lilacillusions Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	2nd date - suggest we smoke a joint at my place then go for sushi. She asked to meet at restaurant.. step back or no? You have to realize meeting a man at his place for a 2nd date is a huge red flag to women. If someone says that, we interpret it as: he doesn’t ever plan on going to the second location. Many men say let’s meet at my place with no intention of doing anything else (like leaving for sushi). Also, it’s a safety issue. She’s met you once before.	/r/seduction	01/07/25 02:53 AM
6	pretty much finished my testing of 3 Pickup artists. I remember my boyfriend and I were at a club in Berlin and saw Todd V with two men trying to pick up women lol. They hit on my friends and my friends said they were acting insanely disingenuous and very corny. Best thing you could do for yourself is to just learn to talk to people and get over the fear of women. Start thinking of women as the rest of the population. Striking up normal conversations with women and practicing that with no intention behind it will help.	/r/seduction	08/06/25 04:13 PM
1	Some girls are not into cold approaches, and that's ok I def agree, there’s a time and place. The whole “day gaming” thing tho is literally terrifying to me as a woman tho lol. Like I’m shopping at target leave me the f alone. I agree with your sentiment on striking up conversations, but the thing is is that as a woman it’s pretty obvious to you when a man is talking to you for one reason and one reason only (outside of a club/bar setting where it’s more acceptable). Like imagine how creepy it is when you’re out in public in the day and someone rand…	/r/seduction	04/06/25 11:02 PM
3	Some girls are not into cold approaches, and that's ok Yeah but you guys need to get out there and change that. Join a class, get involved in your community somehow, etc. Best thing you can do for yourself as a man seeking out women is to literally just go out and make friends. Men or women, doesn’t matter. Be friendly with people and involved in your community	/r/seduction	04/06/25 10:57 PM
16	Some girls are not into cold approaches, and that's ok Yall need to realize most women are not into cold approaches. Our minds are built like fortresses, constantly assessing threats in men that approach us. The best thing you can do is like you said actually get to know someone so that they feel safe around you	/r/seduction	03/06/25 11:35 PM
4	Girl asked for MY Instagram - Is that a good sign? Literally. Overthinking such a small interaction is playing more “mind games” than anything else. You’re essentially playing 3D chess with yourself lol	/r/seduction	02/06/25 03:33 AM
2	Girl asked for MY Instagram - Is that a good sign? Tbh the only person playing games here is you if you’re thinking this deeply about it	/r/seduction	02/06/25 03:29 AM
1	How does the 'bad boy' thing work in practice? I mean to be honest it sounds like you just don’t know or hang out with women, and the ones you’re around have anxious attachments and focus their energy towards bad men. A lot of women in media are presented like this, especially on shit like the whatever podcast. Being friends with women has a massive massive advantage for men sexually. I am NOT saying you should be trying to have sex with women that you’re friends with. I’m saying your female friends should work as a wingman. Imagine the imag…	/r/seduction	22/05/25 01:46 PM
-1	Why Women Hate Nice Guys - An In-Depth Explanation On Why You Lose Out Yeah literally. There’s actually nothing hotter to me than a guy who is kind/can logically and calmly deal with situations without becoming angry. It shows they have emotional regulation, why tf wouldn’t I want someone like that	/r/seduction	21/05/25 01:52 PM
1	Why Women Hate Nice Guys - An In-Depth Explanation On Why You Lose Out Dude we absolutely don’t think being nice is weak, only a man would think that LMFAO	/r/seduction	21/05/25 01:50 PM
0	Why Women Hate Nice Guys - An In-Depth Explanation On Why You Lose Out I was about to strike you down but you couldn’t be more right. We can literally sense someone trying to have sex with us within a split second. Very obvious when someone is being disingenuous.	/r/seduction	21/05/25 01:49 PM
-5	How does the 'bad boy' thing work in practice? Yeah people downvote me cuz I’m a woman and this sub is filled w pickup artists so no worries. There’s a lot of interesting psychology behind this, but most of it is that some women are attracted to men like this because of traumatic upbringings or disfunctional households. It happens with men as well, but being attracted to “crazy” women, who aren’t usually criminals but are overly possessive. This is all bc of different attachment styles, mostly stuff like “anxious attachment”, so these women …	/r/seduction	21/05/25 01:44 PM
-6	How does the 'bad boy' thing work in practice? Sure but honestly a “bad boy” doesn’t even genuinely exist in real life, it’s more a fictional trope. If you want to be a “bad boy” in real life (or the type of guy women are attracted to that are labeled bad boys) it usually comes with some truly evil personality traits. There are a lot of women who are attracted to abusive men due to their own trauma, if you want to sell your soul to be that type of person then so be it	/r/seduction	21/05/25 01:21 PM
2	How does the 'bad boy' thing work in practice? Please don’t even try this it’s extraordinarily corny and if it’s not genuine (like if it’s not your real personality) women can smell it on you. Have had guys try this shit on me and I literally internally cringed bc I knew what they were doing. Literally the best thing you can do is literally be friendly.	/r/seduction	21/05/25 01:11 PM
3	slept with my friend's sister People who care are so weird	/r/seduction	19/05/25 03:56 AM
3	I have a very close female friend but, I really want us to have a casual sexual relationship. ……right….	/r/seduction	10/05/25 09:19 PM
15	I have a very close female friend but, I really want us to have a casual sexual relationship. Why casual sexual relationship?	/r/seduction	10/05/25 03:21 AM
1	Some girls are just really shy don’t take it the wrong way Just because you’re shy doesn’t mean she rejects him. I promise she would have been just as shy if not more so if he was this so called “6’5 Australian guy”. You guys have such a warped view of women you think we aren’t capable of normal human emotions and actions in the same way men are.	/r/seduction	05/05/25 07:30 AM
2	Some girls are just really shy don’t take it the wrong way My sister, this subreddit is full of people who hate women lol. This was absolutely a valid thing to post, don’t listen to these weirdos	/r/seduction	05/05/25 07:28 AM