. BMI doesn’t distinguish between muscle and fat.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/21 05:34 AM
2

Your comment made me sad :(
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:28 AM
2

Boooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 05:09 AM
1

It would be this world, but everyone is RPd and being a soyboy is socially shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 05:08 AM
5

Transgenderism, ironically, enforces gender norms. “I’m a man but I feel like a woman [[begins to act and dress in traditional female ways]]”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 12:12 AM
3

I unsubscribed from r/TrueRate me because it was turning into a bunch of sinks rating 5.5s as 6.5s and 7s. Guys don’t get many ratings in that sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:49 AM
2

The women’s guide on r/truerateme seems to be a pretty good chart. The men’s guide… idk…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:44 AM
5

I’m today’s society, “I’m fit” means “I’m not terribly obese”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:43 AM
2

Hi. Men don’t really care what your job is, what your ambitions are (as long as they aren’t too low), or what your interests are all that much. All you need to be is attractive and not too boring. Bonus points if you actually have a great personality.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/21 02:07 AM
7

Don’t talk to him about it and just take action.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/21 07:13 AM
1

No. I think crazy women are easy to spot. Women need to be weary of creeps like the overtly rapey and covertly rapey like male feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:48 AM
23

Two things: I hear that body shapers help skin keep tighter during weight loss. Don't know if that is true, though. Lose weight slowly and build muscle to help the skin adjust and prevent sagging. I'm 31 M. I know a couple of fat and chubby women that lost weight and now are babes. They always had pretty faces, though. Pretty sure their problems aren't with men.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/21 05:13 AM
2

Hard, but important. Familial stability is key to societal success.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 08:40 PM
1

It is objectively false that someone is more likely to inherit millions than to be self made. 88% of millionaires are self made. 82% of millionaires are immigrants or children of immigrants. And
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 05:28 AM
-3

That rule only applies to men women don’t want to fuck. Really need to make sure you follow rules 1 and 2 for that sort of thing. Last number I got was from a counter girl at Macy’s and she was the one calling me to hang out. I think the 4th or 5th to last girl I slept with was my Starbucks barista.
/r/seduction02/09/21 07:49 AM
1

Probably because blue pilled men don't want to have the responsibility of being head of household. I mean, living in today's world is expensive af and that's a lot of pressure to have to provide for a family.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/21 02:20 AM
2

People are saying what you wrote for RP isn't RP, but that's how women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 02:15 AM
1

young attractive women are not attracted to older men (generally speaking). They're attracted to **attractive** older men. Chris Hemsworth, even without money and fame, can go to any college campus right now and pick up a freshman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 02:08 AM
10

Just be a good woman have a good relationship with his parents. You'll be golden.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/21 01:55 AM
7

As corny as it sounds, kids really are the future. Without good parents, kids likely have shitty life outcomes. Hell, just being the kind of mother that doesn’t do anything special other than keeps their kids from fucking up is a hell of a mother.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 05:16 AM
6

I can agree that the number of quality of men has decreased. But I also think social media making it easier for high quality men to slide into the DMs has inflated women’s standards and they confuse being some guy’s booty call as being the same thing as being able to keep a high quality man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 06:13 PM
1

Because she could probably do better.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/21 08:28 PM
2

Improve your life without drugs. You’ll be happier in the end.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/21 08:26 PM
11

Yeah. Most of the rules about what men shouldn't do around women usually apply to men women don't want to fuck. The last phone number I got was from a store employee while she was working. Just straight up said, "I really like your body. I'm about to head out, but what's the best way to get a hold of you?" Turns out she's kind of annoying. I can't go back in that store now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 11:11 PM
1

People confuse emotional comfort for authenticity. Too much “I”. Too much “me”. People have lots of thoughts and lots of feelings and they confuse their abundance of thoughts and feelings for what they really want and “who” they really are. Japan has lots of mountains. “They must be important, otherwise why do we have so many?” They formed a religion from their mountains. India has a big ass river flowing through it. “This must be important, otherwise why would it be so wide and long?” They form…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/21 09:09 PM
4

You can always count on a guy to be a guy. I would probably follow models and such if I weren’t so embarrassed to be caught simping.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/21 07:06 AM
8

He follows them because he wants to look at them. The way you describe him, I doubt very much he’s trying to slide into the DMs.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/21 05:50 AM
6

Your concerns are reasonable as is lots of the advice so far. You should use this as a reason to improve your self and your physical desirability.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/21 05:16 AM
3

I don’t think it’s really going to be an issue. It’ll be an issue if your past turns you into someone who behaves or justifies things in a weird or destructive manner. Guys are generally willing to accept “more” from women.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/21 08:27 AM
10

An unattractive woman can download Tinder this morning and get laid tonight.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/21 12:17 AM
7

Of course! There is nothing wrong with that. There are plenty of genuinely great guys that were typically looked over by girls when they were younger because younger people (especially younger women) are pretty bad at making good choices and younger men are too oblivious to learn to become a good choice. I’m not saying anything bad about younger women in particular. They just have too much choice to the point where the chance of making a good choice becomes hard. It’s like being the first one to…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 07:04 PM
17

Its nothing to be upset about. It’s just reality that needs to be adjusted to. It’s honestly easier and probably healthier to improve yourself rather than insist everyone else change. Personally, I like it. I would consider myself in the top 10% of men between personality, career, income, and attractiveness (not height as I’m only 5’7” how sad lol). I have options. Really, the ones who lose most are low worth, blue pilled men. It wasn’t as bad back in the day because there were strong social pre…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 06:21 PM
9

If you’re in a committed relationship, be committed. The “spinning plates” concept applies to dating. I wish I had the study, but about 58% of women already have some other man in mind after a break up.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 06:03 PM
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Your post is long af, so I didn’t read it all. The opening piece sounds like blue pilled thinking and you are right to say that’s not a HVM is.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 05:49 PM
4

Some men are salty. From my experience, it’s mostly blue pilled men. I haven’t met an RP man or YouTuber that is salty. “Spinning plates” is just a practical solution to the reality that women have a higher smv than the vast majority of men and that she can leave at any time. To quote Richard Cooper, “She’s not yours. It’s just your turn.” It’s encouraged that men spin plates while they improve themselves, making it less desirable to a woman to leave them in the process, and making it easier to …
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 05:32 PM
1

I agree. Yes, men and women have different roles that our biology typically compel us to satisfy, but that doesn’t mean we don’t pursue those roles vigorously. Sometimes, a woman needs to set her man’s head on straight when he loses vision.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/21 04:12 AM
14

^ Same goes for some attitudes. I’ve been downvotes in this sub for saying that being effective isn’t a masculine trait. If you want a thing to happen and you make it happen, that doesn’t make you less feminine even though effectiveness is valued more in males than females.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/21 08:28 PM
1

There is nothing wrong with being effective. Effectiveness is not necessarily a masculine trait. Signed, a male with an effective but feminine mother.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/21 05:21 AM
1

No. It’s an increase if you ask me. Marriage is becoming more and more an upper class thing. “Oh, your husband takes care of you and your kids? Must be nice.” - other women “Oh dang. Husband must bring home the cheddar.” - other men
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/21 04:28 AM
2

They fucked.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/21 04:03 AM
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