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| 3 | Need AdviceDon’t go for the stupid games like “can you spot me” or “can I get that machine after you”. Next time you see her, walk over to her with a smile, say “hi my names X, what’s your name?” She will smile back and introduce herself feeling cute and self conscious, waiting for you to say the next part. Then you say, “I’ve noticed you a few times and I think you noticed me too, I was intrigued to know more about you. Do you want to do X together some time?” If you’re 100% sure she’s interested just bas… | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 09:38 AM |
| 1 | I don't know what to do with this girlDude, it’s cool, no worries. That’s what you should do, be okay with it. Give it a little while longer if no reply, just let her know the moment passed and that’s ok, leave the ball in her court. I’d say something like “I’ve got a lot going on the next few weeks, let me know if ever you want to hang though. See you around, John” The most important part of it though is, be cool with it. Inside. At the least it’s humble, it’s relaxed. At best it’s confident. When you throw this ball back she might… | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Is it wrong to be into girls who are 4’6 - up to about 5’0?So technically speaking, you’re a dwarf / midget. Has this made your life harder than it otherwise would have been were you not a dwarf, easier, or no different at all? And how has this affected your choice of partners? Also this isn’t my attitude, it’s what I think and believe. | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 05:15 PM |
| -1 | Is it wrong to be into girls who are 4’6 - up to about 5’0?Think about your kids when you have them, especially the boys. Do you want them to be midgets? Also think about being the only one in the relationship who can do anything requiring strength or height. My previous girlfriend was 5”11, I’m 5”10. It was really useful, she would and could help out with all sorts of stuff. My current girlfriend is 5”6, and is capable too. Less than 5” though? A little girl can’t help you with anything, or even herself a lot of the time, in a world designed by and for… | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 02:37 PM |
| -2 | More people going to the gym my age then ever before?95% of young men who go the gym do so because they watch porn and feel inferior. Negative feelings motivate a person to engage in pointless and repetitive behaviour Do you go because you are investing in your long term health, or because you want to look good? Let me put it another way. If going to the gym made no difference whatsoever to your outward appearance, would you bother? The reason so many young men go to the gym now is because they’re all porn addicts. Men didn’t give a shit about thi… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 10:23 AM |
| 2 | We Are So Far Beyond Crazy, That There Is No Going Back. How Do You Guys Personally Deal With It?Giving up on women is absurd. Go your own way by all means. Every single one of your ancestors successfully reproduced and you’re going to be the genetic dead end? In my opinion, a man does not simply give up on his soul purposes in life. If you’re lost, remind yourself. Procreate, protect, provide. There are traditional women out there, it’s just harder to find them now. Too many MGTOW’s are simply spiteful hedonists who gave up before finding out what they’re really capable of. Happy to retrea… | /r/MGTOW2 | 27/05/21 11:32 AM |
| 73 | Broke up with my girlfriend after 10 years of relationshipSame thing happened to me, almost to the letter. 3 years later and she texts me to meet. I’m over her at this point, got a new gf who is 20 (she is same age as me, 30). She is trying to act cool, insinuating her life is great. We have a few drinks, I find out she regrets breaking up. I tell her I have new gf 10 years younger. That we are planning kids. She gets jealous and tries to seduce me. I reject her and leave. Holy fuck it was the most cathartic experience of my life. You can and will boun… | /r/MGTOW | 20/05/21 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Sex is on a pedestool. I use sex as validation. Advice?Of course it’s validating. You have sex, your biology tells you, “great work buddy! You’re 3 quarters of the way to doing what all of your ancestors successfully did - fulfilling your biological destiny to create a child” Want to know what the last 1/4 of your destiny is? Be a good dad, raise that child to be a responsible adult who can create and raise a child capable of doing the same. The answer to your predicament is the remaining 1/4. Have you got what it takes to go all the way? Because al… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 06:53 PM |
| 10 | Saudi Arabia Gives Zero F*cks About "Affirmative Action" HiringIt’s ok to be white. And Male. | /r/MGTOW | 18/06/20 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Because they make false accusationsA classic from my old man: “I once stopped a woman from getting raped” “Really? How?” “... I restrained myself” | /r/MGTOW | 13/06/20 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Ex porn addicts, how did you quit porn?Got a girlfriend who I actually wanted to be with emotionally AND sexually | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 01:07 AM |
| 16 | We are one tough species.Looking at that picture and reading the text brought back a lot of memories. My van cab feels like a womb to me sometimes, a place where I’m free to think, eat, escape from the world for 10 minutes to calm and compose myself. It carries me around, keeps me dry and warm when it’s wet and cold, keeps me company with its Bluetooth music and podcasts. Sometimes when I feel things are too much and life is over, I sit in my cab and turn on the engine. The gentle purr of the engine running reminds me t… | /r/MGTOW2 | 06/06/20 10:18 AM |
| 2 | This community fucked me up. Fuck this place, just get out there and focus on being the best guy you can be and girls will come naturallyNo one ideology has all the answers. Read everything. Use your judgement and values to decide what you want to take from each ideology, and use them to become a true individual. There are nuggets of wisdom in this community but on the whole it’s toxic bilge. I can relate to everything you’re saying. The only good things I got from here were the nuggets, and that it forced me to get out there and make lots of mistakes. That’s it. Also, the men who are the best with women do not come from this com… | /r/seduction | 19/05/20 08:58 AM |
| 2 | “Men learn from their mistakes. Wise men learn from the mistakes of others.” Please share one of your mistakes the rest of us can learn fromTaking advice from Reddit | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 12:20 AM |
| 2 | I'd like to nominate this man for simp of the year.LOL | /r/MGTOW | 08/05/20 11:52 PM |
| 7 | What can I do to increase my exposure to women?Trench coat 🧥 | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 09:03 AM |
| 4 | Why Did She Smell So Good?If you’re looking to settle down do so with a woman that smells good, that you want to cuddle after sex, and who is of slightly above average looks. If you’re not looking to settle down then don’t simp Nothing more rewarding than a LTR with a woman you love, trust, are friends with, and are chemically attracted to. I’m in one now, and it’s fulfilling in a way RP plate spinning can’t touch. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/20 11:36 AM |
| 5 | Why Did She Smell So Good?There’s plenty, go look! | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 07:50 PM |
| 15 | Why Did She Smell So Good?Actually, women who smell amazing seem more attractive. It’s how mammals sense whether or not the immune system of the offspring will be robust. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Australian TV show hosts are making fun of a woman who is taking care of her family. Cause what's worst than caring for your husband, duh?“What is he, disabled or something? Ha ha ha ha” | /r/MensRights | 09/02/20 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Second billboard sign in Manchester UKWhat’s the exact address of this? If someone gives it to me I’ll be reporting this as a hate incident first thing tomorrow morning | /r/MensRights | 22/01/20 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Someone I know posted this on their insta. The hypocrisy of females.Slight aside, anyone with that many tattoos isn’t obsessed with anything except for trying as hard as possible to be anyone but themselves | /r/MGTOW | 04/12/19 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Girl who “rejected” me over a year ago suddenly hits me up after we matched on tinder with a weird remark. How to handle?Mega lolz | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 02:42 AM |
| 6 | Read this if you feel depressedYou e been imbibing Jordan Peterson haven’t you. Good stuff. Nicely “articulated”! | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 07:45 PM |
| 17 | How do you guys deal with gas from your high protein diets?It’s also normal behaviour to take a dump. You don’t drop your pants and lay one in front of a plate when out for a walk in the park do you Shit smells bad, farts smell bad, it’s counter productive to fart in front of your plates, nothing to do with holding frame, it’s just bad manners and rude disrespectful behaviour What stupid shitty advice | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 01:49 AM |
| 4 | What advice would you give to your younger self?Very simple. Just stop caring what people think about you. Your friends, family, strangers. All of them. Your true friends and family will be there just about no matter what, and also, people are so wrapped up in their own worries, they really don’t spent that much time at all thinking about you. Even if you embarrass yourself in public the people that witnessed will have forgotten about it in two minutes. And even if the didn’t, who gives a shit? They’re nobody to you. Finally, every single mis… | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 09:42 AM |
| 7 | Girlfriend cheated on meYou’re not feeling bad for her whoring around? I would be devastated if my LTR was fucking someone else for 8 months. I’d guess that you weren’t emotionally available for her, so she’s found that connection elsewhere. This is the danger of RP mentality in my experience. The push pull of being indifferent and unavailable most of the time builds attraction in the honey moon phase, but if you continue that shit into the LTR phase, you gon’ get cheated on. The hardcore here will think I’m BP for not… | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Female privilege checklistHoly fuck. This is amazing but I became so infuriated by number 20 I had to stop reading. I will return to this though | /r/MGTOW | 05/09/19 09:08 AM |
| 1 | The best part about having a motorcycle is that all the fat chicks on tinder want a ride. I usually just say something like “sorry, I don’t like to wheelie” and ignore the responsesThis made me LOL | /r/MGTOW | 05/09/19 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Dropped an LTR for „not telling“ the truth. Have I overreacted?Same | /r/askTRP | 04/09/19 08:29 AM |
| 2 | Why do normal women dislike me after I became muscular and lean?Just how big and lean are you? Personally, I’ve been going to the gym for 15 years regularly and am on testosterone replacement, with levels right at the high end of normal. I’m big and lean, but not freakishly so. Enough so that women regularly feel my arms and comment on them, and enough so that if I take my shirt off people are impressed. I think any more than this and subconsciously people detect that you’re one of two things. Either you feel tiny inside and that’s why you’ve dedicated so mu… | /r/askTRP | 31/07/19 08:12 AM |
| 1 | I prefer wine over milkHaha. I think she was acknowledging the point but saying she will get better with age for a period then suffer the inevitable fate of the people of the milk | /r/MGTOW | 30/07/19 12:32 PM |
| 2 | One of my oldest and smartest friends has become what I’d describe as an intellectual SJW. He’s also a massive beta and has always had a hang up about his ethnicity. Since becoming red pilled I don’t feel like I have much in common with him anymore, not sure how to move forward with this friendshipThanks, excuse me while I go and self flagellate now | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 09:42 PM |
| 0 | One of my oldest and smartest friends has become what I’d describe as an intellectual SJW. He’s also a massive beta and has always had a hang up about his ethnicity. Since becoming red pilled I don’t feel like I have much in common with him anymore, not sure how to move forward with this friendshipWow that’s insightful. Thank you | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Reigning Mr Olympia Shaun Rhodes banned for life from competing because of rape allegationMore info here https://youtu.be/Cblm98BOtbk | /r/MensRights | 15/07/19 08:35 AM |
| 0 | I'm about doneYou’re a little boy who hasn’t had enough life experience to develop a sense of compassion, something all real men have in droves. Also it takes a real man to ask his fellow man for help when he has no other options. punk | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 06:32 PM |
| 4 | I'm about doneI’m sorry to hear you’re at such a low point despite all of your efforts. And by the sounds of it you’ve put a lot of effort in, so huge respect for not only putting effort in but sustaining it, it’s more than most manage. Something is still missing though - clearly - so let’s figure it out? I’m no psychologist, I can only speak from a position of experience regarding many of the things you described I have experienced myself - notably repressed emotional trauma that I was unaware of initially a… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 06:24 PM |
| 0 | I'm about doneThis is insensitive and shitty, don’t listen to this OP | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Divorcing a narcissistic wife with refusal to work syndromeFucking hell. Every single person here is saying the exact same thing. If you don’t do anything you are committing a heinous crime against yourself, your own family, and your future wife who is out there waiting for you. Think of it this way. There’s a woman out there who is your future wife, either on her own or in a shitty relationship that isn’t working for her. She’s without you every single day, and for what, so you can sacrifice your short life for a disgusting infertile parasite? At the v… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 11:44 AM |
| 1 | If there were this many men as there are women making fun of small tits it would be on the news, but since it's women making fun a man's small dick it's fine.Maybe he’s intersex, I see some cameltoe | /r/MensRights | 27/06/19 06:40 PM |
| 14 | The WALL- my ex started looking old in a month after 33. Read here - 2nd paragraph first line ( the wall hits suddenly or slowly but it does hit you )This is what happens when we deny the expectations of our biology. A woman’s body expects (in so far as this has been the normal routine for the entirety of our time as a species) to be hyper attractive at puberty, to get pregnant not so long after, to have a child every few years and be breastfeeding constantly (in tribal cultures children area breastfed until very late and this constant feeding works as birth control) By the time the mother is 30 she’s well settled into the role of mother and … | /r/MGTOW | 16/06/19 10:33 AM |
| 3 | Lesbian couple kills 9-year-old son after cutting off his genitalsThat’s soooo progressive! | /r/MensRights | 15/06/19 07:49 PM |
| 1 | A modern woman costs more than a escortFair fucking points man! | /r/MGTOW | 12/06/19 10:42 PM |
| 17 | My life is threatened because of a post I madeApologise to whoever is upset about this. Saying you’re going to gun down gypsies is not a smart move, you fucked up. Also, delete Facebook. It’s honestly more trouble than it’s worth. Keep an instagram though and only post stuff that telegraphs status, maybe a couple of times a month. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/19 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Lol: study says women are happier single than menYeah ... that’s because they know that getting a man when they need to is as easy as opening their legs - regardless of how they’re feeling inside. Men on the other hand, you’d better have your life in order and your inner self in order before you have a chance at getting a decent woman. That’s a tall order, especially if your life isn’t in order and you’ve already got a huge string of rejections behind you. That causes anxiety. Sometimes it’s too much, and I have no doubt it’s a part of the rea… | /r/MGTOW | 30/05/19 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Got banned from AskMenOver30, apparently any mention of MGTOW or RedPill is bannedSpot on, couldn’t agree more with this. | /r/MGTOW | 27/05/19 08:25 PM |
| 1 | How do y'all get Blue Pill shit out of your system?Agreed | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 03:35 PM |
| 5 | How do y'all get Blue Pill shit out of your system?I never said the love I’ve experienced is unconditional. And yes, the successful relationships are by definition outliers. Any time we attempt anything complicated, you’ll fail many times before you succeed, and boy have I failed many times. I’m speaking from personal experience, not from anecdote. If you think love is unconditional (which I don’t), then once she says, “I love you”, that’s even more reason to act in an irresponsible way towards her needs, which you will, chipping away at the lov… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 02:18 PM |
| 4 | How do y'all get Blue Pill shit out of your system?I don’t think you’re content or happy, sounds like you’re paying for something you expect to default on at some point. And actually I’m broke as fuck, and was ashamed about this. I came clean to my girl, and she’s encouraging me to get out there and kick ass. Her belief in me has really encouraged me to believe in myself, I don’t want to let her down, it’s really given me that boost to improve and get some. One of the most successful guys I know who has been with his wife for 30 years came from … | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 01:49 PM |
| 56 | How do y'all get Blue Pill shit out of your system?You do know that one of the best things in life is finding a life partner - someone who you can share your deepest concerns with? Don’t dichotomise everything as blue pill vs red pill. The red pill stuff is useful for building attraction, but it’s totally wrong on what comes long after you’ve found someone you actually want to share your life with. Yeah, there’s always a chance you picked the wrong one and that she will leave you if you reveal too much about the struggles of your inner world. Wh… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 08:53 AM |
| 2 | This is two years of staying away from relationships. This is two years of finally doing something for myself. Without MGTOW, I would still be wasting my life away searching for romance. Thanks for opening my eyes to a future that I never knew could be.It’s funny. In my early 20s this was my dream. Now I’m mid 30’s, my ideal picture like this would be filled with things related to my own wife, children, and family. | /r/MGTOW | 23/05/19 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Is depression real? Why don't I want to do anything or even have sex when it is thrown at me?You might be low testosterone. I went on replacement therapy after being in your situation, and it fixed all of my depression, anxiety, confidence and drive issues. I’ve never believed in silver bullets but fuck me, there are some out there, and if your testosterone level is low, replacement therapy is the one. Go over to r / testosterone | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 10:15 AM |
| 1 | How does Red Pill theory apply to Gay Men?Let’s stop pretending we understand anything about how that world works. It’s fucking hilarious that some of you are trying, just another indicator to me that you lot are ideologically possessed, you’ll try to look at everything through the lens of red pill theory like it’s some sort of Rosetta Stone for decoding reality. What I can tell you about gay men is that of the men who have a strict preference in the bedroom, 80% of them are bottoms, and the rest are tops. It’s not an equal split of sub… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/19 04:59 PM |
| 11 | Who are some of your male role models now?Captain Picard. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/19 12:53 PM |
| 1 | low dose test cycleGo over to r testosterone They will tell you exactly what you need to know | /r/askTRP | 12/05/19 01:42 PM |
| 8 | 1000+ approaches, lots of instant rejections, how to stay motivated?I feel sorry for you for having wasted so much time and money. You’re focussed on the wrong goal. The goal isn’t to get women, the goal is to be successful man - then the women will come. What is a successful man? Someone who is independent, dangerous but reserved, accomplished or with boat loads of ambition, driven to compete and succeed. You are clearly ambitious and driven, hats off to you for trying as hard as you have done with seduction. I haven’t even done 1/10,000th of what you have with… | /r/seduction | 04/05/19 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Why am I the only one that can't get girls?I edited my reply just now so make sure you read that and not the first message in your inbox. | /r/seduction | 02/05/19 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Why am I the only one that can't get girls?I’m not sure. Me personally? I had a hard life growing up, neglected. I had to learn to look out for me and only me and also to hide my true emotions. By nature though I’m extremely caring and nice. But I got into some shady stuff, got in trouble with the law a lot, did whatever the fuck I wanted whenever I wanted with no regard for the consequences, all while ignoring my most basic emotional needs, because I learned to do this as a child. For this reason women have always fallen for me. I’m eng… | /r/seduction | 02/05/19 07:15 PM |
| – | Why am I the only one that can't get girls?Social 100% You probably come across as a safe friendly guy You need to cultivate an air of mystery, be a little bit dangerous and unpredictable. Stop aiming to please women so you can get in their pants. Sound familiar? | /r/seduction | 01/05/19 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Contemplating breaking up with LTRShe works for you and you have to reprimand her? Good lord. That’s the biggie. You know of Jordan Peterson, what was it he said to Cathy Newman? Domination is intensely pleasurable in the moment but is a bad long term strategy for a relationship. She’s clearly insecure and damaged from a traumatic childhood. If you really care about this woman then you’ll be prepared to sacrifice to help her. If you aren’t willing to sacrifice and you do care for her, and this causes you to discard her, you’ll r… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 07:57 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I approached 4 girls and asked if I smell like fishIt’s not that it doesn’t matter what you say, it does matter what you say. The key thing here is that you had a genuine reason to ask for their opinion based in reality that was interesting and funny, and totally unrelated to wanting to seduce them. As soon as a stranger starts talking to a woman the first subconscious subroutine that starts running is, “why is this guy talking to me, is he trying to seduce me or is it something else genuine that I can help with?” If the latter, you actually hav… | /r/seduction | 24/04/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Currently in a great LTR, but still very tempted to fuck other girlsYou’re an awful person. But then again all men are at your age. You will fuck other girls. You will lose this one and hurt her very badly. You will also hurt yourself in the process. Once your hormones settle down and you’ve had your fill, you’ll go want a LTR with an emotionally healthy girl, and you won’t want to hurt her, because you’ll have direct experience with the pain involved in all of this for both parties. My advice would be, if you want to fuck other women, let her go and fill your b… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 03:38 PM |
| 4 | Many Failures with womenYou sound like you’re autistic. Have you ever been diagnosed as being on the speccy? | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill "abundance" is not abundance.This is amazing Beautiful analogy, beautifully written Thank you. I’m banking this 👍🏻 | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/19 06:33 PM |
| 2 | I bear a lot of anger towards my dadAgree with the other commenter - try and let your resentment go. No parent is perfect, at least he stuck around and provided. Think of it this way ... he could have done a much, much worse job. I went through all the same feelings with my old man. It’s only recently I’m starting to get over the things he did (or didn’t) do. To give you a bit of perspective, he was the enforcer. He worked 2 jobs my whole life. My mom was a lazy sack of shit who let my brothers beat me and there would be no conseq… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 04:57 PM |
| 0 | Broke it off with LTR, all my “friends” trying to fuck her not even a week laterSure. You don’t decide go on a break from a LTR and continue using her for sex and house chores. The fact that he’s on a break that he decided on and the fact that she’s still prepared to have sex and do his cleaning for him makes something crystal clear to me. This girl is infatuated with him and will do anything, even compromise her own dignity, just to be with him. He is using her, taking advance of this fact to satisfy his own pleasure and sordid needs. No human deserves to be used in this w… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 08:55 AM |
| -18 | Broke it off with LTR, all my “friends” trying to fuck her not even a week laterYou’re acting like a total piece of shit and should be ashamed of yourself. Shame all of the wisdom in TRP is sullied by asshats like you | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 06:33 PM |
| 5 | Plate of 1.5 years said she was going to kill herself if I left her.That’s Romeo and Juliet territory. You’ll both become love martyrs | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 06:43 PM |
| 1 | What do I say in response to this rhetoric?Women give birth to our fucking children. I wish the role of mother and wife was something we honoured. The healthiest children are always those from parents who had very defined gender roles. Men should be honoured for being men. Providers, protectors, disciplinarian. They’re physically and mentally suited to this. Women should be honoured for being women. Child bearers, nurturers, soothers. I believe if you’re born with a very well defined biology, it is your responsibility to your family and … | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/19 07:04 PM |
| 4 | AWALT is BS. What is really means is, “I have bad judgement, I make poor choices and act selfishly, and I’m confused as to why all women eventually betray or leave me”. If people keep treating you a certain way, they’re not the problem, you areThanks, put an edit in to clarify ! | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/19 06:51 PM |
| 1 | The problem with RP’s incomplete picture of reality, point in case, AWALTReally? That’s fascinating. If you’re good looking and charming you must be be like crack to women. If you don’t mind me asking, what’s the longest LTR you had, and if it ended, how did it end? Oh also regarding AWALT, if you do act like a dark triad personality, eventually the woman will figure out you’re only in it for yourself, will betray you in some way, and you’ll think AWALT, when truth is, everyone is like that if you’re in it to be selfish. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/19 03:17 PM |
| 1 | The problem with RP’s incomplete picture of reality, point in case, AWALTThe sensible thing to do then (after you’ve had your fun and made your mistakes of course) is to go into things with open eyes, know all the red flags to look out for, and be willing to walk away if your informed intuition is sufficiently activated. The difficulty here is the feels, it’s so easy to have your judgment clouded if you’re lonely, or if you meet a woman who has the right pheromones, is your ideal physically, and is great in bed. In my 20’s I broke up with a woman who was average phys… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/19 07:19 PM |
| 2 | The problem with RP’s incomplete picture of reality, point in case, AWALTFantastic reply, apart from the little “once you’ve been screwed, you’ll believe in AWALT” flourish at the end. I’ve been screwed, and for a while I believed in AWALT. Then I decided that’s no way to live, and totally unreasonable to paint half of the population with that brush - it’s an injustice for them, and it’s cowardly and lazy of me. It’s going to damage whoever I commit to in the future because I’ll be incapable of trusting them completely, and damaging to me because I’ll be in a constan… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/19 06:39 PM |
| 1 | The problem with RP’s incomplete picture of reality, point in case, AWALTAwesome. I found red pill fascinating, there is without a doubt a lot of truth there that most sane people are too afraid to confront. But it goes too far, is incomplete, and is at this point an ideology that seeks to explain everything between the sexes, regardless of who it leaves by the way side. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/19 05:27 PM |
| 5 | The problem with RP’s incomplete picture of reality, point in case, AWALTGreat reply, thanks for that, it’s not often I get to here a female perspective on RP matters. I’m curious - how did you hear about RP and what brings you here? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/19 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Hatred of Single Moms and Right Wing Nut JobsYou’ve got it wrong. RP men don’t hate single moms. RP doesn’t hate single moms. It simply states the statistical fact that if you’re a single guy looking to maximise your chances in a relationship, you’re almost always better off avoiding single moms. Ask any RP guy what he thinks about any single moms they know. I’m sure they’ve all got stories that confirm the data, most of these women are damaged in some way, and every now and then there will be the rare exception (as in your case) of the ex… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/19 10:57 AM |
| 5 | I just made a fuckbuddy... I'm a virgin.I’d pop half a viagra or cialis 30 mins before meeting. My first time I was so nervous I couldn’t get it up. The last thing you want is to not be able to get it up and look like some hobo trying to Saran Wrap a worm. You’ll feel like double the cunt as well for giving it large and falling flat on your flaccid face. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 05:06 PM |
| 4 | Girlfriend is not happy with our one sided open relationshipHey man. Dump her and PM me her number. Do you know how many times I’ve seen my my 30 y/o friends (myself included) find a girl like yours, and then dump their ass because they weren’t man enough to realise they had found a golden plate? The sad thing is, until you’ve lost a golden plate, you’re not actually able to perceive their value. You’ll probably fuck this one around, fuck it up some how, she’ll be gone and find another older guy who is more emotionally mature and competent than you, and … | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 10:50 AM |
| 15 | Question for guys who are into rough sex/dominance/sadism: do you do it because you like it, or just to please women?I was always a guy who preferred making love rather than going cave man. Lost two plates I really enjoyed, I suspect due to my lack of assertiveness in the bedroom. Current girlfriend (and probably the woman I’ll have children with, yes I’m at that point in my life), started dating her when I was well and truly into my RP journey. Had lots of time prior to think about all the ways I billy beta blocked my previous plates sexually. Decided to man up in the bedroom with her - ended up doing some ps… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 11:38 PM |
| 8 | Guys from USA, please stop giving advice to non US-people...Seriously. It's ridiculous...Sperg | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 10:13 AM |
| 1 | I see happy couples everywhereTrue say! | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 07:03 PM |
| 4 | I see happy couples everywhereYes but you know some of the best most committed women I’ve ever met are those who were grade A sluts during their teens / early 20’s. For one they got that out of their system, also they discovered what they do and don’t want, not only that but they realised that there’s no real value or validation in that sort of attention and behaviour, just as I did. To top it off they’re usually great in bed. This thing with not being able to get over the fact the girl was promiscuous in the past, I think i… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 01:28 PM |
| 27 | I see happy couples everywhereHey man. I really felt the need to respond to you because I was where you are a few years back. I refused to go LTR in my 20s because I just wanted to live it up and enjoy all the plates I could. Now I’m in my 30s and have had my fill, and since I’m older and realise meaningless plate spinning is just that, I’ve decided I want to put my energy into something bigger than myself. I took the time to fix myself physically and mentally, and spent a long time going through plates to find a woman who, … | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 12:40 PM |
| 1 | There’s a quote that goes something like, “Men desire women and want to be needed. Women desire to be desired and want to be wanted”. I find this to be almost universally true. Doesn’t this indicate that women’s modus operandi and means of achieving validation is fundamentally narcissistic?There has to be a balance here though. In the past I’ve been so focussed on better things to do that in the end I wasn’t giving my girl enough attention, and although I was a HVM going places, she needed attention I wasn’t giving her. Just worth pointing out that this “I have better shit to do than fawn over you attitude” taken to the extreme will kill things. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Doesn’t matter how hot a woman is, unless she’s modest about her attractiveness, I’m not interested. In fact, women who flaunt themselves repulse me. Why is this?But I don’t want to knock her off her high horse. In fact I want to leave her up there as long as possible until the horse becomes old and decrepit along with her so that finally one day when the horse expires she’ll fall down and break her neck | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 05:51 PM |
| 1 | There’s a quote that goes something like, “Men desire women and want to be needed. Women desire to be desired and want to be wanted”. I find this to be almost universally true. Doesn’t this indicate that women’s modus operandi and means of achieving validation is fundamentally narcissistic?You’re not wrong | /r/askTRP | 02/03/19 08:37 AM |
| 2 | There’s a quote that goes something like, “Men desire women and want to be needed. Women desire to be desired and want to be wanted”. I find this to be almost universally true. Doesn’t this indicate that women’s modus operandi and means of achieving validation is fundamentally narcissistic?Wow that’s a great video, I’m binging his content now. Thanks brother! | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 01:40 PM |
| 1 | LTR wants to work in a club as bartenderDo you trust her? If not, then your relationship is garbage anyway. Doesn’t matter whether or not she’s a bar tender, that’s a secondary issue that’s yours and not hers. Do you trust her? If so, then let her do whatever the fuck she wants to, apart from anything that violates your monogamy, like actually having a romantic relationship with someone else. Contrary to what everyone egging you on here seems to think, not being able to trust your LTR is a sign of an incredibly weak frame. Might as we… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 01:16 PM |
| 1 | I need thicker skinHow did you open? | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Lifting Advice : BeginnerHe is doing his research. Sometimes the best place to start is by asking a question on Reddit, and trusted people with more experience can point you in right directions. Asking a question on a forum is always a great first place to start a journey. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 12:52 AM |
| 1 | I'm so uncomfortable and nervous around womenYour sense of self worth is still totally wrapped up in whether or not you get approval from females. I mean, of course it is for all of us - if none of us ever got attention from a single woman we’d be devastated. But the trick is to stop applying this to individual interactions. You have to not care at all whether or not she approves. I saw someone here say that confidence is certainty about the future. So a confident guy would be sure the girl would like him and thus she would pick up on this… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Are girls turned on by guy's aggression?You might not want to condone it because you’re scared of violence and are probably a pussy who’s been smashed before I fully condone men standing up to bullies with violence | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Are girls turned on by guy's aggression?No, you’re stupid and fucking wrong I bet OP would smash you in a fight and get the girls GTFO with your pussyhole “advice” | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 09:28 PM |
| 4 | Should you tell your gf you cheated for the sake of being honest?I love the brutal way in which you guys look at reality and are thus able to deduce razor sharp information. But I fucking hate what immoral pieces of shit most of you are. Not OP - he’s clearly got a conscience. The rest of you though? Do you have no foundation to your morality other than, “me me me”? Redpill should be about taking responsibility for your actions and behaving in an honest and truthful way, not betraying people and covering your shit stained tracks. The moment you cheat, your re… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Tips and ideas for spontaneous/emotional activities to do with GF?This subreddit is full of offensive dickheads with good advice. Try ignore the shitty comments and take away the nuggets | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 06:15 PM |
| 7 | Feminine menThe answers you’re getting here are bullshit. Some of the guys here are too far down the red pill rabbit hole to be honest about this. Truth is women like to experiment and explore their options ... the best way to find out what you want is to try lots of things and know what it is you don’t want. These women are just exploring all the different options available to them. If these guys are truly feminine, they’ll likely get dumped or cucked at some point. Or in the ones that manage a LTR - these… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 01:15 PM |
| 5 | I feel like I was just drugged on a date with a girl in Asia.Sounds like GHB to me. You were probably about to get robbed. Very fucking smart move to realise what was happening and get out of there. Kudos. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else get socially awkward or even “depressed” when they haven’t been to the gym in a while?Were you not confident in the same way before you got fit? If so, then I’d say you’ve used your physical fitness to prop up an unhealthy ego and sense of self. For the time being - just set yourself a date when you’ll start again and realise you can’t always do everything you want to. Remind yourself that within a couple of sessions you’ll be back to where you were. Try and use this time off to think about the aspects of your being that you can draw on for confidence. Remember that strangers don… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Should I talk to white women, if I'm a minority?Salmon smelling cesspool. Pure fishy gold | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 06:51 PM |
| 4 | Am I really THAT weak?Not true. I recently discovered I’m testosterone deficient and that’s why I’ve regressed with my gym work despite trying harder than ever. It is totally possible to have something wrong with your endocrinology that’s preventing your physical development. If you really want to help people, get your facts right and stop behaving like an arrogant fool. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 05:56 PM |
| 3 | I'm 33 and I want to find a good girl for LTR and kids. What are my options?Hey man there’s a lot of decent guys here with real solid advice. There’s also total shitheads that think they’re the moral authority because they’ve discovered red pill and get a kick out of putting others down. Try and ignore the downvotes and shitheads and instead pay attention to those who reply in a respectful tone. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 05:51 PM |
| -3 | I'm 33 and I want to find a good girl for LTR and kids. What are my options?Do you want to help the man or do you want to make yourself feel better by shitting on him? Honest question. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 05:49 PM |
| 3 | Should I have taken it easy?Yeah you fucked up. A high value Male wouldn’t have cared in the least about a second date. A low value mate would care and would be seeking validation. Chances are if you felt the need to get validation before leaving with your small talk you’d been signalling for validation all throughout the interaction anyway. Fake it til you make it. Never let her know you care. Get her craving validation from you and every now and then give her a tiny little bit of it, but never enough. If you ever get a r… | /r/seduction | 14/12/18 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal as a man for girls to NEVER flirt with you or express interest in you?You sound like a pretty confident guy, and that’s at the core of what a woman wants. Confidence is the best indicator of competence. Women want a competent partner above all else. Money is also an indicator of competence, very difficult to get without it. That’s why even false confidence can get results | /r/seduction | 03/12/18 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Did my neighbor try to hook up with me?If a girl laughs at your jokes and asks if you’re single ... Dude. Are you blind? She’s 100% into you. | /r/seduction | 26/11/18 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal as a man for girls to NEVER flirt with you or express interest in you?Well children start to develop capacities and desires during puberty that weren’t there in childhood, like sexual attraction. I’d put fear of sexual rejection alongside this. It’s something that’s latent in childhood that only emerges with the developing sense of sexual desire. | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 06:06 PM |
| – | Is it normal as a man for girls to NEVER flirt with you or express interest in you?You have to try - and fail. And you will fail. Hundreds of times. Failure is the only way to learn in this. Let me repeat. Failure is the ONLY way to learn. You know that saying? The master has failed more times than the novice has tried? Fucking this. That’s the meat and potatoes of it. I’m not kidding. There’s no secret, no magic words you can say. You will come up with your own strategy, you will try it, and you will fail. The feedback you get from that failure will tell you what needs to be … | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal as a man for girls to NEVER flirt with you or express interest in you?I’d bet you’re either much better looking than you think you are and / or you have a healthy amount of big dick confidence. I’m not talking shit, I’m just honestly relaying my lived experience. | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 04:09 PM |
| – | Is it normal as a man for girls to NEVER flirt with you or express interest in you?I’ve been around the block a bit and started life as a very shy guy who was pretty good looking in high school and college. Yes girls do - but - and this is a big but, only the most attractive men get hit on by girls. I’m talking top 5% of guys, the best looking of the best looking. Why? Girls don’t need to hit on guys unless there’s something realllllly special about him that they really desire. Women are the objects of desire, they are the gatekeepers of progeny. Men are somewhat disposable as… | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 07:13 PM |
| 1 | My Current LinesMy problem with these approaches is they feel dishonest - and you’re actually admitting your dishonesty to the person in your introduction. My approach isn’t dishonest - it really is great to finally meet that person and you’re confident enough to tell them so (with the added bonus of throwing them on the back foot with the question followed by their subsequent attempt to recompose themselves and prove to you they’re not stupid). | /r/seduction | 16/11/18 09:34 PM |
| – | My Current LinesGot some balls on you, well done! That line sucks though. A confident successful person doesn’t go around asking people if they need help. Try again, but this time go for a hand shake with a smile and say, “Hi, I’m X, it’s great to finally meet you” They will assume you’ve mistaken them for someone else and will almost certainly smile back at you. Some will shake your hand, some won’t and will say, “I think you’re mistaking me for someone else!” To which you respond with, “oh no I’m not here to … | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 07:58 PM |
| 16 | You can learn a lot from those with dark triad characteristicsYes, it’s also a symptom of thinking men and women have the same mindset generally and surrounding sex. Gavin McInnes said it best, something about good heterosexual sex being like a snake subduing and sinking it’s fangs into the back of its preys neck. Of course the whole Sub / Dom thing in humans is versatile between genders and orientation as we’re creative and love to role play, but generally we’re dimorphic sexual animals just like the rest of ‘em | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/18 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Why You’re Still Getting Shitty ResultsAlso another thing to keep in mind. Just because you perfect your Red Pill mind set, you’re just not the guy for some women! Think about luxury sports cars. Some people just fucking love Ferrari’s but have no interest in a Lamborghini, despite both being exquisite examples of near perfect artistry and design. And because people have preferences, by appealing to one group you necessarily exclude yourselves from others. Keep this in mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/18 01:25 PM |
| 101 | She's just your Girlfriend, she's not your Siamese twin. She's not your partner on a mission to Mars. She doesn't control your oxygen supply. (How to do a LTR.)I don’t agree with your post. Betraying someone is not okay. Mutual trust and respect if you’re in a LTR is the key to its long term success. Here’s some advice to all of you: no it’s not okay to come home reeking of strange pussy. That doesn’t mean taking a shower first is the solution, not betraying your LTR by fucking strange pussy in the first place is the solution. If you cheat on your partner you’re a piece of untrustworthy shit, no better than the poison pussy we so often rally against he… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/18 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Direct Game Vs. Indirect Game - Which Is Better?I only read the first paragraph of your post. Direct game is the best - it’s Red Pill at its finest, indirect game is manipulation and the domain of the PUA. The problem with your example of asking a girl for sex isn’t respectful though even if it is what both parties want, it’s just too taboo and slutty, most people are too conformist to admit to being ok with something like that with a stranger right off the bat. Plus most of the fun is in the build up - the point at which you admit you both w… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/18 02:20 PM |
| 1 | A Clarification on Rule 6: No examples from fiction or lyrics.I’ve never liked this rule. If someone uses an example from fiction and says “this is an example from a fictional story” then what’s the problem? As Jordan Peterson says, good fiction is the expression of very deep meta truths, and old fiction that has been revered throughout the ages clearly tells us something about who we are and what we want. Fiction is an expression of a whole lot of useful stuff. It’s an expression of ones desires, the way in which they perceive the world, the way in which … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/18 01:39 PM |
| 0 | A lesson for those struggling to swallow the pillAWALT? Sorry dude, they’re not all like that. That girl is a special kind of self obsessed sadistic evil. Please don’t think AWALT. AWALT should be saved for the truly universal aspects of the feminine, not the pieces of shit. If you think AWALT you’re going to be in a constant state of anxiety in all your future relationships, and this relationship will have damaged you forever. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/18 07:35 AM |
| 4 | The 5 Emotions You Should Never Show a WomanAs a long term sufferer of depression, I couldn’t agree more. My girlfriend is Italian, and I’ve always been blown away by her support, and her reaction to my (reluctant) opening up. Nothing but care and support, and respect for me having the balls to be open with her. This is the one part of TRP philosophy that I must take issue with. Sometimes the best person to help you is your LTR, sometimes you have to open up and express vulnerability. It can bring you closer and strengthen that bond, and … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/18 07:02 AM |
| 19 | Hostile reaction to giving redpill adviceIf you want to give someone advice, the acceptance of which requires them to change deeply held beliefs, never tell them they are wrong or make them feels silly. Also don’t make them feel stupid or unload a flood of reality shattering information. You did the right thing being honest with him, that’s what good friends do - give you the truth despite your feelings when no one else will. If I’m in this situation I try not to comment on their situation directly, but offer examples separate from the… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/18 10:37 AM |
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