Tips and tricks to “innocently” seduce a guy

Onzalimey · 2025-01-16T14:00:47+00:00

I lived with a girl that did it well. She would always stand closer to me than normal. Showed me pics of where she was from but had her tits in my shoulder when she did. It came off very genuine though and not like she was on purpose but after a few months we dated. I was trying not to actually but eventually the chemistry built a lot. Was hot

jwaters0122 · 2025-01-16T13:20:53+00:00

1.don't be fat

have all your teeth.

bartimaeus95 · 2025-01-16T13:38:31+00:00

“Wanna fuck?”

Crazy-Lich · 2025-01-16T12:58:18+00:00

Can you provide more details? What do you mean by "innocently"? How do you know him? What's the relationship between the two of you? Are you close friends? Just strangers?

theedmfreak · 2025-01-16T14:11:21+00:00

Oh no I dropped my bra

No-North-6698 · 2025-01-16T14:46:15+00:00

Keep you hands on his thighs that should do it

theedmfreak · 2025-01-16T14:10:59+00:00

Oh no i bra fell down

ChewinTheFat · 2025-01-16T14:36:23+00:00

Starry with light touch and sit closer. Lightly grab his wrist or shoulder when you talk. Laugh and smile a lot. Ask for his opinion and help on things especially things generally considered more masculine. Have him put together furniture or replace smoke detector batteries. Feed him ( not actually put food in his mouth but give him food)

asyikdp · 2025-01-16T15:34:07+00:00

My zipper stuck...

theonethatbeatu · 2025-01-16T14:49:48+00:00

I hope you’re 18 or under playing these immature little games…

Particular_Taro_5183 · 2025-01-16T13:34:37+00:00

You have to plant a seed of love in his mind. Engage in conversation and pretend to show him possibilities in case he starts or makes a first move you might change your mind as well. Or, maybe say you had a dream, … or, say you are single and would date … or things like that ..

farith2004 · 2025-01-16T12:50:33+00:00

play doll house with him

epimpstyle · 2025-01-16T18:58:13+00:00

This reminds me of the joke "how to seduce a man in 10 steps". Take a step and get naked, then take 9 more steps towards him.

prictorian · 2025-01-16T17:56:33+00:00

If you do it the way you suggest, he will probably completely miss the clues. Source: am a male.

Fate-in-haze · 2025-01-17T04:56:25+00:00

The seduction community calls it kino escalation, but that's just jargon for physical touch and gradual escalation of physical touch. Women typically don't like to be verbally direct but you can compensate for that by being very physical, think of places as a woman you would consider intimate(not private parts to be clear) to be touched and touch men you're attracted to there, and make sensual eye contact.

little_asian_man_89 · 2025-01-17T07:22:18+00:00

The one that worked well with me once,

Spend time with him. Like a lot of time. Go clothes shopping, and ask "think about, which one would I look really hot in?"

Put the idea of tearing off the clothes a constant one in his head.

Don't say overtly sexual things, but imply them.

Rollorich · 2025-01-16T13:55:47+00:00

Follow steps one and two

antonthecad · 2025-01-16T14:20:12+00:00

Stand near him and look approachable.

VikTarCelSoon · 2025-01-16T14:55:37+00:00

Long hugs… then look into eyes while still hugging… if he don’t get it by then it’s not gonna happen

ApprehensiveEmploy21 · 2025-01-16T12:36:54+00:00

“hey lets play pétanque”

boomerman91 · 2025-01-16T13:07:34+00:00

Spend as much time with him as possible and take an interest in his hobbies I guess lol

stinkypirate69 · 2025-01-16T19:52:58+00:00

Honestly just put effort and make a move. Most men are simple creatures and not interested in silly games. Especially in a post #Metoo world, men are worried about being creepy and approaching without some clear interest indicated. STOP with the dumb play hard to get or that is hung girls do where they make partial eye contact a couple times and expect them to come over and swoon them (really only works with very attractive women).

If you want results, show clear interest with out showing desperation. Go beyond a look and clearly indicate you are giving them your attention and some playfulness helps. A shared look doesn’t say much but a wink and a wave along with it where it’s clear you are engaging with them is a great starter.

We live in an attention economy so first step is indicating your willingness to engage with them and give them your attention. Consistency is key too but gotta learn to shift directions if they aren’t interested or you get into desperation land

skunkmere · 2025-01-17T01:04:21+00:00

Ask him out.

Apart-Caterpillar581 · 2025-01-17T03:34:56+00:00

Trip onto his lap

Derek305 · 2025-01-17T13:49:06+00:00

Sense of touch is the greatest for that.

Felix1178 · 2025-01-17T16:14:25+00:00

put your feet in his lap as you watch together a movie int he tv...wingle your toes...feel his stoner!

GregJames6 · 2025-01-17T20:49:24+00:00

Say, “help! I’m stuck in the washing machine!”

One_Understanding267 · 2025-01-19T10:28:34+00:00

This is manipulation. This fuels misoginy. You can't take responsability for the fact you are interested in someone, want to have any kind of relationship anf simply talk about it? You need to lie, manipulate, dissimulate, then pretend you did nothing? And then you wonder some guys are misogynistic and very cautious about women?

This is disgusting, this subbredit is toxic, I'm happy to leave.

MeorOtherMe · 2025-01-16T14:18:00+00:00

Be top self. Good personality, clean, creative things like: new hairstyle everyday.

coolneemtomorrow · 2025-01-16T14:12:45+00:00

Just wear a low cut shirt and bend over slightly towards him

No need to touch the dude. Trust me that will work

milan_gv · 2025-01-16T16:03:26+00:00

Though it mind sound stupid, Act! Like actually play the role of being really girly, innocent and cutesy like in the porno. Trust me no matter how alpha beta the dude is, it's gonna catch him off guard and give you the psychological advantage of "him being in control". And then "innocently" wear revealing clothings and say you feel really ugly and unattractive. Chances are he's gonna play along at one point and say something nice about you to feel beautiful even if he senses what's actually going on. Once he does, tease your way till content and satisfied that you can pull any guy you ever wanted and ghost him.

rockinshinyarmour · 2025-01-20T13:59:07+00:00

The best way to get him is just to enjoy your time with him. Listen to him, ask personal questions. Don't do any weird moves, because he already experiences it from other girls and that's why he doesn't appreciate it. Wear classy clothes and not childish/non-decent clothes.

And for the Love of God, don't expect/do things that you ready in those dark novels of yours, that's the fastest way to get rid of him.

PrinceDestin · 2025-01-16T12:57:31+00:00

I’d say just go for it but if you must have that womanly “innocence” just treat him like your king and like you appreciate him. Kiss his hands rub his hands be super affectionate

If you can get around to it kiss his neck and lay your head on his lap and just talk and stay there any guy with a chicks head on his lap has a high chance of getting aroused

If bros Johnson starts growing you take advantage and maybe make your move there but honestly there’s two types of ways of a womanly seduction

One where she makes the guy want to initiate everything and the woman is just ready To give herself up to him

Or the woman shows a lot of desire to just rip the clothes of him so she’s More proactive with it however that might not be as innocent

Wonderful_Idea_5145 · 2025-01-16T17:13:12+00:00

Why not let it look intentional? Guys appreciate that

Title	Tips and tricks to “innocently” seduce a guy
Author	Fickle_Turnover_9811
Upvotes	71
Comments	74
Date	January 16, 2025 12:33 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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