| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | First date and taking things slowshe replied that it was bit contradictory when I was at bar and my place and physical part was somehow off and she felt it bit rushed and we might have different hopes and preferences. And we may not be right fit. So its done for me :( | /r/seduction | 05/05/26 06:34 PM |
| 1 | First date and taking things slowshe replied that it was bit contradictory when I was at bar and my place and physical part was somehow off and she felt it bit rushed and we might have different hopes and preferences. And we may not be right fit. So its done for me :( | /r/seduction | 05/05/26 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone else experienced this? (since 2022)With aging I got better chances, virgin until 29. I improved myself | /r/seduction | 28/03/26 04:40 PM |
| 1 | I can’t seem to find the balanceDo you recommend anything I should follow | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 11:07 AM |
| 1 | I can’t seem to find the balance30 minutes at bar, then home. I remember she told let’s talk little more when I ask let’s jump to bed. So we did it 5 10 minutes, then jumped to bed again in the bed she said let’s jump to sofa and cuddle haha | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 10:12 AM |
| 1 | I can’t seem to find the balanceI was thinking the time I escalated, she might felt I’m thirsty for sex. But I remember I asked her does it feel good when I’m doing it and sometimes is it ok to touch before touching sexual parts of her. | /r/seduction | 21/03/26 07:34 PM |
| 2 | I can’t seem to find the balanceThe time I stopped I was in fear same thing will happen if I be more touchy she’ll say let’s not go for sex, earlier date she said let’s take it slowly so I didn’t force anything. But we were bit touchy and making out, I think I was mostly touching her, she was not reciprocating same to me | /r/seduction | 21/03/26 07:01 PM |
| 0 | Why does women brings up kids when talkingThis is the only useful answer 👍 | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Brought her home what did I miss hereYes usually it’s a bar or cafe for me, but I can bring the girl home most times, but it’s only 3/10 instances it leads to proper intimacy. That’s unfortunate haha. yes thanks for the advice | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Brought her home what did I miss hereThe bar we met, it’s quite crowded and not very good for being intimate, because winter it’s difficult to make out outside as well haha, yes good advice, probably I should work on more timing logistics But should I be more intimate and touchy from first make out like getting rid of clothes | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Should I even go to the club if I feel every guy there is better looking than meI have this Type of girls, they are mostly in clubs actually | /r/seduction | 28/12/25 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Should I even go to the club if I feel every guy there is better looking than meBut I have pulled girls on daytime and meet-ups, not on clubs | /r/seduction | 27/12/25 06:31 PM |
| 1 | I can bring the girl home, but she leaves without even a kiss.My last date, was out of control, even though she came to my place, we had lot of arguments at the bar. I don’t know actually, I just look at her and compliments her features , like smile, eyes etc. Do different jokes about her, look at her in eyes not awkward way but depending on situation. End of the date I usually asks her to come to my place. | /r/seduction | 19/12/25 08:07 PM |
| 1 | I can bring the girl home, but she leaves without even a kiss.What do you mean by lack of calibration, means I don’t understand how to deal with people | /r/seduction | 19/12/25 02:55 PM |
| -4 | I can bring the girl home, but she leaves without even a kiss.I asked this time, nothing to cook actually just make a wrap with stuff I had, that’s why I gave her. Usually when someone comes for a dinner I usually cook everything | /r/seduction | 19/12/25 01:19 PM |
| 2 | I can bring the girl home, but she leaves without even a kiss.Thanks Solid, advice, I have been doing all wrong. I have never put on light and music but some women still were ok with it, I guess I didn’t get it, even the kissing were ok with some. And the women are from different cultures actually | /r/seduction | 19/12/25 07:41 AM |
| -13 | I can bring the girl home, but she leaves without even a kiss.we cooked, she actually cooked for both of us, made wraps, I try to give a hug like thing when she’s cooking means wrapping my arms around her waist, but she quickly shok my hands away, I couldn’t get she was shy or not, then we sat down and ate. After I moved us to a sofa, then I said close your eyes I have something for you, then went for a kiss, but she stopped me why you kissing me eyes closed, and said want to leave. I tried again when she’s leaving my place at the door, just said friends d… | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 08:08 PM |
| 1 | I can bring the girl home, but she leaves without even a kiss.I will dm you man | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 08:02 PM |
| 2 | I can bring the girl home, but she leaves without even a kiss.Gold | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 06:47 PM |
| -28 | I can bring the girl home, but she leaves without even a kiss.Last date actually, she complained about my fridge and kitchen is dirty and disrespectfully talked about me, but I would say it was not super clean but mid clean that day. I just keep talking to her different stuff. Should I make any sexual remarks during talking ? | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 06:13 PM |
| 13 | I Slept with 40 Women Last Year From Real Life Approaches - Here are 7 Lessons I learnedAs a brown guy, in a Scandinavian country, it’s been really disappointing journey to find a partner. Please share some of your tips man | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 10:38 AM |
| 2 | I Confessed to a Woman on a Date That I Practice Approaching - Her Reaction Was PricelessThis works if you are a good looking guy, otherwise rejection is harsh. But got used to it. | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Approaching ladies as a brown manYes in some dates , I got hugs kisses from the first date and some in next dates. I have got rejections from night clubs, I have stopped going to them. | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 05:27 PM |
| 2 | The Brutal Truth About Approaching Women Nobody Wants to HearOne time when I approached couple of women, fiercely raised their hands and said no with a disgusting look, I just looked at them just directly asked wanna join for dance at a club. It was embarrassing and I’m bit more reluctant afterwards. I’m brown guy in a predominantly white country where very few people from my home country. Look and skin colour matter too, I’m a fit 5’9” guy. | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 03:39 PM |
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