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5

Even millennial men have fallen for this.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/26 08:45 PM
4

Millennial and Gen Z men have been brainwashed by this crap. No wonder women have opted out of dating.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/26 08:45 PM
6

You're better off without him.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/26 01:34 AM
3

You can't. Dump him.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/26 03:25 PM
5

If you're not going to stop asking, then don't be surprised wnen she turns the question on you.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/26 03:24 PM
2

You can block some of these red pill accounts so they don't show up in your feed.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/26 03:21 PM
31

That's funny, because most men don't even take care of themselves and it shows in THEIR 30's.
/r/seduction14/04/23 11:56 PM
1

Yes I see that. Re-read my previous comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:01 PM
0

Nope. I hope you are though. My comment was for guys in general who feel like your photo post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:59 PM
-1

No it's YOUR fault and stop blaming women for your problems. Jfc, go to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:33 PM
1

Right?! Has this sub been overtaken by incels today?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:30 PM
1

Nope. They're just sick of putting up with men's bullshit. God forbid women have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:26 PM
0

I'm agreeing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:47 PM
0

Because the men can't be bothered to get off their asses. If they do, they do a terrible job on purpose just so they won't get asked again. Why do you think there are so many posts from women on here sick of their partners bs? Edit: This is getting downvoted? Seriously? Hmmmm I wonder who it is 🙄🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:43 PM
1

They just can't handle that women have preferences and standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:19 PM
1

Right? He's just whining about putting in any effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:18 PM
1

And women want to date men who put in effort and give it their all as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:17 PM
0

Women don't want to look after a grown man. They want their partner to pull his weight in a relationship without "nagging" them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:11 PM
1

Men don't take responsibility for their actions either, they just like to blame women for their issues instead of doing something about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:14 PM
2

Then that is the man's problem if they dont want to commit. Women are happier single because they don't have a man-child chained to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:12 PM
1

It's crazy to me as well. Being fat is not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:52 AM
2

Sperm quality also DECREASES as you age. Sorry you dont like reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:53 PM
1

https://www.verywellfamily.com/does-age-affect-male-fertility-1959934#toc-peak-and-decline https://www.givelegacy.com/resources/age-limit-on-male-fertility/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:52 PM
2

20? 😅😅😅. Do you men think you're immune to aging? Guess what, you're not. 20 years literally still look like teenagers. I guess that's what you men like...women who still look like teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:40 PM
2

Show me 1 man. If both men and women look good when they get older, it's because they take care of themselves. Some look better as they get older and some don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:15 PM
1

Show the 1000 men first.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 02:38 PM
1

As usual 🙄.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:57 PM
2

It's the other way around. And if women do age like milk, it's because of the man-child she's chained to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:54 PM
1

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:53 PM
2

So tell him because you're obviously not happy with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:52 PM
14

Especially when kids come along. Guess who will be doing most of the child-rearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:29 PM
23

Honestly you should find someone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:26 PM
4

If average men get nothing, then they need to work on themselves physically, emotionally, and mentally. Again, why is it the woman's fault? We don't owe men anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:50 AM
14

Why do WE have to solve it??? Let the men solve it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:03 AM
1

If men are having trouble it's because they take terrible photos of themselves and put no effort in their profiles. I see it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:57 PM
2

I could say the same for overweight men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:29 PM
2

And what about men who still expect women to do all the cooking and cleaning in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 02:25 PM
1

Besides, wouldn't men feel emasculated if women approached them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:57 PM
2

Luckily I don't have kids (maybe someday) and my FICO score is much, much higher than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:55 AM
2

Being single is better than being in a relationship with a useless man-baby who can't wipe his own ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:38 AM
1

True.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:48 PM
2

Exactly. You can't possibly healthy for example at 250 pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:15 PM
2

I feel the same way, only with men. I am not attracted to someone who is unhealthy and doesn't take care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:13 PM
-1

Well then, work on yourselves to be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:36 PM
5

They call it fat acceptance or healthy at every size. They are fucking delusional if they think they're healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:32 PM
3

Because they get tired of not being listened to, appreciated, tired of doing everything around the house etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:42 PM
1

I mean, if they're out of shape they can always do something about that.
/r/seduction07/10/22 03:06 PM
8

Well it's time that the men step up and pull their weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:48 PM
1

Unfortunately not all men are like your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:13 AM
2

Most of the time the cause of divorce actually is their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:11 AM
9

The older the men get, the worse they look as well since they don't take care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:53 PM
1

You asked me what I meant by playing mommy. The insecure part is your issue .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:31 PM
2

As in cleaning up after them, doing all the chores, cooking, you know, everything a mom does around the house...scheduling doctors appointments, holidays etc...while the guy does nothing because he expects his partner to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:24 PM
1

Women don't want to play mommy to their partners. Also, maybe you should consider therapy to help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:04 PM
2

Same with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:25 PM
1

No, there's more but that was all I could think of. Some parents don't teach their sons basic life skills, that's why i mentioned those.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:44 PM
3

Doing everything that his mom used to do for him...cooking, cleaning up after him etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:13 PM
3

I wish, but most men can't handle a simple rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:09 PM
3

Well they need to get their eyes checked lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:53 PM
5

Men age better? 😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:36 AM
2

Sorry, but why didn't your husband do anything to handle the kids?
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/22 05:58 PM
24

When someone is drunk, that's when the truth comes out.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/22 03:06 AM
3

🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:52 PM
10

Don't forget there's bloating, breast soreness and swelling, lower back pain, irritability, cravings. And if you have endometriosis? Forget it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:18 PM
6

And what about men in their 40's with receding hairlines and beer bellies who think they can get a woman in her 20's. They're delusional as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:48 PM
12

You're kidding right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:10 PM
13

Have you considered that maybe it's just you and not them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:07 PM
1

Or how about no?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:39 PM
2

Women don't cause their problems. Men do that all on their own and instead of taking responsibility, they just blame women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:46 AM
–

Or how about men stop blaming women for their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:24 AM
5

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:29 PM
0

That's your problem then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:15 PM
-1

Omg how old are you? 40? 50? Get some therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:12 PM
0

Omg how old are you? 40? 50? Get some therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:12 PM
0

Ah yes, it's the women's fault 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:01 PM
1

Grow up
/r/seduction08/07/22 03:56 PM
0

Finally someone said it 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:04 PM
2

2 months is no where near enough time to fully know someone.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/22 04:34 PM
2

I'm in NYC
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:07 PM
-2

Seriously???? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:38 AM
0

I meant to say emotional labor, household chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:40 PM
-2

True
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:10 PM
-1

I think he/she means that most of the labor falls on women when they get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:48 PM
5

And unfortunately men like that don't want to put in the effort to improve themselves, so they take out their frustrations on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:42 PM
8

I'm just 2 years away from 35. Seriously wtf is wrong with men like this? It's not like they age well themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:14 PM
2

Because he got what he wanted.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/22 02:57 AM
2

Because they get sick of their crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 07:59 PM
2

Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:21 PM
2

I'm pissed about this too, but its a rough draft. It's not final and I hope it won't be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:17 PM
12

I bet the waitress hates it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:25 PM
10

They're basically another child.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:15 PM
2

Because they're tired of putting up with their husband's crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:15 PM
-1

And a man having a high count is fine??? What a bunch of crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:47 PM
9

If you have to be this toxic and manipulative to get a woman then don't. Get a damn therapist first.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 11:43 AM
2

👏👏👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:04 PM
3

And if you can't handle rejection, its your own issue. You might want to look into therapy. Most women have to be on guard when cold approached. We are not mind readers and have no idea what you will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:01 PM
8

Sometimes I do see men that I would be attracted to. But almost never on OLD sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:40 PM
1

True, but they shouldn't be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:26 PM
4

So it's fine if a man has been with many women??? I'm sick of these double standards. It's also none of your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:04 PM
2

I was born and raised in the US. My ethnicity is Greek. But on the greek site that I mentioned, you get greeks from all over the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:26 PM
1

Lol and my mom wonders why I haven't been on a date yet. I should just delete my profile for a while and try again later on. Plus, I'm not even attracted to most of the men on there. I mean really, how hard is it for men to make an effort to take better photos, clean up and write something????
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:21 PM
1

Same. I make sure my pictures are good and I fill out my profile. Some guys either don't bother to fill it out, or they'll write "just ask" 🙄. On a greek dating site, I had one guy message me saying if I'm into African American men and that he was not African American himself. I messaged back saying how am I supposed to know that when you don't even have a photo? Honestly....I can't. On POF, I changed the message settings to where you have to write a certain number of words because I got so sick…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:10 PM
2

Unfortunately those ARE the kind of pictures that they use on dating sites. Or, some don't put a picture at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:38 PM
2

Actually, women do care about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:45 PM
3

Most millennials are in their 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 11:49 PM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 02:39 AM
1

Try to improve yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:54 AM
1

Hell no. I think a one and done will be enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 05:31 PM
1

You're not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:33 PM
14

Misogyny-dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:20 PM
8

Dude....get some therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:15 PM
7

No she shouldn't have to. He's a grown man and I'm assuming he doesn't have a social phobia. He can figure out food shopping for himself. It's not difficult.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 10:39 PM
2

Men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:49 PM
7

And I wish that men would take better care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:18 PM
4

True...maybe those are just her preferences 🤷‍♀️. I'll agree though that hygiene and maintenance are a must. You can't walk around looking like a slob.
/r/seduction31/01/22 09:43 PM
4

Basic hygiene and maintenance is too much? Seriously?
/r/seduction31/01/22 09:28 PM
1

Only if you marry a man-baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:30 PM
2

Sometimes, older men find it easier to manipulate younger women, because they know that women their age won't put up with their behavior. I said this before, if this guy doesn't tick ALL of your boxes, don't bother. I mean, is it really worth it? Find a man closer to your age and who ticks all of your boxes.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/21 12:29 AM
1

I'm guessing it's because women his age can see right through him. I agree with you, there are definitely red flags.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/21 11:44 PM
1

I think you should find someone who ticks all of your boxes. Don't settle.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/21 11:43 PM
2

These women are also jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:40 PM
1

Because misery loves company
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:39 PM
1

Thats because the men who say this dont look too great themselves. I've noticed men age worse than the women because they don't take care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:25 PM
2

Lol wtf 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 12:14 PM
1

Oh right, because god forbid women have standards 🙄😒. Did you ever think that it's because they're tired of being treated like crap from most men? No, of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 11:52 AM
1

Exactly. This is what most people don't understand about FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 11:48 AM
1

I'm entitled???? Have you seen what men are like??? And I am trying to improve myself...I lost 4 pounds SO FAR. I still have more to go. Asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 05:09 PM
2

If I'm not attracted to someone, I'm not going to waste my time. It wouldn't be fair to the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 11:05 AM
1

Ok first of all, I don't want to date other fat people because I'm not attracted to them. Second of all, I am trying to lose weight for health reasons. I lost 4 pounds so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 11:04 AM
0

To be honest, I never thought about dating before. I only made a profile because my mom made me and she is sick of being asked when am I going to start dating. On my 32nd birthday which was in April, my relatives in Greece asked my mom when am I going to find a boyfriend already. I'm focusing on finding another job that pays better and losing weight for health reasons. I still have so much shit to get in order. I would love to find someone one day and make a family, but not right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:41 PM
0

Maybe I just need to try something different like Meet-up. My mom has told me everyone thinks there's something wrong with me because I haven't shown an interest in anyone yet. Or they all think I'm lesbian, which I'm not. BTW, my parents are also divorced and she was not happily married.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:28 PM
1

Absolutely nothing, but I just prefer men closer to my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:17 PM
5

And my mother wonders why I haven't found a boyfriend yet 🙄. I'm trying online dating and it is a complete shit show. I'm not attracted to most of the men around my age (32) on there. If that isn't bad enough, I get attention on there from men in their 40's-70's. Let's not forget they guys who use group only photos, blurry photos, far away photos and group only photos. Plus, a lot of them don't fill out their profile and only write "just ask".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:01 PM
2

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:40 PM
1

Unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:08 PM
1

I want to be happy with a guy who pulls his own weight and not dump all of the responsibility on me. I don't think that's too much to ask. I am NOT going to mother a grown man. Why should men get away for acting helpless just so their partner would do all the work?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:58 PM
1

No how about men actually step up to the plate and help out as well? Hmm? Why should everything fall on us?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:13 PM
1

They screw up the chores on purpose just so their partner would them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:46 AM
1

Neither can men and they still expect us to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:45 AM
1

No women today thinks like this, so I don't know where you get these statements from.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:42 AM
2

The guy can also get off his ass and help out too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:40 AM
2

Her cleaning skills are not up to par? How about he gets off his butt and help out? Or how about HE learns how to cook? He won't and you know why, because his mother did everything and he expects the same from his partner. He's in for a rude wake up call when he realizes most women won't put up with that. What woman wants to play "mommy" to a grown man?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:39 AM
2

Damn you sound bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:28 AM
2

That's his problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:25 AM
2

Exactly 💯. Women don't want to deal with a man-child.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:03 AM
10

Exactly. I don't why everyone is complaining about this. For the people who are complaining, men especially, should take a look at themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:59 PM
1

Are you serious??? Do you know how rude and dismissive you sound?
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/21 11:44 PM
14

Exactly 💯. God forbid she has standards. Meanwhile, the men complaining want a girlfriend who looks like a model 24/7 yet they won't make an effort to change themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:15 PM
3

Yes. That is the whole point of that sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 08:23 PM
1

The same goes for men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 05:56 PM
1

Because of their girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 02:13 PM
1

That's horrible. What do they call unmarried men over 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 03:12 PM
2

I've noticed that even European men look better than American men because they take care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 03:10 PM
7

Oh wow. Yes they are hypocrites. Yes to answer your question, yes I am white.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 09:48 PM
8

That's true. On dating profiles I've seen a lot of men 30+ look terrible for their age. Men in their 40's and up look at my profile. Some send me messages thinking I'm attracted to them. Nope. Sorry. I prefer men in my age group. Some older men are delusional in messaging a younger woman thinking she'll find him attractive. In my case, I took care of my skin in my 20's, plus it's also genetics. My parents are in their 60's and don't look it. They barely have any wrinkles. But, there are also men…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 09:39 PM
6

That's if they don't take care of themselves. I'm 31F and people always guess my age wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 08:31 PM
3

Ok yeah that is a bit much. I saw on tv once, that a woman split up with her boyfriend or fiance during COVID lockdown, and married herself instead. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-9219111/Woman-35-marries-breaking-boyfriend.html
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 01:27 AM
0

Seriously, have you actually read through that sub at all??? Most of it is women who are tired of putting up with crappy behavior from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 12:05 AM
5

They should, but they don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 07:35 PM
15

Do you even know what the whole point of the FDS sub is???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 07:33 PM
1

Well if they don't want to date below average men, then they need to work on losing the weight and improving themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 04:03 PM
2

I'm sorry, but those women are insane and delusional. I doubt ANY man will want a woman like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 04:00 PM
2

That's true..some women resort to plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:49 PM
2

Men's fertility also declines, not just women. I'm also 31 but I do not look it. I often get mistaken for early-mid 20's. Same with you, it's also because of genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:48 PM
3

Definitely. I agree with you. Of course not all men age horribly if they take care of themselves, but a lot of them don't and they wonder why women don't want them.then. I feel like these men tell women they hit the wall so they can scare them into settling. I'm still single, but there is no way I'm going to settle for a man like that. I would rather stay single, rather than be miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:10 PM
3

These are the same type of men that say women hit "the wall" at 30 (which is absolute bullshit). Meanwhile, they most likely have beer bellies and receding hairlines. I'm 31F and have seen men start to age horribly in their 30's so who are they kidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 02:16 PM
6

I agree and neither does an out of shape lazy man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 03:12 PM
9

Because their mommies do everything for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 12:10 AM
2

I'm not sure if this applies here, but I've noticed that with the older generation where the wife passes away first and the men don't know how to do anything, because their wives did everything for them. Of course, it was a different generation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:13 PM
3

Lmaooo these men need to take a look in the mirror.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:06 PM
40

Also god forbid you're not married by 30 or you'll "end up on the shelf". I'm 31F and never dated and my mom tells me "people think there's something wrong with you". I've seen a lot of posts on here about men, and to be honest I'm a little scared lol. I don't want to settle and be miserable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:33 PM
3

Yup. Thank god times have changed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:31 PM
16

I hate that saying. Unfortunately a lot of women from older generations say it as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:29 PM
1

All true, but keep in mind it's set in a different time when women didn't have many options.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:26 PM
30

Lol I'm 31F and get mistaken for early-mid 20's. In my mid 20s I worked weekends at a real estate office and people asked me if I was in school 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 08:49 PM
2

That's true because when I look at some of these profiles I see the age and when I look at the photo, I'm like there is no way you're that age. Hell, I don't even look 31. I constantly get mistaken for early-mid 20's. My parents are 63 and don't look it. My grandmother was 81 when she passed and didn't even look it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 02:00 PM
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Sometimes they will put up a photo of themselves with their friend as a main photo and I always think to myself, please let it be the attractive one..then when I look at his other photos and see that it isn't, I'm like oh crap lol. Or when they have kids in their photos and don't specify who they belong to. I don't want to date someone with kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 04:01 AM
5

I'm 31 and have seen men my age on dating sites look awful as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 12:31 AM
3

What is it with the bathroom selfies???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:25 PM
22

Or when his only picture is a group photo and he doesn't specify which one he is. Also when it is a group photo and its almost always the least attractive one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:23 PM
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He's the one who should be embarrassed. I've never been in a relationship or dated, but if this is what's out there, I would rather remain single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:14 PM
2

American too-I honestly wouldn't care if they didn't greet me. I'm there to get what I need and leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 09:57 PM
2

94?! She looks great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 06:46 PM
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Also, a lot of these men don't even age well. I'm 31F and constantly get mistaken for early-mid 20's. I've seen men my age on dating websites and I have to say, most of them aren't looking too good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 05:11 PM
3

And they say women hit the wall. I'm 31F (I look younger) and I've seen men my age look absolutely horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:26 PM
8

His friend should have dragged his ass back to their table or out the door.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:52 PM
9

Or god forbid a woman is 30 and unmarried.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:43 PM
8

I know right?! Honestly mothers that raise their sons to be man-babies means their future girlfriend/wife will have to deal with this crap. I hope she dumps him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:32 PM
3

Same 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:58 PM
2

I have that unfortunately.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/20 04:34 AM
73

I'm introverted as well. I don't even like telling restaurants its my birthday if I go out to one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 02:41 PM
8

Ugh, WHY are men like this?! My mom also had to mostly deal with everything.. They are divorced now but for different reasons. My biggest fear is ending up with a man-child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 01:59 PM
1

Thats true. Sometimes I look at my grandparents generation where tbe women took care of domestic work. If the wife dies first, its as if the men are helpless because their wives did everything for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:47 PM
1

Lmaooooo 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Omg I would love to know what you told her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:09 PM
11

Exactly. Maybe they don't like that you're happy and have standards. I've never dated, but I certainly wouldn't want a man-child either. I have standards as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:37 PM
24

Don't your coworkers have anything else to do??? Maybe they are jealous of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:19 PM
40

Sorry but I disagree. Yes personality is important, but for me I also want to be attracted to the guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 04:32 PM
1

That's what I'm doing now because I'm desperate to get this weight off. I also have a fatty liver so that gives me extra motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 11:30 PM
6

I'm 31F and haven't dated yet. People have been asking my mom why I'm still single. My mom actually told me that they think I'm gay or that there is something wrong with me. My mom told me she cries out of frustration at night because of this. She tells me to download dating apps and I do. The thing is after download them she will ask daily if there is anyone interesting on there or if I checked it. After a while it starts to feel like a chore. She asked me last week "your friends and cousins ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 07:30 PM
2

I guess they only remember what is important to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 05:49 PM
3

Or a doctor's appointment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 05:39 PM
1

For now I am happy being single, but I also dont want to grow old alone. I will start to date when I feel comfortable. She also told me that she sometimes cries at night out of frustration because people asked her why I haven't found anyone yet (that's where they think I'm gay or theres something wrong with me comes in).I know she means well and wants me to be happy and I dont want her to cry, but I'll do it when I feel ready. She asked me "don't you feel anything when you're friends and cousins…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:06 AM
4

My mother is so frustrated with me that I haven't dated or found someone yet...because she tells me people think that either I'm gay, or that there is something wrong with me. That does not make me feel good at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 08:48 PM
5

They didn't know their own kids birthdays?!?! Wtf?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 08:44 PM
2

I remember when I was in high school, I had a 20 year old in my 9th grade biology class.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 02:35 PM
1

I agree it looks stupid, but at least the vape smells better....I can't stand the smell of cigarettes either or pot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 07:54 PM
10

I know...it looks absolutely horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 07:51 PM
2

Lol thank you!!! Seriously what are they thinking???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 01:40 AM
2

Since I'm 31, I prefer men between 30-33 or 34 at the most. I'm sure I'll get told to expand it, but that is just my preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 01:37 AM
1

Lol and women are told they hit the "wall" when they turn 30. It's as if we shrivel up. I look like I'm in my 20s than 31.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 01:28 AM
1

Lol definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 01:22 AM
1

It's funny how they dont tell men they hit a "wall" when they turn 30. Meanwhile a lot of men my age from what I've seen on dating websites dont really take good care of themselves...I've seen men in their 30's use old pictures for their profile. As if i cant tell lol. I'm 31 but i often get mistaken for early-mid 20's. My parents are in th their early 60's but dont really look it. Oh and when I do get views and likes from men my or near my age, I don't find them attractive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 01:07 AM
1

Really? I'm 31F, but I get views and likes from men in their 40's all the way up to 70's. I have NO interest in those age groups. I prefer men my age or close to my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 11:57 PM
2

I'm 31F, but I prefer men my age or near my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 11:55 PM
1

I am not interested in men from any of those decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 11:48 PM
2

You know it's funny, I'm 31 but I always get mistaken for early-mid 20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 11:12 PM
1

Unfortunately that's true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 11:09 PM
1

It's funny how they dont say this about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 11:06 PM
0

So because a woman turns she hits a "wall"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 10:56 PM
2

I set my age preference between 30-34 (I'm 31F) and for some reason I attract men between 40's-70's.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 09:43 PM
1

I'm 31F and I set my age range between 30-34. For some reason I keep attracting men in their 40's, 50's, 60's and 70's. I am NOT interested in men from any of those decades. I'm really getting tired of it. Oh and when I finally get someone within my age range they are not my type, use a group photo, or use an old photo...ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 09:25 PM
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