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| 1 | Q4all: Do men have a moral obligation to physically protect women in dangerous situations?Nah. Idk where people are living and seeing this stuff but there were many times I had male witnesses and I was in trouble and nobody did that macho "Leave The Lady Alone" act. & maybe I'm an outlier, but that's fine with me. If I'm scared of a random man and need help, I'm not gonna be too ecstatic to accept that help from another totally random guy. Statistically I'm much better off getting help from other women and honestly it's preferred to me. Now, if I'm getting the shit beat out of me by … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/21 11:34 AM |
| 5 | No amount of body positivity for men will ever change anything for non-traditionally attractive guys. It will only make women less comfortable admitting their actual preferences.Not much of a 'buddy,' lol. It's degrading. Being regularly called a butterface (ugly) and effectively being used as a fleshlight because you're only worth sex is a negative net effect on one's self perception and more. And dude...do you really think ugly women don't get that same hateful treatment? I'm not trying to be like "are you really that dumb," I'm seriously asking have you never percieved that? Because I have, and it is just as brutal. ""Pretty privilege"" is factually backed, and being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 04:51 AM |
| 5 | No amount of body positivity for men will ever change anything for non-traditionally attractive guys. It will only make women less comfortable admitting their actual preferences.Why can't there just be two conversations? I really don't get it. I have never met a single person opposed to raising awareness for suicide rates for men & advocating, but that message rarely exists in its own male-focused space, or without a large sidebar of openly anti-feminist rhetoric that for many, dilutes and mocks the intended urgent message of "we need to help men." There is little good-faith activism or awareness on behalf of this issue, which is sad because it's very deserving of a tru… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 01:11 AM |
| 13 | No amount of body positivity for men will ever change anything for non-traditionally attractive guys. It will only make women less comfortable admitting their actual preferences.Being 'bangable' as an ugly girl just gets you called a butterface. Having your body used as a masturbation tool for a guy who thinks you're ugly, can't see you without makeup, and sees you as just...fuckable, is not an achievement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 12:48 AM |
| 289 | Don't threaten me with a good timeIt's because they see them as actual colleagues, equals. They see their female colleagues as an easy source of attention and superficial affection that they can easily coerce or even force out. A woman coworker who is too afraid to deny a hug is equally enticing to them as a cozy recliner chair to take a nap in. It's about using and objectifying. Nothing to do with real affection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 06:50 AM |
| 12 | FDS users taking it in turns to roast Scrotes in the comments like:LOL is that why I got a RedditCares message? I was wondering what on earth I could have said to warrant one. Just raised an eyebrow at it and thanked whoever on a recent comment. Less than a minute total. That's fucking cash lmao, scrotes being predictably bad at trolling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Men don't just hate when we speak. They hate when we vocalize at all.I get a real kick out of being actually obnoxious around men who think like this. I thought it was low level trolling but I must be wrong because they definitely don't get it lmaoooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 05:02 AM |
| 6 | Men don't just hate when we speak. They hate when we vocalize at all.As depressing as they are, these studies are so validating. All of us who have experienced it knew this already, but now we have the data. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 03:07 AM |
| 106 | A great example of how libfem pickmes are dangerous to women. FGM = Female Genital Mutilation.Weird how there are no cultures that include castrating men and mutilating their penises until they have nothing left but infection, lifelong pain, and a scarred urethral opening. Something tells me they wouldn't be so conveniently Woke™ about alleged xenophobia if that was the case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 10:20 PM |
| 90 | FDS users taking it in turns to roast Scrotes in the comments like:💀💀💀 COLLECTIVELY dabbing on em | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 10:09 PM |
| 3 | The famous "slug post" from the FDS podcast episode 5. Man makes girlfriend sick by grinding up slugs in her shakes. "aM i OvErReAcTiNg?”This man is absolutely going to kill someone if the authorities don't follow through with him. What the fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 10:05 PM |
| 13 | Men don't just hate when we speak. They hate when we vocalize at all.Being a woman is a burden that most men would expire from within a week. I'm acquainted with an MtF individual who has told me they've been constantly treated like shit since transitioning and passing as a woman. Says nobody listens to her now and that people get mad as fuck when she shows emotion. I was like "well yeah, duh." Welcome to ✨paradise✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 09:56 PM |
| 56 | The famous "slug post" from the FDS podcast episode 5. Man makes girlfriend sick by grinding up slugs in her shakes. "aM i OvErReAcTiNg?”It's rare that reading something on the internet can make me anxiously nauseous but this comment fucked me up. I am horrified. She didn't just leave, she narrowly escaped. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 07:49 PM |
| 40 | The famous "slug post" from the FDS podcast episode 5. Man makes girlfriend sick by grinding up slugs in her shakes. "aM i OvErReAcTiNg?”I used to focus too much on "understanding" where the guy was coming from and why he'd do XYZ, and not enough time trying to understand how I felt about it. If you are hurt by someone's actions, why they hurt you is not more important than your feelings. It's not you're job to smooth it over, it's theirs, and you are not obligated to forgive it either. Dead on!! I love how well you put this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 07:45 PM |
| 17 | Not to mention there can be professional repercussions for not performing femininityEw. 💀💀💀 I'm weak It's all good though sis, it really means the world just being able to freely share this stuff with y'all. I always hope someone new here or lurking will read our accounts of this rubbish we go thru, and know they aren't alone in the harassment and hate. Know that it's real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 07:39 PM |
| 11 | Not to mention there can be professional repercussions for not performing femininityOh my god, the fucking audacity. I cringe. I'm so sorry! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 07:29 PM |
| 12 | Men don't just hate when we speak. They hate when we vocalize at all.Every day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 07:26 PM |
| 11 | Not to mention there can be professional repercussions for not performing femininityThanks for explaining! I misunderstood lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 07:26 PM |
| 33 | Men don't just hate when we speak. They hate when we vocalize at all.The overarching issue, as I see it, is that it was coded with a woman's name at all.. And I'm gonna drop a spicy take and say that it is not a phenomenon whatsoever. People have always been belligerent and racist, women included. It's not new or trending. Randomly deciding to slap the label of a woman's name on recognized racist behaviors 1. Ignores the droves of racist men who act the exact same if not worse, and 2. When it doesn't ignore them they're still called "male Karens," overtly stating… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 07:20 PM |
| 22 | Not to mention there can be professional repercussions for not performing femininityYeah that makes perfect sense! We are totally incentivized to be feminine. Especially when we are constantly seeing men needlessly dragging women who aren't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 06:38 PM |
| 29 | Not to mention there can be professional repercussions for not performing femininityHey it's alright. Just another learning moment that eventually lead me here, and I love it here! I win in the end;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 06:35 PM |
| 22 | Men don't just hate when we speak. They hate when we vocalize at all.It's the same reasoning behind telling us our ideas are bad and then stealing them and rehashing them as their own. They can do it, we can't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 06:32 PM |
| 52 | Not to mention there can be professional repercussions for not performing femininityI think it's possibly being implied that we are "rewarded" for adhering to feminine standards by just avoiding the abuse that comes with stepping outside of those parameters. Women that don't shave their legs catch a lot of crap but comparitively women who do are 'rewarded' with escaping said crap. I hope I'm communicating this correctly lol, this is just how I understood it personally | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 06:23 PM |
| 75 | Not to mention there can be professional repercussions for not performing femininityTbh from an economic standpoint I still don't see how anyone can view it as a choice. Women should not be so economically disenfranchised that sex work is appealing as currently one of the most lucrative professions for women. One of very few. So disconcerting. Young women and teenagers are getting into it because they see it as the only way to pay off their student debts and buy a home at a reasonable age. Some are much worse off and do it alongside their day job(s) to supplement their income. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 06:19 PM |
| 87 | Not to mention there can be professional repercussions for not performing femininityI'll never forget the day I was a minor in the pharmacy legit buying some vaginal suppositories for a yeasty and this dude tossed me a basic compliment "I like your glasses." I said "thanks man" and he proceeded to follow me around the store talking at me endlessly about random shit, while I was 16 and mortified that he kept looking at the stuff I was carrying and eyeing me up and down. I typically ice out men that compliment me in public because of that experience (and multiple other similar ex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 06:05 PM |
| 42 | Men don't just hate when we speak. They hate when we vocalize at all.Reminds me of that study that showed men overwhelmingly interrupt women and dominate conversations yet they percieve that same interaction as the woman being more talkative and interruptive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 05:27 PM |
| 40 | Men don't just hate when we speak. They hate when we vocalize at all.It's constant, and the insults range from condescending ("aww you're so cute when you're mad") to straight up violent ("someone needs to shut her the fuck up"). There's a whole lexicon of methods to undermine and invalidate our emotions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 04:30 PM |
| 60 | Men don't just hate when we speak. They hate when we vocalize at all.This is the kind of stuff that makes me question if they have any empathy at all. Who the fuck would not be screaming or sobbing in horror while helplessly watching a fatal pile-up in real time? I understand everyone reacts to stress differently but I remember that post and what people were saying was fucking vile. Majority of them are pizza cutter edgelords who will scream and cry at their girlfriends and mothers over much less pressing matters. ETA: pizza cutter = all edge, no point:) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 04:26 PM |
| 67 | Men don't just hate when we speak. They hate when we vocalize at all.I wish that were still the truth. Days ago I saw a video where some dude said something mega racist at a PTA meeting. A woman instantly shouted "you need to LEAVE" at him while everyone else was comparitively useless, just gasping and staring. Someone in the comments was calling her a Karen solely on the basis of how her voice sounded. It wasn't even shrill or obnoxious ffs she was telling off a racist. And then ofc he pulled the schrodinger's douchebag saying it was "just a joke" when he was ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 04:19 PM |
| 6 | One more reason to avoid anxious men.Been there 😑 Men are supremely disappointing with this shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 09:35 PM |
| 39 | One more reason to avoid anxious men.They say "don't stick your dick in crazy" but then you broach the topic of MEN'S mental health and it turns into woe is me, I shouldn't be denied LoVe because of my mental illness, men have nO rEsOuRcEs and nObOdY cArEs 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 12:04 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, stop giving HIS house free renovations with YOUR moneyrefinance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 11:40 AM |
| 58 | Men aren’t more “chill” than women. They manipulate the women in their lives into doing the hard work.And it's not a secret. The stressed/frazzled/overworked/unhinged woman trope is predominant in all kinds of media, and is especially projected upon mothers. It is deeply unsettling how it's viewed as both reality and simultaneously a joke to be laughed at. The profound lack of empathy for women is disturbing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:38 PM |
| 5 | Don't Date Men Who Devalue Your InterestsNo need to worry in here queen! Your input is very valuable ♥ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 11:11 AM |
| 13 | Don't Date Men Who Devalue Your InterestsNotice how heavily the trope of women being two-faced with each other is perpetuated because of this? We're actually very open with our compliments and admiration and it's rare we hand these out then turn around and talk shit. But that's always what women are eventually defined as despite our actions. Gossips, bullies, "catty." I'm sooo sick of this lie. Women don't do this shit to me. MEN do however, all the time! It's projection til the end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 11:03 AM |
| 8 | Don't Date Men Who Devalue Your InterestsGod I fr love every woman in this sub. Y'all always bring something interesting and unique to the discussion. Always intelligent. FDS commentary always makes me think. Thank you for your comment! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 10:59 AM |
| 17 | Don't Date Men Who Devalue Your InterestsWhen I used OLD men absolutely LOVED negging me for my septum ring. It was such a weird and whiny fixation they all had. Mind you, the rings I wear are like...sooo dainty. Tiny closed silver hoop. Multiples of them would make the lame "you have a booger there" joke, many accused me of getting it right when I moved to the city to "fit in with all the other basics." Like okayyy lol, the overwhelming insecurity and unoriginality was such a turn-off, and then they all had the audacity to triple-text… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 10:54 AM |
| 19 | Stop Normalizing “Avoidant” Attachment Styles for MenI used to be super avoidant and anxious in my attachment. I still am a bit. But you know what? I've been working on it for years, and all day every day I'm still checking myself. The lack of desire to self-improve is what makes it a burden. And honestly, it's clear most men have no genuine interest in such personality enrichment, especially for their partners. They'll be emotionally unavailable, rude, late to events or just complete no-shows, and forever blame it on "it's just how I am." Okay, a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 01:22 PM |
| 26 | They are definitely more fragile.This is the precedent. Fucked up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 02:58 PM |
| 6 | Anyone else look young for their age / have a baby face? How has this affected how men view you?This shit drives me nuts. Being small apparently makes every legitimate display of anger cute or funny to these men. It minimizes our feelings massively. Alternatively, if it was a woman bigger than him, he'd probably feel attacked and get combative. Equally minimize her feelings by doubling down and percieving her as overly aggressive. What a pain | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 02:08 AM |
| 3 | Brilliant and poignant scene from the Golden Girls on Doctors who dismiss women's sufferingSo is your situation! It's abhorrent hearing how poorly my sisters are treated in the medical world. Almost everyone has a story. Pure nightmare shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 03:30 PM |
| 14 | Brilliant and poignant scene from the Golden Girls on Doctors who dismiss women's sufferingToo real. I remember disclosing my medications to a triage nurse who then went on to pry about the mood stabilizer and ignore everything regarding my physical symptoms. Passed the info along for sure because every staff member that came in after kept treating it like a mental health crisis. Are you thinking about hurting yourself? The fuck? No?? I have a lump. Most degrading experience at the doctor for me when they effectively shooed me out of there with a diagnosis of "hysterical girl on her p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 03:05 PM |
| 11 | Brilliant and poignant scene from the Golden Girls on Doctors who dismiss women's sufferingYou're right, I should have been more accurate. Realistically men are diagnosed with it. The issue is that it's predominantly women, around 75%. A 3:1 ratio in gender for diagnosed mental illness is sketchy and medical professionals have casted their doubts. That being said I mostly see it as a catch-all for illnesses doctors just can't (or don't want to) figure out. It's possible a lot of people diagnosed with borderline could really have multiple comorbid illnesses, trauma coupled with a predi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 02:48 PM |
| 6 | Brilliant and poignant scene from the Golden Girls on Doctors who dismiss women's suffering7cm?! Holy shit, the pain. I would be furious being told that's a regular period cramp. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 01:40 PM |
| 14 | Brilliant and poignant scene from the Golden Girls on Doctors who dismiss women's sufferingI am so happy to know you got the diagnosis and found a doctor who would not diminish your pain!!!! Such an amazing feeling of relief. It's taken me a long time but I finally got a wonderful primary care who is taking my breast lump seriously. To ANY women reading: Never, EVER let it go. If you know something is wrong, you fucking know! Get a second third fourth opinion! Tell the doctor you want it written in your chart that they declined to give you a test you asked for!! I left this lump alone… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 01:21 PM |
| 24 | Brilliant and poignant scene from the Golden Girls on Doctors who dismiss women's sufferingI've been told that BPD specifically comes from trauma. I've always thought that was odd; you'd think it would at least fall under the PTSD umbrella because of that and be recognized as a form of it. But allegedly it's a whole personality disorder somehow?? I have BP and I take mental health professionals as seriously as I can, but I'm dying to know how many women are falsely diagnosed with personality and mood disorders out of sexist notions. I know it happens a lot, probably more than I think … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 01:06 PM |
| 5 | If he wanted to, he would.I honestly like giving awards that highlight comments. In a sea of misogynistic comments on some posts, it feels nice knowing I made that one full of statistics and pro-women sentiment stick out much more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 12:45 PM |
| 19 | It isn't just about how he treats youYes! Abusers are totally capable of reserving their bad behavior for their partners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 08:07 AM |
| 27 | It's all about how they ~perceive~ usI'd love that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 01:39 PM |
| 147 | It's all about how they ~perceive~ usit's the word used to describe it. Exactly! And on a kinda related but tangential note, I hate the way the results of that survey have been interpreted by mainstream feminism. Literally YESTERDAY I saw someone use it to justify the idea men need to be 'taught' about consent. Saying rape and assault is common because they just don't know what it is, because nobody taught them. As if men are legitimately too stupid to know there is no difference between "rape" and "forcing someone to have sex." I'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 12:56 PM |
| 8 | Why do people think women are being tricked/manipulated into casual sex?I have about five of those t-shirts in the back of my closet somewhere. shudders | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 03:02 PM |
| 73 | At Least One Good Thing Came From The Vice Article!For years now I've been screaming about the fact that the VAST majority of domestic terrorists in the US have a history of violence against women. They've tried to pin it on everything else, from video games to mental illness, and failed. Men with histories of DV, rape, assault, etc. are extreme dangers to society and it's been proven time and time again. Misogynists are fucking dangerous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 02:34 PM |
| 17 | Why do men feel entitled to participate in spaces made for women?This is why I take huge issue with libfems. If pickmeism is an umbrella, they fall somewhere under it. For the longest time they tried to convince me into believing it's important to include men in feminist spaces, and to even praise them for just being there and talking. If you point out that their presence is unnecessary and uncomfortable you're hit with now both men and women insulting you and claiming you aren't a real feminist...for not wanting men to be part of feminist spaces....like yeah… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 09:02 PM |
| 60 | The fact that this actually happened way too often 🤢Exactly what I thought lmao. Always kills me when someone is obviously directing criticism at men for something almost exclusively men do but they toss in that nonsensical "and women too!" because waaaaa misandry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 12:05 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inI'm pretty sure it just disables the option to PM altogether. I could be wrong tho! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 06:54 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inHahaha like mining crypto. Utilizing the untapped potential of this infinite currency is my new mission😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 02:00 PM |
| 29 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inRemind yourself that you don't owe an explanation to anyone, history of lying/gaslighting or not. If someone is making you uncomfortable, if someone rubs you the wrong way, if someone says something you don't like...queen idgaf if someone SMELLS bad, you have the right to block and move on without guilt. You don't owe people and I hate that society teaches us we do. There is NO rule that says you must extend an olive branch or try to stay friends or anything like that, but of course abusers like… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 01:51 PM |
| 29 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inCongratulations! 😂 Power move, turn off private messaging. They will loathe you just for not having an inbox to whine in. They do it to themselves and it takes no effort on your behalf. It's like...farming incel tears. Really beautiful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 01:43 PM |
| 30 | Boring/completely ordinary men thinking they know more than you when you're an expert.That exact story was my tipping point for realizing no matter what we do, how many times we prove ourselves, how hard we try...men will really still think we're just too dumb. To them, the idea of fitting an impossible supercomputer into a chapstick was seriously more plausible than a woman being excellent at chess. The sheer disrespect and degradation, it seriously baffles me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 01:02 PM |
| 23 | Boring/completely ordinary men thinking they know more than you when you're an expert.Tech/IT is one that infuriates me the most. MANY of the earliest computer programmers were fucking WOMEN; they literally entered the workforce for the first time as pioneers for women and programmers and proved that performing manual labor no longer made a man superior, or a breadwinner. A field utilized by early working women as a stepping-stone towards economic equality is now crazy male-dominated and women in the field are regularly treated like unqualified idiots. I seethe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 12:52 PM |
| 4 | That update tho 🙌Fuck 😨 that was profound for me sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 12:31 PM |
| 6 | You love to see it.Lol thank you so much for clarifying this. I saw the "if you aren't gay, you aren't gay" comment so I was like ummm..? if you ain't bi you ain't bi either lol? Nobody wants their sexuality put forth by straights as a political opinion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 10:56 PM |
| 71 | This Just In: General Hygiene Is No Longer A NecessityAnd they have the nerve to get mad about unwashed ass jokes looool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 03:18 PM |
| 5 | How men insult women by how they define them, and why.I'm mentally ill and I participate in communities with other MI people and frankly we all have empathy for people. Shit, I have a literal emotion/mood disorder and I still have a high EQ. That being said I do totally think men are socialized to have little emotional intelligence. Most of them never outgrow it because being abusive just keeps working. They'll never see themselves as the problem because they've been taught they never are. Lundy Bancroft said it best when they said it's rarely ever… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 02:55 PM |
| 12 | How men insult women by how they define them, and why.Didn't you know? Being called a bitch is suddenly cute and endearing when a gay man says it /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 12:50 AM |
| 11 | How men insult women by how they define them, and why.Yeah, and then they make fun of Megan's thumbs anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 12:42 AM |
| 9 | I shoveled my neighbor’s steps today for Valentine’s Day. She’s another single lady with kids and this sub has taught me how important it is to help out other women. Tomorrow I’ll get her sidewalk cleaned off.Awwwwww I love!!!! I get real enjoyment out of grabbing my neighbor's mail for her and salting her steps. I'm only 23 and I've found that some of the absolute best friends I've made are women 10+ years older than me. They're smart, kind, giving, appreciative. Wise as fuck, so helpful. They have never let me down. Hanging out with other women and helping each other out is legit the best damn feeling sometimes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Be cautious of men trying to court you on/around valentines day.That second paragraph! Exactly! I see these dudes being crappy to their girlfriends/wives all year and then giving such a grandiose display during valentine's day. And getting asspats for it too. I'm not fooled lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Gonna pull up to the Drive Thru and get a Frosty just to cool down from this BURN 🤣They're just so fucking unfunny 😑 like yawn dude. And if you say so you're either just too dumb to understand such sophisticated humor or "triggered" lmao What's that saying about playing chess with a pigeon? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:41 AM |
| 331 | Gonna pull up to the Drive Thru and get a Frosty just to cool down from this BURN 🤣Wendy's tweets always blow up on reddit, I just saw a couple today. Wonder why I haven't seen this one yet? Oh wait...😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 12:06 PM |
| 4 | Be cautious of men trying to court you on/around valentines day.Seriously. The amount of last-minute valentine's day grabs of bouquets and flowers are wild. Like, day-of, stores swarmed with people just buying stuff for the holiday. I have to assume they treat every holiday like that, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Be cautious of men trying to court you on/around valentines day.😔 facts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 03:51 PM |
| 4 | Be cautious of men trying to court you on/around valentines day.Very fair! I love the idea of donating the bear. I guess I have a history of men just trying to snatch me up in February lol. It's just an easy in, in my mind, to court a woman you're just beginning to know. It doesn't bother me but I'd personally take it with a grain of salt when it comes to my overall judgment of character | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 03:33 PM |
| 113 | Rape by deceptionHOT take: libfems pushing consent like crazy didn't do much other than give predators a sneakier idea to rape women. They made the mistake of thinking men just don't understand consent, weren't taught about it, somehow also victims of rape culture. They fucking know what it is. Now they know we're more likely to speak up about rape and they know that lying to get consent is easier. It's all the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 04:48 PM |
| 242 | Pickme BRANDS herself with degrading tattoo ahead of marriage to LVM.🤢 oh no baby what is you doing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 04:39 PM |
| 7 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂Honestly fuck that sub anyway. Majority of comments on those mundane posts are from LEOs larping as lawyers and giving awful legal advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 11:05 AM |
| 66 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂Don't have a job/career/education? They'll ask you what you 'bring to the table.' Have all of those things? Then they'll call you a gold digger for wanting them to pull their own weight, feel emasculated, want you to quit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 11:03 AM |
| 5 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂This. Everyone here is so easy to talk to and willing to share perspective and knowledge. The worst that's gonna happen is you get some constructive criticism. I can't imagine having a hard time in FDS, unless you're a misogynist of course lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 10:53 AM |
| 5 | It's not kink shaming; it's refusing to buy into the bullshit. It's calling out depravity that serves men while destroying the lives of women. It's rising up against a system of oppression every woman on earth is laboring under, due to no fault of our own.Hey thank you! That's the perspective I needed. There's always something off-putting about fetishes like that to me but I was unable to place it. I feel like I (and probably We collectively) have been taught to fight the urge to question these fetishes, or taught to justify them. They should be examined and speculated upon massively in reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 04:05 PM |
| 11 | It's not kink shaming; it's refusing to buy into the bullshit. It's calling out depravity that serves men while destroying the lives of women. It's rising up against a system of oppression every woman on earth is laboring under, due to no fault of our own.Honestly those examples weren't what I was thinking of at all, but that perspective makes complete sense! I was more like "oh no my ex used to suck my toes, is that bad" 😭😭🤣 and I died thinking about it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 03:44 PM |
| 32 | It's not kink shaming; it's refusing to buy into the bullshit. It's calling out depravity that serves men while destroying the lives of women. It's rising up against a system of oppression every woman on earth is laboring under, due to no fault of our own.Yo I saw this comment, my mind took it seriously for some reason and wandered and I was like hmm...feet??Is that rooted in misogyny? I don't think so, I'm not sure. Pretty sure it's not. Outside of porn and in a relationship I don't find anything subjugating about it unless given a misogynistic twist purposely. I sat and thought for a long moment about the ethicality and function of foot fetishes, eventually came to the conclusion I'm a literal weirdo for this thought pattern and it helps nobody… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 01:53 PM |
| 13 | Rhythm 0: Marina Abramovic's frightening 1979 performance art piece and social experiment in passive acceptanceContext: I found this highly relevant to sub discussion about cultural misogyny indoctrinating us with things like passive acceptance of abusive behaviors, and unlearning it. Abramovic's piece displays the violence and deviance people are willing to impose upon a woman who is passive to any action. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 02:58 PM |
| 29 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessYou'd think he had some kind of violent, abusive upbringing, right? Nope. Absolute mamas boy, she dotes on him and pays his bills. Idyllic childhood by his own admission. So fucking weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 10:34 PM |
| 12 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincess🥺❤ thank you queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 10:30 PM |
| 72 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessI really appreciate that, thank you. He gaslit me for a long time and sometimes I still catch myself wondering if it was my fault. I wish I had known how dumb it was at the time! If you'll believe it, my dumbass even went back to him lmao:') I eventually broke up with him, our second and final one, but I civilly stayed out the month to utilize the rent I paid before moving back home, coz it was an hour away from my job and I didn't have a car to commute with. He was a psycho about being the one … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 07:07 PM |
| 201 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessMy ex got 2 DUIs, put on probation, lost his job, and I was there. I stayed and stayed and stayed, paid his bills, was his therapist. Keeping him off the alc while he's on probation wallowing in self pity over his completely preventable failures. Meanwhile he invited a stranger from our workplace to live with us based off of a sob story, and that man ended up drugging and raping me repeatedly. Guess who got dumped for "cheating"?:) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 05:04 PM |
| 149 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessJesus fuck. I cannot imagine spending the last months of my life being lambasted by someone who should be loving and caring for me. My heart breaks. That poor woman. It's outright evil | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 04:59 PM |
| 97 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessEver seen his netflix documentary? It's quite humanizing. He comes off as your friend's dad who has some misguided opinions but a good heart. I can appreciate any republican who regularly supports progressive politics within the party. Seems more helpful than ditching for the other side, I hope that's his intention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 04:55 PM |
| 43 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessI agree on that front. When the majority of people your son interacts with are purposely or subconsciously socializing him to be this way as soon as he leaves your house, the blame just can't be on you 100%. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 04:21 PM |
| 2 | This is one of reasons why FDS is successfulExactly omg. Pretty quickly they either fall off of those conversations or just make increasingly idiotic or straight up false statements because they slowly realize there's nothing defensible about it. They just don't care to be confronted with the reality of it. So messed up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 03:47 PM |
| 2 | This is one of reasons why FDS is successfulReally?! I swear, shitty equivalencies like that are their go-to in my experience. It's in the same vein as the "I wouldn't care if a woman did (x) to me so why is it so bad when we do it" mentality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 02:27 PM |
| 10 | This is one of reasons why FDS is successfulOhhhohoh yes. They really hate being told their porn might be non consensual. Mass downvotes if you say it, and total nonsense justifications coming out of their asses. The most common response I get is something to the effect of "well I'll make sure to post some non consensual dick pics too to even it out" and it's like lol nobody wants that either buddy! They're literally so obsessed with sexually abusing women that instead of just stopping their best idea I hear is "well let's make it fair an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 11:38 AM |
| 2 | Actually, men talk more than women in meetings. And everyone knows that meetings are only for people to look at each other in silence while being totally unproductive 🙄.😢 they make you feel fucking helpless and threatened and then they make you feel like shit for being scared and reacting. It's so abusive. Awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 11:30 AM |
| 2 | Actually, men talk more than women in meetings. And everyone knows that meetings are only for people to look at each other in silence while being totally unproductive 🙄.What is it with the bragging about driving stick, omg? Not a flex, nobody cares, at all my dude. I can't count the number of times I've grabbed the "oh shit" handles while my exes were driving. They're just so aggressive in cars it's so weird. Even when I was driving, if my ex was in the passenger seat he would literally reach over and honk and scream at people, or even jerk the wheel screaming at me to 'look out' when I was driving completely fine. It's a complex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 01:27 AM |
| 3 | This is one of reasons why FDS is successfulIt's kinda hilarious having this constant proof of FDS members being harassed for doing absolutely nothing. At all. Dude just checked your profile for whatever reason and got himself worked up enough to cry about it? And they say women are the irrational, hysterical, overly emotional gender...🤪 mhmmmmmmm ok lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 01:15 AM |
| 4 | Pissed off scrote just by posting my selfie and basically existing XDI have some pretty serious mental illness (that I work hard to manage) and I'm fully accepting of the fact that some people just won't be able to handle my issues when they surface. It wasn't even a hard pill to swallow really. I can't imagine being so entitled, demanding that kind of emotional labor from any and all potential partners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 01:11 AM |
| 6 | Actually, men talk more than women in meetings. And everyone knows that meetings are only for people to look at each other in silence while being totally unproductive 🙄.I live in midwest BFE. It's literally normal to expect some psycho in a uselessly jacked up truck with spotlight headlights just flying up my ass for no reason, tailgating me and flashing their brights and not passing when I slow down and move over. They are seriously horrible drivers, like emotional asf. Nooobody cares that you and your bigboi truck feel slighted by the speed limit, stop trying to posture your sooper epic manliness through road rage lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 05:06 PM |
| 11 | Dita Von Teese breaks her silence on Brian Warner aka "Marilyn Manson"TBH for someone who hates celebrity gossip, I'm very interested in their trials. I'm curious to see how many allegations were the product of reactive abuse, especially with all of the claims that their relationship was "mutually abusive." Studies show this is extremely rare so I can't help but wonder. ETA I'm erring on the side of amber heard being a generally unstable person, and Johnny being someone genuinely predatory. I might just have a special hate for men who date farrrr out of their age … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 07:57 AM |
| 28 | Dita Von Teese breaks her silence on Brian Warner aka "Marilyn Manson"This comment actually made me feel better than worse! Being cheated on doesn't hurt so bad when you realize the problem isn't you, it's 100% them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 07:49 AM |
| 23 | Remember to subtract 5 inches from a man’s height 😂Especially sad because most of us wouldn't even give a damnnn about his height! 5'6, who cares? They ruin it for themselves, I swear to god. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 07:40 AM |
| 15 | Seriously pay your dues, scrotesThey really reap the benefits of having a spouse who manages the family finances, is in charge of childcare 24/7, cleans the home regularly, and way more...and then cry about alimony! Whoooo tf do they think they are? Do they really think they'd be equally successful without someone to manage their daily stressors like a messy home, dinner, children, finances, and everything else?? I swear ALL these mfs do is work a normal job and think that's all they have to put forward in a relationship 😂 yo … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 07:37 AM |
| 8 | Misogynistic Reaction to Women Screaming/YellingThis shit is terrifying. A car is a weapon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 07:21 AM |
| 28 | Actually, men talk more than women in meetings. And everyone knows that meetings are only for people to look at each other in silence while being totally unproductive 🙄."Women are bad drivers" is funnily enough the straw that broke the camel's back for me, and urged me to actually look into these myths. Turns out statistically women may get into tiny fender benders more often, while men are more likely to completely total their vehicles. Why are we the bad drivers? Y'all throw yourselves through the windshield running a light and then call me a bad driver for getting sideswiped. LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 07:16 AM |
| 105 | One of the truest things I’ve ever heard is that men who say they’re “brutally honest” are more interested in the brutality than the honesty.I love flipping this comparison on them. "Well I wouldn't care if a woman did this to me." But would you care if it was a grown man, 5 inches and 40lbs bigger than you? The answer is yes. Yes, they will always care. Their faces distort in an actually amazing way, as if they've never considered it before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 07:05 AM |
| 56 | Men are stressfulWtf is up with that? I know there are exceptions, but I pretty much have constantly seen men coming out of breakups so much cleaner. I think people just love to vilify the woman, tbh, and it culiminates in both our social and inner worlds. I see these CLEARLY NVM players dumping women they couldn't have dreamed of, and somehow coming out smelling like a rose every time. Infinitely less gossip about them and their part in it, people deliberately taking their side even in cases of abuse. The answe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 06:59 AM |
| 53 | Why would anybody put up with this?!Like she's some puppy he kenneled up in the room over. The wording really is everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 06:44 AM |
| 107 | This is one of reasons why FDS is successfulWhat's really sad is that women eventually migrate from subs like that to FDS because it's the only space they can truly have without being dehumanized, and then their inboxes and comment replies are literally filled with hate again anyways just for being an FDS participant. You can't do anything right as a woman on this website unless you're posting nudes lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 06:43 AM |
| 36 | All the empowering women on this subreddit to everyone who needs to hear it be like:I had a friend who enjoyed tarot with me a lot. But it would drive me absolutely bonkers watching her do the same reads and spreads multiple times a day about the same LVM who treated her like shit. Getting the same answers every time and just trying again. Like do you believe it or not? Wish I could have sent her this lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 04:37 AM |
| 37 | I want, nay NEED, this tattooed on my forehead.This, forever. So much of male humor is just regurgitated/recycled jokes about the same annoying things. That sexist joke he tried to bounce off of you? He stole it from Facebook and then used it on three people before you 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 11:48 AM |
| 105 | By that logic. The one holding the ring is the one doing the trappingThe entire "ball and chain" culture is so gross...just come out with it and say you hate your wife lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 09:20 PM |
| 1 | They will always make “single mothers” the villains to shift blame from male predators or male parental child neglect.Wym? I got you, you can dm or chat me if you'd rather talk privately | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 02:04 AM |
| 97 | Cats, candles, wine and the golden girls??? SIGN ME UP 😍😍😍I don't understand what's so hate-worthy about these totally mundane things. Oh no, I'm going to be surrounded by candles for the rest of my life? My psyche is literally shattered by this revelation. Clearly I need to go find myself a man to save me. From the candles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 02:02 AM |
| 60 | So when a person states a boundary that makes them uncomfortable, suddenly they’re controlling and insecure. Porn is cancer.something as mundane as watching porn We've hit peak levels of normalizing this shit. Go to the front page of any mainstream porno site and see what's trending right now. Videos titled "teen abused," "wh@re gets fucked," "forced anal," and soooooooooo many more vile things. The people who think porn is "mundane" are the same people who think all violence and degredation upon women is mundane. It's completely normal for them to hate us, call us wh@res, rape us. Of course those videos are going to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 01:33 PM |
| 6 | He acts like those rings don't represent her disappointment. And she's fifty when do women get to claim their experience?Lmao someone in one of my groups literally got a 24hr ban for saying "men." That's it. I wish I could still find the post where she shared the message from her support inbox because just thinking about it makes me laugh so hard. How fucking bad can one website be?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 04:36 PM |
| 68 | They will always make “single mothers” the villains to shift blame from male predators or male parental child neglect.It's a nightmare out there. I was so blessed to have a mom that gave me a real education and got me an IUD as soon as I became sexually active. I STILL thank her for it regularly 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 04:27 PM |
| 384 | They will always make “single mothers” the villains to shift blame from male predators or male parental child neglect.Not to mention the horrendous lack of sex education we're afforded too. Look up the US states with abstinence-based sex education. Now look up which states have the highest teen pregnancy rates. I'm sure you get where I'm going with this. They teach us jack shit about our bodies or how to prevent pregnancy, they prey on us as literal pedophiles when we're teens, going as far as to get us pregnant, and yet...the teen moms are the spectacle to point at and degrade. It's so nonsensical, so specific… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 04:06 PM |
| 12 | He acts like those rings don't represent her disappointment. And she's fifty when do women get to claim their experience?God lmao I can't believe I thought it was only 2k. Of course. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 07:13 AM |
| 53 | He acts like those rings don't represent her disappointment. And she's fifty when do women get to claim their experience?This weak misogynistic joke with no actual humorous substance getting 2k likes in the comment section of that article is a perfect example of why I deactivated Facebook. An image of a woman, a woman's opinion, a woman's experience, anything about her. You'll find dozens of tryhards like this desperate for validation, and getting it cheap and easily by making low effort digs at pretty much any woman who has risked being in the public eye. And then you have the ones who are just outright belligere… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 05:36 AM |
| 3 | What's with the spreading of complete lies about fds?Ughhh preach. Once you see it you definitely can't unsee it either! Sometimes I feel like such a dolt for the messy ass communities of 'feminists' I allowed myself to be in 🤦♀️ so glad I found FDS before it got worse and I wasted more time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 03:22 AM |
| 3 | What's with the spreading of complete lies about fds?I'm so happy for you!! It's easy to say they don't bother you but on a deep level, they always kinda do until something switches in your brain. For five+ years I've been consuming all the feminist media I can find. I'm pretty sure I haven't even been on FDS six months yet but this is the place that successfully broke me of giving a single shit about their hatin asses. Liberal feminism, and pretty much mainstream feminism at this point, is still widely male-centered in a way that is so manipulati… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 02:46 AM |
| 3 | What's with the spreading of complete lies about fds?The day there's female only commute, gyms, and work spaces will be the day I can truly feel safe in public Oof I feel you sis. 💔 We will have all of this one day. Even if we personally don't attain it in our lifetimes, we've still fought tooth and nail to make sure our daughters and their daughters will. I have such a warm heart for this generation of teen girls and young women who have clearly been raised by feminists. The endless instances of calling men out, knowing what a pickme is and how d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 10:36 PM |
| 2 | What's with the spreading of complete lies about fds?Holy crap lmao he went bananas. The lack of self control is astounding, how do people live like this??? Unsurprisingly the one who went off on me was a totally different person. Lol he went mega bananas. he commented on multiple posts too, everything I've posted about my mental illness in (edited so not linking to outside subs) multiple subreddits. His account was deleted for harassment it looks like and the mods nuked those comments into space so I can't show y'all those unfortunately 🤣 For con… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 10:00 PM |
| 13 | What's with the spreading of complete lies about fds?I was in feminism and twoxchromosomes. Was kinda okay with them, lots of libfem stuff I didn't care for that I'd scroll by. Joined FDS and fell in love with how heavily moderated it is to be a relatively safe space. Also found out via the community that there are male mods in both of those other 'feminist' subs apparently. Not to mention men commenting all the time and generally derailing under the guise of intersectionality. Beyond lame how hard we, and MAJORLY the mods here I'm sure, have to w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 09:46 PM |
| 8 | What's with the spreading of complete lies about fds?😌 you know I love to see it. I'll take some assbaby verbal abuse if it means free publicity for FDS! Get them allll in here ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 05:37 PM |
| 6 | What's with the spreading of complete lies about fds?Please link cause I have no idea lol! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 04:39 PM |
| 166 | What's with the spreading of complete lies about fds?Hahaha. A couple of days ago someone saw that I post to FDS and they went through my post history commenting on everything they could to verbally abuse me. Even commenting on my posts about my mental illness in the bipolar subs, not realizing the mods were deleting them before they even hit the post. Absolutely pathetic lmao. They also went on some long insane rant about how feminism is antichristian and antisemitic and therefore we are literally just Nazis, also? I guess? Lol thankfully scrotes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 12:47 PM |
| 59 | Dude said I needed to be “vetted” before he could buy me dinner because he’d “been used by women in the past”......For the record, I make ~6X his salary. Anyway, I’ve moved on, and now he’s back begging for sex. Love to see it!Oh, wow. He really tried that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Honestly such an underrated FDS anthem🙌🏻Seriously! Prior to her breakdown there were plenty of videos of her sobbing and shouting at the paparazzi begging them to leave her alone. Her own family would call them on her when she was just trying to go out and do anything. Looking at it entirely, it seriously looks like they did this to her on purpose. Force her into a breakdown that was realistically pretty justified all things considered, get her a diagnosis, get her under conservatorship, treat her like a piggy bank until her career di… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 06:52 PM |
| 10 | Honestly such an underrated FDS anthem🙌🏻No kidding. She's been unsuccessfully fighting this conservatorship for years now while her abusive father drains her money and assets (imagine that, lmfao). All because she had a mental breakdown years ago. Her dad even falsely filed her as a dementia patient on the paperwork to try and increase his chances of winning, and he got away with that instance of lying to the courts. Men do NOT listen to mentally ill women. Or their children, like Britney's kids who have said their grandpa is abusive.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 03:33 PM |
| 91 | Poor ring is so teeny tiny, it’s almost invisible. But I guess she has to love it or be rendered a scheming gold-digger, amirite?!?! 🤪💍This is downright mean. You want to spend the rest of your life with this woman but you can't even try to buy her a sturdy ring to last? I find it so insulting. It's literally supposed to be a symbol of commitment, but this will easily break with everyday wear, and he did a shoddy job sizing her finger too. This looks like a 'promise ring' not an engagement one. And of course if she were to say anything she's just being sooooo demanding and ungrateful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 03:19 PM |
| 17 | "Don't kink shame, don't you know there are women who ENJOY having their ribs broken? Lolol" 🤢🤮🤮Yeah this is prime r/AsABlackMan material. So clearly written by a man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 03:12 PM |
| 7 | Look at the description of Tyler Perry's Sistas vs Bruh - UGH! The double standards continue.I'm 100% convinced it's a grand plot to groom us at this point. The overwhelming amount of media that points women in this direction against their own interests is so fucking weird and cringy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 08:46 AM |
| 11 | Men are where they are because women haven't told them the truthNo way. We are not accountable for teaching these grown men how to act and treat us. They're where they are because it works for them, & it's not our fault or responsibility to rectify their shortcomings. For even the dumbest man it would take moments of research to understand that women don't like disappointing sex. They know. They just don't care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 07:22 PM |
| 25 | Today a grown ass adult man threatened to kill himself if I didn’t let him out of a contract he signed.Exactly! I'm so glad she was there for you. We are blessed to be so caring for one another, and actions like that echo forward. I'm sure you're extremely vigilant and protective of others now. "Girl code" has always been about protecting each other from men and their violence while "guy code" is about not snitching on each other for said violence. That's the only kind of solidarity they know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 02:25 PM |
| 37 | Today a grown ass adult man threatened to kill himself if I didn’t let him out of a contract he signed.Honestly, men need to start being there for each other in the way women are for one another. Solidarity is something a lot of men don't understand. For women it goes across racial, cultural, generational divides. I've been protected by women who don't speak a lick of my language, foreign exchange students, teenagers, and women twice+ my age. It's normal for us to be vigilant of each other in seemingly benign situations like sitting at a bar. I can't think of a woman that I'd ever leave without h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 12:35 PM |
| 2 | OMG. I saw a post on here about our opinion on male gynaecologists.. listen to thisMedical misogyny is something that absolutely burns me to the core. I cannot imagine anything that has hurt me more. Partners are one thing, a medical professional treating you wrongfully is another. It took me 6 months to get this lump in my breast checked out thanks to a male doctor that barely poked my tit, said he "couldn't feel anything," and told me it was my period/hormones causing lumps. Yeah fucking right...I know what my boobs feel like, period or not, you completely worthless jackass.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 08:38 PM |
| 4 | Scrote threw out her skincare. She works 12 hour shifts, pays the bills, and pays for his "hobbies" . And what does he offer? Nada. He threw out her safe space 😤Yeah, I believe you and pretty much every other seemingly 'fake' story about LVM doing things like this. After what I've been through they don't surprise me any more AT ALL. This story is kinda tame tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 02:03 PM |
| 12 | Is it just me or is there a mild conspiracy to make women lower their standards of physical attractiveness?Getting women with a bit of pudge into media is literally seen as a movement of body positivity here in 2021. Meanwhile men ranging from pudgy to obese have existed EN MASSE in media for generations upon generations. It's bewildering people don't see this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 12:45 PM |
| 13 | Is it just me or is there a mild conspiracy to make women lower their standards of physical attractiveness?Lol I love Phil's character. He's proof that you can easily write a goofy/clueless married man that still loves his wife and does everything he can for her. High-effort. The whole 'I'm a manchild who needs my wife that I hate to fix my problems' boomer-humor is slowly fading and I'm glad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 12:35 PM |
| 15 | I can't have ANY male friendsYeah this is the stuff that really hurts. These chodes cry about being fucking friendzoned like a woman being a friend to them is such a tragedy. How about being fuck-zoned? Every time I was happy to make a new friend I was eventually crushed when they'd reveal all they wanted was to get into my pants. Men will throw tantrums and cut us off over not getting sex while we cut them off for being fake piece of shit friends. I haven't made a new male acquaintance in a while and I don't want to. Fuck … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 12:27 PM |
| 7 | Smh!!!!! Stuff like this is why I will probably never date until my kids grow up.You're kidding me. The disrespect on his mother, I can't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Oh nooo..... this was the first thing I saw when I woke up this morning. Please discuss, this guy’s response is actually disgusting + the whole thing feels staged for some pickme attention.Hey thank you! And of course:) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 12:18 AM |
| 6 | Oh nooo..... this was the first thing I saw when I woke up this morning. Please discuss, this guy’s response is actually disgusting + the whole thing feels staged for some pickme attention.Lol I think I got it for saying something questionable probably. Not a great flair but it is what it is 😂 the mods assign them, in the sidebar there should be a link to the FDS wiki where there's a flair guide section! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 09:00 PM |
| 87 | Are there “degrees to pickmeism?”I feel this. Internalized misogyny is almost impossible to get rid of, especially when society is gaslighting you constantly. Patriarchy exists no matter how hard we work internally. There are even lesbian/bi relationships affected by pickmeism and centering men, even if no men exist in the relationship dynamic. It's seemingly inescapable, a daily effort. If this is what she's saying I definitely get it, and agree, there are degrees to it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 06:36 PM |
| 11 | Oh nooo..... this was the first thing I saw when I woke up this morning. Please discuss, this guy’s response is actually disgusting + the whole thing feels staged for some pickme attention.No freaking kidding. I read the post wrong and didn't even realize she sent him this...big ouch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 02:26 PM |
| 21 | Oh nooo..... this was the first thing I saw when I woke up this morning. Please discuss, this guy’s response is actually disgusting + the whole thing feels staged for some pickme attention.Omg STOP I cant believe this 😭😭😭 I did misread! This is even worse now lmaooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 02:20 PM |
| 10 | Man argues with me over if PA is real or not. Newbie sorry if this is a stupid post. It just infuriates me to my core. The ignorance.I'm glad you got your sweet lil son from the equation. His dad fucked up, doesn't know what he's missing from the both of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 12:11 PM |
| 27 | Oh nooo..... this was the first thing I saw when I woke up this morning. Please discuss, this guy’s response is actually disgusting + the whole thing feels staged for some pickme attention.Men putting in all the effort to be low-effort 🤦♀️ don't make her go through a fucking google survey just take her out! Lord | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 12:01 PM |
| 215 | This is why I never make friends in the workplace. Especially not with dudes. Corporate America is crawling with “NiCE GuyS”It's been shown that a decent percentage of men with high-profile corporate, medical, financial, etc jobs are literal psychopaths. Drawn to those professions. They know exactly how and why women are treated in the workplace and they want to keep it that way because it's advantageous. You're right not to make friends with men in the workplace, especially corporate settings. They'll disrespect you, talk over you, steal your ideas, and throw you under the bus. Straight the fuck up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 12:00 PM |
| 20 | Where's the lie?Eww, I saw that thread. A couple of them even overtly admitted to sadistically enjoying it (specifically being turned on by their wife's pain). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:11 PM |
| 7 | I lose my mind every time I see someone do the mental gymnastics to claim fEmALe pRiViLeGeAnyone with eyes can tell that self defense is only for (white) men. Women are regularly imprisoned for hurting/killing their captors and abusers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 06:50 AM |
| 8 | I lose my mind every time I see someone do the mental gymnastics to claim fEmALe pRiViLeGeMy bad, thanks for catching. Isn't that insane? https://now.org/resource/violence-against-women-in-the-united-states-statistic/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 02:04 AM |
| 5 | What are you an expert on? How have totally uninformed men incorrectly mansplained your area of expertise to you?Hahaha yes, queen shit. Thank you for the idea, this sounds perfect for next time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 02:03 AM |
| 23 | What are you an expert on? How have totally uninformed men incorrectly mansplained your area of expertise to you?I'm not an expert at much but they'll argue about literally anything. I had to whip out my phone at a party and get bitched out for 'ruining the vibe' just for fact checking this guy over who wrote a song when he wouldn't believe me 🙄 It wasn't even a thing! I loved the song, I shared a fact with someone else who said they loved the song, and it became an argument where I'm a bitch somehow lol. L/NVM can't stand a woman telling them anything, it's so insecure. We're always ready to defend our st… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 04:48 PM |
| 18 | Bought me a ring to celebrate 1 year of living guilt-free and man-free.Holy moly that's beautiful. Isn't it lovely buying yourself something you know you love and will wear? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 04:34 PM |
| 1 | I literally don’t even have wordsOh don't get me wrong, I definitely understand why she didn't film his face. It's just sad it isn't easier for us to expose these belligerent idiots. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 09:38 PM |
| 163 | I love everyone's ring pics, I decided to join in. I got myself my dream car! Taking myself and my pup hiking all along the east coast for 2021.Even aside doxxing, men who troll and lurk here tend to be downright cruel. They don't need to know who you are to circulate your photo anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 03:31 AM |
| 6 | Thought you ladies might like this. Men mad that women are focusing on themselves instead of men.This is exactly why these scrotes aren't worth wasting a single breath on. I used to love OwNiNg these men with quick snaps and rebuttals but now it couldn't be more obvious that they don't care. You're a dumb whore no matter what you do or say lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 03:11 PM |
| 17 | Apparently besides being their mother, women are also therapists and rehabilitation centers.God, so true. Blue hair? Either you're a MPDG or a pSyChO fEmiNiSt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 04:39 PM |
| 98 | Apparently besides being their mother, women are also therapists and rehabilitation centers.Yes, because desperate men see a spiritual woman and immediately latch on thinking they've found their manic pixie dream girl who will ~heal~ them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 11:22 AM |
| 3 | The comments were full of women claiming they were such kind.This stereotype always kills me, lol. Majority of women have a clitoris, which is exclusively a pleasure center. We love fucking, we're human. It literally flies right over their heads, even the idea that the sex could be so bad and disappointing that's why we refuse. But no, got dam wammin hate sex!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 07:01 PM |
| 12 | 5 years of having her in his life and he has no scruples lying and withholding the state of his sexual health from her, possibly twice. what the fuck.Yeah, that's fair, HPV is super common and can lie low. It just sounds like cheating to me if he doesn't feel comfortable telling his long term partner this vital information regarding their sexual health as a couple. If I suddenly got an HPV outbreak that was previously dormant, I cannot imagine a good reason to withhold that information 😓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 02:35 PM |
| 58 | 5 years of having her in his life and he has no scruples lying and withholding the state of his sexual health from her, possibly twice. what the fuck.There's seriously people in the comments suggesting she could have had the symptomatic chlamydia before meeting him, or his HPV was a rare dormant case in which he had it before meeting her and it just now activated. Fucking ridiculous the lengths of explanation people are willing to offer for obvious cheaters and gaslighters. Even more ridiculous they uphold the standard this is something that can and should be approached and fixed. Nope. It's not okay, it's over. Chlamydia and especially HPV h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:44 PM |
| 33 | I literally don’t even have wordsAnd at best this guy gets a little faceless exposure on tiktok. Years from now he will still be abducting women like this, and probably escalating his acts, because nobody will fucking stop him and see it as what it is. A lot of people find this simply funny and desperate, and while I can understand that point of view, I don't feel it. The fact she had to deal with this at all is terrifying enough, it's absolutely haunting to think of what could have happened to her. Poor fucking woman, just in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:08 PM |
| 3 | His friends are his friends. Your friends are yours. KEEP IT THAT WAYI am so sorry 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 10:52 AM |
| 16 | His friends are his friends. Your friends are yours. KEEP IT THAT WAYThank you! I'm glad you haven't experienced it. Such grimy levels of controlled planning and gaslighting. I wish I had the same mindset when I was younger, I wasted soooo much time and labor. I'm also glad you pointed that out especially tho! Being barred from meeting his friends and family is a huge red flag. His family may not even know about you, he and his friends might be complete pigs when you aren't around, you could be a complete side piece. It's too much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 05:19 PM |
| 11 | His friends are his friends. Your friends are yours. KEEP IT THAT WAYWew I'm glad you dumped him queen! Him and his friends aren't even worth the emotional expense of thinking about. That's not even me being comforting, it's straight truth. They don't matter. It's likely they know how he is and they just don't care, e.g. "guy code." I know it hurts like shit but you gotta just integrate the experience, all of it, and use it to enrich yourself. Your inner world. Now you're able to better protect yourself, and you have a deeper self-love as well because you have fa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 05:14 PM |
| 60 | His friends are his friends. Your friends are yours. KEEP IT THAT WAYYuppp. There's always a reason and it's never good. Usually the self-defeating clingy types in my experience | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 03:33 PM |
| 20 | His friends are his friends. Your friends are yours. KEEP IT THAT WAYSure you can, nothing wrong with that! There's a purpose and benefit to each of you having your own friends, is what I mean:) it's good to always have someone in your corner who will support you as opposed to a male partner's friends who may not believe you, and have a biased view of him and his actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 03:31 PM |
| 117 | Nearly 30 and still can’t piss straight or clean up 🤢🥴Yes, exactly! I want so badly for them to realize their worth. Those posts are straight up painful to read. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 01:16 PM |
| 612 | Nearly 30 and still can’t piss straight or clean up 🤢🥴Society has brainwashed women so brutally. She really out here genuinely asking "am I an asshole for asking my boyfriend not to piss all over the bathroom?" No, you are not. He's a fucking animal if he can't at least clean up after himself. Jesus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 12:31 PM |
| 12 | A friends post on FB. A few years ago, this would not have bothered me. But seeing this type of post reinforces why I will never be in a relationship where I'm required to do all the work.This is why I deleted Facebook. Cause I'd slip up and drop a genuine sad react on this post and then be immediately confronted by every pickme within a 10mi radius | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 02:44 AM |
| 182 | The EMT with OnlyFans who was doxxed by NYT author gave an interview to Rolling Stone.“[These reporters] wrote this article in an attempt to shame me,” says Kwei, who moved to New York from West Virginia five years ago, when she was 18. “But instead, they shed light on the fact that New York City EMS workers don’t get paid enough and that a lot of us have two or three jobs or side gigs just to keep afloat in one of the most expensive cities in the world. I hate OF but I'm glad she said this. I think after being blasted so unfairly she's starting to acknowledge it's only 'empoweri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 01:03 PM |
| 101 | This scumbag commenting on documentaries about an Indian acid attack victimI genuinely appreciate that you're finding the patience to indulge these idiots and trying to educate. Don't wear yourself out with it tho queen. Vast majority of men who think like this and speak so condescendingly, really don't give a shit about what you're saying. They think it's a debate in which they are destroying you with ~Facts and Logic~. They don't want perspective or relevant studies, they just want to be contrarian, sealioning buttholes and they love the attention of a reaction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 01:09 PM |
| 12 | Is it just me, or do guys with huge dicks put in even less effort?& that's why he's hubby 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 09:22 PM |
| 8 | Men who can satisfy in bed > flowersI think it's kinda drawing a comparison to how LVM miss the mark completely and compensate with something lesser or irrelevant. Like chocolates after an argument instead of apologizing and being better. Or flowers after bad sex instead of actually pleasing their partner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 05:04 PM |
| 22 | The logic of men. Each one of these nine arguments can be countered so easily..4a and 4b sounds like someone bullshitting their way through a dissertation with absolutely no experience or research for substance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 03:49 PM |
| 24 | Is it just me, or do guys with huge dicks put in even less effort?Hahahahahaaaaa 💯💯💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 03:28 PM |
| 19 | Is it just me, or do guys with huge dicks put in even less effort?Oof, that's the biggest turn off. Everyone has insecurities, even irrational ones, but that's such an obvious attempt to garner some cheap attention and free therapy lmao. & sometimes guys like that know their dicks are totally fine...they just want to give the appearance of being vulnerable. Makes you more apt to open up more and share your insecurities too. I've experienced it a few times now; when a guy is like that, never assume he's just a sad self-loathing scrote. Don't show vulnerability … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 03:25 PM |
| 5 | Men who can satisfy in bed > flowersThank you for explaining for me :) I get what you mean now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 03:13 PM |
| 15 | Men who can satisfy in bed > flowersRandomly mentioning the decline of a population because men cannot meet certain standards was in fact a little tone deaf. It's just not a concern. Please do not give me the patronizing "sorry you took it wrong" spiel, what you said had no relevance and came off as quite counterintuitive. I'm glad you clarified and (I think?) I agree if I'm understanding correctly. It is a shame that many women settle for less. I just didn't and still don't see how a declining population is relevant, or why that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 01:50 PM |
| 37 | Men who can satisfy in bed > flowersIf the population has to decline in order for men to take the hint, I'm personally fine with that. I'm not lowering standards especially on the basis of keeping the population up...that's a prettttyyyy tone deaf comment in a feminist subreddit. We are not incubators, we aren't obligated to settle for less so we can make babies. Shouldn't even be a suggestion or hypothetical tbh. Edited to fix typo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 01:21 PM |
| 43 | 'Us men, we are hunters. The harder the challenge, the grater the reward'. 'Thats why we see her as a prize'. Someone really stamped on this scrotes 👌tiny peepee by simply being desirable and sought after🤣What in the love of god? My skin is crawling reading this dude essentially describing women as prey, conquests, and objects to peacock on other men. That's literally all he sees us as. Not a single drop of love, dignity, humanity. Just a sexual conquest. Pump and dump. Everything is always about sex, sex, sex. We have no identity, just a numerical rating and 'attitude' that makes us fuckable. Jesus H Christ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 01:17 PM |
| 109 | Another meme summing up relationship subsObviously you need to go to counseling before you make any rash decisions. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 09:48 AM |
| 84 | Oh yes please let me donate my whom to fulfill your wishes while your wife sits at home unknowingly. Line up ladies, line up...Why the fuck do they do this on dating sites and apps? In what world are they intriguing and mysterious enough based on this shitty bio alone, that anyone would take the time to ask for a photo? The delusion of it all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 10:24 PM |
| 12 | i could throw up. they really don’t care about us.Cognitive dissonance level 100 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 11:01 PM |
| 128 | i could throw up. they really don’t care about us.You suggested that people who like violent porn are likely to accept violence against women, which is horseshit Do they hear themselves?? Watching that porn IS accepting violence against women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 03:38 PM |
| 11 | Banned on a Supposedly Feminist Subreddit for Giving Informative Information About VaginismusThat answer was spot on, I'm legit shocked you got banned. It's almost certainly because you post here on FDS. Ugh they have all the space in the world but they really just love invading spaces made for women. I've noticed they especially love picking out mainstream feminist spaces like that sub and slowly undermining them because there are plenty of libfem waifs making up the communities that will eat it up. I recently deleted Facebook and I don't miss it except for the fact I was in some reall… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 12:04 PM |
| 47 | Don’t you DARE kink shame him 🤡This is horrifying. Imagine being violently raped by your husband and consoling HIM afterwards. I am sick. Wtf wtf wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 05:14 PM |
| 55 | My ex-husband used to say "Well, I work" as a reason for him not doing more. But dude, I work tooooo. So, everything defaults to me because I have a vagina?The older I get the more I really deeply appreciate time with my mom like that. I wish I hadn't spent 5 damn years dating NVMs and going low contact with her because she was gently begging me not to make the same mistakes she did. She's always right about these clowns...she's been around enough times and she's married to a very HVM now. Having a good mom is an absolute blessing and you'd catch me dead before I take her for granted ever again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 06:35 AM |
| 35 | 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄This. Forever. Sharing trauma with them has only ever led to exploitation in my experience. It's fully predictable at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 03:10 PM |
| 12 | Ladies, let’s all do our best to teach the next generation of women this. While sexual adultification affects young Black women the most, it definitely occurs to young women of all backgrounds.Thanks for the emotional labor you've been putting in! I see you. I'm sorry some folks aren't taking it well it seems lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 07:56 AM |
| 20 | Why do men think their opinions are always wanted?Energy vampires, EXACTLY. They make you listen to their drivel, on and fucking on, and they're ready to turn it into a confrontation if you simply refuse to talk to them and ask them to go away. They know this and they enjoy the intimidation and control. I can't be convinced otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 02:28 AM |
| 52 | Women only have to worry about potentially ending up in a situation like numerous previous women who were beaten, raped and killed by the men they were dating, but yeah, men must have it worse... 🙄I buy food for my friends, and my friends sometimes buy food for me. I don't expect a parade of gratitude. Men see us as less than their friends. We are literally just objects. Oof. That part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 08:37 AM |
| 1 | "yOu'Re nOT LiKe oThEr GiRLs"I know exactly what sub I'm on, thank you. If he hit on you that's one thing and I concede. But being simply ID'd isn't someone hitting on you if you look under 40. I'll "defend that behavior" because I'm constantly dealing with folks who think I'm trying to flatter them or piss them off when I'm just doing my job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 08:02 PM |
| 1 | "yOu'Re nOT LiKe oThEr GiRLs"I'm a gas station clerk and I can guarantee you we don't like IDing anyone. If we could just shoo you out without it we would; if we ask it's because you look under 40 and we legitimately have to. Don't raise your voice at retail workers just because you've been "tasked" with fishing out your ID like every other adult who buys restricted items. We're literally avoiding a fine, job loss, and possible jail time on the chance you're coming in to sting us on any illegal sales. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 01:30 PM |
| 2 | The audacity is astronomical .. Can you say toxic?It literally makes no sense to me and it fucking destroys my self esteem. I don’t understand it at ALL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 01:18 PM |
| 2 | You ladies really have a sista's back! Thank you!God I love this sub😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 10:28 PM |
| 2 | People are so harsh on r/relationship_advice, at least when the poster is a woman!That subreddit is complete and utter shit. The vast majority of “advice” given there is so ridiculously bad lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 02:37 AM |
| 3 | The male expectation of women to be completely shavedSounds like she tried to have an engaging discussion and he got defensive and pissed (and depicted her as immediately shrill and hysterical in the post) because it was way over his head. They get such a persecution complex even when all we do is ask them to fucking examine their nonsense thoughts and behaviors (e.g. ‘grown women should be hairless’). Notice the people in the comments also devaluing her education and ability to have any kind of engagement on the topic. Incredible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 12:42 PM |
| 5 | Sorry if not this kind of post isn’t allowed. Saw in the news- A man killed his girlfriend and told the police that they were “role playing with a gun.” This had me raging for hours this morning.Yeah, sounds like the same recycled excuses from the people who have “accidentally killed” (murdered) their girlfriends claiming choking play or w/e. Obviously strangled but “oh it was just her/our kink” is defensible I guess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 09:53 PM |
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