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I learned it’s all about your mindset The fact you call yourself a “low value guy” creates a self fulfilling prophecy If there’s anything thing I learned, you are your own worst enemy.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 07:23 AM
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You should read a book called law of attraction Basically your mindset keeps focusing on LACK and whatever you focus on is what you get Because you keep telling yourself what you’re lacking, that’s what you end up with. You can’t be prosperous if you keep thinking you’ll be poor for the rest of your life
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 07:25 PM
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No you’ll regret it Sex is best with EMOTIONAL chemistry Do it with a girl who actually cares about you. It’s not your lack of experience - it’s your mindset. If you just had a more positive mindset and just look for someone who would give you a chance, that would be way better. Plus there are always cougars who would actually enjoy teaching you. Don’t get an escort.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 10:48 AM
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You should! Also exercise is good for your mental health as well
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 05:11 PM
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You’re super negative dude. Look into the law of attraction. Basically negativity breeds negativity - your negativity mindset is what is holding you back and causing you self fulfilling prophecies of negative experience with women. I’m not really here to argue with you - after all, you came here for help right ? The fact you said most women IRL are rude or indifferent just shows that it’s YOU that’s causing them to behave that way towards you. Your bad vibes are causing them to act like that so …
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 08:44 AM
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Well how do you even know that they are women on discord ? They could be catfishers for all you know. It’s up to you. You can continue complaining about it or you can change yourself.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 06:18 PM
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Yeah that means you’re not self aware - I meet many women and most of them are pretty nice to me. Because I’m nice to them first. You get what you give and you attract what you put out If you put out bad vibes, women sense it You need to take a hard look at yourself first instead of blaming women for your own deficiencies.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 06:13 PM
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Sure but she doesn’t represent ALL women I just met a woman the other night who was almost 6 feet tall and her boyfriend was 5’9 I’ve also asked tall women that question and some said they don’t mind shorter guys Your first mistake is being on discord When I say friends with women, I mean IN REAL LIFE.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 06:31 AM
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I don’t know what that means but being friends with women is pretty awesome
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 05:43 AM
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You know the easiest way to “quit redpill”? Just literally make friends with women. It’s crazy ever since I just stopped trying to sleep with women and just be friends with them, I’ve learned a lot and hearing SO many stories from their perspective really explains why so many men struggle and where they mess up.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 10:05 PM
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Nope that’s not true at all.
/r/ExRedPill30/04/22 12:10 PM
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It’s not an instant process - took over a year I’d say I’m shorter than you at 5’9.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 10:14 PM
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I don’t even know what that means but basically I was pretty unhappy and unsuccessful with women Once I changed my disposition, it’s been a very different experience with women. I even had one woman straight up ask me to kiss her at a bar and I barely did anything. So yes. There is hope. You just have to want to work on yourself instead of looking for a woman to save you.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 10:10 PM
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I went through the same process as you and drove myself crazy. It was only with therapy I was able to snap out of it and change my life. You need to work on yourself and one day you’ll realize you were just telling yourself a sad story every day until you just believed in it. Self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 09:44 PM
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You completely ignored her points and just rambling about a completely different point. You have such a huge blind spot that you are completely oblivious too and are just parroting whatever you read online and attached to your victim mentality. You’ll never get out of your rut because you are so attached to pitying yourself. You need therapy and someone to talk you through this. That’s the best advice anyone can give you.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 08:56 PM
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You’re putting the cart before the horse. Before you worry about dick size, you need to get a woman to talk to you and like you enough to go out on a date with you. And to go on a second date with you. Women can sense your insecurity and desperation - they have a sixth sense about it. I’m 5’9 and my dick is definitely not 6 inches…that was never a problem in terms of sex. Seriously you need to change your whole mentality and deal with your own issues first. I suggest therapy as well as spiritual…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 04:55 PM
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5’11, blonde hair, blue eyes, 6 inches…dude you’re way above average. Feminine face - look at all these male celebrities - a lot of them have feminine features and women go crazy for that. 8 inches is NOT realistic at all - you should actually talk to women and ask them that. See what they say lol. The vagina is not that deep. You’re just young, inexperienced and lack confidence. You need to learn how to be comfortable being yourself first before you talk to any women for dating. Just make frien…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 04:42 PM
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Oh yeah it definitely ruined mine It took me 5 years to get one date on bumble. And it was a crappy one too I would literally have zero matches for years on some of these apps. Delete that shit asap. Go out in the world and meet women by just making friends with them. It’s so much easier. Don’t pressure yourself into having to sleep with them right away. The easiest thing to do is just literally be friends with them and just get to know each other as friends. Over time, if you continue to talk t…
/r/ExRedPill13/04/22 05:45 AM
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You have a defeatist mentality. That’s why you won’t succeed until you can change that.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 08:58 PM
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You have to have a mentality that you have no competition You’re literally creating competition in your head that you think is superior to you You already lost the war before you started the battle You need to work on yourself first. That’s what I did. Start working out. Eating healthier. Etc
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 07:24 PM
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Just quit dating apps. I’ve stopped using them and just talk to people instead
/r/ExRedPill12/04/22 04:34 PM
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Okay fine whatever. Just go out there and live life and experiment. Who cares about theories. You’re analyzing this way too much.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/22 02:40 PM
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No I just like talking to people and I just connect with people easily You have to stop thinking “numbers game” I realized attractive women have the right mindset, which is “I know what I want and I know what I don’t want” You focus on what you like and if it doesn’t fit your criteria, you don’t even pay attention I’m not going to waste my time talking to a woman who I find unattractive (not just physically but mentally, personality etc) I realized it’s called having self respect. If you respect…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/22 01:59 PM
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No not really - I just got a milf’s number at a restaurant just by talking to her for an hour and we’re going hiking tomorrow lmao
/r/ExRedPill07/04/22 02:20 AM
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No it’s not. I realized it’s all about being comfortable in your own skin and knowing what you want. When you’re desperate, women have this sixth sense that you’re needy and insecure. It’s like their radar. When you are strong and secure in who you are and respect yourself, women just naturally come to you. It’s the weirdest thing. Once I started to realize this, it’s become pretty easy to talk to women. But I just treat them as people and as friends first. I just think “oh wow this woman is suc…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/22 09:06 AM
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Do you have any links or resources you recommend ? What’s savior complex ?
/r/ExRedPill04/04/22 05:33 PM
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Yeah I realized from spirituality that pain is intergenerational Pain is like a emotionally painful virus that can transmit over time
/r/ExRedPill04/04/22 07:23 AM
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Yup gross over simplification “I hate men!” “I hate women!”
/r/ExRedPill03/04/22 06:10 PM
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Odd question but it’s only you and a brother? No sister? Maybe she was trying to project that into you. Since she never had a daughter. ​ Yup just a younger brother. She did say she wished that my younger brother was a girl instead. She actually had a chance to have twin girls but she aborted them. Probably because it would be too expensive to raise 4 kids. ​ And it’s funny I am a women who identifies mostly with men because my mom never taught me how to truly be a women. Very much a lot of what…
/r/ExRedPill03/04/22 05:17 PM
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Yes I know it's not solely a female issue due to my experience but when we talk about body image issues in society, I've literally never heard anyone talk about it except when it applies to women. I just feel like I've had a very odd experience - I feel like my mom was like an abusive man and I feel like I grew up like an abused female. It all makes sense now. I'm getting there work wise - things are looking up and I'm seeing a lot more opportunities my way. I feel a renewed sense of life and de…
/r/ExRedPill03/04/22 05:08 PM
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Yes I realize now that my goal is to get rid of her. I’ve actually had to rely on her for financial support because I wasn’t able to hold down a job or find a job to be fully financially independent for years now. It’s only recently I realized that subconsciously I think she WANTS me to be financially reliant on her because if I was financially independent, I would never talk to her again or need her. Now that I’ve awakened, I’m realizing my biggest goal now is to be financially independent from…
/r/ExRedPill03/04/22 02:56 PM
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I could never identify with most men and most families. I’ve always heard of abusive fathers and abused mothers but mine was the complete opposite As a a result I’ve always felt demasculated and never comfortable being a man. I’ve identified more with the problems of women than men. For example body image issues (I felt like she would control me like a Barbie doll. She even buys me clothes as her way of showing affection but to me it feels more like dressing up a doll. She would always criticize…
/r/ExRedPill03/04/22 02:52 PM
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Wow that’s crazy your mom also said that to your brother. Asian parents are fucked up, especially the ones from my parents generation. They’re just ignorant as fuck because they come from a working class background and 20th century Chinese culture to me seemed so ass backwards. Their mentality is like you’re in debt to them since you were born. They worked so hard for you to just be alive so you better work your ass off right away and pay them back asap. Children are like insurance policies and …
/r/ExRedPill03/04/22 02:39 PM
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Thank you - I read your post as well and I can relate so much to that obviously. Very interesting to see a female perspective on it and that you bond better with guys as a result. It definitely puts that whole “girl power” into doubt. Don’t get me wrong I can see why some women like the idea of female solidarity but they ignore the dark side behavior of women as well and only want to see a sanitized fantasy of female empowerment. And then they do the opposite with men and only focus on the bad b…
/r/ExRedPill03/04/22 10:04 AM
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It doesn’t matter to me - I wrote this for me. If it helps anyone else, it’s a bonus. I’m not asking anyone to read it unless they want to
/r/ExRedPill03/04/22 08:55 AM
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I don’t need anyone to read it. It’s more for me. I have seen a therapist - writing this is part of the healing process.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/22 08:10 AM
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Yeah my mom (very recently) made a comment “it’s not that I WON’T LET YOU HAVE LONG HAIR” I remember a few years ago the first time I grew my hair out and visited her she literally screamed at me for looking like a homeless person and made me feel so bad I cut it all off to get her off my back. I barely talk to her but I still do. I feel like my family is a shitty company you can’t quit. Everything feels like a business transaction.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/22 02:07 AM
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His wife sounds like a piece of shit not worth defending. Does being in an open relationship and sleeping with other guys and making him a backup option sound really hot to you too ?
/r/ExRedPill02/04/22 02:15 PM
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Yup that hits hard. I realized now that having a domineering abusive control freak mother can do that to you
/r/ExRedPill02/04/22 02:12 PM
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That makes sense It’s funny, I actually relate more to women than men in many ways because I grew up in an abusive household except my mom was the abusive one. Except it wasn’t the physical abuse that was the worst. It was the emotional abuse, which led to issues with self esteem, body image issues, standing up for yourself etc. So for the longest time I had the hardest time standing up for myself and let people get away with shit that I shouldn’t have and just stayed quiet. It’s only been recen…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/22 01:57 PM
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Nah I mean it’s nothing compared to what you went through At least I potentially have the option of punching him and fighting him. You and other women don’t have that option (besides kicking them in the balls) One of my friends is really homophobic and a gay guy hit on him at a bar by touching him without permission. He punched him right in the face lol. Gay guys need to learn some boundaries - some of them think being gay gives them an excuse to be inappropriate and basically act like a princes…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/22 12:19 AM
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That makes a lot of sense actually. I was thinking more about extreme cases of rape in the streets I guess I finally get it now. I had this one gay guy who was super persistent because I was trying to date one of his friends that’s a chick. It’s almost like he took it as a challenge. I was nice to him at first because he was friends with the girl I liked. Eventually I stopped talking to that girl and I kept seeing him at the same bar we initially met at. I basically had to give him death stares …
/r/ExRedPill01/04/22 08:10 PM
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Wow that’s nuts. In that case, I would encourage more women to carry a gun on them and learn how to defend themselves against men. It’s sad that we have to resort to this but until the majority of men can learn to respect women, this feels like the most realistic option for now.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/22 05:43 PM
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Wow that’s crazy. See I’m an anomaly - I would never grope a woman. That’s just fucked up and lacks any basic human decency. I would never have the audacity to even attempt it. So when I first heard about metoo stories, I was like “huh??? Who the fuck does that? That can’t be real. It’s too crazy. Who in their right mind does shit like that ? It sounds like maybe 1% of the population at most” That’s what I initially thought. It made me sad when I learned it was so common.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/22 02:51 PM
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It finally hit me when gay guys kept hitting on me. I once even had a gay guy come up and straight up touch my balls. I hated gay guys for a long time because of how aggressive they were and just would NOT take a hint. Then I realized, “oh wait this must be what women go through….OHHHH”
/r/ExRedPill01/04/22 11:51 AM
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Aren’t you basically reinforcing and proving him right ? You’re confirming everything he learned and he’s doubling down Until he sees that you hate it and want to divorce him, he’ll continue
/r/ExRedPill05/03/22 05:51 AM
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I recommend you look into spirituality - it’s helped me so much in discovering who I really am and realize all these negative thoughts are just self inflicted Buy the audiobook “power of now” by Eckhart Tolle - it helped me a lot. I realized now that I was under pressure from society (mostly men’s) expectation of how to be a man and trying so hard to imitate something that wasn’t real. It’s only been a month but I’ve had such a different perspective on life. Ironically the more I stopped trying …
/r/ExRedPill05/03/22 03:51 AM
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Oh interesting. So what makes you say that you are mildly red pill or magenta/purple (I don’t even know what that means)
/r/ExRedPill28/02/22 08:23 PM
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Why do you say that? Also how does red pill work with women ? Unless you mean it’s for women who want to be with other women ?
/r/ExRedPill28/02/22 06:44 PM
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I thought red pill doesn’t work and just turns off women…so why were you with him? According to this subreddit, wouldn’t you have been so turned off that you wouldn’t want to even be with him in the first place ? I don’t understand how you were attracted to him in the first place.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/22 01:21 AM
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No that’s not true at all. For Asian men, online dating is a waste of time. You know how long it took me before I went on my FIRST date on Bumble? 5 years. And it was a terrible one too. It would literally be just empty for months and months or even years. I decided to do an experiment once because I already tried changing my pictures, writing my bio, blah blah. When that didn’t work, I took some pics of a white guy online and I just used it as my profile pics. The difference was NIGHT and day. …
/r/ExRedPill23/02/22 03:44 AM
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OHHHH wow I had no idea just changing your back could change so much
/r/ExRedPill18/02/22 02:26 PM
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Oh so is she holding in her breath to create more tension ? Like someone who sucks in their belly to look skinnier ? Is cellulite only an issue for women? I don’t think I’ve ever seen it on myself as a man
/r/ExRedPill18/02/22 02:19 PM
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Can you explain what’s happening in the second photo ? How does a camera angle change the cellulite on her butt ? Or is the photo just photoshopped ?
/r/ExRedPill18/02/22 12:48 PM
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Down for the count or down for the couch?
/r/PussyPassDenied30/05/20 11:25 AM
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Maybe that was her plan all along ? Get her brother to roast her so HE could burn HER calories Genius
/r/PussyPassDenied30/05/20 11:25 AM
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I think they’re just seeking connection, whether it’s physical or emotional. Everyone seeks connection, just in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 02:15 PM
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Well I don’t know what’s so impressive about being a drug addict. But in your example, I guess they would because the poor drug addicts have to work a lot harder and do whatever it takes to get drugs while the rich people can get it pretty easily. But I don’t think that example really works. A better one would be a rich person born into wealth vs a rich person that was self made. A rich person born into wealth is just a trust fund baby or daddy’s rich kids while a rich person who earned their fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 02:05 PM
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Well you can’t be a slut if you’re not having sex. What is your definition of a slut anyway ? My definition would be someone who gives away their body easily to someone and a lot of people want it. How can you be a slut if no one wants to have sex with you lol? If a woman wanted to have sex with men but she was so ugly that no one wanted to, would she still be a slut in your opinion? Do you think there needs to be a subreddit as in depth as TRP teaching women how to be a whore lol? Tbh I literal…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 01:42 PM
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I heard this from bill burr. It’s a paraphrase but basically being a slut as a woman takes no skill but being a “slut” as a man takes a lot of skill and why it’s “stud”, not slut. A man can’t even be a slut because he can offer his dick out to women for free and no one would be interested. No one wants it even if it was free. Any woman can be a slut in 5 seconds if she chooses to. If a woman just starts undressing or touching a guy, she will have no trouble giving away her body, whether it’s for…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 01:19 PM
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what strategy? The only strategy is to be hot lol. No “strategy” is gonna transform an ugly chick into a hot one. Unless that strategy is plastic surgery lol
/r/PussyPass19/12/19 01:30 PM
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Got it yeah thanks I think you’re right - might have gone too far. I think I already knew this subconsciously but it’s funny how even if you know it logically but what keeps me from being successful sometimes is repeating past mistakes even though I know logically I shouldn’t
/r/seduction25/09/18 09:08 AM
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Okay got it...I’ve actually been teasing her about her scared of catching feelings for me. Is that a good idea to be witty or better just to say bye and be more serious ?
/r/seduction25/09/18 08:52 AM
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Wow something just happened now. I met a new girl in my pool league and we actually made a quick date on the spot to get dinner afterwards. We spent a good 2 hours hanging out and enjoying the conversation. She mentioned to me at the end that she just got out of a relationship 3 months ago. I made a plan with her to play pool together this Saturday. We didn’t make out or anything - the closest thing was just locking arms while walking across the street. I texted her today and asked her if she wa…
/r/seduction25/09/18 08:40 AM
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Yeah these girls are always saying they’re busy and shit and scheduling a week in advance
/r/seduction25/09/18 01:53 AM
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Yeah that is true too
/r/seduction25/09/18 12:07 AM
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When do they ever hit you up though? I always feel like. I have to initiate the plan making or nothing will happen
/r/seduction24/09/18 10:20 PM
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Lol yeah that’s what I did - it just made it worse. I just hate inefficiency
/r/seduction24/09/18 10:12 PM
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OHHHHH lol
/r/seduction18/09/18 06:42 AM
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Well that’s a little different - how about with single women? Or do you only go after married ones ?
/r/seduction18/09/18 06:41 AM
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I am but that usually doesn’t help me out haha. I’d rather be a normal white dude
/r/seduction17/09/18 10:27 PM
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Gently touch her face and look straight at her. If she’s not pulling away, you’re good to go
/r/seduction17/09/18 09:38 PM
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