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How to not get attached: talk to/hook up with multiple girls at the same time (until you want to be exclusive with one of them).
/r/seduction16/02/20 05:48 PM
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Disgusting.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 04:55 AM
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If this gets made, there's going to be a shitstorm of guys trying these things the wrong way.
/r/seduction08/12/13 08:10 PM
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What were the most effective exercises they put you through? What shifted in your perspective? Did you pull?
/r/seduction26/11/13 07:01 AM
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Remember that she poops. She poops a lot.
/r/seduction22/11/13 05:28 AM
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Go somewhere you're comfortable. Talk to the first person you see (bouncer/bartender/guy/unattractive girl) If you find yourself getting in your head with negative thought loops (what do I say/this shirt is dumb/they won't like me), take action to distract yourself - sing along to the music, dance, play a game, etc. The goal is to have fun by meeting people (not only girls). Don't be hard on yourself. This stuff is difficult. I'm not expert, but it takes time.
/r/seduction14/05/13 08:26 PM
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Didn't know this existed. Thanks, man.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/13 05:14 AM
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This is great. Taking care of herself (physically and mentally) is a definite must, and any emasculating/shaming behavior (your "real man" example) shouldn't be tolerated. If a girl you're seeing has a red flag, do you confront her about it, or just move on?
/r/TheRedPill24/03/13 05:13 AM
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Could be great for getting numbers, but how many of these numbers actually turn into something? A number is meaningless if it doesn't lead to a date/meetup.
/r/seduction31/01/13 08:36 PM
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HAVE FUN. Don't stand around clutching your drink to your chest like a security blanket. If you catch yourself wondering what you should do, just ask, "What would be the most fun thing to do right now?" or, "Let's see how bad I can crash and burn with that girl over there". It'll get you doing instead of thinking.
/r/seduction02/11/12 05:40 PM
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Yeah, waiting tables is good, but you don't want to be that guy who hits on his coworkers or his customers. Don't try to pull from work. Focus on your job while you're there, then hit the happy hours/bars after your work day.
/r/seduction27/10/12 08:22 PM
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Yeah, waiting tables is good, but you don't want to be that guy who hits on his coworkers or his customers. Don't try to pull from work. Focus on your job while you're there, then hit the happy hours/bars after your work day.
/r/seduction27/10/12 08:22 PM
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Your main goal should be to have fun. Be the most fun dude at the party and don't be afraid to look like an ass. Wave your hands in the air like you just don't care. Girls want to be around fun guys. If they see you having fun, you'll have an easier time approaching them and they might even approach you. Have fun and see what happens.
/r/seduction27/10/12 08:20 PM
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"I have a boner." If she responds poorly, "It's gone."
/r/seduction27/10/12 08:17 PM
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Hand her your phone and say, "Give me your number. I'd like to see you again/It would be fun to hang out/I have to take you to this museum of beheaded dolls."
/r/seduction27/09/12 08:51 PM
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Yup. Guys don't talk to girls for no reason. It's on.
/r/seduction19/09/12 04:15 PM
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Yup. Then he'll feel empowered and not emasculated. He wants to feel like a man. Help him feel it.
/r/seduction19/09/12 04:14 PM
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Nothing. Most guys don't know how to talk to women anyway, so being approached is probably a little jarring. Try making a comment about the music/venue/his clothes/whatever instead of being direct. Might help them be more comfortable.
/r/seduction19/09/12 04:02 AM
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He talked to you? He's interested. Guys don't talk to girls for no reason or "just to be nice." He's into it. If you really want to be sly about it, ask him to help you with an assignment from the class. Easy.
/r/seduction19/09/12 03:55 AM
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What these dudes said. Better to be authentic and congruent than to have some canned line.
/r/seduction29/08/12 01:54 AM
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Success generates more success. Start small with a girl at a coffee shop/bookstore.
/r/seduction28/08/12 04:31 PM
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"Hi, my name is ____." or, "Who are you?"
/r/seduction27/08/12 05:34 PM
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Great workout, climbers are generally good people, climber chicks are hot, and people who don't climb automatically think you're awesome. Climbing is the shit. Been at it for 2 years.
/r/seduction25/07/12 03:58 AM
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Yup. I had a slammin' hot girl and we broke up recently. She had tons of issues of her own, but if I had this reminder, things might have gone more smoothly... Burn this into your brain!
/r/seduction24/07/12 03:30 AM
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Love it. Getting back to me. Inner game, inner game, inner game.
/r/seduction20/07/12 08:33 PM
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Find another therapist. There are some good ones, and a lot of shitty ones. Good therapy works.
/r/seduction18/07/12 06:38 PM
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Always a great reminder. Thanks for the post.
/r/seduction16/07/12 07:00 PM
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Don't care what other people think and just do what you want! Other people are too self involved to care what you're doing. It doesn't matter. Make your move, kiss her, be goofy, and work out. Most importantly, start to learn how you can be the best version of yourself.
/r/seduction13/07/12 04:52 AM
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Great stuff. Being rooted in and happy with who you are, are so important. You have to have that before you can have quality girls.
/r/seduction25/06/12 01:30 AM
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Thank you for this. I need it.
/r/seduction23/06/12 08:39 PM
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Doing it right now. Do things you love or check out new things you're interested in and chat people up.
/r/seduction18/06/12 04:59 AM
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Awesome to hear man. I'm just getting back into things after an intense LTR, so I'm pretty much starting over. Nice job. Time to get after it!
/r/seduction18/06/12 04:52 AM
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Nice job for getting out there man! It's tough to get back out there after being in a relationship. Don't worry about this girl. Next time, be more physical and tell her to give you her number, don't ask. A good move is to put your phone in their hands as you tell them to give you their number. It only gets easier the more you practice. Keep it up!
/r/seduction16/06/12 08:48 PM
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Well done. There are attractive girls everywhere. No need to invest much in them early on. Keep it up!
/r/seduction15/06/12 09:21 PM
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I'd be interested to hear opinions on this also.
/r/seduction10/06/12 03:49 AM
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