lightbenderfm Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
437	Being the Main Character	Marriage/Children	lightbenderfm	/r/MensRights	27/02/23 04:12 PM
140	Believe all women	Discrimination	lightbenderfm	/r/MensRights	01/11/22 05:10 PM
135	Just need to vent	Marriage/Children	lightbenderfm	/r/MensRights	12/01/26 03:26 PM
20	Feeling frustrated and confused	Social Issues	lightbenderfm	/r/MensRights	20/07/22 02:50 PM
0	Trick or treating	Marriage/Children	lightbenderfm	/r/MensRights	01/11/22 12:42 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	I did the research to PROVE that "It's ALL Men" was nothing but a LIE I read the 2nd page as 93%, 83%, 74%… I was thinking that sounds insane. Then I realized there was a decimal there and yeah that seems right… People talk about crimes like they are constant and everywhere. We live in such a paranoid society. In your exaggerated, worst case scenario it is still a tiny percentage of men. SA is terrible. Men that do it are terrible and deserve to be punished. But acting like it’s all men everywhere at all times is so messed up. Robberies are terrible and happen ent…	/r/MensRights	22/07/26 10:06 PM
3	This explanation of a common logical fallacy explains how "I hate men" and similar anti male statements retreat from reasonable epush back Thank you for sharing this. I have felt this way in the past when having this discussion but now I finally have the words to describe it.	/r/MensRights	14/07/26 06:55 PM
34	"Misogyny of male suicide" Also the fact that “family annihilation” is the man killing his family before himself. But as much as it’s tongue in cheek here, no matter what a man does he is wrong.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/07/26 08:27 PM
2	Male Genital Mutilation is a Parental Right Yes. But every time I’ve seen it discussed in feminist circles it’s framed as circumcision and female genital mutilation. I’m saying it needs to become referred to as male genital mutilation. Referring to it as circumcision makes it sound like much less than it is. I am in agreement with you brother. I’m saying we need to change how the world frames this issue. When it’s circumcision, it gets dismissed as routine and personal preference.	/r/MensRights	28/02/26 11:19 PM
0	Male Genital Mutilation is a Parental Right It’s because for men it has this sterilization of being “circumcision”. It’s a medical procedure so it can’t be that big of a deal right? It’s female genital mutilation and circumcision.	/r/MensRights	28/02/26 04:54 PM
2	Father and daughter mistakenly caught up in human trafficking investigation: fathers can't go out with their daughters in public. My 3 oldest are step children with a father with a very different appearance than me. I do get dirty looks from people sometimes because my teenage daughters are pretty and so they assume I’m out with my 18-20 yo girlfriend. They didn’t understand at first why people glared at me in public sometimes. I don’t care much but the thought of being accused of human trafficking makes me feel kinda scared.	/r/MensRights	28/02/26 04:48 PM
2	German feminist rapper sings about killing babys because of their gender, gets cheered on for it by their fans (translated via google translate) “I hate men but I still have sex with them.” I feel like I’ve heard way too many times how men hate women and just use them for sex.	/r/MensRights	27/02/26 02:09 PM
3	According to a 2024 OnePoll Survey, 82% of Men Say Physical Affection from a Partner Is What Makes Them the Happiest Also the thing I want to highlight here is that men want touch as affection. It doesn’t need to always grabbing my dick, even though I like that. Some people act like physical affection equals sex and only sex.	/r/MensRights	20/01/26 07:36 PM
5	I don’t think men feel lonely. Men feel dismissed, belittled and ignored Women: “Men never talk and express their feelings!” Men: “We feel belittled/neglected/lonely. No one seems to care what happens to us.” Women: “Sounds like a you problem.”	/r/MensRights	16/01/26 05:53 PM
3	Just need to vent I am really annoyed by people that feel the need to be offended for other people. It seems like many people just look for ways to be offended. And then when you have people saying genuinely problematic things, it takes away from being able to call those out. I really hate the idea of “micro aggressions.” They used to just be called faux pas.	/r/MensRights	12/01/26 09:27 PM
3	Just need to vent Thank you for understanding what I was saying. It’s comforting to know that I’m not the only person that understands this situation. I feel like so often when people complain about a spouse, the people listening just say, “Yeah you should leave them. That’s why I’m alone and happy.” Instead of accepting that a relationship is going to have good and bad things.	/r/MensRights	12/01/26 09:22 PM
3	Just need to vent Just venting about being annoyed. I don’t expect to sway her mind on anything. Taking small steps to get her to see things beyond her own perspective. I don’t initiate these and usually I have sense enough to stay out of it.	/r/MensRights	12/01/26 04:03 PM
21	Just need to vent For exactly what you said is why I avoid these “discussions.” My wife isn’t crazy “all problems are men,” but just had a frustrating experience. It’s difficult to have a cognizant discussion if we don’t agree on what words mean.	/r/MensRights	12/01/26 04:01 PM
11	Just need to vent As the title of the post says, venting about a frustrating experience I had. Hoping some men here could relate to it.	/r/MensRights	12/01/26 03:58 PM
1	Imagine if the genders were reversed. In this scene an older woman dressed only in bikini tries to seduce a young boy I agree that if this was a real situation it would be wrong. But the clip implies that this is him dreaming? I dislike the idea that “13 y/o boys all fantasize about sex with adult women” is pushed as a narrative. But again this is implied as the kid dreaming or am I missing some context?	/r/MensRights	02/12/25 11:33 PM
7	A high school football star had the rape charge against him dropped after a sixteen-year-old girl confessed that the rape never happened. He spent six years falsely imprisoned and broke down when the case was dismissed. The first time I saw the 2nd one I thought it was being facetious or hyperbolic. No, they genuinely believe that…	/r/MensRights	29/08/25 08:31 PM
9	The audacity feminists have is beyond me Love how women are just like, “The audacity of this man to correct me when I’m wrong about something…” Then turn around and shit talk any guy that isn’t their perfect ideal.	/r/MensRights	26/11/24 07:22 PM
1	UK: Drink Spiking Will Be Made A Criminal Offence Under Labour Bid To Protect Women And Girls When I first read it, I thought the title was drink spilling would be a crime.	/r/MensRights	25/11/24 03:25 PM
8	What people really mean when they say "men should cry more". Men can cry, but that just means shedding tears and being sad. That doesn’t mean they are allowed to voice complaints about what makes them sad. You can be sad, and show it, but whatever your problem is, you need to figure it out yourself. The same way that any man’s problems are his own, and any woman’s problems are systemic.	/r/MensRights	17/11/24 05:25 AM
92	“I’m just a girl” is the new “boys will be boys” I have never heard anyone use the phrase “boys will be boys” except on TV, people complaining about people saying it, and people joking about it. I still remember the stupid fucking commercial where they had the line of “dads” repeating it over and over. I remember thinking how fucking stupid that commercial was. And now all these “feminists” have this fucking agenda of, “Let’s do all the things we say men do, that are bad. That’ll show ‘em.” It’s like the morons who say we should have white sla…	/r/MensRights	12/11/24 03:35 PM
6	Margot Robbie has had a boy and the misandry is absolutely disgusting. “Men are cruel and violent so I hope a baby dies…” - someone apparently	/r/MensRights	04/11/24 03:34 PM
7	Got downvoted for asking for justice in a brutal murder case Any violence against a woman for any reason is absolutely unacceptable. If you cut off man’s genitalia it’s stand up comedy.	/r/MensRights	28/10/24 07:42 PM
72	Boys are falling behind in school Again the example of when men have a failing they need to improve themselves and when women have a failing we need to help them.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/10/24 01:37 AM
2	Ah yes, the supposed concreteness of artistic works Ever notice how when you get a different car you start seeing them everywhere? Or when you start a new hobby you see it everywhere? When you look for misogyny, you are going to find misogyny. It’s evolutionary for us to recognize “patterns” and the great part is our brains over compensate to notice something we decide is important.	/r/MensRights	17/10/24 12:09 PM
3	Former President's callout to Black men touches a nerve among Democrats. Is election-year misogyny at play? With my reply “There has never been a woman as head of the country so if ever there was an argument for misogyny and against misandry that is a good one. Lets keep things in perspective. I am a supporter of mens rights but let’s keep it real.” Idk how to make quotes on here. Directly above what I wrote. Edit: also I somehow miswrote what I meant. Saying a having black president was evidence that racism is over was meant to be facetious. I’m not really sure what you are trying to argue with me here? I’m not sa…	/r/MensRights	14/10/24 05:15 PM
2	Former President's callout to Black men touches a nerve among Democrats. Is election-year misogyny at play? With my reply Yes. The idea of no woman president because misogyny is as stupid as racism over because Obama. I’m sure some people didn’t vote for Hillary because of misogyny or thinking a woman couldn’t be president. But to blame her entire loss on it? Bit of a stretch.	/r/MensRights	14/10/24 12:49 PM
2	Former President's callout to Black men touches a nerve among Democrats. Is election-year misogyny at play? With my reply When Obama was elected that meant racism was over right? I think the point of people picking Jill Stein over Kamala Harris pretty strongly points out that it’s not misogyny for people not liking Harris. I will likely vote Harris, but if she loses it won’t be because of misogyny.	/r/MensRights	13/10/24 02:15 PM
118	Are Men to Blame for the Restrictions Against Afghan Women? The discussion always gets turned into a “men vs women” when it’s really “people that want to control others vs people that don’t want to be told what to do.”	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/10/24 05:59 PM
2	most psychopathic comment section on TikTok Yes. It’s definitely the men’s rights groups that are toxic and ignore reality…	/r/MensRights	09/10/24 05:37 PM
4	How about the right in law to bodily integrity at birth while we're at it I am pro choice but this argument is wrong, and even if it wasn’t wrong it’s a shitty argument.	/r/MensRights	08/10/24 02:13 PM
3	Cringe indeed Been with mine for almost 15 now. Sometimes it’s 50-50, sometimes 60-40, sometimes 40-60. I think a lot of people in relationships let them die as soon as they need to put in a little bit of effort. After it’s past the wooing stage of a relationship, some women lose their shit because you can’t keep up that kind of energy forever. They’ll talk about a man not putting in any effort any more, without acknowledging at the start of the relationship he was probably putting in way more than they were.…	/r/MensRights	04/10/24 05:28 PM
17	Question for my fellow LWMA's, how do we respond to statements such as this one? This is more or less it. But some of them do believe they can convert because they have a magic vagina.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/09/24 02:22 PM
54	Question for my fellow LWMA's, how do we respond to statements such as this one? Women go to gay bars to hit on gay men, and then act indignant if you say anything about it.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/09/24 11:08 AM
54	This innocent question we ask boys is putting more pressure on them than we realize I would say I have a fairly nonconforming set of personality traits and interests. I agree with some of what she says about making it more acceptable for a man to like babies, or not be into watching sports, or have no interest in hunting/fishing. (All me if you didn’t guess.) But in all these discussions I always see them frame it as stopping “toxic masculinity.” Please for the love of god, stop demonizing masculine traits. Why can’t it be “toxic gender conformity?” Or anything that doesn’t mak…	/r/MensRights	13/09/24 10:52 AM
6	If you had the chance to be a stay at home dad would you? I’ve been a stay at home dad for a few stretches in the past and I think most people look at homemaker the wrong way. You aren’t a slave to your family/spouse taking care of them. You are doing their share of housework and they are doing your share of financial generation. If you view it positively, that means you both get more time to do things you actually want to do, whether or not that means spending time together. If she wants to take care of the house/family and then in their free time the…	/r/MensRights	08/09/24 05:13 PM
1	Higher Incidence of Abuse in Intimate Relationships Involving Women Compared to Male-Only Partnerships - Gilmore Health News I feel like we are arguing about how we agree with each other. You said something about our subconscious belief that women’s lives have more value. I replied about social conditioning with what I intended as a rhetorical question. TLDR: most discussions around violence, interpersonal or otherwise, have some serious logical fallacies, inconsistent reasoning, and basically zero nuance.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/07/24 02:07 PM
1	Higher Incidence of Abuse in Intimate Relationships Involving Women Compared to Male-Only Partnerships - Gilmore Health News I guess I’m not quite sure what you are going for here? Are you trying to say there is some intrinsic difference between men and women that causes women to be more violent? I totally can get behind an argument that it is evolutionary. In prehistoric times, any time a man would be in a physical conflict with another man there would be a risk of death, or even just maiming which would lead to death. Therefore we have an incentive to work out a conflict without violence, if possible. If women were …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/07/24 01:38 AM
2	Higher Incidence of Abuse in Intimate Relationships Involving Women Compared to Male-Only Partnerships - Gilmore Health News Because we are socially conditioned to believe it. Why is the saying, “Don’t hit women,” instead of “Don’t hit people?”	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/07/24 08:15 PM
9	Higher Incidence of Abuse in Intimate Relationships Involving Women Compared to Male-Only Partnerships - Gilmore Health News Evolutionarily that makes sense and I’ve heard that from others and thought it myself. But I guess the point I’m seeing is that regardless of the why, and despite the trope of men solving everything with violence, a man is more likely than a woman to deescalate conflict than to resort to violence.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/07/24 08:21 AM
28	Higher Incidence of Abuse in Intimate Relationships Involving Women Compared to Male-Only Partnerships - Gilmore Health News “But men are stronger and more likely to seriously hurt you.” - the argument I get every time I mention this to any woman.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/07/24 03:54 PM
9	Women would prefer to stay with a bear than a man… The biggest problem I have with this is that it makes it out like men are constantly out attacking random women. If we wanna go down the men are bad whatever, the man most likely to attack a woman is one she knows like a husband or boyfriend. I bet most of these geniuses would choose their partner over a bear proving it’s hyperbolic bullshit.	/r/MensRights	03/05/24 11:00 PM
9	Dear men why don't you go fuck yourelves. Yours truly, The Ladies The article started off talking about how the richest of rich people are mostly men and I feel like that is every fucking argument against men’s rights. “Men have higher rates of suicide.” “But the billionaires!?!” “Men are farther behind in school than women were when actions had finally been taken to help them catch up.” “But CEOs are men!?!” “Men face major disadvantages in regards to parental rights and property protection in divorce.” “Rich man own company!?!” I can admit to some things wit…	/r/MensRights	08/10/23 03:48 PM
15	Interesting post from r/Teachers Love how any time a woman talks about her experiences and how she perceived them it’s validated. But if a man talks about his experiences and perspective, a woman will come out of nowhere and tell him that his feelings are wrong because the patriarchy and she’s had it worse and never complained once about it.	/r/MensRights	21/09/23 11:22 AM
9	Woman who stabbed a man in the neck to avenge Iranian drone strike avoids jail If you go and read the story it seems like she used her fame from the attack to try and start a music career? What in the actual?	/r/MensRights	04/08/23 09:57 PM
1	2019 study: males are 80%-90% of civilian victims of explosive weapons in various conflicts But what about all the women that lose their husbands, fathers, and sons?	/r/MensRights	19/05/23 01:36 PM
2	Spain launches tech to make sure chores are shared equally: The app tells wives if their men are doing enough housework. Ahh yes nothing brings the romance to a relationship like counting up who’s not doing enough. If you don’t like the division of labor in your household maybe talk to your partner? There is absolutely nothing good that can come of trying to perfectly 50/50 labor hours. Does an hour of mowing count the same as an hour of watching tv while folding laundry?	/r/MensRights	18/05/23 10:32 PM
56	Women are suffering because fewer men go to University But the devil (who’s is obviously male because evil) tricked eve. Therefore…	/r/MensRights	03/05/23 01:45 PM
558	Women are suffering because fewer men go to University Is there any problem that isn’t men’s fault?	/r/MensRights	03/05/23 12:29 PM
2	experiences with taking on children your partner had before you got together I’m probably the exception here but this is my story. I met my wife about 13 years ago. At the time she was married with 2 kids 4yo and 8 months old. We were coworkers and friends for about 2 years. She played mother to her then husband. She got pregnant with their 3rd and I had fallen hard for her. I was a divorcee with no kids and I didn’t want to get into any relationship, let alone with a married person with 3 kids. We’ve been married almost 9 years and have one kid that is my blood. The old…	/r/MensRights	01/05/23 12:02 AM
5	Being the Main Character Very much agree with what you are saying. I don’t candy coat what I tell them. If I see something a certain way I tell them hey life is here to fuck you over and you are going to have to fight against it until you die. My balance is getting them to understand that they need to make their own decisions and form their own opinions. My goal with raising my kids is that if I were to suddenly die, they could continue on without me, while knowing that as long as I am still around I want to help and su…	/r/MensRights	28/02/23 02:28 AM
-3	How many of you are left wingers? I consider myself far-left. The Democratic Party is center right at best.	/r/MensRights	27/02/23 07:11 PM
12	Being the Main Character I did bring it up with her. Part of it is she just has more of a desire to be in charge than I do. I’m much more laid back. I think in any relationship you need to have a power balance you are comfortable with. I can’t remember where I heard it but one time I saw or read something about ‘soft power’ vs ‘hard power.’ Soft power is making the small day to day decisions. Hard power is deciding major life decisions. I’m pretty indifferent to most soft power decisions, but for the hard power stuff I …	/r/MensRights	27/02/23 07:05 PM
17	Being the Main Character I feel like I do that pretty well with her. But it’s a balance between me saying how I feel about it and my thoughts on it and telling her what to think or believe. If any of my kids I’ve taught to be critical thinkers it’s her.	/r/MensRights	27/02/23 06:59 PM
27	Being the Main Character I feel like I discuss these things with the older 2. My 13 is very insightful and observant. She is constantly asking me questions about double standards she observes between different people who are in the same situations. “Why is it this way for this person then completely different for this other person?” And quite often observing the way boys her age are treated.	/r/MensRights	27/02/23 06:47 PM
44	Being the Main Character I appreciate your rational response. I’m not overly upset. We are both working on our actions and reactions to each other and trying to be mindful of each other’s point of view.	/r/MensRights	27/02/23 05:47 PM
2	This post on menslib is absolutely awful and needs to be answered. Ok but like empathy literally means seeing the other side? em·pa·thy /ˈempəTHē/ noun the ability to understand and share the feelings of another.	/r/MensRights	09/02/23 02:32 AM
25	This post on menslib is absolutely awful and needs to be answered. I guess I’m weird because I read this article as a critique of how society fails men? I don’t think it’s right to be hateful towards women, but I also recognize that there are a lot of men’s issues that we are either discouraged from talking about or are told that men just need to “be better.” I understand MGTOW even if I don’t follow it. I understand “red pill” stuff even if I disagree with it. I think it’s very obvious how men take these paths and I for the most part can’t fault them for it. T…	/r/MensRights	08/02/23 12:59 PM
3	If feminists cant cope with equal competition (demanding female only leagues for sports, female only olympics, no trans, no men) because they cant physically compete, WHY are we paying them equal pay for physical jobs that we KNOW men are more productive/better at??! 100% everything you said.	/r/MensRights	15/12/22 02:41 PM
11	If feminists cant cope with equal competition (demanding female only leagues for sports, female only olympics, no trans, no men) because they cant physically compete, WHY are we paying them equal pay for physical jobs that we KNOW men are more productive/better at??! I think as far as sports they should get paid for the crowds they draw, merchandise they promote, whatever. That being said male sports teams just draw bigger audiences. I want to say with regards to the women’s soccer team I thought they were drawing bigger crowds than the men’s team but I don’t know so don’t quote me on that. As for work I hesitate on the idea of paying women less. I’ve worked several labor intensive jobs in my life and on the rare occasions I worked with women, they would kee…	/r/MensRights	14/12/22 11:45 PM
8	Despite more men dying in Ukraine and Iran a successful white actress wants you to feel guilty as men. I love the shit about wearing a shirt to show support, like it’s some noble act. “I support the good people standing up against the bad people.”	/r/MensRights	14/12/22 09:41 AM
13	When Are The Men With Peter Pan Syndrome Going To Grow Up? Stop sharing stupid articles by stupid people from years ago. Don’t give this garbage air.	/r/MensRights	08/11/22 09:07 PM
3	Believe all women What if both claim assault by the other? I’m fine with giving some benefit of doubt, but I am pretty sure the law says innocent until proven guilty.	/r/MensRights	02/11/22 03:46 PM
4	Believe all women Ok but in my example all we have is my word and hers. Ohh and the neighbor didn’t see me hit her but he does see us all the time screaming at each other. This is all completely hypothetical but there are many documented cases where a woman claims abuse/threats/rape. There will be basically no evidence beyond he said she said and the man is guilty because what if?	/r/MensRights	02/11/22 03:43 PM
7	Believe all women So if my wife says I hit her and I say I didn’t, how do you believe all women without doubting me?	/r/MensRights	02/11/22 12:58 PM
1	Sabotaging a man's first love and feeling proud about it. And a lot of people support this. Wtf? Ohh so sweet. Clearly they are soulmates. /s	/r/MensRights	01/11/22 04:17 PM
119	Men killed - Women most affected 🤡 Ok but like, the article does make it a comparison of who has it worse. It literally says, “the war is hardest on women.” Why is it wrong to point out that that makes absolutely zero sense? Women: ohh this situation is so difficult for us. Men: yeah it’s no picnic for us either. Women: OMG this isn’t about you. Male tears.	/r/MensRights	01/11/22 03:49 AM
1	Trick or treating We don’t do neighborhood cookouts. We don’t do neighborhood anything. I only know the names of one family on my block. I try to talk to neighbors but I’m pretty sure I make people uncomfortable. I have ADHD and tend to ramble and over share.	/r/MensRights	01/11/22 03:45 AM
1	Getting down to brass tacks: what oppressions DID women deal with in the past, by your estimation? I agree with you 100%. I know I fall into a trap sometimes of thinking primarily about my struggles and the struggles of people similar to me. I don’t want to downplay the issues women face in society. I don’t want to downplay the issues that don’t affect me. I still do sometimes.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/10/22 10:18 AM
5	Getting down to brass tacks: what oppressions DID women deal with in the past, by your estimation? Yeah sorry, I didn’t mean my reply to come off as an attack. I just get frustrated whenever we do the oppression Olympics of who has it the worst, past situations that don’t exist in a majority (all?) of first world countries, get brought up. If you look at atrocities committed throughout history, I think if you were to take a critical look. You would find that they are committed by the wealthy. Yes there has been shitty situations throughout history. But it always gets pointed out that it was t…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/10/22 05:18 PM
1	Getting down to brass tacks: what oppressions DID women deal with in the past, by your estimation? I would agree that those are some obvious examples of oppression women in the past faced. Those were bad and wrong. But they don’t exist anymore. How long must the son suffer for the sins of the father?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/10/22 02:51 PM
3	Which woman hasn’t been bombarded by unsolicited help from men? \| Rebecca Solnit Just remember that no matter what you do you are wrong because you’re a man. I always like to tell people the #1 rule of problem solving is figuring out why it isn’t your fault. Because then you don’t have to do anything about it.	/r/MensRights	20/10/22 10:07 PM
-1	What are your thoughts on Billie Eilish (21) dating Jesse Rutherford (31)? Because most of the comments on Twitter and Reddit have already made him gross, even predator and paedophile. Ehh I’ve always been a firm believer in the rule of 7.	/r/MensRights	20/10/22 04:52 PM
1	Henry Cavill hesitant to flirt so he doesn't get accused of sexual harrassment. Twitter then accuses him of being sexist for not flirting Remember, as men we bear all the responsibility and risk. And therefore if anything goes wrong it’s definitely your fault as a man. Make sure to compliment women. But only when they want you to. And only about the things that that particular woman wants complimented. Make sure you show interest. But only to women who are interested in you. But don’t act too interested or you will make them uncomfortable.	/r/MensRights	16/10/22 06:14 PM
1	My wife of 12 years is leaving me and taking almost all of our life savings. Not sure how much this pertains but here is my bit to contribute. Right now my wife is the main breadwinner in our family. She has thought that I have been wanting to separate. She said that legally she’d be required to still support me so that if that was what I wanted I shouldn’t stay just for that reason. I live in the US and she is not a lawyer so take this with a big pinch of salt.	/r/MensRights	28/09/22 11:54 AM
1	Feeling frustrated and confused I totally can sympathize with being busy with life. I’ve absolutely been at points in my life where I literally did not have the time and/or energy to socialize. I’m also a big believer that a society that expects you to work 50+ hours a week just to live is to blame for our collective exhaustion.	/r/MensRights	21/07/22 08:13 PM
2	Feeling frustrated and confused My hobby of choice is board games. Not sure how aware you are of it but there has been somewhat of a renaissance of board games over the last 15-20 years, with multiple thousands of games coming out every year. I enjoy the tactile bit of holding things in my hand and moving them around. I also really enjoy the social aspect of it. As far as why I text them part of it is because I enjoy playing with multiple people. My kids are pretty clever but it’s different socializing with other adults. The p…	/r/MensRights	21/07/22 06:09 PM
1	Feeling frustrated and confused My friends and I used to discuss horseshoe stuff in the past. And I super super agree with you on our oversimplification of politics. The other big problem I see is there is this big push to portray it as if we agree on 95% of things but you feel differently about one point we must be mortal enemies.	/r/MensRights	21/07/22 03:30 PM
2	Feeling frustrated and confused Ohh no my secrets have been revealed!	/r/MensRights	21/07/22 03:26 PM
2	Feeling frustrated and confused I do text them. I try to be very non committal on what I send. Simple messages like, How’s it going, or What’s been going on lately. Again they are friendly if I see them somewhere and tell me a story about why they didn’t or couldn’t reply. I try not to take it personally because I do understand people’s desire to protect themselves and the fact that it’s a lot easier to take those comfortable paths of least resistance.	/r/MensRights	21/07/22 03:25 PM