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Plenty of them do. The ones who are satisfied in their relationships are those who are already seeing someone out of their league. Don’t mistake men’s desperation for their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:39 AM
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However, the vast majority of guys are totally OK being in a relationship with an ordinary woman. There’re not. Incels don’t count. And, more importantly the majority of guys in relationships aren't always on the lookout for an upgrade like women. Mostly because they don’t get the opportunity to have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 08:23 PM
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If they’re getting somebody who’s sufficiently wealthy, masculine and resourceful then they’ll compromise in the looks area.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:27 PM
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Fair enough, these are relevant examples but I’d steer clear of rich and/or influential people. All of these situations are way more nuanced than just a man fucking down. And I can name more examples of the opposite, think of that actor (I forgot his name) who fucked his ugly babysitter while his wife was giving birth but this isn’t conducive to the discussion. In general, the men who cheat, do it with women who give them something their wives don’t. Think of monotonous office go-ers who simp fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:06 PM
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What part of manifesting into looks did you miss? Most men are definitely dating up when it comes to looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:02 PM
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I disagree. The idea of hypergamy is looking for people who are above you on a certain aspect, regardless of how good you are. What’s there to disagree when you just went on to reaffirm my point? Men look for women who are better looking than them. I wasn’t looking for the reasons here. I was stating the obvious. Even uglies on here want an above average woman. Successful and rich women are still hypergamous and struggle dating because they want men who are even more successful and rich than the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:58 PM
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Not really, mistresses are often better looking or “kinkier” than their wives. Now, men would fuck just about anything but that’s a testament to their desperation, not a desire for variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:36 PM
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Wealth and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 04:52 PM
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Men are far more hypergamous than women. Their hypergamy just manifests itself into looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 04:45 PM
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It looks sexy, that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:33 AM
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That’s simply not true. Self harm is a pretty serious concern. From what I know, people inflict pain on themselves to try and regain control of something in their life and to numb the pain inside of them. Not to say, some insta nobodies might do it for attention but I wouldn’t jump to this conclusion straightaway
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 04:58 PM
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Right hahah. Can they pick a narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:28 PM
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I was willing to debate it out, just not with men like you who garble on and on with sweeping generalisations and objective statements like “all women bad” “all women this blah blah” It’s not conducive to any debate and you’re not providing anything useful here. Please go back to TRP subs to cry about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:41 AM
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Please develop some critical thinking and nuance. Women use the word liberally but most of the times when we shit on our exes it’s because things didn’t work out one way or another or they did something negative later on in the relationship. There’s also some resentment towards their exes which is where the harsh words are coming from. We’re all the villains in somebody’s story. Incels always jump to the most surface level conclusions and base their entire lives on it. Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:37 AM
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It’s not even about being one, it’s just about thinking you’re one because it usually precedes self pity and that is unattractive as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 07:09 PM
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Women do not seem to comprehend how emotionally strenuous it is to purposely be an overbearing asshole. Being an asshole requires effort or a lack of empathy. Natural psychopaths can pull it off but for the average man it's emotionally strenuous being an asshole at will. They don’t need to. That’s the point. Confidence is a side effect of competence. Which is why women find the attitude so alluring. The problem is that women cannot distinguish a presumptuous asshat from the real deal - but men c…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:58 PM
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I’m sorry but the Internet forums will never be an actual reflection of real life because of most these places are filled with mentally ill weirdos who glorify a LOT of shit. It’s unreal. And you need to acknowledge the difference between finding something attractive vs acting upon it. They like the thrill that comes with reading certain fiction but would never pursue it irl because we know it’s simply not feasible. Criminal activity increases sexual activity? Most of it is forced/ under coercio…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:44 PM
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Most people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:39 PM
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I learned a long time ago that women have that strange desire to be that special privileged little person in a man's life for whom he tempers his wrath, softens his demeanor and gives her license to get away with certain things that would otherwise get someone else's head ripped off. Women love being excused from a man's wrath while being carried by his drive. What’s wrong with that, what’s wrong with wanting to be the special someone for a guy you love? The cornerstone of a healthy relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:38 PM
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That’ll get you a biased answer. We all dislike our exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:31 PM
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Considering men’s dating advice to each other, they can’t either
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:30 PM
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Haha so I should not defend myself now? Or do you consider yourself a self justified asshole too for sticking to your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:01 PM
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Yes, in my very personal opinion, anybody who whines about being average and categorises himself as such is most probably gonna be as interesting as bread because the fuck? There’s lots of ways to pull yourself out of the average zone and self pity isn’t one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:01 PM
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Are you new to Reddit? There’s a group of people who categorically complain about every aspect of their dating and sex life (or lack of) and I don’t think that’s it’s the women. That group also tends to blame women simply for not putting out more often and has an entire sub/cult dedicated to tricking them. Hmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:58 PM
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It really isn’t. Only self justified assholes think they can’t be in the wrong and I do find it hilarious you’d say it in a sub like this when the comments are usually incels with zero self awareness circle jerking each other and thinking they “figured women out”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:54 PM
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I’m fairly certain the men who get a second chance know what’s happening, they just don’t care. Because nobody likes average people. They don’t have many redeemable qualities. It’s a better trade off to bet your chances on somebody who’s atleast attractive and has some personality than somebody who’s as fun as bread. You gotta find a way to get yourself out of the average zone, it’s just what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:52 PM
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That’s a lot of assumptions being concealed under objective statements like “women can’t see themselves as assholes” so I’d prefer not to debate it out. You can’t base your argument on projections and sweeping generalisations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:46 PM
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Fair, that’s what the post is. They’re trynna be something they don’t have the financial and social capital for. It’s just what it is. They’d be better off trying to emulate the positive traits of masculinity while still being approachable and nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:43 PM
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No, it’s not a strawman. A lot of men successfully exhibit all the positive traits of masculinity and they get plenty of ON’s and actual relationships. And nobody likes boring, you’d prefer a plane Jane over some fiesty chick? Even if you knew the fiesty one would be more likely to fuck you over? I don’t think so lol. Attraction is amoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:41 PM
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Attraction is largely immoral, most of us can’t help what we’re attracted to and let’s be real, people are MUCH more lenient and forgiving irl when faced with such situations. It’s easy to debate it out but a lot of women do give men lots of second chances and benefit of doubt if there’s even an iota of chance that he’d mend his ways, just for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:35 PM
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I mean yeah sure, you shouldn’t feel the need to change your personality for someone else but for a lot of guys who really want to attract a specific sort of women, channelling the positive traits of masculinity might be their best bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:33 PM
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Great point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:31 PM
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They already do and then we remember them as bad experiences and things to look out for but those guys can’t sustain relationships either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:25 PM
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Duh, that’s people. We’re all the bad person in somebody’s story. I don’t think that’s a gendered problem except women who sometimes use the word quite liberally.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:24 PM
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It's an interesting theoretical debate, but I think in practice, regardless of whether it is true, decency + assertiveness can get you far enough with respect to generating lust, with far less downside. Agree, I think a lot of guys can do well for themselves if they’d just distinguish and act upon the positive traits of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:23 PM
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Fair. I was mostly trying to avoid the salty incels here because their problems do stem out of some misplaced FOMO but a lot of otherwise mostly ok guys do genuinely believe that being an overbearing asshole would get them women and that can’t be further from the truth. They can’t make the distinction between being confident and attractive to someone (the positive traits of masculinity) vs being an anti women dolt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:21 PM
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I’d like if you’d elaborate on that last sentence and what’s constituting “success” for you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:18 PM
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The opposite of assertiveness doesn’t have to be a dummy and we weren’t even talking about literal opposites. It’s hard to imagine somebody being that manly in their professional endeavours but not even an iota of it in their personal lives. It doesn’t have to be that extreme. The point was, a lot of them like feeling special like oh yeah, that guy’s always on the offensive with everyone else but he’s nice and protective with me, for me only.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:17 PM
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100% agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:06 PM
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See, this is the exact problem I’m trying to address on my post. Just because some of his personality traits overlapped with others that a lot of women find attractive doesn’t mean women are actively searching for serial killers or psychopaths. That’s just a false narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:06 PM
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That’s a lousy way to say you lost an argument. Lilith always coming through damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:04 AM
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It’s just how it is. Women who rate themselves a 5 will likely be much hotter than men who think they’re a 5
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:46 PM
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No, it’s called staying within your league. Nobody will detest you for having reasonable standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:22 PM
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You’re a 5 imo. You should really take pictures from better angles tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:55 PM
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I’m sorry but that guy was hideous. Nobody’s gonna find him a 5 and the comments showed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:47 PM
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Then stop being horny and gassing women up? Y’all act like women care if you simp for them or not. What’s stopping you from having standards? Desperation?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:40 PM
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Calling a black person a “subhuman” is literally the textbook definition of racism. GTFO musty ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:38 PM
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Hey, I’m sorry they’re being racist to you here. Ignore these trolls. Most of them don’t even have the courage to post their faces online
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:37 PM
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Not really, a woman who’s a 5 will look much better than a guy who think he’s a 5
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:12 PM
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Your two brain cells have clearly given up so lemme reiterate: this was a troll post. I’m not gonna be an asshole to somebody for no reason and he looks fine to me. Keep it moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:11 PM
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You’re gross. And I’m pretty sure that’s racism. Why don’t you drop your own pics before calling somebody else a 1 tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:19 PM
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Huh? 😂 That’s a new one. Usually it’s men on here whining about how women would fuck misogynists and assholes even if they’re physically appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:17 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:11 PM
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I was just talking about physical beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:10 PM
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It’s a little blurry but I think you’re fine
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:07 PM
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Women, like men love attractive people. You’re most probably butt ugly and projecting this whole “they only like misogynists” on the guys they do find attractive. In which case, this debate is moot as is any debate with sweeping generalisations.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:21 AM
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Now, THIS was a good purge week post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:50 AM
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Shut your deformed toe looking ass up just cause women don’t bother with you doesn’t mean they don’t put in their game for men they actually like lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:43 AM
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My hazel eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:09 PM
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I love how men constantly tell on themselves. The purge week is just an excuse for guys to act like misogynistic pricks and then wonder why women don’t like them..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:07 PM
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im starting a gofundme for your medical treatment hang on!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:31 PM
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don’t ignore the signs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:28 PM
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I agree. It’s entertaining enough but I’m not buying the “biggest show in Netflix history” hype.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:26 PM
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It is tho, the acting is weird and the concept isn’t anything out of the ordinary. Plus the red uniforms remind me too much of money heist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:21 PM
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you’re failing the shit test of life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:19 PM
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Squid game is overrated and cringy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:19 PM
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they just bank upon their looks and have zero skills
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:49 PM
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ofc, you’re the kinda guy only a mom will love
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:47 PM
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that’s what your mom said when she birthed u
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:42 PM
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don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:39 PM
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it’s not our fault you jizz yourself the moment women look at u
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:34 PM
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that’s still more orgasms than we get from men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:31 PM
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Vaginas obviously. Dicks are physically unbearable to look at unless you’re aroused BARF
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:18 PM
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Not sure why’re we giving that comment the benefit of the doubt. If somebody said that they’re dating me because they decided to lower their standards, they’re getting kicked in their ass and out the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:07 PM
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The entire premise of your argument is based on an assumption that the woman is less attractive than the men. And that’s why she approached him. That’s what a lot of guys think. You’re literally just proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:01 PM
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Honey, the fact that “lowering your standard” comes up implies that the man thinks the woman is beneath him. And that’s ignoring the fact that it’s a disgusting thing to say about someone. Imagine dating somebody and they’re on the internet saying shit like “i lowered the standards SO much for this guy I’m seeing” I’m sure you wouldn’t be okay with that. Nobody should. You SHOULD look at whoever you’re dating as the prize, men and women both. The point of the post is that the dynamic of a relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:58 PM
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Girl, you get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:56 PM
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what part of a discussion do you guys not get? yes it’s ONE screenshot but it sums up the experience of a lot of women the same can be said for a lot of sources right? “It’s just one article” that’s not a fair point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:53 PM
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it is, but that screenshot makes for a fair discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:52 PM
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And we gotta minimise our risks buddy. It’s as simple as that. That’s literally what the post says. More women would approach men if we weren’t automatically at risk of being degraded to being a “plate”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:51 PM
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yes, I referenced the screenshot in that post. you got an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:50 PM
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That’s a fair preference to have but the point is, men usually string women along who they don’t find attractive just for the sake of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:42 PM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:41 PM
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Right. So it’s a losing bet for women because you’re automatically assuming that men who get approached are out of the women’s league. Men need to pick a narrative, do you really want women to reach out to you and show genuine interest or are you gonna climb your superiority ladder because now you feel you can do even better?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:32 PM
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We have choice, which is what this post is for. It’s a discussion. You’re getting your knickers in a twist because women are choosing to analyse these things than date one of you jackasses. And I’m not even a FDS user but your tiny peanut can obvs not come up with any rationale other than misandry arghhh how dare women psychoanalyse men the way we do w women arghhh Hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:30 PM
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Having sex with someone and not treating them with respect and dignity is using them. Availing somebody’s time, attention and money but not respecting them or stringing them along until somebody else catches your eye is using them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:24 PM
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Never? Don’t bother arguing with lies. There’s atleast one post on here daily about men complaining that women don’t make effort or they don’t shoot their shots.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:18 PM
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Hard disagree. Women find a man who approaches them unattractive? Rejection Men find a woman who approaches them unappealing? Hmm. Let’s use her sex. Or some timepass. Might brag about it to their dudebros. String her along until we find what we really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:15 PM
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Absolutely, which is what this post is for. You’re getting mad women figuring out all these nasty little games? And stick that soap up your ass, it’s too frigid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:14 PM
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My opinion is that I’d be careful in asking a guy out because they tend to take women’s enthusiasm for granted. I’d probably flirt a bit, express some interest but being all over some dude is a losing game for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:10 PM
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No, it isn’t. Men are seen as the pursuers. You aren’t putting off any women by approaching them especially if you’re non creepy and reasonably attractive. Women aren’t gonna use you for sex or string you along if they can’t tolerate you, they’ll simply reject you. If an ugly ass guy approaches a woman, he gets rejected. If a fat woman approaches a guy, he strings her along until he has no use for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:02 PM
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That’s the point no? Most of them aren’t grown. And I don’t do it, so it doesn’t happen is not the argument you think it is. Please stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:01 PM
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Then why are men losing their shit in the comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:00 PM
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Sure! Glad you acknowledge it. Don’t get mad when women make posts like these then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:59 PM
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Sure thing, if you don’t have counter points, you lose the argument. Drags, name calling and childish remarks don’t count. “Oh look, she called men out, she’s a misandrist, women bad argghhh”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:59 PM
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Exactly. Men keep their options open and string you along instead of ending the thing. You get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:55 PM
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Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:54 PM
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Right. So you’ve proved my point. Men who get approached automatically assume they’re out of the woman’s league and thus, exert superiority. There’s very few who will appreciate her genuine interest. Ladies, y’all hearing this? Women approaching men first is almost always a losing game for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:52 PM
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-for the man, yes. It’s a losing bet for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:45 PM
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yeah, can’t believe why women would conclude that!! (even if men themselves proclaim it and prove it through their actions all the time)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:43 PM
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That’s a lot of word salad but you admit it yourself, women are “allowing” something to potentially happen to them because they ask out a guy first. And look at your first assumption, you think that women only ask out guys who are out of their league. The truth: men when asked out, start acting superior and believing they’re “out of the woman’s league” even tho they might not be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:38 PM
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Sure, compromises are the cornerstone of most relationships. But in general, most guys here think that women are the ones disproportionately trying to keep relationships while the men are passive about it and that’s not true lol. Guys in relationships are usually as whipped as their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:52 PM
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Relationships give both the partners equal power. Ideally, they’re both supposed to be equally invested and would be devastated if one of them leaves. There’s a general belief here that all women are privy to their emotions and would do anything to keep the man of their dreams if she’s “emotionally attached” and oh boy, are y’all gonna be in for a shock when you realise that there are more women filing for divorces and leaving relationships just because they weren’t feeling it anymore. I’d argue…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 12:47 PM
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I can assure you, no woman is tempted to fuck a man just because he has a big dick lmao. There’s a reason why we hate getting dick pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:09 AM
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Well, we all like being loved don’t we? Having a partner is a huge source of emotional validation because you have somebody to keep your grounded every day. Somebody to open up to and share your worries and experience all the good and bad. Idk the exact thing but a couple of days ago I read an article about how our body secretes happy chemicals when we’re in a relationship. People who are in relationships are at a lower risk of depression or heart disease or stroke. This is why people crave dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:00 AM
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One of my friends went from a 4-6 as soon as he started working out. He was a skinny, timid guy before. His face was ok but his body looks much lean and healthier now. Working out definitely helps. Start dressing better and you have the whole deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 02:56 AM
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Well, you can make out a person’s body shape through their clothes and they fit better if you’re in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 02:55 AM
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Everyone experiences jealousy no? And why’s it a bad thing? Is it bad to say that women are emotional creatures? And I didn’t mean simply experiencing the emotion, women are often inherently jealous and possessive. There’s a reason why the mean girls trope exists. There’s some merit to this generalisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 06:18 PM
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I’m going to disagree here, I think a significant proportion of women are indeed very jealous in nature. Much more so than the opposite. Ofc we are very diverse and anomalies exist but if you asked me a general question whether the average women would be jealous or not? My answer would be a resounding yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 06:11 PM
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It’s just a manner of speaking. And women in general can be extremely catty and jealous, let’s not lie. Poly people are obviously the outliers in this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 06:05 PM
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Right omg. They really can’t see through their hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 04:16 PM
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Haha. I agree. That poster is funny
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 02:26 PM
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the correct answer
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 02:19 PM
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Who’s everyone’s favourite poster on here? (Except yourself)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 02:17 PM
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Exactly lol. That’s some cuck shit OP is getting at. Usually, people who really love someone would HATE seeing them with anybody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 06:31 AM
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You want to leave people hanging? I can’t think of any woman who’d be okay with only half of a man’s commitment. People grow lax in relationships, that’s true but you gotta have a trade off somewhere right. You can live a life of extreme passion with a different person every night or you can have someone to love and to hold, someone to come home to after a long day of work. As you grow older, your libido is anyway gonna decrease. Also, this is entirely situational. Lots of people find ways to ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 06:29 AM
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If I love someone, I don’t wanna see him with anybody else. Women are jealous creatures. Commitment also feels good, secure, safe. It gives us the ultimate emotional validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 05:58 AM
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I don’t think so. Prostitution have existed for as long as we can remember and men weren’t seeking them out for procreation, they were seeking them for pleasure. Now, we have a thriving hookup culture which doesn’t have any evolutionary advantages whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 05:54 AM
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Well, me brought it upon themselves Arranged marriages are still the norm in my country
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:50 PM
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What’s the “bf game”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:37 PM
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Fair enough. This is a well thought out answer, I appreciate it and I’m really trying to get your point. But the sexual revolution genie is out of the box and it ain’t getting back. People will have sex with whoever is the most viscerally appealing to them, harsh truth. And when I say work on yourself, I meant looks. There are things you can do to make yourself more desirable to the opposite sex and that’s about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 04:45 PM
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Well, this is what you’re implying. You want women to throw their coochies at the less desirable men because they’re apparently v thirsty and starving (??) Sex isn’t a basic human need like food or water. Does it better the quality of your life? Sure. But we have scores of men who are religious or principled who remain celibate till marriage and don’t lose their shit. So I have a hard time believing these “starving to death” hyperboles. Men should acknowledge that a lot of social conditioning is…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 04:09 PM
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I don’t think any reproduction is happening w casual sex so this point makes no sense. If the goal was truly procreation then would be eager to start families or they’d be averse to the idea of sex without any procreation but that’s not the case. They just wanna fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 04:04 PM
9

Sorry, there’s nothing called sexual socialism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:22 PM
3

good 4 u
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:41 PM
10

So you accept right? Most of the abuse and cheating happens when people are already in relationships which makes it harder to leave those situations and come to terms w reality? Thirsty dudes be in your DM’s with their unoriginal pickup lines and then wonder why women don’t respond
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:32 PM
2

Hahah fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:30 PM
6

Why are you acting like women are asxexual creatures with no sexual drive at all We just know how to keep it in our pants
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:16 PM
7

and you’re using some niceguy logic to make it seem like women overwhelming prefer abusers lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:03 PM
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Most abusers are no random men. They’re suave and class manipulators and often trap women through a number of avenues. Incels on the other hand are laughably transparent. You think women can’t tell when a thirsty dude is trying to lay their hands on them? Rn, this smells like a load of victim blaming to me. Do you want women to apologise for their abusers?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:55 PM
6

Then y’all better start pretending too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:51 PM
21

Uh, maybe because people can be manipulative or they can change or surprise surprise, you can make mistakes. Are we really doing this? Cause if that’s the narrative then I better not see y’all complain about golddigers anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:47 PM
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No, they don’t. Sure, I know guys love sex more than women but not all of them make sex the sole motivation of their lives. People got other things to do and there’s much more to a relationship than just getting your dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:44 PM
5

? I guess this is what happens when you quite literally think with your dick
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:43 PM
0

Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:38 PM
10

Because it’s not? Plenty of guys want sex but they don’t obsessively pursue and neither do they make it the single most important criterion for a relationship with a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:30 PM
6

I’m tired of repeating this honestly. There’s a huge difference between wanting sex and being a sex obsessed socially inept weirdo (most of this sub)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:24 PM
7

Not really. There’s a huge difference between wanting sex and being a sex obsessed socially stunted weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:22 PM
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Right, then they wonder why women run away from them like the plague. Like dude, we can smell the crazy sex obsession off off you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 09:18 AM
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My main takeaway from this post (and nearly all posts on here) is that men are really, really obsessed with getting sex and they spend a lot of either thinking about it or trying to get some.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:52 AM
2

Exactly lmao, lots of people here can’t stop preaching and refuse to get off their high horses and then you see the people they’re dating 💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 07:29 PM
1

Fair enough but that comes under semantics for me. In real life, people are often willing to overlook their supposed “dealbreakers” too and there’s often a very thin line between a preference and a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:33 PM
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Dude, I relate with this SO HARD. Rn, I’d call myself a volcel too. I’m not satisfied with my personal life but I’m also super anxious to go ahead and seek relationships (cause the previous ones ended badly and now I’m scared to put myself out there again and fall into the same cycle of misery) and also, if I don’t like something… I just don’t. Even if it’s something small, it turns me off and I’m out of the situation. I can’t move past my dealbreakers. Plus, university too. Relationships demand…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:37 PM
-1

Yes like? You’d lower your standards or forego dealbreakers?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:18 PM
1

Elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:13 PM
1

You’re an outlier buddy. Most people don’t do the same, it was simply a generalised comment on how 50/50 usually turns out for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:25 PM
1

Fair enough, by this logic nothing women do is a shit test either. “What shit test is present in checking whether somebody wants you for you who are or is using you as a quick lay”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 12:55 PM
1

Momma’s boy = somebody co dependent on their parents, can’t live on their own, serious issues possible stemming from a troubled childhood treating your partner like a loving parent does: bare minimum, putting in 100% of your love and effort, giving them the best Once again, I’m no revolutionary and my life isn’t going to be a charity case to (unsuccessfully) try to change the status quo. In an unequal society, I’ll do what’s in my best interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 12:53 PM
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You’re right lol. That was kinda the answer I was looking for. People going into technicalities here is weird because that’s not how they act irl? Like do we go around asking for somebody’s exact weight and fat distribution before we decide whether they’re fat or not? I think this is true for women too. We don’t care about a man’s body mass index as long as he’s fit, in shape and healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 08:21 AM
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It’s the best dating strategy for everyone. We all like fit people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 06:33 AM
1

Well, most of the stuff that women say is in a response to what they see men actually doing and the comments are usually restricted to men who already identify with the issues. I really don’t see why anyone would be offended if they don’t fit the bill. And, that’s pretty much for online dating. How will you know all this about a person you meet irl if you aren’t already giving them the benefit of the doubt?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:49 AM
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I just find it hilarious how men are always up in arms about women engaging in shit tests but they don’t see a problem when they do it, often through a touch of deception and manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:41 AM
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Besides the fact that you’ve pigeonholed this, your takeaway is a gross oversimplification of what I’ve said and what sociological aspects I’ve kept in mind, I’ll suggest you scroll down and read my answer. There’s no equal relationships in an unequal society. Also, very telling how men always think cooking and housework is beneath them hmm And that’s not the insult you think it is. Nobody should treat you less than your parents do and my life isn’t a charity case for the less fortunate. I don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:29 AM
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Dude lmao, I’ve always felt like an asshole saying this but I find it really unattractive when people have their gums out on display everytime they smile. Gives me those creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:05 AM
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Do I? I’m pretty much on the underweight side for my frame because I’ve lost a lot of weight due to personal and physical problems in the last few months. That was a general question directed to men to see how differing beauty standards are. Stop making assumptions or engaging in personal attacks, dumbass. Reporting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:48 AM
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Low IQ troll- like response lol. An XS in America would be a XXL in Asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:32 PM
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Well, i would want children someday so there’s no reason why I’d take that out of the picture and I’ve already given sufficient explanation for why a transactional 50/50 relationship is only a facade of equality and won’t sit well w me. This is also entirely situational. Before some jackass misinterprets it again, no, I’m not against equal splitting of chores and shit but if a man can’t see the status quo for what it is or refuses to acknowledge his privilege in the society as a whole then I’m g…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:16 PM
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Unless you guys successfully dispute it not through lip service, but through tangible action irl, you’ll keep hearing it. Cry me a river bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:09 PM
2

Or maybe attractiveness and sexuality is more nuanced than what you think it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:08 PM
0

Never said I would even remotely consider one of those guys who engaged in the same. This was a general comment on how men who demand 50/50 act in reality with their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:04 PM
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You’re an ass. Was it worth stooping so low just for a silly argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:41 PM
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Were they really that horrendous that they’re now absolute dealbreakers for you …?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:15 PM
2

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:06 PM
2

Absolutely, thanks for saying this. I think along the same lines and I wanted somebody to put it into words. Men want the good parts of 50/50 like the expenses and the split bills on dates and the great sex but they are much more reserved when it comes to household chores, emotional labour, child rearing etc etc. I’d be extremely wary of a man insisting on everything being 50/50 because chances are he’s one of these “hey, you wanted equality, gotcha!” dudes or he isn’t intelligent enough to see …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:05 PM
1

Are you a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:50 PM
0

… interesting. Can you elaborate on why career focused and born above middle class are dealbreakers for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:50 PM
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Hard agree with all these. Especially the part about “dank memes” there are way too many people comfortable with being racist and/or misogynistic (or worse) under the cover of memes and I don’t regret treating this as a dealbreaker one bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:49 PM
2

What if somebody asks you to wait?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:47 PM
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Absolutely. Nobody should ever indulge in something as intimate as sex if they aren’t 100% on board with it but it’s usually the guys who are over zealous to do the deed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:44 PM
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Agree with most of these. Can you elaborate on why you think 50/50 is a dealbreaker for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:42 PM
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Glad you caught onto it. I’m kinda trying to find out the covert dealbreakers that a lot of people might subconsciously act on but won’t tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:41 PM
1

Yo, I have these preferences too. Especially the part about a good debate. It keeps things spicy!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:40 PM
8

Define fat
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:38 PM
5

Damn. Can’t dispute this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:38 PM
9

ahaha omg bonnie and clyde energy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:37 PM
1

Cool. Nice to see more ladies on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:20 PM
6

The psychos commenting here all expect sex on the first date (lmao) but you don’t ever have to do something you aren’t 100% comfortable with. Don’t give it up for these jackasses. Veto as hard as you want to. Go at your own pace. Women don’t exist to service some insecure’s guy’s bruised ego 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:14 PM
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She still looks good??? I mean Adam Levine is a pretty hot dude himself but that’s a damn good looking woman too. They’re pretty much a looksmatch imo they’re cute
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:25 PM
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Again IDGAF about what you say. Men proportionately DO other shit before entering a relationship. Men (for the most part) call y'all, hang out, get to know you, plan dates, pay for dates, in many cases drive, and they're open for sexual access. That's proportionate. There's nothing at all proportionate about not doing it at all. If you have 0 sex in 3 months there's nothing proportionate about the relationship, it's a platonic romantic relationship where you get all the fun of the boyfriend whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:16 PM
1

My parents and my friends won’t even bat an eye lol. They know how argumentative I am. They’d kinda question me about why ppd in particular tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 02:05 PM
1

Dude, she’s a Victoria’s Secret supermodel. You guys are fucked 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 01:34 PM
1

Last time I checked, a man AND a woman decide to make a baby. It’s a two way street honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 12:53 PM
1

And yet men aren’t really picking them if they have to go and advertise themselves at every opportunity or bring other women down to get male validation. It’s almost like most self respecting people don’t like despos! I know it might be a radical opinion on this sub but yes, some people DO indeed have standards in dating yk and they prefer their partners to have some dignity too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 09:33 AM
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r/thathappened
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:39 AM
2

Dude, you woke up and chose violence. I fear RP men will never recover from this burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:19 AM
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Women aren’t baby making machines. The caves are calling you back, brother. And far as I’m aware, a man AND a woman decide to make a baby. It’s not a one way street. The difference is that women don’t shirk their responsibilities towards the child like men do. There’s a reason why the deadbeat dads stereotype exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:25 AM
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One thing a man will always have is the audacity. Besides what you’ve said, women also have to deal with their husbands not finding them “attractive” anymore. Like imagine, going through nine months of torture to pop out some asshole’s baby who’s gonna leave you because he thinks you’re “disfigured” and “unattractive” now. Men’s audacity and lack of empathy is frightening.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:22 AM
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Stop putting words in my mouth. Not being sex crazed isn’t equivalent to not having sex at all. Most women are having healthy, frequent and consensual sex in relationships. This is a classic case of projection. Men only wanna screech about sex all the time so they feel weirded out when women talk about sex proportionately in relation to other stuff, and not as obsessively as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 02:13 AM
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Right, it’s such a cope. Everyone is settling somehow and that’s not necessarily a bad thing. It’s only a problem if somebody’s not putting in 100% of their effort in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:19 PM
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Women aren’t as obsessed as sex. Get over it. You aren’t entitled to anyone’s body, it’s not our fault men give away their dicks for £0.29. If you’re putting in all that time, effort yada yada then you’re getting the same from the women as well. If she’s not giving you access to her body, she’s not eager to have access to yours either. And men do this every day? Are you new here? Most of the concerns of men around here is how the women aren’t willing to sucks their dicks on day 1 because they’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:36 PM
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Which statistic? What’s the study? The source? Nobody’s gonna believe these random numbers y’all pull out of your ass everyday. Ofc men only like studies that favour their status quo. Ofc you would prefer a live in relationship where you get all the sex and intimacy and a free bangmaid who pays half your rent without the commitment and the finances and the work that comes with a marriage 💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:05 PM
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Does it? Cause women usually talk about all aspects of a relationship from intimacy to connection to compatibility to pleasure while men are out here constantly screeching about seeeexxx
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:02 PM
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It’s always been an unpleasant truth but unfortunately because of some bimbos masquerading as third wave feminists and pick mes desperate to service men, ladies don’t wanna wake up to this. They’d rather keep convincing themselves that this is “empowerment” when it’s just plain ol patriarchy wrapped up in a golden box. You’re still servicing men and putting yourself at an absolute disadvantage in the society, where the fuck is the empowerment? See, white feminism is baffling to me. I’m not askin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:47 PM
3

Hardly matters. Women get slut shamed on this very sub every day by men who engage in the same stuff as them. Hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:14 PM
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And then you woke up…? Women get slut shamed on the daily while men are allowed to sow their wild oats and seek virginal women when they want to settle down but sure “women sexuality is celebrated”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:12 PM
1

Well, not everything revolves around men and what they want. Women like to be validated through actual relationships so it makes sense why they’d compliment men for the same. It’s not their fault when men twist it to mean something it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:06 PM
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Why is this is a question? They’re both wrong unless you’re implying that being used for sex isn’t demeaning af and is somehow better
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 06:00 PM
2

Right. Almost, like people can act like self serving assholes at time and it’s not limited to gender and is certainly not enough reason to pass blanket statements or speak about the other gender as if it’s the absolute truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 05:35 PM
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This is bs. You’re using blanket statements and hypothetical scenarios to hate on women now, what do you want me to say? Men also fake love until they can get in your pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 05:31 PM
0

This is a moot argument to me tbh. You can never change anyone, man or woman but you can change yourself or remove yourself from that situation. Buddy, get real, no woman will ever tell you whether she’s more sexually attracted to you or somebody else she fucked in the past but if you aren’t getting 100% from the relationship then you can just leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:36 PM
2

Is there a way to know this? And the better question, does it matter? If your partner isn’t giving your their 100% love, sex and attention then it’s time to change them. And please, who’s gonna admit they settled for somebody and what sane person would make their partner feel bad about themselves by saying this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:27 PM
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Do the men here really believe that there’s NOTHING more to marriages except sex? Cause that’s what it seems like
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:16 PM
2

Honestly, yes. I still like most of the people here idk why. Maybe it’s the brutal honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:13 PM
1

*men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:11 PM
2

That’s a horrible mindset to live with. I can’t imagine dating anyone who thinks this way. Considering how men quite literally want bangmaids as wives, it’d be them who I would expect such opinions from.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:10 PM
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That’s a load of assumptions. Where in his post did OP say that the women even engages in casual sex? And that Madonna-whore complex that you’re implying is usually exclusive to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 02:05 PM
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You’re right. I’m a woman and I can admit this. Women almost always end up getting used by men for sex because they’re highly emotional beings. I can think of scores of women who end up regretting their casual encounters or feeling disgusted with themselves after they’re done. Hell, even some women in relationships regret having had sex with their partners. Sometimes, women go into it v confident because they convince themselves it’s strictly casual and then they end up catching feelings or in g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:31 AM
2

Do men ever think beyond their dicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:22 AM
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I agree, people hate being alone. A lot of women tolerate abusive relationships because they’d rather stay in an unhappy place than a lonely one. But that’s hardly any reason to demonise them or say things like “they deserved it” That’s true for your first para too. You might or might not be correct. I’ve definitely jumped into relationships before and made incorrect choices but that does mean I deserve the vitriol and anger that the man above has displayed in his post? I don’t think so. How can…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:09 PM
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That’s a load of generalisation. This entire wall of text is anyway moot for me because I know firsthand about all the men who play all nice to woo you in the initial stages of the relationship and then turn out to be abusive assholes later on when they’ve established comfort within the relationship. Or they’ll manipulate you into sleeping with them. I mean, I can go on and on about the number of ways men expose themselves later on when you’ve been dating for weeks or months. This is a flawed ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:45 PM
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So people are not allowed to be unhappy in relationships anymore and seek help because user aldabrazzo thinks they went for “bad boys” and now they deserve it? Bs. Most women who end up with assholes had no idea the man was an asshole to begin with. People can show their colours in due time and sometimes initial filtering sucks. Also, I’d really love for men to characterise “bad guys” because most of the time y’all just mean attractive men when you use this term.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:12 PM
1

But the only one complaining is you guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:02 PM
1

you’re past way your wall, why hasn’t your hubby left you for a hot young piece of ass already?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 01:59 PM
-1

how old are you gimpy girl
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 12:26 PM
1

I’m curious now, how’s he like irl lol Honestly, all of Lana’s exes seem dingy as hell but they’re all objectively fine-ish. Except the cop, he was rlly hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 10:52 AM
1

He’s cute. Most lana stans like him tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 10:46 AM
2

Exactly HAHAH. I saw somebody on here being up Leo DiCaprio the other day as proof that older men can bag as many younger women they want like dude… he’s LITERALLY the sex symbol of his generation. Can you compare?? Most of these men start looking like ugly farts they moment they approach middle age. Balding.. pot bellied… sour attitude. They’re so delusional if they think the wall doesn’t exist for them. Most women I know are extremely well maintained even in their 30’s and 40’s. They’ll be dam…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 07:46 AM
2

Not sure what this has to do w younger women going for older guys or not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 03:56 AM
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I’m not sure because I’ve not seen but if they were talking about age power dynamics then they were probably correct
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 03:54 AM
4

Congratulations, you’ve discovered sex work!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 03:08 AM
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I think we can all acknowledge the white feminists on FDS are off their rockers. That’s hardly an accurate source. But anyway, a +5 year age gap is perfectly normal if both the people are above 20. It becomes slightly questionable if a 17/18 year old is dating a say, 26 year old because of the skewed power dynamics in their relationship. It doesn’t help that it’s almost always a case where the man is older and the woman is younger. That DOES open room for abuse, not saying that’s what will alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 03:08 AM
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Hahahah. I can’t help it, I gotta defend my mom!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 03:03 AM
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And yet she’s never dated anyone above a +5 age gap sweetie Edit: The way this is proving my point lol. Lana played y’all older dudes with these fantasies in her songs because that’s what men like to hear but the truth is she’s always dated fit, smart guys within her age group and pretty much within her social standing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:59 AM
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+6 age gap is perfectly normal but that’s not what y’all mean when you say “young women date older guys” You’re indicating 40 year old uggos hitting it with 20 something women and it’s laughable because it rarely happens irl. Most women are dating within their age group or within a perfectly reasonable age gap. The extremely old guys who hit on college students are seen as complete creeps unless you’re drowning in money and some insta model fancies you for a few days to go on your yacht 💀 and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:53 AM
4

Like the man in the relationship. Funny, playful, intelligent, masculine and positive. Also, a little argumentative because I love debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:15 AM
2

That’s no reason for casual racism or having apple orange comparisons lmfao “White men in USA shot up a school now I will not care what they have to say about the socioeconomic disparity in USA markets!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 07:48 AM
1

Once again, good for you but you’re not representative of all men. Where I live, most men who put this symbol in their bio do it as a thinly veiled attempt at looking for hookups. I know it because I’ve conversed w them and this is what I’ve gotten. I’m not sure why they’re not upfront it but I do not care about their reasons, I care about my own time, energy and effort. I don’t do hookups. At all. This why is never use tinder, I go for other “date” dating apps. So, it’s simply not a possibility…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 07:37 AM
2

What’s with the casual racism? Besides the fact that there’s zero correlation between what the point was and what you brought into the convo, stereotypes are harmful and counterproductive to any discussion. You’re a racist. Not surprised that most (white) women on this sub are matching the male crazies too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 07:26 AM
1

Okay? Good for you? You can take all the time you want to figure it out but I’m clear with my intentions and I would prefer somebody clear with theirs. OLD is difficult and uncertain as it is, I don’t want to deal with all this on top of it. I put my preference on my profile very clearly and I swipe right on men who are as clear and upfront about it so there’s minimal clash of priorities and expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 07:02 AM
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Thank you, you’re kind. But 3 is hardly a lot lol. In fact, I think it’s pretty tame. I’ve seen people my age go through multiple ones in the same year. As for me, one of them when I was in school, puppy love, hardly a real relationship. The rest of them were definitely something but I don’t look it at as bad experiences. There was nothing bad about it. It ended because of misplaced priorities and shortcomings from both ends. Ig this is about perspective. Those relationships were fulfilling whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:54 AM
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If this is the logic then all relationships are transactional and that might be technically correct, we expect the love we give but that’s a very … non-human way to look at it, just for the lack of a better word. I’d choose to believe that we want people for more than what they could offer. Atleast that’s what I do. And it’s hardly about genetics or children, we all like good looking people. They give us that buzz. Useless to deny this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:15 AM
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Fair enough. You have your mind set so I won’t argue further but happy fulfilled couples aren’t blue pilled delusion lol. There are many of them, including my own parents who’ve been married for over 25 years and still love each other to bits. Did they have it easy? Nah dude, they found each other in their 30’s by accident. It’s a matter of opinion. Simps aren’t the only ones getting their feelings hurt. Women get hurt by men everyday but hope is a dangerous thing and it keeps people going and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:06 AM
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There’s a fine line between desperation and interest. I’ve never heard a love story begin with “so he was a complete asshole to me…”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:08 PM
1

Source: trust me bro
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:50 PM
7

The fact that you’re advocating for colonisation and war because men can’t get some…?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:35 PM
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I’m sorry but some of the men in this sub are beyond predatory so I would often take it quite literally. You guys do be talking about women like hunters hunting their prey. You know you do. Anyway, not sure how that plays out irl. You’re asking men to lie about their intentions or hide it? What use is that? I can think of plenty of women (including myself) who don’t swipe right on men on bumble even with that “don’t know what I’m here for symbol” because 9/10 they just want casual and don’t have…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:31 PM
5

That’s fucked up ??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:09 PM
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Your own personal experience is not all of the reality. That is the truth. Change states and you’ll see a change in attitude. Change countries and you’ll see an even bigger change in attitude. I have a problem with men here passing their own limited experiences with women as some sort of blanket truth. Very strange. Anyway, that’s not called female privilege lmao. It’s called attractive people privilege. Attractive men with multiple options don’t want to settle down too. So what? It’s not the en…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 11:58 AM
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Sorry but most of these posts are just a variation of men being mad that women now have the agency to choose their partners and they’re not choosing them. Like yeah, we’re not in the dark ages anymore. Women don’t need to depend on men for finances, respect, social standing etc etc and this is how it should always have been. Relationships these days are forged because people want each other, not because they need smth materialistic from them. And yeah, people are replaceable these days because t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 11:11 AM
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I’ve seen this opinion on this sub before and I rlly want to know why men believe that all women are into assholes and are actively trying to “tie them down”. The ones that knock on his door are probably those only looking for casual sex too. Women who want relationships don’t give a f about chads or whatever. Ain’t nobody got the time to try and change someone’s mind when you can find men who are on the same page as you. Men looking for relationships are unattractive to women now? Lmfao cmon. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:58 AM
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Short answer: No Long Answer: Hell naw. It’s akin to cheating. How does it matter if the person is of the same gender? I’ve dated a bisexual man before and I would have been just as mad at him for cheating on me with a woman than with a man. It’s adultry either way and I’m not into this kink. And tbh, most people aren’t. I know some people who might fantasise about it but irl, they’d go insane seeing somebody with their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 08:17 AM
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I’m sorry I’m new here what’s that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 08:12 AM
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LMFAOO
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:12 AM
1

I think the word “need” needs a context. If you think about it, nothing except food, water, shelter is a basic need for survival. You can theoretically survive even if you have zero friendships or zero relationships but is this is a fruitful, happy or satisfied existence? I don’t think so. Even if we don’t “need” things they better the quality of our life. They make our lives more meaningful. Sure, you think you might not need romantic companionship but having one could certainly make your life …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:22 AM
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Love and companionship from a lover is vastly different from friendships tho. I mean, biologically too, your body is secreting different chemicals when you’re interacting with someone in a romantic sense as opposed to a platonic one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 08:03 AM
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