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You need a therapist for depression, not to worry about dating. Get right with yourself first before you off load this problem on someone else. Dating is not going to change this for you, in fact it may make it worse. Self worth shouldn’t be drawn from people whose literal role is to judge your potential as a partner. If you go into it like that, there’s a world of hurt for yourself and people you’re involved with waiting for you
/r/seduction17/03/22 09:42 PM
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You’d be lighting a match to a fuse connected to something you can’t see. If you don’t make up your mind immediately after, then when it eventually fails, the partner will feel deceived. No way around that. Or you end up in a loving relationship, much more unlikely than the former.
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:52 PM
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I don’t think you did the wrong thing listening to your gut. People keep their cards close to their chests and often it’s for good reason but if that remains a constant with no sign of change after you know you want more, that’s on you to enforce your boundary. You can’t wait around while he figures out more versions of non answers because you don’t truly know the real motivation behind it. You know you deserve and want more so it’s best to have a habit of leaving when it begins to feel insecure…
/r/seduction07/02/22 06:12 PM
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Comfort. Ever had a hoodie get snagged in a machine? Ever had your phone slip out of your loose sweatpants? I don’t have these problems in clothes designed specifically for… you guessed it the gym.
/r/seduction05/02/22 09:39 PM
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You’re overthinking. You don’t know why she’s not answering. If it were me, I would still keep my distance for a while until i think it through and feel comfortable enough to be vulnerable with you again. If she was that interested in the recent past she likely still is. Feelings aren’t an on and off switch. What you did isn’t bad enough to destroy your image in her eyes, IMHO. Give her some space, let her stew in it, if you’re apology felt sincere, she probably just needs time.
/r/seduction31/12/21 03:04 AM
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See, you say you saw a future with this woman but how can you expect to be able to maintain that if you can’t be vulnerable through an apology? It’s not “crawling back” it’s a new obstacle for where this is headed. Obstacles are inevitable in relationships casual or not. And it’s up to each of your reactions to overcome and develope further. It’s a bad sign if you’re ready to give up at the first sign of trouble. Might be best if you stay hoeing.
/r/seduction30/12/21 07:30 PM
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