Obvious red flags for seemingly sweet, but emotionally broken/unavailable girls? [first post]

ColumW · 2012-06-16T05:12:33+00:00

I don't imagine this is the right place for the question. I'm just not sure you'll get a terribly good answer here.

EDIT: This might be of use to you.

http://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice

capitulum · 2012-06-16T14:08:08+00:00

What seems "off" about her within the first week of dating isn't going to go away- it's going to get worse. Like if she won't make a decision coupled with a tendency to compare herself to others or beat herself up. It will come down to her mannerisms, body language, and tone when she speaks. Remember that you try to put your best forward for the first date so will she, if you see potential problems showing through her best take that as a red flag.

clinkytheclown · 2012-06-15T23:58:56+00:00

you're gaining confidence, people like confidence. you're attracting these girls cause they don't have any confidence of their own and like what you have, and to be around it.

Raise your standards if your a relationship kind of guy, and wait to commit until you're sure. if you're looking to hook up, then make sure to say "look, I'm not looking for anything serious, just fun. If that's not ok with you, we should stop now, no harm done."

and of course, you can do both.

Title	Obvious red flags for seemingly sweet, but emotionally broken/unavailable girls? [first post]
Author	lifebeckons101
Upvotes	7
Comments	3
Date	June 15, 2012 11:45 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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