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| -3 | My boyfriend called me "Mom" while we were having sex.Maybe he's been fantasizing on his mom for a long time | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/20 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Is he over her??You're right. I mean I guess I still harbor feelings. But why does his feeling for someone or the fact that he loved someone before bother me? just the fact it was all happening while I was seeing him bothers me. Now I feel stupid :( Even if it wasn't for this, I'd still be bothered by the idea that a potential S/O has loved someone before. Like I want him to never have loved anyone or else it's like I don't want love anymore. I don't know why I feel this way or why it bothers me so much. Thanks… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/20 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Is he over her??It is about me sorting this through. This actually happens a lot. If they loved someone before or still do it's a huge source of inner conflict. Why can't I seek advice here? Just because I'm not seeing him now doesn't mean I would not in the future or that my feelings are no longer. If I'm still asking then at least I still care that means it is about me I vcant believe I can't seek help or advice here especially that the feedback has helped me see that the romantic interest is in fact still pi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/20 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Is he over her??Thanks | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/20 05:06 AM |
| 0 | Is he over her??And it's been years of obsessing and he's still obessing over her like wtf is wrong with him loll like years after she f***ed all of his friends repeatedly (in his own words!) | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/20 05:03 AM |
| -1 | Is he over her??You're right. It occured to me that's what it was. He is befriending her hoping one day she would like him back. I don't think that she consciously deleted their pictures, there just wasn't any..from her perspective. They may not even have been in a relationship from her perspective. I just don't understand what makes her so attractive. She is overweight (sorry.), not unattractive but not that obviously attractive (definitely not worth the drool overall), punk, green hair, nose ring, piercings..… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/20 04:46 AM |
| -6 | Is he over her??I still like him and i want to know. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/20 01:56 AM |
| -1 | Is he over her??That would be admitting that I was semi stalking his account. I did ask him if he’s still into her he said that he’s over it. But i still see pictures of them on his IG and Fb | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/20 01:49 AM |
| -2 | Is he over her??Maybe they’re just friends and he’s just too lazy to change the name or just doesn’t care? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/20 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Any resources specifically for women in the girlfriend stage?what did you apply or changed to make it there? :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/06/20 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Can’t get over a flingWere you thinking of him the whole time you were with your fiancé? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/20 02:34 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if you respect your a man?At what point did you began to feel this way? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/20 01:46 AM |
| 1 | How do you know if you respect your a man?what I meant is shouldn't we supposed to be proud to show off someone we truly respect even if we were shallow... So hypothetically I was shallow but if I respected him I would still be really proud to show him off? So do I respect him?? .. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/20 05:41 AM |
| 1 | How do you know if you respect your a man?I wouldn't change it I just don't know if I respect him as much. I like both of those things as it is suitable for me but liking doesn't always equate respect . Or so I've learned... Which is why it's possible for guy to be attracted to and like a girl yet not necessarily respect her | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/20 05:33 AM |
| -3 | How do you know if you respect your a man?Shouldn't you supposed to be proud to show someone off even if you're shallow? | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/20 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Is he man enough?I wonder what does it mean if his friends doesn't respect him? Is he with the wrong people or is there something about him? (I've been in a similar situation where he told me his friends all took turns to sleep with a girl he liked he thought he was in a relationship with..like that totally said to me they didn't respect him and for some reason..it's really really bad..but for some reason I feel like I might have lost some respect for him because of what he told me).. And what do you mean by bei… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/20 03:51 AM |
| 10 | Final update (hopefully) - responses during changeI'm just wondering why did you get married if you don't respect each other? Just trying to undersrand | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/20 03:43 AM |
| 4 | How do you know if you respect your a man?I'm not fully embarrassed of him I'm just not sure if I'd be SO proud of him to show him Off to people I'd want to impress, for example some social circles. I'm not embarrassed of him or care what they think (I already showed his pic to family members don't care what they say) I just don't know, like I mentioned, if I'm SO proud of him that I'd show him off to some people..if it makes sense. I start to worry if he's 'show off' material and I wonder if I respect him... I'm generally a self-doubti… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/20 01:49 AM |
| 3 | How to be "fun" when you're together 24/7do you not feel comfortable being silent in general or just with him? I heard somewhere that you're supposed to feel comfortable being silent and doing nothing with the person you're in love with 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/20 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Just a tip on virginityJust to give another perspective, I was once shamed for being a virgin. Like a guy I was dating explicitely stated somewhere that he wouldn't date a virgin and that scarred me to this day and I still feel shame for being a v. These days it's almost not a good thing. lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/20 12:44 AM |
| 1 | I dumped my low-value boyfriend and things have been amazingI'm curious what did you see in him to be with him for so long :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/20 12:34 AM |
| 1 | What is considered N-Count? Just intercourse? Or any form of intimacy?Does "hook up" here mean there was never an intention of a relationship when they got together? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/20 12:29 AM |
| 1 | When he’s ‘perfect’ but there’s no intimacy—can intimacy be built?I would love to know how that works out if you decide to give it a try ! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/20 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Mental Illness and RPWAs someone in a similar situation (I'm not a therapist though), I sometimes wonder if it is possible to truly be high value if one has mental illness.. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/20 11:56 PM |
| 2 | What is your opinion on using coloured contact lenses and hair extensions?A lot of women aren't even naturally blonde so I think it's fair/ok Also think fake boobs, cosmetic enhancements etc. are so common. If they get guys like that why can't you :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/20 11:42 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on using coloured contact lenses and hair extensions?what kind of men are you trying to impress? Just trying to understand | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/20 11:41 PM |
| 2 | What do you respect the most about your man?amen | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/20 10:32 PM |
| 2 | What do you respect the most about your man?Exactly | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/20 10:32 PM |
| 5 | What do you respect the most about your man?Yea | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/20 10:29 PM |
| 1 | I've been trying to increase my femininity. I wore perfume for the first time two days ago, and my male friend commented on how nice it was.Where and how do you spray them? Skin or clothes? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/03/20 02:57 PM |
| 1 | BF Going out with female best friend on valentines dayIt definitely sounds like there's more between them. Don't be so blind...major red flag. Just saying from an outsider's perspective. You sound like are a backup for them. I would start looking elsewhere to create emotional backup for yourself. Raise your SMV and create accounts on dating apps. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/02/20 01:04 AM |
| 0 | “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn.”This is actually how I feel and how the guy I've recently been sort of seeing made me feel. It mattered while it lasted but only while it lasted and he wasn't mine, he was only mine temporarily. He's done this with other women and will wander but he was with me for the time being and for however long it might last. So in a way, he was "not mine" but was "my turn". I think that women feel differently when they are with a guy they like. For us, this cynicism is definitely learned from past burnts. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/20 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Question about sexPersonally I think that many people look weird when they're in the act (oral) and look at the man in the eye. It's just an awkward angle imo but I see porn stars do it... I guess it's about the connection and maybe the guy wouldn't mind what she looks like at that moment.. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/20 02:30 AM |
| -3 | Does anyone know if sexting counts as being "slutty" or promiscuous, and if a potential partner would mind the "N-count" on that while you are single, if you never actually hooked up with anyone for real?Isn't porn hub for videos? What if you hide your face somehow? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/20 04:26 AM |
| -3 | Does anyone know if sexting counts as being "slutty" or promiscuous, and if a potential partner would mind the "N-count" on that while you are single, if you never actually hooked up with anyone for real?And if you crop your face out?? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/20 01:53 AM |
| -4 | Does anyone know if sexting counts as being "slutty" or promiscuous, and if a potential partner would mind the "N-count" on that while you are single, if you never actually hooked up with anyone for real?Cause you're single and sometimes you want to fulfill your desires in a safe way | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/20 01:51 AM |
| -6 | Does anyone know if sexting counts as being "slutty" or promiscuous, and if a potential partner would mind the "N-count" on that while you are single, if you never actually hooked up with anyone for real?What if it includes sexy pictures etc. and it's with multiple guys and you approached them first | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/20 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone know if sexting counts as being "slutty" or promiscuous, and if a potential partner would mind the "N-count" on that while you are single, if you never actually hooked up with anyone for real?What if you're sending sexy pictures? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/20 01:49 AM |
| 8 | New here and I would really like some adviceMy mother (embodiment of everything wrong with feminism, I really really dislike her) treated me like this growing up and honestly it really messed me up. Please change your mindset. Everybody deserves a response when they talk to you. You shouldn't treat someone you love like you despise them or that they don't exist. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/20 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Seeking Dating AdviceHow come I get asked what do you do for fun or what are your career or passions all the time | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/20 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Seeking Dating AdviceIsn't clingy a bad thing? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/20 10:46 PM |
| 0 | Seeking Dating AdviceDoes he say so directly or does he give off clues or maybe you have to figure it out? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/19 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Seeking Dating Advice"Allowing him to lead even though he didn't proof himself yet makes a woman very vulnerable. So it's a big love offering. " How does one do this if you do not trust him actually? Do you pretend, even though you do not believe in his ability deep down? Isn't that disingenuine? Or do you "have faith"?? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/19 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Seeking Dating AdviceI'm curious as to what you mean by 'entered into a relationship'? :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/19 05:06 AM |
| 1 | What should I do if a guy who was pursuing me is now ignoring me?Time? GF skills, as in..?? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/12/19 05:51 PM |
| 1 | What should I do if a guy who was pursuing me is now ignoring me?What did he want? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/19 06:13 PM |
| 0 | Choosing between two men: it has never been harderI've never had luck in therapy. What did you learn that helped you so much? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/12/19 06:18 PM |
| 1 | What is one thing you've learnt on RPW that changed your life for the better?I would love to read more about this concept. Could you provide a link to the resources? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/19 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Outfit ideas , anxiety.“And ladies he didnt run when I told him I wanted someone masculine that could protect and provide for me. Mind you due to his job, he does have the means. “ Considering how things turned out, he was probably saying it to get laid this whole time. Good thing his true colors appeared sooner rather than later. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/19 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Would he rather be with her?I’m also in a similar situation where he’s still friendly with his ex-girlfriend who for some inexplicable reason, cheated on him with multiple of his childhood friends. So he ditched his friends but somehow remained friendly with her and is still in contact with her. He said that he’s moved on but I wonder if he still has feelings for her. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/19 03:26 PM |
| 1 | How does one deal with SO wanting you to play video games or be into sports?You mean they think they want someone who plays video games but in reality when a girl does that he doesn’t actually like it? | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/19 04:00 AM |
| 1 | How does one deal with SO wanting you to play video games or be into sports?The guy I had in mind specifically stated he was looking for someone (girl) to beat him at a video game named something like Smash(?). Maybe he doesn't realize he doesn't want to be beaten or maybe he's really looking for someone playful? Or he likes dominant women? But he said that he wants to be the bigger and stronger one when cuddling. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/19 05:49 PM |
| 6 | Slut shaming v slut advocating - Camille PagliaThere are no scenarios in which a woman is ‘responsible’ for a guy’s evil actions. She’s responsible for her own safety but she is not responsible for other people’s criminal actions because that’s his decision. Are you saying women who dressed a certain way and got raped or something, should go to jail instead of the evil immoral low bastard guy who raped her? | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/19 05:17 PM |
| 3 | “You’re the best girlfriend I’ve ever had”How does he take care of You? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/19 12:31 AM |
| 13 | “You’re the best girlfriend I’ve ever had”What advices did you follow? Care to share? :)) | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/19 12:48 AM |
| 4 | A situation with new guy, need advice especially from Chinese/Asian womenyes.....the only thing to do is to "stfu" and be understanding about this because he will ruin his chances for promotions and furthering his career if he pisses off his boss or doesn't build a good relationship with important people. And yes, it does include all sorts of extra office hour/non-working related activities. That's just how it is and it will not change..If you want to be a supportive gf/wife this is something you have to understand .. all Chinese women knows this and they would never… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/19 08:37 PM |
| 1 | TRP Men after break-up go back to spinning plates, what should I, as a woman, do?Can you find something soothing that's the female equivalent of what he did? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/19 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone read the book “Getting to I do?” It has lots of concrete examples on how to become more feminine and get the relationship you want!Anything regarding becoming more feminine you're willing to share with us? Haven't read it & don't have time these days unfortunately | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/19 06:40 PM |
| 23 | Has anyone read the book “Getting to I do?” It has lots of concrete examples on how to become more feminine and get the relationship you want!Can someone share some relevant tips or passages? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/19 05:21 PM |
| 5 | How does one unlearn years of feminist conditioning??Misogyny does exist though | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/19 10:14 PM |
| 1 | What are some homemaking skills one can start cultivating while still sharing apartment with someone else?Thanks will check it out! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/19 03:39 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with insecurities.Do MILFs count as attractive women men would date despite their age loll | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/19 09:16 PM |
| 2 | What are some homemaking skills one can start cultivating while still sharing apartment with someone else?Lol! But she wouldn’t eat it lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/19 06:31 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with insecurities.I just googled Marie Henein. Would you say most “MILFs” fall into that category of men who wouldn’t normally be attracted to their age group, find them attractive? Or is it something else about Marie Henein? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/19 06:30 PM |
| 1 | What are some homemaking skills one can start cultivating while still sharing apartment with someone else?She controls the garden as well and re-do whatever I did without warning.. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/19 05:54 PM |
| 1 | What are some homemaking skills one can start cultivating while still sharing apartment with someone else?She’ll take over and not let me do it. Or re-do what I’ve done. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/19 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Why am I so obsessed with people’s replies?Thanks for the insight.... do you think as women, we need men in our lives no matter what.. even if we are fulfilled otherwise... to be truly completely happy? I mean I guess cute pets and having hobbies etc. helps but doesn’t every woman still want/need a guy deep down?? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Why am I so obsessed with people’s replies?I think it does have to do with validation and also get me out of bored-ness.. sigh. Also, thanks for what you said about being disengaged with the world etc. makes even otherwise healthy people feel a certain way. I wish I could connect with other homemakers and do home making but I currently reside with my mother :(( and she’s so controlling and everything is done according to her way. I can’t arrange a kitchen, re-do bathroom etc.... :(( basically can’t fulfill my homemaking dream..I wanna ge… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/19 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Why am I so obsessed with people’s replies?Have you found someone ideal like this? I actually tried a Bumble boost trial and saw who liked me and felt like I got less fun out of it for some reason and it's an underwhelm (I became more picky I think lol). I also don't like the Bumble women message first thing, taking away the usual advantage we women have (it's created by a feminist who thinks ending misogyny in developed countries is a pressing world matter.. so go figure lol) Got cold shoulder from multiple guys I'm not even that intere… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/10/19 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Why am I so obsessed with people’s replies?Bumble and sometimes Tinder | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/10/19 01:56 AM |
| 3 | Why we should admire menNot to say that some of them are not misogynistic, but I feel like the situation for women in Western society is not nearly as bad and urgent as some feminists made it out to be. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/19 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Why we should admire menAnd how things are more difficult for them in the dating game, always have to be the chaser and often get turned down. They also have higher expectations and responsibilities in exchange for their higher "status". Their burdens are so great that some of them will go gay. So it's not all easy for them. Also, statistically, women tend to outlive men. Out of the 100 oldest people in thebworld, 94/100 of them are women. Literally like about 6 male centenarians in the world. It's not that easy to be … | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/19 12:30 AM |
| 4 | Why we should admire menAlso think about how some of them protect women and children in times of danger ahead of themselves. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/19 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Why am I so obsessed with people’s replies?How do I find out what they are? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/19 11:58 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with insecurities.What exactly are these lasting beauties and do they matter to men? Like, really?? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/19 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Regarding "older" women...Good point :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/19 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Regarding "older" women...Good to know :) some commenters are saying that these young men are only interested in bedding us but not necessarily seriously dating us or marrying us. Do you find that's the case? For some reason I think I personally am attracted to younger men. There's been some guys that were interested but who knows their true feelings about me being older lol... | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/19 04:09 PM |
| 10 | Anyone else sad about losing their looks?It does make you face a little more sunken.. but the alternative has pros and cons too | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/19 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Regarding "older" women...You would date and settle with younger women? | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/19 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Partner read my dream journal and now wants to date other women?Do you feel like he is such a catch and you don't want to loose him so you do everything to make it work? Why do you want him so much? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/10/19 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Partner read my dream journal and now wants to date other women?The part in your dream where he? hurts your leg in an escalator (pun for "escape"?) and tries to loose your phone (contacting other people?) seems to be saying that he's preventing you from escaping and cutting off contact from other people. Is he like that? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/10/19 07:38 PM |
| 3 | As a woman who doesn't want equality between the sexes, I think only ugly girls say they want equality cos they're jealous they couldn't receive the benefits that pretty girls have.Would just like to add that many feminists I see in Hollywood are not ugly at all. And these days feminism is a popular cause so... | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/10/19 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Regarding "submission"..Good to know :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/10/19 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Regarding "submission"..You're right... but at the same time you don't always decide which traits she subconsciously picks up lol... | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/10/19 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Regarding "submission"..There were more theological/philosophical/explanatory answers than concrete, real-life ones when I posted it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/19 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Regarding "submission"..I agree but there is also a sense of telling women they need to be more submissive even if it doesn't come naturally. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/19 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Should women pursue men?What kind of scammers? On dating apps? | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/19 08:42 PM |
| 0 | Regarding "submission"..Any real-life "submissive" examples? | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/19 04:52 PM |
| 0 | Regarding "submission"..It's not about having a career. What she wrote is really not what being submissive in the RPW sense at least, should be about. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/19 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Regarding "submission"..He could pay for a nanny or housekeeper and have similar efficiency | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/19 04:04 PM |
| 8 | Regarding "submission"..👍:) how does he feel about you seeing his needs as your occupation? Does he appreciate it and love you more, or? Would love to know :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/19 03:47 PM |
| 4 | Regarding "submission"..Read what she wrote. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/19 03:34 PM |
| 12 | Regarding "submission"..Agree. I don't mean to disrespect anyone but what she wrote makes it sound like she's some kind of servant. (Also, I think that she has a disrespectful and bad husband and she's just trying to roll with it for some reason thinking she's being "submissive", when it's really something else.) | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/19 03:33 PM |
| 6 | Regarding "submission"..It's almost like you willingly admit that you're not important. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/19 03:28 PM |
| 6 | I had always followed rpw philosophy but didn't know it had a name until todayHow do you come to the realization that you're supposed to "submit" to your boyfriend/husband? | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/19 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Regarding "older" women...So how can you tell the difference? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/19 12:56 PM |
| 6 | The kept woman“Oriental” is a dated term and has a racist connotation. “Asian” is better actually. Just saying. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/10/19 01:40 PM |
| 1 | How does one approach a guy she finds attractive on dating app?Men constantly get messages on the app I was using called Bumble. And they've become entitled and lazy and even stuck up. Women must to message first, that's why.. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/19 03:59 PM |
| 1 | How does one approach a guy she finds attractive on dating app?Do they have matches? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/19 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Regarding "older" women...They are consistently high ranking year after year on multiple porn sites. Definitely not in the same category as those you mentioned.. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/19 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Regarding "older" women...Are you a man or a woman? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/19 02:45 PM |
| 7 | Regarding "older" women...Isn't "cougars" a thing | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/19 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Regarding "older" women...I think it is actually | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/19 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Regarding "older" women...It's also astonishing that this question is relevant enough that people would answer and upvote. Bye | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/19 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Regarding "older" women...JAV? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/19 10:48 PM |
| 1 | I need advice!Do you truly respect him and believe that his judgement and decisions are better than yours? If not, it’s unnatural to willfully “submit” to someone as an independent adult (which is why I think it’s important to find someone you truly respect if you want the “submissive” dynamic. There are other people who have posted about submitting to their husbands even when she knew he was wrong because it makes for better marriage and she gets to be happy (or something). Search “submissive” in the search … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/19 04:53 AM |
| 1 | I need advice!I would just like to mention how can a guy not raise his own kids, leave them to other people and doesn’t want to pay child support. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/19 04:45 AM |
| 2 | "You're so sweet it makes my life so much easier"What’s “sorting out my moods”? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/19 02:44 AM |
| 1 | How does one approach a guy she finds attractive on dating app?Isn’t getting a “makeover” kind of the same as not looking anything like your ordinary day-to-day self? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/19 02:15 AM |
| 1 | How does one approach a guy she finds attractive on dating app?You mean a girl messages him, he replies back, then girl goes silent? Cause only girls can initiate a conversation there | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/19 02:12 AM |
| 2 | How does one approach a guy she finds attractive on dating app?If a guy said that to me I wouldn’t feel comfortable to actually “talk” for some reason.. like it’s kind of inorganic. Maybe the guy would feel different but I don’t know if I’m going to use that opening haha | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/19 02:11 AM |
| 2 | How does one approach a guy she finds attractive on dating app?Has it led to a good conversation though? Other than a laugh? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/19 02:09 AM |
| 1 | How to stay attractive and attract your man as you age?Thank you so much! I’m definitly looking into it!! Do you have a specific methylene blue product that you recommend? <333 | /r/RedPillWives | 08/10/19 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Should women pursue men?I think you can answer but you’re not allowed to say “I’m a guy” lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/10/19 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Can't stay in a relationship, always thinking I can find betterHow old is she? Post is deleted | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/10/19 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Can't stay in a relationship, always thinking I can find betterWhat is it? Or when is it?? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/10/19 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Should women pursue men?Not a fan..lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/10/19 08:24 PM |
| 0 | Should women pursue men?Yeah that post was partially provoked by this app I started using called Bumble that litterally forces women to make the first move and risk being rejected or ignored. So yeah, equality means equal options and choices, in that app situation, they took away that choice for women and put the burden on us and make it easy for men. That is not equality or even freedom. I've been meaning to add that specification to the answer but I saw that it was already replied. Also, this is a right-wing forum, y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/10/19 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Should women pursue men?Putting yourself in a position of pursuing someone who may or may not be interested in you, at the risk of being rejected, is not always the best situation. Especially when most guys know if he likes a girl pretty early on. If it were such a good thing to always pursue people and risk being rejected or played, why do some guys wants women to pursue them instead. Why do so many guys seem to be happy to let go of that role. Lol I feel like this is another of those feminist/leftist bs. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/10/19 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Should women pursue men?This is the Red pill, men are supposed to make the first move. It's part of the thing. They said that as women are being pushed to become more masculine, men will become more feminine. This is a perfect concrete real life example of that happening. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/10/19 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Should women pursue men?I actually ask them a simple question instead of "hi" (like hi how long have you been using this app?) on Bumble where women MUST start the conversation lol (wtf..) cause I feel that just a hi can sometimes be a little awkward (for me at least). Do you think that's ok? Some of them have replied to the question but nothing more so I disengage immediately..I realize now that a "match" means nothing lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/10/19 04:41 PM |
| 6 | Can't stay in a relationship, always thinking I can find betterJust a side note? If you feel this way about men and the advices here make you hate them more, maybe this isn't the right space for you. I don't mean that you're not welcomed here, but that they share different views and values. Most women here actually want the traditional homemaking/wife life style, etc. I feel like leftist communities may share your feelings more. This is not to say that you don't have a 'problem' in your situation, but if you seek community from like-minded people, feminists… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/10/19 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Should women pursue men?But then you're not the guy's first option, high chance he's choosing you because he can't get better and you're the only one at his door | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/10/19 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Should women pursue men?on Bumble they force women to message first.. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/10/19 05:45 AM |
| 14 | Should women pursue men?CNN, the frontline of truth.. is this sarcasm or are you for real? | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/19 05:52 PM |
| 1 | How to stay attractive and attract your man as you age?Tretinoin gave me health issues and I'm sad I can't use it anymore | /r/RedPillWives | 06/10/19 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Is it too late for me to become a good wife?Honestly, I feel like OP wants to have her cake and eat it too. There are women who have been conservative and restrained from those things all her life and then someone who has had it all want to have exactly what the 'virtuous' woman have. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/19 04:15 PM |
| 1 | How to recover your confidence after romantic rejection?Although I don’t know OP personally, you seem like a very strong and even masculine person from the way you write. Kind of reminded me of this author who wrote an article ridiculing a man she was dating who didn’t know that she was an accomplished author and kept babbling about his own writing in front of her. I don’t know, maybe you might be one of those women men find ‘intimidating’? If these men were willing to go on several dates with you, I don’t think that your looks are the issue | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/19 01:52 PM |
| – | Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & QuestionsI feel like this kind of thread rarely gains enough momentum to actually start what was intended. Also, you’d have to search and read a lot to actually maybe find the topic you were looking for. I think it’d be better to just post a new thread for each homemaking area/topic.. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/19 01:25 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop being obsessed with new messages on dating app?I wonder if I will be checking the laptop instead lol but maybe that could help! Thanks :)) Edit: They have this system where you have to swipe profiles to be able to see their messages, so if I don’t swipe often I will never see a message someone sends me.. now that I think about it, that was totally on purpose to keep people swiping and keeping them being addicted | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/19 02:33 AM |
| 2 | What is the ideal woman according to red pill ideology?Why is "one chick friend" usually fat? Why is that a thing? Cause this reminded me of someone & now I'm curious as to why lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/19 12:21 AM |
| 4 | What is the ideal woman according to red pill ideology?Why are gays friends a "no"? | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/19 12:18 AM |
| 3 | What is the ideal woman according to red pill ideology?N-count less than 5, at what age? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/19 03:19 AM |
| 2 | How to get out of the little sister/ friend zone?What kind of clothing do you usually wear? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/09/19 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Taking the Effort to Dress More Feminine WORKS!Have you seen an increase in male attention? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/09/19 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Liziqi, modern yet traditional feminine role model from ChinaMe too | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/09/19 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Mrs. MidwestMe too. She already mentioned that she reads & recommends r/skincare addict and she talked about blue & red pill | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/09/19 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Any advice for being lovesick/infatuated for someone you can't have?We're from different cultural backgrounds lol. I come from a developing country and he seems to come from a more affluent background. I could be wrong, not that it would matter that much. I still think that we're too different and that there are too much for me to adapt and learn, and I don't know if I could do it. I'm so happy to hear that things worked out for you! It goes to show that our insecurities and assumptions/convictions can be wrong. However, you did know him and I assume that you tw… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/19 07:47 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of Jordan Peterson's response to the question "why do I find small talk boring?" posted on Quora?People who decided to be social should also respect other people who do not wish to interact with people. They have the right to not want to interact with anyone and 'social' people are being entitled and oppressive of other people's rights and privacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/19 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Any advice for being lovesick/infatuated for someone you can't have?I don’t know & that’s also an assumption | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/19 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Any advice for being lovesick/infatuated for someone you can't have?No & same here actually lol. I guess I like some assumptions I have about him, like he’s this “higher up” person from a different, better world. I’ve seen plenty of people like him but somehow he gets to me... | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/19 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Any advice for being lovesick/infatuated for someone you can't have?Why do you assume that lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/19 12:48 PM |
| 5 | Any advice for being lovesick/infatuated for someone you can't have?This subred seems actually kinda helpful | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/19 03:53 AM |
| 6 | Any advice for being lovesick/infatuated for someone you can't have?Thanks! Most of the people who potentially feel the same way about me like the way I feel about him right now, are not exactly my type sometimes. I can easily dismiss most “potentials” because I’m not in a state of wanting to be in love or something, even if they’re not bad-looking. This is an odd case. He actually looks a lot like someone I couldn’t get over for like 10 years and that’s why I remember that I saw him years before. I don’t know why I’m feeling like this. He seems to be a very kin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/19 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Do men really notice how we dress and do our hair?What exactly is this feminine energy? Can you give examples?? Thx :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/19 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Is it common for women to not be attracted to masculine men even though they want to be traditionally feminine?Thanks for the comment. It's just trying to understand it and if it's common and normal, since so many women seem to be attracted to what is deemed masculine men. I'm just trying to understand it lol :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/19 04:42 AM |
| 1 | How do you feel about someone trying to look good (as we are told we should) but look significantly different without makeup?Man lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/19 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone here thought that they would never get married but ended up getting married?Have you found a wealthy husband? I've seen some young models on Youtube who quit modelling and married wealthy men & that seems to be the path a lot of beautiful girls tend to take. It's probably the good and smart thing to do | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/19 03:57 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about someone trying to look good (as we are told we should) but look significantly different without makeup?It's not the contour makeup on IG | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/19 03:55 PM |
| 2 | How do you feel about someone trying to look good (as we are told we should) but look significantly different without makeup?Do you wear makeup everyday? I have kind of similar situation... What if you don't have time to do your makeup one day and the people used to seeing you a certain way suddenly see a different person.. how do you deal with it? Some people wear glasses or something but I don't like wearing glasses | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/19 03:02 PM |
| 3 | How do you feel about someone trying to look good (as we are told we should) but look significantly different without makeup?But what if they look dramatically different without makeup and didn't have the time to do makeup one day lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/19 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Would it be a good idea to date someone who is attracted to you overall and likes almost everything about you physically, except a defining facial feature?They didn’t tell me. I noticed by the way they looked lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/19 11:27 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about Mormon women (mainstream non-polygamists)?“There is a huge focus on looks since Mormon girls are smart enough to know that guys like pretty girls.” Is this real? I thought they were supposed to be modest and not care about it.. but are pretty anyways (or something like it lol). Maybe I’m ignorant?? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/19 02:52 PM |
| 4 | Is it common for women to not be attracted to masculine men even though they want to be traditionally feminine?Never said anybody turned bi or gay, what I meant is that many people experimented or engaged in homosexual behaviour, whether they’re bi/gay or not, as a result of the push for normalization and acceptance of, even popularizing homosexual behaviour. Makes more sense? Thanks for the message & have a wonderful day! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/19 02:40 PM |
| 4 | Is it common for women to not be attracted to masculine men even though they want to be traditionally feminine?No lol I like said type of guys since I was 9 years old (as far as I can remember) | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/19 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone noticed that a lot of men seem to be preferring derrieres over busts in a woman in recent years?Why didn’t they just like butts instead | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/19 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Is it common for women to not be attracted to masculine men even though they want to be traditionally feminine?In my late 20’s... Still prefer/more attracted to said feminine-type of men. Instant turn off when I see a society-deemed-attractive masculine man lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/19 02:01 PM |
| 3 | What do you guys think about Mormon women (mainstream non-polygamists)?I’ve actually seen several Mormon women talking about being depressed/taking anti-depression med (prescribed medication is allowed in the Church I believe). Also read multiple articles about it when I was looking into it. That, plus a church released campaign about women being depressed in the church... not saying all Mormon wives are depressed. Hopefully they’re not cause I want to be like them lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/19 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Is it common for women to not be attracted to masculine men even though they want to be traditionally feminine?I don’t even know what a masculine guy or traits are to be honest. But I know that I’m not attracted to what a lot of what society deems physically masculine, like beard, being hairy, dark hair... Also.. I don’t prefer men who intentionally ‘emulate’ women, it has to be natural. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/19 01:35 PM |
| 0 | Is it common for women to not be attracted to masculine men even though they want to be traditionally feminine?Is this something more common in the West? Because I don’t believe hearing about other ancient civilizations where it’s common for men to engage in sexual behaviour with other men... which also makes me wonder if there is a higher proportion of (secretly) bisexual men among Caucasian men | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/19 01:25 PM |
| 8 | Is it common for women to not be attracted to masculine men even though they want to be traditionally feminine?LGBT push to experimentation definitely has to do with it no matter how much pro-LGBT people deny this. Thanks for the message. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/19 01:22 PM |
| 3 | What do you guys think about Mormon women (mainstream non-polygamists)?It’s this statistic I read. They have the highest anti-depression med consumption rate in the US or something like that | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/19 01:17 PM |
| 3 | What do you guys think about Mormon women (mainstream non-polygamists)?Will be checking them out! Are you interested in Mormons as well? (& how did you find so many Mormon bloggers?? I would love to follow/know more of them..) Apparently, a lot of them seem very happy and ‘perfect’ to outsiders (because they have to, cultural thing I think) but are secretly taking anti-depressants... that’s what I heard & not implying the bloggers you mentioned are that way | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/19 01:13 PM |
| 4 | Is it common for women to not be attracted to masculine men even though they want to be traditionally feminine?Hopefully so?? But I’m not that out of line I think...A lot of “straight” guys (mostly younger ones I guess) are experimenting or have engaged in some sort of homosexual behaviour these days. They would never tell you but it may happen more often than people think because of lgbt push to normalize homosexual behaviour and experimentation. It’s much easier to get action with a guy than a girl so a lot of guys who can’t get a girl will let guys give them favors etc. Sad but.. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/19 05:28 AM |
| 6 | Is it common for women to not be attracted to masculine men even though they want to be traditionally feminine?Great example! & I think that too!! Loki is my type lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/19 05:17 AM |
| -2 | Has anyone noticed that a lot of men seem to be preferring derrieres over busts in a woman in recent years?I never made a claim about it, I asked a question totally open for discussion and debate. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/19 04:57 AM |
| 7 | Has anyone noticed that a lot of men seem to be preferring derrieres over busts in a woman in recent years?“...a nice ass is something that has to be worked for, whereas you either have large (shapely) breast’s or you don’t. While not a genetic marker, a nice ass is strong evidence supporting a woman’s commitment toward being healthy and retaining their sexual attraction.” I thought men want what’s naturally good vs something women worked to change? Also, butt injection is a thing lol A lot of Instagram model (and the Kardashian’s) butts are injected and I’ve learned that a lot of women with seemingl… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/19 04:49 AM |
| -1 | Has anyone noticed that a lot of men seem to be preferring derrieres over busts in a woman in recent years?Breasts are associated with nurturing (high estrogen?good mother etc.), ass = promiscuity, good sex (I think?). I actually saw this graph somewhere, where the preference did shift somewhere a few years ago. Even heard guys talk about how they used to like breasts because they were told they should, now they suddenly like butts. So they changed but what’s the reason for the change | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/19 04:05 AM |
| 11 | Is it common for women to not be attracted to masculine men even though they want to be traditionally feminine?I also feel like masculine men are promiscuous (hence I don't like them) and are boring cause we have nothing in common. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/19 03:56 AM |
| 21 | Is it common for women to not be attracted to masculine men even though they want to be traditionally feminine?Lolll kind of same thing happened to me lol...several guys I liked turned out to be bisexual (or gay) and I realized the type of guy I like are intrinsically more likely to be gay/bisexual. The one person I can't get over turned out to be bisexual/gay (who knows which) and it made me a bit homophobic (that, plus the constant lgbt content everywhere these days) It made me wonder if guys actually like girls (like do they really?) When I meet a guy these days l always remind myself there could be a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/19 03:25 AM |
| 4 | What do you guys think about Mormon women (mainstream non-polygamists)?The depression rate is due to large amount of Mormon women secretly not wanting to be wife/mother/home maker etc? & Thanks for the info, so insightful! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/19 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone noticed that a lot of men seem to be preferring derrieres over busts in a women in recent years? Does it have to do with a shift in priority (casual relationships over family/long-term commitment) or is it the influence of the Kardashains?The title is the content or should I put it in the text instead | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/19 03:03 AM |
| 4 | What is the female equivalent of the plate-spinning, untouchable alpha male?Making abortion illegal would achieve similar results. Although I'm for women's choices, this is a perspective that has me realize the pro of taking out abortion. Back to traditional moral values and families etc. +Men would no longer be able to sleep around so easily and women would be higher value I think | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/19 02:12 AM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent of the plate-spinning, untouchable alpha male?Who would be an example of a TRP man? I guess someone very attractive and successful? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/19 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Yes, men do prefer blondesDoes anyone know if this would apply to Asians ~ | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/19 01:11 AM |
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