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CMVlemonfloss/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 02:00 PM
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I was going to say I didn't think your dick was THAT small
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 03:18 AM
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is that why you made an account just to send me a hateful private message? https://www.reddit.com/user/lemonflosssux
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 03:12 AM
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Most women want a man to provide for them. Redpillers think that means they are golddiggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:41 AM
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you're making stuff up which means you either have poor reading comprehension, are an autist, or you don't think my examples of rape and assault are that bad. I don't think this is leading anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 12:56 AM
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🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 11:09 PM
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Stop watching tv you idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 11:08 PM
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you mad bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 02:22 PM
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Are you a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 05:34 AM
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This happens to men too though...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 07:40 PM
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attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 07:38 PM
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Not at all. casual sex isn't an indicator of how attractive someone is. the original comment poster stated that only the top 20% get casual sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 03:09 PM
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The vast majority of men and women think I'm crazy for rejecting a carbon copy of Mila Kunis or Anna Kendrick you probably think you're not worthy of them so you tell yourself 'they're not good enough for me', when in reality, deep down, you think you're not good enough for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 02:20 AM
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this just sounds very bitter. You're making generalisations about men, probably because they get women and you don't so you label those women as unattractive and those men as having low standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 02:15 AM
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but they still won't fuck you, so in most womens minds, you're quite unattractive too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 02:06 AM
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you sound like an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 01:49 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 01:39 AM
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you underestimate what drunk girls will fuck... just like you know.. drunk men...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 01:39 AM
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So what you have is a man who is objectively average going for a woman who is objectively average or unattractive and realizing other men are also going for her. This raises her 'value' in the SMP. ​ Well, there you go again... proving my point. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 01:33 AM
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There is such a thing as 'juggernaut theory', which is a large number of men thinking they have more of a chance with an average looking, unattractive or fat woman and flock to them only to notice that large number of men are after them. I have experienced it with the few women that were in my level and who I was with for a short while when I though I could lower my standards and be happy. It could also be said that men tell themselves 'shes fat and ugly' because it softens the blow when they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 01:15 AM
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but does that make you the top 20%?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 01:07 AM
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thats like a woman saying: 'im not as overweight as the average woman and I have a Phd'
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 01:00 AM
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because men exaggerate to their friends about how successful they are with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 12:51 AM
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yea true
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 12:50 AM
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i think its overexaggerated, but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 11:25 PM
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that reads like a fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 11:19 PM
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They know they are failing when their coworker, relative, friend or acquaintance who resembles a Chad is out on a Friday night getting laid while he is jacking into the toilet. So having drunk sex once a week makes a man a 'chad'?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 11:02 PM
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but why is it presented as 'the wrong thing'? A lot of the guys who write redpill themed articles, they themselves, have a wife and family who they are DEDICATED to....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 10:57 PM
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> TRP/MRP attract those failing at the game. These are the guys who see others winning and want to know why they aren't. So they go looking and find others like them in TRP/MRP forums How do they know they're failing? In all honesty, there are people who are successful but most people put on a facade of their success and are a cause of delusion for men reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 10:55 PM
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What if a man wants to have a wife and family and spend his resources on them because that's what is valuable to him? If a man like that reads the redpill he is going to be more cautious even if he is not 'beta'.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 10:54 PM
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Its time she could spend doing something else. Whats your point? Just because something doesnt bring in money, its not work and its not valuable?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 12:24 AM
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What projection
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 11:16 PM
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Neither, I think traditional marriage is good. Men dont want that tho, they want traditional on their terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 10:24 PM
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Maybe you have a never ending list because nothing gets done.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 09:28 PM
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I love this comment!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 08:41 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 08:40 PM
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How much time is spent on ‘handy work’ on a daily basis?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 08:15 PM
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Well, a man needs to lead first. Nowadays men expect a woman to follow them without proving their leadership
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 08:00 PM
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‘Who rode the cock carousel until she snagged a beta chode’ 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 07:53 PM
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Men would be like ‘no who do you think you are, entitled feminist SJW’. To men feminine means you’re so submissive you’re ready for sex 24/7 and would gladly clean up and cook for him too, just out of ‘love’.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 07:34 PM
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But that doesn't mean you call the sky a bitch slut for leading you on if it doesn't rain, and then whine about how the sky probably rains for asshole cities that pollute the sky. hahahaha!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/18 06:17 PM
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some men do this though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/18 05:50 PM
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its not oneitis, they do this with many women at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/18 05:35 PM
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ahahahaha am i wrong?????
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/18 05:33 PM
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> who believe that their married bf will someday leave his wife. This is an entirely different topic to discuss right now, but women do this successfully...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/18 10:49 AM
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This is exactly what I'm talking about, the girl has complete control over him, and instead of approaching a girl he likes, he feels like he already has a chance with a girl who's giving him scraps
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/18 10:47 AM
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I think most women who defend the use of IoI in dating are just using it as an excuse to not be direct imo. I just think it's misleading, because women use it to entice a man do to stuff for her, and when called out, she can say 'I never said I liked you, I was just being friendly!'
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/18 10:36 AM
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No, I don't. At least not initially.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 11:15 PM
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I would tell him that a woman doesn't approach you for good intentions, and to be cautious of a woman who appears to 'need' you, because she's probably using you and your weaknesses against you for her own agenda. I would encourage him not to associated with needy women and if raise him in a way that doesn't project neediness
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:45 AM
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Well I wasn't here that long ago, but from the time that I have been here I have noticed a change. When I was in highschool I would read stuff from the bodybuilding forum and those guys were at least normal in the sense they were 'redpilled', but incel behaviour would be called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 02:27 PM
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EDIT: By it's nature, TRP will always attract men who are bitter and just want to hate on women. This is because these men don't have any other place to vent their frustrations. It is not acceptable to say negative things about women in most communities, online and IRL. TRP got an influx of incels after their sub was banned a few months ago. Most the time, when we are frustrated, the problem lies within ourselves and not other people, and not the opposite gender. Why do you want to say negative …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 02:26 PM
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For example.. this post: Stop giving a fuck whether she enjoys the sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 02:11 PM
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It's a bad thing and a downfall for the redpill movement. Even I would say that it's a pity
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 02:06 PM
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It's surprising that people are still surprised at people being surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 12:01 AM
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so by that logic, if you try something with a girl who never tried it before, she won't want to do it again... Liking something doesn't mean liking it because of the novelty factor, but because you genuinely want to do it again and again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 08:02 PM
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I agree with what you're saying, but some guys feel as though if you have a lot of experience (whether its the act or number of men) that you're unworthy of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 07:14 PM
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I've been with only 2 men, and I'm not sure what you mean by: I don't think of "3" as being quite a few past sexual partners, but maybe you do. Do you think 3 is a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 05:59 PM
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I'm not surprised you don't understand me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 04:33 PM
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Hymen what? It's a myth that most women should bleed on their first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 04:01 PM
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Right, because guilt tripping a woman into doing something for you is so hot....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 04:00 PM
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Someone truly is salty...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:40 PM
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Ya but how is it possible to prove virginity? I think most men would still be doubtful if a girl is a virgin (above the age of 18). The concept of 'virginity' is meaningless in the sense that it can't be proven.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:33 PM
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As a woman with low n-count, I am worried to be 'open' to new experiences as to not make the man think that I have been doing it with lots of guys before him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:28 PM
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But then if you're willing to try new things, you will be labelled a whore anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:27 PM
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I think most will prefer someone that is less experienced and more open to new experiences. This is the ideal but not realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:21 PM
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Then it seems like you can't actually tell sluts apart from low n count women...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 03:35 PM
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Ya and you will get dead bedroomed by a prudish whore
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 02:09 PM
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If we explained what we wanted to men they would be disgusted or think we were lying. Most guys don't understand the female psyche.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:37 PM
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I think he's wrong. Women are mentally aroused, but that doesn't mean a man just has to be alpha outside of the bedroom to satisfy the woman. It seems like people assume that if a man has demonstrated his value initially, that once it comes to sex, that the woman will be turned on regardless, just because he's 'alpha'. I actually think women lose attraction very easily when it comes to men and have no preferences for alpha or beta men when it comes to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:20 PM
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Just to clarify, I think women want to be seduced and charmed...not just penetrated by an alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:16 PM
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He's a dude....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:14 PM
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I agree with what you're saying. Most people here seem to think women just get turned on by looking at an alpha lol....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:08 PM
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I do actually which is why what you're saying makes no sense whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 02:59 PM
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A woman will report more sexual satisfaction with a guy she is attracted to, over one she is less attracted to, even if the sex was the same. Your post implies that it's the sex itself that makes the woman leave, but it's the man himself, not just what he can do with his dick. If the sex is bad, the woman loses attraction to him. The premise you're basing female sexual attraction on is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 02:51 PM
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30 seconds lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 02:50 PM
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How can two sexual experiences be the same? If sex is mostly mental with women as you say it is, then physical attraction shouldn't matter as much. Way to contradict yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 02:42 PM
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I think you misunderstood what I was saying. A woman wouldnt agree to those terms knowing full well what it entailed. If my current partner didnt find me he would go back to her and pretend everything is normal
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 08:19 PM
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Or maybe he just got tired of fucking her
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 08:06 PM
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The guy im dating right now told me on the first date that he was on a break with his girlfriend and then he proceeded to break up with her a few days later. He used this excuse to potentially meet new women, and if it didn't work out or he didn't meet someone he liked as much he would just go back to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:26 PM
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This is very honest of you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 11:04 AM
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Why do men do that then? Suggest to a woman to go on a break then meet another girl and then breakup with his girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 10:41 AM
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this is irrelevant to my original statement. Men will keep a girlfriend until he likes another girl more (and she is available to him). After that he will leave the girlfriend and move on to the next girl, whilst staying 'monogamous'
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 08:30 AM
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If you found a girl you liked more, you would leave you current girlfriend for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 07:05 AM
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as long as he can also have the 30-year-old blonde in Marketing, that 19-year-old sociology major, and the 32- year-old soccer mom who gives him sidelong glances at practice. He wants to keep them all! Pussy Pokemon, as u/songofmelancholy has called it. Men love flirting with hotter women even if they dont fuck them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:43 AM
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very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:19 AM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 11:26 AM
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You do realize, a low value man can also do all of the things you stated?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 11:25 AM
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This response makes sense to me, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 11:24 AM
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People in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 11:22 AM
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I love how you’re making this seem like this is about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 11:17 AM
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Why do you assume this is about looks? Nothing to do with looks at all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 10:53 AM
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i dont think its about 'pairing down'. some people still think that as long as 'commitment' is offered to a woman, that all her needs are met. Research actually shows women rate higher in satisfaction in new relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:16 AM
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this is a good response thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:12 AM
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The way you're approaching this is very analytical, and to be quite honest I don't believe in this sort of approach to a CMV like this, because it doesn't involve numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:09 AM
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I am 23 actually. I think women do want commitment, but men overestimate the extent to which women value this 'commitment'.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:07 AM
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I find that they are, and that they are actively soliciting that commitment. I think a woman would accept commitment, but she's not pushing for it like this sub makes people believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:02 AM
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Sure, but in modern relationships, men tend to think 'casual commitment' actually means something. If you're talking about marriage, then sure. Edit: Even if a man commits to you in marriage, it doesn't mean he will actually be present.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 02:52 AM
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It's the notion that men 'are the gatekeepers of commitment' that doesn't make sense to me. Sure, it's true, but the extent to which women value 'commitment' is generally overestimated. Women don't just want to be in a relationship just for the sake of being in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 02:50 AM
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Way to attack me and make false assumptions about me because you can't change my view
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 07:06 PM
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Incels want ANY girl to like them. True.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 06:55 PM
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Well I'm glad you're entertained, however, this post is serious so I do hope you got something out of it too!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 04:48 PM
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ahaha do I know you? :o
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 04:45 PM
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The limiting belief is that you are no longer desirable to men as you were when you were younger. Although this is true, actively believing this and internalizing this on a day to day basis can be damaging to your mental health. Just like with incels who believe women only want chad and there is not escaping it no matter how well the dress, how much they work on their confidence and how fit they become. Some people just want to internalize limiting beliefs just so they don't have to work on them…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 03:52 PM
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Eh. They have very similar mentalities and outlook towards life, love and the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 03:41 PM
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Unrelated to my original point. My perspective is that the mentality that both incels and post wall women have is limiting to living life to the fullest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 03:37 PM
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They just need to be shown some affection, thats all. I won't define happiness because it's not my place to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 03:30 PM
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post wall women are sitting behind computers reading reddit forums though. I doubt incels are less happy overall. They're younger and less experienced. Post wall women should know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 03:26 PM
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people are ridiculous. I bet in the past they weren't so anal about defining happiness. FFS.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 03:22 PM
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I will say this is why the attitude of “sex is how we connect” has been more fruitful for me than “we have sex when we feel connected.” I think this is a good mentality to have to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:33 PM
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You probably enjoy that dynamic and somewhat encourage it in men. We subconciously attract people who fulfil our needs, not someone who we logically think will make us happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 11:36 AM
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I talk to them if they talk to me. most of them think I'm to unapproachable and that I don't want to talk to anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 03:24 AM
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I study engineering so I'm constantly surrounded by those 'shy awkward guys'
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 03:20 AM
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The ones who are mature but awkward and shy all go for awkward and shy women, women who they feel are in their league and not intimidate by. The problem is that neither of them take the dominant role in the interaction and it often ends in no one expressing interest or asking the other out, never going anywhere. I tend to attract more dominant men, and I always assumed that was because I was shy and feminine, but reading the replies from women in this thread they have different experiences, so m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 03:17 AM
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I 100% agree with this. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 03:14 AM
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Then why do shy women in this thread have no problem attracting shy men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 03:07 AM
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Lol I'm not intimidating at all. I'm just curious where all these shy awkward men are..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:43 AM
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This makes no sense to me at all. I'm very shy and I think awkward shy guys tend to go for women who remind them of their mom. I've never had a shy awkward guy express interest in me ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:04 AM
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I largely attribute this to my personality (I'm kind of shy and meek) and the fact that my look is more "cute" than "hot/sexy." I think this combination inspires a protective instinct in men and causes the douchier ones to pass me over. I'm shy and meek too and I would consider myself more cute than hot/sexy, but I never attract the guys you're describing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 01:33 AM
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Do you have a more dominant personality type, at least when it compared to other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 01:31 AM
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That's interesting... I'm wondering if there anything about you that gave subconscious cues to those men which made them think you would be a good match? Things like your demeanour and the general way you conduct yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 01:26 AM
1

That's crazy.... I'm not sure exactly why this turns me off though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 01:08 AM
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I once had a guy tell me how he plans a future with me, and he sees me as a big part of his future, and he plans to get rich so we can spend our vacation on some fancy island. For some reason that turned me off... because I know it's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:39 AM
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Women assume that because a guy's stuck around for years, he must care about you. But the truth is, some guys will marry and have kids with women they don't even like, let alone love. Because they don't want to be alone This is so true...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:33 AM
2

Depends on the context of the approach. Are they friends? Co-workers? At the club?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:20 AM
3

I honestly believe I could be interested in any man, as strange as that may seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 12:18 PM
1

You act like if you’re not in a monogamous relationship, then you will be fucking lots of new women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 09:00 AM
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nope. women offer men emotional support and many other things too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:33 AM
1

do you mean overestimating? Because i agree with what you just said
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:25 AM
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It changes depending on who's interested in me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:05 AM
1

> I casually see many girls who i like and enjoy it i never in a million years would tie myself to would those girls invest in you though? probably not. Men don't like being forced into anything, so that's why when a woman pushed for it, it makes him want to be distant even more. The truth is though, why would those women want to commit to you? They probably have more options to do so, and sex is not enough to create an incentive to make a lot of effort in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 12:16 AM
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Sounds like you have little experience with women. The first time is never good enough to make it commitment worthwhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 12:09 AM
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I don't believe women initiate the commitment talk, at all. Women tend to go with the flow and usually don't force commitment onto a man. I think men are the ones who like relationships because it means he can relax more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 12:00 AM
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Higher sex drive just means the desire to fuck more women and I agree with you there. In reality though, a man would have to make more effort in his spare time to meet, court, and impress women so they would have sex with him. Imagine the effort taken to get different women to sleep with you? Compared to rolling home after work tired, and having sex with your wife who will fuck you, and more regularly. Sure, a woman gains 'commitment', but what does that *mean* exactly. Women have a deep psychol…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 11:58 PM
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because women like attention. sacrificing the attention for just one man IS a sacrifice, at least initially....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 11:47 PM
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Yeah but he's gaining more out of the relationship, which I'm not saying is a bad thing. Men are usually not relationship oriented in the way women are, and some people make it seem like the end all and be all of the female imperative is to 'get commitment'. Whereas in reality, when the woman gets commitment she's the one who will make most the effort while he gets sex more regularly than if he wasn't in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 11:44 PM
2

This is my opinion, and I'm challenging you to prove me wrong. I don't care if it's unproductive, because it's my reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 11:41 PM
1

sorry, am i wrong? :O
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 11:35 PM
1

I like foreplay, but sometimes you just want to get straight into sex. So I guess its neither underrated or overrated
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 03:35 PM
0

kate upton is a 5 who only fucks chads. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 03:12 PM
2

I didn't say women don't like to be sexually objectified.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 05:42 PM
1

I'm not saying women don't find men attractive. They do, but women don't view men as sex objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 05:28 PM
0

Show me how men are objectified like women are. Women are objectified into single body parts, but men aren't. Except for gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 05:12 PM
2

are you male or female?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 03:33 PM
3

It does work, but most guys don’t know how to do it properly. If it’s done from a place of confidence it will work, but if it’s done from a place of low self esteem and confidence it won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 01:34 PM
2

It’s my style of writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 04:02 PM
3

Why is it only worth it for a minority of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 04:00 PM
1

Well, I’m just going by what is current being said, not the original intended meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 03:48 PM
1

Exactly, if a guy does the same thing for another guy he won't expect anything in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 09:16 PM
1

The guys I know at college who help me with homework. One time a guy told me that I can pay him back later for it...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 08:32 PM
3

Or maybe it's just really awkward for her. If you're looking at a woman of course she's going to look at you too. Smiling is sometimes a sign of nervousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 07:38 PM
3

Saying a man is cute is NOT what is considered an IoI. An IoI are more subtle signs, such as the way a woman stands and if she laughs, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 07:35 PM
2

Why are you attacking me?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 06:58 PM
1

How old are you? Another thing I did was cut out women from my life that were influencing my perception of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 04:44 PM
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I was already in a bad place. There was a period of two years where I didn't even want to talk to men... So it did fuck me up quite badly. Only recently am I starting to talk to men again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 04:23 PM
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Reading male dominated forums which made me extra critical of myself
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 04:16 PM
1

Used my friendship against me to make me feel like I 'owe' something back for every little thing they do. Bear in mind, these men do exactly the same things for their male friends but don't expect anything in return from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 03:54 PM
4

The way they talk to you and the way they touch you is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 03:54 PM
2

I got more positive attention from men. I know men would still fuck fat women, but it doesn’t feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 02:39 PM
3

Ya but they used it against me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 01:57 PM
1

Is all you want sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 12:37 PM
2

Lol what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 12:37 PM
4

Honestly I think I was better off before I ever knew about any of this. metoo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 12:30 AM
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Not in the way that it would make a man a good husband. Literally I have been in situations which were so second hand embarrassing and humiliating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 12:21 AM
1

I don't make very good sandwiches, but it's the effort that counts right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 12:18 AM
1

Exactly... There was a certain type of guy that I used to think needed help, but from my experiences I came to understand that if someone was never shown compassion before in their life, they won't appreciate someone showing it to them. I guess it just comes down to how people are used to receiving love... Just to clarify.. lots of these guys were very beta, almost omega, and no I wasn't interested in them sexually. They would constantly have women AND men treating them very badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 12:18 AM
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It's not even about dating. It's just the fact that my compassion was misplaced towards certain men. I used to think that if a man was shown how to be less beta, that it would have a positive affect on him. I didn't realize that it actually wasn't my place to do so and some men are fucked up..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 12:12 AM
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Well, it made me see 'bluepill men' in a certain way and made me feel bad for them, so I would trust their friendship. I was more compassionate towards those sort of guys and usually it ended up backfiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 12:08 AM
2

I do get that a lot from people. On the other hand, I also dislike talking to most people...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 12:04 AM
2

That's true, but I've realized that no matter how much I read, I still can't distinguish good men and bad ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 11:59 PM
3

hahahahahaha This made me laugh. Why do I need protecting though?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 11:58 PM
3

5 years is a long time. I wasn't in the pillsphere, but used to read lots of male dominated forums even when I was still in high school. I think that clouded my opinion of men even before I got to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 11:57 PM
2

INFP
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 11:56 PM
1

You think it won't, but trust me, it will.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 11:50 PM
3

I'm glad its working out for you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 11:48 PM
1

Never heard of it and never knew it existed. To be honest, I don't think it would do me any good reading it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 11:48 PM
1

What's the manosphere? How is it different to redpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 11:42 PM
1

What does that even mean? Are you implying redpillers don't get sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 11:38 PM
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I think theredpill ruined me in the sense that all I think all men want is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 11:32 PM
2

Has a woman ever called you out on the way you talk about women in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 11:32 PM
2

Lots of women prefer comfort, I don't think it's an intelligence issue. It's easier to surround yourself with low value men and have them validate you constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 11:54 PM
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I think there are women who get blind-sighted by the amount of low value men surrounding them. I doubt a woman who surrounds herself with low value men will go after high value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 11:50 PM
2

Fat guys have lower sex drives than fit ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 08:55 PM
1

Fat guys have lower sex drives than fit ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 08:39 PM
5

This is true. Most women love getting attention even if they don't like the men in question.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 08:37 PM
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Yes, but once those women leave those relationships they enter abusive relationships again and again. I don't think that's an issue of abundance rather an issue of how they perceive love.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 07:39 PM
1

I'm just saying meeting women through tinder isn't a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 06:35 PM
1

Using a dating app requires no effort. Just swipe left or swipe right. No need to leave your house.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 06:08 PM
1

Which sentence :/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 02:25 PM
1

It's not about direct attraction, it's about self control. Self control is a positive trait for both men and women. By keeping in shape you're displaying you have self control and also respect for yourself. Why would a woman be attracted to a man who displayed little or no self respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 11:45 PM
2

There are people everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 11:43 PM
1

I'm telling you the female perspective, take what you will from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 11:21 PM
3

A guy becomes hotter when he's confident, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 10:55 PM
2

I agree with you. I'm actually attracted to confidence way more which I'm sure most women are, or at least women who have a female brain lol. When a guy knows that he wants you and persists with you it demonstrates a lot more value than a guy who uses online dating because his ego is too fragile to go and talk to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 10:52 PM
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Attraction isn't logical. You can look as many studies as you want, or you can actually go out into the real world and make some observations and decide for yourself. What online dating gets wrong is that is assumes everybody responds to attraction the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 10:44 PM
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Sure, for very conventionally attractive males this is true. In real life though, a man can use his skills to get a woman far more easily. Online dating in general is harmful to men, because they can't showcase their confidence, which is a primary factor for enticing attraction in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 10:38 PM
1

depends on the girth though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 08:08 PM
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Some guys have too big of an ego to go talk to a woman. They're scared of being rejected and don't want to validate a woman by expressing interest in her. I don't even know what RP is... does it even exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 03:43 PM
2

I wouldn't want the top 1%. 6'5 is too tall. Maybe the dick though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 12:22 PM
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If you're a man you need to be capable of creating and developing attraction. I don't understand the pain of rejection. So what if they don't like you. If you're only going to go after women who you *think* are into you too, you're not going to be successful because quite honestly, women don't work like that. By having this mindset, you can sit comfortably at home on your dating app where you only match with women who like you too. If it makes you feel better about not going up to a woman YOU li…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 12:21 PM
1

What makes you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 01:36 AM
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By respect I mean a woman who doesn't admire you or value you as a man. Could you tolerate that if you loved her enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 01:17 AM
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I don't think they fall for them because of that, I think they fall for them in spite of that. They hope the woman will change somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 12:29 AM
1

oh... nevermind then
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 07:51 PM
1

Lol. This definitely happens. I'm not even working yet but from what I've seen at college in a male dominated subject, professors flirt with female students all the time... I have no idea what actually goes on behind the scenes though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 07:38 PM
1

I bet you're really young.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 07:34 PM
1

I'm sorry about that :(. Intuition never lies, you should speak to him!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 05:57 PM
3

What ethnicities make someone foreign? How about eastern and Southern Europeans? How about South Americans? All have different cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 03:51 PM
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We are already at that point, but right now it's more of an issue in other countries such as Japan. I believe that the same thing is going to happen in the west to the extent that is happening in Japan. I don't think men will be able to fix the problem. Most men will be content with their sex dolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 02:20 PM
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I think women will have more power and it will be normalized for them to not act traditionally feminine. The lines between man and woman will become even more blurred. I think sex dolls will come into the equation and men will become happy about it (even if they don't admit it). The use of sex dolls distances men from women emotionally so they will begin to not engage in relationships with women. As for feminism and equality, feminism changes and people will forget how feminism used to be. I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 01:44 PM
2

exactly... When men brag about ONS I just think about how the woman never wants to see him again because he was terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 10:33 AM
1

Body is more important to me. I don’t like skinny or fat dudes. I like broad shoulders
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 09:16 AM
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He probably came tho, she probably didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 10:00 PM
1

So for a ONS, basically the woman is irrelevant and is just there to please you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 08:36 PM
0

Ya, if only those men had the same opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 08:14 PM
1

I appreciate your honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 08:08 PM
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It's not a crime, I just don't think men should be impressed with themselves because most can't please a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 07:55 PM
2

ya lets roll with that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 07:52 PM
4

That's just to make themselves feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 07:47 PM
3

Would you take time to engage in foreplay? Even if it took over an hour?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 07:40 PM
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Sure, but I wanted to see the male perspective on this. Some guys are just happy to get laid they think just the fact that the woman agrees to have sex means she's attracted and enjoys sex enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 07:37 PM
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Sure they 'care' in the sense that their ego wants to believe the woman is satisfied. Will they actually do stuff to pleasure the woman though?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 07:36 PM
2

So if you had a ONS and she didn't want to see you again, would it make you feel bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 06:44 PM
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Lots of men have ONS and never see the girl again. Although it could be said that it's the man ghosting the woman, I'm pretty sure women ghost just as much, and their reasons are more based on the lack of sexual gratification
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 06:41 PM
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Attraction for women is something that develops based on how they the man makes them feel physically and emotionally. So if the sex was bad, the woman won't want to see the man again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 06:34 PM
1

Awww, you're still young.. just wait till you go to college :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 12:20 AM
5

So brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 11:38 PM
5

If a man was very fit, would that make you feel self conscious? Or if the man was very wealthy, would you feel as if he could do better?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 11:31 PM
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I don't think STEM men are bad. I just think some of them tend to have very idealized stereotypes about women. Also, just because a man helps you, it doesn't mean he likes you or is trying to get something sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 10:32 PM
2

I know, that's why I mentioned it, because really men don't fight over women nowadays :(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 10:18 PM
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I'm already in a STEM field at college. I do have men who help me with homework already and help me get up the career ladder by inviting me to take part in various opportunities. Does that even count though?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 10:14 PM
3

The only time men have ever fought for me was when I went for an apartment viewing. Two of the men who were working there were discussing back and forth about which one of them should show me around. Apart from that, I've never had a guy go out of his way for me like you're suggesting in the post :(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 10:07 PM
1

They're not, but a masculine man is less likely to be feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 10:05 PM
1

I think most people are immune to fat, they don't notice a fat person when they see one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 03:53 PM
4

Show me stats that wealthier people aren't fat
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 03:44 PM
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This isn't actually that true. Sure, wealthier people have lower rates of fat people. It's not that much lower though, to the extent which you're suggesting.. They're still fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 03:42 PM
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That wasn’t my intention at all. I agree as long as masculinity and femininity are balanced out it’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 12:51 AM
0

22 is old enough
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 12:08 AM
1

Yes, why is that relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 12:04 AM
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I think im highly sexual in my own mind, then when there's a man in front of me it takes a lot for me to actually get turned on
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 12:03 AM
1

what do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 11:58 PM
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Lots of men are of the opinion that women aren't feminine and are fat slobs. I was simply stating that women have gotten less feminine and men less masculine, and maybe.. that's ok
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 11:54 PM
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i just dont think what you're saying is related to my comment. why are you talking about war?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 11:43 PM
1

young enough though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 11:42 PM
0

Too passive, doesn't know what he's doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 11:41 PM
1

I guess at some point, most women realize that they're not going to get prince charming (not that they deserve it), but they set themselves up for a life of mediocrity
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 11:41 PM
3

whos getting shot at, im confused?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 11:38 PM
2

Idk, I wouldn't call myself happy or sad based on the fact that I'm at college. Independence from men how? Most men are probably happy women are independent and most men nowadays aren't masculine enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 11:32 PM
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Fuck I wish I was more masculine. Men have told me before for looking the way I do, I'm not sexual enough. Apparently being feminine in looks means you're sexually aggressive? :( I'm submissive and respectful but most men dislike my personality.... There is such a thing as TOO respectful
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 11:16 PM
2

Just find a woman who's more masculine so she will have a similar mindset to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 10:25 PM
3

I know latinas who do it. Do they count?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 02:47 PM
1

That's true. I don't know though, I have developed friendships with guys and eventually they start being shady... and they might not really care for you :(
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 02:28 PM
1

I generally find human intuition to be flawed as well -intelligent psychopaths for example can easily charm people and gain their trust by manipulation while people who are off in behavior like autists are perceived as unpleasant or potentially dangerous, even if they have no bad intentions. I'm generally the type of person to disagree with how other people are perceived. I don't really fall for charming behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 02:09 PM
1

So you really think your gf was a raging slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 12:34 PM
1

I'm not talking about ONS or taxi drivers. I'm talking about situations where you have a conversation with someone which can tell you a lot about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 12:19 PM
1

because they know by my reactions. It's impossible to know with certainty. That could be said about absolutely anything lol. But so far evidence shows that she says the truth, but if I found out she lied, I'd probably leave her on the spot. So you agree, there is evidence to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 12:17 PM
1

I was just saying human relationships aren't all black and white. I don't think trust is always built over time actually. Most people will give hints of what type of person they are if you actually pay attention to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 12:13 PM
1

I don't feel comfortable easily either, but I guess you have to trust your intuition when it comes to people. That's what's worked for me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 12:10 PM
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This is true of course, that time brings comfort. I guess if it's just comfort she's looking for, it's best to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 12:09 PM
1

If it's about trust, why would you want to be with a guy who you can't trust easily? It depends what vibes you get from him. If he can't make you comfortable quickly, then when you do eventually have sex, it won't be that good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 11:30 AM
2

I think if you wait too long, you actually end up putting more pressure on yourself. First time with a new person is going to be awkward anyway, why prolong it? You can't guarantee he will be attached to you either way, and you can't be for certain if you make him wait that he's not going to hurt you. So why wait?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 11:20 AM
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I don’t like to because I always had the mindset that the man should approach. Then I realized if the man is approaching he is going to be a certain type of guy. He’s not going to be the gentle loving type of guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 10:18 AM
1

No, not at all, never taken it. I’ve always been envious of women who had more feminine partners. Most the guys I’ve been with were extremely masculine and idk if that’s a good thing, because I don’t understand them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 02:03 AM
2

I always thought I wanted a masculine man, but then I realized they want to dominate me too much and since I attract very masculine men I don't really know how to deal with them. So I was curious if maybe I just need a feminine man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 01:54 AM
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Idk, I was always envious of women who were able to get the more gentle and feminine men. I guess I can't complain because I never approach men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 12:43 AM
1

Where? I tried to find articles about it but I failed. Do you mean feminist blogs?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 12:41 AM
2

The guys I've been with don't realize I have a low n count until AFTER they fucked me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 12:18 AM
2

So true. Then nobody would need to play games when it comes to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 11:40 PM
1

no it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 10:43 PM
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You're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 10:21 PM
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I was looking at it from a different perspective. What I meant was if the man is getting sex, would he think the woman is happy with him? In my opinion, maybe some women just don't like to play games.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 09:37 PM
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Right.. now you're looking for a good woman to raise your children :(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 09:24 PM
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So if you don't get sex, you would change how you treat the woman in order to increase your chances of getting sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 08:56 PM
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In an ideal situation women can have sex immediately and the man can invest emotionally into the woman too. Unfortunately, the world isn't perfect :(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 05:14 PM
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Ah ok. I've never had a one-off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 05:05 PM
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What do you consider as a ONS?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 04:50 PM
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No, I just think men are given this idea that to truly love a woman you can't intensely desire her. It's as if they think their own sexuality is somehow dirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 04:50 PM
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I don’t think it’s mutually exclusive at all. It’s just I don’t think most men get it right when knowing when to show love and desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 01:44 PM
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He was just being a dick to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 01:20 PM
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And how exactly is that any different from women eyefucking chad? Big difference, you're describing a man desiring a woman vs a woman desiring a man (which I don't even think exists in that way)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 12:30 AM
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theres a difference between chad eyefucking them and women eyefucking chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 12:25 AM
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Wanting to be desired does not mean eye fucking chad. That's your problem right there
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 12:21 AM
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Honestly, I think it does happen, but it's rare. I think it's the ideal situation which every woman wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 10:58 PM
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So if he never initiated physical contact with you, that would be ok? Your family members also love you, like a brother or a sister would.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 10:39 PM
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It doesn't mean he ends up loving the woman he desired the most though. I have had numerous conversations with men who left women they desired because they didn't love her, for reasons such as personality, intelligence. Which to be honest I don't understand...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 10:37 PM
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That is true. I think if a woman doesn't feel as desired by her partner, she could possibly end up sleeping with another guy who makes her feel more desired. Love is overrated in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 10:35 PM
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He might desire another woman a lot more whilst loving another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 10:32 PM
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I've never flirted with anyone. However, one time in biology class my teacher said to me 'You're flirting with me because you want higher grades'. So I don't know if that counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 09:38 PM
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Hmm, why did he have to sleep with her though? There's plenty of other girls around lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 06:16 PM
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The thing is, when most women see that a man cares about me or I have good men in my life, they go out of their way to mess that up for me. The lesson I've learnt is to never brag about a man in front of other women lol. Just to be clear I'm not talking about cheating or flirting, just regular shady shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 06:04 PM
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Interfering with my relationships with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 05:25 PM
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I have no female friends right now. My female friends unload all of their shit on me because I'm a more sensitive and emotional person so I can understand what they're feeling. The problem is they're not willing to do the same for me and usually end up doing some shady shit which results in us cutting our friendship. I'm close to my mom, but that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 05:06 PM
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Definitely. I’m also really easy to manipulate because I’m sensitive and emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 09:26 AM
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I don't look at him to try to steer him away and hope he doesn't actually approach me. I don't find guys attractive off the bat, but somehow, when they're too tall and muscular, they intimidate me. I feel shy most the time. Since some people are giving examples, I'll give some too: Most of the men are in their 20s: Guy1: Approaches me when I'm walking to college and tells me he was getting the bus but when he saw me he had to come and talk to me. He asks if it's ok to walk with me and compliment…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 05:19 PM
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Wow, this is an excellent piece of writing. I agree with you 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 05:05 PM
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True men will sleep with anything and tbh will have relationships with anything too. Some even marry them. That’s old news tho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 06:41 AM
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That women aren't self conscious ? Ya, I guess women have more reason to feel confident in themselves nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 10:09 PM
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I'm always self critical of my appearance and the work that I do. I know compared to many of the women my age I am far less confident and in all honesty, I don't understand why women are ok with fucking or dating a man who, for example, is in good shape, when she clearly isn't. I'll take the quiz :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 09:58 PM
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It also depends on how good he is at sex. I've never ever felt immense attraction towards a man. Actually, I've turned down guys for being 'out of my league', because I felt too self conscious. I was about 20lbs heavier and I wouldn't even consider a guy who was considered tall or even above average height. Even to this day I still prefer average height men. To me, height has always been a big deal and if he's tall there's always something in the back of my head telling me I'm not good enough fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 09:43 PM
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I can understand her being a perfectionist, and actually part of that stems from being hard on yourself, so you critique everything you think is wrong. When it's not controlled though, you start doing it to other people
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 09:39 PM
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big to me is about thickness too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 09:35 PM
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She probably didn't come
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 09:18 PM
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you're probably below average to her
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 09:10 PM
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I'm a woman. Big dicks hurt like hell
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 07:59 PM
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she's pretty though. Is that what you consider below average? I'd take her over the average man. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 07:51 PM
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What the hell? You're ridiculous. Keep living in your fantasy world where women look like feminized traps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 07:25 PM
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You're trolling because that girl is cute. Adriana Lima is beautiful, but shes more masculinized. You probably just like masculine women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 07:15 PM
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I don't know what fantasy they have about women looking barely legal, it kinda makes me sick tbh :(
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 07:10 PM
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Do you look younger than you are? I always get told that by people and I think (in my opinion) that it's the main contributing factor. I'm not entirely sure though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 07:06 PM
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Men sleep with women much less attractive than them all the time, even celebrities. The girl just has to be sexually, open/available and the best option at that time. You can't use a celebrity and use that for a standard as what all men do..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 07:05 PM
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How old are you? You sound quite old, no offence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 07:04 PM
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Ok, men want smart intelligent women with a degree in astronomy. You happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 07:04 PM
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Your username says it all. Show me a pic of the girl, then I'll believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 06:59 PM
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Yeah, I don't think it depends on how you dress. Some people just want to take advantage of you to be honest...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 06:54 PM
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As long as she's young and slim right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 06:47 PM
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I think he's referring to escort and prostitute
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 06:28 PM
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I was never confused for a prostitute, as in someone who was routinely working in the sex field. I did have one guy approach me, ask me my age and offer me cash in return for sex. Let me just tell you I was wearing jeans and a jacket. It happened 2 years ago, and when I refused him, he backed away maintaining eye contact and not looking away. It still haunts me... Edit: There isn't a price you can place on sexuality. Rich men would pay the woman they have sex with a lot more than the average man…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 06:25 PM
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How many drinks would it take?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 06:11 PM
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I’d rather have a small dick than a big one
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 05:44 PM
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You make women at the club sound like local produce
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 05:19 PM
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The guys here definitely have lower standards than guys irl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 03:03 PM
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I'm not telling them not to try. I'm just trying to understand why men claim that their standards are low. If this was true the women should be happier because they're with a man 'out of their league' due to hypergamy. I just wanted the male perspective on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 02:59 PM
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No wonder I was confused lol. I'm a woman haha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 02:53 PM
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Although maybe you're one of those that think it's all genetics, you don't have it, and that gives you permission to quit. It would fit with your OP. I'm confused as to what you mean here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 02:43 PM
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No need to be hostile. Just understand that according to people here, unless the man is superchad, the woman won't like him enough and will leave him for another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 02:35 PM
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That's really strange. I don't know the ins and outs of your relationship, but I hope she actually likes you, and doesn't find another guy to try to prove her self worth. If a girl likes you enough, she doesn't need to see herself as below to you and you shouldn't need to reinforce it. The behavior you're displaying could result in resentment from her part.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 02:32 PM
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So why do people suggest the man to be more attractive than the woman? What difference would it make anyway, if hypergamy is never satisfied?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 02:27 PM
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How do you think she would feel if she knew you thought you were above her in every single way?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 02:15 PM
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I don't understand what you think I'm doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 02:14 PM
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I did make a post a while ago that men prefer to wife up masculine women both looks and personality wise, and view feminine looks and personality for short term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 02:13 PM
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I don't believe the average man would fuck a chubby woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 02:08 PM
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Ya but in the army men don't come into contact with women often. you can't apply that to everyday life. If women were isolated, they would do the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 02:08 PM
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Those are exceptional cases, and also remember they cheated with women way younger than their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 02:06 PM
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Look Again His mistresses were way hotter, but I agree way less classy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 02:05 PM
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I agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 02:02 PM
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I was talking more in terms of looks though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 02:02 PM
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outside of looks, nothing determines a womans value
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 02:00 PM
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Ya I already know men don't care about a womans intelligence, but when it comes to looks they don't want to compromise
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 02:00 PM
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The whores were hot though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 12:53 PM
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I think men don’t have lower standard either way. I don’t really see above average guys having casual sex with below or average women. I guess it depends on how you define commitment, because to me, the only serious form of commitment is marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 12:50 PM
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Men go for the best they can get top. Especially if they’re high status. Just to be clear, a college educated non fat man is not high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 12:40 PM
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Really high value men, as in high status men, will sleep with average women? I doubt it. They get the hottest women with minimal effort
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 12:35 PM
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I don’t see high value men having casual sex with low value women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 12:29 PM
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How can you be certain you’re the best she can get? How do you determine she’s way below you’re league?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 12:28 PM
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I've come to the conclusion that according to people in this sub, women will only be happy living in polygamous relationships with the top 0.1% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 11:10 AM
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It happens quite a bit, at least in my experience it does. Some men do worry that it would be considered as harassment to cold approach a woman, but I think it's quite cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 03:52 PM
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It depends on the guy to be honest. I always thought I couldn't get interested quickly, but that was from a visual standpoint. I noticed that when a guy would escalate the right way, I would be interested in him more than if he didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 01:39 PM
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Although I am not immediately aroused, if a guy waits to long to escalate, it makes me feel as if he doesn't really desire me, so then it kills off any potential attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 12:51 PM
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If I like a guy I wont hold back, I will still show him I like him. I don't mind getting physical as long as I feel good about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 12:32 PM
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They like it, and would fuck the women that approach them. What I mean is that the women that do the approaching wouldn’t be his preference. He probably wouldn’t approach her
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 12:20 AM
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Right... way to be civil. I’m just saying it’s not a good idea to rely on your friendship group to meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 08:03 PM
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Nah go for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 07:54 PM
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If only trashy women go to bars, then why are you even entertaining the fact that men can’t approach women there? go meet a girl at the library.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 07:52 PM
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Most men don’t approach women though, which I do think is a result of conditioning men that they SHOULDNT do it. I’m not dismissing complaints, if you want to complain go right ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 07:44 PM
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Nope no one does that stupid shit, never seen that. Only in youtube videos and in pua wet dream posts. Of course some autists probably do fall for it and actually go and harass women like that Maybe the people you know don't and you just don't realize when it does happen. Talking to a woman is not harassment and meeting women only in your social circle is a limiting mentality because there's so much better out there which you will never meet if you confine yourself to only the people you're surr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 07:35 PM
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If you try going to your local bar and start picking up women there you will be labeled a creepy desperate guy and thrown out See my original comment. No it's not creepy and it happens all the time. Women don't go to bars to get picked up, they go there to hangout with their friends and drink. True, but they won't reject all men who approach them. Only a small minority of women go to bars This is true which is why you shouldn't rely on only one place to meet women Even in big cities, no one actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 07:19 PM
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I was confused since it's a CMV post, but I just got confirmation from a mod saying it's fine to do so. Maybe I'm not the best person to explain this since I'm a straight woman who doesn't have the same experiences with women the way straight men do. However, women complain in different ways. I think the entitlement of women comes from the fact they think they should be able treat men however they want to and not make as much of an effort in the relationship. I see lots of women who treat their …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 07:13 PM
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Ok. I just didn't want to begin discussing it if it meant my original comment would be removed. Thanks for letting me know!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 07:08 PM
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True. Women do complain and play the victim, but since this is a CMV, it's not the right thread to discuss this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 07:01 PM
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In bigger cities they do. Even in smaller cities, places such as bars are usually where men meet women... youtube prank vloggers and autists So you're labelling and judging men for approaching women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 06:59 PM
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Approaching women anywhere you want to. You can't fail at something unless you try.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 06:55 PM
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Retract what? What do you want me to do? I was giving an example of conversations of comments I've seen when the man is venting and when offered advice, he just decides women aren't worth the hassle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 06:54 PM
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You misunderstood what I meant, that's your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 06:46 PM
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Where did I call them incels? Show me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 06:38 PM
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I don't think it's misogyny. Misogynistic men are different to men who just don't like women. I'm not bashing anyone, I'm just explaining WHY those men are viewed that way. Those men are not actually interested in dating and the effort associated with meeting women. They just want a slim 21 year old woman to land in front of them and submit to them sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 06:28 PM
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Isn't that the same for women? Usually women don't approach, so they can't be complaining about their options, right? Most women don't approach, but some do, but they are not the type of women men usually have a preference for. If you think women should be the ones to approach, I am not trying to convince you otherwise, even though I disagree with you. If you're looking to for confirmation that women aren't worthy of being pursued, don't be surprised that you're going to be called out on it onli…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 06:17 PM
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I just think they don't like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 06:12 PM
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Don't get me wrong, I understand men need a place to rant, but sometimes it gets a bit excessive, not because they want to be the victim, but because the only reason that they complain is to seek affirmation that all women are indeed horrible and they should stick to sex dolls and porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 06:11 PM
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When men complain about women, usually they haven’t even approached women yet. Then, they start to complain that the reason they don’t is because they don’t want be seen as a creep. They also say women have super high standards and will brush off any man that isn’t a 6’2 muscley jerk. Then they come to the conclusion that women aren’t worth it, and say online dating is where it’s at, but they won’t stop there, because apparently online dating is full of fatties and the women have an inflated sen…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 05:50 PM
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This is also true, but if I mentioned that in my comment I would get people telling me that the average woman is 50lbs overweight, etc. Men do overrate themselves, and I don't think it's just about being obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 01:21 AM
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Men want women to lower their standards, but they themselves are not willing to lower their standards. Or at least feel resentment that they have to put in effort to obtain an average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 12:51 AM
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I just think you've fallen for him and your judgement is clouded. Since I can't judge and I'm basing it on what you just told me, you have to take a look at the situation yourself objectively. If it was another girl in your position, what would you think about their relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 12:28 AM
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I thought you were the person who wrote the original comment, so nevermind about that. I don't believe all women date up because that must mean that some women are in fact dating down...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 12:07 AM
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Tell me what your idea of an average man and an average woman is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 11:53 PM
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He's clearly telling you he doesn't want to be your boyfriend. If that's what you want, you should stop seeing him because you're only going to get more needy with time. If you don't care about just keeping it casual, then keep doing what ya doing already. It sounds like you're paying him back by wanting more by having more sex with him? Like you're treating him really well, which isn't a bad thing, just not something you should do with any guy..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 11:27 PM
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I almost never see women dating up in looks unless it's an older couple in which case it's plausible that they were looksmatched when younger. If the average woman dates above average men, what happens to the above average women and average and below average men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 10:50 PM
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So women are dating 'up' by being in relationships and marrying beta men? Hypergamy in the sense of $$$, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 10:48 PM
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I was thinking that, and I do think that's good enough effort to make to get expensive attention (whatever the real definition of that it anyway lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 07:56 PM
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What kind of effort would that be though?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 07:09 PM
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Having sex on his terms without demanding anything back. Do you not enjoy having sex with him, does he not care about your pleasure? How long is long enough to understand that it has nothing to do with him being uncertain about my wants/red flags Does he take interest in you after sex? How does he treat you after you have sex with him? How long is long enough to know that he really is not interested enough anymore? Does he make an effort, or are you the one making more of an effort? If you feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 04:32 PM
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Carry what on?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 04:06 PM
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I recommend you to talk less
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 03:50 PM
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Also, in my experience, most men do not give a flying fuck if the sex is painful. They just push through to get their dicks in even if you're telling them it hurts. They literally couldn't care less. At best they'll get annoyed, but never concerned not understanding It depends how much it hurts. Many guys would be turned off if the girl was genuinely in pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 03:31 PM
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You're female?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 03:24 PM
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Your block of text is so long, I have trouble actually understanding what you mean... Do you need advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 03:08 PM
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What would you define as expensive sex and attention then? Attention to me is still attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 02:58 PM
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porn is different. nobody wants to be filmed for other people to see
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 12:23 PM
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I think men should respect themselves, but the way you're describing it sounds like those guys are trying too hard, and it will show and women will pick up on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 10:44 PM
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Nobody cares about what people do. As long as you stay safe, don't lead people on, then do whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 06:59 PM
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Ya not only are they apparently getting casual sex, but apparently it's the women approaching them for sex. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 05:23 PM
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Where did I call someone weak minded?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 12:55 AM
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Can you explain what’s wrong with my comment? Did it get reported?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 12:53 AM
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Ahaha ok. I would be flattered too but I don’t think 1000 is too low from the guys perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 12:22 AM
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1000 is low and you’d be flattered? I don’t get it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 12:17 AM
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Yes, I am judging you for making a post where you call out people who have answered it. I have literally hinted that I would possibly accept the 1000 dollars... You make no sense, so yes, I don't want to continue this conversation because it's leading nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 11:21 PM
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Because I want to know more about someone's opinion which is different to mine. So I mention that I feel differently and why and hope they also do the same so I can try to understand where they're coming from. Surely you can see how something like that might stifle other people from stating they would take the money. Get over it, some people have said they would take the money in the comments, and I doubt I would have that strong of an influence over people that they would hold back their true f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 11:08 PM
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I'm not shaming anyone. Nothing is inherently 'bad' or 'good', but rather how you feel about it. If something makes you feel bad when you do it, then it wouldn't be healthy for you to continue doing it. Some people have different opinions and tolerances when it comes with what they're willing to do and how it would affect them, which is based on upbringing and past personal experiences. The point of this post was to see how people would react when offered money for sex, and if refusing was relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 10:57 PM
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I was thinking I could buy a new phone... :( such is life
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 10:07 PM
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Lol, from my point of view, 1000 dollars is an ok amount of money for college aged girls. Any higher and he could just get a decent hooker or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 10:00 PM
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But realistically, I'd probably just refer them to a local agency. They could sleep with multiple way hotter women than me for $1000. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 09:03 PM
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but in any industry, you'll notice that people who get something for free value it less, and are less pleasant about it, than people who had to pay. That is true, which is why it's good to play hard to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 08:41 PM
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True, maybe subconsciously i feel better about myself if i consider it as time. I'd rather someone not ruin my interpretation for me, but thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 08:13 PM
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Maybe hes just rich, he still doesn't care about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 08:01 PM
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How???? They're not remotely the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 08:00 PM
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No, harassment is if you act inappropriately. for example, touching her, invading her personal space, walking up to her and whispering inappropriate things in her ear. I think it's fine to approach women during the day, however, flirting with a woman who's working and you're a customer just might be a bit weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 06:35 PM
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That's different, at least to me it is. In that case, he is spending his time on you and making an effort. If the woman won't have sex with him unless he takes her out for a meal, then yes that's a similar concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 06:11 PM
1

I meant that most men would give a woman money in exchange for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 05:47 PM
0

Did he offer a specific amount? Don't you think if you asked guys for money in exchange for sex, most of them would agree anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 05:43 PM
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Ya some guys joke about that, but I’m not talking about that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 05:35 PM
4

She probably didn’t have sex because of the happy meal. She probably liked you anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 05:19 PM
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What do you mean by dating? What I mean is that you've known them for a few weeks or even less, and you've probably only went on a date with them a few times. So it's not like you know them properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:51 PM
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I don't think it's about clothing choices. Maybe you want to wait for sex and he offers you money to change your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:39 PM
1

Oh ok, I was just interested in if 'morals' would change if more money was involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:37 PM
0

Well, yeah. A need is a need. Assuming of course I couldn't get the money another way. You could get a job which pays far less, but would be enough to sustain a normal lifestyle. 'Needing' the money in this case would just mean you want to earn money easily or want to buy some more lavish items.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:31 PM
1

what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:30 PM
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It means that if I did it, I wouldn't feel good about it and think it would mess me up psychologically, not just because of doing it once, but how it would make me feel about myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:29 PM
1

So you would do it if you did need the money? Refusing is not related to your morals about sex and relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:25 PM
1

What if he offered other things, like laptops, iphones, purses, holidays? How would you react to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:24 PM
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Well, I don't agree with what you did, but hey that's your life and if you feel ok doing it, that's your choice. It would have a negative effect depending on how you view sex. It seems like you don't view sex as something with someone you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:23 PM
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It would feel different though, being paid for sex and having it because you want it. Don't you think it would have some negative affect on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:20 PM
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I don't mean a guy just comes up to you and offers you money, more like a guy you were dating for a few weeks offers it to you in exchange for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:19 PM
1

1000 not 100
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:18 PM
1

Right, so why would a woman make an effort to be slim? if you’re still getting attention from guys for having huge tits and ass, why should a woman feel like losing weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 02:57 PM
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I'm pretty sure middle class and upper middle class people still have a considerable amount of overweight men and women. Maybe the extent to which they're overweight is lower though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 02:18 PM
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Let me rephrase it. The number of young women who are at a normal weight is quite low. From what I've seen, most women in my area are at a normal weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 02:07 PM
2

Ah ok, still 38% of young women is still quite low to be honest. I expected it to be higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 01:59 PM
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Show me statistics for this, I know older people do tend to be fatter, but it's not by that much. Younger people are still fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 01:43 PM
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Lots of those women look fat to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 12:21 AM
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They get called thick in real life, and even curvy. So say what you like, but there are plenty of men who call fat women curvy or thick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 12:15 AM
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I'm talking about real life women, not fat porn stars who get lipo on their stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 12:11 AM
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Calling a girl thick is just a nice way of saying they're bigger, but not considered too big. thicker arms, legs, butt, even stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 11:56 PM
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All girls who are overweight can be considered as 'thick'. Bear in mind I didn't use the word curvy, which is different. Actually, I think it's easier to be thick, because it's easier to maintain and less effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 11:48 PM
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True, but what incentive is there for the average woman to lost weight to be considered 'slim', when they're considered other terms such as 'average' or 'thick'?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 11:38 PM
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No, I'm not overweight, but I'm pretty sure if I gained weight, I'd still be able to get guys. Although I wouldn't feel as good about it myself. 30lbs was mentioned as a few extra because it's the average weight a 5'4 woman can gain before being labelled as overweight or fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 11:32 PM
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There are people who are overweight who are not considered any less healthy as those who are at a normal weight. I think being slim is just a preference for most men and has nothing to do with health. Would it make a difference to you if a 5'4 woman was 110lbs or 140? Probably not, even though they're both at a healthy weight, you wouldn't care if a woman had a few extra lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 11:19 PM
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Obese will be the new average. People won't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 10:50 PM
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Do you expect her to feel comfortable immediately? Of course approaching a random woman will be a bit awkward at first, but most first interactions involve some feelings of discomfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 03:11 PM
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I know what you want to say, to date only one person, but it doesn't make sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 02:37 PM
1

what
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 02:18 PM
1

I don't really enjoy dating more than one person though, especially having dates on consecutive days, because you start to get really confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 01:33 PM
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I don't think a date is just a date. If someone I was dating made it clear that they wanted a relationship, I would stop dating other people. I do think it's different when you're having sex and when you're not having sex. So example 2 to me is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 12:37 PM
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Winning what? We weren't arguing, it just seemed initially that you disagreed with me, however your latest comments show you actually agree with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 01:17 AM
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So confused. Still don't get what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 12:58 AM
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Hmm ok, so you're saying it's wrong either way? Dating multiple people at a time even if sex isn't involved?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 12:50 AM
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What's the difference between what? If you're dating someone and they don't know you're having sex with someone else, that's not fair. Might not be a big deal to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 12:45 AM
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I didn't say that. I was talking about having sex with one person you're dating, whilst still dating other people,
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 12:39 AM
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Most guys aren't in good shape either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 12:32 AM
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I'm talking about dating before it becomes sexual. Like first few dates. What's wrong with doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 12:32 AM
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Because sex is important in relationships? At least being exclusive with someone you're dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 12:29 AM
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So, if a guy shows interest in me and I like him and start dating him whilst dating other guys, I am at risk for being a cheater??? Even if it's just one date?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 12:27 AM
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Why the sarcasm? Honestly, maybe they're not in good shape, but they average is not overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 12:26 AM
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That would be seen as leading someone else on, potentially, if they don't know you're dating other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 12:23 AM
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What's wrong with dating more than one person at a time? If it's the early stages and you're not having sex with them yet, I don't see it as an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 12:19 AM
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I don't really see that many overweight women in my area.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 12:11 AM
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I can't quite figure you out. A part of me thinks your trolling, and the other part of me thinks you're a lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 11:58 PM
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The thing is, it's usually the women who are promiscuous who call other women sluts. Women usually want to distinguish themselves from other women. It's quite funny seeing women defend their own promiscuous behaviour, yet hate on other women for doing the exact same thing and call them sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 11:57 PM
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Being into sex is different than being into many sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 08:30 PM
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Ya, thats true. What I'm trying to say is men will date women they wouldn't consider approaching and they will be in a relationship with her. Most men aren't masculine and don't desire or prefer a feminine woman when compared to a less feminine woman who's easier to obtain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 01:44 PM
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True, but if a fat woman approached men, they wouldn't exactly refuse her, even if she's not the type they would approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 01:38 PM
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But she's easy. It's way better than having a woman who you actually have to go out of your way for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 12:51 PM
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Ya but not masculine in the way he stated. More like they like a woman who approaches them, is easy, I don't really think they have a preference for feminine appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 12:50 PM
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I don't think this is true. I think most men just want an agreeable woman, who isn't hard to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 12:38 PM
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Thanks for the advice, and you're probably right, reddit is not a good platform for me to share opinions... but don't act like these men don't exist in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 02:15 AM
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I actually prefer average height men. What I don't prefer is average height men complaining that they're too short.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 01:14 AM
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I mean just the other day I put together a bed frame from ikea for my girlfriend. I didn't see her saying I can do this!! Glad she enjoyed it, sure she couldn't do it herself, but doesn't make it masculine. It wasn't physically demanding was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 12:58 AM
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What the hell... What the hell is the eastern japanese porn way, and WHY would you want to have sex with a woman who didn't enjoy it. Also since when was 'I want your cock in my mouth', active?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 12:54 AM
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I think they just want someone to cook and clean for them and not push them out of their comfort zone, and accept every mediocre thing that they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 12:25 AM
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I love how you keep changing what you stated. No, I still don't agree that assembling something at home makes you masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 12:23 AM
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True, I haven't considered that yet, but even though I'm referring to childless couples, some of those men still want a motherly figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 12:22 AM
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Well, that's where we disagree. I've never felt the need to mother a man unless he was really feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 12:15 AM
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Your initial comment stated that assembling a piece of furniture from IKEA was masculine. I said it wasn't. Now you're talking about something completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 11:58 PM
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Lol, are you being serious? Doing something on a small scale at home by no means is an indication that you have the aptitude or strength to do it for work. Working in a physically demanding profession means that you're doing it day in and day out. I'm a small woman, and I could put a piece of furniture together, however that doesn't mean I would be able to be a 'handyman' by any means. I have fixed my own stuff myself, it doesn't mean that I am strong or physically capable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 11:51 PM
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Confident and assertive men still like being waited on when they’re sick. I didn't say that they didn't. They like having friends over and having their wife cook up something delicious when someone’s stomach grumbles Sure, but moreso, it's about how you present yourself in front of their friends, which in my opinion is far more important than just cooking a meal. Again: what does “relaxing into a feminine state” mean? Being comfortable in being feminine, since I'm not able to feel that way with …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 11:47 PM
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Being a handyman and being a mover is completely different than assembling a piece of furniture. Being a carpenter is a masculine job because it's physically demanding. Putting together a single piece of furniture at home, following instructions isn't masculine at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 11:42 PM
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shit testing is feminine. not being logical is feminine. enjoying reality TV is feminine. Going shopping is feminine. Getting your nails done is feminine. Wanting marriage is feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 11:40 PM
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I'm not referring to sex or sexuality, but yes, part of it is related to submissive aspects, but not limited to that. I am also referring to interests and hobbies. I am trying to clarify that femininity is not about being caring and nurturing. (at least to me)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 11:37 PM
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What are defining as masculine men? Confident and assertive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 11:35 PM
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or putting together furniture from Ikea is a masculine behavior I don't agree that it's masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 11:33 PM
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Wow, you listed everything that I meant. To me those are very feminine traits and most men despise women who are like that or engage in those activities. I don't know why other people keep referring to caring as a feminine personality trait. They act like women want to mother men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 11:31 PM
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That was my definition and what I think femininity is and isn't, I did state that it was open for discussion, since I know other people might disagree with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 11:24 PM
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While men probably don't like being mommied by their women, it is absolutely a thing that certain women do. Some men want that though. Women don't do it because they just can't help it. Their partners bring out that side of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 11:20 PM
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I don't mean that at all. I was referring to how men refer to 'feminine' women in the way they conduct themselves. Why would I have to be feminine around every man?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 11:19 PM
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The nurturing is for when your masculine man has the flu or just came home from a crappy 12 hour work day. We can fend for ourselves but it's nice knowing your girl appreciates you enough. Modern bitch culture tells women that every interaction has to be 100% positive for her or she should disengage The same could be said when the genders are reversed though. Taking your partners needs into consideration isn't 'feminine'. Women work outside of the home too. For example, being a nurse with long s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 11:18 PM
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Not when it comes to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 11:15 PM
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Masculinized in every other way? What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 11:11 PM
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Femininity are the traits what women are most suited for in a natural environment. Such as being caring, compassionate, emotional, more social, etc. That sounds motherly to me, and the type of woman nerdy men like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 10:58 PM
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MGTOW’s think they have morals? Lolz
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 04:03 PM
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dating 'bad men'? What is a bad man?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 03:33 PM
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Should I be married?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 02:54 PM
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Interesting question. The way I see it, the man has to approach and initiate. If I like him then I’m going to put in effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 02:47 AM
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How am I gaslighting?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 12:55 AM
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Honestly, both sound equally bad, and equally traumatic. I can imagine being forced to marry someone who then proceeds to rape you everyday when you're hardly and adult yet can be devastating. Edit: Given that, I'd rather be a homeless man. More freedom, less chance of being raped daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 12:28 AM
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hit back, arguing that a.) I was allowed to have standards and b.) I want to have FUN when I fuck. It didn't hit me until later that the person bitching at me for writing off fat ladies literally got her current boyfriend by looking at a cute dude while he was at work, and asking him out - in retrospect probably would've been better had I not mentioned that. As a thin woman myself, I find myself also outraged that men have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:58 PM
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As long as he smells good
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:54 PM
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I do agree that it is more acceptable for women to be fat, but men do still prefer thin women. I think the expectation of men is that they feel like women should be skinny for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:44 PM
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No, actually the one that approached it like, honestly, I don't know how I feel about him. I'd rather a guy talk about what type of woman he likes instead of bashing women he supposedly doesn't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:37 PM
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I actually wouldn't say they did it in a good way. They were talking about how women divorce their husbands and leave them, how women get fat and act like slobs when they go to parties, and how they don't know how to act like a real 'lady'. All this tied in with the fact that feminism encourages this behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:33 PM
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I also listen to my male friends when they need someone to talk to, which takes a lot of effort too, albeit not physical, I spend my time trying to help them. We do things for people sometimes, why do you need praise for doing manly shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:30 PM
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I'm actually dating some of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:24 PM
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when's the last time you helped a woman carry up the washer or dryer up three flights of stairs. Infact, when was the last time you helped a woman like that? Are you referring to what is 'expected' of men or what men actually do?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:23 PM
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Lots of men have expressed their distaste for feminism to me, most of them the first or within the first few times I met them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:18 PM
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It depends how he goes about it. Like everything, it should be said in a manner which is not defensive or trying to blame or attack the other party. If a man was civil and was just sharing it would be a great experience
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:08 PM
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True. I do hear these complaints from men though, and I don’t understand why it’s so deep. Not all women are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:05 PM
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How does feminism relate to what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:04 PM
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Oh ok! Ya I agree, some people in this sub makes things really personal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:03 PM
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Who’s being nasty, I’m confused?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 09:59 PM
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Ya and it feels really good, because they put themselves in a potentially awkward situation just to talk to you. I do think beta men get approached (not romantically) but in the way that a girl will start talking to a beta male to be friends, and the beta male will never have the guts to approach her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 06:37 PM
2

True :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 06:15 PM
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No I actually like it when a guy chases me, then again, I don't know to what extent other women actually like it before it starts to feel too intense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 06:06 PM
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I could care less about feminism. Why would I care about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:52 PM
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I don't have a husband lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:52 PM
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I'm not a bluepiller. You can disregard what I've said based on your incorrect assumption if it makes you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:42 PM
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nice flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:27 PM
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I'm literally telling you my own experiences, there are no stats for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:06 PM
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I think he means going up and talking to the man first. I do still think that even if you're not the type of woman to approach, by wearing makeup, nice clothes, you're making yourself more approachable, so it's not like women aren't making any effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:03 PM
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Women hate it when men "share their feelings", especially negative feelings, especially negative feelings about sex, dating, mating and marriage. No. In fact that's why you made this post - because men complaining about those things raises your hackles and repulses you. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 04:44 PM
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If the women you're with don't appreciate what you do for them, then that's the type of woman you choose to associate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 04:41 PM
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That's right, sit on PPD while their husbands are out working. Men don't want to be treated as kings but with respect. You got me :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 04:39 PM
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Because I want to feel desired and that he actually wants me really bad. I love the chase.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 04:14 PM
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Women are allowed to be weak and flawed without it being used as a cudgel against their femininity while also allowed to be strong and empowered without it being used as a cudgel against their femininity Make your mind up, does it annoy you when women pretend to be 'strong', or embrace their natural tendencies and allow themselves to be 'weak'?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 04:13 PM
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Sort of how you're stereotyping men, right now? How have I stereotyped men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 04:07 PM
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Why do I have to treat a dude like he is a man worthy of being treated as such?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 04:00 PM
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Actually it has nothing to do with men 'sharing their feelings'. For example, when a man complains about feminism, when he is presented with a real life situation with a woman who identifies as a feminist, he won't assert himself or defend his point of view. Then, he ends up being angry at said feminist and goes and rants about it to his friends and starts to stereotype women. In reality, if a man was actually sharing his feelings more, including anger and those feelings which are considered 'to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:59 PM
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Don’t worry, exceeding lifespans will ensure you get to witness it too. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:43 PM
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Not even on the internet, in real life too. Men genuinely are complaining more about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:36 PM
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Men aren’t entitled to women treating them like kings
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:36 PM
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Ya because they feel any man could have you. I think men like being the predator in a primal way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 12:37 AM
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more attractive, better shape
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 10:18 PM
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You disagree with me and that's ok. Some guys just want an easy lay and would prefer the woman to approach. I'm not saying it's wrong, but you're high if you expect a quality woman to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 10:15 PM
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You do realize that women don't lust after men the same way men do? Your expectations are a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 10:09 PM
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How is it tradcon? Please read what I actually wrote instead of projecting your own opinion from a few words I said. Men LIKE being approached by women, but they have NEGATIVE opinions of the women who do. Meaning the woman appears LESS desirable, desperate, and usually, she's not the type of girl the man would approach anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 10:06 PM
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You're a dude, and straight. So of course you don't find other men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 10:04 PM
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Lots of guys have done that to me, and no most of them weren't 6'1, and no, I didn't find it creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 09:24 PM
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Initially, a woman will never aggressively initiate, which is what I'm referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 09:23 PM
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tell me what creepy behaviour 6'3 football captains do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 09:09 PM
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No because men don't want to be fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 08:32 PM
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Unfortunately the men here strike me as the ‘bottom’ when it comes to being gay. In fact, the gay community prefers masculinity a whole lot more than feminine gays. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 07:43 PM
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I was referring to sexual desire partially, since to me, the way men love women involves sexual desire In a recent post I commented that men claim they want to be approached by women but in reality they have negative opinions of women who do just that (even if they like it). I’ve never desired a man like that and it’s quite common for men to believe that women desire men just like they do, and that irritates the hell out of me Also, stop convincing men to be gay
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 07:35 PM
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Men want to experience love like women do and get butthurt that they don’t get loved like women do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 07:16 PM
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Lol what, women are MORE likely to use men for sex?????? Is that what you’re saying?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 06:35 PM
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Men DON’T want to be treated like women, no matter how good it might sound
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 06:33 PM
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At least I won’t waste time explaining something to you that you don’t even want to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 06:09 PM
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You prefer to do the ‘chasing’? Does it negatively affect your opinion of women when they approach you? I’m not asking how you feel when they approach you, rather what do you think of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 06:04 PM
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It’s too much to explain in a thread, but likewise I think you’re being vague too. I don’t really know what else you want me to say
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 06:01 PM
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I’ve explained before that I’ve talked to men about it. I’m not trying to convince you to believe me, but maybe because it hasn’t happened to you yet, you have a fantasy of how great it would be to be treated like a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 05:59 PM
1

Men tend to prefer to be the dominant one, even if they're nerdy and awkward. So even if they initially 'like it', they will begin to despise those traits in the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 05:53 PM
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Yes. They think women have it so easy, and thus wanted to be treated like women, because dating as a woman is easier right? But when men actually experience it, they learn that they don't really like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 05:41 PM
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For example, if you approach a guy, he's gonna think you're desperate or something. He will probably date you, but he will still have negative opinions about you, like you're desperate. If you start caring about him, you're going to come across as motherly. He won't refuse a woman caring about him, but subconscious he gets annoyed at her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 05:37 PM
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Men despise it when you start to treat them the way men generally treat women. For example, if you approach a guy, he's gonna think you're desperate or something. If you start caring about him, you're going to come across as motherly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 05:34 PM
2

Like, if a woman approached you, would you like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 05:26 PM
1

I don't understand why men want to be treated like women, when they don't even really like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 05:25 PM
1

How would you feel if someone cared about you, in the same way people care about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 04:58 PM
7

This is true, they want to play the victim when the relationship eventually ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 04:58 PM
2

:( Was expecting a heterosexual response
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 04:45 PM
3

Who loves men then? (Apart from their mothers)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 04:40 PM
2

I have never been in an abusive relationship, however, I have never felt a nurture instinct towards any man. I like making people feel better but I wouldn't say that's nurturing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 04:39 PM
2

5'8 is short? If he's white I guess his league is chinese women /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 11:08 AM
1

He’s still using you though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 01:27 AM
1

Kinda. I was just wondering if anyone could explain a situation where the woman uses the man for sex more than he uses her for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 01:26 AM
1

He must’ve been really hot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 12:23 AM
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Oh yeah one guy told me that as well. I didn’t really get how it’s possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 12:17 AM
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Is that using THEM for sex. The way I see it, the man is using you for sex to make you feel good about yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 12:16 AM
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How do they do it though? It seems like a foreign concept to me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 11:56 PM
3

Lol ...are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 11:53 PM
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Do you think it's possible for women to use men in the same way men use women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 11:41 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 05:34 PM
1

At the same time, you didn't offer to use protection?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 12:21 AM
1

I don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 12:01 AM
2

Even really hot dudes struggle though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 11:47 PM
3

Where are all the women who like damaged men? He should be fighting to get the women off him! Women love a man they can 'fix' :'(
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 11:26 PM
1

Jezebel was sooooo 2012
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 11:23 PM
3

Why are you always so negative :(
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 10:38 PM
1

Good on you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 08:41 PM
1

It wasn't directed at him, only the part where I asked why he was defending his response. I was talking generally about people who reply when I specifically said I didn't want that type of response (which ends up being one of the top voted)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 08:19 PM
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Do people have to be babied into explanations? Do I have to clarify everything because people can't read into what I said? It was so obvious that I can't even understand why you're defending his response. Edit: Don't downvote me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 07:51 PM
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Well, most sluts tend to be on the low at my college. So it doesn't really benefit their friends from a social aspect. If anything, it has negative impacts because people who do know their slutty behaviour will judge you like you're the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 07:48 PM
0

Most people are when they're drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 07:43 PM
2

What if you fell in love with her, then she revealed to you she had sex with 50+ men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 07:40 PM
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I'm NOT asking if you will have casual sex with sluts I did. Literally he gave the most basic reply that I wasn't looking for. He put no thought in his answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 07:36 PM
2

Why, because they embarrass themselves, thus making you look better?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 07:31 PM
1

I've done that before, and not because I agree with it, but because that person was so stupid I couldn't be bothered explaining to her what her mom should've done when she was 14.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 07:27 PM
5

I literally said in my post that I don't want to see your type of basic reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 07:16 PM
1

What idiot would actually let it be known that they don't use protection?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 07:06 PM
1

Even if you don't care about what other women do, you probably have some opinion about the choices they make. I don't judge other women for being promiscuous, but I don't agree with what they do (not that I should).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 07:05 PM
1

What is defined as a submissive sexual role?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 06:30 PM
2

Maybe it does matter, but men still project their own opinion of a particular woman as reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 10:55 AM
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I wasn't being serious lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 11:35 PM
0

Er, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 10:37 PM
1

Is being tainted bad? I'd think strippers are already tainted as soon as they become one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 10:32 PM
4

I'm confused, you're statement with 'actually they are', contradicts with what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 10:23 PM
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1) Female, single 2) My purpose right now is to seek my purpose 3) By going to college and meeting new people 4) Becoming a stripper
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 10:18 PM
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Lol at women who have more partners are less likely to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 10:05 PM
4

also, women aren't as good at lying about it as they think they are. sure, maybe if you marry some dopey beta he will believe that you are an innocent angel, but it's pretty easy for guys who have enough experience with women to see through it. I think most men with experience would just assume all women have high n counts. Like I said, I don't agree with it at all, I just have seen it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 09:34 PM
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Is what I'm saying wrong? Lots of women lie about their n count to keep their partner happy. I'm not saying doing it is right, but just saying it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 09:09 PM
1

What am I speculating?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 09:05 PM
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It is important though. It depends on how you look at it, is it how well bonding is perceived by the man, or the woman? We can't just ignore the fact that bonding will be perceived differently by both parties depending on how accurate the n count is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 08:35 PM
5

How can we be certain that the women and men actually have the number counts that they claim they do? If anything, those statistics prove relationship success rate when the man ‘believes’ the woman has fewer sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 07:15 PM
4

Clean enough so you don't smell bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 12:35 PM
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Probably not, I wouldn’t like to think about that. But when you smell of body odor, then clearly you haven’t showered correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 02:34 AM
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Not cleaning everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 02:31 AM
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Yes, it's to do with the time spent. That excuse can also be used for not showering daily or regularly. At the end of the day, it is noticeable if you have freshly washed hair or not. It's only an issue if freshly washed hair is important to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 01:56 AM
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I don't have an oily scalp, and I could go without washing my hair for longer, but in terms of confidence and self esteem, being clean in general is a big deal for me. Looking fine and looking freshly washed is a big difference to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 01:52 AM
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I do use sulphate free shampoo and conditioner. I just prefer clean hair that feels just freshly washed. I don't think people realise how bad greasy hair looks and how it doesn't smell as fresh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 01:46 AM
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No, it's basically like scented baby powder. It absorbs the oil on your scalp, and you brush it out, resulting in less greasy looking hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 01:45 AM
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When you go from washing your hair every day to washing it less regularly, there's a transition period. Eventually your hair will become less greasy, so you only need to wash it every few days. But in the transition period, dry shampoo helps. I have tried this before in the past, I thought it was good and that it was working, until I switched back to washing it every other day, then I realised how amazing clean hair is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 01:44 AM
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Er, what I mean is cleaning everywhere, especially their dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 01:38 AM
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Why does it matter anyway, you're MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 01:31 AM
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Dry shampoo is gross, if your hair is greasy.. just wash it. I don't understand why people use it. I couldn't live without my hair dryer though, I've tried to go without it but it just leaves me feeling really cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 01:17 AM
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Lots of girls I see don't wash their hair regularly because it's not healthy to wash your hair too much apparently. Then they load their hair with dry shampoo, and it ends up looked stiff and matted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 01:10 AM
2

By athletic I mean healthy BMI but higher muscle/lower bodyfat. Why are they out of your league? What kind of man is in your league?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 12:56 AM
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Aww come on. You think a man that smells good and cleans himself is out of your league?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 12:39 AM
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For men: Smell good Take showers properly Athletic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 12:34 AM
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This discussion was more about female intrasex competition. In the west, this manifests at itself in looking fit, or at most healthy BMI. It doesn't mean that they will actually do anything about it. Yes, most women will look at the fit girl and want to be her, but would rather find easier ways to become slim and fit. Actually, a lot of women seem to appear confident in their bodies, and contrary to belief, thinner women tend to be more self conscious than bigger women. If anything, the way wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 05:13 PM
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The thing is, just because thinner is the ideal, it doesn't mean that women will put effort into getting slim, because yes, in the west, the ideal body type that women, and men prefer is slim I agree that women are obsessed with their weight and figures, but most don't want to eat less or more healthily and exercise more to achieve it. Look at all those pills targeted to help you maintain weight, or even help you lose weight. 'Skinny teas', or diet food. The rate of overweight and obese women is…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 04:40 PM
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I think most people wouldn’t have the attention span to read long sentences. It’s best to keep it short so people understand what you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 09:02 AM
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Tomboys are the type of girl you see at school. The reason I didn’t use the word tomboy is that it’s harder to imagine a tomboy adult woman. I just mean slightly masculine (that’s why I said straight butch women). I’m sure lesbian butch women are quite different
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 08:05 AM
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Well the men in this study did say they found feminine women more attractive. Just that they saw them more as short term partners. I think it’s an interesting concept. Such a shame the research was conducted so badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 02:40 AM
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Lol. Well my interpretation of masculine women is probably a bulldyke. So glad I’m not a man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 02:37 AM
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I was being a bit extreme. These are just some of the types of women I see, and honestly I might be seeing them as more masculine than they really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 02:32 AM
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In this case, masculine would be ‘taller and thicker’ according to the research
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 02:14 AM
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I can’t find the original source but here’s what I found: Researchers asked 75 heterosexual male volunteers to look at composite images of caucasian and Japanese female faces in a laboratory. The subjects could manipulate these faces by pressing a button to make them more or less “masculine,” and were asked to select the face they would prefer for a long-term or short-term relationship. In a second experiment, 393 male participants participated in an online test where they selected which composi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 01:42 AM
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Envision a woman who struts like she has a dick between her legs, not walking with her hips. A woman who doesn’t take care of her hair, spreads her legs when she sits, like a man would do. Who talks like a man. Although she might wear a dress occasionally, she doesn’t feel like herself, and would rather be hanging out with the dudes wearing a plaid shirt and drinking beer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 01:36 AM
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Either way you look at it, you will find supporting evidence for the hypothesis. I do agree that the research is poorly conducted, but everything that is stated sounds like what the typical man wants from his wife. Bear in mind that we have no idea about the men who were involved in this research. They could be more feminine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 01:23 AM
5

Sorry! The way you phrased it I just imagined a strong Russian accent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 01:17 AM
1

What things would be ok for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 01:16 AM
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Surely not all women who were never girly are lesbians. Some women don’t feel comfortable being feminine and would rather dress androgynously or more ‘boyish’. I think they might be confused but that doesn’t mean they’re lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 01:14 AM
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Don’t go round making these recommendations. Feminine women like commitment too Also more masculine looking woman makes more masculine looking son. Are you Russian?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 01:07 AM
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How do I do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 01:06 AM
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This could be a good enough reason. However, masculine women are still preferred for commitment. I do wonder if men find feminine women a bit too annoying. Other articles I have read seemed to indicate women prefer feminine men for marriage. Although this dynamic makes sense, why don’t the feminine women and masculine men pair up?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 01:05 AM
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Not at all? Do you not consider them at all for casual sex or long term relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 12:59 AM
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I guess it depends. A man would be considered low value if he cheats because he has a lack of self control, and when he has problems in the relationship, he cheats instead of confronting his wife/gf. A person who lacks self control is usually weak minded, and not someone who can be trusted. A lack of self control indicates the man is not very masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 08:30 PM
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How is that very feminine? How does that even relate to femininity? Do you think more feminine women are more likely to be selfish?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 05:35 PM
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The thing is, most people would agree that women are becoming less feminine compared to previous generations. So why are toxic behaviours related to femininity? Why can't selfish behaviour be separated from femininity?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 05:34 PM
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I don't think its a good idea to just use the word toxic femininity just because feminists invented the term 'toxic masculinity'. I guess since people can't beat feminists, they just play feminists at their game..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 03:27 PM
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Generally I don't agree with the term 'toxic femininity' just as much as I don't think 'toxic masculinity' even exists. Like I said, I do think that a woman who exhibits these traits will likely be narcissistic, selfish, and a toxic person in general. Allow me to put things into perspective. When we refer to 'toxic masculinity', people usually mention how they patriarchy has not only affected women, but men too. Like how men can't express their emotions and resort to anger and violence. What it …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 03:13 PM
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I agree with what you've stated here. I am wondering though, aren't these just the traits of a toxic person in general? Just people who have no consideration for other people and only care about themselves? The traits you have described I have witnessed in women, but I wouldn't describe it as 'toxic femininity', rather just a toxic person who happens to be female. I don't have enough reason to believe in the terms toxic femininity and toxic masculinity. From personal experience, the women who do…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 02:36 PM
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I know, and it's annoying. I've just seen men label women as virtuous just because they rant about how much they despise cheating, how traditional gender roles are dying, and brag about how loyal they are. Men eat that shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 11:05 PM
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That's not what I'm talking about, stop changing the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 10:49 PM
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That's the thing though, is it actually being a slut considered bad? Or looking or acting like you're a slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 10:44 PM
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Ok, so I'll suppose what you're saying is true. How does this actually work practically? How can you tell the difference between a slut and a girl who's a virgin or has been with only a few men? From personal experience, men are terrible at telling how slutty a woman is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 09:38 PM
4

I wonder, through all this analysis of male looks, how does a straight man not turn gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 06:31 PM
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There are different types of smiles, each has a different intention and evokes a particular response in people. A smile can be intended to intimidate to, provided the eye contact is there. (Which more men tend to do) I think most guys won’t notice the difference between fake and genuine smiles of women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 10:53 PM
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Are you stating your personal preference? Wouldn’t you prefer an emotionally honest woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 10:40 PM
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That’s because men like happy women Edit: If you’re going to downvote me, at least clarify why you’re doing so
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 09:42 PM
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Because every time we state what we like and find attractive, people like you will always say we’re lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 05:51 PM
1

Are they bi?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 12:47 PM
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It sounds like the guys like to share their woman
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 12:34 PM
1

What would he do that made him feminine? Was he overly romantic and emotional?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 12:30 PM
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So you like feminine men? What is it about them you like?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 12:21 PM
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What I mean is, if you were no longer dating them, would they remain together and date another girl together?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 12:20 PM
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nice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 11:58 AM
0

You have two boyfriends? What if something happened to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 11:52 AM
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Can Amy Schumer go to a nightclub and have the whole club over her? Can she date a model every few months? I don't think so. I think Amy Schumer has a lot of men over her, because of the money she can provide. Just because we don't hear about it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. If she wasn't famous, then no she wouldn't. Well, no way near as much from hot guys. If she was a regular college girl she would probably have an average number of drunk guys trying to hit on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 10:40 PM
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You're wrong. Men would do that, look at Amy schumer, serena williams... Lots of people would take advantage of people in the industry to further their career or land a big role, or just to be seen in the spotlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 10:27 PM
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Both. You might do, but you also might be surprised that some women agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 10:25 PM
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It angers a lot of older women, that Leo is dating younger women. Notice that the only people angry at this tend to be older women, because most women early 20's around my own age would fantasize about being with DiCaprio I don't believe this is true. Dicaprio could easily date a 28-35 year old woman who is still very attractive, maybe more so than her. I just looked at the photos of him with her, he really doesn't seem that interested in her, almost as if he could care less. I've never fantasiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 10:23 PM
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you want to fuck bitches and fuck them over? own your shit ahahahaha. This made me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 09:35 PM
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One of the very first comments I replied to you with, I CLEARLY stated, I wasn't interested in politically correct views or opinions, rather the opinions of the women in this sub. Stop grasping at straws.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 08:00 PM
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If anything, I agree with almost everything you said. I'm sure plenty of other women agree with you too. Based off this thread, most of the comments are from men, and maybe they don't like the fact you like masculine men (even though that's what they aspire to be)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 07:39 PM
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Ok, lets see how many women actually say they love dad bods in this thread, and identify as sapiosexual (which I've just heard of for the first time).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 07:15 PM
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denial about what? literally you were the one who is being pedantic about the question I'm asking. YOU'RE the one in denial, not me. You can't seem to accept the fact women genuinely have preferences and don't seem to be willing to accept ANY preferences women will state they have in this thread. Why even bother 'contributing' if you're not going to try to understand things from a woman's point of view?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 07:09 PM
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o.o
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 07:00 PM
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We could spend forever discussing what we mean by 'attractive'. What the hell does attractive for a relationship even mean? When you like a man for his money? Clearly that is not what I'm talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 06:57 PM
1

Finally, a reply from a woman lol. Would you consider sleeping with or dating a man who wasn't masculine?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 06:54 PM
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Literally, there you go again. You make too many assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 06:52 PM
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Read my post, I asked what makes a man masculine, and IF they actually find that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 06:48 PM
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Firstly, you're a guy, and I am not asking what you think women like or if you think women are lying about what they say they like. The way you're reading into it tells me a lot about how you have no idea about what women like anyway. I am asking what traits they like, which might be physical, or emotional or personality traits. I am not asking what type of men they fuck because sometimes people make mistakes when drunk ya know. A better way to imagine it is what type of man makes them feel ecst…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 06:46 PM
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Maybe that would be true in real life scenarios, however, I trust most the people in this sub to be honest about what they find attractive. Sure in real life women lie, but only because they're trying to be polite and politically correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 06:37 PM
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You're the same person who got angry at me yesterday over my comment about what I found attractive in a man. I really can't take what you say seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 06:35 PM
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what
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 06:31 PM
2

I dislike talking about feminism in real life. I hate it when people ask me my thoughts on feminism, or trash talk feminism, because even though I dislike feminism, I hate how it's a big topic of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 02:51 PM
1

What about those women that say the funny guys turn them on?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 01:43 AM
1

I just don’t find it a turn on. Like to me when a guy is funny, it reminds me of my dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 01:20 AM
1

how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 01:00 AM
1

Well honestly, this situation has happened to me too, but not as directly. Usually they suggest to meet somewhere else and then lead me to their apartment... The only reason that I agree to this is because I genuinely prefer privacy and don't like being having personal conversations in public. Anyway, you should bear in mind that she still might not want to have sex, even if she agrees to come over, so don't be forcing her to do anything she doesn't want to do. What's the context? Did you meet h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 12:52 AM
1

You have to give me some examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 12:29 AM
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Also, that doesn't mean I'm making less effort, it just means my needs are different. Men and Women gotta cooperate ya know
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 11:43 PM
1

That's true, but am I doing anything wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 11:16 PM
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It feels great to me, and that's all that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 11:09 PM
2

Why can't you just be honest and have some woman give you a chance to improve yourself? Are there any women out there like that? There are women like that, but the guy needs to show some level of interest. The woman isn't going to wait forever. Edit: Sex isn't some job as you're describing it. It's how you make the woman feel, you should try things out and ask her if she likes it or try to gauge her reactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 11:08 PM
1

I think you need confidence to turn women on in the first place. Just be sure and certain about what you’re doing I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 10:27 PM
1

Hmmm that's one way to put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 08:16 PM
1

why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 07:51 PM
5

I literally didn't say anything that would imply I was trying to offend anybody. I still stand by what I said, I like guys who know how to seduce me, and I really want someone who disagrees to explain why I'm wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 07:13 PM
6

You're acting like a child. Can I not be honest here? What is it about my comment that offends you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:58 PM
8

A man really becomes hot to me when he knows how to turn me on. Usually this takes physical touch like a massage and this makes me want to fuck him. Edit: I have never felt romantic attraction, maybe because no man has ever been romantic towards me. Or maybe they have and I just failed to notice it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:52 PM
2

I like defined jawlines, big strong hands, athletic bodies without them looking gay. Is this something which is of shock to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:40 PM
1

Girl, you just hit the nail on the head :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:35 PM
1

True. I guess I like my men more serious
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:26 PM
2

errr could you at least tell me why you did it in the first place? I'm genuinely confused
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:26 PM
2

you just said I don't like hot fit guys. What are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:22 PM
2

Why did you just say my name without mentioning me? You don't know what I like at all. Stop jumping to conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:18 PM
1

Funny guys never did it for me. I don't get it when other women tell me 'but he makes me laugh!'
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:14 PM
3

I like fit men in the sense that they are strong and have stamina
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 03:17 PM
1

Well it wouldn't be ideal, but if he genuinely did it only before meeting me, then I would feel kinda special, and from what you're saying I connect with him emotionally. So it wouldn't be the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 02:03 PM
1

This makes absolutely no sense to me. Why would I think about 'doing better' when I'm happy in the relationship? Do you think women have flowcharts, excel spreadsheets, to measure up every man they meet to make sure the one she's dating is the 'best'.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 12:55 PM
2

Ok, I get what you mean. It’s not just about her having sex with you, it’s about her having sex with only you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 11:43 PM
1

What ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 11:37 PM
2

What do you mean ‘would I care if someone chose for me’ chose what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 11:00 PM
1

Ok those guys are hot, but the first guy is too metro
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 10:55 PM
6

Would you be still a Chad even though there are men chadder than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 10:37 PM
1

Was the sex good tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 10:32 PM
1

if she's having sex with you, isn't that liking you enough? come on
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 10:18 PM
2

Wait what? Is that a bad thing though?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 10:02 PM
9

People over analyze everything. There's always going to be men 'better' than you. If a woman likes you, why isn't that enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 09:40 PM
1

Well, in this case, the OP is referring to chad, and they tend to be categorised as one type in this subreddit. I'm just saying I prefer other types of men too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 08:17 PM
1

Lying to myself about what? My type is just what I'm attracted to. There are women who like lanky dudes, and others which like really muscular men, neither of which I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 08:05 PM
1

Then again, whats hot to me is probably not hot to other women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 07:56 PM
1

cute laugh :) sounds good to me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 06:00 PM
2

I don't think women having bad sex is just due to the mans performance. Sure, there are some men that might care less about getting women off, but I reallllly doubt beta men care more about pleasing their partner sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 05:59 PM
1

So he's broke? where does he fuck the girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 05:54 PM
1

I bet he's good at sex too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 05:52 PM
1

How do you even know why he’s like? He could be gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 05:34 PM
0

Lol since when does an introvert trust people they meet online?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 05:27 PM
1

approach you for what? Also if you’re ripped , why do you rely so much on online dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 05:15 PM
0

To me it’s about personality but Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 03:36 PM
4

I bet he's successful with women. A lot of redpill dudes will deny it when I say that 'chad' differs from woman to woman. I don't think you have to be tall to be masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 02:04 PM
1

lol, it's not what I personally think of as 'chad' or whatever, it's just how what I think redpillers imagine chad as. med school is tough anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 02:01 PM
1

I still want to know what people consider as 'chad'. I just imagine a 6'3, blonde. med school student who has abs and lots of interesting hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 01:33 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 02:12 AM
1

What I mean is that there are women who don't like assertive men, which is not just about asking the person out. There are assertive men who can make women feel unnerved and unsettled. I think the majority of women by far would prefer to be asked out, even if they don't prefer assertive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 01:28 AM
1

Apart form the fact that men feeling afraid of being assertive and confident, there are women who don't like men that are assertive, some women find it a bit too intense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 12:53 AM
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Most women don't get approached in public, at least during the day. It's true that the women do, some may find it creepy, but how creepy can it be? Romantic situations cant be 100% controlled, unless you have an online relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 11:50 PM
-1

displaying value in looks, I mean you can talk to a girl you like, why not do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 09:58 PM
0

your quality of women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 09:48 PM
-3

sounds like you enjoy a life of mediocrity
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 09:09 PM
1

It’s interesting because guys do usually approach me during the day, sometimes in really awkward scenarios. I do agree that it takes confidence to do it, but what’s the worst that can happen? So what if the girl rejects you, there’s plenty other women around. I do think that the whole culture of men only approaching women in a context where it’s social, when there’s alcohol involved, and online dating just makes men weaker and less confident
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 03:15 PM
0

Why not? I'm genuinely interested as to why guys don't do this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:08 PM
1

You’re not always working during the day are you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 10:34 AM
3

I find it hard to believe lol, but let’s give him the benefit of the doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 02:04 AM
1

So basic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:50 AM
1

Sounds like something from a novel, good for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:43 AM
1

Do you think if you tried to approach more women irl, you will end up with higher quality women? It could be worth a shot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:37 AM
1

Doesn't that reduce the quality of women though? What's your experience been like using tinder, and why do you prefer that to approaching a girl in person?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:26 AM
1

A nice atmosphere definitely tops everything off. Although lavish hotels are really expensive, however, I do like it when a guy lives in a nice place and keeps it clean
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 06:52 PM
1

I don't really care for that, but it would turn me on only after I get to know him though, it's not necessary for me to want to have sex with him. Expensive dinners and lavish hotel rooms are nice though, and I would much prefer that than to be given an expensive gift.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 04:59 PM
1

Have a look at this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:31 PM
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1) Q4W: Have you ever tried using enhancement pills or topical creams, and if so what was your mental reaction? Was it in sync with your physical reaction No 2) Q4W: Do you personally have a reactive libido (it requires a stimulus from your sex partner) or an active libido (you are horny without need for external stimulus)? My sexual desire is definitely reactive. Although, this doesn't mean my sex drive is any lower than women who don't possess reactive libidos. I just respond better when a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:27 PM
2

Well, to me it's more intense (in a good way) if a guy desires me and directly tells me that he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:19 PM
1

maybe its just me then :/ I like them to desire me looll
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:18 PM
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maybe they have a false impression of being desired then. Although the number of masculine women has been increasing over the years, could be due to that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 05:22 PM
-1

Celebrities are different though. Through their managers, social media accounts, the average person 'feels' as though they get a real glimpse into their life, almost as if they know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 05:02 PM
1

no, I'm just really sensitive to smells. The instances I'm talking about involve a girl who smells really bad to me, but there are men who think she smells great...They can put on deodorant or perfume, but something always seems off to me. I think those men are attracted to the women that smell bad to me, so they might not notice it, but tbh, I'm not really sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 04:23 PM
1

hmm, I always wondered when guys smelt bad to me if it was just their natural body scent, or their lack of hygiene. What is strange though, is that I am affected by the scent of women too. Some people just smell really bad to me, and other people barely notice it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 03:48 PM
-1

Being desired is what most women require to become attracted to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 03:31 PM
2

Scent is so important to me. If a guy smells bad I just can't imagine having sex with him
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 03:30 PM
2

obese is bmi over 30
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 01:04 PM
3

I know obese women who are just a little bit obese, and they have plenty of men who love them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 01:29 AM
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At the end of the day, the guy is still having sex. He probably values that over anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 08:39 PM
2

It's interesting, because I kinda agree with what you're saying, but the way I see it is that they hit on fat women (like you stated), but then get mad when they're turned down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 12:14 AM
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Ya, I am a woman. The problem with people posting their 'hatred' for fat women is that they never clarify what fat is. They usually use memes of super obese women, so it makes people think they actually like chubby/overweight women as long as they're not obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 05:53 PM
1

Ya, definitely lol. However, I do think in this case, the man pretends to be feminist whilst looking for a non-feminist woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 01:02 AM
1

I don't get your logic, but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 07:41 PM
1

so... you're saying fat women look better naked?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 05:36 PM
4

I thought diet means eat what I want as long as it’s with a side of diet coke? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 02:06 AM
3

What about all those posts on social media which have men complimenting women on their hot bodies?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 01:59 AM
1

Loooll made me laugh 9/10
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 01:58 AM
3

You just can’t admit that you’re wrong. That’s understandable because you don’t know what you’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 01:57 AM
1

Would you agree a BMI over 23 would be chubby (generally speaking) and above 25 is overweight?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 01:54 AM
1

I’m not going to entertain your trolling, go troll somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 01:53 AM
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I know you didn't. In other comments in this post, you stated how you know 95% more than other people about body composition. You said that's what a normal woman looks like. Look at her body again, the UNPHOTOSHOPPED one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 01:45 AM
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So much for you being knowledgeable in this area.. Here is the real photo of her She is curvy here, and didn't need to be photoshopped, but you just made yourself look like an idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 01:41 AM
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32 is still young :) Idk, sometimes it seems to me that they have the attitude that they would still date a fat woman, but are annoyed that fat women have standards, which they shouldn't have, because they're fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 01:38 AM
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A size 6 would be considered average weight imo (for a young woman). The attitudes I see online from these men who post pics of fat chicks and post angry comments at them, and I just don't understand it...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 01:31 AM
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What the actual hell? In that photo, the woman is slim, yet her butt is photoshopped to the size of a ghetto booty. Seriously, are you trolling me? edit: This is the real UNPHOTOSHOPPED version of the same woman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 01:28 AM
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average weight would be 22-25 BMI. Slim would be 18.5-22.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 01:27 AM
-1

show me pics of what you would consider overweight and obese. I'm predicting for you to show mega fatties. Slightly chubby women aren't that bad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 01:26 AM
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2/3 of women are what? overweight or not slim?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 01:16 AM
1

Ok, firstly it depends on what you define as fat. Is it anything over a size 6, 10, 12? Or do you define it by the medical definition of BMI and waist size? Sure, betas are desperate, but I don't think some men care if a woman is slightly overweight, and most men wouldn't have any preference over slim or average weight women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 01:11 AM
1

But where does the obsession with fat women come from though? Most young women in my area are average weight, not slim, but they would never be called fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 01:08 AM
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To be fair though, there aren't many people talking about how awesome it is for a man to have a 45 inch waist, but the media trips over itself to fawn over size 14 female models. Double standards, amiright? That's because men like fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 12:44 AM
1

I didn't say that they couldn't. This is a hypothetical situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 10:52 PM
1

I'm not bluepill and I think it's totally fine to want a woman who will cook and clean. I'm interested thought, do you think you will be happier with that kind of woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 12:56 AM
1

I only added meaningless relationships because casual sex is too vague to some people
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 01:33 PM
1

how do i know if i'm high test?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 12:33 AM
2

Not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 12:25 AM
3

erm what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 12:12 AM
0

Or just that men would prefer to not marry such a women, but if that makes her happy it's the right thing for her to do? Because I've seen both argued on here and they are very different ideas. I expect men to say they would dislike dating both kinds of women equally. However, I think it's not good for your mental well being to devote your time to meaningless relationships. So in terms of what's worse, I think the former is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 11:59 PM
0

Ok kiddo. How is your career going?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 11:47 PM
0

Well, both are bad. I'm just comparing opposite ends of the spectrum to see what people think. I would assume they have similar outcome even if the experiences of the women themselves are completely different
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 11:32 PM
1

I prefer my men not to be murderers, so zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 02:46 PM
1

no chance what? you think fewer people practice sports in their youth?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 01:07 AM
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Lol, 90% of people don't practice sports, so I guess you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 11:51 PM
6

It's deemed as bad by anyone with any moral compass. However, some people try to excuse their cheating and blame it on their partner, which women are equally as likely to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 11:27 PM
2

If having an orgasm was my goal, I would never have sex again. If you orgasm every single time you have sex, great, but for those of us that don't, we can still enjoy sex. I'll repeat this again, women (not reddit obsessed people), in general, have sex for other reasons not just for having an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:00 PM
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Firstly, you're a lesbian, so you're not attracted to men. This question was about MEN and WOMEN. Maybe you should read my comment again. I said the media pushes for men and women to view sex the same way. Do I really need to spell it out for you? For most straight women, we have issues reaching climax, and I don't know what obsessive sex circle you're in, and I'll say this again, your opinions are way out of line with the average female population.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 11:55 AM
2

I get more stressed and I'm not able to relax when I feel like I have to orgasm. The difficult part is explaining that to guys, because then they just feel like they're inadequate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:57 AM
1

I don't think men are unwilling, it's just that they won't make the time to please a woman which not only would elevate her experience, but make her more likely to climax. Also, if you don't orgasm every time, they think something is wrong with their technique, so they tend to think they're bad at sex. Just because we don't cum everytime doesn't mean we don't enjoy it. EDIT: I do think that it is true that faking orgasms reinforces bad sex, but most men take it as a hit to their ego if they don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:46 AM
2

Do you think that it is your BFF who is being super honest with you? Most women don't admit to it because it's actually seen as shameful not to reach orgasm every time or regularly. The only reason I know my friends fake it (and the only people who admit to it) are the women I live with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:41 AM
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Like the other women have said: speak for yourself. I'm just stating the opinion of most women I know in real life and myself. You're mistaken if you think the popular opinion in this sub from other women represents the views of the average young woman. Whether you like it or not, that is my outlook, and understand that your opinions might be an outlier for the general female population.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:38 AM
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Eh, most of my friends and myself fake orgasms. We love orgasms too, but quite frankly, most men are incapable of giving them to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:29 AM
2

most men can't have good sex unless they orgasm. when it comes to women its a bonus. I think there's too much pressure on women to orgasm, which actually harms women's ability to reach orgasm. This is why most women fake orgasms, because that's what men like. If men focused on pleasing women and not just focusing on making her cum, the experience would be better and women would be way more likely to orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:21 AM
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Do you agree that women in general don't orgasm as easily as men? Do you also agree that there is a biological reason for this? Women orgasm less frequently than men, however, this doesn't mean they don't enjoy sex as much as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:11 AM
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It is still sex, even if you don't orgasm. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 01:05 AM
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Orgasms do feel nice, but most women can have good sex without climaxing. Women feel that they must orgasm in order to have good sex, and this puts pressure on them instead of just enjoying the experience.. and this is due to the media, porn and so on. Lots of people think that a woman should orgasm every single time she has sex, just like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:26 AM
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Actually no, it's because media forces women to view sex the same way as men. Women don't need to orgasm to have great sex. The orgasm is not the goal of having sex like it is with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 11:46 PM
2

some girls do have broad boxy shoulders and are attractive to many men. Some men actually prefer that to a hourglass shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 01:45 AM
4

Ok makes sense, that's a butt though. I literally thought you meant bow legs lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 01:42 AM
3

heart shaped legs??????? what the hell is that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 12:28 AM
11

and those are the women that are praised (and praise themselves) as hardworking traditional supermoms!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 01:58 AM
31

A better way to phrase it would be 'why do dumb people who haven't graduated from high school have more babies'
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 01:10 AM
2

Interesting study, it would be cool to see how the boys and girls treat each other within their own gender groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 12:12 AM
1

maybe those women have low expectations in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 01:27 AM
3

they do exist, and they do treat their plain girlfriends very well. It depends on how they guy sees himself too, men who have low self esteem and less experience will be more likely to overcompensate in a relationship to please their partner
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 01:13 AM
2

most studies are bullshit, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 03:04 AM
2

why do you think that is though? because thats hardly young enough to make a difference. It's probably insignificant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 02:22 AM
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why do you think 5 years makes a difference? I know many older couples who have a 5 year difference, and the woman doesn't look younger compared to him..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 02:13 AM
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what do you mean by 'work out better' ? Do you expect if a man is 10 years older that the woman would just accept anything he does?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 11:56 PM
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link?
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