[FR] Subway to k-close

zestyninja · 2011-03-16T11:04:51+00:00

I thought this was going to be about finding romance around a delicious sandwich.

frogma · 2011-03-16T14:14:00+00:00

You did everything fine. When I sit next to someone, most often on a bus or train, I take advantage of the power of eye contact by not using too much of it. I'm a high-value guy, so I'm not too invested in a conversation with a random girl. When I talk, I'll basically look into her soul, and when she talks I'll look her in the eye maybe half the time (more or less, and if she's shy you can have a huge effect by doing it more).

You still have to pay attention to social constraints, even though the whole idea is you're shattering them- eye contact is powerful, but if you use too much, it can have a negative effect: either making you seem intimidating, or making it seem like you're overcompensating for something. If you're using like 80% eye contact- which for me would be the upper end of "normal"- I think you seem too invested in the shit she's saying. At the right time, that's what you want, but at the wrong time, it's the opposite of what you want.

Media_Adept · 2011-03-16T21:16:48+00:00

You mentioned something in the field report about relying on eye contact but it being difficult in the subway.

Here's an example: If you're sitting on your left, you could make a comment about something that's on your right side of the body. It could be anything, button on your jacket(grandma made it for me!), tattoos, piercing, what have you. The reason why I say opposite side is that you're trying to open up, or have them lean their body in to get a better look at what you're mentioning.

I don't know if this works, but it's just an idea.

Title	[FR] Subway to k-close
Author	legion_pua
Upvotes	10
Comments	10
Date	March 16, 2011 4:54 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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