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i tend to do that...but i agree with the poster that said to just focus on building value and stop worrying about this type of stuff
/r/askTRP22/02/21 08:33 PM
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>> I promise you, if you become honest with yourself and put in the much needed hard work, patience, and self-respect, you will look down from the mountain months from now where you're sitting with much higher quality friends, you'll see your old oneitis and old friend group way down there, and you'll wonder why you even cared about them in the first place. You're right about this...I already invited them to the group though so kicking them out is kinda butthurt right? I won't ask them to partic…
/r/askTRP22/02/21 08:32 PM
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also to be clear ovbiously I'm helping. I'm basically leading it but hiring people and getting free help to make it happen. its working but slower than i wanted and its more distracting than i wanted too...i have other priorities too
/r/askTRP22/02/21 01:31 AM
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no i really dont...without getting into it i couldnt even do it all myself i have a limitation that prevents me, but i have the resources to make it happen... ofc I'm also involved in creating the group but I couldn't do it 100% myself
/r/askTRP22/02/21 01:26 AM
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I think part of it is I'm angry about the rejection but it is also a mechanism to move on cuz building the group will for sure give me other options in the future for sure...had I built this group in the first place I probably would never have been rejected. Kinda unfortunate I didn't have the motivation until afterward... But maybe that changes your answer to my question? If part of it is driven by anger I mean. I think she still liked me some but was unsure enough to stop talking then we happe…
/r/askTRP22/02/21 01:06 AM
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are you building a group in the first place? Your whole thing sounds silly and weird. You'll appear about as subtle as a loud fart in a library. You wanna be an AMOG and not even put in work for it. i dont want to put in the time
/r/askTRP22/02/21 12:58 AM
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i dont have time. i will help some but to build a whole group in this particular niche its very time consuming
/r/askTRP22/02/21 12:58 AM
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I think she initially did reject me as a shit test but we ran into each other again sooner than I expected. My concern is whether she will lower my SMV and with the new group I'm building tho...otherwise her and her group can be of a lot of value to me. Are you saying don't worry about her lowering my SMV and just do what builds the big group I'm working on fastest/best?
/r/askTRP21/02/21 06:24 PM
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It's more like I can possibly use her and her friend group to my benefit in increasing my value long term....I'm building a sort of large social group and getting it kickstarted is challenging but her friend group could be a big help in that. She might even be dating someone from that group now idk they joked like they were but I'm trying to look past that if they will be a big help getting what I'm working on kickstarted...my bigger concern is whether I can trust them or not
/r/askTRP21/02/21 06:19 PM
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It's more like I can possibly use her and her friend group to my benefit in increasing my value long term....I'm building a sort of large social group and getting it kickstarted is challenging
/r/askTRP21/02/21 03:17 PM
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Idk if I agree tbh....it's kind of reasonable to give her an ultimatum if she's wasting your time
/r/askTRP03/02/21 02:10 PM
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I was agreeing to your comment on experience....i feel so much more equipped to deal with a normal woman now tho. But damn thank God she broke it off cuz I'm not sure whether I would have had the strength to when I needed to
/r/askTRP03/02/21 02:08 PM
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I actually made the concious decision to continue to date her at one point because of her being different than what I'm used to and it being good experience
/r/askTRP03/02/21 05:15 AM
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good idea too bad i had sent it already :/ idk why everyone in this sub just feels the need to attack people for asking for feedback. how can i get better at shit tests without feedback
/r/askTRP28/01/21 02:25 AM
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yea i sort of naturally withdrew because of this...i was kinda disgusted she went behind my back and it just naturally reduced my attraction soft next probably is good. she is a better person than her friend (otherwise I'd hard next) but she's not like the "nice girl" type i normally go for
/r/askTRP12/01/21 03:52 PM
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i mean she is really good friends with the guy i kicked. i'd prefer she wasnt friends with him but i cant really tell her that yet since we haven't been seeing each other that long. i'd say this is a 3 strikes type of thing for me and this was strike 1
/r/askTRP12/01/21 03:49 PM
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you wouldnt even bring it up next time we talk? like i was just gonna tell her it wasn't okay and she should have talked to me. basically scold her like you would a kid if i don't even bring it up how would she even know i find it unacceptable?
/r/askTRP12/01/21 03:48 PM
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would you even bother saying "we need to talk" and discussing it or just wait for her to reach out? Tbh she really does not chase me I know it'd be ideal if she did but we're just not there yet...so not sure how long it will take for her to initiate, but i guess i could wait and see..might take weeks
/r/askTRP12/01/21 03:40 PM
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A "friend" who broke bro code, but I've also had it happen with other males I'm not friends with. I am lifting and improving fast there but I have some medical issues that might prevent me from doing bjj... I'll have to ask my doctor
/r/askTRP11/01/21 07:00 AM
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There has to be a guide somewhere on this specifically? I've noticed it even more though when being online where people say things that would get them punched in the face in real life... But I've definitely seen it in real life and I'm sure there are guys who used it as their main tactic there too
/r/askTRP11/01/21 06:35 AM
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Some guidelines or ranges to start from? Could I just straight up ask her or is too autistic lmao
/r/askTRP08/01/21 07:11 PM
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Yes I left cuz it was distracting more important stuff and I didn't really want to hang out with them after this incident just cuz it's not something I was ok with
/r/askTRP05/01/21 05:34 AM
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Maybe but I've been getting with the girl behind everyone's back I might have fucked that up now not sure but still I wasn't totally off base
/r/askTRP05/01/21 05:26 AM
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he's not really an alpha just more active in the group. I was maybe the 6th or 7th most active he's 1st by a longshot. mainly cuz i have other shit to do and he has no life lmao
/r/askTRP05/01/21 05:06 AM
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i think i also misread the compassion they'd have for said retard...like to me what the guy did was just going to far but nobody else cared...i probably will need to gouge how nice the group I'm in is in the future I'm used to hanging out with nicer people and generally prefer that
/r/askTRP05/01/21 05:05 AM
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hat your friend group is like or how long you been with them but rn i wouldnt bail on your friends. Their friends and not tinder dates you can its not that long about a month. i already left. i talk to the girl more than the group they actually complained i dont talk to them enough before
/r/askTRP05/01/21 05:03 AM
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Thanks bro
/r/askTRP05/01/21 02:09 AM
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Lmao I basically tried to push a guy out who kept making fun of and bullying a borderline retarded guy but didn't realize he's very close with the core of the group. I felt justified but others just don't seem to agree I know it's retarded I feel like I just went through a breakup and Im having trouble focusing on more important stuff like work. Part of me is saying just bail out from the friend group because it's distracting my work and harming my workouts and sleep I still want to try with the…
/r/askTRP05/01/21 02:07 AM
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in the past I've left social groups where I didn't have the clout to kick someone I strongly disliked. Sometimes I feel like I lost opportunities because of that and I wonder if I should have handled it differently, but this scenario is very different. I can definitely kick him out
/r/askTRP02/12/20 07:13 PM
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I never thought about it this way but it makes a lot of sense now
/r/askTRP02/12/20 07:09 PM
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the other advice given by most people is good...kicking him gives me no repercussions and i don't have to deal with all the problems he creates for me. He likes to AMOG in lots of ways not just by going after women that he isn't actually interested in
/r/askTRP02/12/20 07:08 PM
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You're assuming this guy is of some value as a friend. Some people are just shitty friends who always create problems for you and that's the reason I don't like him Man people put up with too much shit from shitty useless human beings. This advice is insane. I have friends why would I need this guy
/r/askTRP02/12/20 07:05 PM
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It's no different than why men play games sometimes. They are less busy than they want to appear. It's not necessarily a red flag unless she isn't giving you adequate time for what you're looking for out of the relationship. You could tell her straight up that you know she's glued to her phone and to stop playing games because you don't have time for it AKA demand respect. Don't mention spying!
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:52 PM
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Tbh you're right and when it first happened I thought of it that way but I have a tendency to ruminate and think negatively. Thanks for the reminder.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 01:47 AM
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Stop generalizing so much and see people as individuals. You're not dating a country you're dating a single person and whether they're a foreigner or not isn't a good guiding basis for deciding if they are right for you It does sound like you might want to emigrate though
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/20 01:00 AM
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Well cuz of covid I'm talking about online interactions so I think people are just naturally less respectful online. Also, like I said it's also young and immature guys that love this term and they do this to everyone not just me. I've never had anyone who isn't a simp themselves call me a simp lmao... Why don't you think it's a shit test? Sure it could be a joke - like if I said it ever it'd be ironically as a joke - but these guys are serious. Maybe it's an autistic shit test (that's why ignor…
/r/askTRP25/11/20 05:04 PM
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Honestly it is much better than chasing these dumb chicks, to do something meaningful with your life. Meanwhile you can also keep working on the treatment and try your luck here and there. Absolutely agree I have no interest in dumb bitches that just hang out at clubs, etc. Not interested in chasing casual sex as much as I was before my condition and I suppose you could see that as an advantage for my ability to focus on doing something meaningful. I'm waiting for the pandemic to cool down and I…
/r/askTRP25/11/20 03:30 PM
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f there this interested im sure you can say overt shit like this yea I agree. I didn't mean to say mixed company it's more like if I had family around (cousins, brother/sister in law) but that's pretty rare when I'm hitting on a girl anymore I guess I kinda give into social pressure when my family is around which is bad, but they are pretty BP. If your family knows you pre-RP they will shit test you hard when you act RP so I kinda just try to keep family, friends and work all separate idk
/r/askTRP25/11/20 03:16 PM
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wdym Musk could benefit immensely from TRP he has given way too much to females for no reason. He's divorced like 3 times - twice with the same woman! If he was RP he'd be floating in bitches and not giving them any time or money. Ofc he still does fine but to say he can't benefit?
/r/askTRP25/11/20 03:10 PM
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If it's not something you would do then I'd figure out if it's a deal breaker for him. I have kinks but only a few are actually important to me. Tbh it's totally natural that you'd feel unsure about your attraction based on this kink. But if he can pass shit tests after dressing up like a woman and getting fucked in the ass he has some rock solid frame. When you say you felt sick to your stomach and shaking why was that? Like what emotions were you feeling? Either way you should communicate your…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/20 12:12 AM
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(copying my other comment to a similar response) "I still enjoy attention from females (i.e. I still release serotonin or bonding chemicals) and I still feel pleasure pre-orgasm (i.e. I still release fairly normal dopamine or reward seeking chemicals), but it's hard for the ending not to be a frustrating disappointment - especially when you will often get the feeling this time will be different (i.e. you will orgasm) but then you don't or if you do it's VERY VERY weak." So if you believe maslow'…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 05:22 PM
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It’s important to understand that you aren’t alone in these kinds of issues. What produces your unique scenario sets you apart from others, but the problem remains the same in a number of ways. It’ll only eat you up inside if you let it. And this stuff is far more common than you would think it is. This helps maybe I should find a self help group for general anhedonia. I might feel like the luckiest bastard in the room since my anhedonia is so specific.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 04:51 PM
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Do you release tension when you ejaculate? Probably some...possibly not as much as before my condition but yeah I think so. That's a decent upside to consider. For me, good sex doesn't have to end in orgasm. The sex itself is the pleasure for me, ejaculation is really just a nice 5 seconds in a hour long I mean I wouldn't go that far but I do still enjoy it. The problem is feeling resentment and depressed afterwards. It's like the anger phase of TRP comes back due to this problem. It makes me fe…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 04:40 PM
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There has to be others out there asking the same thing and people who have turned up useful results. There are a couple small communities and very very few specialists (worldwide) I'm aware of but by my assessment the prognosis is not good and I don't want to get my hopes up. I plan to continue seeking help once covid slows down even though it will be very expensive and of course insurance probably won't pay for anything cuz society is fucked and only values life and death not quality of life. I…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 04:29 PM
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You'd think so...and I've had the same thought...but (copying my other comment) "I still enjoy attention from females (i.e. I still release serotonin or bonding chemicals) and I still feel pleasure pre-orgasm (i.e. I still release fairly normal dopamine or reward seeking chemicals), but it's hard for the ending not to be a frustrating disappointment - especially when you will often get the feeling this time will be different (i.e. you will orgasm) but then you don't or if you do it's VERY VERY w…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 04:15 PM
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Have you seen an actual doctor about it? Several, it's a rare condition. I continue to seek medical advice. I'm not expecting medical advice, but mental advice from a RP perspective. But the condition is called either ejaculatory/orgasmic anhedonia or pleasure dissociative orgasmic disorder (PDOD) depending who you ask. I still enjoy attention from females (i.e. I probably still release serotonin or bonding chemicals) and I still feel pleasure pre-orgasm (i.e. I probably still release fairly nor…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 04:08 PM
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I can't orgasm (but can ejaculate) but otherwise feel normal pleasure. Sometimes I get a small inkling of an orgasm but to someone who's felt a real orgasm it's literally nothing.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 03:59 PM
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Men like Tesla didn't have TRP to guide them...luckily we do. So someone in Tesla's scenario today can recognize their massive SMV and capitalize on it with minimal effort or distraction if they are disciplined and aren't brain dead. Many still don't though for some reason. Regarding the wider trend, well apparently every generation says there is a decline in humanity. Perhaps it's true, but you can be a part of the solution by following TRP principles and teaching your bitch(es) to be women aga…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 03:58 PM
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“What’s your vice?” Great idea, got any others? And most of the time I move on to a different girl Also not bad, but sometimes the reason for not vibing is just awkwardness, shyness on 1 or both parts, or not being playful enough.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 03:39 PM
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I do have to ask what would be the more formal version of this? I think polarizing with "Wanna fuck" is actually better in most cases, but would it just be "What's your number?" if I pussy out from saying "Wanna fuck" because the company is too mixed.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 03:34 PM
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>> The problem with posts like this is there is no immediate, go to formula for how to reaction in every situation or specific instance That's why I gave specific situations that actually happened to me. To learn from examples. >> In S4 for instance, I might have said, “you up for shot?” Are you saying to ask her if she wants to have a drink? Like a shot of liquor? >> As for general IOI’s, spend more time searching through the original TRP subreddit. There’s a lot there to be mined. I looked bef…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 03:32 PM
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Damn you made me feel dumb AF...that would work though...
/r/askTRP24/11/20 03:27 PM
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You shouldn't have told your cousin that the timing lines up because he's likely to blab to her now. You can't force someone to swallow TRP, they have to choose it. All of us know men who aren't interested and quickly realized it's best not to try to force them as it only causes conflict.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 05:25 AM
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I mean that will definitely cause them to get interested but eventually don't you have to make some moves? or do you just ignore them until they are basically stalking you?
/r/askTRP27/09/20 09:18 PM
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Jesus dude. This should be obvious by now but never use work electronics for personal things. I don't think it can be fixed and you should move on. You look a little crazy...even though I don't think you are.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 03:56 AM
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How do you convert her to a plate without fucking her
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 01:25 AM
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They were crushing Microsoft (which in general sucks) for years and held their own against Google
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 10:08 PM
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Ok but it's not just challenges. It's giving away your bargaining chips. Not going to harass the guy or even say that I'm against marriage though
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 07:48 AM
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Many of the greatest men didn’t even care about sex. I wouldn’t go that far but it should be secondary and you’ll be happier for it. Find a passion
/r/askTRP25/10/17 05:23 PM
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You’re an idiot with no frame
/r/askTRP25/10/17 01:13 AM
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Are you boring
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:08 PM
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Men are driven by accomplishments. Boys are driven by women
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:04 PM
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Based on how much you're obsessing over this girl you probably should not talk to her so you don't embarrass yourself
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:02 PM
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He's maintaining his frame. It's just his frame is he's a terrified little bitch...
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:00 PM
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I'm not saying there is a perfect answer but saying something like you focused more on extra curricular activities and projects than tests because you felt they were more meaningful is better than standing there dumbfounded
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:53 PM
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They matter a little but not as much as many people think. If ur gpa is bad enough leave it off your resume and have a prepped response if they ask
/r/askTRP23/10/17 07:12 AM
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I wouldn't ping her do your own shit. You'll see her at dance class when ur back right? Just as she can say she was hurt, you can say you're not interested in being strung along and you value your time. Be persistent physically (not rapey) and set boundaries. Not kissing seems pretty extreme to me so I don't know you will be successful with this girl but gl
/r/askTRP23/10/17 07:07 AM
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Uber and other types of freelancing
/r/askTRP23/10/17 06:26 AM
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No, move on
/r/askTRP23/10/17 04:33 AM
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Addict doesn't imply beta. What's your question
/r/askTRP23/10/17 04:25 AM
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Use the time to study/learn by reading/video and slowly progress as doctor allows. And stop being dramatic...months are nothing some people have chronic conditions...
/r/askTRP22/10/17 08:35 PM
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Do you think real girls won't let you face fuck them?
/r/askTRP22/10/17 08:21 PM
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You need to read the fucking sidebar. Do you even know what LMR is And stop worrying about shit that might happen. If it does happen, maintain frame. "Yea I was super drunk" or "yeah I like all kinds of girls idfc"
/r/askTRP22/10/17 08:13 PM
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Work on your game and appearance
/r/askTRP22/10/17 07:59 PM
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You need to escalate with girls quickly...not text them stupid jokes to win them over. If a girl is into you enough she will help you escalate but never count on that. Remember if you go out with a girl she either wants to fuck you or use you
/r/askTRP22/10/17 07:56 PM
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My experience has been the same as others. People will resent you long before they appreciate you for helping...good chance you'd lose your friend if you try.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 07:44 PM
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You're missing the point. This guy is basically saying he doesn't go for taller girls...some of that may be preference but he's probably mostly insecure so the advice to practice on taller girls is good. Remember society's frame is that the guy should be taller...his frame should be stronger. Last girl I banged (one of the hottest I've had) was taller than me and on top of that always seems to wear heels. Did I like that she was taller? No, but I also didn't bitch and moan...I had a good time...…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 07:26 PM
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I'm not sure if it's a shit or comfort test, but shit test seems more likely..,maybe just turn it around and reframe it as her being judge-mental...pressure flip that is
/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:54 PM
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Better to not use tinder. You'll get more respect in person. Do you like being respected or being ghosted?
/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:42 PM
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Ldrs suck man do you really want that
/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:39 PM
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Adversity builds character. Challenge yourself to things that are hard...speak in front of a large audience, approach strangers, whatever scares the fuck out of you (and isn't dangerous . And keep busy with goals
/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:36 PM
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Asking in person is much better - even if you fail because practice...so why use an inferior method
/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:28 PM
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It's expensive...other than that I think it's great. Kino is easy as others mentioned. Make sure you're a decent teacher of course - so you can lead. I rented a gun I didn't know while with a girl once...that was a mistake
/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:23 PM
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So much of this "advice" is shit. You should treat this like a shit test but perhaps it's a shit test that isn't within your boundaries for a LTR. There's nothing wrong with dumping shallow girls like her. She has no class and you should know girls are just like their friends. However, you could also downgrade her to a plate. She will actually probably like you more for doing so. That's your call. But remember if she's a plate you should be seeing other - better - girls. Whatever you do, remembe…
/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:15 PM
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Not sure I understand your situation. Soft next means temporarily ignore her...so if you soft next her then yes you can respond later as long as enough time passed And yea don't listen to chicks
/r/askTRP18/10/17 02:16 AM
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Is this a suggestion to make sure I enjoy myself?...
/r/askTRP14/10/17 03:12 AM
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This was good thanks...I'll hit her up next week
/r/askTRP13/10/17 09:50 PM
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So how do you usually get women to do what you want in bed? It felt like she didn't want to blow me and I didn't ask. On top of that she could give a better handjob I was actually going to ask at a girl who works at my company (big company) but found out she's on vacation next week...so I will soon. I dont have consistent skill but I'm improving(mostly by not caring as much tbh)
/r/askTRP13/10/17 08:39 PM
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This guy gets it. Except I would say first m8, not partner. This is RP not PP or BP
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 06:55 PM
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No clingy gets old fast for confident guys. They want to feel like an important part of your life (youre the first m8 not a visitor). Not just a girl who hangs out with them sometimes. From what you wrote it seems you act more like what most guys call fwb. Rpw doesnt normally advocate fwb. Personally I wouldnt commit to a girl who doest keep me as a high priority in her life, but I may fwb them
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 06:52 PM
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The other comment was spot on. They don't feel guilty, but do worry about social perceptions
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 06:06 AM
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More will enter and they will continue to leech off the success and hard work of men. Of course ugly women work hard, but that's just a subset.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 05:28 AM
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Agreed. I would sub, comment and occasionally post.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 10:33 PM
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An appeal to tradition isn't an arugment. You need tact talking about politics to avoid crazies, but you can talk to most democrats about how much you love trump and still sleep with them...speaking from experience.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 10:32 PM
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Did you do anything for her or just have her suck your dick? Not all women get off just from sucking dick - you have to fuck them or eat them out or at least finger them.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 07:00 PM
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Spend time just focusing on saying no to things you don't want to do. Get your T checked.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 06:56 PM
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Mentors are fine, good even, when starting something new. But if you don't learn to lead you will never be high status in that activity and it won't help nearly as much with women.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 06:00 PM
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Girls will shit test anything less than perfect, but shit tests don't mean they don't like you. I am shorter and girls still have very positive initial reactions to me based on personality and attractiveness. I don't use my money to get girls, but I suppose it would help.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 05:52 PM
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Why don't you want to have sex? Have sex and have the self control to do well in your work too. I honestly think you're hamstering and doubt you can get laid.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 05:39 PM
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It's unclear what you're suggesting he do. But he certainly shouldn't 'be' a meal ticket
/r/askTRP28/06/16 05:34 PM
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Thank god some doctors are waking up. Please make your friend doctors be RP too - especially the non surgeons! Dear god these guys make me sick. EDIT: I should add you need to be tactful when discussing the RP publicly. You NEVER have to buy a woman anything. Just re-frame as it being normal to go dutch or even for her to pay if she asks you out. You will feel a lot of pressure to pay, but if refuse in a nonchalant manner by re-framing she will likely accept it. If it is a deal breaker for her (…
/r/askTRP28/06/16 05:24 PM
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I want to add shooting to the list. Shooting is awesome and lots of high SMV women are into it. Even ones that are too scared to shoot will enjoy watching you. Plus save our 2nd amendment.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 05:10 PM
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His advice is good if she's your plate. But she's your girlfriend. First figure out if you want to spin plates or want a LTR. Next figure out if she fits into the slot you want. Don't let your LTR treat you like shit though.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 07:22 AM
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Don't listen to this guy. He's wrong. As hes said he's still a noob.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 06:48 AM
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/r/MensRights
/r/askTRP27/06/16 06:45 AM
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I think it's fine to tell her you want her to run any future changes through you first. Some people will go "blah blah feminism blah blah my body" just treat this as a shit test
/r/askTRP27/06/16 06:19 AM
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Some examples would be dancing, yoga, scuba diving, sky diving, airplane pilot, etc. Don't pick something just because you think it's high SMV - pick something you enjoy.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 06:09 AM
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If a woman is telling you to to change it's a SHIT test. If you change she will leave you. You're putting too much pressure on yourself. First of all do you actually need to move out yet? If so, does she work? It's not all on you. Communicate the frame as you working together in the relationship and with her as first mate you should have some expectations of her (Sex doesn't count). Off topic, but you sound seriously addicted to adderall. I personally don't think it is good to be on long term. H…
/r/askTRP27/06/16 06:03 AM
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I sincerely hope this is a joke
/r/askTRP27/06/16 05:45 AM
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Your girlfriend and some of your mutual friends of both genders. Maybe you show up late for an event or you haven't seen your girlfriend in a day and she asks
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 02:08 AM
1

What if youre in a group and everyone is shaming you and calling you weird and a cheater because you won't answer a simple question? I agree with your premise, but I'm looking for tactics. Some you already have but this is a situation i struggle to reframe
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 12:55 AM
3

It's just timing. He went in high. Index funds are long term investments
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 06:43 PM
3

How would you avoid answering questions like where were you, what you up to, you have any plans?
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 06:36 PM
1

Ranges. The OP claim was about ranges
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 09:56 PM
9

Bmi has different ranges for men and women. I'm sure they'll find a way to blame men and make them pay though
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 04:44 AM
1

The page you linked to explains how the flyn effect appears to be reversing since the 90s
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 01:48 AM
1

Or because they are higher status. 62% OP quoted is all birth control. Only 16% of women are on the pill for example. Your whole argument is resting on TRP being wrong at this point.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 08:27 PM
1

Regarding genetic diversity you don't appear to have the capacity to comprehend my argument. Evidence points to a white preference, not mixed http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/race-attraction-2009-2014/
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 05:07 PM
1

Then reply to my two other points. You're making grossly incorrect conclusions. I guess chad should make babies with a short autistic black girl due to their genetic differences haha
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 04:19 PM
5

Stay in the orange and go from stranger to acquaintance to friend to partner. http://thesurge.com/app/uploads/2015/10/touch-chart.png I agree with the other guy. Touch her playfully when she laughs.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 08:33 AM
1

You are completely wrong on that study https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn1815-women-attracted-to-men-who-smell-like-dad/ Not to mention mhc does not equal race as you seem to "think" Also, polar opposites result in outbreeding depression since they developed for vastly different environments. e.g. speaking in averages: in Africa high IQ was not naturally selected, but in East Asia it was. Now an Asian and African have a kid. The kid will be higher IQ than the African parent, but lower IQ th…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 08:04 AM
27

It might be hard to sleep with my cock inside you
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 07:21 AM
1

It's not about being smarter. Historically it is biologically superior to treat women better than men
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 02:43 AM
1

I'd ghost and if he asks why then explain he wasn't annoying you. You could bring it up directly but it's pretty much an ultimatum, which I avoid. Alternative is to stop letting it bother you. Either way focus on other friends. From my perspective it seems like u got mad with little reason, but maybe u 2 are just incompatible
/r/askTRP21/03/16 06:41 PM
3

Why did the questions piss you off so much. I mean were you guys doing something more important or more fun? Otherwise at least they had something to say...if you don't like them then get new friends
/r/askTRP21/03/16 05:57 PM
1

Be direct. Accept the request and message her to come over. If she doesn't bite then forget her. This takes it back into your frame. You're saying "You can be in my life, but you better give me sex" Edit: I misread a little bit, but my advice is solid as long as you maintain your original frame that you are not going in public with her.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 05:35 PM
1

I pretty much agree. But I think I could have plated her if I had texted a little differently. Also, I think she still has potential to be plated in the distant future so it'd be silly to hard next. I care because I want to plate the girl when possible in the future, not 1 night stand her. So I need to understand what/if I messed up.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 05:18 PM
1

Thank you. What do you think of my other comment https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/4bcz12/advice_on_potential_plate/d180dm4 I feel this is the most important thing I learned from this experience. My texting is one of my weakest points for some reason.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 05:14 PM
1

I absolutely am working on that, but I also need to learn from mistakes. If I fail to plate this girl I better fucking learn something from it. I believe my below comment gave what I learned, but I didn't realize it until I wrote stuff down.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 05:08 PM
1

While this is true - it's not really advice or even insightful...
/r/askTRP21/03/16 04:53 PM
1

Honestly I think the advice to keep texts super short is what is hurting me. I think I need to be more playful with slutty girls like her. Like instead of "K" say "K, lmk and we will meet up and play" In the future do you think that would be a better response?
/r/askTRP21/03/16 04:48 PM
1

I don't think hard next is good advice. I'm most likely going to soft next her and only message her if I'm in her town (i.e. not message her in August). My gut is telling me that is the best plan.. Not sure why I posted anymore.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 04:39 PM
1

I guess I was mistaken after looking over some old conversations - it's usually around making plans where I get the most flakes - and I do jump into asking them to meet after like 2-4 messages. Probably only about 15-30% flake after the first response. Maybe 70-90% flake when it comes to meeting up - either by not responding or by canceling. I usually just start with "hey", comment on a picture, hobby or info like work info/university. Then from there I just try to get them to hang out.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 04:19 AM
1

What would you talk about then? I ussually get a response or 2, but nothing after that. So I thought I should be more direct
/r/askTRP14/03/16 02:56 AM
34

Can't think of things to say in order to approach and get a date or #. Generally can't think of what to say when the situation is social instead of work related.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 03:30 PM
1

It's better to do it without them. They are like a crutch that will follow you around if you start using them.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 09:13 AM
1

It doesn't matter if one race mean is superior. It only matters if you are superior. Caring about racial superiority isn't red pill.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 03:10 AM
1

Exactly. What most people call racism today is one big shit test. If you believe it you already failed.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 03:03 AM
2

The whole definition of a "black swan" is not that it almost never happens, rather, that it happens way more often and inevitably than people expect. Not that they happen more often, but that they have more impact. Still, you corrected my own understanding of this since you had the gist.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 02:08 AM
2

This is ALL in your head. There have been and still are many great men who were short. And women care about it a lot less than people think. Most people pick out something they don't like about themselves and dwell on it. I have met plenty of tall guys who complained about other body parts. Everyone has some flaw they can pick out and everyone needs to overcome that.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 02:34 AM
5

Is this actually common or just some sensationalized news article
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 01:42 AM
2

He is saying you're trying to make yourself feel better when you say "when you find people looking at you like you don't belong, like you don't deserve to succeed" when in reality you should fix the thing that makes you not belong. Get a good job and education, get fit and be interesting. EDIT: For the record, I'm not sure I agree, but that's for sure what he's saying.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 01:34 AM
3

People are usually pretty blunt on the RP and naturally RPW as well, but that doesn't mean they are wrong. You will generally get good advice here because they accept the realities of any situation you have and don't preach running from your problems. It can be hard to look at yourself objectively, hence the matrix analogy.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/15 04:08 AM
1

Do you have any references for this? I would be interested in reading them.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 04:16 AM
1

I have responded with "5'8", you?" before to success. I'm sure there are better responses, but I think this counts as a pressure flip. EDIT: I find myself wondering if this is only a pressure flip when used on girls shorter than you...Whatever you do, make it clear you're unphased.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 03:21 AM
2

"A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds" -Emerson
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 04:45 AM
3

Holy shit you're quite the morning person. A lot of girls who are on the edge would decline due to time alone. Is there any strategy behind these times?
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 02:33 PM
5

How would you recommend learning it in a way that can be applied in a social context?
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 04:09 AM
7

He's actually shorter than 5'9" according to many sources, which only accentuates your point.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 03:01 AM
1

You're not wrong, but the original phrase has significantly more merit in reality. Just look at who gets laid and who doesn't.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 06:49 PM
1

I was expecting this answer, but it's not entirely satisfying. We could grow without betraying our values. I suppose it's a bit Machiavellian of our community to stay.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 05:24 PM
15

Why do we even support reddit? People are always talking about an evacuation plan. How about a moving plan?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 03:49 PM
1

I would take a blowjob from a fat chick with a nice face, but I wouldn't fuck her. In fact, I flat out told this to a girl after she gave me an enthusiastic blowjob. Never saw her again. I hope she's lost some weight.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 04:26 AM
-1

Everyone agrees it's a disadvantage for a man to be short. But those tweets have a selection bias. I would be more interested in sex partner to height correlation for example. What is your education background? Have you taken college level statistics courses?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 09:17 PM
-2

It's a collection biasly chosen tweets. I know tons of short guys who slay.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 08:46 PM
2

Is 5 8 really a manlet? That's like 33rd percentile in the US. I agree improving in other ways is better.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 08:17 PM
1

I wouldn't recommend lifts. There are a lot of downsides. You are generally better off improving your SMV in other ways.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 12:31 AM
1

How does this compare to other options out there such as lexapro?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 12:09 AM
6

At least you're not a woman.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 12:00 AM
3

Would you really recommend lying? What if you're 5'8" and you go on a date with a girl who lists herself as 5'7"? She would notice you're not 5'10".
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 11:53 PM
-2

You're misusing reductio ad absurdum by appealing to extreme examples. It's like doing a study on how much women care about height and then saying "okay, now throw out the ones that didn't care much" How is this shit getting upvotes?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 11:45 PM
1

You're averagish. 5'8 and 5'9 are the lower side of average.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 11:20 PM
1

You're probably right. I was attempting to be funny.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 02:10 AM
-2

Can you give a clearer opinion? I understand it's a weird question, but don't care.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 11:40 PM
1

I hope you're right. It helped me a lot when I saw she got married. I haven't thought of her much since then. I actually ignored her last text (probably a "do you want a wedding invitation?") Man fuck that bitch I told her I needed space because I couldn't handle it 4 years ago. Yet she always wants to guilt me into being friends and then flirts with me non stop. This is how I know RP is right. But I guess I have to blame myself. Problem is I'm not sure I can fix myself like everyone else on her…
/r/askTRP06/01/15 02:04 PM
1

Nofap is a good idea. I'm going to try that now. I'm so afraid to see a hooker. My dad always taught me to be really cautious although I was raised more by my mom. Is there anything I need to know other than wear a condom for actual intercourse? What if she is blowing me? Any safer sites I could use? I make good money and have saved a lot so I would be willing to spend some for something that is fucking with my life so badly.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 01:36 PM
1

I only fucked one other chick twice since then, it was more casual and she wasn't as attractive. I did talk to a psychologist about it for a few weeks. It helped some with my confidence. I actually like the hypnotherapist idea and may try this. That's something I never thought of. The worst part is S was a 4 out of 10 for me. That's how I got her to like me I legitimately didn't care. But the second I started to she was gone.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 01:29 PM
1

I did. They were pretty clueless. It's called sexualanhedonia (there is a subreddit for it). It's extremely rare. I'm thinking about getting my T and Estrogen levels checked to make sure I don't have some imbalance making me into a sensitive pussy who is too emotional to handle breakups or RP relationships. Maybe this is the wrong place, but I was hoping to find an example of a situation like mine rather than just similar symptoms.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 05:23 AM
1

k I'll clean it up
/r/askTRP06/01/15 04:18 AM
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