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CMVlilsaihah/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:57 PM
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Nah it's pretty normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 03:12 AM
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I don't know if I'd say I'm doubling down on pessimistic perspectives as much as I like to play devil's advocate. I'll just look at the guy ones; High value woman, at best, means young and with high fecundity, which only matters if your desire is to breed with her. If we rearrange the sentence it actually seems pretty decent. "You can only prescribe the value of youth and fecundity if your desire is to breed with a woman; under these circumstances, a woman would be high value." It makes no value…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 08:20 AM
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Yes Quality means little, marketing is everything
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:06 PM
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i start a premium snapchat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:01 PM
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Whose job is it to teach children the birds and the bees? It's either public education or parents. Public education skews heavily towards female teachers and while this divide narrows in secondary school there is still a skew towards women. Single-parent households are primarily woman-led. Women are therefore disproportionately responsible. Checkmate atheists.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:02 AM
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if they don't have any baggage. That kinda tips the hand; everyone has baggage in their 30s unless they've been in a coma for 10 years. That said yeah I'd still go for it. Kids would be the kind of baggage I'd make a conscious effort to avoid, but if we get along, we get along.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:28 AM
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turtleneck and jeans is my poison tho tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 12:21 AM
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It is technically not true, a gay man will not sleep with every woman he has the opportunity to Looking at the rates of male on male partners kinda tips the hand tho
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 10:07 PM
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I see a few people are apparently having issues with it. "There are no feminists in a housefire" sorta thing. That's all internet nonsense. The worst I've seen are a few of my friends who are either being let go from their work because they work non-essential service, and a few others who aren't able to find work they need because everyone is freezing hiring until this all blows over. What I really want to know is why anyone gives a shit about this while people are dying
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 07:04 PM
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If you're unemployed and have never had a job but every job requires 2+ years of experience, would you be bothered by those employers? On the face of it it seems like a reasonable statement; yes you should know what you want, that is going to make your relationships much much easier. Yeah I like women knowing what they want and being quite clear about it; if I don't meet it, I move on, I'm past the age where you need that kind of interactions with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 08:15 AM
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He should show that off on tinder then. Girls I got a two year supply of toilet paper. You let me get my dick wet and ill give you a roll
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 01:16 PM
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I don't know if I'd say 'thinks highly' is the phrasing I'd use, but if she's not having fun I'm not having fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 05:11 AM
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It makes life really easy for me when they're honest about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 07:04 AM
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But what about when the robots are all used up after having ridden the output carousel? Nobody will want to buy them when they could buy one of the newer models. They'll end up living alone with their catbots.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 07:01 AM
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ye but bro if you get friendzoned guess what now you have a friend even better than a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 10:44 PM
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Any age. I'd only be interested in someone who's at least 22-23 but if for whatever reason I was looking at someone younger, the number I'd expect would probably go down.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 07:31 AM
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We need the friendpill. People need to go out and make friends
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 07:20 AM
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Honestly I don't really know. On paper I'd love to be approached by someone I'm interested in, whether that's an explicit approach or as an excuse to display IOIs. That would save me time and effort. On the other hand in practice whenever a woman's approached me for either reason I've found myself uninterested in them. I don't know whether that's because they're taking the initiative and on some level I'd rather be the one setting the pace, or if I'm just not into them. I've never actually had a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 07:05 AM
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Being someone who enjoys sex doesn't mean I like you or can put up with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 06:56 AM
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If I like them and we get along, personally and sexually, then I don't particularly care; the number of people I get along with is low enough that I can't afford to be picky. If they've had more partners than they are old, that'd probably be a bit concerning, though. As far as LTRs go I'd probably try to keep away from anyone over 10-15. I'm not really that fond of sex so it's probably a predictor of a personal mismatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 06:53 AM
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I'd say it's a symptom, not a cause. Symptom of what? Not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 06:45 AM
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Would I lose respect for her? I don't know. I don't think so. Not just on the back of those facts. How serious a red flag would it be? It would be somewhere between 'let her down gently' and 'immediately ghost'. At the very least, she's attracted on some level to something that I definitely am not. If I knew who the guy was? I'd just keep my distance probably. There's not much that I could really do about it, it's not my place, and I don't really have strong enough evidence to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 06:41 AM
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Women have more robust social networks from which they can select a partner. Men have less robust social networks and a lot of the time they're professional networks so you can't shit where you eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 09:13 PM
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Right so you shouldn't get mad at Chad either because he's a child too???? You donkey
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 06:51 PM
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nah, women thirsty af tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 06:28 PM
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Would you stay friends with a guy with whom you had very little in common? Probably not. Even if you made an effort, you would very likely have a difficult time actually spending time with them. Men and women tend to have a very different set of interests. If fucking someone is no longer an option then you usually don't really have a good reason to force the relationship along and you don't incidentally hang out. I have work friends who are women because we share space, I have DnD friends who ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 06:20 PM
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I don't know about bargain bin superpower, but I'm completely oblivious to most of the shit going on around me in a social sense. You're invincible to a lot of shittests and you're basically immune to politicking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 06:09 PM
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An ogre can be picky all she likes, doesn't make her desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 06:02 AM
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When you're vetting women based on how horny those women make you Yeah but in romantic relationships being horny is a pretty important thing. If you're not being horny with your romantic partner, you're not romantic partners, you're friends. It's a pretty good thing to vet for if you're going to spend every night together for the rest of your life. Why wouldn't you check if this fundamental point of interaction works at the earliest opportunity? The ideal situation for most guys, I think, is tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 10:15 AM
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I disagree, sexual compatibility and chemistry are some of the more immutable characteristics of a sexual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 09:54 AM
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I had the one that apparently was into me but neither of us actually made a move. I think most guys work out the game after that one. Squeezed a titty when she was drunk though, that was fun I don't think I've ever really orbited long around anyone. Usually I sniff around for a bit, don't make a move, and lose interest not long after. I don't actually get invested enough to become an orbiter, I don't think.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 10:14 AM
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Coffee dates are my go-to. It seems really straightforward; they probably have a coffee at some point in the day, I have a coffee at some point in the day... We may as well do it together, right? And we can see if there's any chemistry conversation-wise, and we can use it to possibly line up a second date. If someone's upset about it being too 'low-effort' that's just telling me the entire relationship is probably going to be high-effort and high-maintenance girls really just aren't people I'm c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 08:58 AM
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I think some guys would probably not mind if you're basically just the prettiest masturbation aid around. Some guys do mind. I think I'd get bored pretty quick. I think some guys probably do target 6-8s explicitly because 9-10s put no effort into sex. Women who are super up-front with their sexuality absolutely are a turnoff though, at least for me. It's coming on too strong. It makes women seem desperate if they are too forward or are disingenuous with their wants. That's a different problem th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 02:38 PM
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Isn't this a prisoner's dilemma? If you both take the advice, you're both losing less - but you're both losing. If one of you takes the advice, the other person is losing. If neither of you take the advice, you might actually both get what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 01:39 PM
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that seems more like abdl than ddlg. pig disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 02:02 AM
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High value for what, hookups/FWB? Attractive, good at sex, and enjoys sex are how women get their foot in the door. From then on out for a relationship, it's borne on the back of their personality. They know that, and that's why they put that persona on before marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 12:59 AM
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10 biological children; I'm a guy. My genome is superior and must be spread. Seriously though this is a pretty difficult one. I'd almost definitely lean towards adoption if I have a wife, and I'd lean towards the bios if I'm destined to be single forever. By the rules you've stated I'd be able to have 10 bio and then go for an adoption but I don't think that's your intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:33 AM
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I just have floss in my medicine cabinet. If I knew someone made a conscious effort to snoop... Wew, don't let the door hit you on the way out. Genuinely don't understand what could go through someone's head to think this is alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 01:20 AM
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A distinction without a difference, tho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:44 AM
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If you look at r/deadbedrooms it pretty obviously is a need for women. It might be a need for romantic/physical affection rather than explicit sex but to some degree that's kind of splitting hairs and my personal experience is that some women very much want/need to get dicked down.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 11:34 PM
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dannydevitomaxx
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 11:31 PM
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Just seems like the fundamental dom/sub dynamic to me. Fwiw I had a girlfriend who'd say my dick was hers and that got me pretty horny
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 11:30 PM
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Yeah but htf is it polite when you start going on about this that and the other and you never let the other person get a word in edgeways? Literally the only option is for them to walk away or interrupt you and you'll probably turn around and say "how rude"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 11:23 PM
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How is it taking a mile to not end a conversation if at least one person is enjoying it Bruh this is the problem you're enjoying flapping your trap and the other person's bored but too polite to tell you to fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 11:15 PM
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Man this is bullshit though. I've worked customer service and you'll get people who are fucking cooked and they take up all your time talking about random bullshit... Man I just wanna get my floors mopped but it'd be rude to just tell you to fuck off. Please don't waste other peoples' time like this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 10:58 PM
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If they have no social skills they have a long way to go. I think from their point of view they have so many problems that, if getting laid is their end goal, there is so much work ahead of them that it's not worth even bothering. The way you get them out of being incels isn't by putting a big goalpost between a woman's legs and saying "you can run 100 miles and get here"... no, too hard. Teach them to put in a little effort, make friends, put in a little effort, get a job, put in a little effor…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 10:24 AM
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That's not an actionable plan
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 09:27 AM
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While it's nice to know, it's kind of useless information. Actionable plans would be more helpful for helping men who have low self esteem, or who aren't seeing success dating. I don't think any of the guys who're struggling for scraps want to be playing in the big leagues; they'd be happy to be on the scoreboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 06:41 AM
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I have no idea what you're trying to say lol Just skipping to the chase because trying to talk to you is like trying to talk to a brick wall; you need to get therapy and detox from the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 06:37 AM
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Yeah that's PRECISELY why the Three Month Rule was created. So you're saying X is three months and Y is 1. Pick Me shit Yeah this is why 'pickmeishas' are made out to be the boogeyman. All the pickmeisha has to do is say "i'll fuck you after 2 months" and congratulations you've lost him to her because you're only dating and you're not in a committed relationship. You think I should date asexual because I want a man to RESPECT ME?! That's not what I wrote, but it's an interesting thing to say; do…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 05:43 AM
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The main problem with FDS is that they don't really do much strategy at all. They do manshaming, they do 'pickmeisha' shaming, they do 'fix the relationship' shaming, there's nothing positive there. They insist that just about everyone break up with their partner; that's kind of the opposite objective, I would think? And of course we get the spillover proselytizers who alternate between 'FDS is great' and 'why can't I get a date?'. If FDS worked you would think they would be trumpeting their suc…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 05:17 AM
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"Stressful" does not automatically mean "unhappy".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 04:49 AM
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I don't know if it's at all accurate but it is a useful doctrine; like telling a child to stay away from snakes because they're venomous. Not all snakes are venomous, and not all men are just after sex, but it's true enough to be useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 04:34 AM
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Yeah but I don't want a marriage of equals. I want specialisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 02:48 AM
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It bewilders me to hear “Girls who make guys wait for sex lose out on high value men” as if dating/marrying a guy who’ll leave/cheat on me if “doesn’t get the sex he needs” is a treat for me. This is because you don't understand the argument. Man wants sex as part of his relationship. Man has multiple options for women; some of them are signalling that they'll sleep with him earlier. You are pricing yourself out of the market by placing such a time restriction on sex. If I want to buy a toaster …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 02:45 AM
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Is that really fair? I think most people would agree that there's a difference between actual intelligence rather than the caricature of intelligence that most 'nerds' send out. Intelligent people are able to analyze information and adapt accordingly better than unintelligent people, and they're more capable of producing actionable plans. Sticking to those plans is part of trait conscientiousness but that can be worked on as well. If 'intelligent' guys are having trouble, ironically, it's becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 02:27 AM
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how do you want get there Honestly I don't think it's that complicated; just be the change you want to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 02:11 AM
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I thought this was the problem with porn addiction lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 02:02 AM
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For what it's worth, I'm not sure what the difference is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 02:01 AM
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I don't know if this is desperation for pussy; I think it might just be because these guys are so embedded in male-heavy technical fields and interests that they never have the opportunity to develop social skills with women. They never develop these social skills, they never develop a romantic or sexual relationship organically, so they cheat their way past by dating into another culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 01:57 AM
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I'm looking through the replies over the thread and I'm definitely inclined to think that intelligence matching is a major factor in whether these women are successful in their relationships. I'm also curious how much matching levels of personality traits (conscientiousness in particular) factors into the success of these relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 01:55 AM
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I'm not sure I quite follow your reasoning but I read this as the female equivalent of 'be nice to the fat girl, because she has a hot friend'
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 01:37 AM
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It's a downwards spiral that is shitty for both genders and I doubt it can be broken the way things are right now. From what I've read so far it seems pretty straightforward to me; if guys had more female friends it'd probably help a lot. From what I can see in general it seems to be a solution to a hell of a lot of problems. Guys seem to be more attractive if they have more friends in general, including female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 01:35 AM
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I don't think this is friendzone? I thought friendzone was when a girl's interested in you, you let it sit for too long and she interprets that as you being uninterested, so she friendzones you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 01:30 AM
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Neat, I'll have a look through this. I'm curious how much of this is subjective self reporting and how much of it is accurate analysis, but this is useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 02:21 AM
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I'm a guy; political orientation of my romantic partners is completely unimportant to me and that filtering has no impact on me. I don't know whether my politics have an impact on whether people would be interested in me; I'm half libertarian, half apoliticist. I don't think it has.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 02:20 AM
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If you've got stats I'd genuinely love to see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 01:36 AM
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It's a non-sequitur lol. "Women take rejection pretty shittily in my experience" "Yeah well one guy went on a killing spree" Yeah I mean sure there's one more man who can't cope with it. He's gone now though, problem solved?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 01:33 AM
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What Sally says of Susie says more of Sally than Susie
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 01:04 AM
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I am the token asexual guy on PPD lol. Yes, it's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 12:34 AM
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I get the feeling your CMV is just going to turn into a "list the two things that you think are most important for men's dating success". To be fair though that would be a very fun thread. Diet, basic grooming, lift, in that order. Advanced grooming can be nice, but not necessary. Stop giving a fuck. Confidence is attractive and your confidence is inversely proportionate to how much of a fuck you give.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 12:33 AM
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The only way I'd see this really being proven or disproven is if we took a good hard look at what women do when they're turned down for sex. Someone who takes something for granted gets really pissed off when it's taken away from them. For what it's worth I do think a lot of women take men's attention for granted, and you could make a decent case that men's attention and sex are one and the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 12:29 AM
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If I plan to immigrate to their country, or if they plan to immigrate to mine. If their family puts a lot of weight on marriage culturally; hardcore Christian or Muslim. Chinese family. That sort of thing. If it turns out that the tax structure in Australia places strong emphasis on marriage. I'm not a tax specialist but at the moment I don't believe it does. A Liberal government could always place more emphasis on marriage though. If I want a big party which I can get very drunk at. If I'm not …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 12:12 AM
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I enjoy womens' company but it really depends on what we're talking about. Most extroverts tend to talk about boring shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 12:06 AM
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This is the strangest thing for me as well as a guy who seems to be wired like a girl when it comes to attraction. OLD is just about entirely useless to try to find the woman I'm interested in. The last woman who I had a very good spark with was maybe a 4 if you looked at her OLD profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 11:31 PM
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I don't know if it's explicitly a lesson from the pills or whether it's just something that I've picked up over time, but indifference game is real and a great strategy for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 03:29 AM
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A girl asked me to go out to a salsa dancing thing. I'm not sure if it's a date or a friend's thing but she hovers around me like a fly on shit so I think she's into me. I've never done salsa dancing before so I'm just gonna have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 03:28 AM
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Then you're just really overstating the problem? Reading this thread I think just about anyone would think you want a QPR. Most people here thought that was the case. "Sex is a way to show love" is kind of a weird one but if guys are using that on you to try to coerce sex out of you then it's completely reasonable for you to shut it down. Honestly I think at this point you're possibly just sending out really horrible vibes that are keeping away the guys that you're interested in, and who can bla…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:19 AM
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I think it's the norm. I lie to just about everyone about my sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:16 AM
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Definitely not compromising on potentially getting pumped-and-dumped or in a failing relationship that's only standing due to sex. Bruh these are complete nonsequiturs. I didn't say you have to get pumped-and-dumped; I said that you'll probably have to compromise sexually if you want a successful relationship. You don't have to compromise in a failing relationship at all; it sounds like this is the kind of relationship you'd want to leave anyway. If I can be candid with you... I'm an asexual guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:03 AM
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Are we sure this isn't a case of 'if you always smell shit, check your shoe'?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 04:41 AM
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Sounds like you're up shit creek without a paddle then. You're not willing or able to compromise or negotiate with a heterosexual partner. You'll probably have a difficult time having a healthy relationship with an asexual partner. You want a guy who 'doesn't think with his boner' well if you get a guy who never thinks with his boner you're simply never going to be satisfied with your relationship. So you've got two solutions; look for a guy with a relatively low libido (asexual-lite), but I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 04:36 AM
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To me it seems like the 'big deal' is that you're an asexual heteroromantic woman who is looking for an asexual heteroromantic guy. You can't expect 'the same' from your romantic partners because you're not even the same sexual orientation. With that in mind, what you're asking makes no sense, as blue/purple/red pills are a way to view heterosexual relationships. As an LGBTQIA issue it falls outside the realm of PPD. You coming here is like trying to get a calculator to do your spell checking fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:00 AM
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I'm not confident it does. I'd honestly think that hookup culture causes performance anxiety - 'oh I like this girl, but what if I'm shit compared to xyz guy'.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 11:50 PM
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Does quitting the porn make the ED go away, or does quitting the porn give time to solve the other problems contributing to ED? Maybe they're spending that time socializing and working out (which get rid of depression, which gives you ED), or the working out is activating their endocrine system and improving their testosterone. To a degree I suppose it's neither here nor there how it helps, just that it does - but i think it's harder than just saying 'no wanking = no ED'.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 11:49 PM
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Honestly this just reads like the difference between introversion and extroversion and how men and women interact even amongst that. Women like to talk a lot, that's not bad, but it's not how men (tend to) prefer to interact.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 11:44 PM
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IME wife goggles do a hell of a lot of heavy lifting. My personal experience is that the woman's something like a 6 or 7, the relationship works really well during the honeymoon period which gives her bonus points. The honeymoon period then ends and the woman starts being a bitch and that +2 turns into a -2 and you don't really wanna fuck a woman who's now a 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 11:40 PM
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I would figure if it is 'porn-induced ED' then it's probably going to help you more to not look at all. At the very least, you're removing yourself from the temptation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 11:38 PM
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As far as lower limits; if I need to pay for everything I'm not interested. You've gotta pull your weight and be able to keep up. "Keeping up" doesn't really constitute much; I'm talking <$50 meals on big occasions like birthdays. As far as upper limits, I don't have any theoretical limit, they can be absolutely loaded and that's fantastic - but I'd probably be pretty worried that I couldn't keep up with that kind of lifestyle and the woman'd get bored. Not a dealbreaker but it'd be something we…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 08:05 PM
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Chad commands many Stacies. No Stacy commands Chad. To be commanded by Stacy is to revoke your Chad status. Chad's power is greater.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 08:39 PM
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Looks for both gender, as far as your entry ticket into the sexual market goes, actually have a very low bar. You need to be a 1 or a 2 to be entirely locked out of the field. After that you can start swinging for the fences with your personalitymaxxing. Not being a cunt to be around is probably what gets half of people the sex that they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 06:27 PM
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I had a gay guy pining for me like yesterday lol. Good ego boost. If it happened constantly? I'd be getting constant ego boosts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 05:37 PM
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you would have been happier? No, I like having answers to my problems, even if they're possibly not answers I can reasonably action. How were you before finding about the pills? Depressed. I had better hair though. It's okay though, I'd look like Peter Garrett if I shaved it all off. How did the pills change you? Started not giving a fuck about trying to make other people happy and did what I want to. Surprisingly effective strategy on the dating market. Would you unlearn the knowledge of the pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 10:44 AM
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RIP in peace manlets: the post? I'm honestly disinclined to believe this is the case because I don't think looksmatch makes sense. Actual matching involves more than just how each party looks. I'm not even talking about moneymaxxing or personalitymaxxing; you could just be in a geographical area that doesn't provide fair competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 10:34 AM
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Okay so this is more of a reflective post than a question for men so I'll just respond to it as though it were a reflective post. The key thing to understand is that you're playing an entirely different game to other men. If you don't have these priorities you can play into your strengths and you can play out of your weaknesses. Don't 'man up' and try to get out of it; you need to own yourself and be confident in yourself. Having a low n-count is not unattractive at all; being insecure about it …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 10:25 AM
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Yeah I was insanely attracted to this one girl who, if you saw her on Tinder or other matchmaking, would be a 4 at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 09:52 AM
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Paragraphs please! I'm the exact person you're looking for but this is impossible to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 09:50 AM
2

How they make it is a minor consideration, but on the whole, I don't think I'd find a woman more or less attractive on the back of earning more than me. More or less a non-issue in that regard. It's a yellow flag, though. It might mean they have a huge workload and would have a lot less time to spend with me than a woman who doesn't work/earn as much. It might mean they'll cost more to keep up with lifestyle-wise and I don't care for that. It might mean they're a trust fund kid, so they might be…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 09:48 AM
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Number 1; just say "I want an open relationship", she'll joyfully and enthusiastically agree to be your cuck slave, then you're no longer cheating on her. Fuck other people and if you get into a dry spell then you can fuck her if you like. Winner winner chicken dinner. Seriously though number 3. I don't want either of these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 07:45 AM
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As far as my negative views of womens' behaviour goes; personal experience, and the experiences that my brothers and other members of my extended family have had in their dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 07:17 AM
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free rent, food and gym, brotha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:44 AM
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The only thing I could think of would be to keep his tank perpetually empty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:25 AM
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No, I'm looking at the kind of things you post and I'm thinking 'this person's head is not in the right space to think about dating'. You should be looking for therapy and you should be doing some kind of internet detox.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 02:27 AM
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I don't mean to be mean, but I'd honestly say that you're missing either 'not evil' or 'not mentally ill' with the way you post about men. You're aiming out of your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 12:24 AM
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what do you have to say to the women who try to marry a good man before they hit the wall, but fail? I'd say tough luck, them's the breaks, keep trying. For you in particular? I'd tell you to get therapy and detox from the internet, the reddit communities you frequent are ruining your mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 12:19 AM
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I actually have no idea. I don't really have a pressing need to look into kiddy fiddling laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 11:11 PM
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On the one hand I very much support women being honest about their sexual history. You don't need to go out of your way to tell them your kill list (unless you're a convicted pedophile and you're legally obligated to, but I think that's not quite what you're going for) but don't lie about it. I also very much support you treating the rejection like it's no big deal. On the other hand this is pure shaming. You can fuck right off with that; guys are allowed to have their standards and expectations…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 05:29 AM
12

Chad does not know he is Chad. Chad has achieved zen. Chad knows that Chad is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:47 AM
12

I am pretty sure I am not Chad Does Chad even know he's Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:33 AM
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Oh, I have not heard that expression lol God invented buttholes for a reason brutha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 02:55 AM
1

There are still great positions to fuck while you watch shark week
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 02:54 AM
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I was gonna say, 'dangergame' isn't actually attractive in and of itself; it's the guy showing that they have a spine, and spines are sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 02:50 AM
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I dunno; maybe it's just me but I'd probably think this is coming on too strong if someone shot it at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 11:31 AM
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I wouldn't immediately throw it out but I'd be a bit hesitant about it. If we got along and I've got no good reason to assume she won't jump on the next dick to arrive, I don't see why not. Perhaps if they're a religious sort, or they're from an Asian culture which puts a lot of emphasis on filial piety, I'd consider it. That said it'd likely complicate parenting and that's important to me for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:30 AM
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I think the concern is that you're biologically tuned to be attracted to certain things but those things will flip when you're pregnant; birth control will change your hormones so that your body will think you're pregnant, and therefore this attraction flip will happen
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 01:52 AM
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"Don't fuck them for three months" seems like a great way to get an imbalanced relationship with a man who doesn't have the balls to go after what he wants, or a gay/asexual guy who'll be confused when you ask him why he hasn't tried to fuck you yet. It's not an unreasonable position. It's just not very well thought out and won't get you what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 10:41 AM
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Love and desire aren't rational things. Being a 'safe option' is a rational calculation. If she's with you for rational reasons, she isn't with you because she loves and desires you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 01:36 AM
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Women like sex. If they didn't, they would stop asking me to have sex with them. I know how that sounds but I'm an asexual guy who's been in relationships in which the stress point was how much sex I was willing to have with them and I've lost friendships with women because I didn't want to sleep with them. There really is a difference between asexual women and heterosexual women. Don't lump one in with the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 03:32 AM
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Hey I'm here what's up. To be clear I don't think it's 'hard', the steps are easy, but it's more effort than I'm willing to spend; it takes far more than it's worth unless someone who I really like falls into my lap while I'm not trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 02:58 AM
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28M I've had a few committed relationships. No casual hookups or FWB. I've been single for most of my adult life by 'choice'; I put no effort into my social life and I'm not surprised that I'm usually not in a relationship. My last relationship was mostly an accident lol. I think I do have a particular view of women because I've had only middling success in relationships but I don't think I can really consider any views emerging from that as valid ones, as I put zero effort in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 02:04 AM
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I'd figure it's the same reason I'd reject a woman who's out of my league; I'd rather not have to deal with the insecurity of 'she's out of my league, she's gonna monkeybranch when she finds someone better'.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 01:29 AM
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I remember reading this. I thought it was parody. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 08:55 AM
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Young men do need to know that approaching every situation like its a succeed-or-die situation is not going to be a winning strategy. I don't even really care about dating, I'm talking about job interviews, if you just don't give a shit about the result you'll do miles better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:26 AM
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It means I choose when we have sex. Not responsive to partner's needs? I don't have a hell of a lot of sex but this'd be a hard pass for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 05:19 AM
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Why are you so fixated on sex? Is that the only thing you bring to a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 07:30 PM
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I don't think anyone has a philosophical objection to women earning more money than men on an individual basis. I think the problem is something of a sidestep; we should be looking more closely at education level rather than earnings level. The college application and completion rates for men and women are very skewed in women's favor; I think it's a 3:2 ratio. I'm not convinced it's even that drastic of a problem anyway. It only affects women of the same class as the authors of the articles: wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 10:03 PM
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I'll very rarely be open with someone unless they're a good friend, and not someone I'm romantically interested in. Very rarely have I found being open with someone about that sort of thing to be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:14 PM
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Most women go to ... grocery store ... without being approached 99.9% of the time. Do you really want every tom dick and harry to ask for your number when you're trying to pick out sandwich meat?... This is your brain on FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:01 PM
1

David Cage
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 02:03 PM
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It doesn't matter. If she's physically attractive I don't mind getting physical with her. If she's personable I don't mind entering a relationship with her. Specifically looking at three things you've said here; Someone who wants male attention: I don't want someone who wants male attention, I want someone who wants my attention. I don't want to date a girl who's gonna be looking to monkeybranch whenever they see another prospect. Someone who shits on her own gender: I don't like that, it shows …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 01:59 PM
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Men here say that a younger woman has a much better shot at marrying an older HVM because she is at her peak attractiveness, so of course he will give her commitment? My main contention here would be: "who?" Redpill theories explicitly state that as the sexes get older, women lose SMV and men gain SMV. Higher SMV means less need to lock down a partner; many women see no need to do this when they're in their early twenties. It only makes sense that higher-SMV men would see no need to actually com…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 05:26 PM
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Do you think mens' preferences drastically vary? Yes there are some outliers but most men want pretty similar things; Tna, good face, not a fatty. Don't see why you'd expect women to be different
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 10:05 AM
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just get a dakimakura of your 3dpd waifu
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:00 AM
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I don't see why you have to change for a girl, though. There's nothing wrong with walking away.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 08:31 AM
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So that's what, roughly 10%? Won't lie that's still larger than I'd expect or like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 08:28 AM
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Virgins can't be alpha widows, by definition, and according to more than a few people alpha widowhood is the problem IRT relationship stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 07:00 AM
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TRP & the manosphere attract mid-high range alphas Nonsense. Chad is Chad, he has no use for TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 05:44 AM
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I'd shitpost on FDS for 30 days straight Nah seriously though nothing would change, I do IT work from home so it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 07:29 AM
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Unconventionally attractive or just not attractive at all? Crazy is always worst but I've got my type and it isn't conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 11:43 PM
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they seem like asexuals to me It sounds like it to me. At best, it's a distinction without a difference; someone for whom sexual attraction isn't a factor in their partner selection versus someone with no sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 05:10 AM
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Red/black, easy game.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 05:03 AM
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It's only plausible if the guy's had serious emotional neglect. I'm not talking 'never had a girlfriend', I'm talking no friends at all and no healthy relationship with any family; you would need to be totally screwed from early childhood. If you're friends with your mom you can tell whether you have an emotional bond with someone or are sexually or romantically interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:14 AM
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I should say I mean specifically 'successful'. I'd get into an LTR with a girl who lives with her parents and works at Subway if she can carry a conversation worth a damn. Better than a binge-drinking, student-debt-loaded 'professional woman' who'll drop her job at the first sign of marriage and kids. Also she'd be able to make sandwiches and i fuckin love sandwiches
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 06:51 AM
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As men, why don't we push other men to find partners based on status and be more pragmatic and overlook some physical flaws? This thread isn't meant to disparage female selection of men but merely ask why we don't encourage more men to do it. Selecting against status is being pragmatic. Higher social class women have higher expectations and may end up costing you more in the long run. Looking at it from a very basic level; if you find a woman who works and lives on 30k a year and you wife her up…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 06:39 AM
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That's a very strange perspective. I don't think many men would share it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 06:13 AM
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M28. Probably 5 years ago. I took home a way-too-drunk family friend and she wanted to fuck. If you mean an entirely cold approach, one girl in highschool. Would've been something like 13 years ago? I don't really go out too much so I don't exactly give women many opportunities to approach me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:03 PM
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Not interested in pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:56 PM
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I would honestly be more inclined to say that it's their parents that are making them interesting. This is a big part of why fathers are such an important part of the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 09:28 PM
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I'm not blaming 'manospherians' for having their political opinions; I'm 'blaming' them for knowing that it's a landmine and not stepping on it. I mean... Duh, don't step on the landmine. I've had the same happen to me; I've told leftist sorts that Trump will win - not even said that I support him, just that he'll win - and they've cut me out of their life for it. It's ridiculous. I've dated a Chinese girl who supported the party and she didn't have a problem with me having fairly right-of-centr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 05:52 PM
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I'm inclined to say it's the same problem with "where have all the good men gone" types; the interesting ones get taken off the market almost immediately. The only reason an interesting one might stay single for an extended period of time is that they've suffered some form of arrested development. It could also be that the people who have the introverted elements necessary to develop those 'interesting' qualities are outside of their visual range; interesting women exist, but these people can't …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:10 PM
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It'd kinda depend on who she is. If she's someone who actually is married and their husband is someone I like/respect, then I'd probably take it as a compliment. Same deal, don't like the guy? I won't take it as a compliment. Committed LTR, same deal. Woman who I know is single but who I'm not interested in? I'll take the compliment. I don't particularly care what it means. Woman who I know is single and I'm interested in? It gets kinda confusing then. I'd probably not take it as a compliment. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 12:54 PM
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99% Personality/interpersonal skills1% Financial situation/no job/no car/lives with parents Somebody who lives in their parents' basement, but looks good and is fun to be around, is going to have success dating, no doubt. They might not have much luck in LTRs but they're going to have a very easy time getting ONS, etc. just going to the girl's place. They can just adjust their sights to target women who are in a similar economic bucket as them. Good looking and well off financially, but socially…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 12:45 PM
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I dropped facebook 3 years ago and don't miss it. Nothing good has ever come from it.
/r/MGTOW09/12/19 09:44 AM
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She's genuinely quite attractive on the left. I don't think it's just me who's turned off by the right side; probably for the same reason animals which are brightly coloured do that to let you know that they're poisonous (can't remember the name). Eh, no real drama.
/r/MGTOW09/12/19 09:41 AM
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Hypergamy. China does not have free movement of people. If you want to move to a different province or city, you can't just pick up and move like you would in the States or most other Western countries. The majority of the excess men are in rural areas; what you could comfortably call 'backwaters'. Marriage offers them another means by which to view the value of men; where those men live. License to live somewhere is an asset. If you are looking for the highest possible value man, why would you …
/r/MGTOW08/12/19 12:55 PM
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I want my money back. I did these things to a girl and she kept bothering me. False advertising.
/r/MGTOW08/12/19 12:30 PM
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I've not noticed it particularly often. The reasons my last partner cried were all deaths in the family so I can't really blame her. A woman crying in public is a sign to stay away. Probably the only person I'd intervene in if they were crying in public would be a close relative or an SO. Completely avoid. I haven't actually been in a sexual situation in which someone's cried but I expect it would. I'd probably end the encounter immediately. No; the sympathy I'd carry for children is reserved fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:44 AM
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Can't remember how I heard about it. Initial reaction was 'eh'. It's not really for me; what's more interesting for me is the data around it and how they build the matchmaking. I'd lowkey love to know what my MMR is. I don't use it seriously. My selfie game is shit so I don't bother. I post pictures of sandwiches, grilled food and my cat on there. I get matches so maybe ya'll gotta up your sandwich game to get some right swipes if you're struggling? lol I didn't have any expectations and I have …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:22 AM
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Same reason you explain to your kid why they can't have candy for every meal. It'll rot your ability to pair bond. The novelty wears off after you've had a few rounds. It doesn't actually progress you towards success in your long-term goals. Don't get me wrong, it shouldn't be illegal, but hookup culture is frowned on by most cultures in the world for a reason, and slut-shaming exists for a reason: over the long term, it doesn't pan out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:59 AM
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I can't be bothered with justifying it. High N-count, I'm gonna hard pass. Sorry, I'm just not interested. I could go into the way you're asking the question because a lot of things about it bother me, but you're not gonna read that. If you're having sex with 15+ men and you haven't found one with whom you're sexually compatible, something's going really wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 06:05 AM
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Yeah but this is fucking retarded because talking to a girl who you aren't interested in doesn't insulate you from the problems you have talking to girls you are interested in. Never mind that if you're running around fucking all these girls you're driving up all their n-counts, tanking their ability to pair bond, just so you can be a little better at sex. I know I can't expect some rando on the internet to not be a selfish asshole but come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 08:29 PM
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If you're going to cut it down to "these things are just chemical reactions in your brain" well this entire post is just a chemical reaction that came out of someone's brain, too; how can it be a 'true' thought? The argument should never be honoured.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 04:14 PM
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godspeed brave soul
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 07:54 PM
1

I think if he takes 7 showers a day for a month he'll probably look like Denzel Washington.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 07:39 PM
1

Honestly I'm not really into it if I'm not a giver.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 03:18 PM
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I think 9/10 times 'below average' men put no effort into the strategies that would actually work. Lose weight, get a haircut, take a shower sweaty, etc. I think the biggest thing that probably cripples a lot of 'below average' guys is their social circles decay after they leave high school. Unless you have serious brain problems your problems are probably fixable, or something you can work around. I'd say 'well maybe if you're <5'4 you don't have a chance' but I don't even know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:16 AM
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It's body count, there's really no two ways around it. I can get into the semantics of the scenario that you've drawn up but at the end of the day, one woman has been in three committed relationships that appear stable and no one night stands, one woman has been in 20 one night stands and no stable relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:08 AM
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It's really just schadenfreude. A lot of great friends of mine are older (50+) women. I know a lot of great women who are in that 'post-wall' period too. They're not really dating material for me but they're good friends, and I'm happy with it that way. Some women who're past the wall act entitled to the male attention that they got during their younger period and it's exactly the same as a niceguy acting entitled to sex - funny in a sad kinda way. And I've found no trend personally that'd imply…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:02 AM
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Sorry, I should be specific. Children substantially benefit from two-parent households. You are right in that marriage isn't necessary for that to exist, but at that point if you're agreeing to raise the children together from birth to 18, the law basically sees you as married anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:44 AM
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While I can appreciate your point of view that marriage gives you too much risk for too little reward Children don't benefit from marriage That's just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:09 AM
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Not sure how you fix it, unless you start vat-growing men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 05:11 AM
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I've always thought of marriage as explicitly a "we are going to stick together to raise kids" contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 05:02 AM
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The problem with female characters in mainstream crap nowadays is that they're invincible, unflappable and monotone. I don't know how to write a good female character but I sure as hell know how to write a bad one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 04:54 AM
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I'd almost exclusively read it as "guys are psyching themselves up". They kinda need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:58 PM
5

we demand qt 3.14 gfs provided by the government
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:45 PM
2

It's not the refractory period; that's a specific thing immediately after orgasm that makes your gear hypersensitive. What you're talking about is just not having any more nut to bust; it takes a bit to refill the tank.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:42 PM
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I was 18, she was 17. Don't tell the pigs, pls
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:25 PM
3

Bad sex ed means kids aren't taught how to masturbate properly, and these habits stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:25 PM
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What My first partner taught me what was going on downstairs and I'm no chad Did I just get lucky and find a girl with more than two braincells to rub together???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:22 PM
2

FWIW it seems like a distinction without a difference unless the gal's asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:16 PM
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I'm not in opposition to your opinion at all; you misunderstand my point. What im saying is that you have constructed the opening argument in such a way that you can't actually look at the negatives of masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 03:02 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 02:41 PM
2

...Who, the Jedi? I think most religions would probably say that natural bonding between men and women through sex is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 02:29 PM
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Yes, two main reasons Deathgrip, prone masturbation syndrome, etc: You're putting too much pressure on your dick. Vaginas aren't that powerful, you won't be able to maintain erection. Porn overstimulation: The anime titties are too good, your brain doesn't like real titties anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 02:28 PM
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I'm not saying it is or it isn't, I'm speaking about the form of the question
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 02:20 PM
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That's not really a problem with porn as it is with the individuals that can't control their consumption. And casual sex isn't a problem, it's a problem with the people who are terrible judges of character and can't tell that the person they're doing it with is a serial killer. This is no reasoning at all. If it was proven that porn is as addictive as crack or heroin, then there could be a strong argument against it. Uh that seems kinda... A bit much mate. This is setting the bar very high. Even…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 02:18 PM
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Yea you can talk about it. ​ Masturbation to porn: is an occasional recreational activity, not a 24/7/365 jerkathon. The problem with porn is when it becomes more than an occasional recreational activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 01:57 PM
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It seems like you've kind of rigged the question. "Casual sex is bad because you might get chopped up, stuffed in a bag and thrown into a lake." "But you're not allowed to talk about the bad outcomes attached to porn!" I mean, I agree with the fundamental premise that casual sex is bad and people in general should probably stick to, at the very least, steady and trustworthy sexual partners; if you were to stack sexual activity, LTR>FWB>Masturbation>ONS. But the question's a bit dodgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 01:47 PM
1

Well I must've missed the point because the two items you've quoted aren't contradictory???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 01:29 PM
2

Men can look at a picture of a woman and get a reasonable idea of whether they're attractive. Women can look at a picture and see one thing that's an element considered, but not the whole picture. OLD has less elements. I'm a guy and I think I run off female attraction. Some of the girls I've met in real life were absolutely attractive to me, but their tinders I wouldn't think twice about swiping left on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 01:25 PM
2

??? They've been crystal clear about what they mean
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 01:20 PM
1

As I understand the population in China isn't quite as mobile as it is in Western countries and OCP impacted specific areas much more significantly. This 1.05 ratio might imply a normal ratio in most areas, especially urban, but primarily rural areas might have ratios much much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 01:17 PM
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More redpilled? Kind of?... I think more dudes are gonna work out because that's what women are into. Redpill's kind of a broad tent from my perspective. I'd be hard-pressed to say people thinking "chicks dig dudes who hit the gym" is "redpill worldwide!" though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 12:56 PM
1

Sexy librarian obv
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 11:04 AM
3

Male Demi/Hetero 28 Most likely not Sorry, but biologically male is biologically male. Even if I found a trans woman attractive I'd cut it off because not biologically viable; I don't do relationships without longterm viability, and not biologically viable = not longterm viable. We might get along really well because shared interests, but that makes us friends not relationship material for me. The closest I would do would be NB, biologically female.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 10:58 AM
1

What social circle?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 09:55 AM
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Pussy as the only motivator, fair enough. What I worry is that there are no motivators for a lot of guys to launch. Intergenerational incomes are going down; leaving home is going to raise your expenses and not raise your income. College is a scam, especially for a guy; it's only worth doing if you're gifted enough to excel in a STEM field. The women are worse; by the time you get your college debt sorted, you're going to be looking at being the BB half of AFBB.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 07:24 AM
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now i wanna see stats on how many guys can jog around the block lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 06:35 AM
1

Stay out of the city. Rural women can't have high N counts because there aren't enough dicks. Stay out of the city. I'd have to run the numbers, but I think there are higher rates of religiosity in rural and small town communities. Asian and Muslim girls who haven't westernized will have lower N-counts. If you're a college student seriously consider looking into the foreign exchange students. If you have the mobility, seriously consider moving to a SEA country. Personally, I'd shoot my shot at S…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 08:05 AM
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I don't know if you're gonna get any good answers from here because everyone knows who Adam Driver is lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:28 AM
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>average corporate accountant those dudes make decent money tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:27 AM
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Ngl was expecting way worse than this. This is baseline parenting, not really high standards lol. Most of the stuff on the list is basics, so long as encouraging athleticism and educational success doesn't turn into abuse when the kid just isn't cut out for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 05:43 AM
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What do you mean by 'lifestyle habits'?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 01:04 AM
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You're not getting hurt because you're approaching; you're getting hurt because you're not being approached. Also, specifically r.e. "I'm college educated and only uneducated men approach me"... this is just a failure to adapt. Higher-education dating pool gives men all the cards, women come to them. You say it hurts your feefees but the situation is entirely reversed when you're looking at college graduates. There are a lot of reasons beyond "she's not attractive" that guys won't approach for. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 06:39 PM
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Porn does have genuine effects on guys, COOMER/cumbrain is a real thing, reprograms your brain so that you only deprive pleasure from COOOMING. You don't develop the skills that are associated with successful dating; people who get into weird stuff (furries is the main example I can think of) don't have the conversational skills to talk about anything other than the material in their spankbank. I think that's why guys don't like it and nofap's a thing. I'd like to hear women's thoughts on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 05:59 PM
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Prefacing this with 'I'm a demi guy', so I'm kind of on the outside looking in. I've had women get pissed off with how long I make them wait lol. Making a HVM wait for sex is dumb because they're in a seller's market. Other women can just undercut you and you lose. HVM aren't 'okay with waiting'. They're: Making the conscious decision to wait for the same reason you are. For what it's worth, they should; a HVM has a lot to lose, crazy women exist. Possibly not as HVM as they appear, which underm…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 05:45 PM
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Small dogs bite more often because the big ones get put down
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 04:34 PM
1

Well yeah if women only want men who have degrees and 2/3rds of college degrees are going to women, 2 college-educated women are going to be competing for each college-educated man - assuming they carry the same standards. If men don't care about education level (they don't, not as much as women do), those 2 college women aren't just competing with one another, they're also competing with every other woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 12:09 AM
1

I would rather be alone if I can’t be with someone financially, physically, and mentally stable. I think most everyone will agree with you that you're under no obligation to date a jobless, drug-addicted psychopath. Why is it worse to be alone? Impacts the kids, mostly. Single motherhood has negative impacts. If you have no kids, you're a high-value woman who hasn't been bought.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:57 PM
1

On the one hand, sure. On the other hand, why are you using social media? Rots your brain.
/r/MGTOW21/11/19 05:49 AM
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Women'll be worse off, I think. Two main reasons; Men are already doing pretty poorly compared to women. Looking at employment rates and income in younger brackets, women are winning. Men can't lose because men have less to lose. Women cluster tighter around 100 IQ while men vary more. Problem here is that lower IQ men are already less employed or unemployed. The jobs that are automated are ones which demand lower cognitive ability, particularly creative cognitive ability, and IQ is a reasonable…
/r/MGTOW18/11/19 08:46 AM
1

I met one girl and her friends who like dnd and board games. That's about it
/r/MGTOW17/11/19 09:20 AM
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For what it's worth, I expect a lot of Trump supporters would adore it if she ran. It's a free win if she's the democratic candidate.
/r/MGTOW14/11/19 07:40 AM
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YTA sweaty. You aren't entitled to her body!!1
/r/MGTOW13/11/19 08:17 PM
3

I noticed the Star Wars quote in the first line and I can't really tell which is less appropriate; dating advice from the 1800s or dating advice from Yoda.
/r/MGTOW10/11/19 05:57 AM
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This is probably a few things at play. Insurance companies (the ones I've used, at least) will lower the rate based on the number of years the client's been with the company without claiming. Men are more prone to claiming on their insurance as they're more likely to be in accidents. This doesn't necessarily mean that they're worse drivers; it can mean they're being put in dangerous situations more often (more rural driving, night driving/dangerous conditions, shift work causing fatigued driving…
/r/MGTOW10/11/19 05:50 AM
1

This is really interesting. I hope there's followup to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 09:49 PM
1

This is really interesting. I hope there's a followup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 09:48 PM
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Number of sexual partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 08:37 AM
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He sent you a picture of his junk? Didn't realise that Trubbish was in PoGo yet Dump and move on I think is what I would do. I don't understand dick pics. If he doesn't respect this boundary and you let him through, you are teaching him that he does not need to respect any of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 03:06 PM
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Politics on paper are a big deal for me but in practice they're a complete non-factor. See how it translates into their day-to-day life and how they treat people before making a judgement I think. That you can have a healthy disagreement about politics speaks volumes, I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 01:12 PM
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...What? He didn't think that boob jobs were genetic did he lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 02:22 PM
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Not a femcel. On a break from dating while I sort out some of the chaos in my life, but I'll get back in the game soon, I'm sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 02:15 PM
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They're losers on the internet with too much free time on their hands, who spend that free time bullying other losers on the internet. Don't waste your time caring about them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 10:13 AM
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I've read about this a bit, personality wise; it's not fair to assume he's cheating or planning to leave. Introverts can and will clam up for possibly weeks at a time. They'll do this sometimes just periodically and they'll also do it responding to stress. Specifically, look into INTP (MBTA) or W5 (enneagram) and see if it matches up with him. If he's sleeping more often it's very possible he's stressed out about something, or having a depressive episode. I'd say to let him have his time, let hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 01:36 AM
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Female Dating Everyone Strategy: Do's and Don't of social media
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 12:52 AM
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I'd probably only get married if having kids was something we were considering or had already agreed on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 12:39 AM
3

in this order? made me giggle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 12:30 AM
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No sex is better than bad sex, and if you can't get your head around your partner, it's always going to be bad sex. Don't chase bad sex. As far as actually getting to them men you want; don't lower your standards. Work out how to get more access to the kind of partner that you would be interested in. There's great advice around here; I'd give it but I'm not really that good at it myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 06:47 AM
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If my partner's past looked like that I wouldn't bother asking for reddit's approval; I'd be out the door. Someone who has proven they're okay with breaking monogamous relationships not once but twice? Come on. Do the math.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 04:23 AM
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It's not really your job. If you want to give them advice, sure, they might take it well but a lot of the time they'll take it pretty poorly. They might take it as "i'm not interested in you now but if you fix xyz come back!" you don't want that. If they want someone to give them dating advice they're probably going to be better off talking to their friends. If you have male friends and they ask for dating advice, don't be shy about giving it, but people you're immediately breaking up with? Nah.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/19 08:10 AM
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In my experience it's possible but it is not very likely. I'd really recommend you bail. Dead bedrooms are painful for everyone, you can get out of this one before it begins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 10:42 AM
2

It's better, but still not good. I don't mind a decent espresso.
/r/MGTOW17/10/19 11:14 AM
1

I'd gotten into coffee around 5-6 years ago. Weaning myself off it; if I go cold turkey I get vicious headaches. Thank god I didn't get into soda like my brother did, he's a good 20kg on me.
/r/MGTOW17/10/19 09:46 AM
5

He's no longer wasting your time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 10:46 PM
1

I need to do this desperately. Getting a few weeks off work soon so hopefully I can get some real work done on it. Get started on meal planning and everything
/r/MGTOW09/10/19 05:11 AM
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af bb. gtfo
/r/MGTOW09/10/19 04:29 AM
5

I've seen the film, I went alone. Honestly with my experience with taking women to films (discussing the movie during the middle of the movie) this is not the movie to watch with a woman. There's too much going on from the subway scene onwards, but it goes slowly. Great film though.
/r/MGTOW05/10/19 07:15 PM
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I was gonna say. I'm Australian and it cracks me up how tight American panties get over it
/r/MGTOW12/09/19 12:29 AM
6

Bricklaying maybe. Very physical job so you've gotta be tough stuff but it's good work.
/r/MGTOW20/07/19 08:45 PM
1

I was thinking just slavsquat on it
/r/MGTOW18/07/19 03:31 AM
2

Remember seeing this in the news not long ago. Some young fella (20-ish) had a teaspoon of the stuff because his dad told him it'd be okay. Dead.
/r/MGTOW13/07/19 03:09 AM
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100% fetish shit, easy peg, surprised it's not higher.
/r/MGTOW25/06/19 10:53 AM
2

I was going to say; the difference between the answers speaks magnitudes The women were assuming that they were going to get their feelings hurt and that if their feelings were hurt, it was significant enough to disrupt workflow, that is a major red flag This question and answer on their own are enough to justify the hiring decision
/r/MGTOW18/04/19 02:48 AM
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