littlegremlinsparky Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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10	PSA: That guy you have a "FWB" with? He IS NOT YOUR FRIEND. Ok so you’re unwilling to admit that because your fwb were using you that all fwb situations are like that. Girl if you want sex, wrap him up ride him and kick him out. You’re not beholden to any kind of rules or regulations and until you become confident in yourself you’re going to continue on the pattern of being used. You can only be used if you allow it. It’s on you to set your boundaries and hold them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/20 08:42 PM
19	PSA: That guy you have a "FWB" with? He IS NOT YOUR FRIEND. He’s not actively pursuing a woman. We’ve had sex in the last six months and he knows about my other fuck buddies. We talk about philosophy, psychology, we have movie nights, sex is not the pinnacle of our relationship. We literally have a friendship and if we are both horny at the same time we have sex but otherwise we just do our own thing. So again, how is he using me? It feels like you’re on a mention to vilify all male friendships. You can be friends with a guy, you can fuck that friend, an…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/20 08:38 PM
45	PSA: That guy you have a "FWB" with? He IS NOT YOUR FRIEND. Dude I legit already did that. We are still friends. When I got a bf he celebrated with me. When I dumped the guy he brought me snacks and we just hung out. He’s been a better friend to me than a lot of the women in my life. It’s called being respectful of each other. Also you’re advocating for someone to play mind games on another person. You may want to stop projecting your ideas of fwb and friendship onto other people. I’m sorry you’ve been played a lot. I have too but if the man you’re fucki…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/20 08:33 PM
0	PSA: That guy you have a "FWB" with? He IS NOT YOUR FRIEND. How? We haven’t had sex in months and he still talks to me like an actual friend would. Doesn’t make it sexual doesn’t bother me with sex unless I want it. So please explain how am I the one being used	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/20 08:18 PM
-7	PSA: That guy you have a "FWB" with? He IS NOT YOUR FRIEND. 100% he would. He’s done that actually. One time I was out of trash bags and I was bitching about dude showed up with trash bags and beer and we watched a weird fucking show and he went home. Never asked for sex didn’t press me at all.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/20 08:14 PM
-14	PSA: That guy you have a "FWB" with? He IS NOT YOUR FRIEND. I actually do have a friend who is an fwb. He will legit come over and hang out or celebrate with me without any sex. Then sometimes all we do is have sex: it’s a delicate balance. If all he does is come over and lays pipe and doesn’t talk doesn’t try to be an actual friend then call it what it is. A fuck toy	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/20 08:10 PM
68	Oh good lord... He’s an Asshole 100% But the signs are there. Girlfriend has some serious self esteem issues if she’s continuing the pursue a man who clearly doesn’t respect her.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/02/20 03:33 PM
5	Living in a tourist spot I get stuff like this often. I think it’s ‘fishing’. Saying thank you to a compliment can create the mentality that you ‘owe’ them. Try this instead. note for context-bio asked whether you brush your teeth before or after breakfast, along with some other things, seemed fine. When I get those that’s when I just tell them to sign the safety waivers and bam that usually works too or you know unmatch them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/20 08:14 PM
19	Living in a tourist spot I get stuff like this often. I think it’s ‘fishing’. Saying thank you to a compliment can create the mentality that you ‘owe’ them. Try this instead. note for context-bio asked whether you brush your teeth before or after breakfast, along with some other things, seemed fine. I get that a lot too. I just tell them I’m on my Period they unmatch so fast	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/20 08:12 PM
92	If you saw an “ex” in public, what would you do? He’s dead to me. So I would simply ignore him. If he tries to engage with me I’d legit ask him where I’d met him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/20 03:27 PM
74	Woman engaged to “gamer” does all the household chores and works full time but her fiancé can’t be bothered to come down for dinner she prepared because he’s playing Fortnite. The worst advice subreddit on this entire website blames her. My ex legit broke up with me because he preferred video games to sex. I won’t date a self proclaimed gamer ever again	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/20 03:42 PM
6	Clothing question: Why are solids > prints? I’ve looked everywhere and can’t find a (solid, haha) answer. Prints are “louder” they are considered more noticeable thus making the woman more noticeable. What is considered unladylike? Being noticed or “loud” in a space. Solids let you be seen but not “seen” if that makes sense. It’s like we are there but it’s easier to ignore us.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/20 02:21 PM
5	How to handle grief? Laundry. I know it sounds so silly but literally someone helping with the laundry helps tremendously. When my dad died I had no one. No boyfriend or anything to help me and if someone had just come over and picked my clothes up off the floor I probably would have hugged their legs. Grief is hard, literally coming over and just taking care of shit helps. But there is a danger there. You can’t carry the weight of his world and yours for an extended period of time. Help him but back off when he sta…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/20 06:04 PM