| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | [FR] Subway to k-close | legion_pua | /r/seduction | 16/03/11 04:54 AM | |
| 7 | How would you want to change the seduction community for the better? | legion_pua | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 02:34 PM | |
| 5 | x-post: "Women of Reddit, what's the best first date you've had?" | legion_pua | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 04:28 PM | |
| 1 | [FR] Loft Party f-close | legion_pua | /r/seduction | 20/03/11 05:57 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | How would you want to change the seduction community for the better?The underground is still very active. | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 06:22 PM |
| 2 | How would you want to change the seduction community for the better?Eh, I think it's kind of unavoidable that you're going to be creating something that won't be shared with girlfriends. | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 06:12 PM |
| 2 | How would you want to change the seduction community for the better?Personally, I'd like to see less conjecture and a more evidence-based approach. | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 04:41 PM |
| 20 | Ask Seddit: What were your "game-changing" seduction experiences or materials?Game-changer: realizing that I'm not seducing women - I'm seducing everyone. | /r/seduction | 25/03/11 01:05 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Get your head back in the gameMaybe he was Batman | /r/seduction | 24/03/11 05:48 PM |
| 2 | What makes you happy?Technically correct | /r/seduction | 24/03/11 05:37 AM |
| 1 | What makes you happy?Validation from my peers | /r/seduction | 24/03/11 05:37 AM |
| 3 | Seddit, I'm thinking of soloing at a bar tonight. Advice?Don't knock it - it works | /r/seduction | 24/03/11 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, I'm thinking of soloing at a bar tonight. Advice?Two words for the same idea, really. | /r/seduction | 24/03/11 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, I'm thinking of soloing at a bar tonight. Advice?Essentially, yeah. Rapport is used in the community in a less sexual context then attraction. You build attraction with a girl, rapport with a group. | /r/seduction | 24/03/11 12:23 AM |
| 0 | Seddit, I'm thinking of soloing at a bar tonight. Advice?"Rapport" is a term describing how awesome people think you are, basically. You open a set, tell a few jokes, show them a magic trick, and eject to the next set. Now you can come back and be welcomed into that first set at anytime for the rest of the night. | /r/seduction | 24/03/11 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Questions about mirroring, eye contact and lgbt folksIf nothing else, mirroring forces the PUA to pay attention to the body language of his target, so there is value there. Combined with other NLP methods, mirroring is one arrow in the quiver that will effect a successful seduction. I don't know if there is any hard data on it, so I'm hesitant to say that it "does" or "does not" work. On your second point, there is just too much subtle context to give you an accurate answer. Sorry I can't be of much help there. | /r/seduction | 24/03/11 12:06 AM |
| 5 | Seddit, I'm thinking of soloing at a bar tonight. Advice?Open everyone. Build rapport early, and enjoy yourself. | /r/seduction | 23/03/11 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Questions about mirroring, eye contact and lgbt folksMirroring is, in my experience, an entirely subconscious tactic. If it is done correctly, it won't be noticed. Avoidance of eye contact can mean a dozen different things. Acceptance of your dominance, boredom, generally poor social skills. It's all dependent on contextual hints. Yes, most of the advice is perfectly applicable to LGBT. It's not just about women - a lot of it is applicable to "seducing" your boss into giving you a raise, for example. There is a lesbian pickup subreddit, but I don'… | /r/seduction | 23/03/11 11:45 PM |
| 1 | How to text to set up a meeting?No way. Maybe, "I'm going to grab some drinks later at [bar]. You in?" | /r/seduction | 23/03/11 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Looking for advice on how to pick up stoner girls.If she smokes, she pokes | /r/seduction | 22/03/11 05:46 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Day game realisations and my first direct approach.I liked the combo of the username/post | /r/seduction | 22/03/11 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Advice for a 21yr old guy who just recently started "giving a shit"?This guy knows what's up. Going out to a bar alone will make you look like a loser if you feel like a loser. Going out to a bar alone will make you look awesome if you are awesome. | /r/seduction | 22/03/11 03:19 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Stop masturbating if you want to get laid, a mini-FRTrue story | /r/seduction | 22/03/11 03:07 PM |
| 1 | x-post: "Women of Reddit, what's the best first date you've had?"Not just "No," but "Lol No." | /r/seduction | 22/03/11 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Advice for a 21yr old guy who just recently started "giving a shit"?Going out to a bar alone isn't as weird as it sounds. Try going during the week sometime after classes. There will be ten or twelve people there, and you can meet everybody. Make friends with the bartender, have a few drinks, and leave a good tip. Then when you come back on Friday night the bartender knows you by name and greets you - social proof. | /r/seduction | 22/03/11 01:49 PM |
| 11 | I can't seduce my GFHonestly, a healthy modern relationship shouldn't require much seduction beyond "wanna have sex?" This might be a job better done by r/relationshipAdvice, but I'll take a stab at it Try sending her a text during the day about sex. The idea is to get her thinking about sex with you (assuming she enjoys it) on a regular basis There's an NLP concept called anchoring that could come in handy for you. Every time you know she is thinking about sex (she accepts your advances and you are in foreplay, or… | /r/seduction | 22/03/11 01:43 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with emotional state loss from total blowout? [partial FR]You cowboy the fuck up and do it again | /r/seduction | 22/03/11 01:24 PM |
| 1 | A nice trick I've been using when girls ask for things.I don't think that was the opening. I think they had met before that | /r/seduction | 22/03/11 08:32 AM |
| 3 | [FR] I'd rather not f-close a drunk girl in a club.It's a variation of always make decisions that make for better stories. | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Invited to party by HB 9, not many people I know there. What am I so afraid of?I love going to parties where I don't know anybody. You get to meet everybody there. Here's a tip. Walk around and open every set. Guys, girls, bartender, DJ. Everybody. Then you can bounce from set to set being awesome and everybody loves you. Don't forget to bring a dump truck for all the poon you'll be collecting | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 07:11 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Tried to take two girls home.Exactly. There's no reason to feel that using indirect language is "tricky". It's a simple matter of establishing the relationship between two people. | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 06:52 PM |
| 8 | [FR] Tried to take two girls home.In behavioral economics, we have a concept called "mutual perfect information flow". In a mutual perfect information flow, you would have asked them, "Would you like to come back and have a threesome?" You know what you're asking. They know what you're asking. You know that they know what you're asking. They know that you know that they know what you're asking. Etc. The classic foil to this is a motorist pulled over for speeding. He asks the officer, taking out a hundred-dollar bill, if it might… | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Advice: Keeping an older man interestedThink about what his motivations are in seeing you. Likely they stem from reclaiming a portion of youth that he feels he missed out on. Play off of this. Be spontaneous, party hard, and get liberal. | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 06:00 PM |
| 9 | My Dating RulesThere is no awkward silence. Just opportunities for you to steer the conversation where you want it to go | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 05:04 PM |
| 78 | My Dating RulesAnother to add: eject on your own terms. Always. You be the one to stop a texting conversation. You be the one that has to end the lunch date to get back to the office. It says, "Hey, I've got a lot of stuff going on right now. You are not the most important thing in my life. You should work harder if you want to be." | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 03:33 PM |
| 5 | Submit your seduction gems and comments. Weekly edition!Except that one doesn't work in a seduction situation. Though admittedly I've never tried it. | /r/seduction | 21/03/11 02:46 PM |
| 3 | New Shoes Routine [FR] - A routine request.So it wasn't even worth it then. | /r/seduction | 20/03/11 06:59 PM |
| 5 | New Shoes Routine [FR] - A routine request.It depends on your venue. Phone numbers at parties are worthless - I don't even bother. | /r/seduction | 20/03/11 06:45 PM |
| 3 | New Shoes Routine [FR] - A routine request.Chocolate chip pancakes? | /r/seduction | 20/03/11 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, today it's my birthday, any FR and advices on your birthday?Wear a crown | /r/seduction | 18/03/11 08:25 PM |
| 3 | First [FR] # close at the gymIf she's got a boyfriend overseas in the military, do yourself a favor and don't sleep with her. You will not feel good about it, and there are plenty of other women that you don't have to feel like an ass for banging. | /r/seduction | 18/03/11 08:24 PM |
| 1 | [FR] St.Patrick's #-closeFor the number thing, I tend to get to a situation where she offers me her number instead of me asking for it. "I have to roll to SuchAndSuch Club to help my buddy meet people, but I hate to leave in the middle of conversation. We'll have to finish it some other time." "Yeah totally, blablabla" "How can we make that happen?" "Let me give you my number." This is usually much more effective for daygame or quieter night spots | /r/seduction | 18/03/11 08:17 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Ran into HB9 I F-closed on Tuesday while I was on a date with another HB on ThursdayExactly, especially since OP is in NYC. There are any number of other bars she could go to | /r/seduction | 18/03/11 06:06 PM |
| 3 | So I just got a puppy, how can I use that to my advantage?I assume it is starting to warm up where you are. Train him a bit, then when you see a skirt approaching, "accidentally" drop his leash and let him run up to her. Then bang. | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 11:38 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Natural History Museum, text messaging, 1st date lined upWiFi for wine. Got it. | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Best FR forum thread.BT's second post in that thread is some fucking alpha-boss text game BonoboTimes: I'm chillin in the back like venomous cobra brubru: What? Who is this? BT: You egnited a fire when I first layed eyes on you bb: Do I know you??? BT: That sexy black dress with a shaid of lipstick to kill bb: Who is this how do you have my number? BT: We shared an unforgetable experience at the holy chicken bb: OH, DUH! HI :) BT: I have to go. bb: Wait, do you want to hang out later :) NO RESPONSE THE STAGE IS SET … | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Best FR forum thread.As soon as 8setcutie is leaving Minotaur gets up and grabs her, she is clearly into it. Minotaur wants the pull so he pulls his dick out, literally. Then he squats down and goes to pick her up and caveman drag her out of there I'm not sure what happens after this but it's ultimately a no go. Still, MASSIVE PROPS to my boy. Ha. Loving it. | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 03:09 PM |
| 3 | How do you break your AA?The three-second rule. If you don't open a set within three seconds of seeing it, you will overthink it. It's far better to open too many sets than not enough. | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 03:02 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Cashier #-closeNightmare mode: start talking. Pause. Let a loud one rip. Continue talking. If you can close, you win. | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 03:00 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Natural History Museum, text messaging, 1st date lined upBecause it's a totally unique job. I was interested in hearing more about it if it were true. | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 02:59 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Subway to k-closeI like that. Or it could even be as simple as using mainly my opposite hand to make gestures emphasizing what I say. | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 02:39 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Cashier #-closeAlthough it needs a better name than "cropdusting". Most people know that as something else entirely. | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 02:33 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Cashier #-closeIt's even better because you can basically cropdust during your lunch break - swing to five or six different stores building rapport with each. A week later, you have a date for every night. | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 02:31 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Lost out to Jersey ShoreWhat the hell is wrong with people watching the Jersey Shore? If they are entertained by it, who am I to criticize them? I'm sure they'd find my taste in literature dull - that doesn't mean one of us is right and the other is wrong. Anyway, enough of my personal vendetta. That wasn't a bad opener at all, some sets just have no interest in enjoying themselves. | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Facebook Hack- to date chicks easierBetter idea - send ten messages telling them to meet at your place at 9. Odds are two or three will show up. Have plenty of booze on hand and stretch because you are in for a hell of a time. | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Would anyone be interested in a Montreal seddit?I'll have to look up the sedditors next time I'm in town | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 05:43 AM |
| 1 | [FR] More of the sameWhat is a language exchange? This sounds like a superb place to show off my French and Spanish. | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 05:41 AM |
| 1 | The Asian Penis Pickup (Thought you guys would get a kick out of this)Peacocking refers to using an outrageous piece of clothing or a hairstyle to stand way the fuck out from the crowd, similar to how a male peacock's plumage attracts a mate. | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 05:36 AM |
| 3 | The Asian Penis Pickup (Thought you guys would get a kick out of this)Exactly, unless you are in a place with a small population, it's not like you're going to run out of women. | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 05:34 AM |
| 2 | The Asian Penis Pickup (Thought you guys would get a kick out of this)Yeah. He has just the right amount of cockiness. | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 05:33 AM |
| 6 | Fearless.The point is to get your dick wet. No. It isn't. If that was the point, I would spend another hour at work and hire a nice prostitute. Sure, the overt endgame for many is sex, but for those of us who admit it, the game is much more subtle. Socrates tells us that "the unexamined life is not worth winning," and his words apply now just as much as they ever did. Why do PUAs go out to meet people? It's not for sex - I have a phone full of women who would love to come over to my apartment again. Sex … | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 05:28 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Natural History Museum, text messaging, 1st date lined upIs the grapes thing true? Because I'm totally going to steal a variation of that next time somebody asks me what I do. | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 05:11 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Elevator Day game screwupWell you didn't "screw up" in the sense that you didn't end up losing face. But you also missed a chance. Make an effort to run into her again before the end of the week. "Hey, it's Elevator Whistler!" (Really. Call her that.) Now you're knee-deep in the conversation. Keep it going for a few minutes with whatever material you want, and then eject on your terms. "Hey, I hate to cut our conversation short, but I have to go drive a train (I assume you are that kind of engineer)." "It was nice talki… | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 04:01 AM |
| 3 | (x-post) An anthem of the AFCs: She's Too Good for EveryoneNow I'll do things for you just like the other guys, debase myself in the tragic hope that it will make you desire me through my obedience, what have you made me become, and why don't I feel shame? | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 03:48 AM |
| 1 | How to Properly Seduce a Girl on the InternetIt's fake. Have you ever seen a chatroulette session with that kind of picture quality? | /r/seduction | 16/03/11 04:06 PM |
| 5 | I'm Sick & Fucking Tired Of Not Being Able To Approach Women. Give Me A Task, Anything, To Get Me Moving In The Right Direction. And I Will Do It Tomorrow. I Promise.You're gonna like the way you dance. I guarantee it. | /r/seduction | 16/03/11 04:04 PM |
| 3 | I'm Sick & Fucking Tired Of Not Being Able To Approach Women. Give Me A Task, Anything, To Get Me Moving In The Right Direction. And I Will Do It Tomorrow. I Promise.About two months ago, I had an 18-year-old guy ask me why I don't have any AA. "You're asking the wrong question. Why do you have AA? If you open and fail, what is the worst that could happen?" "I could look like an idiot." "Looking like an idiot isn't that bad. Go to a karaoke bar tomorrow and sing Spice Girls. Then next time you are afraid of embarrassing yourself, you can say, Well at least it can't be worse than that time I sang Spice Girls in front of a hundred people." | /r/seduction | 16/03/11 04:00 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Subway to k-closeAgreed. I love the tactic of alternating high eye contact and low eye contact. It gets her attempting to qualify herself, and you can use the eye contact as an NLP anchor for compliance. | /r/seduction | 16/03/11 03:54 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Subway to k-closeI don't. | /r/seduction | 16/03/11 02:00 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Subway to k-closeI'd let her tesselate my cheese slices, if you know what I mean. | /r/seduction | 16/03/11 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Brad Branson of RSD here to answer your questions! AMA!You seem to have a blog post for everything. What's your writing process like? Do you sit down and bang out a post in hour? Carry a notebook around and work on it a bit at a time? | /r/seduction | 16/03/11 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Quick [FR] for fellow newbs on the importance of wingmenYup. I'm writing a Wingman 101 post for my blog this week. I'll message you when it's up | /r/seduction | 16/03/11 02:48 AM |
| 3 | Brad Branson of RSD here to answer your questions! AMA!In your post, you recommend not responding to the "What are you doing tonight?" text. I come from the camp that says respond, but not until the next morning. "We went to Club Such-and-Such". To each his own, of course, but I just wanted to throw my hat in the ring. | /r/seduction | 16/03/11 02:42 AM |
| 3 | Quick [FR] for fellow newbs on the importance of wingmenA wingman is there to help his buddy close. Usually it is by helping him with a DHV, talking him up the target, occupying the rest of the set, or otherwise assisting. Tofu's rules for wingmen are a good place to start learning about winging. | /r/seduction | 16/03/11 02:39 AM |
| 2 | REMINDER: IAMA mPUA Interview Series continues TONIGHT at 7PM with Brad Branson from RSDI'm going to ask him how much a polar bear weighs . . . No, but really, here is a bit of background on Brad. | /r/seduction | 15/03/11 07:40 PM |
| 2 | What you're afraid of. (A note about AA)You need to learn to reframe your failed attempts as positives. Feel proud of the approach. Treat it like a school lesson. There is nothing wrong with failing a pickup - the worst that happens is that you are back where you started. It's literally a no-lose situation. "But Legion," you say, "I'll look like an idiot!" To whom? The girl you just flattered? The people around you? Trust me, they won't remember you the next day. If you are afraid of looking like an idiot, face that fear head on: Go t… | /r/seduction | 15/03/11 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Why does everyone seem to hate on Mystery so hard?He wrote a book that came out last year. | /r/seduction | 15/03/11 07:24 PM |
| 1 | [FR] texted her... Now I look like an asshole.Don't do the number-from-facebook thing. It's not a grave error and is very recoverable, but it's still not the best idea | /r/seduction | 15/03/11 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Quick trick - Do not call girls by their desired nicknamesNo problem, Snooki. | /r/seduction | 15/03/11 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Quick trick - Do not call girls by their desired nicknamesThis should absolutely be required reading. I'm thinking of putting together an infographic of the most applicable plays from the book. Which do you think are the most useful for a PUA? | /r/seduction | 15/03/11 03:02 PM |
| 5 | Quick trick - Do not call girls by their desired nicknamesAnd yet, Charlie Sheen is banging Bree Olsen | /r/seduction | 15/03/11 03:00 PM |
| 4 | Quick trick - Do not call girls by their desired nicknamesAnyone who is nailing Bree Olsen is cool in my book. | /r/seduction | 15/03/11 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Quick trick - Do not call girls by their desired nicknamesNightmare Mode: Insist on calling her "HB8" | /r/seduction | 15/03/11 02:58 PM |
| 35 | Let's Talk About Eye ContactAlpha as shit, man. | /r/seduction | 15/03/11 02:56 PM |
| 17 | Let's Talk About Eye ContactTry this for a day. Make eye contact with everyone, for the enitre time you are talking to them. Your doorman, your dry cleaner, the barista, your boss, clients - everyone. It will get your used to the idea of holding eye contact when you talk to somebody, and you'll soon learn to use it in your pickup. Conversely, denying eye contact can be a very powerful tool when used correctly. If you have been giving your contact strong eye contact for the duration of your pickup, you can break it in an ey… | /r/seduction | 15/03/11 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone lost friends during their 'journey'? Here's a thought.Here's the thing. I used it as a chance to build a new social circle, with me at the center. Maybe it's part of my need for validation, but I love having a group that depends on my to stay together | /r/seduction | 14/03/11 11:58 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Starting to get IOI's and My First Number CloseTry it out in a non-pickup frame too. "Hey boss man, have I been performing well?" "Yes." "Has our division been performing well?" "Yes." "Can we discuss my upcoming pay increase?" "FUCK YES WE CAN, BASSALBERT" | /r/seduction | 14/03/11 08:41 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Starting to get IOI's and My First Number CloseThe Yes-ladder can be extremely powerful - turns out people aren't so great at rationality. It is different than just going slowly, though. You have to make a conscious effort to create situations in which she is complying to your requests (bonus points if you can get her to vocalize the affirmations). | /r/seduction | 14/03/11 08:40 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Pet Store #-closeOh! And next time you find yourself in this kind of situation, it is a great chance to make a foray into an NLP technique called anchoring. Women love their dogs. By setting an anchor whenever she is thinking about her dog, you are able to use that anchor to bring up the feelings of attraction later. In fact, you may have done this to some degree with the treat (depending on how it fit in to the interaction). This is why it will be very advantageous to ask about the treat in your text message - … | /r/seduction | 14/03/11 08:27 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Pet Store #-closePet stores. Almost too easy, right? My opinions: I like the fact that you made her decision for her. Could have been made more alpha by saying, "There. Now you don't have to decide." Your way worked great, though. You didn't actually say "HB8 Petsmart", did you? Because that would be hilarious and awesome. For your text: Avoid the "nice meeting you" half. It's boring, beta, and AFC. Since you aren't sure if you introduced yourself, ending your text with --[your name] is a good idea. I like that … | /r/seduction | 14/03/11 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Tokyo Sedditors, are you okay?I've never taken to the HB notation. It's too . . . imprecise for my taste | /r/seduction | 11/03/11 09:03 PM |
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