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Since when I made the post I actually had some experiences. Definitely had to fight against a lot of frustration. Sometimes the loneliness gets back, like now, but it is a loneliness that I believe would keep come back even after some romantic experience. The best advice I can give you now is the following: David burns book, give a chance for the cbt techniques, they are really powerful. Buddhism, not the mythological stuff, the philosophical. Force yourself to socialize, I mean, really force, a…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/23 10:31 PM
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Thanks for the response, even me being late to answer. Soon I will make a final post in this account. The truth is: I have found a girl and, even if we are not exactly dating, I am having all the experiences I wished for so long. It is feeling quite unreal, not that she seems false, but the experience is too disassociated. I need more time to think about it. I understand that eventually this will end, but at least now I have a validation that I can look back. It seems that women don't see me as …
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 07:48 PM
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Can you explain what tactics did you make to make women interested?
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 11:29 AM
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You have made the right choice.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/22 11:06 AM
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I didn't want to pass a hopelessness vibe. I know that I didn't have a normal experience until now, since I am the only person I know in real life that have that difficulty in dating. Most of my friends had dated at least thrice, and I am stuck in this situation. My situation is not extreme, fortunately. From my perspective, it seems I am completely normal, and some girls even considered me pretty (but weren't in a position to be interested in me). Most people I know tend to consider me intellig…
/r/ExRedPill08/05/22 11:05 AM
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I want to be truthful about anything, but I see it now that I can't.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/22 10:57 AM
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It is not that I care about what others think about my choice. It is more about the fantasy of having a honest relationship and being accepted by it. I care about what women think exactly because I desired a connection with them.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/22 10:56 AM
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I understand that there are women that would understand this type of situation. But there are women that wouldn't too. From my analysis, taking this risk is not worth it.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 07:03 PM
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There might be people that are attracted to me but it doesn't mean that something would happen, since I would never know they are attracted. And nothing happening is the condition to the crippling loneliness that makes someone go after a woman disregarding the red flags. I do believe that a bad experience is better than no experience. But I can understand that some people would think otherwise. When nothing never happened you have zero feedback. If something happens, even if it is a bad experien…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 12:52 PM
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Being that massive turn off is the reason I advocate lying to your partner. Having a partner would already be a miracle for some men. Risking this telling a truth that have little relevancy in their lives is not something I would do or recommend someone to do it.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 12:47 PM
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This is the reason I believe people should lie about hiring a escort. Many woman don't appear to have the empathy to understand the loneliness that led someone to do this.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 12:02 PM
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Many men don't have the luxury to care about red flags. I believe a bad experience is better than no experience at all (within reasons of course). At least you have something to remember.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 11:59 AM
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I give up. You are not reading and you don't care about anything other than expressing your anger. Still, I believe you are truly acting from the best of your heart, and you really believe you are fighting for something beneficial, even if you don't understand the wrong ways. Still, good luck to you.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 09:41 PM
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You think that we are closing our eyes to misogyny? Why don't you go to the redpill or incels subreddit and say those things there? You are not bringing anything new here. You have the right to feel whatever you want about anything you want. I am just affirming to you that your anger is fruitless, at least here that is a support community for people wanting to leave that mindsel. It will not help anyone and it might make things worse. You don't believe me, an ex-incel and ex-redpiller and an alm…
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 09:28 PM
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You prefer expressing your anger than to try to understand others viewpoint and achieve a possibility of a meaningful contribution. For me, it seems you don't care about misogyny or incels or redpillers, you just care about acting on your anger since it is all you've been done in this post. My conclusion is that you carry a lot of resentment or you are projecting your hatred in others. It is baffling how can you spend hours discussing something and not giving any hint that you can comprehend the…
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 09:06 PM
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All that I believe is relevant I already said. Your intentions are noble, but your actions are not efficient at least in this post, just as I said. I don't defend anything that the incels do, I just say that I can understand why they would do such a things, because I was one of them. Maybe you don't accept this because you are a woman that didn't pass through such a things. Still I know that what you pass as a women in a misogynistic society is terrible and possibly worst than any of the incels …
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 04:42 PM
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You avoided a lot of questions before you asked me to list what I love about women. Then you invalidated my answer (just as I said you would). You are right that I am failing to get the relationship I desire, but I never said I value looks above all else. You are trying to justify your behavior comparing incels to nazis or white supremacists, which I can see the relationship, the same way I compare it all to religion, because it is all based in wrong beliefs. Still, I don't have idea of what you…
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 04:34 PM
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I agree with your analysis. But something has made they obsessing all day over this problem. We can go deep following this trail.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 04:27 PM
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Is there any problems if I like looks? As long as I am not lying to them, no? Your assumptions are no different than those of incels. Your answer is quite the one I expected. It really seems like you are trolling since you avoid all relevant questions and are just trying to hit somewhere. It seems like you are just looking for a reaction, just like incels.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 04:24 PM
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Right, I will give you what you want. I like their bodies, their faces, their voices, the way they act, the tension that I feel when I talk to them, the way a woman can make me feel good when they treat me well. I like to watch women dancing, art of beautiful women. I don't think any relevant conclusions can be derived from this, since this is not about what I feel about women, but how destructive actions toward women can be avoided. I probably won't continue this discussion because it doesn't s…
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 03:51 PM
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Can you tell me what did you expect my answer to be these two scenarios: What would I list if I hate women. What would I list if I didn't hate women.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 02:31 PM
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You are right about the justification. There are a lot of people here just trying to make this justification and feel better about themselves. This I agree with you. You are right again, I too believe they hatred is sort of "justified", of course, because of the conditions that led to their hatred appear. I believe that everything is conditioned. It doesn't mean, at least for me, that because they can justify their hatred, they should act in destructive way. I believe that you can justify everyt…
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 02:14 PM
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If this is what you believe you should not be in this community, because from my understanding, here we are trying to help these people instead of endlessly condoning them. You are having a lot of assumptions, maybe you had terrible experiences with these people, or trauma, or any other thing. Maybe you saw Elliot Rodger's video, read about incels and the mass murder they commit, and of course, the endless misogyny of society, and now you are believing you know exactly how to deal with these peo…
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 01:57 PM
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If you want to understand the problem and give any useful insight, you probably should have a cautious empathy. I don't believe that having empathy means overlooking what they believe. Maybe the problem is the definition of empathy that we are using. And I agree with you, their beliefs are the problem, but even knowing that, what can possibly be done to improve the situation in general? And I don't mean that we are trying to improve their lives, we are trying to improve society in general becaus…
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 01:17 PM
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I don't believe you (specifically) should empathize with them. But the empathy can give better insight. It is not for everyone to do this, of course. But the intention of this community is to help the ones that can be helped. I don't think that just hate and disregarding everything the incels and redpill say will give any useful insight. You can voluntary try to help these people if you are in this community, or you can just go on your life, you are not obliged to help them.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 12:53 PM
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I believe that even taking the lead is a type of reaction because of the conditions that lead someone to take the lead. I don't mean that incels and redpillers have 0 fault on how they behave. My interest is in the analysis of what conditions can lead to these destructive behaviors.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 12:49 PM
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I constantly fantasized of doing something drastic just to have attention from people. Fortunately I understood what was happening before destroying my life. Congrats on overcoming your situation
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 11:24 AM
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A lot of people minimize the damage that the lack of attention (or perceived attention) can lead to. In my case, I need to have at least a little sympathy for the ones that aren't criminals in these groups because I was one of them. With sympathy we can gain a better insight. This community's purpose is to help the ones that are falling into the rabbit hole. To help, we need to have a good understanding of the conditions that led someone into this destructive mindset; what someone can do when th…
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 11:23 AM
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I believe it is something unconscious
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 11:18 AM
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I believe it is because of taboo. And many people feel disgust at the ones that go to escorts. I feel like I probably wouldn't be able to tell the truth to a woman that might enter my life in the future. Not everyone is so judgmental, but for the ones that have little hope to find affection, they would accept these types of behaviors. And it is difficult to manage the reality that one can only get affection by paying it. I don't think most of incels can deal with this thought. It is even difficu…
/r/ExRedPill25/04/22 12:07 AM
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Last week I went to a hooker the second time in my life, this time I didn't even care about sex, I just wanted to hug and kiss her. It was the second women I kissed, and the second sex worker I went (it is legal in my country). After being with her, I didn't feel anger at the sight of couples in the street. This last a day or two. Still I remember our conversation and how sincere I was being, and how sincere I am hoping she was being. In the end, I think I just want some intimacy. Not receiving …
/r/ExRedPill24/04/22 11:24 PM
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It is quite possible but I am working on it. I am doing my best to be social and to get into social situations, also being a fun person to be around, without judging others or complaining too much. But when it comes to more intimate things it is too hard because I don't have experience. I know that the girl possibly have a lot of experiences and then there is me with 0. It is difficult in that situations but I try my best to maintain a pattern of not judging and doing my best to not initiate unc…
/r/ExRedPill06/02/22 12:16 PM
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Here where I live is too dangerous to walk with laptop and etc.. But like I said before, my problem is not so much knowing women or people. My problem is that I can't attract them
/r/ExRedPill06/02/22 11:29 AM
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Thanks for the answer. I am doing therapy at the moment, we are still exploring this dissociation. I used to believe that things are going better, but I know that I can die at any moment without these desired experiences. I can understand that older women can appreciate me, but this is also too difficult to accept at the present since I am seeing normal guys with woman with my age. I understand enough to not blame anyone but myself, but for that reason I wish a way to enjoy life that it is not a…
/r/ExRedPill06/02/22 11:28 AM
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I had girls interested in me before, but I always fucked up. I don't believe I am physically unattractive, but my personality that doesn't have that "sex appeal". I simply don't know what women find attractive
/r/ExRedPill06/02/22 11:26 AM
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For me it seems this crowd is the most similar to my problems. I had to try it
/r/ExRedPill06/02/22 11:24 AM
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I am getting therapy at the moment. All this ideas, I understand. But I think nothing will work because of my mental state. I really wish for a way to enjoy life without woman, and then maybe it would be easier to get into a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/22 11:24 AM
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I would do this but I didn't had much chance for this. This girl didn't seem to enjoy the conversation and for that reason I prefer not doing anything. I've tried ask to meet up some girls but they refused. It is not so common for me doing this, last time was some years ago, but I simply didn't find a woman that enjoyed the conversation with me at this point
/r/ExRedPill06/02/22 11:23 AM
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Yes I fucked up with that girl. I didn't met a lot of women, never. It is also quite difficult for me to approach women randomly, not because I am anxious, but because I believe it would be inevitable to make the situation too weird. I simply can't. My work is from home too, so I am quite limited. But, maybe I am going back to college. Maybe I can meet women there, but I am quite worried if that decision to go back to college is just because of my loneliness instead of my interest. Either way, I…
/r/ExRedPill06/02/22 12:31 AM
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With the quarantine, I don't have much opportunities to meet women. Last time I met one at a party and I was talking to her at the party about a lot of things, a light small talk, until I made a mistake and asked permission to sit closer to her. After this she said she needs to leave, I said to her to not go now but she goes anyway. I have the feeling that looking at a woman as a friend will make things stay like friends. But I know that I must keep the interaction light, otherwise she will sens…
/r/ExRedPill05/02/22 11:37 PM
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