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In the United Kingdom, for example, the Equality and Human Rights Commission (EHRC)—an independent statutory body established by the British government to help eliminate discrimination and protect human rights— has revealed that white boys from poorer backgrounds, ‘suffer the worst start in life as they continue to fall further behind every other ethnic group at school – with their chances of a successful and prosperous career decreasing as a result’. https://www.spectator.com.au/2017/02/white-m…
/r/MensRights16/09/17 12:34 AM
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In its report Going Blind To See More Clearly, the Behavioural Economics Team of the Australian Government (BETA) has found “that Australian Public Service (APS) officers generally discriminate in favour of female and minority candidates” for job vacancies. http://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/news/opinion/mark-latham-white-male-privilege-myth-busted/news-story/f3f6f12ef75add0be2efecbf0e4723b1
/r/MensRights16/09/17 12:29 AM
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Excellent breakdown. I literally cringed reading that Vice reporter's summary of what this sub is "really" about. I've only posted here a few weeks, and as a female I have encountered little abject misogyny, much much more genuine concern for men's rights. The author of that rubbish is clearly unable to see reason, lost in their leftist echo chamber.
/r/MensRights16/09/17 12:19 AM
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Awesome... I've several good friends who've been hauled through hell in divorce/custody and come out the other side broke and without access to their kids. One has primary care and is fighting for his little son, while the 'mother' helps herself to all his belongings and money (ensuring he can't afford a lawyer), with the help of her new boyfriend. It is a very serious issue that i cannot believe isn't at the forefront of reform. These men develop suicidal thoughts, because of the emotional abus…
/r/MensRights16/09/17 12:06 AM
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Ah, didn't even think of that... maybe I'm just not jaded yet, heh. I'd prefer to hope they're finally addressing female-to-male violence.... it so sorely needs doing.
/r/MensRights16/09/17 12:00 AM
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.. yeah, I'm not a feminist. I'm pretty much leaning pretty hard toward to MRA/true equality politics. I'm not arguing that women should not be held accountable, lol. My sole point was, some rape/molestation victims don't realise they're being victimised right away, especially the young ones, and especially if the act was the result of predatory coercion. In those cases, sometimes there is a weird relationship with the abuser, and sometimes they don't report because they fear damaging whole fami…
/r/MensRights15/09/17 11:57 PM
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It's pretty damn awesome that a public campaign against abuse is addressing female-to-male emotional violence. About damn time.
/r/MensRights14/09/17 08:41 AM
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Not all women have the mind of beta /omega /trans men.
/r/MensRights14/09/17 08:29 AM
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I mean if I don't remember it then how can it affect me unless I actively seek to make it hurt me? Well you could end up with a rape baby and having to saddle your life to some crazy bitch who used you as her sperm donor..?
/r/MensRights14/09/17 08:26 AM
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Good post, and very astute in identifying some pf the the motives behind that kind of almost 'stockholm syndrome' some victims act out. It does seem his present partner is a really caring person.
/r/MensRights14/09/17 08:23 AM
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you mean like mattress girl right? She claimed she was raped,. adn he was exonerated due to her begging for his dick after the claimed night. ...no. I mean like, very young or naive or emotionally immature people don't always realise that non-consensual or heavily coerced sex is actually 'rape', especially if it doesn't involve stereotypical brutality. The way, say, a young schoolboy might go along with female teacher's sexual desires for a while, or a young girl might seek out that 25 years old…
/r/MensRights14/09/17 08:19 AM
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How does a person who's been raped actually act? There isn't a freakin template for that. Just sayin.
/r/MensRights14/09/17 12:02 AM
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Shit is not always that simple. People are ashamed/afraid.. maybe there's fear ridicule, of blowing up innocent lives around the offender (his/her spouse and kids, even the innocent family of the offender..) - you can discount the impact all of that might have, but in reality a lot of rapes go unreported because the consequences of reporting seem vastly overwhelming to someone who's already traumatised/scared/confused. And that goes for male or female victims.
/r/MensRights13/09/17 11:59 PM
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The comments on that post make me feel physically sick. They're absolutely repulsive and a similar commentary on a female who was assaulted and raped would rightly be downvoted into oblivion. You'd be torn apart for saying some of the things they're saying on there. And a lot of worst ones are coming from a self-identified rape victim, to boot --- who apparently believes only victims of rapes like her own experience deserve not to have the rape referred to as "rape". That got me so damn mad. I h…
/r/MensRights13/09/17 11:53 PM
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Nice post. 100% agree.
/r/MensRights13/09/17 11:49 PM
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Men with the mentality of a feminist. FTFY
/r/MensRights13/09/17 11:38 PM
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you should see what this piece of shit /u/hisstriss is saying: Rape survivors don't fawn over their rapists, even with a baby in the picture. I love how these POS wanna be "experts on rape" do not actually have CLUE #1 about the dynamics of rape, outside of the whole "aggressive man penile-rapes woman" scenario. Rape survivors DO "fawn over their rapists" sometimes -- nobody likes to talk about it, but this routinely happens with kids, for example, who are being abused/molested. It also happens …
/r/MensRights13/09/17 11:36 PM
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2nd leading cause of death for men age 10-34.. 3rd for men age 35-44 after accidents and heart attack. That's how many men are choosing to kill themselves.. it's horrific.
/r/MensRights09/09/17 11:07 PM
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More Mental Health Care For New Mums, Children And Young People Minister for Mental Health 20 July 2017 http://www.premier.vic.gov.au/more-mental-health-care-for-new-mums-children-and-young-people/
/r/MensRights09/09/17 02:05 PM
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Like this one? http://www.politicalresearch.org/2011/03/01/fathers-rights-groups-threaten-womens-gains-and-their-safety/#sthash.7toCbZ4w.dpbs I'd rather keep a close eye on 'em, thanks.
/r/MensRights09/09/17 01:31 PM
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Instead, feminists and non-feminists (or, as I call them, dickwads) alike Oh hey, the feminist you linked just awared me that I am a 'dickwad'. Thx, feminist.
/r/MensRights09/09/17 09:52 AM
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I think it's less about feminist opinion and more about.. how men get the short end of the stick in terms of help and resources for mental illness and trauma.. and a bunch of other stuff, while governments throw vast amounts of money at the same issues for women. Despite whatever awareness exists or why, men are still killing themselves in droves, and a lot of this is over depression caused by ex wives/girlfriends who are generally speaking favoured by courts for custody and alimony, as well as …
/r/MensRights09/09/17 09:34 AM
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This is... insane. When you speak to a lawyer, OP, see whether you can somehow have the 4k costs repaid -- seeing as it was court error. Speaking to the press is an excellent idea.
/r/MensRights09/09/17 09:03 AM
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Fantastic news. Now let's hope it actually means something in terms of practical application.
/r/MensRights09/09/17 09:00 AM
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Well, in theory maybe. In practise, not so much as you might think. Hundreds of kids are dead or badly injured every year, whose case the cps are well and truly aware of. Our cps is also meant to investigate every case.. and they do... kind of. Sadly, as in the US, very often not well enough to save the child's life, despite massive red flags for imminent harm.
/r/MensRights09/09/17 08:53 AM
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Schumer perhaps wisely declined to describe herself as feminist. "I think anyone who is not a feminist is an insane person." - Schumer Amy Schumer's Raucous Feminism | The New Yorker "I don't try to be feminist. I just am." KC: After your amazing speech at the Glamour U.K. Women of the Year Awards [in which Schumer said, "I'm probably like 160 pounds right now, and I can catch a dick whenever I want"], one commenter on YouTube wrote, "If a man talked about catching pussy, the media would be call…
/r/MensRights09/09/17 08:51 AM
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Women are starting to notice that men would rather have their own independance then creature comforts. And it's alarming then. Well, for some of us it's more 'saddening them'. Just as it outrages us that young women are using men -and babies - as a free ticket to never work again. Those women .. if you follow crime cases closely, and I do.. are the major culprits for putting children at risk of immediate harm for neglect and abuse. It's heartbreaking to see that it's become a thing for men to pr…
/r/MensRights08/09/17 01:48 AM
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Much appreciated, thanks for the info.
/r/MensRights08/09/17 12:52 AM
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Just wanted to wish you good luck with this!
/r/MensRights07/09/17 09:55 PM
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Why are you participating in a sub that is all about gender equality? srs question
/r/MensRights07/09/17 09:20 PM
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Imagine a pile of comedy skits featuring women being punched in the boobs, or kicked in the vag.
/r/MensRights07/09/17 09:15 PM
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Think about it this way.. if Bill Burr got up on a stage and started talking/laughing about how he sexually molested a blackout drunk woman in the same manner as Schumer.. the outrage from all feminists everywhere would have been palpable and permanent. Where's the sustained outrage against Schumer for using an act of date rape as a joke? Where's the general condemnation of her as a rape apologist? "Amy is the feminist the world needs right now." - vogue
/r/MensRights07/09/17 09:10 PM
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Our gender problems are intractably linked. It is precisely the false and damaging belief that some issues affect one group in isolation, and can be addressed in isolation and to the exclusion of other groups, that got us here. Well said.
/r/MensRights07/09/17 08:52 PM
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It's certainly not normal, for men in general (the intentionally intimidating leering). But more frequent than some here really want to admit.
/r/MensRights07/09/17 08:49 PM
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They are incapable of viewing people as victims if it isn't a shared victimhood well put
/r/MensRights07/09/17 08:46 PM
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Honestly, the way things are, having relatives or neighbours of -either- sex call is way too often no help at all. Sometimes they are themselves painted as a culprit for their trouble, which is insane. Agreed, re the doctor. I hope he's prosecuted, along with the cps workers etc.. but they rarely are. The only person vitally concerned for this child was her bio dad... who was rendered helpless by law and policy,
/r/MensRights07/09/17 03:40 AM
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There's far too many of both to even begin to make it a competition, which is a miserable state of affairs. I truly believe that were biological fathers - those that are stable - given more rights to take control in the case of maternal abuse and neglect, countless innocent lives would be saved.
/r/MensRights07/09/17 03:34 AM
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Yup. They also seem to be very conveniently conflating men's rights groups with places that are actually all about the woman-hate. That is not my experience here. if they spent a few days in this environment, they'd see.... owait. No. I actually doubt they would, n/m.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 10:49 PM
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I do not understand it. Exactly- don't these people have fathers? Brothers?
/r/MensRights06/09/17 10:45 PM
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so long as women are coy, which they are by nature Nah, they are coy because that's expected of them, they're taught not to be sexually aggressive/confident, lest they be called sluts and the 'nice boys' won't marry them. Not being snarky, that is just literally the way it is. it wasn't too long ago when women kind of generally had this all figured out... if a guy moves on you and you don't want him, common sense demands that you just politely let him know. If he goes a step too far with sexual …
/r/MensRights06/09/17 10:43 PM
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Isn't this a very simplistic way of looking at it? Assuming you meant to be sarcastic here.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 10:35 PM
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lol - funny because true
/r/MensRights06/09/17 10:29 PM
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the probles is not being catcalled the proble is being catcalled by a unatractive male. I can see what you mean about the chicks who parade up and down, hoping for a comment. I've seen that, The problem is NOT "getting catcalled by an unattractive male' , speaking for myself and the sane women I know.. none of whom are ever offended by any male offering an appreciative comment without sounding like a total grub. The problem is the leering, lewd, filthy, overtly threatening/intimidating behaviour…
/r/MensRights06/09/17 10:27 PM
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Yup, this.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 10:21 PM
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Yeah pretty much sums it up for Australia too. Dunno about the 'malicious goad' bit, though. Does anyone actually do that?
/r/MensRights06/09/17 10:19 PM
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It's also a mistake to assume that -every one- of those catcalls is intended to "oppress" or shame or w/e. 90% of the comments/whistles I ever got were meant in a pleasant/mildly flirty way, and in no way "offensive". Some were actually frightening, but with those, the actual intention was very plainly intimidation.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 10:15 PM
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Not true... in the sense of physical/facial beauty. An otherwise good-looking man can seem extremely ugly if he's leering and making gross gestures. A facially 'plain' man can seem pleasant and charming, if he offers a nice compliment without all that nastiness.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 10:10 PM
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competitive victimhood .. such a perfect term for that behaviour. They've all got to have their own 'victimhood' of whatever kind, to feel valid in their outrage.. which feeds their sense of self-importance and general validity. I was once accused of "undermining the validity" of another woman's "trauma", by talking about an -actual- violent sexual assault, in the same place she was talking about once being touched on the boob in an elevator or something. Perfect term for that shit.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 10:07 PM
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bahaha
/r/MensRights06/09/17 10:00 PM
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I'm actually surprised there's not more threads here on the front page regarding the disgusting and unfair treatment people get from CPS. It is literally rampant.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 09:57 PM
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Sorry, but this is really nonsense.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 09:55 PM
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I've said for years, state sanctioned sterilisation for chronic abusers (of either sex) would help all concerned. But oooh human rights... never mind the rights of everyone else surrounding these assholes.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 09:48 PM
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Both the stories I've heard and my own experience says CPS isn't even real. They're just a fake organization we have to pay taxes for to fatten their wallets. The system is rigged. "Best interests of the child" as a legal precedent MY ASS. And our version of CPS over here in Aus is EXACTLY the same. makes me wonder, it really does, as to why these agencies are so spectacularly fail, in exactly the same ways, on 3 separate continents.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 09:43 PM
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Well, better they blame the 'drugs" for her monstrous behaviour, than have to admit that a woman can be even more vicious and vile than the man involved, just because.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 09:40 PM
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Ah I see. I was saying.. for that feminist who made the video, it's not very empowering of her to dis on other women by calling them 'dumb'. That's why i said 'some women are more equal than others'.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 09:33 PM
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lol, all the deletions
/r/MensRights06/09/17 09:30 PM
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wow. I didn't know these things. Incest and rape are are acceptable if you don't have penis. Admitting to these behaviours doesn't get you lynched, if you don't have a penis.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 09:30 PM
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I'm pretty impressed with the level of rational discussion here, and general lack of woman-hate. I do see anger.. bitterness.. but it's not directed at me personally just for being a female.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 09:24 PM
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How incredibly paranoid. :-) How sad is it that people can't believe that others care about men? 100% this... hardcore feminists & other oppressive gender extremists seem to really hate it when men and women agree on rational, sensible change toward actual equality. Co-operation just doesn't help their agendas at all.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 09:18 PM
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Feminism is a religion, with doctrine that cannot be rationally debated because faith cannot be debated. I think you just totally nailed it there.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 09:13 PM
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Mine wasn't NPD, her lies came from delusions, a mix of paranoid schizophrenia and BPD probably, and massive overmedication plus alcohol abuse didn't help. Still, she had me believing all sorts of shit, really scared a lot of the time.. it ended with her chasing me around the yard with a kitchen knife in the small hours. but that really wasn't the worst of the stuff she put me and my siblings through. They were taken off her a few years before, but being the oldest I was left behind alone, becau…
/r/MensRights06/09/17 09:05 PM
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oops.. sorry. I didn't know that was a thing.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 03:48 PM
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haha, judy rocks
/r/MensRights06/09/17 03:20 PM
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Men just wait a few months and beat them to death. sadly, not being facetious there
/r/MensRights06/09/17 03:19 PM
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Young men are being radicalised on the internet every day by men’s rights groups that claim to support them but ultimately hate women. Visit one of these sites and their impotent fury with women – for refusing to meekly accept their assigned roles, for not wanting to sleep with them, for divorcing them, for asking for child support – steams off the screen. But at the same time, there are signs that society is changing, and that my generation is embracing it. ..just terrible
/r/MensRights06/09/17 02:29 PM
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Or men could just quit putting their dicks in crazy...at least until the law starts better recognising their worth as parents.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 02:14 PM
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Yeah that would not surprise me one bit.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 02:07 PM
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It gets hard to see it any other way, frankly. I had to quit posting on crime forums because of the sheer volume of totally preventable child deaths and severe abuse cases, in which cps didn't just 'miss' the danger but wilfully ignored it - and ignored too, in a lot of cases, the father as a safer custodial option. It just got too much - and I have a real thick skin.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 02:06 PM
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It really is ridiculous.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 01:50 PM
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uggggh.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 01:48 PM
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There was a case here a couple years ago - Tanilla Warwick-Deaves, I'll never forget her - where more than 30 complaints were made, the little girl's dad was beside himself trying to save her... same sad ending. 30 complaints by rellies and neighbours and her dad.. but it took the poor baby's horrible slow death to make cps sit up. Tanilla and her poor grieving dad, and a few other left-centrically dead kids are what made me see clearly that the welfare system is nothing to do with families and …
/r/MensRights06/09/17 01:41 PM
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!00% agree
/r/MensRights06/09/17 01:33 PM
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.. that's so insane, poor little kids. Yet another fantastic candidate for state sanctioned sterilisation. I wish to hell every government offered free operations and a cash bonus for tube-tying, it'd save em a ton of money in resources and more importantly, save the poor damn kids from being born into these messes. Disgusting, that she's abusing her kids in the womb, and still she's given rights as a mother. It literally takes a death to get that paperwork even started, in too many cases.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 01:26 PM
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I dunno, I'm in two minds here. On one hand, there's a lot of stupid, butthurt feminists and who cares what their opinions are. One the other... in my younger years, I got my share of catcalls... nowadays, it's my adult daughter who gets them. What we agree on is that it's all to do with context -- it's one thing hear a wolf whistle, turn and see a couple of clean looking guys waving and smiling at you in broad daylight (few men do this stuff alone, and if they do they're usually quite creepy.. …
/r/MensRights06/09/17 01:06 PM
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Awesome! And I can see why... she is extremely articulate and does her research. I've learned so much just from a few videos.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 12:14 PM
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i had a morbid chuckle.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 12:07 PM
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Marijuana made her viciously abuse her toddler? Yeah that had me rolling my eyes.. crazy, or meth, i'd lay bets on either or both. And yup.. 19 years wasn't it? Should be sterilised as well.. and I'm serious there.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 12:06 PM
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Sorry - aren't you feminist? Or were you just siding with one, because she agreed with you on thus one point?
/r/MensRights06/09/17 09:58 AM
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This one was -in- a hospital..
/r/MensRights06/09/17 07:59 AM
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Derbyshire County Council workers also saw drug use, violence and child neglect at the home where the toddler lived *but mother and daughter were kept together until she died in May 2014. * I am so sick - literally- of hearing these horrific stories, where a child suffers sustained and brutal abuse at the hands of a woman or her chosen partner, and despite all the massive red flags present, the policy of "keeping families (ie, mother and child) together" has resulted in massive injury and all to…
/r/MensRights06/09/17 07:50 AM
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So sad. At the very least, most of these women should get mandatory time in a mental health facility - as most really are mentally ill. We put mentally ill male child killers away for life, and in my country, without hope of release. But the women get parole because issues.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 07:34 AM
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Yup, very empowering for women, to point and laugh and call them "dumb". Apparently, some women are more equal than others.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 07:26 AM
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She sued for custody and child support for her other child. I've researched several cases very much like this over the past few years.. the women involved, when not simply drug-addled self-absorbed ninnies, all had a mother who was personality disordered/mentally unwell, and/or an abusive step father chosen BY that mother. The last one I looked at (a severely disturbed young mother who killed her 3 kids), the woman's creepy stepfather (who married his own step daughter..with the mother's blessin…
/r/MensRights06/09/17 07:19 AM
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Excellent video, thank you for it. I really was not aware that self-dating (as a kind of sexual preference) was even a thing. How utterly sad, that it's seen not as a sort of pathology but as an alternative to actual relationships. I am sure the author of the video and I don't share politics on a lot of fronts.. but I'm glad he's shone a light on this particular bit of social insanity. The more I learn about the depraved depths of self-indulgent leftist gender politics, the sorrier I feel for hu…
/r/MensRights06/09/17 07:10 AM
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omg.. she tried to kill this child twice -- in a hospital -- while her other unfortunate kid was being treated for a heart condition she claims she didn't know she was pregnant...and the hospital cites ptsd over the other child's ill health as the cause. .. I call bullshit. And will bet there's a lengthy drug history behind all this. God help her other child.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 06:34 AM
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Thanks for that link. I've just discovered this woman and I really enjoy her speeches.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 04:56 AM
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. I have more trouble with fundies than I do with junkies, in terms of the mother continually failing to protect and being unwilling to become a full adult. Ditto.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 04:55 AM
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Actual examples would be: damselling (playing victim), irrationality, hysterical overreaction, spreading moral panic, using proxy violence, gossiping, blaming men, disloyalty, refusing to take responsibility for one's actions, and so forth. In other words: feminism. Those are also, just by the way, symptoms that lean heavily toward Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 04:53 AM
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This very thing is a part of the reason I am here. Had a man thrown his newborn infant in the trash, he would not be seeing daylight for a number of years... no matter his state of mind.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 04:50 AM
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Our support structures are so bad that men who sought help from any of the above experienced a higher rate of PTSD than men who didn't. Those numbers are devastating.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 04:42 AM
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In other words, I think they're still selfish as fuck and continutally prove that they only care about themsevles and their emotions... that there is nothing altruistic about their support. I don't support men for what they can give me.. or for their approval... I don't have or want a husband at this time in my life. I support men's right's because I like men, and I care about their welfare and dignity. I support them because I dislike seeing anyone disadvantaged, railroaded, gaslighted - partic…
/r/MensRights06/09/17 04:33 AM
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My issue with feminism is that it's ONLY about fixing the female inequalities whilst claiming to be for ALL equality. It has also taken to turning every woman into a victim of something rather than empowering us. Fellow Aussie mum here, sounds like we have a very similar pov on those issues. Could not agree more. The whole victim mentality thing really irritates me. Gotta be a victim of something, it seems, or become irrelevant.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 03:56 AM
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This young woman's videos are quite good.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 03:24 AM
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. In some cases, both the complainant and the accused were five years old. jfc, that's insane
/r/MensRights06/09/17 02:24 AM
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There is no true Scotsman. Scottish lives matter
/r/MensRights06/09/17 02:12 AM
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As someone who -did- remove my mother from my life, I have to say no, it isn't that easy. My story is quite different different to yours in many regards, however - my mother had a whole different pathology than what yours very probably has. I wasn't duped by her into believing only postive things, that's for sure.. and I cut her off at age 13, and never looked back. However - and this is my point - to this day, many decades later, I still try to find compassion for her, even though she was extre…
/r/MensRights05/09/17 08:31 PM
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Maybe the women you accuse of "internalized misogyny" don't really hate women. Maybe they just have a low tolerance for hypocritical bullshit ideologies like 3rd-wave feminism that pretend that misogyny is so rampant it's in our air-conditioning This.
/r/MensRights05/09/17 08:00 PM
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I know what he means.. the kind who seem to be hoping to get more attention and approval from men, because they come across as genuine as a three dollar bill.
/r/MensRights05/09/17 06:48 PM
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Yes that is quite sad reading some of the comments. I think for many of the younger men there's a reaction against feminism to try and make MRM about men only in opposition to feminism. There's a certain validity to that reaction, though.. there is bound to be an element of rage whenever shit is piled upon a people, for decades on end, with the expectation they must just accept it or somehow deserve even more shit. Yes, it is a shame. But I do understand how someone may end up there.
/r/MensRights05/09/17 06:41 PM
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the "war of the sexes," which seems constructed and unnatural. In short, we are being pitted against each other. To what end, I am not sure, but this is not normal. I agree, and thank you for that post. Feminism is the enemy of a lot of women, too.. here's an example, from my own experience. I have tried to express my opinion that women themselves need to be more mindful of the fact that they too, in some instances, contribute to domestic violence both directly and indirectly. ie, not just by go…
/r/MensRights05/09/17 06:22 PM
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My perception is that, for some men, we pretty much do have outsider status. I used that wording because I wanted to hear from them as well.
/r/MensRights05/09/17 05:55 PM
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and also very slightly resent Can't blame you there, really. There is, from what I can gather, a lot of very reasonable male voices out there, speaking about actual injustices against boys and men. What a damn shame they can't be heard in a receptive and reasonable way. Speaking from my own perspective, my own wariness to approach overt support and join a sub like this came largely from also happening across the groups who seem to band together in total woman-hate.. just as too many feminists do…
/r/MensRights05/09/17 05:45 PM
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and much of the behavior that feels righteous to us is really just us following the training of a system that has manipulated us. Could you please elaborate on this?
/r/MensRights05/09/17 05:37 PM
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I think they are marriage material. I don't mean that in a demeaning way. And speaking for myself, it is not at all taken that way.
/r/MensRights05/09/17 05:34 PM
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I can actually understand and appreciate this point of view. For me, as a woman, I don't know how many times I've thought "Oh please stfu" when some drone starts moping about how sexism against women hurts his "inner goddess too". What do you think about mothers with sons, though? Are they somewhat entitled (sad how that word has become evil now) to take a stand for their boys, when they see injustice being done to them?
/r/MensRights05/09/17 05:30 PM
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In that case I guess I see us as having very different views on feminism. Men are sentenced to longer prison sentences than women, and that is something feminism is most definitely against, it's an awful manifestation of the way we as a society view men as aggressors and it is undoubtedly harmful. Isn't it every bit as much, or possibly more so, an awful manifestation of the way we as society show more willingness to forgive and/or understand the motivations of female perpetrators? I notice this…
/r/MensRights05/09/17 10:29 AM
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Because it is overwhelmingly men that take up publicly visible successful roles, and in fact most publicly visible roles at all, look at film, at television, at famous authors, poets, actors, painters, scientists, politicians, academics, entrepreneurs, doctors, it is all overwhelmingly male. It looks like a man's world. *Used to look like a man's world. Not so much these days.
/r/MensRights05/09/17 10:13 AM
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Indeed, focusing on how men's issues affect women and magnifying female MRA's would attract more positive mainstream attention. But then it seems self-defeating: what's the point if in the end people still don't give a shit about men and boys and their voices still aren't heard? This is one of the major areas of concern for me in making this thread. I want to support men's right to equality and equitable treatment, but I don't wish to diminish the voices of men in doing so. Re women discussing m…
/r/MensRights05/09/17 09:37 AM
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No hysteria present.. what I'm asking is why he's being cagey about what angle he's coming from here. I know people who are proud of their white heritage and aren't compelled to mix hatred for other races in with that pride. I am such a person myself. In this video and others he's posted in replies to me, I perceive clear instances of racial hatred from what I see (because it's familiar to me) as a supremacist viewpoint, so I'm just wondering where he's coming from with all that. Asking question…
/r/MensRights05/09/17 09:28 AM
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Karen Straughan I could listen to that woman talk all day, she's great at cutting through bs to get right to the point.
/r/MensRights05/09/17 08:30 AM
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"By 2050 the average American will look like this" -pic of brown baby- You're clearly a supremacist or overt alarmist sympathiser.. why not own up to it and stand up for your beliefs openly, and with pride?
/r/MensRights05/09/17 03:07 AM
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Have you sought any sort of counselling? It sounds to me like you'd probably benefit from it.. both to help relieve the past trauma, and to cope with any new emotional damage arising from the ongoing nature of these false claims. It really helps just to be heard.. but also, a counsellor that specialises in emotional trauma might be more specifically helpful to you. I had an insecure boy make untrue claims about me in high school that damaged my reputation and future relationships.. it took a few…
/r/MensRights05/09/17 02:56 AM
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Great post!
/r/MensRights05/09/17 02:30 AM
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Excellent article - thank you for reposting. As the essay points out, an objective "gender studies" would take neither a gynocentric nor androcentric perspective but look at things from multiple perspectives. It certainly wouldn't reduce gender issues to a nebulous concept like "patriarchy". I had a rather heated debate with a rabid feminist once in which I tried to get across that 'matriarchy', as she idealised it, was every bit as repressive as the misogynist's ideal patriarchy.. the oppressio…
/r/MensRights05/09/17 02:09 AM
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Forgive me.. am I to understand that this is a roundabout way of saying your POV is pretty much Odinistic, or something like it? It's ok by me if you say it out loud, lol. One of the greatest, most successful and influential societies the world has ever known did not operate as an oppressive patriarchy... and nor was it an oppressive matriarchy. Women were as capable as they could possibly be.. and worked, rode and fought right alongside their men, and this was completely normal for them. And if…
/r/MensRights05/09/17 01:01 AM
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What does 'do it the hard way' mean?
/r/MensRights04/09/17 07:35 AM
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I would love to hear the reply.
/r/MensRights04/09/17 07:19 AM
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Oh this just makes me really angry, obviously your friend cannot get her head out of her vagina enough to develop any true concept of male -or female- reality. It's very sad... god forbid people like this have sons.
/r/MensRights04/09/17 07:17 AM
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I bet it is, poor hun.. and I'm guessing there's like, a bajillion men with that same name in the phone book... If you can eke any more info from her, even a tiny bit.. a brother's name, a couple general areas he may have lived before.. any snippet that could cut down your search, that would help a lot. He may not have a big internet footprint, himself, but his relatives might. And internet peoplesearches can be good if you have a list of relative names or former locations. My sister made .. I d…
/r/MensRights04/09/17 04:06 AM
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I'm holding out hope that a good percentage of women will turn that tide... so many are sick to fucking death of having our shit decided for us by - added for clarity- far right and far left agenda trolls.
/r/MensRights04/09/17 03:21 AM
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No, I mean like, health history on your bio dad's side.. like, any genetic heart issues and the like. Just something to talk about, if it gets awkward-- and then also, at least you'll know. My sis did this with her own bio dad, is why i suggested it.. gave them something to talk about that was kind of 'neutral'.
/r/MensRights04/09/17 03:15 AM
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<3 i hear ya!
/r/MensRights04/09/17 03:11 AM
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hi fellow aussie mum! And yes, seems pretty nuts to take that risk with a home birth.
/r/MensRights04/09/17 03:07 AM
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I hope it all goes well for you, OP. Just a suggestion.. and maybe a good icebreaker.. is to ask about any family health issues on his side. I feel bad for you.. and your poor dad. Let him know he's still your dad, hey.
/r/MensRights04/09/17 03:03 AM
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Perhaps on one level that is true... but on the other hand, sex with a student is a sexual crime for a lot of really excellent reasons... and when women are the culprits, they had an 'affair' or a 'sexual relationship'. When it's a man, he's more often a 'sex offender', 'pedophile' and 'rapist'.
/r/MensRights04/09/17 02:42 AM
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I'm just basically trying to say that what is often nowadays attributed to a lingering toxic masculinity and a sexist culture that demands 'womenfolk' stay at home is absolutely nothing of the kind and actually simply a sensible solution to a practical problem made by responsible and devoted parents - of whatever gender or sexual orientation. Some of the biggest criticism I got was actually from men.. some of whom loathe the idea of women 'getting a free ride' while raising small kids. Not to co…
/r/MensRights04/09/17 02:32 AM
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Cannot agree more. I actually think there's a strong anti-family agenda running through some of the bullshit they push.. as I said elsewhere on this sub recently, it's as though they want children to become sole property of the womb that expels them, or whatever maternal figure takes its place... "nobody else's business" if the fuckwits won't vaccinate, or push their kids into gender reassignment, or isolate the poor little sods with demented religious homeschooling, or choose high risk home bir…
/r/MensRights04/09/17 02:21 AM
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I didn't mention child molesting... the thing there was more about the violence and anger issues, w/e was behind the rape behaviour. I'd wanna see some pretty clear proof he'd had treatment for that, if I had to allow visitation. edit: I actually mis-read your first sentence there, missed the 'who raped you' part... shit yes, every bit as vile. I just don't see how visitation with a rape baby by a bio parent with proven anger-excitation issues is putting the child 'first'. Unless that parent has…
/r/MensRights04/09/17 01:46 AM
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I just posted a remark about exactly this kind of reporting, on another thread... how the language differs so enormously in many reports, depending on the gender of the perp. Great example, right there.
/r/MensRights04/09/17 01:38 AM
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Instead of assuming the worst, I would argue that it would have been more productive to simply talk to them afterwards in private, like: "Hey, you know what? That woman's question had a point. Maybe we should do something for men." That is actually a good suggestion. In fact, OP might be in a good position to get a kind of awareness campaign kicked off, regarding men as victims. Also heavily neglected is actual proactive, compassionate help for men who have mental and/or emotional issues that re…
/r/MensRights04/09/17 01:20 AM
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they are, in Australia. Does Canada have similar vilification laws?
/r/MensRights04/09/17 01:15 AM
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The child deserves to have a father.. but if the father is a rapist, there's a really good chance he's using the kid issue to continue to intimidate his victim. In legal theory sure.. but in real life, it's disgusting to make a rape victim hand her child over to a violent sexual criminal on visitation day. For sure, I'd be worried about the welfare of that child.
/r/MensRights04/09/17 01:13 AM
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Jfc, man... this breaks my heart... not just for you, and the loss you've experienced, but the child as well. Good call, poster here who suggested grief counselling.. even if it was 5 years ago, obviously all that pain and loss and betrayal keeps getting dredged up by the ongoing legal issues. Hard to bear. Please see a lawyer, too.. you are a victim of heinous fraud.. the very worst kind, and I hope there is some kind of way to legally address this in your home state. Again, I'm sorry you went …
/r/MensRights04/09/17 01:06 AM
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The reason we have bathroom policies at all is because teachers aren't vetted carefully enough, especially women, going by a lot of recent news articles.. and of course, it's great to protect kids.. and of course the school has cover its own ass.. but the much bigger problem, as I see it, is that there is just not enough resources and policies thrown at ensuring the persons to whom we give over the care of our kids 6-7 hours a day, 5 days a week are sane, sexually healthy, career-invested people…
/r/MensRights04/09/17 12:57 AM
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Maybe because I've spent a lot time of crime forums this past decade, I would argue that Boy goes before Woman.. children are generally all seen as much more innocent than any adult.
/r/MensRights04/09/17 12:52 AM
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Yeah.. but it was the particular side of it about which I have a bug up my ass at the moment, you know? Seen one too many "female teacher screws student' articles lately where the inequality is pretty profound, down to the way the situation is described in the news. I agree, it's a much bigger problem than that one issue though.
/r/MensRights04/09/17 12:50 AM
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What I don't understand is, the sheer amount of hate the OP got for expressing his/her anger and frustration over the unnecessary risk the mother took -- and the terrible consequences visited on an innocent, due to that terrible choice. So many comments like "It's not their business"....well, that's their family, it's that person's neice, flesh and blood. They have every right in the world to feel upset ESPECIALLY as the mother went against all medical advice to pursue a home birth. I'm fricken …
/r/MensRights04/09/17 12:34 AM
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The story behind this is, IIRC, that the artist who created the bull had an absolute meltdown when the city council placed the statue of the little girl - by a different artist - in front of his own like that. The artist's reasoning was, his sculpture was commissioned to represent the 'bulls' of wall st or w/e... and the choice to place the defiant-looking girl statue in front of it makes it look like the two pieces are meant to be related -- and all about "women standing up' and the like. He go…
/r/MensRights04/09/17 12:23 AM
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God, the comments are every bit as bad as the article. Did the agony aunt not -read- the part where the person says but she then chose to have a Vbac (vaginal birth after ceasarean) home birth for her second child – against all recommendations from her doctor. Apparently, she didn't.
/r/MensRights03/09/17 10:50 AM
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Poor fellah, my country. Bah, I need to rant about this. Just had a rather snippy conversation with my (male) housemate, who was "glad they're taking an all-inclusive approach". For the sake of household peace, I just pointed out that it isn't fucking "special persons day" - it's father's day. So how is this sort of thing NOT undermining that role? If they replaced Mother's day cakes, there'd a be a fucking war on in the Woolies bakery. The sticky buns would fly.
/r/MensRights03/09/17 10:24 AM
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A better way to reduce domestic violence - no, several: Quit dating psychotic men/women. Do not 'settle' for an obviously shitty and shallow personality just because they look good. If somebody hits you, recognise that this is not a person you want in your life and GTH out of there. like, now. Why waste time hitting back and risking your own freedom for that bitch. Walk and never look back. If you can't just pick up and leave (there's kids involved, w/e) record everything for dat dere divorce/cu…
/r/MensRights03/09/17 10:12 AM
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There's a few studies happening now, however, that are revealing the 'hidden' extent of female crime, particularly sexual crimes. This one was in the news last year: A recent survey in the US found that a similar amount of women reported being raped in a 12-month period as the amount of men who were “made to penetrate” a female offender. A new paper titled Sexual Victimisation Perpetrated by Women: Federal Data Reveal Surprising Prevalence, contradicts the idea that female sexual perpetration is…
/r/MensRights03/09/17 08:44 AM
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Excellent post. I think you hit on a very salient point, regarding the 'visibility' of the behaviour and how this translates to the mass perception.
/r/MensRights03/09/17 07:52 AM
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I was more often warned about the financial and personal ruination that would happen if I stayed home. When my daughter started school at 5yo, I was constantly told she was 'bright' and 'gifted'.. not to sound like I'm not proud of her, but .. no. She had a normal 5yo's mind, in my opinion, and knew the basics of abc's and 123's and to sum it up, could find her ass with both hands. Apparently that counts as "gifted" these days.
/r/MensRights03/09/17 07:46 AM
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I think it's a remnant of the era in which it was literally unthinkable for women to be aggressive .. especially sexually aggressive.
/r/MensRights03/09/17 04:34 AM
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well crap.. I must've missed the privilege bus
/r/MensRights03/09/17 04:03 AM
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I was just having a conversation about this other day... how the language used in msm differs so tremendously according to the gender of the perp -- and how sex with a student tends to be called "a relationship" when women do it, and "rape" if it's a man.
/r/MensRights03/09/17 03:50 AM
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A really interesting British study from a couple years back showed that kids shoved in child care from infancy suffer developmentally on several levels. It got a lot of flak, of course, I think to some degree because a lot of people literally do not have a choice about it, especially low income and single parent families.. and nobody wants to hear that they might be doing their kids a damage, especially in those circumstances. But I was glad to see my own observations backed up by some real data…
/r/MensRights03/09/17 03:47 AM
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I got to "a return to patriarchal society" about 30 seconds in and found his blanket statements a bit of a joke. Is he some kind of far right Christian patriarchy/white supremacy nut? I've heard similar rhetoric coming from those groups. I'm just strongly supportive of the notion that little kids need their parents. And to a large extent, I blame the feminist movement for undermining that, to the vast detriment of children and society at large - and hey, I think the rabid ones who have gained po…
/r/MensRights03/09/17 03:38 AM
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Oh ok, I get ya. I once almost a decked a woman I thought was 100% gonna maul me, for asking her kids to 'scoot over' so I could get by them in an aisle. Shoulda heard the fit she threw.. "HOW DARE YOU TALK TO MY CHILDREN SKRAARK" and kind of came at me like she was gonna have a go. I stood there like 'well okay, let's do this' and she backed right off. I felt bad for her kids.
/r/MensRights03/09/17 03:11 AM
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I have some pretty strong views on this issue.. which tend to get me a lot of grief from men and women alike. But here goes. I think it's vitally important for young children to have -a parent- (male or female) at home with -and for- them in their formative years.. ages birth-5yo (school starting age). And I think this whole trend toward universal disapproval of 'housewives' for being 'unproductive', pressuring women (and men) to leave their infants and small kids in the hands of strangers all d…
/r/MensRights03/09/17 02:24 AM
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I notice he says both men and women participated in the abuse. I'd really like to see more discussion/news highlighting the fact that women can be pedophiles, too. Every discussion on the topic seems to be aimed toward men, as if pedo females don't exist.
/r/MensRights03/09/17 12:05 AM
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I think the OP was being a bit of a cunt to begin with.. i hate when people of any gender stand in both lines like that.
/r/MensRights02/09/17 11:05 PM
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Right?! It's a completely wrong-headed approach to the issue, imo.
/r/MensRights02/09/17 10:58 PM
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Well.. sometimes they do. I'm a woman who supports equality - true equality- and I think women should have every opportunity to follow the career path of their choice without having to work twice as hard, get less pay, or just get shit for it. But I don't agree with employers being forced to meet gender quotas, like what happened here in Australia this year: http://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/news/nsw/gender-job-quotas-state-contractors-forced-to-hire-40-per-cent-women/news-story/44a135c525ce692ee…
/r/MensRights02/09/17 10:48 PM
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Interesting article on females committing genocide in Rwanda: https://universitas.uni.edu/article/women-leaders-rwandan-genocide-when-women-choose-kill
/r/MensRights02/09/17 10:42 PM
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Really?
/r/MensRights02/09/17 10:33 PM
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I just made a post about that.. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/6xp3dc/why_dont_women_get_the_same_prison_sentences_as/ Women don't get seen as predators as much.. especially if they are young and pretty.
/r/MensRights02/09/17 10:32 PM
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