| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 13 | I think men are too hard on themselves and Society and the expectations placed on men only exasperate this | Social Issues | lixlix44 | /r/MensRights | 30/05/22 04:23 PM |
| 5 | where are the women who don't care about gender roles | lixlix44 | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/22 10:40 AM | |
| 3 | when I still want masculine men, eight? | lixlix44 | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/22 05:07 AM | |
| 1 | my inexperience has ruined my creativity | lixlix44 | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/22 04:53 AM | |
| 0 | men want a hot girl and women want a wealthy man but how much of that is fantasy? | lixlix44 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 08:32 PM | |
| 0 | being nice and respectful isn't the bare minimum | lixlix44 | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/22 11:08 AM | |
| 0 | sensitivity in men is seen as whining, complaining, and annoying but normal in women | lixlix44 | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/22 09:31 PM | |
| 0 | men and women are 98% similar but that 2% makes our differences very strong | lixlix44 | /r/ExRedPill | 02/06/22 01:49 AM |
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| 9 | I feel like most guys just want acknowledgment that things can suck for men too.That's something I've actually said to a bunch of people, how we discuss and a total rhetoric around men is no different from historically.How black men were viewed | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/01/25 05:41 PM |
| 15 | Are we seeing the birth of a male in-group bias?That's also the major difference.And I don't think a lot of people actually noticed at this exactly.The result of the same bias Feminist and more extended women are absolutely permitted to complain about anything.It is socially acceptable and no one is going to put down a woman or think she's less than a woman for doing so.Whether she's complaining over some bullshit or something that is real and serious. And don't give me wrong the complaints they have for sex.Isn't our valid but where their bo… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/01/25 06:23 PM |
| 4 | May be headed to prison for paying child support that wasn't adjusted properly 😔And like the above commenter said this type of stuff makes it so easy for him to go to jail was just the influences the prison industrial complex | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/01/25 05:35 PM |
| 4 | May be headed to prison for paying child support that wasn't adjusted properly 😔Our relationship styles are just not working because it inevitably leads to this single parenthood.Because of our modern times we think the cost of sex no longer exists.But it's still there and just because we have condoms and birth control pills.And other technology to stop it still does not stop the consequence of self sex , which is children And it's crazy to see on both sides.Just how selfish and unready the parents could be, but it also makes you kind of think if relationships are love are … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/01/25 05:33 PM |
| 7 | May be headed to prison for paying child support that wasn't adjusted properly 😔That's exactly what I was gonna say. It just feels the person industrial complex. Private companies usually own prisons which equals cheap labor | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/01/25 05:26 PM |
| 23 | Subreddits that breed ''male guilt'' type of people, is incredibly sad to see.And it's something you only notice.Not only personally but within popular culture A man truly cannot be a male feminist in the true sense of the word And I'm not talking about the bad stereotype.I mean, exactly what those men are doing.They are also questioning.Their supposed roles in society and what it means to be masculine I don't like fighting.I know I can fight. I'm very huge.I got a long wingspan, long limbs.And a gigantic torso. Ever since I was a little boy I was always the biggest in cl… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/01/25 10:34 PM |
| 11 | When it comes to men making women comfortable, there is never really a win for men.As a young kid who happens to be black.This is colored so much of my experience that now I advocate for exactly what you just said I don't care why or how you're scared.No one should accommodate your fear which is an Emotion And really this man versus bare thing is just childish Most people are more successfully likely to get killed by their mother, father, brother or sister than any other random person and I get it.Men are naturally bigger and stronger Believe me I get women's fear but The tiny… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/06/24 01:55 AM |
| 2 | I keep hearing people say that men are generally only allowed to express anger, but in my life I’ve never even seen that allowed.I say this to a bunch of white feminists all the time as my experience as a large black man. Not only are women naturally going to be scared of you.And even then, I don't think it's a justification.But the fact that black man already looked at as more threatening and overmasculine.We can't get angry.I've gotten angry in public as I'm bipolar.And it's amazing how much the fear you can see in people but it goes counter to the other side, if you're a calm dude or let stuff roll off your back.Not ev… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/05/24 02:55 AM |
| 1 | men want a hot girl and women want a wealthy man but how much of that is fantasy?So basically a man who is better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 06:23 PM |
| 1 | where are the women who don't care about gender rolesYou think a former sex worker would also see men as sex objects or as walking Wallace but she treated me way better than my other girlfriend The definition is going to change with every time. And every opinion but modern American masculinity if that makes sense I already told you that I don't expect it to really act like anything unless it's doing something that disrespects me But classical masculinity which means overcoming challenges or making it your life's mission to do that Never complainin… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/22 11:31 PM |
| 1 | sensitivity in men is seen as whining, complaining, and annoying but normal in womenHuh | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/22 11:21 PM |
| 1 | sensitivity in men is seen as whining, complaining, and annoying but normal in womenI'm not trying to Discount you but my point still stands because he shouldn't have to do all this with interview of his girlfriend or whatever she use as assertive or confidence until he is ready Depression sucks and I know this that someone who's bipolar it's not something you can just turn off | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/22 11:17 PM |
| 0 | sensitivity in men is seen as whining, complaining, and annoying but normal in womenIt's hard for me to take stories like this seriously because I hear you on one hand but on the other I could easily say the same thing about you especially if I would have heard your ex-boyfriend side of the story. Who are you to decide if he's being confident or assertive especially when it's your view with him | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | sensitivity in men is seen as whining, complaining, and annoying but normal in womenThen why did you reply This is something that happened all the time | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/22 11:06 PM |
| -5 | sensitivity in men is seen as whining, complaining, and annoying but normal in womenIt shouldn't scare you and that's the point Don't get me wrong I'm glad what you typed out and I agree completely but I tried to be upfront from the beginning but sometimes from a combination of how Society is with my own personal experiences, sometimes it's not beneficial if she's one of those girls that sees men emotional as weak But if she sees me as weak and she probably wouldn't be good anyway I know there are girls out there that don't care about it but it seems like they are so rare | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/22 10:11 PM |
| 1 | where are the women who don't care about gender rolesMy last two girlfriends were just like that except the first one was majorly abusive My First Girlfriend was very much masculine but sometimes it came off as too much to the point where it became toxic femininity Which means that she could be as mean as judgmental as she wanted but when me or another man called her out she would start trying to act like the victim I remember one day I called her out because she needed me for emotional assistance and I came for her. She was upset that some body i… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/22 09:53 PM |
| -4 | sensitivity in men is seen as whining, complaining, and annoying but normal in womenMost people are leaning on each other I live with my grandparents and each one of them will come to me for basically complain on the other because I'm the listening ear. I don't take sides but I sit here to listen because I know it's normal I work with a lady who had some racist Tendencies and swears that everybody complains especially when it's a vital issue I told her that people could easily say she's the same way as complaining as it's human nature You would imagine how many people did I eve… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | where are the women who don't care about gender rolesLet's play a woman that's not going to expect traditional stuff from me and won't emasculate me if I choose not to Everybody is needy and whines all the time that it's Human Nature That's why you got both sides politics or gender or whatever saying the same thing Our side is right in the other is just a victim Too many times sensitivity is viewed as being needy or annoying when it's a man but viewed as normal when it's a woman | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/22 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Would you trade getting catcalled and occasional harassment if it meant you would never get any attention, compliments or special treatment from menThis line of reasoning doesn't work because by that logic I should avoid every single white woman because I have the police called On Me by them It is not anyone's responsibility to make you feel safe or to accommodate your feelings unfortunately Once again I empathize with women situation but everything you typed out is a potential danger to me as well because I am unfortunately a big male and a big black male Even with the women in my community you still have to watch yourself around because a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Would you trade getting catcalled and occasional harassment if it meant you would never get any attention, compliments or special treatment from menIt has nothing to do with media portrayals And in real life most women do try to act warm in optimistic or accommodating because that's what they're taught but I'm not saying that's good or bad but most women go at least try to act like that even when they don't fit it I know so many girls who have nasty attitudes but swear they are a good person I'm a large black man Whenever I'm in any type of public space especially if I'm by myself or without any friends I am looked at as Enemy Number One I'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Would you trade getting catcalled and occasional harassment if it meant you would never get any attention, compliments or special treatment from menThree out of four of the homeless are men. Just go look outside | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 06:01 PM |
| -4 | being nice and respectful isn't the bare minimumDo you have any statistics Mothers do the bare minimum to Yet expect to be called brave and queen | /r/ExRedPill | 05/06/22 05:42 PM |
| -2 | In what ways to redpillers sabotage themselves?I know dudes who embody the red pill who still get dates so obviously they're not sabotaging themselves Now I'm here on this detox because I don't like the red pill l at all but you cannot act like that it is true in some instances. Horrible people still find relationships It's not good but for the fact that it happens kind of proves that some red pill ideas or people who act like it at least ,are doing something right. I know a guy who gets a lot of girls only by The Virtue that he has lied abo… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/22 08:21 PM |
| -1 | In what ways to redpillers sabotage themselves?People who say worse things then whatever red pill vocabulary still wind up in relationships That's my point and it's kind of useless to try to make up rules about what and who will be avoided because it's just not real in reality Humans are human and especially if they're attractive you will be surprised with the stuff they can get away with Hell you don't even have to be attractive but if someone is in love with you they will have blinders on to some of your worst traits | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/22 08:17 PM |
| 0 | being nice and respectful isn't the bare minimumI'm arguing the opposite Foremost nice guys are not acting fake I imagine for complex reasons they still come off as a turn off A lot of people will say this because it keeps to say when men ask for advice or what they're doing wrong but it's more complex than that I know way too many people both men and women who have gotten into relationships without a hint of respect or being kind. Overall be nice and respectful is not the bare minimum because most people aren't even doing that I know way too… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/22 05:34 PM |
| 2 | pop to portray boys as creepyAnd that's why I like it With the sexual assaults Starlight it shows just how much it is a societal thing and not just because men are crazy or some weird feminist explanation All of society contribute to Starlights sexual assault including the corporate woman in the show | /r/MensRights | 04/06/22 02:33 PM |
| 3 | Would you trade getting catcalled and occasional harassment if it meant you would never get any attention, compliments or special treatment from menMen and Western societies have already been hammered over the head about their experiences That is immutable fact There are so many sources and things that Empower girls nowadays but I imagine that because of that so many girls don't really understand what it's like to be a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 02:05 PM |
| -1 | Would you trade getting catcalled and occasional harassment if it meant you would never get any attention, compliments or special treatment from menI am | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 01:46 PM |
| 0 | my inexperience has ruined my creativityTry reading it again | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/22 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Would you trade getting catcalled and occasional harassment if it meant you would never get any attention, compliments or special treatment from menYe that's per the experience A lot of women really do not understand this and that's why I asked if they would rather have the opposite because I imagine most of them would not like it Women have better social connections but it's not because of them for say but it's because Society already has an in-group bias for women That's why you were rarely see a woman walking down the street alone because if she doesn't have her car she can just use one of her friends or family or even a dude get her aro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 01:42 PM |
| -3 | where are the women who don't care about gender rolesThat's exactly what I wish a lot of feminist there asking men to understand the opposite sex yet they don't completely understand man | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | when I still want masculine men, eight?You'll still find the same behaviors in college and in adulthood I'm 25 and I thought these games would stop by the time I was 20. And I agree completely that relationships take work which is why I think so many people are not dating well nowadays If your spouse or partner has a problem then all you need to do is just drop them and find someone else because it's just that easy | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/22 12:47 PM |
| 0 | when I still want masculine men, eight?That's what makes them it isn't full of hypocrisy and even though I agree with a lot of the ideas You can't call an idea gender-neutral then say it mainly focuses on one because then it's not gender-neutral Why wouldn't I be a fan of this massively powerful gender Norms because that's what I was originally looking for with feminism but I had to leave the movie because it just wasn't delivering on that promise To be honest I kind of see it's as gender roles getting even more profound Whenever to … | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/22 12:45 PM |
| 1 | when I still want masculine men, eight?In American society I would argue a good 45% of people are ignorant And it's hard to find to find a type of person because those type of women usually get smacked up with quickly because Dudes realize you don't have to act like a jackass around them It's still on men to pursue And when you're in that position it's hard to be picky because you could end up being alone which is probably better I did not take it all in high school because no girl in my high school was mature or open-minded | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/22 12:37 PM |
| 1 | when I still want masculine men, eight?So yes I am asking that women and Men honestly take a good look at themselves. Especially women because they underestimate how much they play a role into this I think every woman needs to sit down and ask yourself if she ever contributed to any toxic Norms or ideas about men. I've been getting good at calling out some of my female friends over this type of thing because of the hypocrisy My little 5 ft 5 friend doesn't understand that she can go out and be as expressive and physical with people b… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/22 12:34 PM |
| 0 | when I still want masculine men, eight?If it was that easy then we wouldn't be here It's hard as a man trying to find that becuase the onus is on us to pursue When you are putting that position you don't really get to pick and choose and sometimes you aren't treated as well because not everyone is genuine or respectful | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/22 12:28 PM |
| 1 | when I still want masculine men, eight?That's the problem. Feminism should be for both men and women. It shouldn't just be focused on on women becuase that's hypocrisy It's disingenuous to say that the movement is for both people but then add on that its focuse is on women because then that means that it's not focused on men Just because you say it doesn't make it true and you even contradict Yourself by saying that it just focus on women Just seeing the bad in every single male gender role or pattern is not helping men For one thing… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/22 12:25 PM |
| 1 | when I still want masculine men, eight?I don't know where you got the idea that I thought progress that stopped because social change is always happening but we have blind spots when it comes to men and you see that's complaining but Saying that to me is no different than a lot of people saying two women that their voices being heard or nothing but complaints Men and women need to do better with understanding man and seeing men as fully human without having to do XYZ to have value I keep posting about this because I'm not finding any… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/22 12:07 PM |
| 4 | Would you trade getting catcalled and occasional harassment if it meant you would never get any attention, compliments or special treatment from menWould you rather be the opposite and be seen as a threat everywhere you go in society Men hear women when they talk about this but what gets old as for the fact that not every man does it and it gets even more old when we have to pay for some other stupid men's mistake Women do not empathize a really understand a man's life experience either. There's tons of downplaying that women do for our experiences as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 11:36 AM |
| -5 | In what ways to redpillers sabotage themselves?But that's the reason why so many men go to it is because men that act like Redfield caricatures have a lot of success There are way too many toxic and nasty dudes that do indeed have a lot of success with women despite the contrary. I know all types of people both men and women that use Redfield language even if they don't know what it is We need to stop acting like Red pill men or this Boogeyman and that's nobody in society entertains these ideas because These things don't just pop out of nowh… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/22 11:10 AM |
| 1 | when I still want masculine men, eight?But that's the biggest problem with the ideology and I think that's why a lot of people get twisted up in knots is because by definition of feminism really has not reached men yet Like we have been able to analyze and breakdown gender for women but the same needs to be done for men | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/22 10:32 AM |
| 0 | when I still want masculine men, eight?I can easily say the same thing to you but you will be mistaken if you think something really have not made progress Count to 20 and 40 years ago the idea of having a female vice president would probably be out of the question What I'm trying to say is the conversation of gender has not really reached men yet like it has women as women have been empowered and free but men are still slaves to what Society expects due to | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/22 10:31 AM |
| 1 | men and women are 98% similar but that 2% makes our differences very strongI'm sorry What | /r/ExRedPill | 02/06/22 06:17 PM |
| 0 | men and women are 98% similar but that 2% makes our differences very strongSociety is made up of all of people regardless of race or gender and any problem that happens in society is every members fault A minority man has a lot of problems but if he goes around saying homophobic things than he is just as much as contributing to almost over you as much as a straight person would be Both men and women have a lot of advantages and disadvantages for the part of our discourse is having to discuss that and how to at least make things more equal | /r/ExRedPill | 02/06/22 06:11 PM |
| 0 | men and women are 98% similar but that 2% makes our differences very strongObviously it's not Gender discourse has been at the forefront of our culture for at least the last 10 years | /r/ExRedPill | 02/06/22 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Should I take dating advice from men at allAs a leftist man who can sympathize with why so many right-wing men feel how they feel this is exactly it If you're a geek or nerd or loser or whatever Of course that means you're going to be on the losing end of your retrospective gender even if you may get some benefits from that Just like women have advantages and disadvantages. But when you are at the bottom of course you're going to try to analyze gender in gender roles and how that relates to the opposite sex as it's natural A lot of women… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/06/22 01:55 AM |
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