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| 2 | What is your go to opener?When I wasn't fat and still good looking, I used to say "met anyone interesting yet?" If they say yes, you say "want to meet another?" If they say no, you say "want to meet your first?" You'd usually get a laugh out of them and a start to a conversation. | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 10:29 PM |
| 4 | How Do Guys Actually End Up With “10/10” Influencer Level Women?As a 5'3" brown guy who has hooked up with models, READ AND BE FUNNY Be the funniest person in the room. Be the guy that everyone goes, "I want to be friends with that guy, because he makes me feel good". Don't be obnoxious, be able to read the room. Look beyond their good looks, and connect with their hopes and dreams. If I can't make them think about me then, I make them think about me when they go home. Also, sometimes they're just not into you. So yeah, more of an art than a science. | /r/seduction | 01/02/26 08:31 PM |
| 1 | What do I have to do to date/sleep with girls "out of my league"?I worked in hotels for a few years, that's where I often got to meet attractive women. They were often my colleagues, I never hit on customers. | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 02:22 AM |
| 24 | What do I have to do to date/sleep with girls "out of my league"?5'6" isn't that short. I'm 5'3" and I managed to hook up with models. The following things helped. Be funny - read a lot and expand your vocabulary so that you can have witty responses and quips, rather than stealing jokes from stand-up specials or tik toks. Actively listen - if you are chatting, stay away from your phone, and give her as much attention as you can. Ask some follow up questions. Don't be creepy - no means no. It's difficult to charm someone out of their sexual preferences | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 10:13 AM |
| 3 | Cuando "Ella es mía" se convierte en "El mío". When “She’s Mine” Becomes “He’s Mine”Si | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 10:31 AM |
| 2 | Tips and tricks to “innocently” seduce a guyThe one that worked well with me once, Spend time with him. Like a lot of time. Go clothes shopping, and ask "think about, which one would I look really hot in?" Put the idea of tearing off the clothes a constant one in his head. Don't say overtly sexual things, but imply them. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 07:22 AM |
| 30 | Talking about body count???Even though that sounds like a high number, Let's break it down. 8 years 12 months per year Therefore 96 months So you've slept with a different person every 2 - 3 weeks So yeah You a hoe | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 03:25 AM |
| 2 | The girl I was seeing stayed at my best friends houseYou don't need this kind of disrespect Cut that "friend" out of your life Ghost her, she doesn't deserve your time. Give her a week at most, then get the car towed. Hit the gym, and fuck anyone willing. It'll hurt, but healing takes time. And fucking helps, sometimes | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 04:50 PM |
| 51 | Does friends with benefits ever work?I have a good experience, and a bad experience. I had been sleeping with someone for about a year, and when she left the country, she left her promiscuous ways and had a family. Another, was that we slept together for about a month, but I had developed feelings and she didn't. Felt suicidal for a bit. So... You know... Hit and miss | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Going to my first date ever tomorrowWell bloody done mate. If you ever think that height is an issue if you want to kiss, a thing I did was to get yourself and the woman lying down. Last time I did that, was on the second date and we were lying in a garden bed looking at the stars. She was much taller than me, and this helped with my initial insecurities. | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 02:39 AM |
| 3 | Dating with a tall girl?Oh stop it I'm 5'3 and I have dated someone who was 6'2 If she likes you, then it's fine! | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Do you think women know what average guys go through with dating?Some do, and some don't. It doesn't matter. Women have their own struggles when it comes to dating. While we complain that we get ghosted, I've had friends that slept with their dates on the first night because they were afraid that if they didn't, they wouldn't be able to come home. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 11:47 PM |
| 11 | Hopeless dude.One trick that works for me, Is to get a hobby that has both men and women in it. Martial arts is a good one, and maybe even gymnastics. Or, ever try dancing? If you're looking to play the long game, it's definitely what I would do. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 03:06 PM |
| 1 | She said give her space over a small issueDefs. However, in the end don't let one sour apple ruin the whole batch. I've met red flag factory crazy, and I've been with the incredibly sanest of all saints too. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 12:22 PM |
| 1 | She said give her space over a small issuenotallgirls But if you're that salty about them, have you thought about being gay? | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 12:16 PM |
| 105 | How do you respond when a girl you’re interested in is complimenting you?In 2008, a woman said I had a beautiful smile. I'm still riding off that high | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 10:19 AM |
| 3 | Countries where Asian men are Most Desired?Look, I'm not gonna lie to you and say that racism does exist here, which it does. I've been lucky enough to join a good group of mats with similar hobbies. My work is often varied and I don't tend to get mixed in with racists. You'll find racists wherever you go, but don't let that stop you from doing the down and dirty. | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Countries where Asian men are Most Desired?Go somewhere where it isn't common. Try Gooseberry Hill in Western Australia? Or maybe Craigieburn in Victoria? | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 10:18 AM |
| 13 | Countries where Asian men are Most Desired?Okay so I'm in a similar boat to you... I'm an Asian Australian. You know what? American and Canadian women I had met seemed to froth over the accent, when I came to visit. I recommend coming to Australia, maybe? A foreign accent seemed to get the conversation going pretty well. | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 02:31 AM |
| 0 | I’ve given up on searching for hookups and getting laid because it is so damn hard. Instead I’ll be going to brothels from now on lolNot true. Hunting and gathering is. How else do you think they paid for prostitutes? Did someone mention something about a chicken and an egg? | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 10:26 AM |
| 3 | They need you right now, but when they don’t, they’ll cast you out like a leper!You okay? | /r/seduction | 26/03/21 08:45 AM |
| 2 | Picking up girls at the gymYeah, but I only recommend it if you are attractive | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 11:32 AM |
| 122 | This entire subreddit seems to be about seducing women, what about seducing men?A woman told me to enjoy my day, and I've been in love with her ever since I left subway the other day | /r/seduction | 08/02/21 07:28 AM |
| 2 | What does B mean?It's a common typo. When you press the spacebar twice, you put a full stop at the end. But sometimes you typo and press b instead. And then press send without checking. | /r/seduction | 07/02/21 09:38 AM |
| 10 | How do average looking guys hook up with a lot of hot girls/women?First, ask yourself why you look average? Some things you can’t change (without surgery and a lot of money), ie, height, skin colour, male pattern baldness. But there are a lot that you can. Out of shape? Time to start exercising my dude. Don’t feel smart enough? Go read for 10 minutes a night. Don’t like reading? I hear audible is doing some promotions. Losing your hair? Go all in and shave it bro. Don’t think you are interesting enough? You’ll be surprised how much more interesting you’ll beco… | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Girl i was dating got cold, slept with her ex, then he laughed to her face and told her to fuck off, she came back to meLook, a lot of people are telling you to drop her faster than Trump drops Epstein... But talk to her about how you feel, and how you felt betrayed and embarrassed in front of people. Yeah, she’s going to respond with “I was used and thrown away” etc etc. she’s not wrong. But you also need to make her understand that her actions had you in a bad place. If you’re willing to give it a try... then do it. But open up a dialogue and be communicative. Don’t play with emotions and don’t ghost. We’re all… | /r/seduction | 08/09/20 11:21 AM |
| 103 | How do I take girls off the "pedestal"?For me, you need to understand that attractive people develop feelings too. Understand that they want to spend time with you and get to know you. They are just as anxious as you are, and if you have that knowledge, it’s not as bad. | /r/seduction | 08/01/20 11:43 AM |
| 2 | On tinder, has asking for their Snapchat or their number worked out better for you?Hmmmmm. I see your point. I don’t have close to 230 followers... so I can’t objectively make that assumption. But you raise a fair point. | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 01:46 AM |
| 8 | On tinder, has asking for their Snapchat or their number worked out better for you?Number. Don’t get their Snapchat or Instagram or Facebook. Get their number. | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 11:45 PM |
| 31 | I Deleted Tinder and Bumble.Best of luck. Keep us updated of how it goes. | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 11:24 AM |
| 2 | Failed study sessionSo I tried this twice and it worked twice. I asked them. “Could I kiss you?” For one of them, they said yes and pulled me in. | /r/seduction | 15/03/19 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Had success with acting uninterested towards very attractive girlsI had something similar. I was friend zoned by a very attractive girl (she was 24 at the time) and she knew I was into her, and I was too dumb to figure it out at the time. I thought she was playing hard to get. Eventually she gave me the dreaded “I only see you as a friend” text message. By the time I found out she had friendzoned me, I no longer became interested and started seeing others, and I made this very open. I told her about these other girls, how old they were and how freaky they are.… | /r/seduction | 12/03/19 08:39 PM |
| 3 | i need some advice. After months of lurking this sub I finally got a date. What now?It really only works when you both are into photography. I do it as a paid hobby, so I get to show off my photography skills to women who are interested in it. Simply, you tell them to meet up at an agreed location, but both bring a camera and just take some photos and compare notes. Go for a drink afterwards and talk about datey things. Worked 2 out of 2 times. | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 11:18 PM |
| 2 | i need some advice. After months of lurking this sub I finally got a date. What now?I’ve been to a lot of first dates, and the ones that seem to end well are photography dates and stand up comedy dates. I recommend the stand up comedy. | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 10:12 PM |
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