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That comment right there is t-shirt material.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 04:41 PM
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"oh sneaky girl, <insert whatever>" This seems like a great backup-cookie-cutter way to flip the pressure on a girl being passive aggressive.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 07:34 PM
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I am curious to see how balanced this subreddit can be, as it tries to be that bridge from the complete beta failings of places like /r/DeadBedrooms to the more Alpha-inducing /r/marriedredpill /r/marriedredpill is its own entity, it's not a support group for people that don't want to change, so /r/askMRP definitely does not need to try to be a bridge to any other group (ex. deadbedrooms, etc.).
/r/askMRP12/08/15 05:59 PM
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I don't think that was a shit test; it just seems like witty banter.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 08:25 PM
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It definitely is easier to perform the full press with the suicide grip, but I'm thinking that's probably because I'm lacking strength in another affected muscle. It's always better to take longer to learn something the right way, than to take a shortcut and realize ..I dunn goof'd.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 08:56 PM
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I was always taught to hold the bar in the "suicide grip"; consider one more person educated with your post.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 07:49 PM
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That was a fantastic response. Thanks for the clarification.
/r/MGTOW31/07/15 04:47 PM
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omgomgomg finally someone that understands me and the language of my people! Wanna spot me sometime brah? ...crap I forgot the capslock again..
/r/MGTOW30/07/15 05:37 PM
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Had to be done.
/r/MGTOW30/07/15 03:29 PM
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Appreciate the support internet bro. Keep doing you, everything else is background noise.
/r/MGTOW30/07/15 03:18 PM
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Endorphins after gymming, getting amped after muderizing my goals: gotta love them chemicals yo! I met this MGTOW guy when in Vegas, and we were like instant-bros as soon as he told me he was MGTOW. For everything he said about MGTOW, I said something about TRP and we both grew from that discussion. Can you please help me understand this "hate"?
/r/MGTOW30/07/15 03:16 PM
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Get off your high horse. Nobody is here to spam MGTOW or to ruin it. I'm here to learn. The background material that helped me get where I am today has been TRP, so that's what I'm using as a metric. Instead of turning men off of MGTOW by being a straight up jackass, how about trying to help a community of which you're a part? If you need examples of how - look below at other commenters from this sub.
/r/MGTOW30/07/15 03:08 PM
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So MGTOW is more about doing your own thing no matter what, whether it's video games, gymming or work. While TRP tells you to focus on just the things women find attractive: gymming, work and game with women. Does that summarize (sorta) the differences?
/r/MGTOW30/07/15 02:46 PM
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How does TRP make men dance like "entertainment monkeys for sex"? And how is MGTOW the opposite? I'm trying to learn here, for all I know MGTOW is more in-line with my world view than TRP.
/r/MGTOW30/07/15 02:42 PM
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Copy/paste'ing my reply to another guy. That's the key though. I understand that "love" is just a bunch of chemicals, but that doesn't mean I can't enjoy them, 'cause they make me feel good. When/if my relationship with my wife ends, there's no disney bullshit story of omg-my-life-is-ovaa; I simply move on to something else that makes me feel good.
/r/MGTOW29/07/15 03:44 PM
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That's the key though. I understand that "love" is just a bunch of chemicals, but that doesn't mean I can't enjoy them, 'cause they make me feel good. When/if my relationship with my wife ends, there's no disney bullshit story of omg-my-life-is-ovaa; I simply move on to something else that makes me feel good. I'm kind of surprised at the TRP-hate on MGTOW. I always thought the two were brothers-in-arms.
/r/MGTOW29/07/15 03:42 PM
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TRP guys work to be the object of women's desires to gain the approval of women. That's not true. TRP explicitly says not to become an approval-seeking guy. It's all about working on yourself, which has the bonus effect of attracting women; the focus has always been on the man's life improvement. How is that different from MGTOW?
/r/MGTOW29/07/15 03:35 PM
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"Don't get me wrong I love my family" ...wait , I actually do. Don't get me wrong, it's not easy. I still struggle with holding frame, 'cause my wife keeps evolving her tactics to get under my skin; I just keep running my MAP. At the end of the day, I run my ship and make sure that my crew (just my wife for now) is kept safe and healthy. I'm happier and more in control of my life than EVER before. And you know what, maybe my wife and I won't work out. So what. I'll move on. I've found TRP and wi…
/r/MGTOW28/07/15 04:56 PM
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I took them over because my wife was doing more than her share and I determined that it was "fair" for me to step it up at home. Even though your comment is almost half a year old, totally answered my question. Thanks for keeping it real BPProf.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 08:43 PM
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It's great that the woman in this article is wise enough to realize her mistakes ....but the onus is still on the guy to man up; she's just become his crutch.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 04:35 PM
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Just ignore/disarm/agree&amplify it and continue escalating. Ignore: Self-explanatory Disarm: I don't see him here; it'll be our little secret. A&A: Your boyfriend is probably making you dinner right now ...let's get you some desert first. If she still keeps bringing it up, tell her it's unattractive and soft next her. As a redpill man, your time is not to be wasted.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 03:20 PM
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Out of sight, out of mind. You're telling her that if he isn't there, don't worry about it. Similar to when a girl says "I have a boyfriend", you can disarm it by saying "I don't see him here."
/r/askTRP14/07/15 03:03 PM
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My problem (as per latest update), is that I ended up explaining why she was being childish instead of showing myself to be the leader that could handle it. How would you go about doing rather than talking in my case?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 02:33 PM
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I'm assuming this is said in a cocky/funny kind of way, a sort of agree & amplify OR is this more of a nuclear option? ..still unplugging.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 02:31 PM
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That's a really interesting point. Wife knew I had plans for this weekend; throws a shit test to see if I'm gonna bail, which WAS (and has historically been) my first reaction. So the shit test is basically a way to see whether the trip is even worth going on.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 08:29 PM
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Agreed on your first point, and glad the text I shot her is similar to the one you recommended. Second point: I've found women in general, my wife in particular, couldn't care about reasoning. I'd much rather react in a leadership-capacity showing her that she can't continue acting like a child, than try and explain it to her.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 07:17 PM
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Quick response to your EDIT: Nope, you were right. It's about her not paying her portion of the rent. I'm paying for the trip. Running around at work, so can't properly comment on rest yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 07:07 PM
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Solid reply. Thanks for clearing up the nuances there.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 05:57 PM
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Question for you professor: If he's already out, and it's easier for him to pick up the stuff she forgot, how is him getting her things "damseling"?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 03:46 PM
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It's a shit test. Girls will say the darndest things (hehe), just to mess up your frame. Their insults will literally leave you speechless, until you have worked on your frame.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 02:22 PM
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Throw the number away. Let it be a reminder that she's just a girl and there will always be others. You're the catch. Now work on getting yourself from a 3 to a 10.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 08:49 PM
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Agreed with everything, but explain me this: Why BP "feelz"? Shouldn't it be more "beta feelz"? I'm coming from the frame that BP and RP mentalities go hand-in-hand when trying for a LTR. It's more a question of your use of BP vs beta than OP's story.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 04:04 PM
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This seems like you're pleading with her. I would just avoid the second line.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 07:18 PM
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This resonates pretty hard man. If I'm at at that fork in the road, I really hope I can choose the right path.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 04:17 PM
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This makes sense in a weird way. ...but wouldn't that still be validation-seeking from someone else?
/r/askTRP04/03/15 04:11 PM
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What if your little niece was to say that to you? React that way and move forward. You're thinking way too hard about it. If your niece said that to you would it affect your day at all? Treat random shit tests the same way, they are of no value and should be ignored.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 08:46 PM
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That makes sense. Solid reply.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 04:11 PM
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"Hot and good fun in bed" are qualities of a plate, not an LTR. Could you explain that last comment? From RP, I've taken that when you're able to maintain frame and increase attraction in a LTR, she will be compelled to be damn good in bed (if only to increase her SMV to match yours).
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 04:00 PM
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LTRs have more of a push-pull dynamic. Yes, you continue doing the RP goodness that got you the girl (push), but there also needs to be appropriate comforting BP stuff (pull). As /u/OneTouchHowMuch said, the pulling is done only outside the bedroom
/r/askTRP11/12/14 06:19 PM
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Women hate beta men. My theory is that this hate is the result of their own self-hatred for 'settling' with the beta in the first place. In any case, this hatred drives them to humiliate the beta man at every opportunity. Just wanted to highlight this gem.
/r/askTRP11/12/14 06:02 PM
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Practical advice like this is why this subreddit is amazing. Thanks.
/r/askTRP11/12/14 04:47 PM
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Solid response; very well thought out. It seems that simply asking the girl when she's free leaves more options for you than making plans then having her join. Would you go as far as to say that asking should be the primary question, and making plans the secondary? I know that each situation is different, but I'm trying to find patterns that work well most of the time.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 07:20 PM
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Would it better to ask her when she's free or to make a plan of your own and tell her to join if she'd like? Most RP posts I've read lean towards the latter, but I'm thinking the first response also might be easier to her to swallow. Discuss.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 07:07 PM
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she considered it, but then laughed it off.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 06:20 PM
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Solid advice here man. Thanks.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 04:00 PM
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lol I've been doing this already; didn't think it was nuclear. I was just having a laugh ...didn't meet with as much hesitation as I expected either, so I've got that going for me.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 03:57 PM
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lol funny enough, I've mentioned that she should bring her slutty friend over for a 3some; didn't meet with as much hesitation as I expected.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 03:56 PM
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Solid advice.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 03:53 PM
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dat cold harsh truth Thanks internet bro, needed that.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 03:46 PM
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Agreed, but I'm more concerned with how you would handle the situation.
/r/askTRP09/12/14 09:58 PM
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I can only go off of what she has told me and what I've experienced: Has she ever dated (fucked) one of them? Nope. She was a virgin when we met. Also has not dated them (AFAIK). Does she provide them with value or are they just orbiters? Neither. They're friends that she's known from schooling and she's kept in touch with them. Is their SMV higher than yours? Yes and no. My job, sociability, potential future are all better than theirs; however, their jobs are more physical in nature, so they're…
/r/askTRP09/12/14 09:56 PM
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"Oh god, another feminist, hide yo' kids, hide yo' wife." lmaoo that's brilliant.
/r/askTRP09/12/14 08:41 PM
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From my experience, handcuffs are never a bad thing to have lying around when a plate comes over.
/r/askTRP09/12/14 08:40 PM
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My wife does have some of the red flags from the post that I xposted in my OP, namely her not being very feminine and that she has more guy friends than girl friends; the other flags don't apply. Her family and upbringing have been awesome though, and I know she has her priorities straight. My issue is more that she might start idolizing her slut-friend, since her relationship history was pretty vanilla (AFAIK she only had two serious relationships before meeting me). Given all that, am I over-t…
/r/askTRP09/12/14 08:38 PM
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I wouldn't say it's her only friend, but she definitely spends a lot more time with her than with her other friends. Whenever I've called out her slut-friend, you're right, she does become defensive, but she won't push her arguments further. Would that be a good enough sign or am I hamstering?
/r/askTRP09/12/14 08:30 PM
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I agree with this 100%. I've never told her to not hang out with her friends, I simply tell her what I think of them. Is this the wrong approach? What approach would you use in this situation?
/r/askTRP09/12/14 08:09 PM
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If my wife is telling me about her slut friend's date, I'll tell my wife: a)she's out looking for a guy to settle down with, b)she's going to cheat, c)she's a straight up slut You're saying I should a)agree & amplify, b)ignore, c)any of the other shit test responses? More importantly, how is my response blue pill? Not being argumentative here, just trying to learn.
/r/askTRP09/12/14 08:07 PM
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Add No More Mr. Nice Guy to that list. Those 3 books are my foundation.
/r/askTRP09/12/14 06:49 PM
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It's really easy to get drunk off the "put your needs first" mentality that RP tries to teach betas. Your post was very sobering. something something moderation.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/14 04:52 PM
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This was good stuff to read. It's good to see that the backlash is normal, and it's even better that you gave an example of how you dealt with it. Solid post.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/14 06:48 PM
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This is a fantastic line! Borrowing for later.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 08:22 PM
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This isn't really a TRP thing ...maybe you could see this as a "holding frame" exercise (shrug). Sit them down and tell them what you want. Ask them what they want. Find a compromise. Don't let their relationship get in the way of your fun. You live there too; figure out something that works for all of you. Keep it classy.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 06:30 PM
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I disagree. I'm one of the turban-wearing Sikh badasses, so I have a fair idea of the ignorance of people. Ignorant people are just children that don't know any better; treating their ignorant comments as shit tests automatically adds leverage to your SMV. It's like having a huge target on your back, but you already have a solid defense (and sometimes counter-attack) ready. It just makes you look that much better when you effectively deal with racism ....almost like a superpower.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 01:40 PM
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Sikh guy checking in. Sexuality in Indian culture is generally taboo and is seen as a vice rather than something to embrace; yeah Karma Sutra etc etc, but day-to-day culture makes sexuality a bad thing. Indian guys are slowly, but surely learning what works. I grew up/live in Toronto and have seen a very steady increase in Indian guys increasing their SMVs and getting better-quality women. Lol I still can't figure out how all black dudes make dancing look so easy.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 01:33 PM
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Turban-wearing, beard-flaunting Sikh here. OP checks out. I've always used my appearance/beliefs as leverage in relationships. My other Indian friends always seemed so confused as to why they can't attract non-Indian girls ....they revel in their stereotypes too much. Although I grew up in Toronto (pretty multicultural), my results have been awesome wherever I've traveled.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 01:20 PM
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It's not the girl you miss, it's the connections you had with her. I think that after dating so much, you've simply become jaded that you can't find/forge a similar connection with someone else. You won't. Mainly because you're not your younger self. Not all women are catty, self-absorbed bitches (as seems to be your dating experience); I would consider expanding your social circle to simply allow a larger variety of girls into your life. A "connection" is simply someone that understands you, so…
/r/askTRP17/10/14 07:17 PM
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It's awesome that you're improving yourself; you're right it wasn't clear in your OP. An overlooked idea is simply to give yourself some space and have an internal dialogue. Ask yourself the hard questions and see where that leads you.
/r/askTRP17/10/14 04:10 PM
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I'm going to be very blunt. You're not here to improve yourself, you're here to learn some quick tricks to fuck a random chick. TRP has to do with continual improvement, you have shown you don't understand this. Some points: You keep putting up with this girl's shit behavior showing you don't value yourself. You buying her stuff does not mean she owes you sex; the point of TRP is to be a so damn amazing that she's jumping you on her own accord. Also, stop buying her stuff. Your parents seem to b…
/r/askTRP17/10/14 03:45 PM
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Must've missed that point. such a move might be played as an Agree & Amplify, so long as the proper tone is used to show that you aren't truly offended. Right on the money! We're on the same page internet brotha.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/14 06:13 PM
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I agree with most of your post, except your example at the end. If you want your wife to behave with a higher standard, you have to as well. You lead, she follows. Calling her a bitch in such a passive-aggressive way actually makes you the bitch for acting out in such a petty way. Own the situation; have fun with it. Don't give in to the easy rebuttals. It only validates their shit behavior. It's extremely difficult to start this ball rolling ..trust me, I was doing the same thing (insults, yell…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/14 02:07 PM
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From your other posts, it's clear that she knows this was a NSA relationship; as such, your response was perfect. There are no cookie-cutter responses since each relationship is different. Your response fit your relationship perfectly. Keep on pillin' internet brotha.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 03:06 PM
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He's not being a douche. /u/asd1100 is simply being blunt. Your question was very vague. Do you want suggestions on the date, whether he's being brushed off, an analysis on their boy-girl dynamic? Regardless of what you do want answered here, there's very little information provided. My suggestion for your friend: find something he enjoys doing, invite the girl and frame it as a date. He's being too damn vague, girls see through that nonsense.
/r/trpGAME10/10/14 02:11 PM
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Dont fuck the male trainers. Pee all over them.
/r/askTRP03/10/14 02:30 PM
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TRP is about bettering/changing yourself until your idols become your competition. You can't change height. So why worry about how it's "holding you back"? Fuck that mentality. You're awesome and if you don't think you are then make yourself awesome.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 08:25 PM
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Thank you for everything you've said. In terms of philosophy, I'm more on OP's boat, but I'm also guilty of having being swept up in OP's Braveheart-esque-fuck-yeah! post. That's why your post had a fantastic grounding effect where it kinda forced me to be a bit more objective. If we don't hold women to higher standards, who else will? I've said this before and I'll say it again: this subreddit's ability to handle different ideas and question everything is amazing.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 08:20 PM
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That goes back to your initial question: 1) The fact that there are many younger, more attractive, smarter, etc. women out there To which I replied Devil's advocating is why we're all here. That's why I love this subreddit, so many awesome questions!
/r/askTRP01/10/14 06:54 PM
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Women have it a bit easier than men. For a woman to improve her SMV, she just needs to put out more. The idea behind keeping your SMV high is that you'll start getting the attention of other women who also have high SMVs. Your wife will see this and should start either upping her sluttiness (sluttiness is not a bad thing here) in the bedroom and if that's not enough, start working out/ dressing better. As the man, you must lead by example! Women will usually try to keep their guy's SMV down (les…
/r/askTRP01/10/14 05:56 PM
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A bit of a conception here. TRP is not just about spinning plates. TRP is about seeing the BS that society feeds you and rising above it. When you rise above it, yes you will be spinning more plates ('cause that's what guys do ...evolution, blah blah, etc.). More importantly though is the rising above part of TRP. As such, you can say that TRP is more about continuous improvement (including the ability to spin plates).
/r/askTRP01/10/14 05:32 PM
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Your SMV needs to remain high. Again Athol Kay's The Married Man Sex Life Primer puts it very eloquently (I can't take credit for this insight): Consider what would happen if two 6s marry and the woman becomes health focused and dresses to impress consistently, and blossoms into a 7. At the same time her husband starts as a 6 and then struggles to work and turns into a couch potato, hits 350 pounds and falls to a 2. What was a balanced male 6 to female 6 relationship is now a badly imbalanced ma…
/r/askTRP01/10/14 05:30 PM
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EDIT: updated to answer edited (and much clearer) question 1) The fact that there are many younger, more attractive, smarter, etc. women out there This comes down to what you want out of life. I want a nuclear family with a smart/capable/maternal woman. The above takes into account that no two women are the same and that there is no such thing as "one true love" (seriously, fuck disney). The best bet is to find a woman that meets most of your requirements and then you sort of polish the rougher …
/r/askTRP01/10/14 02:43 PM
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If OP's buddy was intentionally out to make OP look bad, yes total dick move; it seems like the buddy just didn't know how to handle the situation and reacted by paying for her drink. Without knowing OP's buddy a little better, both of us a grasping at straws.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 03:11 PM
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I try to counter this by just not reacting to it I understand where you're coming from, but as you already stated, your lack of reaction means they'll continue until they get a reaction out of you. You need to put your foot down (not out of anger), just clearly and slowly tell them to stop. The fact that you're generally quiet will work to your advantage here, because your words carry more weight (as they're heard less often). If this pattern of them bullying you (which is what it is) has been g…
/r/askTRP30/09/14 02:01 PM
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Although I agree with your general sentiment (the buddy should have known better), I don't think the girl or his buddy were out to make him look bad. Seems like his buddy just doesn't do well in awkward situations ...which means it's even more powerful if OP is able to handle himself well in those situations.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 01:43 PM
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This was the most on-point advice. You're over thinking this too much OP. Maintain frame and remember an abundance mentality ...would a guy that has tonnes of options be worried what a couple of girls are thinking? Ask her. See what she says. Then judge her by her actions. If she lies: next her.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 01:45 PM
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Your last point is dead-on. Get her gay friends involved in teasing her; if you can bring them to "your side", it'll make your game that much more powerful. You also handled yourself pretty well with her shit test. Don't overthink it, you're on the right track.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 03:06 PM
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I would think the same applies for gay friends as female friends. I'd still subtly flirt a little with the gay guys; the key take-away here being that you're comfortable enough in your sexuality and literally oozing off confidence that it'll make everyone feel the tingles, gay or straight. Nothing has changed from regular game. Getting everyone in the group dynamic comfortable is still the best strategy. Yes, her gay friends will definitely be more overprotective, but once you've passed that "ba…
/r/askTRP23/09/14 01:29 PM
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It seems like you had an end goal in mind (fucking her), but didn't isolate and escalate the situation. Then you beat yourself up about it and went cold shoulder on her. When you let your lack of poon get to you, you lost frame (as seen by the cold shoulder): that's the beta behavior. Regardless, you recovered pretty well by continuing to have fun on your own and getting other numbers, but it seems like you still regretted not banging it out at her place. It doesn't seem like you messed up that …
/r/trpGAME19/09/14 03:26 PM
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Solid advice. Especially liked the part about your binary-hotness scale. Totally using it from now on.
/r/trpGAME17/09/14 01:40 PM
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Fantastic advice.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 07:17 PM
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Solid. Thanks for point it out.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 05:53 PM
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You're a true lady, and your father is an inspiration.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 07:19 PM
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Reading this makes me so happy. I'm 28 and I can't wait to see the world you young 20-something redpillers will forge. Fuck yea internet bro!
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 01:37 PM
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You have eagle-eyes. Totally glossed over that part.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 09:09 PM
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This isn't /r/seduction
/r/askTRP03/09/14 08:50 PM
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"Your the sweetest asshole I've ever met, but your definitely an asshole hug". You're doing it right. Keep doing it.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 01:55 PM
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Usually I'd recommend spinning plates, but OP is so out of touch that he needs Monk Mode more than anything else.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 08:55 PM
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Agreed, that's not the best environment to develop masculine traits. The great thing out of all this is that you found your way to this subreddit. That in of itself is fantastic news in your life. See the good in everything, this right here, this is the good.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 08:53 PM
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"You don't set out to build a wall. You don't say 'I'm going to build the biggest, baddest, greatest wall that's ever been built.' You don't start there. You say, 'I'm going to lay this brick as perfectly as a brick can be laid. You do that every single day. And soon you have a wall." - Will Smith Don't get lost in the noise. Don't lose confidence 'cause you have to climb a mountain. Start by putting one foot in front of the other. First step(s): go to the gym (/r/fitness). If the price is too h…
/r/askTRP18/08/14 08:47 PM
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/r/askTRP18/08/14 08:41 PM
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Dose of reality: You're not just a beta, you're a whiny manipulative child throwing tantrums when you don't get your way. Then you try and manipulate people further with some false sense of "oh no, I'm not worth of your kindness". That is bullshit. You fucked up. Not because she's so much better than you, but because you never tried to become better than yourself. Stop seeing all girls, you're not emotionally ready for a relationship. You're a child. Grow the fuck up first. Work on yourself: go …
/r/askTRP18/08/14 05:38 PM
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The smoking issue is a bit blurrier. I'm instantly turned off by girls that smoke (I'm sure the same applies to girls that are checking you out). Regardless, smoking is an easy way to socialize with girls that smoke: offer a light, cop a smoke, etc. I'd say it comes down to more of a lifestyle choice. If you want to smoke, smoke. If you don't want to, don't. Whether girls think less/more of you shouldn't play a role in this decision. Personally, I'd say you should stop smoking. The benefits of n…
/r/askTRP18/08/14 04:26 PM
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You're going to the gym regularly, working on your wardrobe and generally showcasing yourself well (this is an on-going process, so don't think you're done). From what I understand, SMV also has a lot to do with game. Go out and socialize with people: clubs/bars are great, but also join groups that you like whether it's yoga, some band, martial arts, whatever. Getting real-world practice in the social aspects of life is very key in improving your SMV.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 04:11 PM
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This is a solid point, given the LTR status of his relationship ...but how should he backpedal while maintaining frame?
/r/askTRP18/08/14 04:06 PM
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This was a fantastic point. Posts like this that break it down so simply are frickin beautiful.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 04:02 PM
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Fuck those people telling you to apologize
/r/trpGAME12/08/14 03:03 PM
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What do you mean by "[I] can't do better"? Our relationship started off with my being very redpill (didn't know I was doing it, was simply using game learned from David DeAngelo's material), and remained so until the wedding planning, at which point I totally see myself going blue. From MMSL, I'm naturally BP, it's the RP I need to turn way up. Am I hamstering myself when thinking that my wife wants a RP husband with BP tones?
/r/askTRP28/07/14 09:37 PM
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So at what point do I apply RP methods? Without applying the RP methods, how else do I move into a RP frame? I'm still reading the sidebar material as well as going through MMSL ...maybe I'm just being impatient.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 09:02 PM
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Your advice for chore-fights is surprisingly useful. Didn't think I'd find such an easy/applicable way to handle the situation. Thanks buddy. I'm faking it till I make it right now. So these examples are totally keeping me afloat while I get myself red-pill'd.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 09:00 PM
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lmaoo cheers buddy, this got a smile out of me. will work on footwork tonight/
/r/askTRP28/07/14 08:58 PM
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I'm 28 and she's 26, married for a year end-of-month August. Lived at my parent's place for the first 6 months of married life, so she built up her ammo on my family (they don't get along). Agreed with the ultimatums being a bad idea ...never realized that's how I was framing that part of my life. As another commentor here said, I need to be more stoic.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 08:57 PM
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Stupidly, I thought she'd stop the drama when I laid down the law ...it's good to know what to expect: she'll amp up her drama to continue the shit test). These examples are a huge help. Thanks you.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 08:55 PM
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This hit home. Thank you. I'm not ready to call it quits just yet, but your input is definitely being heard; I'm not as against divorce as before my initial post. I don't want to run from a problem I know I can fix, especially when I'm the only one that can fix it. If it becomes more problematic, will cut her out and move on.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 08:52 PM
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What kind of therapist? I've never considered it, but I'm willing to try.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 02:11 PM
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Thank you for this. It's funny, I thought I was working towards a more redpill mindset; it's like the more you learn, the more you realize you have so much more to learn.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 12:31 AM
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Agreed. Throwing shit makes me childish. Will promptly stop.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 11:07 PM
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The crazy thing is, I do all the flirty stuff anyways so I'm often able to deflect her tantrums into flirty times. She seems to push my buttons on purpose when we have plans to go to my parent's place and I'm very sensitive to fights concerning my family (something she exploits at all turns). I'm about half-way through MMSL (the book), and I've been trying to incorporate a lot of the material ...it's just the transition from the blue-pill me to what I want to be is rough.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 11:04 PM
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I'm 28 and she's 26, we've been married since August of last year; dated for about a year before that. We lived at my parent's place for the first 6 months or our married life, so we've been living together since February. I've already figured out that she WILL push my buttons when I'm mad, so I will definitely follow this advice.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 10:59 PM
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I had the right frame while we were dating, but definitely lost it during the marriage planning part of our relationship. I was always on the defensive RE: my family, and that changed my frame. Your advice is the tough love I need. Thanks internet bro.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 10:53 PM
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From what I understand from your question, it's not the kids aspect you're concerned with so much as the marriage part... if I'm mistaken, correct me. If I'm correct, then understand that taking the red pill doesn't mean you're against marriage; it means you're not willing to sacrifice your sanctity of life by being a doormat for your wife. A great read is Married Man Sex Life Primer. It offers up the argument that beta and alpha traits are not inherently good or bad, it's when you have too much…
/r/askTRP18/07/14 09:18 PM
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I have a similar saying I use with my wife. If we're arguing or just teasing, I'll just call her "woman" instead of using her name. She'll usually counter with something like "little boy". My comeback to that is, "Well this little boy had enough game to pull in a woman. Just imagine what I'm gonna do next." Add in a smirk and a wink, and I'm good to go.
/r/askTRP10/07/14 12:50 PM
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Travel. It's one of the greatest way to step out of your comfort zone and grow/learn. There are also these Buddhist "silent" camps. You pretty much go to a retreat center and chill our for as long as you want. The catch: no communicating with anyone in any way. Supposed to allow for all the inner noise you have to shut up. Then you donate whatever amount you feel you can when you want to leave. It's on my to-do list, seems kinda cool. Psychedelics are great for introspection (as already said by …
/r/askTRP10/07/14 12:46 PM
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I would agree completely with the sentiment of the women needing to step it up. If a woman's menstruation is causing her to be moody, the woman needs to realize this and stop. It has nothing to do with a woman vs. man issue, that's a simple courtesy issue. If a man is having troubles and is moody, it's just as much his responsibility to step it up and stop. Using any excuse to willfully act out is wrong, whether it's a man or woman. I understand that some women have menstruation cycles that grea…
/r/MensRights13/06/14 08:36 PM
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The way he handled himself is indeed a red pill topic. It's a lesson in how not to handle yourself. /u/dherik made a solid observation from this post, that in and of itself proves this is a red pill topic.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 02:19 PM
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This guys gets it. Can confirm. Happily married man. Don't get it twisted though, there are tonnes of fights, but that's how you get over issues. Also, keep using TRP teachings even inside a marriage and your marriage will be fuckin' fantastic.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 05:51 PM
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I totally agree, but I've found that bringing it up is a great way to start the healing process. The strongest guys I've had the good fortune of meeting are often those that have come from a rough past and transcended it. Forums like this are a great place to start; gone are the days of guys talking around a campfire about the silliness of life.
/r/MensRights12/03/14 02:00 PM
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Thanks for opening up bud. You should xpost to other sub-reddits; this point of view isn't mentioned much.
/r/MensRights11/03/14 09:13 PM
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