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Multiple studies here https://bigthink.com/the-present/should-you-have-kids/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:34 PM
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Exactly why I don't want any. There's a study that kids increase unhappiness and divorce rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:51 PM
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I don't bring them up on a date because it's not an important part of my life or a concern. He brought it up likely because he had been affected and it angered him. Why would I date someone who is angry about Chad on day 1? That's definitely "beta" behavior lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:21 PM
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Happened to me. We talked about dating was like for both parties and after a bit of beer he started talking about the infamous ok cupid study...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:12 PM
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To be fair, most men would not date current or former sex workers. Even the most liberal men I know wouldn't do it, but they won't admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:41 PM
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If they talk about the unfairness of the dating market or the 80-20 rule it's another dead giveaway. Also one can ask opinions about marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:39 PM
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Actually it was someone here on PPD, paraphrase: "men go out every day to earn money, almost as if to war, all we want is a shelter to come back to. Somewhere that can give us a break and respite from the hardships of this fucked up world."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:24 PM
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Yeah. Probably because the women were truly nice gals and he just broke it off politely and they didn't scream. He's getting close to 40 and has had 4 relationships. That means he mostly dates, pumps and dumps. You're right, we don't have the full picture but he is exactly what most women are afraid of. A seemingly great guy who doesn't want to commit and breaks our hearts and wastes our time. My friend who's an amazing catch waited for a guy like this for literally 7 years. He kept dating her t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:18 PM
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He doesn't want commitment. He dates and cast asides by his own admission great women. He's a good catch on paper but he's the kind of men my friends would complain about, the one who's successful but lukewarm and unwilling to settle. Do I blame him? No. But for a woman, potentially risking her best years for a guy that will cast her aside is important to realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:41 PM
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Not if you have kids. Then the woman is disadvantaged. I can definitely understand a man's position though to your point and it would be a fair ground should there be no kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:17 AM
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Bingo. One of women's main goals is avoiding guys like OP. Our market value does start declining and fast. If a guy thinks so highly of himself with all his money and looks, it's best to understand it immediately and avoid getting cast aside. It's not easy and a lot of what fds teaches is stupid and laughable but the attempt is valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:46 AM
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Based on your grammar and nonsense, you don't need me to make you look like a fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:53 AM
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I Wonder why most men are pushing for quick sex with no commitments and the majority of women are against it. Makes you think 🤔 It's because we're wired differently biologically.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:32 AM
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Dude you have some seriously disturbing opinions of women. You see us as evil and impediments to happiness. This is a lot to unpack and why women overwhelmingly would not date men exhibiting trp thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:25 AM
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You explained in the same paragraph why women do. Because if you don't want to marry, it means you don't trust her and probably don't like her that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:13 PM
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r/notliketheothergirls vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:12 PM
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Yes. Because why? On some level, it means he's not sold on me, especially if I voice my desire to get married. It means he'd rather take the risk I leave him than marry me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:11 PM
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Yep. Agree with you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:44 AM
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As someone who was active on dating apps for a year: boring/bad bio, height, bad job, weight and terrible at texting. Those were the big ones that prevented a date from happening. But I get your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:42 AM
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Have you played Detroit Become Human? Because that's the theoretical world you describe. A society of untermensch machines used by humans, some for sex. Until they rebel and demand rights. Back to where we started.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:35 AM
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I laughed out loud at that description. Good luck in Portland lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:12 AM
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What's a burner?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:45 AM
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Honestly yeah. American men are so much better than Canadian men. If a Canadian man pays for dinner and doesn't have roommates, he's already better than 80%.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:44 AM
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Definitely A but I'm also unique that I have a thing for math types with lean built physique, glasses and introverted. There are so many of them, it was like being at a feast. My strategy was eliminate based on height and fatness (below 5'10 is a no go and anything dad bod and up also). If the bio had something clever and funny or interesting, I'd message first based on that. Then if the conversation flowed, we meshed and had stuff in common, I'd meet. End up on second date probably 1/4 of the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:41 PM
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I think it's best men let women learn on their own. I used to only have male friends and would call my ex insecure if he didn't like them. And they were real scum. Anyway I learned the hard way. Other women will too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:26 PM
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This one friend does it right in front of my husband so I'm not sure how to react. Example... my husband told him "well you don't like white women anyway... only Asian and black" and friend responds "I like white women, just not american" while looking at me. Or we are all hanging out and his friend says "so... we're theee people... what do you guys want to do? I have an idea" and laughs. I am now suspecting that my husband and him want to perhaps suggest we get into a threesome and they're both…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:57 PM
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I even have doubts about the best friends of my husband... there are some jokes and innuendo sometimes in conversations. Are they jokes or is he hinting he hopes I sleep with him? Disturbing to think about and not even sure I want to raise it with my SO or he will think I'm paranoid/conceited.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:29 PM
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I reached the same conclusion as you. And I used to have mostly male friends. You really wonder if any of them ever liked you as a person or it was always a ploy to get with you...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:18 PM
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There are plenty of great men out there but the good ones have the self confidence to ask women out upfront and not try to covertly get them to owe them favors. My best recommendation is to avoid male female friendships. It very rarely works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:13 PM
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So you would drive 2h for an acquaintance? Let's be honest. Almost no one would do that for an acquaintance
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:10 PM
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Be upfront immediately and ask them out. Do not use the friend route. It's deceptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:06 PM
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Yep. I went further and no longer befriend men. Odds are they're not interested in you as a person unless they're sleeping with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:06 PM
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Ha that happened to me. Guy asked to catch up and hang out for brunch. We were having a normal time until he asks for the bill and I am horrified to realize he thought it was a date...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:04 PM
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You don't orbit and pretend being a friend for an in? The best thing you can do is state your interest upfront and ask her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:02 PM
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Hence my usual position on this board. Straight men are almost never true friends to women. There's always an ulterior motive. The easiest solution is to not have friends of the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:59 PM
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What's the name of the book?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:51 PM
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I think Germany does this by default. Its part of childbirth so I disagree its burdensome. I think the reason govt don't want to do this is because they want the father to raise the kid instead of the mom applying for assistance once he finds she cheated and leaves her. Societally speaking, it's best if he never finds out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:15 PM
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What a compelling argument /s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:14 PM
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I mean... it's true. Engineers are naturally very predictable and stable by virtue of personality and job security. Most women are not excited lol. Sorry that it sucks to hear lol 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 04:02 PM
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I appreciate you saying that but it's not true past a certain age. Yes maybe very young girls chase Chad but women past 26 are looking for someone they have a good time with to settle down with. I don't know how old you are but that's the key.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:31 PM
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I say it depends. If he earns double me and has a more intense job, I'll take care of most of the house. If he earns less or same, then I expect a proportional contribution. My husband earns 50% more than me so I take care of about 80% of house chores
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:30 PM
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I married someone I met online but keep living your revenge fantasy that we will be old and undesirable and alone if it makes you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:25 PM
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Yeah, 40% of couples are formed via online dating nowadays. Only old people think tinder is for hookups. I have met plenty of great guys I dated on tinder. It's just a meeting platform.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:18 PM
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Oh please. As if every single woman is posting on onlyfans. And I've never been offered to be flown anywhere and don't know anyone who has. Most women meet someone and date. Your scenarios are purely imaginary caricatures with no basis in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:11 AM
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On an unrelated note, have you been adding to your gme position lately? I'm too chicken but curious what others are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:09 AM
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I thought you were describing the plot of Fallout until the end there 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:03 AM
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I laughed out loud at the globalization of Chad. This is a new concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:58 AM
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Lol. Your view of the world is very funny. Most people are coupling up and marry. The Iowa girl especially. Just not with the creepy loner down the street but the cowboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:58 AM
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Are you glorifying living in 1918? Odds are very good you would have gotten blown apart in the trenches and your wife would start selling her body to feed herself and your kids. Great life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:56 AM
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Seriously though, hiring an actress to pretend loving you is not the solution. It's an offensive suggestion
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:52 AM
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Where he is right is that women are expected to stop working when they marry and stay home. The problem with this of course is that women would rather keep working.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:42 AM
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That made no sense. #1 the elite hated Trump. Read some of the Times articles on him. They hated him so much. As for Hitler.... wut. His whole point was populism. He ran the socialist party, for crying out loud. Everything points that the elite wants us to breed to flood the workplace and bring wages down, to flood the world and bring housing to a totally unaffordable level so people have to rent forever etc. Hence why Musk is tweeting about it and the boomers are writing articles begging us to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:38 AM
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Lol there won't be ww3 and even if Russia invades (they won't), it'll be annexed like Crimea was and no one will care.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:28 AM
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Why do you think China will do that? To force births?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:27 AM
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Have you been to either of those countries? Most people live normal lives and cities are bustling. Hikikomoris are just not part of that society.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:26 AM
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I think a lot of self aware women understand it. The problem is there's no solution so it's like understanding climate change. I can drive less and eat less meat but... that's pretty much it. I can be nice to men and encourage them... that's pretty much it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:21 AM
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I was a relatively late bloomer. First kiss at 20. First sex at 22. And then had a dry spell until 26. Nothing changes. My friends who were early bloomers got more adventures of being taken advantage by older guys for sex... and they're also more difficult to please when it comes to men because of all the attention they got. My advice is open a dating app and find a nice engineer to take you out. Ensure he's not weird, horny or rude. First date ever is gonna be real weird but you'll get the hang…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:13 AM
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I think he meant meeting friends not hitting on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:09 AM
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Sure you do. Ten bucks you haven't talked to a woman in 2 years .. except your mum.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:06 AM
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Disagreed on men. My worst sex was with the nerd types. Lack or experience and too much attempt to emulate porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:04 AM
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You poor persecuted men. They can't spill their incel women hate everywhere 🤧
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:37 PM
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Someone suggested these places fo MEET women not ask them out. It's pretty logical that if you show up to a yoga class with no intention of doing yoga but creeping on women, you won't have success... I don't get how I need to explain that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:26 PM
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I'm in Canada too and never seen it either. We usually met at people's houses or bars. Different culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:25 PM
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Hmm weird they banned you then. It's run by teens tho so who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:24 PM
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Then there's no magical solution. Women go to women oriented activities then home, meet a guy through friends or apps. There's no magical untapped source of single hot women looking to meet someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:48 PM
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If I've been seeing him at a class or event regularly and he's doing it because he likes it not because he's there to meet someone. Also, though friends at a BBQ or something like that. Your friends already did the vetting by being friends with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:47 PM
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I agree. Some other examples is weight. Obesity is the death knell of dating. You can be nice and have a great personality but very few people would date you. I know a couple of men like this. Another example of a guy is he is very passive and zero ambition. I mean he worked part time in a call center until 30 and that's that's his brother hooked him up with another job. His brother makes all decisions and he just follows. You think any women want a noodle of a man like that? Maybe really contro…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:38 PM
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I know tons of people going to BBQ on weekends with friends and acquaintances in that age group. Parties is not just binge drinking frat events.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:31 PM
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It's not about looking bad to other people. It's more of social proof. For example, you go outside and see one person everyone is avoiding on the street. Your instinct will tell you either he's dangerous, smelly or weird. You rely on other people experience. The person being avoided might be totally normal but some people avoiding him creates a snowball effect and he becomes a pariah. Another example is if you go to a convention and see one seminar with a huge lineup 2h in advance and the other …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:28 PM
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Was your advice to give up because only Chad gets women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:15 PM
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Well yeah of course its a deterrent. Think about it, if all women in the past rejected him, that means there's an issue. This is why women love confident men. We know they are confident because they have had success so other women saw him as desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:12 PM
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Oh please. It's not by design. It's just so much easier for women to meet someone, they don't really want to interact in person. I would assume if I'm approached at a yoga class or spa that this guy has no luck on dating apps and probably came here after getting a hot tip off reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:55 PM
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I think your problem is going to these places with the only intention of hitting up women. Yeah I'd be annoyed if you did that in a yoga class.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:53 PM
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Lol what
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:51 PM
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I cannot imagine seeing the man I love fucking another woman. It would destroy me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:03 AM
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Yeah I'm gonna agree on the male friends part. I used to have male friends and they were all 100% just trying to poison me against my so with the guise of "advice" and "friendship". I do not believe in male female friendship unless the men are friends too and it's a friendship by extension so to speak. After these many experiences, I reject male friends as policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:00 AM
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I strive to be that shelter woman for my husband. I think that's what a lot of women fail to bring to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:53 AM
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I make the list except this. I'm not generous. Life is hard enough. Giving away all you have to people is how you end up alone and homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:40 AM
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This is where I agree with RP on. Many pretty women got so showered with interest and attention in their youth, they have unrealistic expectations in marriage. I was never fat but an ugly duckling and married as soon as a good guy came around. No sense waiting around until everyone is taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:06 PM
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I love how you just made up a bullshit retort after getting your argument destroyed 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:56 AM
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Uh yeah. This a board to talk about gender issues so people share their opinions. Are we not allowed?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 04:51 AM
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It's fail to go to a developing country to find a woman after not succeeding at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:42 PM
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I know a guy who was a great catch. Muscular, good job, house, good cook etc. He had a new woman every week. Every girl I knew at work had a crush on him. Then at 39 he decided he wanted to settle and have a wife and kids. He wanted a fit woman who wanted kids within a few years of him. No one. Women either already had settled with someone else and had kids or didn't want kids at that age. He looked for years and ended up finding a woman in Mexico! He's super French Canadian and wanted a woman f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:47 PM
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It's a RP myth. Someone else linked studies and I'll say it again. The vast majority of people date within 3 years. Age difference of over 10 years is extremely rare (6% I think).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:41 PM
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Men's weakness is like women being dominant and loud. Both are unattractive for biological reasons. It also depends on the weak moment itself. I dated a guy with mommy issues and he would cry talking about his mom not loving him and would want to put his head on my shoulder like a child. I made the face you describe and noped out of that. He then threatened to commit suicide and was very weird. So yeah vetting for serious mental issues or noodle weak men is what we do and I'm not ashamed to say …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:26 PM
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Find a woman who subscribes to FIRE and you're good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:50 PM
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Pretty much. I learned that from my first boyfriend and tell other women in such relationships. If he doesn't want to marry you after 5 years, he just doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:48 PM
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You said it better than I could. Vulnerability as depth in a man who's otherwise strong is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:43 PM
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I would agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:42 PM
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All men are rapists
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:41 PM
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I love this analogy and you nailed it. A man who puts on a strong front but is actually weak underneath is very disappointing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:41 PM
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You really think child free people all secretly want kids and they just never had the chance? Lol. Sure whatever you want to believe. Me spending more than 2h with other peoples kids is all the convincing I need.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:28 PM
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That's why you go on a coffee or drink date first. It is low cost and commitment. If shes using you, she probably won't even want to go to such a date. Dinner should be second or third. Do you think a woman will keep seeing you 3x for the hope of free food? And look at it from the costs to us. Many men are looking to pump and dump. Sex and leave. How do I protect myself from that? I can either wait 6 dates before sleeping with him. Most men would think I'm a prude. Or I can see if he's willing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 02:44 PM
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I to this date interpret splitting the check as lack of interest. A guy wouldn't fuck up like that if he liked me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:01 AM
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That's why they rely on their tips and tricks to weed them out. Whether it works is debatable but that's the whole thing with fds. Sharing strategies how to get a top guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:57 AM
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Yes... this is exactly it... everyone is miserable like in your fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:56 AM
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Of course plenty of people are happy having kids but given how taboo it is to regret kids, how are you sure they're honest with you? And even if they're honest and most people are happy having kids, do you really want to gamble with your entire life on the off chance you don't like being a parent? There's no going back. You can't return them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:50 AM
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I mean it makes sense. Men take on the smallest portion of child rearing. They don't have to give birth and carry it to term. They don't get their bodies destroyed. They don't deal with post partum. And they don't became single dads with full custody and dating pariahs as a result. Having kids is a raw raw deal for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:28 AM
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I hope the aids is better
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:26 AM
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The only parents I know who are happy are those that loved and adored kids since they were kids. Anyone else who just had kids because that's what you're supposed to do wishes to go back. Or at least that's what I've been told.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:24 AM
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Travel. Sleep in on Sundays. Not waste my hard earned money on toys and diapers but a weekend trip to NY. Anyone who says this isn't the life is just jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:22 AM
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Ok? What's wrong with opting for an easier life?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:20 AM
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I always love lines like this that make it seem cool or superior to have kids. No I don't want to sacrifice anything... why would anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:19 AM
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Do you really think people tell you they regret it? Some people would call child protective services. I have had two people tell me only after I voiced my distaste for kids that it was the worst decision of their lives and they wished they could go back.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:18 AM
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But, why? What's in it for the parent?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:05 AM
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Yep. People are waking up to it though. I always say... name me one benefit of having kids. One benefit. And you'll see that that reproduction will be a net negative to almost everyone. Until governments provide actual incentives to have kids, the situation will just get worse. Also, read here how men see single moms. Why would a woman submit herself to this willingly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:04 AM
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I don't know i used to think like you until I realized literally all my male friends were playing the long game hoping to date me. These friendships did not end well. I think it can only work if both are in happy relationships or romantic situations. In that case, they don't imagine what if with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:10 PM
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That's really weird. Even my earliest bloomer friends lost theirs at 18. I lost mine at 22. Maybe in the usa children need to have sex to be cool...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:37 PM
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Very few are saying that. The overwhelming agreement here on this thread is that it's mental illness and being fat and poor that's a turnoff, not their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:36 PM
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Good bot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:35 PM
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Very astute observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:13 PM
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Disagreed on the friends aspect. Men and women overwhelmingly cannot be friends. One person is always hoping for it to evolve into something more. I respect men who don't want female friends either due to lack of common ground or due to this possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:11 PM
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It'll attract women, not the quality kind that you can marry, but ones from poor backgrounds and such impressed by money. Have you ever driven a nice tesla? Everyone is looking at you. Women nudge each other to look at you together. Wealth is a sex symbol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 01:00 PM
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You don't see women posting on how they can get men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:40 PM
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You need to really stand out to be successful in a bar. As for hookups, the vast majority of women don't want to be pumped and dumped by strangers. What you can do is get fitter, trim your facial hair, get expensive and nice cologne and get expensive and nice clothes. You in Hugo Boss will stand out vs you in a band t shirt and your old jeans. Sure you could get girls dressed like this if you're very handsome and successful but this question is for average men. So wear Hugo Boss suit. Yes, we ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:09 PM
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Love how women are basically prey. It's this kind of de humanizing view of women why yall aren't having success.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:56 PM
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Link me a picture of someone like that then. Nobody is that ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:52 PM
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You do know that it's the male peacock that's colorful right? The female looks like a large pigeon. It's actually the opposite in nature. Males are supposed to look prettier and differentiate to mate. For example deer antlers are on males. Colorful fish, birds are male. Male lions have the mane. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:51 PM
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Remember the catharsis when Fantine leads him to the barricade and everyone who died is singing the reprise of Do You Hear The People Sing? I nearly choked on my tears at that point! Btw the movie is so much better than the Broadway musical. It hits harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:55 PM
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Yeah that's gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:30 PM
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I think you just weren't into him. I also used to think men crying was gross until I met my husband. I find his emotions adorable and beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:28 PM
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I remember when I saw it in theaters. Face drenched in tears as Jean is talking to Fantine on his death bed... and there's a couple next to me. Girl is crying a river. Guy looks gruff, tall, football player physique. His Hoodie is pulled over his face tightly and he's tilted towards me away from his girlfriend. I look at him and see that this big guy's face is completely covered in tears. He scooted away from his gf so she wouldn't see he was crying. It was adorable and beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:21 PM
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Oh my God. I gushed like a baby at that scene last time I saw it 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:04 PM
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When Sam carries Frodo to Mordor...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:59 PM
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I agree with others. It's a turnoff if you don't cry at certain moments. Vulnerability is important. It shows ability to share very intimate emotions with your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:25 PM
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Jean Valjean's death - if you DONT cry, it's a turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:24 PM
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It's very hard to lose that weight from what I heard. But yeah, men risk absolutely nothing (except paying for that child should they opt to leave it!) and we become basically worthless on the dating marketplace and our bodies essentially go in self destruct mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:45 AM
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No they don't. Tinder has the largest pool of users and it's free. I met great men on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:18 AM
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Exhibit 23 why women increasingly don't want children. The risk is too great on us in every area.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:17 AM
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He was also the biggest actor in his time and future governor. It's not really his looks as much as his status.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:12 AM
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This might be a shock to you because you're probably a teenager but conservative doesn't mean 19th century prude and many men would write off dating a virgin at my age (31). Honestly it's irrelevant because I'm married. Sorry that your fantasy that I'm a lonely cat lady for daring to date and not all relationships worked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:37 AM
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Not sure if you're trolling but companionship is not sufficient in exchange for me doing all the chores and earning more money. I'll keep looking for a companion offering more than just a warm body.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:28 AM
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Okay... well I disagree. To my point, what does this man bring as added value to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:25 PM
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I'm not expected to do chores for two people if I'm single?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:16 PM
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Yep. Every time I'm honest here people are really mean saying women are evil etc. Do you want an honest opinion or what you want to hear? I personally know like 1 woman in real life who would truly not mind making more money than her husband. And even her I have my doubts she wouldn't grow resentful. Dating a broke dude is as unattractive to us as fat women are to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:44 PM
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No. I'm conservative and a man needs to be a provider first and foremost. I would make an exception if he was very smart and working on his business and I saw a potential payoff later similar to an investment. I'm already expected to do most of the chores and cook and look great and hot, so why would I settle for a bum who can't even earn his own keep? I'd just stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:39 PM
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I like your parallel with antiwork but there's a big big difference with the gender debate and that is bargaining power. Employers have much more bargaining power and can leave you homeless and starving hence why the movement is so virulent. In comparison, women and men have roughly the same bargaining power just different goals. But i agree ultimately. The virulent rhetoric is a result of anger at the status quo and the realization of the unfairness of life. It's a tough pill to swallow to real…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:27 PM
2

Out of curiosity, what's racist on the fds board? Do they advocate sticking to your race or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:17 PM
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I definitely agree with you that no fault divorce where everything is split 50 50 regardless of reason for marriage dissolution is a huge problem in society. You broke the marriage contract, you need to pay a penalty. The other argument is that punishing someone for non crimes is a throwback to religious times. That is true as well. Adultery isn't a crime, it's a sin, but it is cause for divorce. It can be a slippery slope for sure. First adultery, then lying or earning less money could be groun…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:52 PM
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Yes it's a juvenile thought. Unless you're a millionaire or have family wealth in which case you absolutely should sign a prenup, your wealth you earn in marriage is joint. It shows a lack of respect for women's intelligence and contribution to a marriage assuming she's merely a parasite, not a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:55 PM
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Well the person I'm thinking of'S dad had left his mom when he was a baby lol but you're not wrong. His entire friend group is full of single lonely guys so they feed off each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:52 PM
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Didn't date but had a best male friend who was TRP. He was really into me and kept negging me about my dating choices. I was objectively way out of his league. He's borderline obese, never finished college. Has a good job but no career or bright future. Lives with his brother, though they own a small condo. Reads comic books all day and play games. Not traveled. But he was fun to hang out and was a friend of a friend. He became trp as a result of lack of success with women though he claimed he w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:42 PM
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It's not that easy to hide and were not stupid. Reference YouTube videos he watches and mention a few times how the dating world is stacked and there's no hope for average men and that he'd never marry so he's not taken to the cleaners, and you got it. He doesn't need to label himself for it to be apparent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:36 PM
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I know a woman like this. Truly bizarre. She opens the app to look at her dogs while out for dinner and then shows me as I'm supposed to be excited or something looking at her spoiled mutts lying around.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:49 PM
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That's fair. I doubt there's actual studies on the subject so looking for opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:08 PM
1

Egyptians worshipped them because they ate the mice that ate their wheat crops. Hence they thought they were servants of goddess Bastet sent to protect their harvests from mice. As for the pee, didn't know about that. I personally know more weird cat dads than crazy cat ladies myself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:07 PM
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Liking strongly then. Maybe obsession is a strong word. If you see more than 1 cat pic on a dating profile or if there's multiple cats involve, red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:03 PM
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Fair lol. And no... I learned cooking from New York Times Cooking and their recipe adaptations never referenced her... will definitely look into her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:15 PM
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I only know the first two of that list but I can name way more men. Gordon Ramsay, Jamie Oliver, Thomas Keller, Bourdain. 11/15 most successful chefs on Forbes are male.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:58 PM
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I mean it's true. Name me 5 famous male chefs vs female.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 07:01 PM
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Thank you 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:18 PM
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100%. Or reddit wouldn't be full of guys crying and dreaming of holding a hand. Below average men can't find relationships because we'd rather be single than date them. I fully admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:15 PM
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I don't have kids to abandon lol. My point is this is a really strange reason to mgtow. Hating women because your mother wasn't happy and left. Stop being emotional...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 06:22 AM
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Fathers leave vast majority of the time and I doubt you'd have hated men if your father had left. And I'm sorry to say this but this needs to be said, many many people regret parenthood and feel trapped. Some run away because they hate it so much. It's an issue still taboo in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:25 AM
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No you're wrong. I dated many men from many cultures and Americans are the best. They take on a provider role without being abusive or sexist. They have hard work in their blood.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:05 PM
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You're right. American men are extremely desirable worldwide. I'm Russian and married an American and it's seen even in Canada where I live like striking a jackpot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:03 PM
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Honestly as a woman I agree. I married an American man and the fact he hasn't been snagged until then and many women were horrible to him is shocking to me. He's a hell of a catch. I don't think even American women know what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:59 PM
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Ha! My American husband says the same thing about Russian women. We also don't have the mental illness epidemic of western women. A man who's comfortable in a family leader and provider role would love Russian women. However, given we're more traditional, we expect traditional behavior from men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:57 PM
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Thank you! He's great. Leaving Canada is worth it for him 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:32 PM
2

And you're basing that off what, reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:31 PM
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Exactly what I thought. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:52 AM
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😂😂😂 you're in for a memorable Saturday night
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:36 PM
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I like the Jewish look. Big nose, not too tall, dark black hair. Baldness is a turn off. Between 5'10 and 6'2. Body type doesn't matter to me as long as he's fit. Fat rolls and flabby body is a no go.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:35 PM
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You nailed it 100%. This is the crux of the problem among incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:30 PM
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Literally no one is saying that. Only crazy mentally ill people on feminist boards question it. Fat is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:29 PM
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The way he grunts in the Witcher 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:28 PM
1

I am very attracted to the Big nose Jewish look as well. It's a type.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:27 PM
2

Well I learned something today
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:26 PM
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80%WALT
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:25 PM
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Uncomfortable stuff = women are like children and can't control their urges to fuck Chad, women will take all your money guaranteed, women will upgrade with a better man as soon as she can. If that's uncomfortable stuff, I got some uncomfortable stuff about men you'll protest towards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:22 PM
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Oh trust me you know men like this. They just don't share their views openly. I found accidentally one of my best male friends was a red piller.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:18 PM
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Incels.is is their new rat nest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:16 PM
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I'd rather be happy than in the know then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:10 PM
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-immigration -tax breaks -insurance -clear cut inheritance
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:08 PM
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Yeah. Married an American and waiting for my green card.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:05 PM
0

Nice strawman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:27 PM
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No they don't. Most men want a normal stable relationship after the age of 25. It's only perpetual man children that would rather have empty sex every Friday.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:33 PM
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Not disagreeing with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:53 PM
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Yeah there are men who feel fomo and want to keep dating just like women. However, if you meet a woman and feel a spark and want to keep seeing and spending time with her... why would you throw that away and keep looking? It makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:44 PM
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Nobody hates you. We don't give a shit. Do you hate old grandma or you just don't notice them or think about them? Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:28 PM
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Lol Russian women pursue men? Lmao. I'm Russian and Russian women are the most gold digging prince charming looking culture in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:26 PM
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Men who have options aren't opting out so no losses there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:24 PM
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Yeah I'm sure you're an expert in this subject. Most men I would match with at that age wanted to settle down, sorry that doesn't fit your revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:16 PM
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Maybe take a look at the stats how many women vs men get orgasms in sex and which gender on average enjoys it more. Also take a look at the household chores split between men and women. Men aren't worthless but it's infinitely easier to find a man to date than vice versa. There's literally 4x times more men on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:15 PM
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Kids are a bad deal in our society, period. Our whole generation is eschewing them. It's got nothing to do with women giving up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:12 PM
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And if he decides to cheat or leave her, she's on her own raising the offspring and becoming the dreaded single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:10 PM
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Good point. I dated 35 year old when I was 28 and he wanted kids and marriage asap. We broke up because I didn't at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:08 PM
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This will be a shock to you but not every man wants to sleep with every hot woman out there. Tons of attractive men have been there done that and want to settle down and buy a house and watch TV together. In my experience online dating, good looking men are far more ready to settle down and less thirsty than less good looking men. Unattractive men tend to have serious self esteem issues too so they're clingy or not nice at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:06 PM
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I would be disgusted getting a dick pic from a hot guy... it's incredibly disrespectful and unwarranted. Men doing that are doing it to get a high a woman has seen them naked. Women send nudes because 96% of the time, men will want to see them. I am lucky I've never gotten a dik pic but if I had, it would be instant block.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 02:01 PM
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That's the world analogy ever. They're not even remotely on the same level.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:04 AM
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😐 I bet she's still looking for prince charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:02 AM
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Sounds like you both were looking for an exit plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:57 AM
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Agreed. If a man is high value, a woman knows this and she won't risk him getting snatched up by another. If she doesn't care he's taken or knows the odds of that happening are small, she will push for it. Bonus benefit is she can potentially upgrade to a better man. Men... please never lower yourselves to being the beta cucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:06 PM
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Something like 80% of threads on that sub are people feeling jealous or uncomfortable ( obviously... because this whole thing is unnatural ) and the advice is "you need to work through your issues of possessiveness". Right, I think you need mental counseling is what I'd tell them but I'd get banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:03 PM
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❤
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:00 PM
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😂😂😂 ok I'll visit that sub when I want to laugh at other people, you convinced me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:25 PM
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Nah, not gonna indulge your kink sorry. You're a great person and Putin loves and values you. I hear youre his favorite bot. All the other Putin bots got nothing on your awesomeness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:22 PM
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Any man who would entertain that discussion with his wife is the ultimate beta. I can't imagine possibly respecting a man who would be open to see me getting reamed by strangers. Our society is truly becoming degenerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:34 PM
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I mean yes, murderers and rapists are lower. But poly is true degeneracy. I have one friend who got into it and we agreed not to talk about it. His lifestyle is just embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:30 PM
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Your relationship is on borrowed time then. Sounds like he's bored and looking for another woman to get with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:29 PM
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Why would you accept such an arrangement?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:27 PM
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It's 100% broken people. I know one couple who bonded over being cheated and betrayed on by their long time partners. Their conclusion was people can't be monogamous and polyamory is the way to go. He spends nights with random women and so does she. I saw them Saturday and let us just say I have a bet going when he's gonna text me letting me know they broke up. The relationship was built on trauma and is continuously damaged by thoughts of their partner intimate with strangers. It's so fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:26 PM
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Ew. They need serious therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:23 PM
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In other words, a cuck loser. No man with self respect would comply with such gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:22 PM
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☝
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:21 PM
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What a fucked up society were living in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:20 PM
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I don't understand a hot rich man getting much success in a poly relationship but an average dad bod dude? Lol. Why. Why would any woman want to have the status of a concubine that can be cast aside at any moment for ...sex? It's super easy to get for women..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:20 PM
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Same. The mere mental image of my husband spending the night with another woman and I want to punch a wall. The women who push for that 100% have no respect and aren't attracted to their husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:18 PM
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Reddit has enough sporadic mental illness for me to willingly walk into the heart of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:15 PM
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I don't know why either. A lot of finance and tech workers I'd wager and they're mostly male.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:02 PM
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Hey props for admitting your bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:48 PM
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Lmao now that's a new one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:57 AM
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I thought this post was satire at first. Why don't jews like nazis? At the very core of Nazism lies the belief that Jews are swindlers, liars and thieves etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:43 AM
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Yeah. We can do something about them. Members of their communities can de radicalize them or at least contact authorities if there's a threat of violence. It's like saying there's nothing we can do about Islamic terrorism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:28 AM
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So if we pull out the standard deviation in this study and it's low, will you accept the black pill is bs or find another explanation?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:14 AM
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And mental illness. I'd say that is the biggest issue. I met incels irl. The creep radar was buzzing so loud in my head, I couldn't even sit next to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:13 AM
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As a woman, I can't work in several fields because I get sexually harassed or as assaulted despite enjoying it. I can't go outside by myself late at night. I am responsible for accidental pregnancy etc. We're not complaining because life isn't fair. You don't want to adapt and play the game, that's your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:05 AM
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Dude you really overestimate the scale of the problem. Go outside and count the couples. Talk to strangers. Most are in relationships. Society will not collapse because of a small group of incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:03 AM
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I dated in Toronto as a woman and Jesus. Christ. The caliber of men desperate to pay you dinner and kiss your ass is all over the apps. If you're in a big city and don't have much going for you as a man, it's brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:01 AM
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I'm sure men would give a huge fuck if a lot of women were lonely. They'd laugh at us and tell us to lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:23 AM
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Women need a man less than before. That's why. Sex is usually pretty mediocre for us and we risk pregnancy every time we get naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:18 AM
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🤣 man you should run for office. I hear the nazi party is looking for members.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:10 AM
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Video games is a great hobby. Reading comic books is such a cool hobby. Trolling reddit is high skill men possess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:09 AM
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I'm sure you'd be very nonplussed if a lot if women couldn't get laid and the situation was reversed. You'd say to go lose weight and get her hair done if she wants to get laid, that ugly whale. I empathize with men suffering but there is no solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:01 AM
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Lovely pun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:59 AM
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Because men try to emulate porn in real life including the disrespect towards women in porn. Source, me. One guy I dated for a very brief moment would slap his dick across my face. We were done pretty quick after that. The obsession with anal is another one. We are impacted by toxic porn messaging. If a dude who I don't care about watches porn, I dont care. I care if he wants to date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:55 AM
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We really don't care what incels do in their bedrooms as long as it's not planning terrorist attacks on women. You really overestimate how much people care about others. Women are only involved in this issue because incels are a group that's prone to radicalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:44 AM
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Nope he doesn't. He's done it before and thinks it's weird. And maybe that's normal for you, but it's disgusting to me. I like giving head just not cum in my mouth. Do you like other people's fluids in your mouth? Porn has really distorted people's minds. And no, don't like being eaten. Not that's it's comparable. I wouldn't expect him to put in the mouth any cum on my side.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:07 PM
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Canada
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:16 PM
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I'm a Russian living in Canada. Western culture is superior. Sorry dude. And western men are much superior. I would never ever date a Russian again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:30 AM
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Speak for yourself. I'd rather be single and masturbate than ever date a fat guy. A few extra pounds ..ok. a huge belly and double chin, no money can make up for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:19 AM
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Oh we know. I had one fat encounter and it was the worst by far sex of my life. I still cringe thinking about it. It lasted 2 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:17 AM
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To be fair, UK women (and men) are some of the ugliest people I've ever seen. I'm talking rural ladies. Some of the trolls I saw traveling through Yorkshire and Northumberland were probably inspirations for Tolkien when describing orcs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:16 AM
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Curious... why? They have small dicks as it's covered by fat, less sexual endurance... is it just a fetish for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:13 AM
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I'm so glad I'm thin lol. God bless all the fatties in America keeping the bar low.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:12 AM
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You guys are bastions of rationality and intligence and were just dumb creatures only knowing how to fuck and spend money 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:10 AM
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Threesome with an ex and another woman. My husband finds the idea revolting. Also at the time he was already an ex so there was no jealousy. Also finishing in mouth. Husband wants it but I tried it a total of one time and never again. I made that clear before we started dating. I'm never getting cum in my mouth again and if it's a deal breaker, then it's not gonna work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:00 AM
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Given my husband proposed to me after knowing each other long distance for 9 months and is sponsoring me for immigration to the USA (its awful), I'd wager I was worth the hassle. And yes he's very successful with women. As for me, I settled because I always wanted a very ambitious man and he's not. But he's amazing in every other way. Waiting for some perfect imaginary prince or princess is childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:58 AM
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Smiing at you, looking at you intently, laughing at all your jokes, subtly touching you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:00 PM
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Oh I agree. It's certainly not fair. An ugly and awkward guys needs to hit the gym daily, get a good haircut and outfit at the very least to have a chance of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:23 PM
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I mean yeah... actors are attractive. But travel a bit outside of London or watch the Great British Bake off and you'll be horrified. I don't know it its centuries of inbreeding or what but they on average are known as an ugly population for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 02:19 PM
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Haha nothing kinky. Just saying texting is not a chore for everyone. I had tons of fun doing it. My husband tells me he had a blast on tinder as well and loved the texting game so it's not just because I'm a woman. Online dating is much harder in your case.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:04 AM
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Lol I'll do for you for $60 an hour and get you dates or your money back.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:51 AM
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Lmao the Brits are definitely some of the less attractive white people alive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 11:37 PM
1

What makes you say so? 39% of couples met in 2017 via online dating. There's zero evidence that those couples have less longevity than ones met through friends. Your assumption that people online don't make great partners is, I would posit, as a result of arcane thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:04 PM
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Retyping the same job description every time is so annoying. Just saw I work in banking, that's all you need to know. You can guess how much I make roughly if you're worried I'm some min wage retail worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 05:00 PM
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Social expectations and also fear of angering the guy. I wouldn't walk out in 98% of cases for fear of upsetting him and following me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:59 PM
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What? I'm married. I didn't say I couldn't get one. I met a man online and married him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:20 PM
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Yes, you can. If you have nothing to say to each other except "hey, what r u up 2, nothing, u, how was the weekend, good just chilled, lol me 2." I'd rather become a nun than go on a date and hope against all odds this person and I will have fun. Texting chemistry 100% works. It's just many people are bad texters so I get them. They're fun in person but hate texting. That sucks and I get it but online dating is by definition online to begin with. And with women having 10 matches at the same time…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:08 PM
1

No. They weren't married. I dated them and met their friends and family. You need to accept the fact that the majority of couples are forming online. Maybe you don't have luck with it but the rest of us have had great results.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:05 PM
6

My best advice is don't make it a job interview. I do not want to type out what my job is unless I'm a professional diver with dolphins. You don't need to ask questions, tell a funny story in relation to her profile. Comment on a travel pic, say you've always wanted to go there and ask if it's worth it. Just don't ask about job, don't ask stilted dry questions... it's tiresome and a turnoff right off the bat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:04 PM
5

I'm not wasting a whole evening meeting you unless I see chemistry. It's a bigger waste of time to spend one evening, not to mention awkward, if you don't vibe. Texting is low effort and allows to filter out men who are either creepy, not compatible, or ones you don't mesh with. I have never said yes after 3 exchanges and had very fruitful dates. Men who push for early dates probably know they won't pass the sniff test online.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:02 PM
1

Uh, maybe you match with these people but I met total AAA individuals on apps. They just get snatched up quickly and don't stay long.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:00 PM
2

Let's be realistic here. A fat dude with little to offer acting all alpha just screams "I watched YouTube videos how to pick up girls but I'm actually terrified". Real confidence and game can't be faked. It's all gained via experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:40 PM
2

I have two traumatic stories where a man played the long friend game (one was 10 years). The latter told me 4 years in after I broke up with my ex he wanted to date me, I told him no, he said he wanted to stay friends. Let's just say it ended badly. He resented any men I liked and poisoned my mind against them. That he thought I would like him back was frankly naive. I am a fairly good looking thin woman, well traveled and making 40% more than him whereas he's a fat guy living with his brother w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:14 PM
1

I agree. I'd say overwhelmingly, I don't believe or trust male to female friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:07 PM
1

Lol had the same thing. Male friends who would poison my mind against other men. What kind of friend is thar? As they say, enemies are a better alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:07 PM
3

Yeah I agree. I can't think of one friend who un friendzoned one of her male friends. If we're not flirting with you hard-core from the start, you're just too unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 03:05 PM
5

Its not about making a move fast or not. Women instinctively classify men as "potential date" or "friend". Generally, if a guy is fat, awkward, bad job etc but fun guy, he goes subconsciously into that bucket.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:57 PM
3

Thank you for making me question it!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:08 AM
6

I don't know, maybe you're right and I'm being illogical. There's just something about a walk that sounds like you want the quickest in and out possible with zero cost. I would think a guy is really not into me to propose this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:06 AM
5

I just assume you don't even have $15 for a coffee date.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 04:02 AM
-6

Seconded this. Also park date is a level of low effort on a similar scale to "come to my house".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 01:07 AM
2

Everything you say is on point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 06:41 PM
2

I usually don't agree with you but I'm with you 100% on this. This is mental laziness. I have friends with amazing parents who turned out like total hoes and their parents are angels. And vice versa. It's not indicative of anything except blind luck of landing great parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 06:35 PM
1

I would definitely pick the blue collar over the MBA. The blue collar might not have a college degree but he's smarter than half the school to earn this much. 99% of people without a college degree though, don't make nearly close to that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 05:24 AM
0

Kudos to you for seeing you picked wrong and women isn't the problem. Your ex is and why you liked her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 05:21 AM
12

Red pill by definition says women are preying on men to steal their stuff and move on to someone's richer. Why would a man enter such an arrangement?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:21 AM
15

Absolutely not. I have met real life red pillers and they're all losers who are so jaded with being rejected, they fall prey to YouTube gurus online telling them they're prizes whereas women are the problem. If he follows trp, I'm gonna assume two things. Either he got really unlucky with a horrible banshee woman that he hates women as a whole OR he's an impressionable easy to manipulate beta who's gotten rejected so many times, he needs to tell himself society and women are the problem, not him…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:20 AM
3

Do you not see how that's a problem that a man enters s marriage feeling he got gipped?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:16 AM
17

They don't want relationships by definition, just sex and casual. So yeah, if I am pursued by some red pill bro, I need to ask myself questions if I come off as easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:14 AM
8

Very eloquent response.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:13 AM
7

Oh God. Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:12 AM
9

You're their dream woman. And you're smart to see that they offer you nothing except abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:10 AM
3

As someone who has drunkenly hooked up with a fat guy in my youth, BARF. Their d is tiny, hidden by all the fat. Their endurance is... low, to be mild. And their self esteem is lower than that. Gross and never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:09 AM
5

Unpopular opinion but graduating college is like graduating high school twenty years ago. It's pretty basic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:05 AM
7

Men do this too. When you've been rejected consistently, you get desperate and hope that the other person won't mind your weight and will love you for you when they meet. Strategy fails but I understand why they do it. Source : am female victim of fat fishing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:04 AM
3

It's easier to think you're shallow than accept that they're losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:00 AM
5

He was 32 back then (34 now). So not that young. Red Pill rhetoric can help men feel like they're not the problem, society is. Find a common enemy etc. But it also poisons personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:22 PM
2

It is not the words but the themes. One male friend I had kept telling me about all his sexual conquests and how rich he was. He would lie constantly and act cool to impress me even though it was sadly obvious none of it was true. He would talk how women all wanted top guys and didn't want good guys to settle down with. He would tall obsessively how women make money on only fans... anyway he vanished once I started dating someone and passed him over. I bet he's thinking that I just love Chad and…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:16 PM
2

The sisters lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:03 PM
6

Yeah I also learned how to detect IRL red pill speech. Good filter to eliminate awful people from your life and avoid dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:57 PM
3

That one I feel dirty watching. True bottom of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:55 PM
2

If you're planning to buy a house in New Zealand, you're unreasonable lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:29 AM
1

I agree. I don't think other women are being honest. Guy 2 looks like a major loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:40 AM
2

Both men sound awful. I pick being single cat lady! But for real, if I had to, man 1. Insecurity in a man is about as attractive as herpes for me. Pair that with splitting the bill and making 40k and I'd rather chill with my cat. There's zero perk dating this loser. Man 1 would force me to try harder to be better but I'd be worried every time women approached him. Definitely would make me feel insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:37 AM
10

Your outlier situation is... an outlier. The vast majority of people date within 3 years difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:07 PM
1

Met my now husband in another country in April 2020, right at the start. Now waiting for immigration papers to move. So things have been good.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:01 PM
3

I should do it too but installing all those mods is so time consuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 11:00 PM
3

You won't see many people argue that. It's the claims that are totally outlandish how men are more successful at 40 than 25 and that women hit the wall at 30 that we laugh at. Total made up revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 10:48 PM
3

What does this prove, that old men would rather date younger women but not too young and that most people prefer 3-4 year gap? Because that's not at all what TRP says. If you believe some posters here, they regularly snag and date 22 year Olds while being 40. The whole claim is men are all fighting for young girls and no one wants old 30+ year women. They are cat ladies at 30 because men are going after college girls. I've seen this claim multiple times. All studies disprove it but I guess TRP w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 10:47 PM
1

Lets agree to disagree. Simply forgetting the person you want to build a relationship is not normal behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 09:33 PM
1

There's a difference between being insecure like your ex and wanting to know the person is thinking of you, especially early on when you can't know what the person is thinking or if you're an option to them. A few texts a day from the person you who's courting you isn't that much to ask. I refuse to accept that anyone on this planet except maybe the chief vaccine researcher at Moderna or Pfizer, is so busy they can't send a text.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 09:27 PM
3

No texting either? You're so busy you can't send one text?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:43 PM
3

Then the girl wasn't that important to you. If you're so busy you can't find 15 mins for a call, you're just not into her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:34 PM
0

Huh. I didn't know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:18 PM
2

You're right. Some jobs were done by women like teaching or nursing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:49 PM
15

Marrying for love did not exist as a concept until Regency era England. People married to further their line or secure alliances and because children could work on the farm or mine and bring in some money. It was a business transaction. In wealthier circles it was common to marry who you're told and to have someone you love on the side. And until the 1970s, women couldn't get a job so they had no agency and couldn't decide to stay single or wait longer to find someone. So yes, absolutely. Us hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:23 PM
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I think aristocrats and rich guys had it as bad. They were told who to marry as long as she was fertile and from good family. Dating and marrying for love in an insanely new concept, dating from the Regency era England (early 1800s). It is only 200 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:17 PM
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I'm replying to men saying women don't congregate anywhere. I give you props for not faking your interest in the class to meet someone though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 03:24 AM
2

Oh yeah! Not for everyone to look at old bricks and stones but I go full nerd looking at old Roman wheel tracks in the stone 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 03:23 AM
2

I was 26-27 when I did that. And it's a shame men were taught that. I'm sure most women would feel good about getting asked in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:54 AM
2

We both like archeology, hiking, cooking and politics. When we travel, we go to historical and archeological sites together 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:52 AM
5

Well men complain here online dating doesn't work and to meet women IRL but their idea of IRL is what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:32 AM
1

People change. My husband had that phase. I'd argue it's better to settle with a man like that because he's experienced the hookup casual culture and doesn't feel fomo about it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:28 AM
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Sure thing. Its not easy but if a man here picks up yoga and actually attends it and enjoys it, I can guarantee you he'll find a great woman. The girls in my studio are all very attractive and a good portion are single. There's on average one man per class.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:27 AM
2

Of course. She'll assume that she is just an option and you're not into her per se but just looking for a woman. No one wants to feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:25 AM
1

I don't mind the work from home. Like I said, it's the overall package of not having a social life and very sedentary lifestyle. For the record my husband loves video games but his other hobbies and interests make up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:24 AM
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Volunteering with museums and natural historical sites. Mostly at festivals giving out flyers. I also attended random Facebook events that would pop up to meet men. Went to a piano recital but it was weird because everyone knew each other lol. Went to a dance and drink event at a museum with friends. Plenty of single guys, no one approached us. Countless festivals and food tasting events. Board game nights. I really tried meeting men organically lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:22 AM
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I've seen it in college. He asked every woman out in our class. Very poor strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:48 PM
1

Don't forget I down selected for the ones that had a bio and looked like guys wanting to settle down. I also was dating at 26-27. Men are done with the playboy phase by then usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:47 PM
1

😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:45 PM
3

Yoga class. Luckily I have never seen a guy come to class specifically to find a woman... probably because you need to do yoga first. Organic food stores. All women. Museum exhibit. Though it's mostly Gen x rich folks, there's a good amount of female groups. Spa. Hard to socialize there but doable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:40 PM
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Well...yeah. imagine you joined a painting class and there's a guy who's not interested in painting and just asks out every single woman out until you see him approaching you, meaning it's your turn (and also knowing you're not even close to the top of his list so you're plan J), would you be interested in him?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:36 PM
1

Lol. My gyno has a locked door that only allows patients in. Apparently, it's happened that a bf killed his gf while waiting for an abortion... so you won't be allowed in the waiting room...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:35 PM
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Haha true. I was single and desperately attending events and doing volunteering and there were no single men. All old retirees or something. I stopped that very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:32 PM
0

Uh what am I missing. Why don't these numbers add up to 100%?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:30 PM
1

Nothing is wrong with it. It's the fact his life is quite monotonous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 09:01 PM
2

Ugh, you're absolutely right... never thought I'd admit it on this board 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:09 PM
2

I'm 31, moderate right leaning politically. I can't speak for other women but I can tell you women will forgive a lot in a man if they respect and look up to him. Moments of weakness won't break a relationship 8f a man is stalwart otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 06:30 PM
2

Yeah but men would accept it more in women I think. Weakness is more tolerated by men of women than vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 06:27 PM
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Overall agree with OP. A strong man who is overwhelmed with emotion watching Aragorn charge the army of Sauron is sweet and adorable. Listening a a man talk about his depression is a turnoff. We seek strong dependable men and illness, mental illness included, is a base turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 06:06 PM
4

I would match almost with everyone I swipe right on. Over 90% for sure. Guys swipe right on anyone who isn't obese or super ugly so... these are estimates based on my active dating life in 2016-2017, so don't drill me on the exact percentages.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 05:56 PM
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I had the best success dating on tinder. Everyone is on it. Tinder was initially built for hookups but they remarketed themselves because hookups attracted very few women. If you check, tinder does not consider itself a hookup app. I never tried eharmony or those boomer sites but from what i heard, it's full of bots, scammers and people looking for immigration papers😆 i did not like bumble personally. Felt like the guys were less quality on it. My experience only. And most guys on tinder wanted …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 05:53 PM
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I don't swipe on 5%. Where did I say that? I swipe right on about 20%. Match with 200, date with 20, 4 second date and 1 for relationship. Sounds about right over a 4-5 month period.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 05:35 PM
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Boring is the wrong word. When you don't mesh in a conversation, you don't vibe etc. No one is inherently boring, people are just compatible or not
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 04:22 PM
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They're welcome to unmatch me if they find me boring. And I highly doubt that. I often message first with a comment on their profile and have varied interests, am well traveled. Often, we're just not compatible. A guy who works from home, grabs a beer every Friday and likes Marvel movies and COD isn't someone I find interesting and maybe the feeling is mutual on his side. I'm cool with that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 04:10 PM
2

Men make a few k more than women. And anyway, your argument that women are all paycheck to paycheck is not proven here. You can manage well on 43k better than someone on 80k.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:52 PM
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...Most women on tinder are looking for relationships. I would swipe right because his profile says he's stable, fairly attractive and we have something in common. It's a first pass to a conversation to see whether I'd want to go on date. After that, about 30% of men imply or state they want just sex. I unmatch those immediately. Then another 60% are boring or there is no vibe in conversation. So the remaining 10% I would go on date with. About half of the 10% ends up being a date because of a v…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:51 PM
3

What is the average male weight? 200lb. When you have a belly and a minimum wage job, women are not running for a chance to make fried chicken for you to fatten you further.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:42 PM
1

Citation needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:41 PM
5

I mean it is by definition settling if you don't get exactly what you want. Nothing wrong with that. For example, my husband is not highly ambitious. He is quite content with making good money but he'd rather coast instead of seeking higher pay for higher positions and more work. Yeah it bothered me because I find ambition sexy but I liked everything else about him so it was a fair compromise. When you take a job that fits 80% of your criteria, aren't you settling? It's the same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 05:53 PM
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Your debate strategy is telling me I'm stupid and don't understand anything. I provided evidence that pairing is normal in nature and your response is the other species aren't humans and not comparable 😂 so who's comparable then? Do you have in fact any evidence that humans only pair out of necessity or you're just in a sour mood this morning?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 05:32 PM
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No but most qualities. My husband is missing 6 of those and 1 (kids) doesn't matter because we don't want any. It's a very reasonable list. A normal adult man should fit 2/3 of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 05:23 PM
1

Which most men here aren't hence the saltiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 05:06 PM
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Right, no one is happily married. Everyone is miserable. Your evidence is a post by a fellow salty man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 05:02 PM
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So swans also invented that concept ? Dolphins? No, intelligent species figured out that pair bonding is the best ways to raise offspring. Pairing up is an evolutionary strategy not the invention of feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:57 PM
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Most normal men get sick of empty sex very quickly. It's only young guys and lifelong incels that fantasize about endless flings and casual sex. Every successful smart man I've ever known got sick of that by 25 and started looking for someone to settle down with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:41 PM
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I would love being asked out in public but I could easily tell you were asking out every girl you see and that would be a turnoff. I don't do hookups nor do I want to feel like a nameless female hole. If you saw me on the street and got bedazzled by my beauty and smile and asked my number to take me out on a date, I would be thrilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:23 PM
1

Looks are primary in importance for men. That's just biological reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:12 PM
2

Yep. I would be totally ok with being asked out in public
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:11 PM
1

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:10 PM
2

I agree with you. This woman is the kind hiding in her apartment with cats afraid she will be raped every day by every man on the street. Ask women out in public, just read body language.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:09 PM
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Speak for yourself. Me and my friends have zero issues being asked out as long as he's not asking out literally everyone and let's be honest, not an old creepy man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:07 PM
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The men who struggle in dating fail in the majority of these criteria. A man who is confident is likely to be better looking and more successful. It's a snowball effect. They also have not been hurt by women as much so they're kinder to everyone especially women. A man who's never gotten attention is probably unattractive, not confident and less successful. They go together. Never having much if any success with women, he emanates a misogyny smell that us women are familiar with. The kind that c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:02 PM
3

Agreed, my only point is face the fear upfront of rejection rather than during the date. The latter us 100% gonna sting more, and you'll waste your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 02:36 AM
0

You are really glorifying the past, my friend. Chad was as much a thing back in the past. See Les Mis. Chad swings dick around, impregnates Fantine and 1500 pages of trauma to dozens of people ensue as a result of her falling for the charms of a sexy young intellectual. The only difference is she couldn't get an abortion and there were zero protections for women in the world place so she becomes a prostitute and dies before the age of 18 from illness. Yes its fiction but Hugo based it on many re…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 01:14 AM
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This is terrible advice. You'd be like two guys I know who suggested to hang out and I had no idea they wanted a date. In one case, I had a BF and he didn't know. I thought he wanted a new friend. He blocked me right after we left the bar, to my shock. Again I had no idea this was a date. In another, he asked for the bill. I was taken by huge surprise because I thought we were hanging out as friends. Men, ask a woman out directly. Don't be a pussy. She says no, she says no. Better she tells you …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 01:07 AM
4

Why did you see her ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 09:19 PM
2

Let her go dude. She doesn't need to live in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 05:14 AM
2

I'd say that capitalism infiltrated feminism and promoted ideas that would benefit exploitation and impoverishment of the middle class. Feminism was a corrupted party.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:50 AM
2

Same experience in my Christian club. A lot of men should consider joining a church lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:05 AM
0

Glad you had a fun phase. Mine was 26-28. Crazy adventures, memorable romances. You experience that and want to settle down after. Which is what I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:25 PM
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You need to read up on history. As another person said, the usa was alone with wealth and stability those years. That, and capitalism has convinced women to join the workforce to keep wages low and force a two person household being the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:17 PM
0

I wanted to be one too. The problem is capitalism made it impossible in modern days. Life is just too expensive for one income unless your husband makes at least 6 digits and you don't live in an expensive place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:15 PM
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Trust me, its weird. I tried to reason with them... one ended up losing it very recently at 32 to some dude online. She gave up. The other is still looking for the one. She's 33.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:10 PM
3

I know 2 women. Both hot and nice. They want fellow Christian men to marry. They want to lose their virginity to each other before God.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:04 PM
1

Interesting. Can you emphasize what you mean by extra pleasantries and compliments? Is that from strangers on the street?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 09:56 PM
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Knowing women like this, it becomes a sunk cost fallacy. I spent all this time looking for a godly man, I'm not stopping now! Pair that with the belief that the singleness is part of God's plan and you have a recipe for disaster. I used to be part of a Christian club in college. It was heavy on women. Almost all men got plucked off to marry by graduation time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 09:42 PM
2

That's awesome. I wanted to be a sahw but life is too expensive now and no man I dated was even remotely interested. I'm good looking, excellent cook etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 08:23 PM
0

Stop listening to anon women only. Women irl won't find those demands unfair. Ultimately, you need to seek conservative women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 08:22 PM
0

How many times do we have to explain that prenuptial only works for assets acquired prior to marriage. You can't prenup away a settlement on a house you both bought.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 08:20 PM
1

I'm truly sorry you feel this way. I always heat heat Scandinavian feminist utopia is only that on the outside and is a hell hole for most to live in. I am sending you good wishes and positive thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 08:12 PM
2

I think two girls going out are more likely open to meeting a guy vs 3 or more. The latter falls into the "going out with girls" hangout. The former is "let's go to a bar tonight!". At least that's been my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:21 PM
1

What do you mean, the bias that the wingman has to distract two women at once?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:03 PM
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I meant its a short relationship. 1-3 months isn't a boyfriend to me but a fling. Affair is the wrong word; I didn't mean cheating or anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:58 PM
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Yes you know who were attracted better than we do. Tell us more who we like! That being said, if conventionally attractive is not obese, not a jobless/full time cashier and not deeply depressed... then yes. Conventionally attractive please.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:07 PM
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Lol I know women like that. You're 33 and waiting for a hot, virgin Christian family man? Sweetie, that guy got married 12 years ago and has 4 kids now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:06 PM
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That is 100% correct. There are tons of decent men who want a relationship. Especially after 24-25. Women who complain here everyone uses them for sex probably have a playboy type.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:05 PM
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Yeah weight is definitely it. She may be average in the fat parts or America but anywhere else in the world, she's below average due to her weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:31 PM
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Amy Schumer is way below average. Average would be for me Lindsay Lohan when young or Sarah Jessica Parker.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:13 PM
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I disagree. Men approach in bars in pairs. The wingman distracts the friend while the guy is going after the girl he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:07 PM
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I am not unattractive but I was very weird and not good looking until I glowed up at 21-22. Until then, I was bullied, made fun of my teeth gap, my accent in French (live in Quebec), my clothes.... at 19 or 20, I started with new friends in college and got confidence. I am not a stunner but i dress very well and have a nice butt so I get plenty of attention in public. I have had a lot of orbiters. Lonely guys who I thought were friends who were after me because I'm chill, down to earth and they …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:51 PM
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No he said he's not from North America.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:28 AM
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Yeah a trade is definitely the better option. You can do really well if you work hard and OP seems hard working. Problem is people suggested it and he says he needs a degree to have any job except cashier in his country but refuses to say which country...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:42 AM
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He's a researcher in software engineering. I don't know what OP skills are but it definitely requires a college education.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:37 AM
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He said himself in his post he is not intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:15 AM
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For every Einstein that's temporarily a clerk, there are millions of average and below average clerks who remain nameless in history, let's be real here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:15 AM
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Same. The worst for me were 26-27. The quarter life crisis was real.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:22 PM
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8.5 . Married and happy. I have personality flaws I'm actively working on but its hard to change oneself at 31. Like some other people here, I am genetically gifted to be naturally happy. I can see a flower blooming and stop and smile at how beautiful its petals are. Smell it and look at the sky, close my eyes and enjoy the warm air. I can walk in cold winter and think about the good workout I'm getting and how lucky I am to have a healthy body that can carry me. I then get excited about the hot…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:16 PM
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That should be universal advice for all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:13 PM
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Exhibit disproving the red pill nonsense how nice girls who want to get married would rather sleep with all the Chad instead of settling down. She wanted to. They didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:11 PM
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My husband. He has a natural sexy energy about him but he's autistic leaning and has a crooked nose and quite eccentric. I have to fight off women hitting on him. Waitresses, random tourists, women at bar. I mean he's amazing. I married him. But I didn't think he looked that attractive, it's our common hobbies and his mind I find attractive that these women don't know about. Lucky for him he doesn't pick up on any of them flirting with him 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:05 PM
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Do you people want honest opinions or what you want to hear? I'm sure you'd be very non shallow and marry a fat disabled banshee too. Got to help society out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 08:48 PM
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So I'm a nazi now. And how did you make it to the Netherlands? You just took a flight? On whose money? Did you ever struggle? People I know in North America from the third world are some of the richest people out there. Life is expensive and it's getting worse. Houses will be on average 1m within 10-15 years in the usa, just watch. You can live in lalaland where money doesn't matter and everyone is happy and loving and living off the land or you can face the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 07:43 PM
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Ah I misread your post. Apologies. We're in agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 07:00 PM
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I would never date either of those. I actually prefer engineers. I love math types. Everyone has their type. Grocery clerk is no one's type though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 06:46 PM
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I think you just didn't get what she's saying. Yes, we're all for sticking through thick and thin but there needs to be potential for a brighter future. If I am dating a guy who's broke but a genius working on a new app, he has a future potentially. It's a good investment. Entering into a relationship with a 30 year old cashier with nothing going for him who's depressed and calls himself unintelligent is not a good investment of my youth, time and energy. Women sense that and don't want to date …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 06:43 PM
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It's refreshing to see someone like I who doesn't beat around the bush with basic truths. Just watch as you'll be called a selfish and shallow bitch here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 06:40 PM
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Seconding on Marcus Aurelius. What a genius he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 06:39 PM
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No, it's just the women didn't have as much choice. Nor did men. You simply picked the best on your street or in your school or village. These women would have gladly avoided unnecessary struggle if they could. OP is also not a teen. He's past the growing up stage. Entering a relationship with him is just committing to a life of poverty with a self admittedly depressed and unintelligent man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 06:39 PM
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Can you share with me where you live? I will do some research on your behalf.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:04 PM
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Your failure is dropping out of college. You accepted it and resigned yourself. You can get a cheap education or trade in any country in the west. Did you actually research or talk to career advisors?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 12:20 PM
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Then declare bankruptcy. You could get rid of those debts and start fresh. And I don't know one country where you need a college degree for trade school. Trades are missing people worldwide. Did you check or are you just assuming? Welders don't need a college degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 12:16 PM
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Because your failure would affect them. They would join you in poverty. No one's arguing it's fair. Life is extremely unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 12:12 PM
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Given that the vast majority of relationships end due to financial reasons and college educated stable people are the least likely to divorce, the odds of success with OP are lower than with a man earning good money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 12:10 PM
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My point is shallow is a negative word. There's nothing negative or embarrassing about following base survival and procreation instincts. We're all shallow and should own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:40 AM
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I guess to each their own. Women have different tastes. My friend is a hot tall blonde in finance and she only likes blue collar guys. I personally wouldn't mind as long as he was successful at what he does (I.e. consultant or own business)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:36 AM
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It's annoying. Dating is a selfish activity designed to further one's survival. There's nothing embarrassing or shallow wanting someone attractive and young or making good money and being mentally stable. Intellectual dishonesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:34 AM
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Failure can be sexy if you made something with it. I dated a guy born wealthy and broke up because he's never known hardship and I don't want his mommy. His family's wealth is not enough to support us if things went south. I married a man born poorer and harder life but one who I feel safe with. I wouldn't feel safe with you. You dropped out of high school and holding a cashier job. I'd rather be alone than enter a relationship with someone who can't deal with failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:30 AM
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This. 99.9% of women would rather stay single than dating someone who would make life likely harder. At the end of the day, bringing love and affection is bare minimum. And given women almost always have worse sex, are expected to do most chores and are generally more selective.... you need to bring something else to the table than a warm body.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:28 AM
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Yes that is not a secret ...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:25 AM
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Exactly. A man born with a silver spoon is more unattractive than one who got handed a bad hand and dealt with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:25 AM
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There's a difference between a blue collar man owning a plumbing business and a cashier.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:23 AM
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OP isn't a college student. A female cashier in college wouldn't date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:21 AM
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This. Women flee OP because it sounds like, I'm sorry, he has no future. If OP had a tough upbringing and ended up succeeding or is currently on the path to success, it would be different. Few women want to date a lifelong cashier.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 01:20 AM
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One of the best books I've ever read.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:10 PM
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Those are hobbies not careers. If you don't make money from it it's not a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:06 PM
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In those countries, cost of living is still off the charts like here in Canada so you still need money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:03 PM
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I agree your desire for such a woman is reasonable. Whether you can find one is another story, especially a virgin. Most people don't settle until a bit later and won't stay virgin until 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 12:33 PM
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FDS women are harpies. They're the female TRP. Of course they have problems finding a great guy. The men flee when they first meet them. As a general rule, I hear far fewer if any women complaining they can't find a good man to settle with past the age of 25. Yes its anecdotal but aligns with how many more men are single and miserable online vs women. Men pay for women? You asked if we'd be ok dating someone making minimum wage or retail. That's a far cry from paying for me. I would not even con…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:49 AM
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I agree with this TRP point as well. I have never met a woman open to dating down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:39 PM
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Here's the fact. It's not hard to find a guy who earns good money and also a good person wanting to settle. Not hard at all. Life is hard enough already with the high cost of living and I don't need a dependent. It would actively turn me off. Most women do the lions share of chores as well. Would this guy do more at home? The answer is no. I have never met a man like this. So at least earn more money. As for pursuing your hobby... sweetie, we all have hobbies we'd like to do full time. Unless yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:38 PM
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That would be fine for me. It means he's providing through wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:33 PM
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This. It all boils down to life is fucking expensive and only going to get worse. The 30k would mean I need to subsidize his lifestyle. Why, when I can find a nice guy willing to commit (they're not rare) who can earn his keep?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:27 PM
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Why are those women's ambitions not the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:24 PM
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Interesting mental gymnastics...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:01 PM
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Hmm yes I can see that being true
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:26 PM
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My husband hates PDA. If you saw us at Walmart, we look like a boring couple who are going through the motions. Behind the scene, he gets me flowers regularly and we cuddle like teens in love. Sex all the time. It's actually quite sad how you want it to be true that everyone is miserable when people tell you here they're not. Those folks at Walmart are not going to be making out in aisle 12. They're there to buy some milk and bread for the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:23 PM
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Lol what. If women stop having sex with their husbands to this point, you need to wonder how bad the sex is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:13 PM
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Trust me, I rolled my eyes when I saw some rando messaging me on fb about a video game... but he just took a shot, didn't think much of it except to flirt a little with someone online. You just never know which encounter will generate a result. Best solution is to go out there... irl and online and get to know people with little expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 09:29 PM
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Now husband cold messaged me on Facebook after I liked his comment under a Paradox game public comment. He thought i was cute. We hit it off hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 08:44 PM
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This has been disproven a billion times on this board. Young women aren't dating old guys except in the fantasies of trp. I can link the studies but most people get emotional when their beliefs are thrown out of the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:27 PM
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My now husband randomly approached me on Facebook. It's not for you but plenty of people don't mind and welcome cold approaches online.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:04 PM
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I'm truly sorry for your loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 12:01 AM
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No shame there. Same story with my husband. He tells me it was addictive to be so admired and the sex was crazy. Then he got older and realized it's toxic and we met and are now married and make boring plans like bulk meat purchasing from farms and joint tax filing lol. You might be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:45 PM
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It's quite possible. I'm told that bpd women can be very magnetic. They love bomb you and you get addicted to the high.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:17 PM
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Damn... how old was she ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:15 PM
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The problem is the sweetheart when we were 19 didn't want to get married and wanted to enjoy his youth, hence us going back to the dating scene until we meet the one who wants to settle. It's rich that TRP universally claims that men want to settle in adolescence when 1) the experience of most women here definitely disproves it and 2) aren't AWALT? So now suddenly there are amazing women you missed out on. Maybe YOU opted to sleep around and party instead of marrying your sweetheart and she move…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:11 PM
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You come off as a really good and wise person. Thank you for providing your insight. Let me ask you something. Why are women not complaining about the situation, or at least not as much?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 04:27 AM
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Ok fair enough, sorry for jumping at you. So to answer you, the guy you described, I am willing to bet $200 has other problems that make him unappealing. I know because I would go on dates with men like this n the past and they were totally oblivious to how socially awkward they were. One just blurted out incel views on the first date. The other was 3x fatter than on pictures. Another was so weird and smelled strange and demanded I kissed him when I was saying goodbye. I'm sure they would all sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:53 AM
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I appreciate the even heeled comment unlike most here. I agree relationships create better society but... what's in it for me? We don't live in the west at least in a collectivist society. It's every man for himself. So me settling for a guy I don't want would be essentially a good gesture to keep society in place. It's the same as when I'm told to have children for society. Is society gonna raise them, pay for them? No, so shut the fuck up. I don't owe society anything so if I don't want to sle…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:46 AM
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Your feeble attempt at hurting my feelings are cute. I'm not the one complaining here, you guys are. I would definitely rather be single and not have to clean and cook for an ugly loser while he's playing video games, lay down for awful 2 minute long sex waiting for him to just finish so we could be over with and then go to work the next morning to hear that we are equal and should earn the same amount of money. It sounds tempting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:33 AM
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Narrator: "He in fact, did not have any hard-core evidence."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:24 AM
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I second this. As entertaining it is to try to argue with them, they come from women hating echo chambers with entrenched radical views. I gave actual stats this morning to this one guy disproving his point and he started insulting me and saying that Stat sucked and his experience was different... it was like watching a breakdown happen online. I realized at that point many men here are really far gone. They refuse to acknowledge reality and I hope they won't hurt anyone. And that's exactly what…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:48 AM
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What do you even know of the west? Have you been here or just read eastern European propaganda?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:42 AM
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20 year old men wanting to get married are rare. Maybe in rural South Dakota they're not but I have literally never met one. My bf at 20 to whom I lost my virginity got scared of marriage and we ended breaking up. He's still scared and parties every night at 31 while I'm married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:40 AM
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Because our lives are boring and it's fun to watch monkeys fling shit at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:37 AM
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They know us better than we know ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:34 AM
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Yeah that thread title is definitely not written by someone bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:33 AM
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Yeah honestly I'd rather be single than be in a relationship with an unattractive loser. It's not even a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:33 AM
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I'm married to a guy who fits all of this and I have dated multiple guys like this. There are a lot of good looking engineers and mathematicians out there. And lucky for me, a lot of women don't have the same type.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 11:48 PM
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Most recent ex had crippling depression and there was something off about him. He tried so hard to make me happy but I could tell he was unhappy himself and he denied it. I left him for another and he threatened suicide. My ex of 7 years, college sweetheart: wealthy family raised him to be super lazy, have no value of money and still a child right now at 31. I thought I was set for life when I dated someone from a rich family but realized someone poorer is better as a partner for life. He had a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:08 PM
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I and many other people showed actual studies on this. The 70% you pulled out of your ass is worth as much as anything else that comes out of it. Less than 3% of couples have a more than 14 year old gap. So your personal life anecdotes are worthless. State actual studies and stop talking down to people. Literally just Google it and it's the top search in wiki.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:30 PM
2

And are you dating a 25 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:07 PM
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My husband has suggested I enroll in therapy and I'm considering it. Ultimately I admit my position is the result of bad experiences that need to be resolved. That being said, the problem is the risk is too great to be taken for the reward. They hang out alone and get drunk and end up hooking up. Maybe they felt still physical attraction to each other. Our marriage is over. Their friendship is probably over.... all for what? They can hang out but other people should be present. It's not a huge s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:46 PM
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Looks: dark hair and between 5'7 and 6'2. Lean musculature. Works out but not obsessively. I like men with glasses. I like the "Jewish look". I find it's sexy as fuck lol. Yes I have dated many Jewish guys. Traits: cunning but caring and loving. Honest and very confident. Knows who he is and doesn't pretend or kowtow to please me. Extremely intelligent, especially in math fields. That makes my panties wet. Tell me about the algorithm you've been solving at work and I'll be on my knees 😬 Politics…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:32 PM
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I wouldn't mind the body of Jake Peralta either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:28 PM
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I don't know how gay people work. It's a good question though. Maybe they do have feelings or are attracted? My point is there is always a party who is thinking about taking it to the next level. It's never innocent. You always have to watch your back. The wondering you're talking about creates conflict of interest in the relationship. I would tell my ex male friend about a guy I was into and he would poison my mind about him. He wanted me single for himself even though I told him multiple times…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:24 PM
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MGTOW did yes. As for TRP, what exactly was their initial noble goal that got corrupted?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:12 PM
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I do. I think there's always one person who's harboring feelings. For instance, my husband has a female friend. One he's known since they were 8. They have hooked up at some point but now they're friends. I would never be ok (and he is ok with this) that they hang out alone. I have severe distrust of male female friendships as a result of my experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:11 PM
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Agreed. Any men and women friendship either has a past or future.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:54 PM
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I totally agree with you. They cannot be friends. The person who responded to you, I'm willing to bet $100 one of her friends has a thing for her. Maybe I'm old school but I would never allow my husband to hang out with only 1 or several women alone. Likewise I'd never hang out with men alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:53 PM
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If you stayed friends after she rejected you, you're hoping she changes her mind eventually, be honest. My best advice is stop being friends if she rejects you once. She won't change her mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:48 PM
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Agreed. You usually feel chemistry day 1 of meeting them. It doesn't just appear by knowing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:45 PM
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I had one friendship like that for 10 years. Then one day he ghosted me. Never again will I be friends with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:44 PM
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I mean it's obvious. She's not into you. She won't be into you. If it hurts to stay friends, cut it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:43 PM
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Men and women cannot be friends, I'd say almost always. There's always one of the two that has feelings for the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:42 PM
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This "strategy" is why I will never ever be friends with a man again (unless he's the friend of my husband or husband of a female friend). I have gotten hurt twice to the point of needing therapy when a best friend waited on the sidelines for years for me to run into his arms Read my lips. If I told you I'm not interested, I'm not confused or stupid. Do not enter into a friendship that will either hurt you or one where you have ulterior motives. It's cruel for you and her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:39 PM
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Lol. Islam and Christianity have a fraction of a percent of radicals. TRP universally think less of women. It's in their whole beliefs. A better analogy would be indeed ISIS. I'm sure there might have been one nice ISIS person who fell with the wrong crowd... but the core beliefs were hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:32 PM
2

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:29 PM
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Percentage of currently married couples https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships The US census article is down on this but 5-15 age gap in relationships amount to 8.5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:41 AM
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Agreed with this. TRP identifies problems with society. It needs to be acknowledged.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:38 AM
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The difference is most TRP hold misogynist views. You won't become TRP to begin with unless you think less of women. They go together. Feminism has got corrupted too to be fair and I would never call myself that lest people think I'm radical.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:33 AM
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Less than 7% of couples have 10 years + age gap difference. It's something like 3% for 14 years and up. It's very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:27 AM
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We're not saying they don't exist. They're just extremely rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:16 AM
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I mean... good for you if you're happy. It's not the norm. You're in the 3% of people with such a gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:09 AM
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Man you got destroyed with facts. It was nice to see lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:04 AM
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Haha same... I married an amazing man 3 years younger. I'm glad I didn't listen to that incel trying to gaslight me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:01 AM
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Statistics refute everything you say. I can pull it out if you're interested but the vast majority of people date within 3 years and over 10 years is extremely rare. It happens but it's super rare. It's not as common as people here think. Go outside and count how many couples you see like this. There's a reason. Dating 21 year old is not interesting for a 40 year old and 21 year old would only date an older man for money and even that's rare. 26-29 year Olds are not dating 40 year Olds. You're m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:00 AM
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Believe what you want but women here are telling you dating is as fun and easy at 30 than 20. You can either believe we're all lying or not, if that makes you feel better about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:50 AM
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Ha ha that is me. Met and married in 13 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:46 AM
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Totally untrue. It's easier in your 30s because men in their 30s are ready to settle down unlike in their 20s when they were just having fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:46 AM
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Why would a pretty 32 year old date a guy her dad's age if not for money? She could get a 35 year old guy who's handsome and stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:33 PM
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Same here... having sex with an old guy made me feel grossed out. Yeah we had great dinner and he bought me gifts but that gets old fast. He was 51 and I was 28. And yes, Grey chest hair. Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:30 PM
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I always enjoy your comments here. Nice to see facts and data not emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:00 PM
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You really shouldn't enter relationships at all if you're so worried of being swindled. In most places, just living together counts as marriage so you will get "breakup raped" anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:52 PM
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Healthy marriages are a thing too. People become complacent in relationships too. It's not just because there's a paper that people stop trying all of a sudden. That's really dumb and an oversimplification
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:50 PM
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Married couples save on taxes filing jointly. I don't know where you live but this is common in the usa.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:49 PM
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We hooked up years later and the sex was just bad. So he might have been still inexperienced at 28 to your point; he hadn't had many partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:47 AM
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Zero. He was my first.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:38 AM
1

So you have no problem with paying for all dates? Because men and women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:58 AM
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Uh. No. Maybe speak for yourself. My ex and i had amazing friendly chemistry but the sex was dreadful.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:51 AM
1

Lol. I guess that is a valid viewpoint... until the age of 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:46 PM
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There is super low reward. Most men aren't interested in pleasing women, just getting off. And it's common knowledge that men that are interested enough into you to commit won't pressure you in bed for fear of pushing you away. Only women I understand having casual sex are those that can get orgasms easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:43 PM
1

You forgot down voting women's opinions even though it's against sub rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:41 PM
2

Yes studies are all false. Only incels.is knows the real numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:39 PM
1

Haha same. I just wanted to tear his pants off when I met him. 2 years together soon 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:17 PM
2

Women are all different. Some really care about looks, I don't as long as he isn't fat. I think a lot of men worried about their looks look totally average but are social outcasts, weird and introverted gamers. That's what turns Women off, not their looks. Lack of confidence is a total killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:48 PM
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I'm telling you I've never had problems finding that. So what percentage of those men are out there is irrelevant. I wouldn't date a broke loser because my quality of life would decline. For the record I'm married so it's not like I'm in the market anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:44 PM
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And it's not even that hard to find a guy earning over 75k past the age of 26 in most towns. You got to date a bit but there are tons of single good looking guys earning above average salaries, fit and well spoken... so why settle? And exactly like you said, if I want to barely survive, I'd rather stay single and get a sex toy. At least I wouldn't have to do his laundry and cook for him while he plays video games because he's too depressed to clean after himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 05:46 PM
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Let me Add to that this is exactly why women are picky. Life is fucking expensive. I want a house. I'm not settling on some dude working making 15 bucks an hour... how? So we live in a rat infested apartment and eat at a soup kitchen? Raise kids living in a van? Couple that with bad sex and doing all chores... no thanks. Women would rather stay single. Capitalism made us so picky. Take it up with the capitalist class why we're refusing to settle for average dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 05:05 PM
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Millionaires settling for ugly women? Don't believe it. Where are your friends located?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 05:03 PM
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Lol exactly No one in real life in a normal relationship is saying this. Of course, if you're a lonely incel spending your time online you think all men are like you and every woman has had 100 partners by 16 or some other incel nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 05:02 PM
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That and the courtesan will need to be also a psychologist to treat 3 men a day every day. That's an inane demand of sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:59 PM
1

Love and family is a need. It's not an artificial cultural norm. People are unhappy alone and unwanted. There is no solution except ai girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:58 PM
4

Romans weren't Christian during their peak times nor during their conquest. Totally unrelated to Christianity but politics. They allowed their conquered to practice their religion as long as they paid taxes and followed Roman laws. That's what was revolutionary about their approach
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:51 PM
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How is that not a societal decline? Anyone who isn't rich is a serf.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:48 PM
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Haha. Nailed it. They don't like when capitalism doesn't work in their favor!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:47 PM
2

Hey you live and you learn. I dated a guy with multiple personality disorder thinking my love could fix him until he stabbed a homeless person and got arrested by the LAPD while on a business trip because he started a fight in a bar while dissociating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:44 AM
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As a woman I agree that advice is worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:30 AM
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Yes. Deeply in love now with my husband. We met not that long ago (2 years almost) and just knew we were meant to be. I truly wish everyone here experiences this one day. Life is worth living just for that feeling. All other members of the opposite sex become as interesting as cardboard. The hottest richest Chad could offer me his life and I wouldn't care less. As for this sub, I had a friend who's been simping after me for 10 years. He ended up ghosting me overnight when I met my now husband. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:54 AM
2

To be fair, that's on you. Why did you marry a bum like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:35 AM
2

Major tax savings. Tons of other fiscal and non benefits. I don't get why people don't get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:34 AM
2

So why aren't you back then? You are a citizen. Go back. You remind me of my dad remembering how great Ukraine was. But when I ask him why he's not back "uh salaries are low... I'll retire there".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:31 PM
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I mean she can say no. Nobody is forcing her. Trust me though, as someone born in Ukraine, life is much better in the west and many women would consider it a blessing not predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:46 AM
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Your life is truly tragic. Take loans like everyone else and get on with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 03:31 AM
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You should talk to more people from Asia. Your image of waifus ready to serve you, subservient and innocent is product of western myth. Real economic growth? Yeah that's why they all dream of immigrating to the USA. You won't have a problem finding a woman wanting a green card through marriage tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 03:30 AM
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Yeah that shocked me... he only saw one of my investment accounts where i had 40k in and he said "you have 40k???" As if he had found out I was a billionaire. So if 40k impressed him, he likely was heavy in debt. He also liked the good life... good wine, expensive furnishings, whereas I'm a cheapskate following FIRE philosophy. Now you're making me think he wasn't such a catch after lol 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:56 PM
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Your post makes no sense. Why is being online pulling up the mean? On the contrary, attractive people are not online as they're probably in relationships. And by the same logic, are all women online pulling up the mean too?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:41 PM
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Yeah he had a lot of loans from studying in Miami. And you're not wrong, he was shocked that I had a triple digit net worth and he didn't, and he was 7 years older. Still, he made way more than me and was very traveled and successful, hence my post. I don't confuse anything. I'm attracted to math types. I am married to a R&D Engineer, so manual guys are not my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:38 PM
1

Yep. And it pays off for me. Hence it's a good strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:36 PM
1

We're not a monolith..women can disagree with me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:35 PM
1

How can you even prove its not your social skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:34 PM
1

He is below average compared to other guys online if adjusting for amount of women, but yes I concede that. The statistical aspect doesn't really work because there are more men than women online.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:29 PM
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Dude, I said I'm married and we broke up with him because he wanted kids asap. But whatever keep believing I was just used if it makes you feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:27 PM
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You're right. I would lump them together. I'm sure you'll agree a below average guy on a yacht will snatch women. Looks can be forgiven for success.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:26 PM
1

How many women on this board are complaining about being used for sex? This is some myth by TRP. most men want to settle past 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:25 PM
1

What would that achieve ? Not following the point of the experiment. Of course it's harder for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:23 PM
1

Maybe learn how to spell perennial before looking down at others.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:22 PM
1

I totally agree. But what else do we have to pick partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:20 PM
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Average men on the dating market place i would consider. Not average on bell curve of all men. I'm not interested to even consider guys who are mentally insane or obese. This is a bellcurve of what I would argue women as a general rule consider dateable. So yes, there is a large chunk of men that can't find anyone. Women would rather stay single than date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:20 PM
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He was 36. He was talking with me about when I wanted kids. Unfortunately I don't want children so we parted ways due to that. Of course there were other things but I don't think so. Either way, I'm happily married now so I'm just reflecting on my dating life. I won't lie. It was fun as heck meeting all these new people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:18 PM
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I would bet money with you it's not that. Most men who think it's looks are just socially awkward and can't communicate with women, lack confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:15 PM
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28 year old aren't entry level. They have been in the work force for at least 5 years. If in 5 years you're entry level making 40k, I'm not interested, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:14 PM
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Prime dating material right here. I can tell you why women don't like you and it's got nothing to do with looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:11 PM
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I never say that we didn't. I said multiple times that men pursuing me were out of my league so to speak. They were amazing. Yeah we have less to offer but it doesnt matter. Top guys want to date and settle with us anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:06 PM
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I dated the lawyer for 3 months. He was legit. Went on one date with the ass creed guy but we didn't mesh. They're legit. I also dated a chef who was literally on TV and sous chef at the #1 reataurant in Canada and were still good friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:05 PM
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Wrinkly 30 year old? Are you 15? I had bazillion options dating when I was a wrinkly 28 year old. Young legal women don't want to date old men. Only in the fantasies of red pillers here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:51 PM
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I'm nothing special. Whenever I woudl rate myself, incels would claim I'm probably an ugly fat femcel here so why bother. I'm certainly a decently attractive woman with an education and a good job but I'm no superstar. Hence why I was surprised how easy it was to find a superstar out of my league. And yes, they all wanted to settle. I dated the lawyer for 3 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:48 PM
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I think being interesting people. Most guys I would talk to lived online and liked pizza. Women have that problem too. People are just basic. But I can only speak for myself
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:47 PM
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So why do you think that is? I think women find a good mate very quickly and leave apps immediately. Or get creeped out by sexual comments and also leave. Women just stay on apps less. I cannot otherwise explain why there is 7 men for 1 women on apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:45 PM
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So? Of course I'm privileged. I'm decent looking, have a good job and am well traveled and in shape. Doesn't discount the fact that the men I would find wanting to settle down with me were better than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:41 PM
1

That's... disturbing. 55%??? Guess England is going Japan way
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:38 PM
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This is just about looks though. As a whole, a woman would be ok with a less good looking guy if he offered success, height and being interesting person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:36 PM
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It is an issue. We have terrorist attacks by incels. There is a lot of anger online against women. For me below average is ... median wage, overweight or not great shape, boring, lives mostly online, little to no ambition, no plan for future.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:35 PM
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Lol. I never thought of it that way. He coded what he loved. Interesting. I guess it's all anecdotal and maybe other women are more difficult than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:33 PM
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I dated the lawyer for 3 months. I would argue most men are open to settling down. Pumping and dumping gets old fast. They just need to find someone they see a future with
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:32 PM
1

What are your shortcomings then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:31 PM
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Yep dated the lawyer for 3 months. Broke up over differences. Even met his parents. I agree with your last paragraph. Women would rather be single than date an average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:30 PM
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Interesting perspective. My theory is that women join apps just as much just stay a much shorter time either because they found someone or because they got scared off by a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:30 PM
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Did you consider why there are so few women on apps? I posit they join apps, find someone within a few months and leave. Their stay on apps is much shorter. Otherwise, are women just not dating and staying home?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:28 PM
2

Again, my argument is quality is very good on apps for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:23 PM
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Lol good luck with that. The kind of guys going mgtow weren't prime dating material to begin with so it'll only give apps more breathing space.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:22 PM
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How is that relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:21 PM
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It's a fact. We can find a great person to settle with easily. That's my whole point. It's not about pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:20 PM
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I love how your disproving the commenter means men will marry just anyone... the exact opposite of what he said, that men just want to pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:19 PM
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Stop being angry, dude. Like I said, it's very easy to find a man to settle down with online. I know you don't want to accept it but that's what others are saying too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:18 PM
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Yes, absolutely. Women are attracted to providers. It's in our nature. Conversely women care less about looks than men do. Median wage is like 40k. I assure you, most women won't find that appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:02 PM
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Do you really think the situation is as bad for women in dating as men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:01 PM
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The majority of women have success online dating due to gender ratios. Case in point, YouTube and reddit is full of advice how to hit on women not to help women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:00 PM
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No but my point is there is enough above average men for women whom are looking that it's not an issue. Or these women stay single and they're happier this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:55 PM
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Why? Women aren't complaining. So clearly either there are more men in a higher level looking for a wife or they'd rather be single. Either way, you dont see them complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:52 PM
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Average boring guy falls in the no category for me. Like I said, rather stay single than date a guy who doesn't have anything to offer except niceness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:37 PM
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Good woman: not fat, have a decent job (at least median wage), in good shape, have interests that aren't totally basic, plan for future, no kids, no mental illness. Below average male: makes median wage +20% or less, not in great shape, hobbies are mostly online, little plan for future if any, little to no ambition to move up in life. Re your last point, I would then argue women would rather stay single than date men on their level. And there's nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:37 PM
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They're unrelated. My point is women aren't the ones complaining because we actually have choices now. Apps and online just doesn't work for men with little to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 04:38 PM
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Well the median isn't going to help buy a house or raise a family. If you make 50k in Oklahoma that should be fine, but that salary is poverty in California or North east. I certainly am not interested in starting a family planning for a life of poverty. Most women aren't either. We're biologically driven to find a provider. Times have changed. 50k used to be solid in 2012. It's now low. If it's the median it just confirms the poverty rates in America and no woman wants to willingly subject hers…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:38 PM
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50k is pretty much starvation wages when an average house is sold in the usa for half a million
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:22 PM
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Well yeah, they're below average. 50k is pretty low salary in most of the western world. Couple that with extra weight and boring life (video games, eat pizza, sleep) and most women would rather keep looking. I get its sad but there's nothing wrong with that. There are women who would be interested, probably single moms or fat women or older women but let's face it, he wants a cute girl his age. He can fix it by getting in better shape or becomimg more interesting or successful. You're absolutel…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:10 PM
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My grandmother was beautiful and educated but forced to marry my farmer granddad because after the war, her father died and they wanted her out of the house. She hated him all her life. She hated my dad too because he was the child of the man she despised, an uneducated farmer. She would have found a man more like her within a week and lived a happy life. My grandfather would have found a nice farmer girl like him. My mom married my dad because her father was alcoholic and she wanted desperately…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:45 PM
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That sounds truly horrible. Tons of options to pick from or the drunk wife beater down the street! Let's face it, the past was better for men, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:38 PM
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But is that bad? OP is implying its bad. My grandmother was forced into marriage to my grandfather. She hated him all her life. My mom married my dad because her father was a drunk and she needed to leave the house. Broken lives just because some men feel rejected online? No, we are lucky to have online dating. And previous generations had it much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:37 PM
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Of course. I am in favor of all extreme Muslim religious websites to be tracked by gov and all mosques to be under the purview of the authorities. Any smell of extremist speech or talk of how bad the west is, and they get shut down. We do this here in Quebec and we shut down a few mosques. People who complain about religious freedom can move elsewhere. The priority is to protect the population not let murderers have a platform. Don't try to say "there are good incels like there are good Muslims"…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 08:17 PM
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Incels literally commit terror attacks and kill people. As Bush Jr said, we don't negotiate with terrorists. Until fat jobless moms start shooting up men, no, they won't get cancelled.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:04 PM
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Mayor of London is trying to lower discrimination. Article likely restates end goal to make it click bait so people like you click and get outraged. The remaining sources are utter trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 10:51 PM
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These articles aren't mainstream. They're click bait trash for outrage. Find a random 20 people and ask if it's ok not to date fat or single moms. Can guarantee 95% will say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 10:48 PM
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Not even. Journalism has moved from expensive research based science to click bait. An article like "10 reasons you're weak for not dating a fat jobless single mum" is prime click bait. Angry people want to comment and ridicule the writer. The irony is these 'articles' are pumped out to generate clicks and rage, thereby fulfilling their mission.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 10:46 PM
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Props to you for learning from your mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 10:41 PM
0

Agreed. Get over yourself. Life is hard for all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:46 PM
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Trust me, I have zero issues attracting men lol. Is anyone who disagrees with radical feminists an incel now?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 09:33 PM
2

Lol about the ask reddit one. Chappelle was so right. Trans people is the only group you can never make fun of or you're dead
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:02 AM
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Everyone thinks that except crazies on Twitter and Tumblr and those subs. It's extremely basic. They are mentally insane over there so not even worth considering
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:58 AM
2

Love the irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:56 AM
2

I'm banned at r/hinge because a guy who's paraplegic full on wheelchair posted a profile because he's not getting any matches and everyone said he needs better prompts or some BS. I said the truth. Told him he needs to find fellow women in wheelchairs to understand him. Very very very few able bodied women especially online and not having known him would even entertain the idea of dating someone who's paralyzed. Why do people lie to these posters? Just tell them the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:54 AM
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Maybe that's because you never lived in an expensive city. Good luck buying a house with a scrub on your salary only.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:51 AM
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You do this a lot on this board.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:50 AM
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I think it's your experience. My friend is a banker and she only gets blue collar guys too! I don't know why but intellectuals don't match with her. Maybe your friend has more rural style hobbies or you are more cosmopolitan but I don't think it's got anything to do with your degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:49 AM
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Yeah true. Women have yet to accept that. It's biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:47 AM
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I agree. I had a powerful job as a young woman and men would get turned off visibly when they hears how I was a manager at 26. Job was stressful and boss was evil anyway but I think if you want a happy relationship, usually, it's best if a woman earns less and is more junior. Both parties will feel more secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:46 AM
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It's biology. We're looking for a provider and protector and willing to date both older and less attractive to secure that. Men don't care about income but looks and youth. The mere idea of dating a cashier I find more revolting than dating someone fat (but not obese)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:44 AM
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Damn trp has metrics for everything lol. Its a legit science!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:40 AM
3

In my experience, Christian girls find a born again ex drug dealer more compelling than a nice kind fellow Christian. Maybe our experiences are different
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:10 AM
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Yeah it sucks for sure. At the time, I thought he was just ghosting me because he didn't like me. Now I see that he was likely autistic and didn't know how to deal with the situation so he clammed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 02:25 PM
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He was so awkward he stopped talking to me and avoided me (friend irl). I finally cornered him asking why he's ghosting me and he told me was too embarrassed by what happened. He was mumbling and all red. I moved on. He messaged me a month later a random article. I never responded. We never spoke again
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 01:45 PM
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Doubt it. She'll think you're inexperienced at worst. I suspect one guy I dated briefly was a virgin. He never told me but he was so awkward in bed, it was cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 01:02 PM
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There is a huge difference calling someone sweet and telling them you want to taste them. Why are you blatantly ignoring that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 12:47 PM
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You would tell your mom to put her finger in the coffee to make it sweeter? I challenge you to actually do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 12:42 PM
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Because it's denigrating? She's there so serve you a coffee not act as an escort or sex worker. This comment gets close to what you would tell an escort you hired for the evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 12:41 PM
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People are tribal. They want to be surrounded by people like them and who look like them. I'm sure you'd be welcome with open arms to Japan or Korea.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 12:24 PM
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Africa is the only exception. Some countries have a 6 birth rate per woman. Just a matter of time when they become richer and same thing will happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 12:23 PM
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Yeah it's pretty normal to have sex with people you're attracted to as an adult. Sorry you don't have those opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:11 AM
1

He means he's a 30 year old virgin and anyone who isn't like him is a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:10 AM
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I used to be a Christian in college. I know two girls who still are virgin today from that club. Or just recently lost their virginity. Both were more into the "born again Christian" type, the ex bad boy who found Jesus, than the quiet and demure fellow virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:09 AM
0

Do you disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 01:43 AM
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I'd say 26-27. I was a late bloomer and lost mine at 22. I get some people take longer to come out of their shell. But once outside of college, it tells me you have an issue such as major social anxiety or ED. It's not a deal breaker but if I were a 26 year old virgin man, I would never reveal it. No one will find out anyway and it won't help your case most often. Even ultra Christian girls want a guy who knows what he's doing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 12:01 AM
0

What's unfair about that? That's who she finds attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 10:50 PM
2

So I've never had an orgasm from sex which is sad. Can't say if I never had good sex or its me and my mind blocking it. I've had good sex but most was ok medium. As in I had fun but I'm not on 7th Heaven. Best sex I had was with a guy who wanted casual only, was a professional poker player and tall super pale ginger. Did not expect that but I still fondly remember it today lol. So overall is a meh and length wise about 10-20 minutes including foreplay. Penetrative usually 5-10
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:27 PM
6

Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:21 PM
2

It happened to me once. It was a low period in my life. I have two friends who did it as well but both turned into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:55 PM
4

Seconded. Chadpreet in India was a particularly fine specimen. Though Chadrone in Jamaica was so hung, I could barely walk the next day. My husband was worried!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:53 PM
2

Cheat code: don't have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:22 PM
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First of all, the Japanese are some of the most xenophobic people in the world. There's a reason the were Germany's main ally. I've been to Japan as a young white woman and never even got a glance from a man. It's a weird frigid culture. I don't really care what some blogs say. Thats not exactly science. Also getting Japanese citizenship is some of the hardest in the world. Here's the facts. Almost 50% of young Japanese are virgin https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.cnn.com/cnn/2016/09/20/asia/japa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:56 AM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.cnn.com/cnn/2016/09/20/asia/japanese-millennials-virgins/index.html This is actual statistics not YouTube videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:51 AM
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Sharing expenses is going to get you out of poverty much faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:48 AM
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Are you sure of this? I think it was the same as now. Wealthy and healthy people had fun sex and affairs. When you were a farmer exhausted after a day in the fields, you weren't going to have a sexy romp. Best case just a quickie to get her pregnant so the kids can help with the field.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:59 PM
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A prenuptial would serve no purpose in this case. It's only for assets acquired pre marriage. You can't have a woman stay home for 20 years, leave her with nothing and on the street! She 100% deserves alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:54 PM
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You'd be surprised at the difference. It's like 15k for me and my husband just filing jointly and married
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:50 PM
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Was gonna say that. Victoria pushed a fashion of purity and modesty. Just compare Victorian vs Regency era fashion. Night and day. I bet women during regency era England were more sexually liberated also.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:45 PM
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I think you give most men too much credit. Men nowadays feel they have to offer pleasure in order to get a woman. Back then, simply offering her a way off the streets was enough. Of course these men want to go back to that time when women had no other option.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:44 PM
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I listen to mostly non fiction...psychology, economics and business 😅 nothing sexy. I do like the Harry Potter audio books though. What about you? Anything to recommend?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:44 PM
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I'm genuinely sorry. You have been used by these women. I totally understand why many men would never date a single mom. I meant in a relationship with no kids, paying half is not enough. I hope you find happiness😊
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:25 PM
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Only weird anime weebs fantasize about Japanese women. In reality, Japanese women don't pair up at all. Something like 50% of them are virgin by 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:56 PM
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Ehhh... as long as you don't use that example in a two person relationship. Paying half and doing anything else is mathematically less than half.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:55 PM
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I did laser in the bikini area and that made me wince in pain... women whom get waxes are some serious fighters. That sounds unbearable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:52 PM
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These people exist but if you listen to some incels, all women have had 100 partners by 18 which is clearly bs. Sure, there is a small percentage of women who have had that many. Adjusting for age, yes, younger people have had more. According to cdc, women 25-49 have rarely had over 15 partners. https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n_2015-2017.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:45 PM
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I started learning Spanish and it is fascinating how heavily sexual those songs are lol. I was a bit amazed at Romeo Santos (Bachata not reggaeton but still latino) and how sexual and aggressive his songs are. I thought it was romantic prior to understanding...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:33 PM
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It's a peer reviewed study so I tend to believe it. It also aligns with my experience. I know one girl who's a hoe but most people have had 1-12 partners. For men, it varies from 0 to many to 20 for others. https://relationshipsinamerica.com/relationships-and-sex/how-many-people-have-americans-had-sex-with
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:28 PM
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A lot of people get really offended if you say you don't like it. You're supposed to be compassionate and work through it. It's bs. Do you have to be compassionate if he can't walk or has ED? People bully others for not wanting to bring this in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:26 PM
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Oh God yes. Blonde men look... pale and sickly. And I dated a guy with dainty hands and it grossed me out. I broke up partly due to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:23 PM
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Ironically, life is much easier in a couple in this harsh economic climate. Filing together with my husband, we save 12k in taxes. That's not counting that we share rent and other costs. Life is easier in couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:22 PM
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Just so you know those numbers are a myth. I can pull the study out but the vast majority of people have had less than 6-7 partners. Above 10, you're an outlier. Above 30 is basically a unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:14 PM
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Becoming good in bed is a lot of practice and communication. It's not binary.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:05 PM
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No it distracts me. Only thing I like is Spanish dance music like reggaeton but I think it's because it makes me think of sipping margaritas in Mexico and not because the music is good lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:55 PM
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Lol you're not wrong. Men with cats is a light red flag for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:49 PM
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Its great. I inflict pain and suffering and others and don't even notice it 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:31 PM
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Lmao that's definitely a unique one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:27 PM
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That's grammatically adequate when you don't want to specify gender. It doesn't necessarily mean this person is non binary or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:27 PM
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Translation, if you don't follow Trump you're a leftist. What a strange schism in the party. I feel sorry for reasonable intelligent Republicans who want a small govt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:54 PM
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I think your position is reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:47 PM
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Romney is a conservative who was against Trump. And he's not a leftie. He ran on the republican ticket in 2012 if you forgot. Next you'll say McCain was a left winger.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:46 PM
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I'm good with a boring life
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:44 PM
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Lmao after two comments on this, I texted my husband asking if I have a hairy butthole 🤣🤣🤣 he doesn't remember but if I'll follow your advice if it does!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:34 PM
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Fair enough. I agree it's a valid reason. I've had 10 relationships in my 31 years so I have a higher count but it wasn't due to hook up so I wonder whether men are bothered by the number or by her proclivities I.e. sleeping with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:32 PM
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Second comment on this lol. Reaching there to shave is hard and waxing hurts like hell 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:24 PM
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Dude it's hard to shave down there and no way in hell am I waxing my butthole. That hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:23 PM
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Matter of debate. I know I've told that to people before irl and was told I'm shallow and don't understand their struggle etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:20 PM
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Haha you wouldn't like me. I don't like music period. My house is silent and I listen to audio books...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:15 PM
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Japan. Everyone living online. Tons of lifelong virgin men. Women staying single waiting for prince charming all their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:13 PM
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I'll be honest. The longer you wait, the more men will think something is wrong with you. I know two 30 year old virgin girls and men pretty much write them off when they find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:09 PM
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I don't get why women do that. It looks so stupid. Me it makes me think of snot hanging under her nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:04 PM
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I wouldn't call that shallow. Entitlement and bad attitude is pretty common turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:03 PM
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It isn't. That's why women always lie about their n counts. Even the most liberal men would be turnoffed by more than 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:02 PM
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Interesting. Are you short?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:02 PM
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Yeah I agree with her. Depression is awful. The ones you named are just as bad but I think depression is more common and considered more worthy of compassion, which I don't get why. Like the commenter, I'd maybe give it a careful shot if they're treating it but I'm not likely to stick around if they lie around in bed all day in their filth. I get it's an illness but I don't want to be part of it, just like I don't want to date someone in a wheelchair.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:02 PM
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Like to the other poster, either you like crazy unstable bpd women or very young who see everyone as toxic. I personally have never had a toxic ex. Some weren't compatible. That's it. One tried to cheat. That's the worst of it. I suggest you either date older or stop altogether anyone whose exes were all crazy because I guarantee you'll be the next crazy ex after she destroys your sanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:29 PM
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Yeah. Plenty of men (and women) have a thing for crazy and would never admit it. Crazier sex and more excitement I suppose but these women are also utterly delusional. Everyone is a narcissist or manipulative or God knows what. If someone here tells me their exes all had abusive relationships, I can bet that after they break up, he'll be the next abusive story.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:22 PM
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In here, yes. I'm in a happy marriage. I just post here because I like debating this issue. I love men and they've always been great to me. I got zero issue with men except incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:19 PM
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I think you're the common denominator here. I have never had an abusive ex and none of my closest friends either. You probably like mentally unstable women who tend to see everyone as abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:23 AM
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I'd be careful with her. This might be some scam. Dream rich and model hot woman likes old men sounds like one of those scams you get by email. Think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:32 AM
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Yeah exactly. The dream woman of the guys here. She's most likely lying. I don't OP is making this up. Maybe someone looking for papers or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:30 AM
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And betas don't? They're just frustrated they can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:20 AM
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In my experience, Chads are usually much nicer and kinder than ugly incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:58 AM
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Thank God this board has some adjusted men like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:57 AM
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In my experience, attractive men are nicer than unattractive. Makes sense. They don't have a hidden nice guy agenda because they already get women. They're not bitter against women and even if you reject them, they're cool with it because they have options. This whole Disney notion that hot guys are mean and ugly guys are nice is purely fiction and the reality is opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:56 AM
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Yeah because happy people don't post their problems on reddit.. by definition. They're too busy having sex and cuddling while watching a movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:52 AM
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I'm 5'5. I'd say 5'11 to 6'2 is the perfect height.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:40 AM
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Dad bod, makes 50k and expected to make that. Little ambition, hobbies are watching football. Kinda funny and nice. Wouldn't stand out in a crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:16 PM
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Oh God. Did this sub get invaded by incels again?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:11 PM
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Damn just looked up Luther asked for 95 things. Thought it was like 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:13 PM
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I understand that and definitely empathize but the question remains, can women and men ever be true friends? Or is there always a romantic feeling somewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 11:26 AM
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Hypergamy is out there, no question. But it's very moronic and naive to think women are constantly looking to upgrade.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 11:25 AM
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That's for sure ...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 11:19 AM
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So if you can attract top caliber, you should be having sex with them 24/7 instead of using the internet? Well you're probably right. One would be on Instagram posting about it I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 11:14 AM
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Nobody denies height matters. At least to me it does. I'm 5 5 and can't date anyone shorter than I but he doesn't need to be 6 feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 11:09 AM
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🤨 whatever makes you feel better, my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 11:07 AM
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Yeah my hubby was oblivious too. For me it's the gall of hitting on a man right next to his gf or wife... just incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 04:00 AM
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I'm telling you I wouldn't have been. I know how I'd react. Ghosting and cutting off with no explanation after 10 years is unforgivable. There is no way in hell our friendship could mend after that even if he finds a gf and they're happy now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:37 AM
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I dated once a very attractive man who was a pt karate instructor. 6'2, engineer, very sociable and friendly. Women would be all over him the second my back turned. Went to the bathroom at a party once, I come out and his friend has her hands on his chest unbuttoning him laughing. Now, granted he was very disrespectful to allow that and we broke up only having dated 8 months, but I don't really like very attractive men. What's the point? Always gotta guard him from thirsty women. They tend to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:32 AM
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Finally I agree with a red piller on something 🤣 That misspelling made me wince in anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:23 AM
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TRP is not about understanding but classifying like a bug and dehumanizing as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:22 AM
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Yeah I can agree with this. I can confidently say I'd rather be single than in relationship with someone overweight or not in good shape, making 50k, almost definitely bad in bed (I met like 1 guy in my life who's good in bed, had 13 partners over my life). The costs far outweigh the benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:21 AM
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All I'm asking is not to be cut off and blocked overnight with no explanation after 10 years. Had he been open and told me he couldn't be friends, I would have understood and respected it. For all I knew, he was over me. He would brag constantly about his numerous dates and flings (that I see now were poor attempts at impressing me with his success with women whereas I had zero attraction towards him).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:13 AM
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How did it end if you don't mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:09 AM
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We're out there. I derive genuine pleasure from comforting my husband. I think women's roles are to be the more nurturing and calming of the pair and the man the providing and protecting and the fact we've moved away from such basic instincts is a major part of the societal problems we have now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:03 AM
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Nah he declared feelings 5 years in, I said I wanted to be friends and so we stayed. Then he reiterated them every year. And then when I met my now husband, he vanished. I don't care anymore but I always wonder how much did he care and respect me to do that? If he really cared, why would not he just come and tell me he can't be friends because of his feelings? Maybe he was just immature and wanted to hurt me but I still believe women and men can't be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:41 AM
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"All men want sex" is like saying "all women want love". It's neutral. Awalt is always used in a way to explain women are untrustworthy hypergamous witches who will strip you blind. There's none you can trust. Steer clear of them. This is supposed to be logic to you? It's just salty single dudes attempt to make every other man as miserable and try to punish women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 11:38 PM
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Nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 11:33 PM
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Nope, red pill is not misogynic! We're all just discussing the psychology. Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 11:30 PM
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It's 1) denigrating and 2) dehumanizing. Telling me I am the same as everyone else is dehumanizing. No one wants to feel this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 11:27 PM
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Being pretty and feminine IS NOT being like the other women nowadays. Look at how women dress, baggy pants and cropped hair. They swear, they can't cook and they're aggressive. My fellow women would disagree but most men, even the liberal ones, would run from that. Men dream of a woman that is an oasis of peace. Her company being where they can relax, be vulnerable and weak and look forward to time with her. So yes, I think being like this is a huge perk for women because most men desire somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 11:23 PM
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Nailed it. I've never been abused by a man but I've been friended for years, to the point we had been bffs for 10 years before being cut off and ghosted because I did not want to date them. The whole friendship was a sham. It mentally destroyed me for years. I decided against ever being friends with men as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 11:17 PM
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Nailed it. It's insecurity that men have converted into an attempt to fomo young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:54 PM
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The wall is a myth. All women are saying this here and men refuse to listen. Of course, the revenge fantasy needs to materialize! My mother is 55 and you should see the men she gets on dating sites. Doctors, professional hunters, well off and good looking foreigners coming just to meet her. She looks fine for her age. And yes most of those men are divorced and so is she. But in her late 30s she would get even bigger dream boats exiting their relationship. Bottom line is there's always plenty of …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:57 PM
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Let me guess, it is skewed by people who married in the 1960s. I'd like to see a study of milennials who married young and how many still married today. Apart from religious freaks, I doubt it looks good
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:53 PM
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Totally nailed it. This was my experience as well. 20s were for learning who we are and what we want in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:51 PM
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Hard disagree. I dated a guy who's now become fat and very weird, different personality. We were planning to marry and I thought I had it made at 18-24 because his family were millionaires. I understand now at 31 that rich parents can actually be a liability in the quality of a man. Ergo, a woman under 30 doesn't know what's a quality man and quality men themselves usually don't want to settle that young either. I married recently to a true dream man and he was not interested in settling down at…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:50 PM
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What's the name for an Asian Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:42 PM
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OP essentially took advantage of him and his loneliness. It's very wrong to do that. It kinda bugs me how she plays coy "but he offered!". People who are desperate and depressed aren't truly in control of their decision making.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:22 PM
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That's a crazy study. So a 3/10 would need to have 100 billion and be one of the top 10 richest men in the world to be seen as a 10/10 male.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:25 AM
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Let's be fair here. That amount was not given freely. He had expectations. She should've at least insisted on repaying part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:23 AM
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Just want to tell you thank you for doing that. You're a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:22 AM
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I agree with this. Just because someone offers doesn't mean you should take freely. OP is probably a reason this guy has trust issues and hates women now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:21 AM
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I've dated rich men I wasn't into. After trying a few Michelin star restaurants and getting whisked away to Paris for the weekend, the excitement wears off quickly and you start missing physical attraction and that sensation that makes you alive. I think gold diggers willing to date men like that are almost always very poor because for them, that sacrifice is worth it in exchange for safety. For most other women, it is not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:20 AM
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Not to mention there is something seriously wrong with a man's maturity if he wants to date someone who's not fully mentally developed. How can an educated 40 year old man have an interesting time with a 22 year old? It's sex, that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:34 PM
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Did.... did you just say that if an OF prostitute wants to date an old guy, that proves most women want to? Newsflash, almost no self respecting guy wants to date a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:31 PM
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Even with a salary double that it is pretty much impossible to support a family. Where in the usa can you support comfortably 4 people on 70k? Maybe in some rural areas but they definitely won't be comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:29 PM
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Interesting, can you link the 2 to 1 study? Where is it from?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:27 PM
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Also, you need to be a realist that most men in history did not continue their line. 17 women for every man in history reproduced. Granted, many men died from disease or war, but that number is still staggering. It tells us that "inceldom" is nothing new. Women seek the best partners and that is the unfortunate reality of our species and evolutionary behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 09:08 PM
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You're the most eloquent person on this thread and said what I want to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:18 PM
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Uh who disagrees with that. Obviously you can be content, happy ecstatic or over the moon enjoying every moment. As everyone has said, relationships do make you happier. Good ones, yes. No one is arguing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:09 PM
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Haha I'm a woman 😉 well either way, glad things are working out for you, whatever choices you make.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:08 AM
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So if women like this are common, why didn't you snag one and marry her? Are you not interested in a relationship, if so why? Genuinely curious. I travel plenty and I'd say women like this are probably only common in Eastern Europe but she's after your wallet primarily. You are the first person on this board to claim women like this are common in the usa. In this thread alone, multiple men are just asking for not fat and crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:29 AM
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Where do you live? You want a flawless personality, great looks and financially savvy and successful / intelligent. That is a combo that's rare and men complain here all the time they can't find this unicorn. You definitely cannot live in the usa, UK or Canada because I have never met a woman in my life that fit 70% of those criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:04 AM
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I'm glad you can imagine what it is like to have waist long hair. It is actually painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 12:02 AM
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I really like point 2. A woman needs to be the safe space for a man to cry and be weaker. Totally agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:17 PM
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Are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:14 PM
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You are reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:12 PM
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You have any idea how heavy long hair is?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:12 PM
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You better be the hottest man alive with a high 6 digit job and amazing hobbies to find someone like that. This is is the equivalent of a woman wanting a 6 2 chad with a 500k job who's caring, eternally loyal, great cook, great in bed and mentally stable...etc. Also, liberal and demure/sexually reserved is a weird combo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:10 PM
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Your theory is very interesting. Like you said, we will never know but it's almost certain the vast majority of women derived zero pleasure from sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 12:00 PM
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Nice strawman. A murder means you directly caused the death of a person. You can't define abuse though. For me, your response would be a red flag. If i got that answer I would assume my date would call me abusive for not tolerating their toxicity, which likely is what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 03:27 AM
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Define abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 03:22 AM
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Honestly, these days, someone looking at you wrong is mental abuse. I would ask what abuse? Did he rape you? Did he torture you or did he get upset you were depressed for a year straight while he worked full time?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 03:21 AM
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Yeah I assure you no woman has been taught that. Maybe some women with crazy mothers. The lie we were told is about Prince Charming, Mr Darcy all that jazz. Handsome, wealthy, kind man who will meet us and understand love, devote himself to us and only us, never leave or hurt, provide and nurture. That's on Disney though and Jane Austen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 03:18 AM
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Do you actually want to have a debate on this with people or you're just looking for fellow RP to agree with, what every woman has said, is an untrue belief?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 03:16 AM
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Yeah that's accurate. The prince charming trope that falls at first sight with our quirks and also is very well off and handsome is the ultimate lie. That's on Disney though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 03:14 AM
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That is okay though right? We're nurturing and supposed to admire single dads and be the mothers in the lives of their kids. Single moms are used goods though. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 03:13 AM
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Yeah this is totally made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 03:09 AM
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? I'm saying after the end of the Renaissance, the enlightenment era began and the Church started losing its grip on society. Christianity appeared in Europe in 60AD, about thirty years after Jesus died. Saint Paul brought Christianity to the Roman empire. I don't know what shift you're talking about but Christianity was the dominant force of all society throughout the middle ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:50 AM
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No, but women were no longer portrayed as sex fiends once religion became secondary. And the part about women being portrayed as more angelic could be simply cultural. With the onset of regency and Victorian era, women were expected to be more demure and modest. Victoria was very modest and wore very concealing clothing and all women imitated her. As for criticizing women, it's like criticizing white people or the entire continent of Asia, it's just stupid. It's 50% of the population. People are…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:46 AM
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Divorce rate is overwhelmingly skewed by people marrying young and second and third marriages. Because why would you need advice if you don't have a conflict? People complain about everything. Jobs, life, cost of living, name it. They just don't appreciate what they have. Sure, some people are in abusive or toxic relationships but there's no evidence that's a norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:37 AM
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Lol I laughed at that last part
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:22 AM
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Yeah everyone is miserable. Everyone hates their partner and just pretends for social media. Did it occur to you that maybe they just are truly happy and want to share with the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:21 AM
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Nice job cutting out the part where he followed her after.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:18 AM
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Nah he doesn't get called creepy but bold, sorry. If she thinks you're creepy or says she doesn't want to be approached in public, you're just really unattractive. Harsh but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:17 AM
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It's like saying tomatoes are fruits according to botany. Sure, I guess. They're still vegetables to everyone else on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:12 AM
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Do you have a source? American government doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:11 AM
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Uh... the explanation is extremely obvious. It's Christianity. Women were Eves tempting men to sin. Women were described as Jezebels by the church driven by sin and men should be wary or they will go to hell. 18th century was when enlightenment began and society progressively abandoned religion. Are you really claiming women are hornier than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:10 AM
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Please find me one comment that says that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:39 PM
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Cuckholding is a fetish and you're free to enjoy that. I would never respect a man who would not mind or even enjoy another man looking at me naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:59 PM
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Look at the study posted by someone from Harvard on top of this thread. This is documented.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:45 PM
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I want the thotpoccolypse too but not for the same reason. I think this epidemic of whoring devalues women in general and I'm ashamed to be of the same sex. I'm very happy the gravy train is over and they're forced back into reality. Unfortunately for them, their pictures will be online for the rest of their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:33 PM
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I'm more inclined to believe bloomberg over what some dude on reddit says.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:07 PM
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Why would it impact the dating market? It's not like men are rushing to date prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:05 PM
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I really doubt 50 year Olds are making bank selling nudes on OF. Prostitutes sure, but we're talking OF here. Almost all clients are under 25 year old lonely virgins looking for a connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:04 PM
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Yeah let's not kid ourselves you care about trafficked women. Studies clearly show that trafficking women increases when it's legal. If you can't find supply, you have to get it by force. It's not like weed that you can just grow more of.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:01 PM
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Well let's just see what happens. I can guarantee you no viable replacement would be up and running on a similar scale to OF by end of year.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 01:20 PM
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The community and the word of mouth is not built overnight. You can build a website in a day, but getting the creators and the users to migrate en masse is not done quick for many reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 01:13 PM
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Lol yes distigmatize the most reviled job in the history of humankind. Maybe you want men to marry them too and treat it like a normal job?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 12:12 PM
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I am a conservative woman and I have nothing but utmost disdain for anyone in that industry. The fact that they're trying to make it an acceptable job is quite funny. I agree that 90% of these women will be forced to either become literal prostitutes or find a normal job. The ones who have a large following might just do their own thing or open their own website.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 12:04 PM
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Which platforms are those? It would take years to rebuild something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 12:02 PM
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Well they'll need to adapt one day, it's not a career for more than a few years. Will be funny to watch millions of women with only skill of showing butthole on camera complain on Slate how the world is twisted and they're homeless, not gonna lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 12:01 PM
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It all becomes worth it once you meet a person that makes everything brighter around you. That jadedness a lot of people here exhibit is as a result of the hookup casual culture. Once you meet someone who makes you forget other sexy people exist, you'll understand why most great poetry, films, art and novels are focused on love. It is what makes life worth living. Striving for it makes the rest of our meager existence worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 07:41 PM
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Brazil is second but yes 82% of rheir adults have sex once a week. However, there is nothing about them having tons of casual sex. They may just be in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 12:34 PM
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😂 I was born in Nijniy Novgorod... moved when I was 8 to Canada. But yes I got nothing better to do than make that up on the internet. Yes by house I meant apartment, real estate, whatever. So you're going to tell me Russian women don't care about money?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 12:28 PM
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This is the equivalent of thinking Asian women are all innocent waifus with very tight vaginas and big innocent anime eyes making great Japanese food and both of you screaming 'Itadakimasu!" Before slurping down a bowl of Ramen. It's fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:26 AM
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I totally agree as a woman. It's a very good way of picking a good partner. I do the same for men. A man who worked his ass off to get where he is instead of daddy hooking him up is poised to be a much better partner and man when hardships arise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:22 AM
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Thank you. Same thing with Russians. I don't know where these stereotypes come from. For Asians, probably from anime.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:20 AM
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I heard similar nonsense about my fellow Russian women. How they're all caring and great mothers. Dude, you don't know hypergamy until you go to eastern Europe. A woman won't even talk to you unless you own your house and make really good money. Poorer countries are worse I would argue. Women are more desperate for security and they only care about money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 02:18 AM
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Haha I am in finance but I also have a thing for software engineers. Married one. Best of luck to you 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 08:34 PM
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... you get my point. Your false analogy aside, alpha males dominate throughout nature, whether it's having more resources, strength or power. It's not about women being evil but women looking for the best mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 09:28 PM
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Or, the british media is jumping on this because there's been a terrorist attack by an incel last week? It's fresh news. The Telegraph is a tabloid feeding off stuff like this. The only mainstream news I read was about the epidemic of loneliness in our society, especially young men. That is truly a problem but it's not due to women being picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 07:56 PM
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Your child witnessed this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 07:55 PM
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The only reason the Telegraph and others are talking about this is because incels are responsible for another terrorist attack. They won, sure, by getting attention but the public opinion is increasingly more hostile.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 07:53 PM
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You go outside on the street. Endless couples and families enjoying their time. Must all be all women pretending and secretly wanting Chad, the top 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 07:51 PM
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Yeah not to mention this concept is universal in nature. Bucks fight with each other to mate. One lion dominates a pride etc. It's also apparent in other human relations and business. 20% of businesses get 80% of customers and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 07:49 PM
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You have evidence for that? I doubt that's true. A lot of these women focus on career and school and don't want to settle down just yet. Not to mention your odds of divorce if you marry before 25 are astronomically high.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:56 PM
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Sorry you experienced such disappointment from women. For what it's worth, I empathize. Most of the women I know embarrass me. Hypergamous, cheating (and bragging me about it), use men for their resources and rarely offer more than sex. I definitely feel i picked lucked out being a straight female. It is so much easier to find a stable and reliable man than the other way around. I hope you find happiness in the end 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:52 PM
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Ah oops. Poor reading comprehension on my part.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:32 AM
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Just read on wiki and it's not exaggerated at all. Sounds like scholars disagree on how respectable these hetaira truly were but it is true they were at the very least high end courtesans.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:03 AM
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I didn't mean it's men's fault. It's structural. If a man like OP has only focused on looks for years, he shouldn't be surprised the best looking women didn't plan for when he will wants smarts too. It's like training a dog to sit and give it a treat after. Suddenly, you're expecting it to lay down for a treat and being confused why it's not working. And hard disagree that hitting on someone means they want to marry you. It means they think you're hot and want to hook up, it can mean anything th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:28 AM
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You should have come to eastern Europe. Plenty of women fit that definition. I'm lucky my parents emigrated to North America so I can meet a proper American man. American men are IMO truly the best men in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:51 AM
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Two things. Women approach you in DMs? DMs of what? Second, a lot of women you aspire to meet have enough luck with men approaching them so they don't go after men. Third, I would consider why these women are messaging you. Do you advertise your wealth? In that case, they are gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:46 AM
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I think the issue is the definition of hvm. A guy could be hot, successful etc but a playboy hence he's not truly a hvm anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:43 AM
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Same thing in 1700-1800s Japan. Geishas were the most beautiful and intelligent women and men paid big money just to spend an evening having a conversation with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:41 AM
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Interesting question. I have thought about this as a woman. I consider myself a 7.5/10, for what it's worth so above average but not drop dead stunning. However, growing up, i was quite ugly and weird (into anime and had a big conservative political phase and live in very liberal city). Many men have been surprised by my breadth of knowledge, interests, ambition and maturity. I wondered for many years why I exhibited those traits whereas many of my stunning friends didn't. You can see where I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:40 AM
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Honestly sometimes I don't know what my needs are. I know how I can get myself off but not sure about him and a part of me doesn't want to be a bother. I would like if the man truly offered to take the time to find out what gets me to orgasm so I don't feel like I'm bothering him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 12:41 PM
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I'm a woman. This is certainly my experience and of women I know. It's definitely not a shoe in but I think it's a huge liability to be short
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 12:30 PM
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I totally disagree face is more important than height and every woman requires perfect facial esthetics. Where did you get that from?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 12:29 PM
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I can admit my own bias about height. Women are not as picky as this sub makes it, top 10% looks or something. Overall no I don't think women are overly demanding but height is truly a liability.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:32 AM
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Well thanks! Broad question, I guess. I like intellectual introverts with dark hair and thick rimmed glasses. Never had a problem finding incredible partners. My type I guess, is not a typical Chad look, and I consider myself fairly attractive. I think women aren't too picky. I just think the pool of eligible interesting partners doesn't stay on apps or single for long. So there's a perception that only stupid basic women are on apps and playboys. The reality is there's plenty of great people bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 10:36 PM
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Let's be very honest, height is a killer. Most women write you off immediately if you're under 5"9. I admit it. I can't help it. It's as revolting as an obese man, probably moreso. So a short ugly dude with a good personality? I'd have no luck and would attempt to become very wealthy to attract women. That or go to Asia and find a 25+ old maid by their standards and offer her financial comfort and move there with her. Men have it harder. Anyone that disagrees is deluded. Yesterday I forgot to we…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:50 PM
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I think the difference is "man working manly physical job" dirty and smelly vs "man covered in sweat from playing video games in basement" dirty and smelly. Obviously women think the former is attractive. I think the "take a shower bro" advice is bullshit. Very few men are legitimately gross and unkempt, and I've spent a weekend at Pax east.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:36 PM
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There are mentally unstable fringe people. They don't deserve to be debated except what medication to put them on. This is just free outrage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 09:42 PM
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OP may need burn heal after this. Based on his sad responses, you're totally on point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 08:52 PM
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This. Looks like something some journalist at Vice made up for clicks. It's not even real
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 08:51 PM
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Hitler said all Jews need to be exterminated for a pure Aryan race. Just because insane extremists say stuff, doesn't mean we need to debate it or even consider their crazy views.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 08:50 PM
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Very high. I am a fair 7.5 on 10 woman and those guys you described are the only ones I've dated and one I married. Maybe those average guys have other issues like depression, mental illness or crippling insecurity that are the problem not the prospect of being average.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 03:34 PM
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Yeah I agree with you. I'd say it's not very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:57 PM
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This would make sense. I have a very hard time achieving orgasm and I never wanted to do hookups because.. why? Totally no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:12 PM
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I think it's a type of woman that gets the pump and dump. Usually insecure and not an interesting or compelling person. He sees her when he wants and she keeps being on standby for sex. Then he vanishes when he finds something more interesting. I know people like that. It's not a fantasy just not a reality for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:11 PM
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Valid observation. It commodifies dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:58 AM
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Yeah tinder was great a few years ago. Now its full of creeps just wanting for the woman to show up to their place, suck their dick and leave. All women tell each other to drop it and go on hinge.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:56 AM
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Why would you pay if you don't want to? Just ask for separate bills if you don't like her or feel she's using you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 10:47 PM
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I 100% agree. No man whos been interested in me didn't offer to pay, because of some principles. I always interpreted not offering to pay as disinterest and that guidance served me well. I am happily married.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:22 PM
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Wow women have impossible standards /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:58 PM
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What? According to the cdc 1/4 ninth graders are virgin and 40% virgin at 18. Another made up fantasy by incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:18 PM
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In other words, you lead them on knowing full well that they're looking for commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:10 PM
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You don't need to pay for the first date but the vast majority of women will interpret it as lack of interest and not want to see you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 12:35 PM
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He wants a prenup for assets acquired after marriage I.e. a way to keep everything after divorce. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 12:26 PM
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Anything you owned prior to marriage to prevent someone marrying you, taking your family fortune and divorcing. It's only worth it if you were very rich prior to marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 12:23 PM
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So you never want to build a commitment and a connection because a woman might leave you? Seems sad. I hope you at least don't lie to women you want commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 12:21 PM
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Oh how tempting. Now I'd need to clean, cook, work full time and take care of the kids while he plays video games all day! If you think men complained now about being single, wait until then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 12:20 PM
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The 50% stat is grossly overused. It is skewed heavily by people having had multiple marriages. If you marry after 30, have a college education and it's your first marriage, I think the odds of divorce is like 20% which isnt that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 12:18 PM
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If you marry a 18 year old, sure. But few women will wait until 30 to please some future insecure virgin fetishist. Men who want a virgin, propose to your high school classmate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 12:14 PM
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The number is 7% not 3%. That was my error. Your reality is probably urban in a very... sexual liberated area or community. I'd say that the study fits my reality. I know a few people that have had dozens of partners but almost all is under 10-12. The majority have had 3-4. We're all 28-35. Some of the men I know who claim having had 40 partners usually lie so I'm taking that into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:09 PM
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Yeah my mistake I misread the chart. Nonetheless, 7% is very small we can agree. If you read these boards, you would think 80% of women have had 30 partners by 25. I've had 13 partners and got married on the 13th. Hope it's not a bad omen lol. Also felt like a slut when I first saw this chart 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 05:03 PM
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Here's a study for you. https://relationshipsinamerica.com/relationships-and-sex/how-many-people-have-americans-had-sex-with
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 01:06 PM
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They do and that's a problem. Many men don't respect when you jump in bed right away. Many of my friends are very sad they're single because men pump and dump, totally true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 12:32 PM
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Totally different. This would be gender discrimination on the basis of the entire sex. If one specific woman applied to every job and no one called her back, I wouldn't say she's not allowed to participate. Awful analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 12:27 PM
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There is no benefit for a woman to enter a casual relationship. We pair bond and get attached after sex and we are looking for a mate biologically to settle with. Dating a few months and it not working out is fine but the end goal for most women is a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 03:52 AM
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Ew dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 03:48 AM
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Less than 3% of women have had more than 20 partners. It is exceedingly rare and the product of incel fantasy narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 03:44 AM
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Yeah that's true. A lack of intelligence. They say that inability to put yourself in another's persons shoes and see from their position is one of the best marks of stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 03:38 AM
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Despite what you hear on reddit, the amount of women who have a hoe phase and sleep around is tiny. I personally know like 1, the rest are just trying to find a bf but can't keep him for multiple reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 03:37 AM
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You're allowed to participate. Literally no one is preventing you from asking someone out or installing a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 03:35 AM
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I would agree. I consider myself decent looking but mainly very mentally stable which many men told me is very rare nowadays. After a breakup, the longest I have stayed single is maybe 2 months. Conversely, I know several women who are mentally unstable and overly demanding as well as offering little whom have been on dating apps for literally years without ever entering a relationship. One is 33 and only wants a Jewish doctor or lawyer and she herself is the dumbest and most annoying basic girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 03:34 AM
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Exactly. They weren't some dream partners just religious and with fewer options. Married young, two kids in, divorcing at 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 03:31 AM
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I mean yes they totally are. They reject the concept of a free dating market where people can pick and choose and demand equal redistribution of partners. Hysterical children that demand intervention because the system requires work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 03:27 AM
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One time a day is considered low libido for you? Damn you are lucky haha. My husband is very happy with 1-2 times a week and he's 28 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 11:50 PM
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I wonder why men claim there's no wage gap and women don't want to work hard jobs while at the same time ensuring we aren't welcome to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:44 PM
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This is why women don't join Male dominated industries by the way. We are not welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 01:18 PM
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Literally tinder itself distanced from being a hookup app. They said multiple times they're a relationship app. Why? Simple. They know by advertising themselves as a hookup app, there will be less than 3% of women on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 09:56 PM
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Relationships and casual. Depend what the girl is looking for. HVM by definition don't prey on college girls. They are interested in women their age who they don't have to babysit and with whom they can have conversations. I wouldn't even want to date a man who's in his thirties going after young teens. In my case, I'm married to a man 3 years younger than I, me 31 and him 28, who is to me a HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 05:58 PM
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I'm Russian too but luckily my parents emigrated to Canada when I was a child so I don't have to deal with alcoholic depressed men who think they're entitled to a sexy 21 year old all their lives. Every single Russian woman except one I know has married a non Russian or Eastern European because they're the worst men on the planet. I'm married to an American and warn every woman to stay away from eastern European men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:45 PM
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Can't tell if troll or mentally insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:36 PM
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Yes, every woman past 30 has a couple of kids and trauma. The sub r/whereareallthegoodmen would make you believe all women have 5 kids from 4 fathers by 30 and looking for a hot doctor Chad to subsidize them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:30 PM
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Same here. My mom is 56 and swarmed with men traveling to see her from other countries. She's currently dating a hot doctor who's 52 who is apparently crazy in bed 😐 the wall is a myth perpetuated by lonely and angry men in a twisted revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:28 PM
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Observational on reddit? How many women do you know like this? Almost all women I know have no problem meeting great men in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:23 PM
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Dude, just trust the women saying it here. There are plenty of amazing single men interested in 30+ yr old women. I know, I am one. I understand RP want to see some form of retribution and women being sad and lonely but the reality is its really not hard to find an amazing man in your thirties.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:22 PM
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Your last two paragraphs summarize it. The men who are red pill complain women don't choose better men to have kids with but we're also too picky and go for the top 20%... ? Yeah, I am and I'm gonna keep doing it. Why in the world would I consider an unemployed and depressed and lazy guy? Zero advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 03:01 AM
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They work for enough people to have become the main way of meeting partners and growing every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:56 PM
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What? Feminists don't say that. Except according to incels. Also if there are fringe feminist groups who think men should be exterminated, they don't actually hurt anyone. They don't shoot yoga studios or drive a truck down a sidewalk filled with people. And the rest of us women don't want to exterminate anyone. Just because we don't want to date you doesn't mean I hate you or think you're low value. I'm just not attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 03:19 PM
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Just because dating apps don't work for you, doesn't mean they don't work for the majority. Love the idea of outlawing something because it doesn't work out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 03:08 PM
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Yes it concerns me because they have become a hate group because they can't make their fantasies come true. Incels have literally been terrorists killing innocent women. Yes it affects all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:34 PM
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So why should a woman date someone less functioning than her? Of course a woman thinks like you, if someone is offering less, she's not going to be interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:33 PM
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Lol. My 55 year old mom is raking it in men 50-60. Plenty of lonely either divorced or never married men want someone to spend their retirement with. 40? Have you met any 40 year old women? It's really not hard to date unless she's desperate for babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 11:48 AM
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Oh oops misread. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:26 PM
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I confirm. I view them the same as children or old men: not even potentially in the realm of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:28 PM
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Uh, what? The second man is miles more attractive than that scraggly nerd...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:25 PM
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As a woman, I agree with your assessment though it is an oversimplification. We have more negotiation leverage and that's as simple as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 07:09 PM
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The more productive attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 06:54 PM
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No one is saying you're a bigot or phobic for wanting to date a fat woman except crazy people on Twitter. Most normal people totally understand why either gender doesn't want to date someone like that. You're allowed to be interested in any woman you want as long as you don't get upset women find obesity revolting. I once went on a date with an obese coworker whose personality I liked. The worst sex in my life, by far. He lasted 3 minutes and his dick was like 3 inches because the rest was cover…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 06:54 PM
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Exactly. They look at single mothers worse than street hookers. It's disgusting. Hang in there, you're doing hard work. I know it's not easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 12:12 PM
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I'll take care of my husband if he were to get sick. I wouldn't willingly enter in a relationship with someone like that. You're essentially trying to guilt me for not wanting to sacrifice myself for a stranger lol. Life isn't a fairytale. It's hard. Making it harder by taking on more burden willingly isn't something most people want to do. Depressed and ill people offer nothing better than a healthy person, only down sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 02:14 AM
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There's nothing stupid about not wanting to date someone who's a drain on my sanity. In fact, you'd be stupid to date a woman like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:29 PM
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It's biology. Women are seeking a protector and provider and men are seeking someone to impregnate and raise their kids. It makes perfect sense and got nothing to do with fairness but biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:25 PM
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agreed with your first paragraph not the second. Life is objectively easier in the west than in Africa for example. And if humans stopped procreation every time they're in survival mode, we would have never made it past homo erectus. The reality is people in the west just have other options to spend their money and time on whereas an illiterate girl in Africa has only her ability to make children to feel valuable and ensure someone takes care of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:21 PM
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I agree with you actually. The risk is too large on men just for having sex. Men should be able to refuse responsibility if they have evidence in the past that they had stated they didn't want children and the woman agreed and thereby broke a written agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:19 PM
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As they should... it's their child. And by consequence I meant social consequence. They can date freely if they don't have custody for example, their bodies are not affected and they usually do the smallest amount of child rearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:14 PM
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Genuine thank you for the education. I didn't know many of these things. Definitely something I'm going to look into more as I clearly was misinformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:42 PM
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That would awesome! Babies raised in an artificial womb and adopted if there are willing parents or raised by the state. Much fiction predicted this model and I'm all for it. But we're not there yet and women are constantly chastised for not having children which is what I'm addressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:22 PM
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I would rather live in the 1950s than now, that's not up for debate. I'm a good cook and I would love to raise a family. I'm a conservative voter. Unfortunately this is the society we're in so I need to adapt accordingly. As for the medieval times, women also had no protections if the man left them or if she got raped and pregnant. Prostitution was one of the only jobs women could do without capital. And unless I'm wrong, women could not inherit wealth up until the 20th century in Europe so you …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:16 PM
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Lol yep. That's not inaccurate. For us, odds are if he's mentally ill or depressed, sex is very bad and nonexistent. So I'm essentially playing caretaker for free and sacrificing my sanity in the process. What a deal! If there's one advice I would give lonely guys is to fix your mental issues. I know it's easier said than done but that's probably the number one reason women aren't interested in you. Looks are truly, very secondary for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:54 AM
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The short answer is yes in Hungary. https://ifstudies.org/blog/is-hungary-experiencing-a-policy-induced-baby-boom
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:47 AM
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Hence why women are very selective and there are so many incels. Why risk pregnancy with some depressed fat broke loser if I can find someone better? I think we agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:42 AM
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Cost of living has gone down because the capitalist machine figured getting women in the workplace would bring wages down with higher supply. If that's where you're going, I don't disagree. I would rather stay home and cook but we are where our boomer predecessors assholes brought us to. Marry before you carry? Birth control fails, couples agree to have children in common law relationships and many men do not want to get married. It's not that simple. And again, why is the responsibility all on …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:40 AM
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Yep, exactly. Men don't get any consequences for knocking her up and she is stuck for life being broke and single. And then anyone wonders why so few women want children? That's the consequence of treating mothers with such disdain.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:34 AM
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They're a very conservative society against immigration. That's why they want their people to have kids. Japan is the same ... not wanting immigrants and having low fertility rate. Unless we in the west find actual ways to convince women like me to have kids, were going down the path of Japan. Low fertility rates, aging population, economic decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:31 AM
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What a joke. A 3600 tax credit when you can't find a house in most cities for under 0.5m? Where wages haven't kept up with inflation in 40 years? Where a man can just disappear and avoid child support and she's on her own and a leper in the dating world? Here's a country that actually did something: Hungary. This is the kind of incentive people will go for not a 3600 tax credit. I can get that by depositing a few grand in a 401k for my retirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:23 AM
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You need to provide tangible financial incentives in having children. Major tax breaks, major govt subsidies. It's not on the parents to pick up the bill for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:17 AM
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Having children provides zero benefits, especially to women. And only negatives. Our bodies are destroyed, they cost 100s of thousands to raise, the cost of living is so bad, couples barely make it let alone with children. And God forbid I need to date again... just read some of the RP boards on how they see single moms. Worse than lepers. So why? Give me one reason that benefits me and not some future generation? Men and women love each other. Go outside and see couples walking together, cuddli…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:16 AM
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So? Let the govt give me incentives to have kids instead of asking me to sacrifice my body, mind, dating life were I to divorce and money just to further the next generation. Fuck that. Not my problem. And we will keep bringing immigrants from Africa for the next 50 years. Should keep our generation afloat until we die.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:13 AM
13

People are still in relationships, they're just not having children. Therefore it's not anyone hating each other... just not wanting kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:11 AM
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Not just looks but mental status. I don't want to be dealing with the mental illness of a guy all day who in return gives me nothing I can't get myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:10 AM
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Plenty of reasons... cost of living skyrocketed and salaries stagnant, kids provide zero benefit, especially to women. Destroy our bodies and minds, cost a fortune and God forbid it doesn't work out with the dad, being a single mom dating is about as successful as HIV positive dating. Women needed children for stability and men to provide. Only solution is for govt to provide really high incentives to have children. Hungary allows parents never to pay income tax after 4 children. Hell I would th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:08 AM
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Women don't hate men. Stop reading ultra feminist subs and lesbian blogs and you'll see the vast majority get along great.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:04 AM
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Number of children decreases because it's all cost no benefit. Cost of living has skyrocketed, wages stagnant and we're supposed to raise the next generation on our dime. Fuck. That. Women have other options now to survive rather than just tethering to a man but it's not the only reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 11:02 AM
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Your own article says it's a problem for teenagers only. There's no difference for 35-44 age group and the 25-34 shows only a 7pt difference between 2000 and now. It can be explained by men studying longer and not dating or women taking longer to settle down and dating around in their 20s. It's not a massive societal problem. Virgins past the age of 40 are less than 1% if I recall. I'm sorry, but you're an outlier. This discussion is prevalent online because the internet is more prevalent and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:32 AM
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Your skepticism confirms my belief approaching men is unlikely to be well received.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:23 AM
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How many men have "crypto trader/stock trader" or "entrepreneur" in their descriptions? In the former, he has 3k and is trying to day trade to a fortune. In the latter, he dropships and makes 10k a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:40 AM
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It's... weird and off-putting?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:38 AM
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Nailed it. This is exactly the men that attracted me in my dating 20s. I would go on a date with an engineer and knew everything about him after 1h date. It was so boring. I once went on a date with a guy who had had issues with the law, but also worked a really cool consulting job and told me 2 weeks later he's taking me to LA for his convention... goddamn that was exciting. Life is too short to just settle down at 20 without any adventures.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:33 AM
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You have a proof to back that up? Teenagers not having sex in past year isn't proof by the way. You said 1/3 of all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:18 AM
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I don't know if this actually works. I approached three guys in my life and neither liked it. I'm far from ugly. I think men assume something is wrong when they're being approached, either there's a sinister motive or she has serious problems that she can't find a guy who would go after her. I legit never have heard IRL a successful relationship story wherein the guy got approached by a woman. I think men want it for an ego boost but when faced with that situation, they balk. In general ofc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:59 PM
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There are very obvious cues that are USUALLY a good way to tell: she touches your arm or shoulder, she laughs at all your jokes, she subtly mentions she has no plans that weekend and hanging out with friends (no reference to a man), twirls her hair while talking to you and prefers being next to you in a conversation. I once threw myself at a guy, kept telling him he should show me around his town, told him I'm bored that weekend, always found him to talk to him... he never picked up on anything …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:48 PM
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In a society with arranged marriages, incels like you got castrated and used as clowns at the king's feasts. The virgin waifus married successful men with their parents blessings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:42 PM
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Not really. The very lonely men with no woman contact are a small minority, albeit very active on reddit. It's not as much a societal issue as the internet claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:36 PM
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I used to think like you. A few bad experiences later I'd say every straight man is friends with the hope to smash.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:28 PM
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As a woman I totally agree. All my successful relationships started with attraction in the back of my mind, the banter and flirting were not how friends act. Men I met on dating sites where we went to dating right away never actually worked that well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:27 PM
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And that's why most women are not interested in hooking up. We rarely get orgasms in relationships let alone with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:23 PM
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This board is dominated by incels so yes, here they would agree. I can guarantee you if you ask 10 random men on the street, all 10 would not want a virgin past a certain age. It's a red flag. I can tell you as a woman, I have made the joke to prospective partners about being virgin and they pretty much almost walked away immediately. It's really weird to be this sheltered past 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 12:29 PM
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I care. I do. But I'm not sure what can be done. Being friends with them as a woman is an obvious no go. They are frustrated if you date other men and will end up hurting you one way or another for "leading them on". I can empathize but there's nothing else I can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:29 AM
2

At least you admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:46 PM
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I confirm. I love being approached IRL (as long as it's not an old man or homeless guy obviously). Shows confidence and courage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 12:40 PM
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Never got dick pics but moreso really rude comments as an opener. My bio talked about stock trading, travel and video games. One I got was "come sit on my face". Just as first message on tinder. Another was just an address. Nothing else. A message "come tonight". Another opener was "do you like anal?". But yeah most guys, over 95% are normal and respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 12:05 PM
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I hate to tell you this but it's not hard for a good looking young woman to find a 6ft fairly successful guy. If it was that hard, we'd be the ones complaining on this board.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 09:16 PM
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Love the last sentence. Dating isn't fair. The sooner you accept it, the easier it'll get.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:07 PM
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You're simplifying it but overall, yes. The hobby is really the least important thing, it's more just confirmation that he doesn't get out much, spends his days online. I can deal with that if he's also a very interesting and successful engineer for example who also loves to travel and I'm attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:30 PM
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I'd agree with this. It's the sum of things. If you're a weirdo with no ambition and career prospects and ugly to boot, your chances are very low. I honestly would rather stay single. Sex is worse for women so that's not a selling point and I'm better off keeping looking than settle for someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:27 PM
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It's the sum of things. A fat, ambitionless dude who loves marvel is what I would define a neckbeard to be. He doesn't just have to actually have a neck beard. And I wouldn't call incels here if I didn't get attacked by 8 angry men for stating my views. I'm happily married, I don't need to seduce anyone. Just sharing my view on this debate board.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:22 PM
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... no. It's the sum of being physically unattractive, having no future or ambition and into comics. We can agree I'm sure Cavill is neither a loser nor ugly. My husband is into heavy gaming but he's an attractive man and with a great career.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:20 PM
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You can't win with you incels. I said I dated someone who was over weight but successful and now I only care about money 🤣 there is nothing we can say that will satisfy you unless we date total utter losers like most incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:01 PM
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You're not forbidden to do anything, dude. Women have the right to have preferences just like you do. It happens that fat dudes reading marvel is not a turn on for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:46 PM
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It's not women complaining here we can't find a date. Men are less picky. Women decide their mate So your question is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:45 PM
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Uh, I'm sure there are some women that do? Just like there are some women who like hentai. It's not the norm and not going to play in your favor. Should I be upset most men aren't interested in women's shopping?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:56 PM
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Dated a guy like that before myself so that so wouldn't bother me (I'm in shape). He was very educated and interesting and we held total war campaigns with each other. My mom caught him on a date with one of his students (he was a pt lecturer in law school) though, but that's a separate story 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:29 PM
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Then they are different. Comic book loving, overweight and with poor career and job prospects male is not desirable for any woman. This is just the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:02 PM
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Huh? You want us to worship obese fedora wearing jobless losers? Yes, exceptional treatment is reserved for top tier men. How is this weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:55 PM
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Maybe our neckbeard definitions are different. An obese guy who dresses in gaming shirts I know - neckbeard A skinny balding social awkward guy who loves comics i know - neckbeard An overweight call centre 33 year old employee who loves superman - neckbeard Those are the guys I know who are single and no woman wants them. I don't know irl any others.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:52 PM
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Yeah I was excited about this sub when I found it but it's just a slightly less offensive version of those women hating subs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:16 PM
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Yes, all women have 3 kids by different fathers and fake hair and broke. Seriously? The amount of women who complain they're not getting proposed to are 1, in relationship and 2, a tiny minority compared to men and amount of subs where men compare they can't get a date or a match. Sure there are plenty of women with high standards etc. But that's because all of the normal women are in relationships by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 11:49 AM
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Believe whatever makes you happy. Even my mom who's 55 is swarmed with matches. A friend who's 39 and not very smart or even has a job is swarmed with matches. I didn't know what to do with all the men messaging me when I used to use apps between the ages of 26 and 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 11:45 AM
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Every time a guy asked for separate checks I interpreted it as lack of interest. It always was. They wouldn't text me back. Can't think of one situation where guy didn't pay and wanted to see me again. As for my friends, yes it happens of course that the guy asks for split bills but it's always due to a lack of interest. This is the way men communicate that they're not interested in seeing you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 10:30 PM
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Definitely agree on gauging interest. A man who's really into you won't worry about red pill or what's fair. He'll pay and he'll be very happy doing it. If a guy doesn't pay for me I just interpret it as lack of interest and it's most likely accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:54 PM
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I don't know what you heard but I've never seen a successful man who gets his dates paid for. Every attractive "Chad" my friends dated or I dated has been very generous and paid dinner without a second thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:44 PM
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This. It's a free world. Do what you want but understand that women have the upper hand in dating so don't complain she didn't text you back and dating someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:27 PM
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Lol no it's not. Middle East, eastern Europe, France and southern Europe have this embedded in their culture. Maybe not Germany and UK, not sure
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:26 PM
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Bullshit. I worked as a line manager on an assembly line and loved it. Got sexually assaulted once and harassed daily though. Of course you'll say I'm lying but it's the truth. We're not welcome in those jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:21 PM
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Third. I tried many times having male friends and every single time, they were hoping for a relationship. I don't think I will have male friends again as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 02:10 AM
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This. I had two major male friends I thought were my best friends (different friend groups and times, they didn't know each other) and both times I got ghosted cruelly out of nowhere when I met someone I wanted to date. It is so cruel and painful to realize that someone you thought was your friend was just orbiting for when you'll see him as the one. We don't think that way. If we aren't into you from the start, we're unlikely to change our minds. How many times have you met women you didn't wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 02:07 AM
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That's actually quite cool and en vogue. Next time, say you build electric vehicles. I bet that would really interest women. I know it would interest me!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 12:06 AM
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Well not much you can do about that. They'll find out sooner or later anyway. I would not say factory worker but that you work in production of ??? (Vehicles, food etc). I used to be a line manager on an aircraft assembly line. Factory work but dates were very interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:30 PM
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Are you embarrassed by your job? It's a normal question. Men and women ask it all the time. Gauges the person right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:17 PM
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No women don't think that. FDS doesn't represent all women just like MGTOW doesn't men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:39 AM
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This whole group is "debate" amongst a bunch of misogynists why women are the worst. There's a reason there are no sane women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:38 AM
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Online dating is in steep decline? Lmao. Ignorance is bliss indeed. Online dating has constantly increased since the 2000s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:22 PM
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Lol that means that illiterate Africans and Palestinians are the cream of the gene pool. Sounds logical. It's just evolution didn't intend for us to discover contraception and society made child bearing very unattractive. If this is how humans go extinct then it's the result of evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:16 AM
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Yep. Still boggles my mind why other people have them. I'm not complaining. Someone needs to pay taxes when I'm retired.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:14 AM
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Agreed. Life is hard for all of us. Take meds, go exercise, meditate. Idk. But I have enough problems to deal with without babying you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 03:00 PM
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Life is hard enough without adding people who make it harder in the mix. It's pretty damn simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 02:51 PM
1

Lol I got news for you. What she's saying is the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 02:46 PM
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You're an ableist for not wanting to date someone like that /s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 02:45 PM
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Lol you're ridiculous. Sorry that normal healthy people want to date other healthy people and not depressed downers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 02:43 PM
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Entering a relationship to fix someone, that's what you're proposing? What a selfish thought. So I need to sacrifice my sanity and happiness to attempt to save someone I just met? Sorry but no one will do that. Relationships aren't charity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 02:41 PM
1

Please define emotional labor. My experience is totally opposite. This is a case of selective bias. Men whom have had bad relationships complain on reddit about it and same thing for women. It's not true one party consistently carries the brunt of emotional labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 02:34 PM
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That's her pregnant with twins. A belly this big isn't for one child... that means the baby girl is another child and she's currently pregnant with twins 😐🤢🤮
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 04:52 AM
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Alright how about she gets old and you get really rich and now suddenly hot 25 year Olds are into you. Would you not leave then? Let's be honest here. Many men if not.most would.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:38 PM
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Uh where do you hear this bs? My fiance cries often in front of me but he's a strong and inspiring man otherwise. I think it's beautiful he expresses feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:37 PM
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Yeah, same feeling here and about to unsub. It's mgtow sub now full of angry men projecting. Statistics show that women won't live a terminally sick men and men do like someone else said. And conveniently ignore how many men would upgrade in a second If a hot young woman came about. They just don't like that women have more options.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:35 PM
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Confirmed this based on women I know. Also, sunk cost. "Well I'm 32 and spent all these years looking for a guy I want and deserve! I'm not giving up now" *true quote from virgin 32 year old Christian who wants a devout Christian with big cock and tons of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:17 PM
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I got news for you my man... almost every woman uses make up... you just can't tell most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 12:07 PM
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Idk working retail at 31 is a pretty red flag. It's not just the money, it's the ... passive acceptance of being on the lowest totem pole for life plus most likely very low intelligence and ambition.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 12:03 PM
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That's the only true answer here that's pretty universal. Others are turn offs but this is almost guaranteed no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 12:01 PM
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Divide by 4... that's been my go to method. Other women I know do the same - 4 to 8 is the magic number at my age (30)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 11:59 AM
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😳🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 11:56 AM
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Your strategy is the best. No one will ever find out and you lose nothing by lying. That would be my recommendation for older virgins as well. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 11:41 AM
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I'm 30. If someone is a virgin or has had like one partner (unless it was a 12 year relationship) tells me there are other problems. It's not the virginity the problem but the causes thereof. For example I had a huge crush at work on this fat engineer because he was very smart. He was very awkward with me, I made a move and invited him over. We got drunk and had sex. It was so bad. Oh my. I wince remembering it. It lasted like 3 minutes and he kept talking about work during it ("don't worry I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 02:07 AM
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I'm sure you're in the minority there or in a young age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 01:58 AM
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Lmao I love the comments on this board
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/21 03:49 AM
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These types of men have hundreds of women pursuing them. Everyone wants a handsome, loyal super rich doctor. What are you offering? They want at least women as intelligent as them to hold a conversation and very good looks, and they usually want ambitious and fun women they want to come home to. Because trust me, they will have women after them while you're at home feeding the kids. Marrying up or hypergamy is myth perpetuated by Jane Austen novels. On average, people of similar income and goals…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/21 11:50 PM
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Only sane comment here. This woman offers what, her youth? There's hundreds of millions like her. High value men want an equal and someone interesting and fulfilling not a gold digger.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/21 05:54 PM
1

There's also abortions. So I think I'm good.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/21 04:08 PM
0

So you don't have sex until you want kids? You only have sex to procreate?
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/21 04:05 PM
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Trust me, no I tried bonding with a great man but the sex chemistry was just so off. I think now because he had serious mental issues that made him unable to relax or get out of his head. Bottom line is totally disagree you can fix bad sex. There's connection or there isnt
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/21 04:03 PM
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Don't fool yourself thinking no one will ever find out. Men will smell that in two dates. Their sixth sense will tell them you're damaged goods. They're not stupid.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/20 10:38 PM
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I have never met or spoken to one man, left or right, whom even was even remotely open to dating former or current sex workers. You are stained for life and don't you forget it.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/20 05:48 PM
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This is a case of... if it's too good to be true, it probably is. Something is off and you know better than us. He feels unequal in the relationship. Why?
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/20 01:01 AM
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We can disagree there. I think it's very hot on both genders.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/20 03:59 AM
2

Oh yeah sunscreen is critical. And I didn't know this about veganism?? That's crazy
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/20 01:09 AM
1

Agreed with everything. I'm scared of aging too. Moisturize your skin. Don't stress! Don't work any job that stresses you a lot. Eat well. You'll look like a goddess for decades.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/20 12:53 PM
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True. Conversely status and money is exceedingly more important for men than women.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/20 12:51 PM
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I'm a conservative woman and she makes me sick to my stomach.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/20 02:44 AM
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I once Googled "dating as a single mom" curious what comes up... not one article said it'll be harder. Not one. It's all about her and how the man needs to cater to her and her kid. I'm like... girl... serious cognitive dissonance. (P.s I'm a conservative young woman)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/20 02:21 AM
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