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Social Issuesleitey/r/MensRights23/12/18 11:33 AM
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The government bailouts are nice
/r/PussyPassDenied02/01/21 04:22 PM
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By responding, you stopped ghosting her. She wins. Say nothing, and she can figure it out.
/r/seduction13/03/19 07:11 AM
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Assuming the guy didn't report it, do you really think they'll prosecute? I've contacted my local police department's facebook page once before (about a ruptured water main bubbling out of the ground), and they didn't even respond.
/r/MensRights23/12/18 01:02 PM
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As much as I'd love to see her face justice, I doubt any prosecutor will go after her off of a facebook confession. If you know one, I'll happily pass it along. But I'm not one to encourage mob justice (as the guy in this story faced).
/r/MensRights23/12/18 12:36 PM
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Fair enough. I understand now.
/r/seduction14/08/16 06:24 PM
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Your observations are accurate, but you base all your conclusions on the premise that Nice Guys are primarily, and exclusively, motivated by sex. In my experience, a Nice Guy's primary desire is to be needed. Additionally, a Nice Guy may also want some combination of the following: to be accepted, to be wanted (as a friend/companion), to be wanted (desired sexually), to be involved in a romantic relationship, etc. You repeat the claim the Nice Guys just want sex, and totally miss the fact Nice G…
/r/seduction14/08/16 04:30 AM
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You are stuck on one girl. Start focusing on other girls, forcing this one to pursue you. She won't invest in you if there is no need for her to do so.
/r/seduction16/05/14 12:52 PM
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Let me clarify this. Flaking is rude. If you make plans for a date, you need to keep them. If an emergency arises, and you need to cancel, you make it up to the person. Ultimately, it is up to you to determine how you are treated. So she flakes, you deserve to be treated better, you walk away. That said, you don't burn bridges. You can still shoot her a message when you are going out with your friends, or something where it doesn't matter if she shows up or not. You are staying on her radar, pla…
/r/seduction07/02/14 09:04 PM
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A common remark in this sub is that it's a game. There are rules. You manipulate girls to get them to have sex with you (which is itself wrong, because the goal isn't always sex, although that is what people brag about most). In some sense, it is a game, with rules. In any social interaction there are all sorts of unwritten social rules. Here, we write those rules down and discuss them. We have analytical minds, and we learn better by laying out a plan. Many of us have little or no experience wi…
/r/seduction20/11/13 10:53 AM
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Thanks for searching first before posting your question. :p
/r/seduction01/07/11 09:42 PM
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How about this: If you don't approach, you will not succeed, and you will go home alone. This is the only outcome. If you do approach, you might fail, and you could move on to the next girl. You might end up going home alone, but you have lost nothing. If you do approach, you might not succeed, but you might enjoy the conversation, get experience, or make a new friend, and improve your social status. If you do approach, you might succeed, and you might close. The only way to find out is to try.
/r/seduction19/06/11 03:22 AM
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His penis gets bigger. Shouldn't be too hard to notice.
/r/seduction18/06/11 07:47 AM
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I like this idea. Thanks for sharing..
/r/seduction16/06/11 11:20 AM
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This, plus kino.
/r/seduction02/06/11 10:38 PM
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Get a job. Get money. Get your shit together. Bitches love it when you have your shit together.
/r/seduction18/05/11 08:27 PM
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Any (especially attractive) girl in your company ups your social proof. But that's not a wingwoman. A good wingwoman opens the target so you don't have to, and usually with 95% effectiveness. Even the best PUA can't open other girls with that kind of success rate. Is there something that the wingwomen can specifically say or do that isn't too obvious or overt? Leave that up to your wingwoman. She's probably okay with talking to other girls without needing guidance. But for your own personal info…
/r/seduction08/05/11 07:30 PM
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You can call it whatever you want to call it, but my relationships aren't based around being just at the right place at the right time. That's just meeting someone. Relationships are based on mutual interests, and intellectual connections, and trust, and all that. If you told her "I met 4 girls the week I met you, and you were the one I went for" it really doesn't seem like that big of a deal. Or, if you want to get down to it try: "I feel like I have trouble meeting girls, so I tried approachin…
/r/seduction08/05/11 07:00 PM
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Basically let the wingwoman lead. The wingwoman goes over to the target, talks about whatever girls talk about, befriends the target, brings her over to you, and you take it from there. It helps get through the target's bitch shield. Also, just having other girls around helps your perceived social status.
/r/seduction08/05/11 06:39 PM
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Idk, I don't really set a goal when I go out. I just try and enjoy the moment. When I was new to the whole thing, I set goals. I'd set a goals to talk to a certain number of girls per hour/day/bar. Anymore, I don't have much trouble getting laid/meeting girls. I just go out to have fun, and I do.
/r/seduction05/05/11 01:20 AM
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If that's the case, I commend you. Doing it just for the sake of doing it. Best way to have a good time.
/r/seduction04/05/11 11:46 PM
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Back story is that my friend was invited out by this girl he met at a club a couple of weeks ago. Turns out he'd been texting her a lot over the week and it seemed he really thought she was cute. Wouldn't that make you the wing that night? What did you do to help your buddy out? The girl came with friends, did you engage them to allow your friend to isolate his target? Yes, wingman fail.
/r/seduction01/05/11 05:10 PM
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It sounds like you have AA, and the only reason you talked to the shot girl was because she approached you. These girls usually give out their number to anyone, some even have 2 phones, just for this purpose. Don't start out by trying to pick up bartenders/waitresses/shot girls/strippers. You will run into this kinda thing all the time. You have to run a whole different style of pickup for those girls. I find spontaneity works best here. Show her that you're fun, then attempt to isolate. "We're …
/r/seduction01/05/11 05:05 PM
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There's a balance. I know a guy that is the definition of "dominant". He's full of himself, cocky, opinionated, and always has to be the one in charge. He's big (muscular) and will fight anyone for any reason. He's hated by females and males alike. There's a big difference between "alpha" (being someone that other people want to know), and "dominant" (being in charge). Personally, I don't use the term "alpha" at all. Instead we say "ABA", meaning "Always be Awesome".
/r/seduction30/04/11 07:12 PM
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No link, just personal experience. I'm really white, and have tried tanning in a bunch of different places, and they always recommend that I tan in a regular bed for about 1/3 of the usual time (usually 6 minutes), and work up to a full session. Then one place I tried gave me a full tour, and explained that high pressure beds use facial tanning bulbs, which emit mostly UVB, and that UVA was what burned you. I've been using the high pressure beds ever since, and never been burned by them, despite…
/r/seduction26/04/11 03:48 PM
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If you're really white, go 3-4 times in a high pressure bed before going tanning (indoor or outdoor). They are usually the most expensive, but high pressure beds are designed to tan you without burning. I've been to many tanning places, and most of them don't know this, since high pressure beds are usually used by the hardcore tanners. I just wanted a little tan without getting fried.
/r/seduction25/04/11 10:24 PM
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Excellent post. I have felt this way about things for awhile now. r/dating_advice just got a new subscriber.
/r/seduction24/04/11 11:03 PM
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But how many people do you see who see it just as a way to pick up women? I see it all the time on here. Seduction is about taking charge of your life, pushing yourself, exploring new hobbies/activities, having fun, being social, and just being the type of person that other people want to be around. A result of this is that girls will want to be with you. Maybe calling it 'seduction' is the wrong term. Reading a lot of the comments/threads, you can see that many people see this as an instruction…
/r/seduction19/04/11 03:29 PM
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Have your shit together. The older you get, the less patience you have for people who don't have their life in order. That means you have to be independent, financially stable, a decent career, no drama from exes or other girls, etc.
/r/seduction16/04/11 01:02 AM
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I am so tired of seeing posts saying: "There is this one girl who I see but know nothing about and I want seddit to help me pick her up". There is no set way to pick up any one girl, just ask her already. Seddit is about improving your self-confidence and social skills to increase the number of women you close with, not so much to help you pick up a particular girl.
/r/seduction03/04/11 11:44 PM
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I'd say it even reeks of desperate.
/r/seduction03/04/11 01:05 AM
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Just start going for it. The worst thing that happens is that you get rejected. Then you move on to the next girl. The only way to guarantee that you're going home alone, is never to try. Since you already know that you're going home alone, you've got nothing to lose by going for it.
/r/seduction27/03/11 06:08 PM
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My motto: "Fake it 'till you make it." Force yourself to approach people until you are comfortable doing it, over time it will start to come naturally.
/r/seduction25/03/11 07:54 AM
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Upvote for steak. March 14th is coming fast.
/r/seduction02/03/11 10:53 AM
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Cooking Food: Asian food, or any food? Like if I make something I picked up on one of those big family trips.
/r/seduction01/03/11 09:50 PM
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Just stop by randomly and say hi. Then invite her to [group activity] later in the week. Also consider going to the gym together.
/r/seduction21/02/11 08:49 AM
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