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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 37 | Getting over a manipulative LVM | MALE DEPRAVITY | lileyelash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 08:59 AM |
| 37 | Taking no shit but staying an empath | SEEKING ADVICE | lileyelash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 06:34 PM |
| 15 | Something clicked ! | MOOD FOR LIFE | lileyelash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 09:33 PM |
| 1 | that one good guy friend that also fucks | SEEKING ADVICE | lileyelash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/19 02:03 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 8 | We reinforce this behavior ALL THE TIMEThanks. Agreed. I was clearly not over it or I woulda sidestepped his ass. Just glad the turnaround was fast enough to keep me from hurting as bad as all the other times. Now it’s like “ok bitch if u fuck w him again then u just gotta admit u like this kinda shit and that’s on u” and that’s a whole other bag of therapy to unpack | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 12:22 AM |
| 7 | We reinforce this behavior ALL THE TIMEThiss this this. If you’d really grown up you would show it by taking what you did seriously. But these lil boys just like inflicting pain to feel power, to feel worthy, to feel something. Never about actually making up for what they put us thru. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 10:46 PM |
| 35 | We reinforce this behavior ALL THE TIMEThis JUST happened to me stopppp. Showed up on my doorstep w flowers Thursday and I let him spend the night. Cut to today and he “fucking HATES. ME!!!” And apparently everything we had was just to get over his ex? Lmao I hate trash men who think they’ve grown. Don’t waste my time when all u want is ur ego stroked. Fuckinf trash men. DONT TAKE HIM BACK HE IS STILL THE SAME ASSHOLE EXCEPT NOW HE KNOWS ALL HE HAS TO DO IS SAY SORRY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 10:44 PM |
| 5 | It's messed up that I learned from here what my parents should have taught meFor a long time I thought my ability to talk about my ‘daddy issues’ objectively meant I had somehow avoided actually being affected by them. if there’s anything my dating life has revealed to me is that not only am I regularly exhibiting codependent behaviors, I am seemingly exclusively drawn to narc men. I’m fresh out of a relationship that looking back was an exact mirror of the relationship I had w my dad. Cold, aloof, mean. Constant put downs. Pain, constant disagreement, anxiety and insecu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Getting over a manipulative LVMBless. That purpose bit. Thank you for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Getting over a manipulative LVMSaddest part for me is that I AM that friend encouraging all my girls to live their best life and love themselves and fuck what LVM think. I just can’t seem to actually walk the walk when it matters. Edit: I been through it enough times to know I’ll be ok eventually. Just sucks to be back in the same place of hurt and frustration again and again. Thank you endlessly for your kindness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Getting over a manipulative LVMI will. And agreed. I’m pissed at myself but ultimately I’m the one who let him do it all. Gotta take responsibility and just move the fuck on. Thanks for the tough love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Getting over a manipulative LVMOh boy do I hear that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Getting over a manipulative LVMI will. Thank you for your solidarity. Getting me through a 13 hour shift from hell. Edit: I’m sorry u went thru it. I’m grateful u came out well-adjusted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 05:37 PM |
| 4 | Getting over a manipulative LVMThis is me to a teeeee. Edit: thank you. Giving me a hope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 05:36 PM |
| 5 | Getting over a manipulative LVMYep. He just said all the right things at the right time. And I bought it. Again. Instead of getting over my LAST toxic relationship the right way I just jumped into what I thought would be the solution. Nah. More of the same. Worse even. And I keep tripping over them??? Why not walk away when he’s a dick? Why do I stay and try to hash it out and ask them to care??? Where did the respect for myself go?? Fuck I’m venting bc he just blasted me on his Instagram for crying bout all this last night. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Take a break if you need one sis, because I do 🤬Oh my god read me read me read me I just ain’t savage enough to tell them that 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/19 11:27 PM |
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