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So much this. I had a baby who slept horrible and wanted to nurse around the clock. At one month he took 2 twenty minute naps a day in the bassinet (although he did sleep well overnight with nursing of course). I literally couldn’t put him down until he was 6 months old and he hated the baby wraps. I was not willing to let my baby cry at that age and the house was a disaster. I used my first nap to exercise and the second to just sit. Baby wanted nothing to do with dad either.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/21 12:57 AM
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I think opposite sex friendships and in particular exes are just asking for trouble. You’re opening the door to accidental infidelity. I don’t think I’d be upset yet without any commitment but I’d definitely watch carefully. Trust your feelings...it’s making you insecure because you don’t want to end up betrayed.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/21 01:15 AM
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This really isn’t red pill stuff this is just basic manners. It sounds like the women are just being polite and listening to him and the truth is that he’s going to say something to the wrong person and it’s not gonna be pretty. I have to admit I am extremely pro breastfeeding, probably to a fault, and I would not be able to help myself in such a situation. He may very well find himself out classed and humiliated if he oversteps his boundaries with the wrong person. He’s crossing social boundari…
/r/RedPillWives07/03/21 02:37 AM
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Imagine feeling threatened by young women who don’t believe in riding the cock carousel but do believe in physically, cognitively and emotionally being the best versions of themselves to land a quality man. Imagine believing that women embracing their feminine psychology makes them uncontrollable and belligerent. So comical. Ladies hold your heads up high and know exactly what sort of betas and triggered feminists are censoring you.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/21 03:07 AM
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Very well put. Ladies who are thoroughly vetting should see mamas boy behavior as a huge waving red flag. You do not want to need to compete with your husbands mother for primacy. If you have to compete, you already lost.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/21 08:35 PM
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There really is a middle ground between living the way they are with a ridiculous age gap and being a ladder climbing feminist. Your mom probably wants a career for you because she never got a taste of one. I think it’s important to listen to your parents because they do have more life experience but realize they lived in an extreme and are advising you to live the other extreme. You aren’t going to change their minds and they probably aren’t going to change yours.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/21 03:52 PM
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Often times yes but certainly not always. I think more couples have premarital sex these days. It’s not the deal breaker it’s made out to be in this sub even though it can backfire.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/21 08:11 PM
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Oven thermometer won’t hurt...especially with an older oven. I don’t mend clothes because they are usually sooo worn by the time they have holes...I’m talking still rocking shirts from over a decade ago. I love thrifting though to keep costs down. Joy of the hunt.
/r/RedPillWives02/02/21 01:06 PM
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Allrecipes - pick recipes with 4 stars and up. Get a digital meat thermometer. Once you can make a roast without drying it out, make potatoes a few different ways, and steam vegetables firm and not over cooked...you’re off to a great start. I have found sewing is more expensive than it’s worth unfortunately. By the time you buy the fabric you have already spent more money than just buying a damn new shirt. Cooking healthy whole food meals and minimalism go hand in hand. The kitchen aid mixer is …
/r/RedPillWives02/02/21 12:47 PM
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Eat properly. Exercise consistently. Start taking a prenatal. All sexually active child bearing age women should always be taking a prenatal just in case. Spina Bifida can happen before you know you’re pregnant. Take vitamin D. Get familiar with your cycle. I recommend Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler. You should know your peak fertile days so you can utilize them (or avoid them). Have your mental health on point because raising children is harddddd and they deserve the very best…
/r/RedPillWives02/02/21 12:16 PM
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Does your therapist believe that you are as high functioning as you are going to get? Have you explored medications? Other types of therapy? Is the ADHD for sure the problem or is your job a bad fit? ADHD can be soooo tough and I hope you can max out your quality of life for yourself, career, and future partner.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/21 10:55 PM
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Ok clarify don’t use this as an excuse to ride the cock carousel and not settle in your 20s. You can still make a husband proud through your middle age. It’s nice really.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/21 09:56 PM
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I don’t disagree but I think you missed the point of my post. So so many young women in their 20s are not well kept. We are in an unusual time right now where younger is not necessarily prettier unless you are comparing to your younger self. It’s a good time for women who keep themselves up through their middle age. I’m not denying the wall just the strange time we are living in.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/21 08:54 PM
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You’re not wrong. People are talking shit to you but honestly it’s just a reality that sucks. Women have to get a lot of things on track in their 20s: marriage, career and maybe kids too. When you’re in your 30s you are looking at men the same age and older and yes the bio clock is ticking if you want kids.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/21 04:55 PM
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What’s interesting is that a healthy fit 30 year old women in the US can look better than an average 23 year old because so many women let themselves go and put on weight. Ladies if you want to continue to stand out as long as possible, get your diet and exercise on point. Gets some nice fitting clothes and flattering make up and you can out compete the many many husky girls in their 20s for a long time.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/21 12:52 PM
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Not sure why you were downvoted. Opposite sex friends in ltr are almost always a bad idea. This is where affairs start. Infidelity will rock your whole world and change your life. Why even play with the matches?
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/21 12:30 PM
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He told you he’s not anywhere close to serious commitment. You may want to look for more serious men your age.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/21 11:52 PM
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I really hope that you hold your ground in this. Your husband is being manipulative. If he wants a submissive wife he needs to put you and his created family first. You still get to have wants and needs as a rpw.
/r/RedPillWives14/01/21 06:42 PM
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I’m pretty biased that the “perfect” path is staying home until the kids are all in school and then maybe a year or two more to take care of sick kids. Maybe part time work for mamas with older children is the way? Working with a toddler or two seems miserable but I have seen women who never worked and they seem to develop mental health problems from boredom and lack of responsibility. I think a lot of this also comes down to how blessed a woman is IQ wise and her natural temperament. Career pat…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/21 01:03 PM
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That makes sense.
/r/RedPillWives14/01/21 11:40 AM
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I’m not sure anyone on here can adequately sort this out. I know you have decent health insurance through the military and should be able to get into therapy. They may be able to help you sort out what’s normal here and what’s not. Maybe start by going yourself and maybe he’ll go too. There may be some manipulation going on here or maybe passive aggressive behavior over your smoking. No judgment over smoking but there has to be another, healthier and more sustainable way for you to disconnect an…
/r/RedPillWives14/01/21 01:42 AM
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Don’t worry you’re not wrong...at all.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/21 11:44 AM
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You can not hop on any more. That helps.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/21 12:47 AM
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Even with all these other wifey favors...they haven’t had sex...for 4 years. He has no plans to die the knot to sleep with her? Something is very off here.
/r/RedPillWives06/01/21 06:36 PM
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You haven’t had sex for over 4 years and you’re sure he’s faithful? You bought land to build a house without wedding plans? Have one last heart to heart and then consider moving on. If he doesn’t want to marry he doesn’t want to. Sounds like that’s a deal breaker (and it should be). He could string you along another few years and drop you. You’re then starting from square one and your clock is ticking ticking ticking.
/r/RedPillWives06/01/21 03:16 PM
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Oh I’m not at all. Babies need their moms. Breastfeeding is super important and it’s much much harder to do when working. Also, working then coming home to small children sounds terrible. On this sub women frequently lean too much into it though. You can vet til the cows come home and life can still throw curveballs.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/21 12:27 AM
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You also never know what is going to happen. It’s important to never be financially trapped in an abusive situation or a cheating husband. Job loss and death can happen too. If nothing else have marketable skill as a back up. Being home with kids is wonderful for most women, but I have seen older moms with empty nest who have nothing to do but interfere with their adult children. These are women who never ventured out even when their youngest was in high school. Balance is the key here and is a …
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/21 04:59 PM
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Having a marketable skills...it’s 2020 not 1930. Low dick count. Cooking and baking skills. Cleanliness. Mental and emotional stability. Polished social and conversational skills. Varied interests and hobbies.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/20 04:48 PM
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Tell them that you don’t need them “mansplaining” how to be a woman. Use their own bullshit against them.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/20 01:29 AM
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This girl gets it.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/20 05:50 PM
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Good reply. There’s a difference between respecting your husbands leadership and allowing your husband to dictate your relationships with your family origin. The latter can get toxic pretty quick. Not totally clear where the OP is here.
/r/RedPillWives18/12/20 10:30 PM
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I was raised Catholic but reject the church because of it’s many faults. I think you’re in the wrong for refusing to go to the Catholic ceremonies. It’s about supporting your family more than embracing the religion itself. If you were being pressured to attend confession or be married in the church that would be different. But I’m sure you’re hurting your brothers feelings and it seems kind of petty to me.
/r/RedPillWives18/12/20 08:48 PM
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Seems like other users have it covered on disclosing past abuse. I think it’s important to be vague on details on any sexual abuse. Your partner is not psychologically equipped to handle anything graphic. I was raped or molested would suffice.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/20 11:38 AM
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Pull up some fitness blender videos on your laptop. Mountain climbers, push ups, butt kicks, high knees, lunges, squats...you can get a very intense work out without equipment. It might help you stay sane too.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/20 08:03 PM
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Just my personal experience college isn’t a good place to find a ltr. Too many boys watching movies about getting drunk and laid in college. Chill. Lose weight when you can. Remember that half the population is on the bottom half of attractiveness and it’s not the end all be all of finding a mate. Focus on developing yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/20 06:19 PM
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No joint accounts. Don’t want to get too personal online but I don’t think it matters who had which account. No joint accounts but we never conceptualized money as separate. We didn’t have access to each other’s accounts but that was more out of laziness than intentional. Whose account was for what came down to a division of labor. One of us took care of bills. There was never a his money her money mindset. No arguments that ended with “it’s my money so I can do what I want.” It’s just what work…
/r/RedPillWives07/12/20 05:57 PM
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Totally get your beef with 50/50 when women nearly always do the majority of the cooking, cleaning and childcare. I think (my personal theory) this is why so many women are opting to stay single or typically initiate divorces. This is also what attracts me to red pill in the first place and makes me reject feminism. So many men end up being deadweight in the relationship. Who wants to deal with a man who comes home and plays video games or watches the game while you run around like a mad woman g…
/r/RedPillWives07/12/20 02:44 PM
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This isn’t just red pill, it’s basic manners. Good post. It’s good to remember to receive acts of service graciously too. We often want to be proud and insist we can handle whatever chore ourselves...better to say thank you, smile, and go with the flow.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/20 11:52 AM
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If you read my previous response you see that I’m not judging women who have production or latch issues. Or moms who have to pump at work because that sucks. Women having difficulty doesn’t negate the fact that breastfeeding is important and best for the baby. It may not be realistic for many moms to be home with babies but it is ideal. We’ve been fed lies about daycare being great by a society that thinks women are more essential to the work force than their own families. People do what they go…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/20 10:24 PM
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It doesn’t for sure but it is best for baby and it is extremely difficult to do while working. So many roadblocks. To me the breastfeeding dilemma is a solid argument showing that nature meant for us to be alongside our babies all day. Whether you actually make it work or not to me it’s evidence that babies should be with mamas and not hourly workers. It’s also really really really beneficial for the child’s lifelong health and bonding and the seriousness of that should not be underestimated.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/20 06:37 PM
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I was a daycare kid who didn’t see her mother but maybe an hour a day early on. Drop off at daycare by 6:30. Pick up at 4. Two hours of tv. Dinner. Bed. I missed my mom and me and my sibling would compete for attention. Family life was not warm and even though financially I had everything, my family was such a dysfunctional mess that it meant little. All I wanted was a nice functional family which meant me staying home with my kids while they were young and needed me the most. My experience as a…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/20 05:19 PM
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How long have you been together? Definitely make some more friends, get out of the house, exercise frequently, listen to podcasts...etc. Make some goals for yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/20 11:42 AM
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Was going to say exactly this. Some babies are low key and will go in the swing while you clean, exercise etc. some nap great. NOT mine! My newborn had to be held constantly...hated be wrapped at 3 months but HAD to be held. 2 twenty minute naps a day in the bassinet. I used my first break to do HITT and my second to just chill. You don’t really know until you’re in it what to expect.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/20 12:14 PM
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You posted in dead bedrooms and bad friends. You ditched friends, posted about your parents abortions, and posted about your lack of sex life online BEFORE you married. Counseling. ASAP. For the sake of your new child.
/r/RedPillWives30/11/20 04:50 PM
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If this is real and not a troll...you need a counselor ASAP. There’s nothing red pill about marrying a man 40 years older than you. The other guy you’re into is the least of your concerns. Edit: also posts about cutting yourself Edit: Ladies...please check this users post and comment history before giving too much advice. This person needs more than any of us on here can possibly give.
/r/RedPillWives30/11/20 04:44 PM
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Wonderful that your mom does baby delivering for a living. When any unsolicited (and often wrong) advice comes along you can just cite your mama. These types of folks usually really frown on breastfeeding too and have lots of funny ideas about feeding babies so you’ll have your moms expertise to cite there too (assuming you go that route).
/r/RedPillWives29/11/20 06:49 PM
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What you do need to discuss with your husband is how bringing babies into your family will affect this drama. You are not going to want (or need) to put up with bitchiness about your mothering...and that is where all this could boil over. If it helps, it probably wouldn’t matter who you were, they’d probably dislike you.
/r/RedPillWives29/11/20 05:55 PM
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Ok info needed...approx how old are you? Don’t be exact. You are ignoring signs of coming betrayal and truthfully being very naive. I wonder if you’re an older teen or a very young 20s. The longer you spend on this planet the more you will see that secrets in a relationship about the opposite sex are almost never benign.
/r/RedPillWives28/11/20 12:04 PM
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This is so so so shady. He’s flirting with her. They’ve had alone time. Now he’s defensive. I’m not usually one to yell dump him but I would ditch this guy. Infidelity is on the horizon and you’re going to get really hurt.
/r/RedPillWives27/11/20 11:23 PM
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Amazing answer. Be wary of men with insecure attachment styles.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/20 04:03 PM
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Ya I think I would say something like “don’t really want to hear about how hot my friend is” and keep is moving but him looking?...I don’t know man. How long we talking? Most men don’t really want to be caught doing it. Your way may be the hard way but is definitely the more fruitful path.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 02:40 AM
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I think this is the only red pill response here.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 02:08 AM
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Just put food and drinks somewhere people can access it and bounce. It’s not really your job to hostess boys night. It’s very nice that you make snacks and I’m sure your husband enjoys showing it off but it’s way less awkward to just steer clear of that kind of crowd. Couples night would be a totally different story.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/20 12:15 AM
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It’s a good thing parents have zero say in what you do once you leave the house. But seriously, have a marketable skill to start with. It doesn’t sound like you’re in a serious relationship. You’re very young. Only pursue men who have a lot of potential. Don’t live naively. Things can fall apart (job loss, death, infidelity) and you better have a back up plan. Also, what are you going to do with yourself when your kids are grown? This might not be in total step with red pill but you may be bored…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/20 04:59 PM
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Love this. Immature and poorly employed men are such a turn off in the same way that fat, slobby nagging women are turn offs.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/20 03:15 PM
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Holy crap you have a huge parent issue. All things with this boyfriend are completely secondary. I don’t want to post a novel but a few things to think about. 1. I doubt this is the first time your dad has been abusive. Coming from an abusive upbringing means you likely have emotional struggles you aren’t even aware of and these struggles will make it more likely that you will pick an abusive partner. You probably need professional help to work through these. Research trauma bonding. Are you pos…
/r/RedPillWives20/11/20 11:54 AM
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Can you drop down to one car? Very basic phones? No cable? No WiFi? Cheap eating? Have you done the math to see if it’s even worth working to put a baby in day care? If you are only earning a modest income it might not be worth it by the time you pay for a car, gas, and childcare. Can he get a second job for a couple years? Could you babysit for some chunk change? Sometimes it’s just impossible to make it on one income but i would rather live in a run down single wide with a leaky roof eating ri…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/20 01:14 PM
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That really depends on where you live and whether you have employer based health insurance. It also depends on student debt. I would rather live in a single wide with no phone and one car between the two of us and eat rice and beans than work while I have my babies, but not everyone is wired that way. And some can’t even afford that. It also depends on how established you are when the rugrats arrive. I think your are partially right but are missing some big things.
/r/RedPillWives13/11/20 09:32 PM
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Only you can make this decision. Most men these days can’t afford a housewife...but childcare workers really do make very little. I can tell you that I see women having to work when they have a baby and it hurts them. Being home with young children is so so wonderful. I think for me a man not aiming to make it so I can stay home with my babies and then return to work later would be a deal breaker. However, your age, smv and what you individually value will help you answer this question for you. …
/r/RedPillWives13/11/20 09:04 PM
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Glad to hear you’re setting some boundaries. Thanks for the update. Keep chugging lady!
/r/RedPillWives10/11/20 02:40 PM
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Glad I’m not alone. So hard to see this when you are in the middle of it. Obvious to those outside of it. I feel for her so much and her husband likely knows EXACTLY what he is doing. Sometimes rpw are such pleasers that we don’t notice when we are being taken advantage of. We want to be the chef, the maid, the beautiful wife and respectful but damn there has to be boundaries still.
/r/RedPillWives10/11/20 01:08 AM
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There’s a lot here. I would encourage you to research codependency. I realize this is one sided but it sounds like it’s an unhealthy dynamic that you are cleaning and doing more than your share to keep him from going off. It’s manipulative on his part and he is conditioning you. You shouldn’t have to create lists. He is making more work for you. His excuses are likely his resentment that he needs to do anything. In your current arrangement, you are no longer a housewife and he does not rate the …
/r/RedPillWives09/11/20 11:24 PM
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Are these female friends he sees in person?
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/20 06:53 PM
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Wait until you see how much of your puffiness is water. Literally everyone goes through this. Every grandmother you had since the beginning of the human race became a snow globe before they gave birth. You’re not supposed to be a sex symbol right now....we’ll I do guess there’s a niche for that but kinda weird right. All those curves you had are designed to propel you to where you are right now. Girl there’s a tiny human inside you! The chub isn’t forever. It’ll all be worth it when you hold tha…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/20 06:51 PM
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I know this isn’t very red pill but it’s my experience. You can’t do it all. When you have kids the house just isn’t going to be perfect. Period. Unless you’re living in filth, your husband may need to adjust his expectations. Homeschooling is a hell of a commitment. Put working out and losing weight at the top of your priority list. Maybe laundry just gets clean but not folded. You can clean your house in a weekend but you can’t make up a week of workouts on a weekend. Another possible avenue i…
/r/RedPillWives09/11/20 06:38 PM
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Best thing we ever did is nix all gift expectations for all holidays. So much more enjoyable. I focus on making a nice dinner and we have a few drinks together.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/20 07:10 PM
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Details are relevant because some things are worth raging about and others are crazy to rage about. If you are looking for anger management tools you aren’t in the right place.
/r/RedPillWives27/10/20 04:29 PM
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That isn’t a boundary you should need to be setting in a monogamous relationship. Not getting naked with members of the opposite sex is typically not a rule adults in a relationship need to address specifically. I would be concerned what other boundaries may need to be spelled out to this man down the line and think you may be in for a world of hurt at some point.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/20 07:37 PM
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Obvious troll. Just keep it moving. Not playing with a full deck if they’re actually serious.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 01:25 AM
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No one is touching on how you juggle the mandates of being a mom and wife. I want to hit that. It’s extremely difficult in the beginning. It can be further compounded if you are working, struggling with breastfeeding, struggling with ppd, or don’t have an extended family support system. Some babies have colic. Some won’t sleep in their cribs. Some refuse to be put down. Some babies have more difficult temperaments. This is controversial but if you are breastfeeding, Normal weight, and not on dru…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/20 01:02 PM
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Use good eye contact. Smile. Compliment something in her house (be specific and genuine). Dress feminine with light makeup. No cleavage. Take your shoes off. Leave your phone in your purse. The other replies so far are on point.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/20 12:33 PM
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I am very sorry to hear that. Not all schools are like this. I promise that not all teachers are like this either. I think this is all directly related to the area of the country you are living.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/20 06:26 PM
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This should be the top comment. I think the culture of needing a degree for status is slowly fading since people, especially conservatives, are seeing it for the farce and pyramid scheme it is for all non-vocational or non-stem degrees. Gone are the days that a corporation will scoop you up simply because you have a degree and train you for the job. If this lady won’t scoop this man up assuming he’s a hvm all around another one will.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/20 10:40 AM
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Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler is an excellent read for this. It has good information for preventing surprise pregnancies and getting pregnant when the time is right. Much more in-depth than what you got in your high school health class with photos to clarify.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/20 10:31 AM
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My experience is that if you are attractive it is very difficult to have purely platonic male friendships. If you are traditional, conservative, up keep your appearance, and have domestic skills you will likely have men eyeing you. I generally think it’s a bad idea for ltr anyways. Infidelity frequently happens on accident when the relationship goes through the unavoidable and normal rough patches of life. Conservative couples often find it odd if two opposite sex members of “the crew” spend muc…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/20 10:25 AM
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You’re very welcome. For some reason a lot of traditional minded wives are also anti breastfeeding and bed sharing. So ironic. The ultimate traditional activities. Talk to more breastfeeding mamas who have made it to the year mark and beyond...nearly everyone is nursing half the night in the bed.
/r/RedPillWives15/09/20 10:56 AM
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No. Same contempt for the wives and pity for the husbands. Ambiguous wording. But yes, the husband shares some blame for enabling the situation.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/20 10:52 AM
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Breastfeeding helps you get your body back and it’s what’s best for your baby and your health. By all means stuff that baby with formula and don’t let them inconvenience you or your husband with their needs.
/r/RedPillWives12/09/20 03:15 PM
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Just an FYI a sizeable portion of babies will not sleep train. Temperaments vary.
/r/RedPillWives12/09/20 03:14 PM
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Unpopular opinion on here. It’s very normal to breastfeed until 2 in the rest of the world. It’s recommended by the world health organization. Mamas who breastfeed nearly almost always end up with their babies in the bed. It’s what we do to survive. The mamas on here saying get that baby out of the bed likely haven’t breastfed the recommended amount of time or had unicorn breastfed babies who slept well in a crib so take their advice with a grain of salt. Your baby wants you nearby for security …
/r/RedPillWives12/09/20 02:52 PM
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Judgmental attitude and negative attitude. We all judge but when we adopt an air of self-righteousness and arrogance it is very unflattering. A gracious attitude and a little humility can soften a person and make them more attractive to all. Not to mention, it can make you a happier person.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/20 01:13 PM
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Yes! Stack on shrill nagging and everyone just feels bad for the worn down husband and looks at the wife with contempt. The same outcome for husbands who are dominated by their wives.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/20 01:08 PM
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I actually appreciate a good troll. Go on.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/20 04:19 PM
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I think that comment was a reminder that insane people can comment on this sub. Most women I know are not wishing to leave their husbands...even the ones who have been cheated on. I seriously doubt you view men as simply people with dicks unless you are a sociopath. The research on pair bonding is pretty murky and therefore not something you need to be too worried about. Enter a marriage understanding that faithfulness is a non-negotiable and make a choice that you will prioritize your husband’s…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/20 02:40 PM
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I’m glad someone said it. That age difference is ludicrous.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/20 07:36 PM
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How many of the journalists misconstruing the red pill message are 40 year old cat ladies with fupas drinking their 4th bottle of wine for the week dreaming of their perfect Prince Charming while researching egg freezing? The idea of pretty, fit women embracing femininity fills them with hot rage. Sad really. They bought into the lies sold by feminism and they are paying a steep price.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/20 05:31 PM
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Ideal but very hard to stick to in practice.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/20 07:56 PM
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Reddit has this thing about opposite sex friendships being ok in serious relationships. They generally are a liability. Even if he doesn’t have feelings for her, she is essentially an always available hook up for him. Another perspective, he is keeping an ex in his life which is always unacceptable. The problem with opposite sex friendships in marriages and serious relationships is that you WILL have rough patches. You don’t need temptation in your face during a rough patch. Friendships is how a…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/20 05:18 PM
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Super sucky but you’re right. I feel like a dead bedroom is the inevitable and painful road ahead which will likely lead to infidelity and then more pain and suffering.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/20 12:36 AM
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Please let your husband do the painting for you! Those fumes might not be good for you right now.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 07:36 PM
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This is wonderful advice. Make sure you start trying for babies right away. Be sure to read up on the Fertility Awareness Method. Taking Charge of Your Fertility is a great read.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 06:22 PM
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Do some actual exercise. Get fit. Mix cardio with weights. Push yourself hard. That will boost your confidence.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 09:20 PM
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I tend to agree. I think that women who have guarded their number of partners fiercely will object to a man who has had “too many” partners. Too many will vary by person and by how guarded a woman is but a I think most virgin brides or women who had one or two partners will be more apt to object to a man who had say 10-20. That man is going to need to have major status or dollars in the bank to compensate for that at the very least.
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