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| 225 | Quarantine has LVM telling on themselves | #JustLVMThings | likejackandsally | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 09:51 PM |
| 91 | Chris from MAFS is the perfect example of an LVM | RANT | likejackandsally | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 03:17 AM |
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| 1 | Chris from MAFS is the perfect example of an LVMThe pickmeisha flair is from arguing with mods about something just as frivolous. One of the mods commented on a post of mine from a long while ago asking why I even responded to a dude who ignored me on OLD for 3 months until he was bored. My response to the guy was something along the lines of "I'm not your on-demand entertainment." Apparently, notifying scrotes their shit isn't appreciated or tolerated and they need to do better is pickmeisha behavior. I'm unsubbed from this subreddit now and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Chris from MAFS is the perfect example of an LVMOkay, again. This has nothing to do with sexual objectification or the patriarchy. And I don’t feel like I’m missing anything from my life. It is scientific fact that people of both genders experience sexual attraction and thoughts of sex throughout the day. There have been studies that show men and women think of sex about the same number of times throughout the day. Did the patriarchy make that up? Does men watching porn also effect lesbian relationships? You are not understanding me when I sa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Chris from MAFS is the perfect example of an LVMIt is not a choice. Choosing not to sleep with someone until you’re ready is not the same as not finding them attractive at all until you have a bond with them. It’s not specifically about sex. It’s about sexual attraction, which 99.99% of the time does not end in a sexually encounter for “normal” people, but that doesn’t mean they don’t experience it. I don’t experience sexual or romantic attraction to anyone. Just like straight people don’t experience sexual or romantic attraction to the same … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Chris from MAFS is the perfect example of an LVMYou’re really asking me to rethink my sexuality because you don’t understand what I’m saying? It’s not me being selective about who I sleep with. I literally am unable to find someone sexually or romantically attractive until there is a bond with them. There is no flirting. There is no cuddling. There is no hand holding. There is. NOTHING. This has nothing to do with the patriarchy or internalized misogyny. It isn’t something I wake up every day and choose to do. Just like people don’t chose to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 09:10 PM |
| 100 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessI worry a lot about this. I have chronic health conditions that aren’t necessarily life threatening, but can be pretty overwhelming to deal with. I’ve just dealt with everything by myself. Im not sure I could handle being sick or in pain and also being heartbroken because my husband left me. At this point, I question my attraction to men because they almost all seem so vile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 03:37 PM |
| 156 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessMitt Romney is a good person. I don’t agree with many of his politics, but his actions towards people speak louder than his congressional words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 03:33 PM |
| 5 | Chris from MAFS is the perfect example of an LVMThe differentiation is I experience ZERO SEXUAL ATTRACTION. It’s not specifically sex or sexual acts. I don’t want to kiss people. I don’t want to hold hands with anyone. I don’t even want to cuddle. I feel no need for any type of physical affection. I’d actually rather not be touched. Nothing. Zero. Zip. Zilch. Nada. I have never looked at another person and fantasized about them. I have never undressed someone in my mind. I have never had any strong romantic or sexual thoughts about someone I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 11:40 PM |
| -2 | Chris from MAFS is the perfect example of an LVMOkay, so you’re saying a “normal” person experiences zero sexual attraction to anyone unless they’ve known them for several years and have a close relationship/bond with them? That “normal” people have zero sex drive unless they are in a committed relationship? Do you also think asexuality doesn’t exist? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Chris from MAFS is the perfect example of an LVMNo. Choosing not to have sex is not the same as not feeling sexual attraction. Personally, I can objectively determine whether or not someone is good looking or has a good personality, but I do not feel any sexual attraction towards them until I feel like I have a decently strong bond with them. I don’t have much of a sex drive or even think about sex much if I’m not in a committed relationship. Almost all of my sexual relationships have been with people I’ve known for several years before datin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 07:57 PM |
| 9 | Chris from MAFS is the perfect example of an LVMUgh, yes. I don’t understand why they push intimacy so much. First off, yeah they may be married, but they JUST met. Second, intimacy looks different to everyone. I’m demisexual and I think I would have a rough time on a lot of these dating shows. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 02:28 PM |
| 81 | Yup 😂I am so over men trying to “own” women with their “gotchas” and constant grilling on the most ridiculous topics. “You say you have heavy periods? Well I know for a fact that average period last 3 days, is so light you don’t even knowing you’re menstruating, and never causes cramps. You must just be doing something wrong.” Dude, I’m just trying to live my life, not win the worst prize ever on “who wants to date an incel” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 10:20 PM |
| 35 | Yup 😂Even a few hours on the weekend after a hard week is acceptable. But these kind of guys live and breathe gaming and anime. Almost like they can’t exist without it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 10:14 PM |
| 43 | Modern relationships in a nutshellThat’s why so many people are against it. UBI makes it easier for people to get out of or avoid exploitative situations. Can’t feel superior if no one is below you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 04:27 AM |
| 123 | Modern relationships in a nutshellSo true. The only time I’ve lived with a man in the last 7 years was when I had a male roommate. There was never any romantic interest. No sexual tension. Just a straight up contract and purely platonic friendship. As soon as I was making enough to move out on my own, I did. Harder to leave when it’s a boyfriend, especially an abusive boyfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 07:33 PM |
| -1 | Whenever I hear people say “sex work is real work” I assume they’re saying it from a place of non sex work privilegeSo we should just allow things to continue as is because we can’t eliminate it outright? Eliminating sex work will never happen in our lifetimes. Sex work and prostitution have been around for several millennia. It’s one of the oldest jobs in recorded history. I absolutely agree we should try to move society towards a future where sex work isn’t even an option because everyone is having their basic needs met. But we’re still fighting for women to make the same amount of money as men for the same… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 10:53 PM |
| 7 | Whenever I hear people say “sex work is real work” I assume they’re saying it from a place of non sex work privilegeIt’s fine that you disagree. I’m glad we can have a civil discussion about this. Ultimately we both agree sex work shouldn’t exist. I don’t think women should be arrested for working. Many of them are just trying to make ends meet. Why should they end up with criminal records because society has failed them? That’s why I support legalization. Second, if properly regulated and treated as an actual industry, these women would have access to worker rights that don’t currently exist for them. Especi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 08:27 PM |
| 13 | Whenever I hear people say “sex work is real work” I assume they’re saying it from a place of non sex work privilegeI made the mistake of disagreeing with porn on a post that made it to the front page. I specifically called it violence against women. I’m apparently an evangelical, quiverful, anti-sex Puritan who has bad sex and is close minded because people can’t wrap their heads around the fact that the majority of porn exists as a male fantasy in which the woman never says no. I support sex workers because I know that sometimes it’s the only way they can make money due to the way society views and treats w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 07:20 PM |
| 69 | She really predicted the future ...Yeah, said this yesterday on a post and spent several hours being called everything in the book because I said porn was violence against women. Men really don’t like being told something they like isn’t okay with all women. Because society has deemed it an acceptable type of violence, anyone who disagrees is the worst person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 02:33 PM |
| 53 | Nearly 30 and still can’t piss straight or clean up 🤢🥴If he’s that bad at it, he should sit when he pees. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Porn is ruining sex for women. So many men can't f*** properly 🤢. What's the point of being with a man that can't even please you in bed !?!Sex with someone who isn’t abusive isn’t that bad. However, I can’t stand the thought of it with 99.99% of men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 06:44 PM |
| 31 | geee i wonder whyBilly Madison is essentially about an ignorant, super wealthy man-child that refuses to grow up and then bags a super hot teacher. I think really the only recent movie that he plays an okay guy is Mr. Deeds. And I love the shit out of Little Nicky. But mostly his stuff rubs me the wrong way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 03:40 AM |
| 1 | TeeheeI completely understand. I’m about at that point where I feel like a family is more interesting to me than spending my money on selfish things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 08:04 PM |
| 3 | TeeheeIn my experience, the issue isn’t with gaming, but with maturity level. And frankly, that’s an issue with their parents. I was moderated when I was a kid by my parents. Tv, internet, and gaming were all monitored. As a result, I can set my own limits. Do I have days where I just sit down and binge a game? Absolutely. But this is rare and doesn’t affect my life and personal relationships in any way. Same with other mature adults I know lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 07:57 PM |
| 39 | TeeheeI was watching the new season of Super Nanny and she went to help a family where the dad literally played games from the time he got off from work until he went to bed, usually several hours after his wife. He didn’t do anything with the kids. She brought him dinner every night. And the only way he knew how to bond with his 5 year old was playing games, but not even together. They both had their own consoles and TVs. Jo took his games and forced him to interact with his family and the dude was o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 05:24 AM |
| 10 | And here we have NVM/LVMs who whine about paying for a first date huhI don’t have a period anymore and I still carry pads and tampons just in case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 01:42 AM |
| 14 | Words of WisdomBack in my pre-FDS days I almost always “fell in love” with the most damaged people. I thought I could fix them and they would love me for it. Trauma bonding was a form of love I thought. And now I’m like “You’re damaged goods, bye.” See a therapist. I do and I’m not ashamed of it. It’s nice not walking around as a sad, depressed, ball of anxiety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 04:18 PM |
| 18 | Words of WisdomI have a friend of mine with a LOT of past trauma and heavy baggage. He’d seen a therapist in the past and then stopped going. I was able to convince him to go back during one of his most recent rough patches and he did and continues to go and is back on his meds. Pretty sure he’s the only one I know who went that route. But yeah, I’ve found most guys see therapy as weak, which is dumb. Allowing your trauma to ruin your life is weak. Going to therapy and facing those issues and healing yourself … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 04:13 PM |
| 16 | We know, they know, doctors know. Why are they still getting away with it?I may get hate for this because I love this song, but the video for Taylor Swift’s “The Man” has a brief scene that highlights this exactly. “The man” is sitting in the park with his daughter on his phone and not really paying attention to her at all. Then he turns and pats her on the head and all the moms at the park gush over him for being a great parent. On the flip side, I also kinda feel like men who do try to be good, attentive dads aren’t supported by society. Some men’s bathrooms don’t h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 09:21 PM |
| 21 | Shut down an LVM at work who tried to treat me like his personal secretaryYes! You go girl. I work with mainly men. My direct coworkers are pretty great, but my customers usually suck. I work in IT and the number of men who try to guilt me into doing work outside my scope is too high. Support has a very specific set of things we work on and the product works in a specific way. Customers don’t like it when I tell them this so they pull the “Well I’m not sure this product is for us. We really need it to do this thing.” Or “We need this bug fixed by Friday and waiting fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 01:36 PM |
| 11 | The Audacity of some scroteaDon’t forget that whether the man is cheat or the woman is cheating or both, she’s always the home wrecker. Women will always take the blame for the failures of men and none of the glory of their successes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:09 PM |
| 10 | The Audacity of some scroteaScrotea makes them sound like an exotic, newly discovered species we need to study. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:07 PM |
| 11 | Poor womanSome instances, yeah, I can blame shitty sex ed, but in reality I think it’s young dudes not caring to pay attention about female anatomy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:33 PM |
| 78 | Poor womanMy school separated us in middle school, but I definitely learned about male anatomy and things. In high school it was part of the normal health curriculum and they didn’t separate us. Both sexes got to enjoy the trauma of the 9th grade birthing video in solidarity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 05:54 PM |
| 105 | Nothing but factsI actually had a conversation with a male friend about this. Dudes into “kinky” stuff only want to humiliate women. If a dude says he’s kinky, but isn’t okay with something like pegging, what he really wants is to dominate and humiliate his partner. Usually because he’s actually inadequate at sex or has some other insecurities revolving around women and intimacy. When I see that kind of stuff on dating profiles, it’s a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:30 PM |
| 24 | That feeling when indigenous cultures have more of a sense of gender equality than men in developed societies could ever comprehend....If men could get pregnant, abortion would be a human right and birth control of all forms would be free to everyone lol. Men are little bitches. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Always be ready to leave. As soon as you feel yourself having the scarcity mindset, remember you’re a queen and deserve peace.To each their own. Same outcome of not needing a man financially. 🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 09:22 PM |
| 6 | Always be ready to leave. As soon as you feel yourself having the scarcity mindset, remember you’re a queen and deserve peace.I plan on making 6 figures in the next 2-5 years. I’ll make plenty to live well and put into savings even if the other person is only paying half. I was in a shit relationship where 3 out of 4 years I relied on my ex to pay his share of things on time so we could keep a roof over our heads and our utilities on. He was terrible with money and I was always having to pay more than my half and then struggling in other areas. Never again. If I can’t afford the house on my salary, we don’t buy it. If … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 07:07 PM |
| 19 | Always be ready to leave. As soon as you feel yourself having the scarcity mindset, remember you’re a queen and deserve peace.This is what happened with my dad and step mom. My dad is kind of LV. Well, pretty low value if you consider how he treated my mom when she was pregnant with me. Anywho’s, he was married to my stepmom for 19 years. They had built a life together. Bought a few houses. Made large joint purchases such as cars, a nice camper, and even a small fishing boat. They were looking at buying a second home for vacations. My dad had the same job at the same company for 20 some years at that point. He was rais… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 05:11 PM |
| 13 | Actual r/wholesomememesI think the first woman on the left is assumed to be tanning or using spray tan and as she educates herself she stops tanning and being so vain. The whole comic is dumb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 10:04 PM |
| 7 | Actual r/wholesomememesI do a book club with friends and family back home. We’re all busy and all spread out geographically so we do the book discussion on WhatsApp on Sundays. Every week we have at least a few people going “I’m on <x chapter> but I’ll catch up. You can start without me!” Virtual book clubs have the same problems lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 10:02 PM |
| 7 | Butt hurtSo true! But the irony of this meme is that in these scenes Dwight is being a pick me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 06:55 PM |
| 3 | dating in 2020Is he Henry? Are you Christina? Is this what happens on the next episode of Married at First Sight? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 03:14 AM |
| 16 | I'm loving this new song from Taylor Swift's new album, Mad Woman. Major FDS vibes from the lyrics, and I'm feeling empowered through them, so I wanted to share!Several things. She’s since mended her friendship with Katy Perry and hasn’t publicly feuded with other female entertainers in the last few years. She’s more outspoken about the things she cares about against the advice of her PR team. A few years ago she came out about being groped by this popular DJ who then sued her for defamation. She countersued for a dollar to make a point and tell her story and won. She’s been very public about a Scooter Braun owning her older music and profiting off her … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 01:19 AM |
| 7 | It’s not worth it in the long runI have a friend who does fetish porn and is generally successful. Specifically her being a dom. It’s strange being able to see all of the bullshit that goes into it behind the scenes. The high maintenance upkeep and pressure to always look good. The makeup. The hair. The nails. The outfits. Money for photo shoots. Money for convention. Traveling all over the place. It’s a stressful business. She works WAY more than I do for about the same pay off. Less so if you account for how much money she sp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 02:34 PM |
| 12 | 'Ouch my ego'My scrote ex completely stopped his personal hygiene about a year and a half into our relationship. He would bathe maybe once a week. Started smoking. Stopped brushing his teeth. Of course our sex life died because he smelled horrible and I was just grossed out when he touched me. When he asked why I wasn’t interested anymore I told him “I’m a little offended by your lack of hygiene. Is there something going on that we can work on to get it back on track?” His response was “I can’t believe you t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 05:59 PM |
| 9 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?So many terrible comments. I was made fun of well into adulthood by both men and women for the gap in my teeth. Didn’t really bother me, but I got braces anyway so I could look more professional. I had one guy I was barely friends with in high school tell me I wasn’t ugly, but I wasn’t anything worth looking at either. I was plain and there was nothing special about me. I’m still trying to learn to love myself but that particular conversation comes back to me on occasion. My first serious boyfri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 05:19 PM |
| 7 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?I have a vein that runs across my cheek just under my right eye. I get asked all the time if I have a black eye and it bothers me some. But I have nice skin so fuck ‘em. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 04:53 PM |
| 29 | If you are a woman, DO NOT join the military! They don’t give a fuck about you, and the men there pray on women and get away with it.My niece and I just had this conversation a few days ago. She lived in Fort Hood for a few years because her ex husband was enlisted. I enlisted way back in 2009. The military draws in people from pretty shitty circumstances, which means you’re not exactly getting the best of the best. When I served, mostly everyone was joining because we couldn’t find jobs. There were some who were there for the health insurance and education benefits too because they had families. Almost all of us were under 2… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 05:36 PM |
| 49 | If you are a woman, DO NOT join the military! They don’t give a fuck about you, and the men there pray on women and get away with it.It’s the same for officers. Especially since their ranks carry so much more power. I’m not sure I’d want to join an organization where the enlisted ranks were raping women even if I was “safe” being an officer. The women you command aren’t safe and no ones listening. Isn’t that bad enough to not join at all? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 05:26 PM |
| 14 | If you are a woman, DO NOT join the military! They don’t give a fuck about you, and the men there pray on women and get away with it.Yeah, when I read he was an E-4 I was like “all that over literally nothing?” You don’t even have to work to get that rank. Just exist for 2 years. Not that a higher rank would excuse what happened, but damn. Ruin your whole life over an E-4?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 05:16 PM |
| 12 | Struggle is realLuke P. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 05:14 AM |
| 6 | It's getting more expensive for scrotes to use women for sexNot dating wise. It was just fun to be a mod. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 05:57 PM |
| 5 | It's getting more expensive for scrotes to use women for sexThe only reason I kept my OKC account for so long is that they made me a community moderator. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 02:41 PM |
| 11 | Truth! We don’t have to put up with nonsense!Single going on 4 years now, and even that relationship only lasted a month. I’ve done some great things with my life during that time. Relationships aren’t even currently part of my 5 year plan. And with adoption, I don’t even need a man to be a parent. So...🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 02:16 PM |
| 31 | This has to be one of my biggest pet peeves. Do not allow a man to make himself feel superior by explaining your business to you. This is a form of negging to catch you off guard and make you doubt yourself. You know what's up, so put him in his place.I work in high level technical support and I’m about to finish my degree in cyber security and information assurance. I’ve been doing this job for 10 years and you’d think I’d be used to the blatant sexism by now, but no. I’m still surprised. I’ve had male customers refuse to work with me because I’m female. I’ve had male customers ask for a lead or senior technician and watched them eat crow when I told them I was a lead technician. I’ve had men yell at me “I don’t work for you. I don’t have to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 02:52 AM |
| 24 | This is lovelySimilar situation, except all my family are in the same country. My sister is much older than me. She turns 50 this year and has custody of her grandson. Her whole life she’s looked for a way to have someone take care of her so she wouldn’t have to work. Now she’s getting older, has little marketable skills and only a GED. She doesn’t have any money in savings and nothing for retirement. I, however, took my success and general life comfort seriously and make more than the average household incom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 07:12 PM |
| 32 | This is lovelyI buy double of things. One nice set for myself and one cheap set I don’t care about. You need a pen? Take one of these .50¢ pens, not my good ones. Handing out baked goods? It goes in the cheap dollar store Tupperware. Keep it. People staying over? Here’s the cheap travel size amenities. Take as many as you like. You want a snack? Here’s a shelf/drawer just for you. But I never, ever share books, food I’m currently eating, or clothes. Those are hard no’s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Preach it!K. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Preach it!Okay cool. I’ll stop living my life the way I want and live it the way you tell me I should. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 04:54 AM |
| 4 | Preach it!So let me get this straight: On a reddit that’s focused on building women up and finding themselves and their worth in themselves, I’m in the wrong for saying that it’s anti-feminist to live my life according to my self-actuated wants and needs and feeling and beliefs and desires and not have another person tell me how to be a woman? I have no qualms about how you or OP want to live your lives. You are doing what makes you feel secure in your identity. I don’t care if OP shaves all their hair of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 03:59 AM |
| 8 | Preach it!How is something I like a lie? Are you saying that as a woman I have no real idea what I like because a man has told me to like it? As if I don’t have a sense of self or independent thoughts and feelings of my own. That’s almost anti-feminist. You don’t get to tell me how to feel or what to like just because you’re also a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 03:34 AM |
| 9 | Preach it!Why can’t someone do something they enjoy? I don’t give two shits about a man’s opinion of me. But I like the way my eyes look when I put on mascara. I like to create fun looks with eye shadow. I paint my nails so I don’t chew them. I shave my legs because I like having smooth skin. I do my hair because I like the way it looks after it’s dried and fluffed. I like looking good for my own damn self. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 03:27 AM |
| 15 | The audacity. THE AUDACITY!You shouldn’t have to tell someone to be a decent person, haha. How are all these men just walking around wasting space and wasting our time? I don’t expect you to be a millionaire or have aspirations of being rich, but some motivation to do something other than sitting on your mom’s couch smoking weed and working part time would be nice. Or like, bathing at least every other day and brushing your teeth like a civilized person. Wear deodorant. Wash your clothes. This is very basic level hygiene.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 05:29 PM |
| 17 | The audacity. THE AUDACITY!It’s weird, right? Like, these are basic standards. How is it so hard to find someone who meets those?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 05:18 PM |
| 82 | The audacity. THE AUDACITY!And here I am with standards like: Bathes regularly Treats me like a person Has a job and pays for his own stuff Has some iota of ambition and motivation The bar is low, but also weirdly high. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 03:37 PM |
| 6 | LmaooooHoly shit! I just searched Glassdoor and I did not realize a pharmacist made that much. But it definitely makes sense with all of the education they have to have and the responsibility that comes with the job. Damn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 01:35 PM |
| 66 | Major makeup brand posts this on Facebook with the caption “hey, at least it’s the thought that counts??”. Chaos ensues in the comments.During the summer, every dinner we had was made on the grill. My dad is a decent griller and an okay cook. He didn’t rely on my step-mom to wait on him hand and foot. But he couldn’t grill without his beer and he paid me 25¢ for every one I grabbed for him. Some weekends I could score a couple bucks worth in beer delivery, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 03:46 PM |
| 6 | This guy sent a DM complimenting a picture of mine. I said thank you and I appreciated it, then he jumps to this... no thanks bud!Right? You want to settle in to a relationship where I pay half the bills, clean the house, fund half the vacations, do at least half the work, give you sex, and maybe ruin my body to have your children, but you aren’t willing to sign a piece of paper that gives me legal protections if you decide to leave? HAHAHAHA Nope. I feel bad for the poor bastard that does end up with me. I want a pre-nup. No way am I going to work my ass off my whole life just to have a scrote claim he’s entitled to half … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 01:07 PM |
| 20 | This guy sent a DM complimenting a picture of mine. I said thank you and I appreciated it, then he jumps to this... no thanks bud!And every single one of them answer the question “Do you want to settle down and get married?” with “settle down yes, get married no”. To me that says “I may want to be in a long term relationship with you to reap the benefits, but I don’t want to commit.” And my age range is 25-35. I deleted my OLD profile last week and it’s been nice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 04:36 AM |
| 14 | I hate this channelI absolutely LOVE this movie. It’s so well done and it’s such an accurate downward spiral of woman with promise throwing her life away for a shitty dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 04:08 PM |
| 27 | I hate this channelThe only one I can think of where this is even considered is Always and Forever, Lara Jean. It’s the third book is the “To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before” series by Jenny Han. Peter gets into UVA and Lara Jean doesn’t. She gets accepted to William & Mary and UNC (which are both still great schools). She decides to go to UNC and he wants to transfer, but his mom steps in and basically tells Lara Jean she’s ruining her son’s life. And that’s literally the only one I can think of where the boyfrien… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 04:05 PM |
| 2 | For real though:The saving grace to all of this is that I love my company and my coworkers. My previous company, the one I was fired from, was stressful and I was so relieved to be let go. No one I worked with liked me. They were all out for themselves and tattled on literally everything you did. My new job is fantastic. They go above and beyond to make sure their employees are taken care of. I have yet to be told that I’m being too blunt or rude. In fact, we have a group meeting at the end of my day where ever… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 06:32 PM |
| 3 | For real though:This is so relatable. I just went through something at work that made my blood boil. I work in technical support. My customers are technical people. Twice in about 3 weeks I’ve had to deal with two of the most rude, condescending, mean people. They are both well known in our organization for being difficult to work with so it’s not just me taking things personally. They are both real problems. I bring up their behavior to the account manager and my manager and the complaint gets dismissed as “th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Quarantine has LVM telling on themselvesI’m not even actively looking, to be honest. This has been a passive form of entertainment for the most part. I feel like my obsession with Animal Crossing is far more concerning, hahaha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 05:26 PM |
| 7 | Quarantine has LVM telling on themselvesI try to actually start a conversation. I hate the generic “Hey, what’s up” or “You’re attractive. How you doin’?” So I try to avoid it and find something in their profile that interests me that we can have a conversation about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 04:10 PM |
| 10 | Quarantine has LVM telling on themselvesI didn’t state anything about being a queen. I said I wasn’t entertainment on demand. That’s a pretty low threshold for respect. I didn’t “keep” the conversation. I’d forgotten about it until he answered. I’m rarely on the app. I don’t obsess over online dating. I’m not bitter, lol. I just found the situation funny. Guys are crawling out of the woodwork because they are stuck at home with nothing to do. I can’t bitter about a conversation I forgot I even started. I’m not sure why you’re trying s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 01:53 PM |
| 8 | Quarantine has LVM telling on themselvesI feel bad behavior should be called out. If you don’t feel the same, that’s okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 12:05 PM |
| 22 | Quarantine has LVM telling on themselvesRight? Like we’re too dumb to know what’s going on? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 02:15 AM |
| 10 | Quarantine has LVM telling on themselvesThanks for the reminder. I think I picked the right flair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Could you call him if you were in the hospital? If not, DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM.I get tonsil stones too. Cleaning my tongue helps quite a bit. But yeah, regular brushing does nothing for the smell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 09:40 PM |
| 25 | the absolute state of r/sex. what happened to vanilla?It’s not just that sub. Basically every dude on OKCupid (I know, I should delete my account but I don’t even use it for dating. It’s just entertaining) is “kinky” or “kink friendly”. One guy told me he was just looking for a fun, kinky time. I don’t think any of these guys actually have a kink. They just think it’s sexy and edgy. And if they do, it’s usually female degrading. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 04:41 PM |
| 6 | I saw this and thought of you lovely ladies!!I have no idea what his porn habits were to be honest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 03:35 AM |
| 26 | I saw this and thought of you lovely ladies!!Similar story with my ex. The first year we were together, was great! We spent a lot of quality time together. We communicated well. He helped around the house and was attentive and caring. It wasn't perfect, we still had arguments, but things were good enough that we had sex at least every other day, sometimes twice a day. And then he started to change. He stopped bathing regularly. He stopped brushing his teeth. He picked up smoking. He'd wear the same clothes multiple times without washing th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 12:32 AM |
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