I have been with my partner for almost 2 years. I am 20 years old and he is 24 years old. This sounds awful but sometimes I question if he is man enough? He is a lovely guy - stereotypical nice guy. Like he has a nice personality- he is reliable, loving, a hard worker, motivated and he loves me and treats me very well. He went through a phase of being very alpha and I was deeply attracted to him and since then he went back to normal. We have a few cultural differences which highlight the issue like respect is a huge thing in my culture and I can see that some of his male friends don't really respect him. Like I love this guy but I fear I am in love with potential.

When I introduce him to people. People are surprised they say they would of thought I was with someone "different" and that he is "very nice". Is it bad that I low key hate that?

He would be a great long term partner but sometimes I fear that I am with him because it is easier and more stable than dating someone new. I have already slept with 3 people and dont want to increase my number (if I want to attract a high quality candidate). He has a masters degree and wants to have his own business and a hell of a work ethic? I feel as though I take him for granted and I know I do but I feel sometimes that he is the wrong person for me. My closest family member also expressed that she didnt think that he would be the last guy - you know the one to bag me or vice versa like who i marry.

Ladies, what would you do?