| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 9 | Broke up with BF bcs of OnlyFansAlso you’re paying him for the escort service. While you claim to have no money and make your real partner pay for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 11:58 AM |
| 14 | Shut down an LVM at work who tried to treat me like his personal secretaryI am going to bask in your shiny spine-work all day! This was a huge win. What a slimy LVM. From your prior encounter, too. I think everyone at FDS should read this and know how to defend themselves from LVM in the workplace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 11:56 AM |
| 16 | She didn't even have to send him a nude.Ehhh, I’m not convinced by his good-guy snapshot. There was plenty of sanctioned sexual abuse of South Korean women.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 07:33 PM |
| 3 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedYou did the right thing. You tried. And she not only stayed with the clown, she joined the circus herself. You did what you could. What a creep he is. Pregnant partner and cheating, caught, then married with kids and still creeping regularly. What is it about these worms, they think everyone misses and pines for their peens. Newsflash, we don’t! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 10:57 AM |
| 1 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedHahaha omg yes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 10:52 AM |
| 23 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedOh my gosh. How disgusting. I’m so sorry he decided to use your name in all his sick manipulations of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 09:00 PM |
| 56 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedOh noooooo. Why do they stick with these sadsack liars? I have no doubt that you are right, that he did use you to triangulate against her. “Oh, girlfriend, how I would love to propose to you. But there’s a problem. This old friend, Inspection-Critical, is obsessed with me.” Winner indeed. One of these lying bastards (whom I had dated as they hid a secret fiancée) legit called me on his courthouse wedding day to whine about getting married. As if I would give a shit. Scum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 08:56 PM |
| 155 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedWWWWOW. The absolute gall. As if you had been waiting and dying and pining for him for 8 years?? Ugh. His fiancée should reconsider. What a gross POS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 05:54 PM |
| 9 | Always about them 🙄🙄🙄Come ON!!! Rihanna was nearly MURDERED and she’s not allowed to donate her own money to women like her without people criticizing her with “But what about men”??? Come ON! Tone deaf. Self-absorbed. Missing the point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 10:01 PM |
| 52 | “I don’t have a child”I have experience with this “Women aren’t straightforward”-then-punishing-you-for-being straightforward business: Any time in my single days when my profile said or I answered “What are you looking for in a guy” with the fact that I was really looking for a praying, church-going man, it was met with rage, incredulity, and name-calling. ”What?! So you won’t even give a non-religious guy a chance?!! You’re saying I’m a bad person. C’mon. I’m a good guy.” No, thank you. ”You’re so judgey and picky!… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 01:07 PM |
| 93 | “I don’t have a child””well how old did you think I was?!” “I don’t know. Maybe the age you TOLD ME??” ¯_(ツ)_/¯ Scumbag. ”You’re the stupid one. It’s your fault you don’t catch my stupid lies.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 12:43 PM |
| 86 | LVM and their livesThe only thing missing from this excellent post is that his mommy fetched him the taquitos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 03:21 PM |
| 10 | I used to believe porn use was natural and harmless, thanks to this sub I was introduced to Dr. Gail Dines‘ work. My eyes have been opened and I hope more people listen to her message and recognize the damage this industry has caused.From an audience member: “Cosmopolitan is a feminist magazine” Ahhhhhahahhaaa you total clown. What a mess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 05:51 PM |
| 14 | I am still not over the shock that had I stated this would have been my future. Married to a fucking pedophile.This so much. I’d love to announce it to the parents with him present, and when he goes silent with his excuses, say “Didn’t you tell me it was only 10 minutes, though? And you didn’t even get hard?” and just watch them unleash their rightful fury. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 03:40 PM |
| 10 | He charges her for coffee at his home.I just picture this poor woman’s cheeks flushed, as she fumbles in her purse for change. “I... I don’t have enough.” THIS. IS. ABUSE. It is financial and emotional abuse. It is monstrous, and she needs to run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 12:32 AM |
| 5 | He charges her for coffee at his home.😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 12:28 AM |
| 2 | The outfit I'm wearing when the scrote comes to collect the rest of his shit:This photo thrills me. Good work letting the abusive trash take itself out while you sit there being fantastic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 06:35 AM |
| 28 | Being the Cool Girl wins you absolutely no prizes. Put yourself first always, and don’t be afraid to walk away if your standards are not being met!Guy: “I just want a gamer girlfriend. They’re so cool.” Same guy, when hearing a female voice on his headset during a multiplayer game: “Get back in the kitchen! Make me a sandwich! Get raped!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 03:16 PM |
| 62 | some men need to learn this“LoVinG tHe gLowUp. wE shOuLD hAnG ouT.” Get away from me, you shallow creep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 04:22 AM |
| 9 | Demand respectOh my gosh! He totally trashed her best friend! And she let him! Wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 12:36 PM |
| 0 | “Sure I pay the majority of the bills but like, he gets me nice gifts during the holidays!” Wtf else is he doing with all the money he’s saving???Not saying he should have to pay an amount he can’t afford. Doesn’t have to be 50/50. That would be abusive. But 30% of his income would be fair—that’s likely what he would have had to pay living on his own. It depends on what he makes. There is definitely a fair amount he should be paying. Her family sounds really shitty, though. Sure, raise red flags for her. They sound controlling, though. “Sign a prenup or else”?? Yuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 12:17 PM |
| 38 | A small group of mods control 92 of the top 500 subreddits, including r/TwoXChromosomes and r/Relationship_Advice. More proof that if you don’t outright ban men on your sub, they’ll infiltrate your ranks and skew the conversation entirely to their favor.Wow. I’m surprised and not surprised at the same time. Subs out here telling a pregnant woman her husband doesn’t have to help her when she needs basic everyday things. Unbelievable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 11:45 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020I would be 100% up front about this with anyone of mutual interest. The trash will see themselves out (not without insulting you and calling you, crazy and forever-alone first, which is how you will know they are trash). Others might see it as a challenge, which is not cute. Those ones aren’t listening to what you say. It is going to be rarer to find a guy with the self-control to wait and not be pouty about it. If you do find one of these, great! If not, keep living your best life. This means p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 11:22 AM |
| 2 | “Will cry if you yell but also will get wet”, “insecure but will wear minimal clothing around you” + the red elbows and knees... what the hell is this pornsick shit“Cute dates”. Would those be serving him Hot Pockets and cold Mountain Dew in the trash-covered, sock-smelling den and watching him play video games? Because I can’t picture this creep planning a real date, or paying for one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 10:28 AM |
| 15 | Girl, noYes. “I’m going to ‘let him have’ a young girl for his birthday. It is pimping. It’s so vile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 11:58 PM |
| 15 | Girl, noWow. This is truly sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 11:51 PM |
| 19 | Girl, no”Should I tell the girls ... he likes objectifying people in bed so she doesn’t feel bad?” Should I.... sh-should.... I’m sorry, what did I just read??? 🤮 “Umm, like, he wants to abuse you. Is that, like, okay?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 11:47 PM |
| 3 | Women on r/relationships and r/AITA in a nutshellOh no. I have written almost exactly this before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 05:49 PM |
| 8 | The only appropriate response to this kind of manipulative ass message is *BLOCKED*Ahhh! This gives me an embarrassment stomachache. I totally fell for this garbage back in the day! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 08:48 PM |
| 13 | I don’t see any lies“How can I get him to let me sleep inside?” Oh my gosh, that’s hilarious and accurate. I’ve written some just like that in the past. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 09:18 PM |
| 23 | I don’t see any liesThis is so true and widespread that it’s a shock when you find one who does not say/believe this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 12:31 PM |
| 11 | I want everything, I offer absolutely nothing.That’s a rollercoaster ride and a half! “You exercise and eat healthy! That’s so awesome. Can you make me exercise and eat healthy?” “No, that’s on you.” “I hate that you exercise and eat healthy food. Are you trying to rub it in my face??” “Oh, sorry. Ok. I’ll ease up on the healthy lifestyle. Maybe give you a chance to catch up.” “What happened to your bodyyyyyyyy? You let yourself go! You used to be so toned and fit!” He was a narcissist a-hole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 09:56 PM |
| 10 | I want everything, I offer absolutely nothing.This guy. 🤣😂 What a lazy, deluded clown. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 04:49 PM |
| 19 | I want everything, I offer absolutely nothing.3 guesses who cleans the cat box. Hint: It’s not Miguel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 04:45 PM |
| 11 | I want everything, I offer absolutely nothing.I’m dying laughing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 04:42 PM |
| 7 | He didn't even read it“You might as well be a cam girl to them. They start projecting their voyeuristic pornsickness onto you.” Ugh! Yes. Is this how we get “She was asking for it” and “she (a minor) tempted me”?? Reminds me of the case on r/nametheproblem this week: a doctor says a semi-unconscious patient groped him sexually, so he then snuck away later to rape her, and his defense lawyer said “She was this little Latina with fake boobs, and he was just a middle-aged nerd. He just lost his mind!”— as if to say, of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 06:33 AM |
| 11 | He didn't even read itThank God. That’s great news. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 05:44 PM |
| 16 | He didn't even read it“Now show me your bob and vagine!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 04:41 PM |
| 17 | And that’s how you do itYes. Just the key. It says: I was here. I saw you. I’m gone forever. Fend for yourself, you scumbag. I also would have felt free to tell any family/friend I wanted to about his treachery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 06:19 AM |
| 159 | And that’s how you do itThis is funny because it’s 100% true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 06:11 AM |
| 7 | Three U.S women killed every day by men who claimed to love them. Never forget the world we live in.That does help immensely. Thank you!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 06:58 AM |
| 11 | Three U.S women killed every day by men who claimed to love them. Never forget the world we live in.How did you inflate the populations? (Stupid question maybe, but I have dyscalculia, so maybe it’s not so stupid.) I googled the populations of each country, but then didn’t know what next to do with those numbers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 05:55 AM |
| 44 | Don't send nudes. EVER.Thank you for this. Saving for when my daughter and son are old enough to be tempted to do this dumb shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 11:35 AM |
| 11 | When men call themselves stoic and rational. Is it opposite day?That’s impossible! The males of the human species are never ever dramatic or overblown! /s “Ice,” that’s awesome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 11:44 AM |
| 34 | When men call themselves stoic and rational. Is it opposite day?My friend (also a woman) is an ironworker on construction sites, and she said she has never heard people gossip as much as her male coworkers do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 04:30 AM |
| 18 | Please alert your fellow woman!Wow, he tricked you into driving him to another girl’s house?! The disrespect. Wow, he was absolute pond scum. That girl was so weird. “Why’s he adding you?” “Because he cheats and is a cheater. ::proof::” “No he’s not, stop trying to ruin his life, you jealous liar!” O....kay? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 08:57 PM |
| 78 | Please alert your fellow woman!I think we dated the same guy. 2 months for me, and he had a fiancée of 3 years that he was hiding. She followed him one day and found him at my house. He raged and whined and said I was a crazy liar and that we were “just friends,” so I sent her every single text, photo, and voicemail to prove he was cheating. She said she would stay with him anyway because he was her first love. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Ok. He kept texting and leaving voice messages the next few months, saying maybe we should “All sit down a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 08:14 PM |
| 23 | Punishment 👸🏽True. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 04:27 PM |
| 109 | Punishment 👸🏽Ironically, posted in ExNoContact, when she went on to collab with him after he basically tried to murder her. As boss as she is in many ways, that was a move I just didn’t understand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 02:41 PM |
| 3 | “Is he nice to you?”What he’s doing is not loving or kind. Those are terrible things to say and do, even to a stranger, nevermind a partner. Massages are nothing if he is trying to make you feel inferior this way, and so early. This man wants control, and the way he will get it is to make you feel less and less worthy over time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 12:49 AM |
| 6 | “Is he nice to you?”My jaw fell open. What a sick bastard. I’m so glad you got away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 12:47 AM |
| 4 | “Is he nice to you?”😳 That’s just awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 12:42 AM |
| 8 | When he says "you deserve better than me", believe him, and RUN.I dated one for a few months who randomly said a couple of times “I’m not a good person” with a smirk on his face. I didn’t understand why he would say that. It all made sense when I found out about his secret fiancée of three years. He really was a bad person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 11:19 PM |
| 12 | Saw this on r/all and stole. What the actual fuckery!?This made me really angry. What the actual hell?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 03:56 AM |
| 19 | Girls need to be taught this from such an early ageDid he expect his guy friends to put out if he helped them move?? What a garbage thing of him to suggest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 11:24 AM |
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