listen10 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	What his deal? Makes a big fuss if I suggest going on a night out together, but he is okay to go with his friends..	SEEKING ADVICE	listen10	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/12/19 03:11 AM
11	How long is too long when waiting for your boyfriend/husband when going out?		listen10	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/19 12:47 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Just imagine. So true	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/20 05:25 PM
3	What his deal? Makes a big fuss if I suggest going on a night out together, but he is okay to go with his friends.. 5 years ...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/12/19 05:04 AM
8	What his deal? Makes a big fuss if I suggest going on a night out together, but he is okay to go with his friends.. Yeah that's what bothers me, I have no issue him going out with friends etc but the point of when we will be out and I suggest going somewhere he goes into a massive rant of " he hates clubs and drinking" 24 hours later he is in a club drinking so it feels like to me he is trying to shame me or make me feel like I'm not good enough to be seen out with? I don't know his friends, I've lost alot of my friends due to him going mad over me being out with them..his culture is "men and women are separa…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/12/19 03:29 AM
11	Disgusting excuse for a man rapes this poor woman, she’s trying to figure out how to “let him down easy” I hate men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/11/19 02:49 PM
3	Listening to some old songs, and this made me think of this sub...don't be the pick-me girl in this song! This brought back memories! Good song	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/11/19 10:29 PM
7	Seeking validation in men is damaging and it was a hard lesson for me to learn. In the words of Queen Lizzo: I am (now) my own soul mate. This is so relevant to me right now	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/11/19 12:41 AM
10	😊 So basically when you bring up something your really not happy about and they react with anger that is the end of the respect they have, regarding that situation?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/11/19 02:02 AM
24	Why the hell do they gas light ???? For example this is to me a typical Gaslighting situation. You tell your partner you'll be home at 8pm, he replies and says "ok see you at 8pm" You get home at 8pm and he turns around and says. "Where have you been, you said you be home at 7pm" You know you said 8pm, you said it twice you remember him replying "ok see you at 8pm", you tell him this. He replies " No you said 7pm not 8pm, where have you been , you're losing your memory, your wrong, I knew you are up to something, I never said ok s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/11/19 06:46 PM
12	Gotta be vigilant I don't think personally it's the truth I think they do it to make you feel shit so you need comforting from them, they say "sorry" and they end up getting what they want anyway....	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/10/19 12:52 PM
6	Don't be there just to boost his ego Yes this 100%. For me personally this is something generations of women in my family have put up with, putting men first making sure they are okay, they aren't in a mood, also big on "keeping quiet to keep the peace" and I'm trying to break this cycle. So glad I found this sub.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/19 06:33 PM
4	Just a reminder... Yes I need to be reminded of this on a daily basis until it's a natural way of being for myself.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/19 06:30 PM
5	How long is too long when waiting for your boyfriend/husband when going out? Yes so many times. He was running 5 minutes late to meet one of his friends and his words where " it's rude and disrespectful to keep people you care about waiting" and ran out the door. When I quoted this back to him he said to me it's doesnt matter if I'm waiting cos what else am I going to do..which is what is annoying me, as he clearly thinks I'm going to keep putting up with it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/19 03:55 PM
4	How long is too long when waiting for your boyfriend/husband when going out? Yeah I'm going to do this next time. I hate the way it makes me feel waiting on him especially when he just with friends. He obviously likes to see how far can push me..had enough of it!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/19 01:36 PM
3	Stay safe, ladies Thank god he stopped. A guy I was seeing for 2 months, who treated me like absolute shit one night I decided enough was enough turned my phone off woke up 7 hours later to 256 messages and about 15 voicemails.. Every man I've been with has done this emotional bombarding and harresment bullshit when they don't get Thier own way.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/19 09:09 PM