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Rant/Ventinglloopy/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 01:09 PM
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Blue Pill Examplelloopy/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 02:01 PM
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Field Reportlloopy/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 03:53 AM
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Red Pill Examplelloopy/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 06:48 AM
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Red Pill Theorylloopy/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 02:51 AM
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lloopy/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 12:12 AM
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Red Pill Theorylloopy/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 03:08 AM
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Ask Red Pilllloopy/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 04:50 PM
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Blue Pill Examplelloopy/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 04:23 PM
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Red Pill Theorylloopy/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 12:46 AM
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Blue Pill Examplelloopy/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 12:41 AM
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Field Reportlloopy/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 05:01 PM
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Eyes dry as the Sahara.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/06/22 12:14 AM
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I remember, probably incorrectly, that kids only got dad's name if dad acknowledged them as legitimate. The name was the primary way of getting the dad to support the kid.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/05/21 11:09 PM
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There was a dude in Argentina who changed his gender to female so he could retire 5 years early.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/05/21 09:05 PM
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This isn't a humble brag. This is a quality revelation. You got thrown out of the prison and now you realized that it is a prison.
/r/MGTOW01/06/18 12:30 AM
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A while back I went from Company A to Company B then back to Company A a year later. My net raise was 50%. The advice I've been given is to increase your value, then move to some place that will pay you for it. The company that was paying you all along will still see you as the person you were, and so the appropriate raise will not be forthcoming.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 10:38 PM
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Bullshit. There was tons of stuff that he could have done to fuck it up. "Hey baby, thanks for coming out to see me. I really like how you look. Can I buy you a drink? What do you want? Anything you want. It's on me 'cause I'm paying for everything here. Is that okay with you? Wow, I really like you. You're so cute, and I didn't think you'd go for a guy my age" He'd go to the bar for drinks, and she'd be GONE.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 10:26 PM
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Yes. You're not going to wear a tux to class. If you're not going to be working out hard enough to break a sweat, then probably something with buttons would be best.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 08:48 PM
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When you're pissed at stupid women making crappy choices, focus on yourself and what you can do to improve yourself. Lift to become physically more attractive. Read to have interesting shit to talk about. When you're going out in public, make sure your attire is the best it should be for the situation. RP is a hard road to travel. The anger phase is just a phase. We all go through it.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 08:03 PM
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When your sister spouts feminist crap, write it down. Then write down why you think it's wrong. You're angry, and one of the things that makes it so hard to deal with is it's probably unfocused. Hypergamy! Feminism! Divorce-Rape! These battle cries are no more valid than Patriarchy! Misogyny! So get specific with what frustrates you. Then get specific with what exactly you can do about it. My #1 self-identified beta trait is that I ask questions instead of making decisions. This is one habit tha…
/r/askTRP21/01/15 07:58 PM
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We will never be in a world where economically speaking, people will be equal. It will never, ever happen.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 07:29 PM
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There's conscious thought and argument. There's subconscious thought. And there's instinct. She can babble all she wants about female empowerment, but her instincts tell her that men should take the lead.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 03:12 AM
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I faced a similar situation ignorance-wise. I needed a good marital-law lawyer in another state. I went to lawyers.com and did a search for lawyers in the other state. I typed out a one-paragraph synopsis of my situation and copy-pasted it three lawyers whose profiles looked promising. One of them didn't respond, one responded with some ideas on moving forward, and the third presented me with a strategy, a brief overview of the relevant laws/case studies and a phone call. I went with #3. She was…
/r/askTRP18/01/15 07:57 PM
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You're acting like a little bitch. She gave you her address and said she was alone at home until 6. So you message her at 4 and say you're coming over. That's it, nothing more. Socially it's good for you to be aggressive, but it's not as much for her.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 07:05 PM
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Maybe the book is just an example of letting the hamster run. I'll change the flair to BP example.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 07:23 AM
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So this is the whole point of bringing it up here. I don't think that you should cater to your girl's every need. But you should know what it means when she does stuff. It might be stuff that means absolutely nothing to you, but you should know her intent behind it. For me, if there's not a lot of sex (physical touch is so much nicer on the hamster's ears), then it's not a successful relationship. I also like to know that I'm appreciated. This is my beta need for validation. She likes gifts and …
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 07:19 AM
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To generate the feels, 5 little gifts might do a lot more for her than one actual nice big gift. You knowing that can help inform your decisions about how you run your relationship.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 07:14 AM
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I agree. I don't think that there's a lot to be gained by more communication in a relationship. If she's pissed that you did something, talking about it for days sure as shit isn't going to make her less pissed. But I think that more information is a good thing. Knowing what pushes her buttons is a good thing. Knowing what pushes your buttons is a great thing.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 07:10 AM
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This is going to come across as negative, but I don't want you to take it that way. My mother and father were divorced when I was 4. I had no father during any of the time that mattered. I was pretty bitter about it. I railed against never being taught the things that a man should know. But now I'm a grown man. My mother died when I was in high school, and my father is a 70 year old man who is 200 lbs overweight. I've learned what lessons the world has to teach me. I can no longer blame my paren…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 01:38 PM
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Because there's social stigma and commitment if they make the first move. Plus, if they stroke you lovingly in public and you react poorly, the shame would mean they'd have to move and change their names. Again.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 05:27 AM
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It sounds like they just want to touch you. They can't figure out a way to do it, so they hit you because there's not a huge social stigma against it.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 03:40 AM
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I've been going 3 times a week, give or take, WITH a personal trainer, since October. My weight hasn't changed a lot, but my gut is smaller and my shoulders and chest are noticeably bigger. Also my face is a lot leaner. I spent the time before Christmas gaining more muscle, and now I'm transitioning to losing more weight. Your mileage may vary. Diet has a lot to do with it too.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 09:33 PM
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Before you mentioned this, I didn't know that sub existed. That being said, I'd rather it didn't, and the thank-you's got posted here instead.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 04:12 PM
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So, your thinking that we are going to read into your question to understand what it is you're really asking is probably the root of your bad art. If you can't ask your question clearly, how can you expect a clear answer? Do you use a lot of watercolor in your scenes, implying a feeling rather that taking the time to paint specific things?
/r/askTRP15/01/15 04:26 AM
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I live in the hood. This happened to me when I was out walking with my wife.
/r/askTRP14/01/15 10:54 PM
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Make the move. Waiting until everything is perfect is the way to do nothing and learn nothing from it. Let's say you make a move, and she rejects you. Maybe you learn something from it. Let's say you make a move and she doesn't reject you. Maybe you learn something from that. She's not a perfect girl to be put on a pedestal. She's someone to have fun with, not just someone to think about having fun with.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 11:30 PM
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When he wants to do something fun or cool and it would be fun to have her along, invite her. If she doesn't show, or flakes, he's still doing something fun, and it's her loss.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 08:23 PM
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Are you a beta orbiter, providing her constant validation in exchange for scraps of her attention, maybe a "LOL" here or there? Or are you a busy man who has a lot of shit going on and no time for wasting? Which one do you think the girl is more attracted to?
/r/askTRP12/01/15 05:19 PM
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Do you think that your motivations for what you look for in a woman is complex?
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 09:36 PM
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I think most of the reactionary anger towards TRP is that it accurately simplifies lots of female motivation. While women feel it's okay to simplify men's motivations, they don't feel it's okay for men to simplify their motivations. I'm thinking of the quote. What do you need to do to impress a woman? "Compliment her, respect her, honor her, cuddle her, kiss her, caress her, love her, stroke her, tease her, comfort her, protect her, hug her, hold her, spend money on her, wine and dine her, buy t…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 08:27 PM
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Maybe there was some shit that happened back then, and the memory is too painful for her to deal with it. Maybe your non reaction was perfect.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 11:59 PM
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I bet everyone else validates her emotional outbursts. We can call those guys 'beta orbiters' because you are the one setting boundaries and sticking to them. I think you did exactly the right thing. You were the emotional rock that she needed. She was crying over her shitty behavior, not yours. Shit test passed.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 11:57 PM
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This is a case where you need to improve your own SMV. This will increase her attraction to you, and more sex will follow. This is your game to lose, and the ball is in your hands. Lifting and dread game help. They help a lot. Right now, she feels like she has all the power in the relationship, and it's killing her. She's not attracted to you because she has the power. She pulls you into her frame with her emotional outbursts, and she hates it. Great post, by the way. This is the stuff that happ…
/r/askTRP09/01/15 01:24 PM
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The hamster runs wild on this one. "Taking me back to my place, dumping a load in me, and leaving and never calling me again? Yeah, that was a date. So yes, tall men date me."
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 08:14 PM
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Thanks for doing this. It's now on my kindle, ready for reading when I'm not at my computer.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 05:35 AM
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Fair enough. When I was originally thinking of negative reinforcement, I was thinking of when I used a shock collar with my dog. I had a trainer that required we do at least an hour of training with him on the use of the collar. As he said, if you, as the trainer, don't maintain strict discipline with it, then your dog is just going to be confused and in pain. But when used correctly, it gives your dog very clear signals as to incorrect behavior and it ties in to instinctual correction behavior.…
/r/RedPillParenting02/01/15 08:26 PM
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It's also that daddy will maintain frame and not forego a punishment just because he's feeling happier when it comes time to administer it.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 03:05 PM
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Positive reinforcement is encouraging good behavior. Negative reinforcement is discouraging bad behavior. Giving a child a treat for good behavior is positive reinforcement. Putting a child in timeout for bad behavior is negative reinforcement. The dog training rules I learned give you a 2-second window to either encourage or discourage behavior. So if you come home and your dog has pooped on the carpet, you have to just clean it up and move on with life. Any punishment will be misunderstood by …
/r/RedPillParenting02/01/15 03:03 PM
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The problem is that there is no balance. You speak of the expectation that a woman will stay home and raise babies in exchange for the husband handing over his whole paycheck. What if she doesn't want to do that? We have the same issues here in the USA. Why should a guy always be the one to pay for a date if women his age make more than he does? The whole idea of a man providing everything only works if the woman is helpless. The fact of modern feminism is that she isn't helpless. Women are now …
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 10:58 PM
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My ex did contact just about every lawyer in her city when she sought to file for divorce. That didn't stop me from hiring a great attorney to represent me. My lawyer knew about the case. She represented me. My ex cried when my lawyer won the case denying jurisdiction. I never appeared in court. Had I done so, I would have waived my right to jurisdiction. The lawyer was expensive, and worth every penny.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 05:17 PM
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Expect accusations of rape/domestic abuse and child abuse/pedophilia. Don't let yourself be in a room alone with her ever again. This is a fight you must win.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 05:09 PM
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You're not her beta bucks, unless you're paying for everything. You're a beta orbiter, hanging around, validating her. Regardless, next. Find someone new or just go lift.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 01:30 PM
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Same here. Dad's so fat he can't tie his shoes without struggling. He's got a girl he buys stuff for so she'll talk to him, but there's no sex for him, and this will never change. From now til the end of his life. For me, I want something better.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 07:36 PM
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2013: one meal costs $5 2014: one meal costs $15 2015: one meal costs $.10 Money is only a relative thing. It's the base for determining the relative cost of everything. That's why extreme income inequality is such a bad thing. None of your three scenarios are a problem. The problem is that you have some people who add $50,000 of value to the economy while getting $20,000 for their efforts, and you have others that add $100,000 of value to the economy, and get $10,000,000,000 for their efforts.
/r/askTRP15/12/14 12:21 PM
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The level of preselection would be unmatched.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 02:54 PM
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I made great progress. I have stopped adding sugar to my foods. This was a significant goal. I've went to the gym for heavy weights (legs, core, chest, back) 2-3 times per week. This wasn't listed in my goals for the month. I failed to eliminate all gaming from my lifestyle. I eliminated phone games though. This was a significant goal for me. I didn't complete chores that I started. Instead I made excuses. So, as far as reaching my goals, I failed. But I did improve massively. I don't get any ex…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 02:10 PM
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I thought the point if the article is that they have no reliable stats. They can't cite one particular number and say "this is the divorce rate. "
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 06:32 PM
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I have a full head of hair. Sometimes I shave it off, go down to the skin. It looks good. I don't worry about it at all.
/r/askTRP29/11/14 01:52 AM
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Back in the day, I was a student at the University of Iowa. There was a guy who signed up for a Women's Study class. He sat in the front of the class, and recorded everything that the teacher said to him during class for the entire semester. She berated him for the entire semester for having a Y chromosome. Then he took the recordings to court, and sued her for harassment and discrimination. edit: Trying to find links to the story, no success so far. It's a little pre-internet.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 06:40 PM
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I love this advice. I blame myself for my divorce. There was nothing I could have done at the time, because I didn't know what to do. Now I know, and so it doesn't bother me. Thanks TRP.
/r/askTRP26/11/14 02:38 PM
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44 year old here. It's not too late. Keep up the hard work.
/r/askTRP25/11/14 01:00 AM
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The "where to look" thing. I was once given the advice to look directly at the bridge of the nose of the person you're talking to, and take in their eyes in your close peripheral vision. That way you're not flipping between eyes, nor are you focused on just one eye.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 10:48 PM
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When a baby is crying, it's pretty fucking beta to have a power struggle with your wife.
/r/askTRP22/11/14 07:41 PM
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You said "obviously" twice. I disagree with both of them. Why didn't you get up and take care of the crying baby? There is no 'taking turns' in a marriage. You do what needs to be done and you don't bitch about it. You sound like you're unhappy with your wife. You can't change her. Only she can change her. You've tried the blue pill way of talking about it, giving her books and advice. So now try the red pill way. Dread Game. Hold Frame. Improve yourself, specifically your SMV. You can improve t…
/r/askTRP22/11/14 04:55 PM
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You sound like a doormat. Maybe you've only raised one kind of child. Or maybe you've never raised a well-behaved dog. Positive and negative reinforcement is good. You reward good behavior, sure, but you also correct bad behavior.
/r/RedPillParenting20/11/14 03:30 PM
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I follow the Love-and-Logic approach. It's a good series of books with lots of examples and specifics. There are some things where I give my daughter choices. There are some things where I don't. If there's immediate danger, then I simply act quickly, sometimes telling her what to do/what I'm doing, sometimes not. Often when I'm done, I explain why I did what I did, or what I expect her to do. The key to the giving-choices is that you have to be okay with either one. If you're doing the 'stop ri…
/r/RedPillParenting20/11/14 03:29 PM
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This put a big smile on my face.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 03:18 PM
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This article is all about the hamster. She feels that everyone is looking at her and judging her. The truth is that nobody cares. Okay, so there's a woman at the gym who's out of shape. So what? I check my workout sheet and it says it's leg day, and this is the leg press part of the routine. Nowhere does it say, "if there's an out-of-shape lady, pause your routine to ridicule her". I'd say that this woman's generalizations are really just all her own personal feelings backed up with validation f…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 03:16 PM
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PPD = Purple Pill Discussion
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 02:04 AM
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K
/r/askTRP14/11/14 04:08 PM
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i like the, "I did it, I'm not going to do it again" approach, but YMMV
/r/askTRP14/11/14 04:07 PM
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Yes. Move to a state that has implemented the ACA. They can't deny you coverage on pre-existing conditions, and then you can afford your medication.
/r/askTRP13/11/14 01:08 AM
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You're 26. Take that $1000 you were going to spend on one month's medicine, buy a crappy car and move. Or at least start looking for work elsewhere. If you can't find what you're looking for, then figure out what skills you need to get what you are looking for, then go get those skills instead of sitting around whining like a little bitch. You don't have a mortgage, failed marriage, and three kids tying you down. You're 26. MOVE! I wish you the best of luck in your travels. Write back when you h…
/r/askTRP13/11/14 12:50 AM
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I think it's more that MRA is more a whiny group of men railing against the injustice of it all. TRP is more about self-improvement and beating the game, regardless of how the deck is stacked.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 06:24 PM
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The vasectomy isn't sterilization. It just prevents the swimmers from getting to their destination.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 02:57 AM
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Hey baby, you look like about tree fitty. You got change of a five?
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 11:46 PM
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Today was the first day at the gym where I didn't feel inadequate. I got in, did my sets, and left. I have a long way to go to reach my goals, but I'm definitely on the right path.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 11:43 PM
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Your children do need a great father. Keep up the good work.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 11:41 PM
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More and more, it seems that this was just a staged-to-make-money stunt. "Don't tase me bro!"
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 08:40 PM
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Giving men sexual pleasure saps them of their will to live. That's how she's doing it!
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 06:10 PM
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You're targeting her emotions rather than her logic. Your reason was crappy, but she said "Good answer". You are going to have coffee with her, and that will relieve her boredom
/r/askTRP31/10/14 04:22 PM
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So, I'm going to call bullshit here. I understand what you are saying. You are saying that people are comfortable not interacting with the people around them. People they can see, people they have to walk next to and inevitable brush up against. It would seem, from this video, that not everyone is willing to suspend their humanity in this way.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 02:05 AM
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No computer or phone games. No added sugar. No leaving a household chore unfinished.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 06:24 PM
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"public, non-social space" What makes being in public a non social space?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 03:49 PM
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Men are seeking women who will make good partners. Women are seeking men who will make good partners. The attributes of a good man are not the same as an attribute of a good woman. A tall guy with ripped abs and no job isn't going to put food on the table and keep you safe. While it might be a fun ride, it's not what you go home to. Many foreign women are looking for someone they can have children with, someone they can count on. An American man with the means to make it to their country is ther…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 03:43 PM
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Are you not going to be capable of doing it when you finish your studies? Is this opportunity somehow going to go away forever?
/r/askTRP29/10/14 03:11 PM
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Thanks. 2009 looks datable. 2013 looks like 2009 melted. I wonder if it's just hat the shot in 2009 lets her control camera angle and gravity direction, where 2013 doesn't. I wonder what she actually looks like in person and how she comes across.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 12:48 PM
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"Who could blame them for taking advantage of a magical loophole that allowed them to date women out of their league? If such a nirvana existed for Western woman, I’m sure I’d have moved there too." You lived there, honey. It's called Collegetown, USA, and the drinks are free if you have a vagina.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 12:35 PM
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This is how lots of people think. When I was a child, and I dreamt about having lots of money, it was always dreams of how I'd spend it. There's a song out right now about a guy who wants to be a billionaire. The entire song is how he'd quickly get rid of all of his wealth, but somehow still be wealthy.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:40 AM
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Her: "I'm too old for this place." You: "You're old? Since when is 22 old?" Neither of you really believe that she's 22. She doesn't believe that you believe it either. But when she is saying that, she's saying that she's not comfortable at that bar (because she can't compete with the 22 year old hotties). It's up to you whether you want her to feel more comfortable around you.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 12:16 AM
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Yes, it's a mistake to have your wife pay the bills. I know it's a hassle. Do it anyway.
/r/askTRP24/10/14 08:35 PM
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She wasn't ostracized for sucking his dick, she was ostracized for telling everyone about it in a court of law. AWALT: she fell for a very powerful man. When she was fired (by someone not part of the goings-on, who fired her to remove the appearance of impropriety) she wanted more attention. So she went public with her scandal knowing that she could play the victim card to absolve herself of blame. Then it blew up in her face. 13 years later she's just starting to recover. But she still learned …
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 01:18 PM
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I'm 5'4". I can use it as an excuse for my lack of success. But that's bullshit. So I lift, and change my diet so I lose the guy I've gained. It's on me to up my smv. What would you think about a woman who opened with something like "I'm a rape survivor"? You're suddenly not thinking about how hot she is, and instead you're focused on her damage. So don't define yourself by your CP.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 12:31 AM
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You're tall, athletic and good looking? Sounds like all you need is to be bold when you're not on the internet. Seriously. Just go talk to women. Apply TRP liberally and write your [FR] tomorrow after your first success.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 03:13 AM
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So if she claims it was rape, then changes her mind, can she retroactive GIVE consent too?
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 04:16 AM
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A woman whose man is alpha might complain to other women or to her beta orbiters, but she will not leave him. A woman who is married to a beta will. And then she'll claim she was abused. Direct quote from my ex (who was on a pedestal carefully crafted by beta me): Some kinds of abuse don't leave scars.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 10:32 PM
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Please, ma'am, take precautions. No, I don't want to talk about it.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 10:27 PM
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I feel mind-raped by that article. I read part of it, but I didn't consent to reading it. Now, who do I take to court?
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 06:21 PM
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At the carnival, it's easy to ride the carousel. It's hard to keep several plates spinning at the same time.
/r/askTRP17/10/14 02:36 PM
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If she refuses, she refuses. The fact that you asserted yourself as more important is a good thing. You weren't beta or whiny. "Please go out with me onfrifay night" would be the same meaning, but totally different tone.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 12:31 AM
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She can have half the money, but she'll have to do have his time. 4.5 years in federal prison. Right this way ma'am.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 04:43 PM
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Your frustrations with not having a strong father are mirrored by many, including me. My conclusion is that, while I may be starting a little behind, I know where to go and I now know how to get there. So stop you're bitching and start your lifting. Welcome to TRP.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 04:34 PM
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Is she with you because she wants you, or because she likes doing the things that your money can buy? Is this what you want in a relationship? No? D U M P H E R Ideally, you could turn red pill and make the relationship into something a lot more meaningful and fulfilling for you, but it's probably not going to happen. It's really really hard to change yourself at the same time when someone you're spending a lot of time with wants you to stay exactly the same as you are right now. (She'll leave y…
/r/askTRP15/10/14 03:17 AM
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Came here to say this. An 'unconsummated marriage' is one where there isn't sex after vows. It's not considered a marriage if this is the case.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 08:04 PM
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Don't try to be charming. By doing it after you're already married, you're taking on the female role. It's her job to be charming to you, to want to please you. Your job is to become the object of her desire, to be the one she wants to please. She married you because she already finds you charming. If she's already pushing out your babies, then you should be working on being the man of the house financially, so that she can be the woman of the house.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 11:00 AM
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Yes, she is contemplating divorce. But that's not what she wants. She wants her husband to 'man up', but she doesn't know what this means, and from the sound of OP, he doesn't (yet) either. To OP: welcome to TRP, you've come to the right place. Read and you will know what you have to do.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 10:57 AM
2

You have at least one good thing going for you: you're still young. Start now on improving your body. This will help with lots of other things. Your wife makes twice what you do right now. How can you change this? Can you do it with your current career? How? Your wife isn't interested in you because she's taking on both male and female roles. If you fill the male role completely, then she won't have to, and she'll naturally fill the female role.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 10:55 AM
2

If you hold as a major part of your identity that you are a rape victim, you're going to view many situations as rape situations. This isn't going to end well for anyone.
/r/askTRP10/10/14 03:34 AM
4

She's wanting you to orbit. Continue moving on
/r/askTRP10/10/14 01:09 AM
6

No
/r/askTRP09/10/14 03:33 PM
2

You are the one she's fucking. They are the orbiters. Why do you spend time thinking about this?
/r/askTRP09/10/14 12:35 AM
12

Your comment during the date made her realize just how shitty her own behavior was. She was thinking that going on a date with you was hot because it was just sooo wrong and... nasty. But then she saw another girl do the exact same thing and it made her realize that if she values her relationship with her boyfriend at all, then she has to cut this shit out. Going out with you was a shitty thing to do to her boyfriend. Maybe he just didn't know. Maybe she lied to him. Who knows. It's got nothing …
/r/askTRP09/10/14 12:34 AM
6

I'm always happy to pick up a girl from the airport. It's $50 to get downtown and $100 to get to the far west side.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 04:58 PM
2

Is being controlling a bad thing? You're the captain of the boat. If you're not steering it, then who is? "Do you like the direction this relationship is going?" "Are you in control of it, or am I?"
/r/askTRP04/10/14 02:57 PM
4

My ex-wife thought of her mom as a great source of relationship advice. The bitch has been married and divorced 4+ times (I seriously don't know the number). No wonder we're divorced now!
/r/askTRP04/10/14 02:55 PM
2

You're driving: she's paying gas and buying your ticket.
/r/askTRP03/10/14 11:49 AM
3

It's not a case of "she should pick me because I found her first". It's a case of "she committed to me, and she should honor that commitment". It was an engagement-we're-living-together deal, not a gf/bf deal. She's not going to get a good deal on this one. The new guy's going to have fun with her, and then move on. When she gets to the point where she'd like him to meet her family, or where she wants a commitment from him, he'll decline, because he knows she won't honor any commitment that she'…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 12:19 AM
4

There are lots of constructive ways to say that. This is the red pill. The advice we're given isn't, "Be a man" it's "Here's HOW to be a man."
/r/askTRP01/10/14 12:51 PM
5

Short and hard. Sit down somewhere public, but close to her place so she can go home and cry after. Tell her, "We're breaking up. You and I are looking for different things right now, and it's not going to work out. I'm sorry." Then pay the bill and leave. The pain of the breakup will always be the same. The question is whether or not you add more fuel to that fire while it's burning. Things you don't want haunting you: "He broke up with me in email/text/over the phone." Man up, and break it off…
/r/askTRP01/10/14 12:50 PM
1

Time. Time my friend. Time. All women are like this. All of them. The point of the red pill isn't for you to feel superior about being a man. The point is for you to see the truth, and to understand. Do you get mad at someone who is stupid just because they are who they are? Do they have any redeeming characteristics?
/r/askTRP29/09/14 05:26 AM
1

If there was a way for him to get to /r/theredpill that would be great for him. But it sure isn't going to help anything coming from you.
/r/askTRP29/09/14 05:20 AM
1

It sounds like you're wasting a lot of time trying to control this woman. I could ask lots of questions and give you specific advice based on your job, industry, situations, etc. But I think the focus should be on you, and your continued motion up the ladder. Firing this woman might come back to haunt you. Maybe she's someone's mom's best friend. Maybe she'll tell lies about what happened and the wrong person will believe them. There are lots of shitty people in the world, and focusing on them i…
/r/askTRP29/09/14 05:16 AM
1

I have a very good friend who is happily married. I spent a little time with them this past week. He looks mostly the same as he always has, but something changed with her recently, and she suddenly looks a lot older. He's still happily married. She made very good investments with her youth and beauty.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 04:11 PM
1

The woman is the most responsible teenager in the room. Once you realize this, and aren't angry about it, everything else makes so much more sense.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 01:45 PM
0

The conversation here seems to revolve around how ad it is to relive the experience in having to tell your story again. The problem I see is that it's a momentary discomfort for the alleged victim, but a lifetime of agony for the wrongfully accused. Rape is pretty horrible, and that's why the punishments are horrible. But to seek those punishments on someone who didn't commit the crime is just as bad, or worse.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 04:28 AM
1

I like that she called guys in the cheater zone "intelligent" even though they are supposedly the more stupid half of the hotties.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 10:01 PM
5

"Look, I am not involved in your personal life; I only work with you. Let's keep it at a professional level from now on. I don't need to hear about your private life. Thanks." This is great. Her bringing up her personal life at work beyond this is probably a good cause for a quick emotionless memo to HR.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 05:06 PM
9

I like that: Enforcing the Social Order.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 03:21 PM
2

I don't believe your assertions. Do you have specific links?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 12:49 AM
2

http://www.fda.gov/BiologicsBloodVaccines/SafetyAvailability/VaccineSafety/UCM096228#t1 Looks like you might get up to 100 micrograms in your full regimen of vaccines. This comes to less than 1 part in 100 million for a child weighing 10 kilos (22 pounds). But it breaks down into ethylmercury rather than the toxic methylmercury. So it looks like concerns around it are unfounded.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 12:47 AM
1

That's some hamster thinking there. "I just don't like them, nor have I felt the need for them" You just don't understand how vaccines work, do you?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 11:51 PM
1

Why do you say "obviously all tuese[sic] things are dangerous"? Why is it obvious to you that mercury in any form is dangerous and should be avoided if possible?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 08:42 PM
1

Why are you against vaccinations?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 08:41 PM
1

Yes, but the issue of making decisions and taking control of your marriage is very much a red pill thing.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 02:42 AM
1

I've studied the statistics from Jonas Salk forward. What, pray tell, do you think offers effective counter arguments to vaccination. No, I'm not going to google and 'do my own research'. I've done my research, and it disagrees with you. If you have specific information that you believe will sway my opinion, then link directly to it.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 12:50 AM
12

It's not too late. I'm in the same boat, so pick up your fucking oar and keep up. We're going in circles without your effort.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 04:46 PM
4

So, are you proud of who you are? Do you like the fact that women find you attractive and want to sleep with you? Then OWN it. If someone accused me of being a nerd, I'd say, "Damn right, and I'm the smartest one you'll find." It's who I am. It's that confidence that women find attractive. So, what are the most confident responses you can think to the phrase, "I bet you say that to all the girls..."?
/r/askTRP21/09/14 04:17 PM
1

I think you did the right thing. If she absolutely must get married, and you won't marry her, she needs to look elsewhere. She'll probably stay with you until the biological alarm clock goes off. Then, after she's had her kids, she may be looking for you again.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 03:57 PM
1

Focus on the specifics of what you want yourself to look like. Find a body builder that you think is pretty popular. Figure out what specific exercises you need to do to build that body. Figure out what foods you need to eat so that you get enough protein, fat and carbohydrates, but not too much. Devote one hour a day to your workout. This is how to approach the bodybuilding self-improvement aspect of it.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 04:17 AM
14

It's a sport fuck. You do it for you. It sounds like you have a lot of the rest of your life all in order, but to get over your natural desire to put a girl on a pedestal, fuck her.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 02:21 AM
1

You're wrong about the amicability of it. She's going to realize at some point that all she wants out of the divorce is everything she can get. If you want to sweet talk her until the day you walk into court, go for it. But negotiate, get stuff in writing. Get exactly what you want, in writing. Have your lawyer simply write everything down as YOU want it, then give it to her to sign(notarized, if your lawyer didn't make that clear). When she backs out of everything she agreed to verbally, then y…
/r/askTRP18/09/14 01:41 AM
4

One of the things that is important is focus. On any given topic, there are multiple angles and arguments as to why a feminist belief is wrong, but you don't want to present all of them, as some are weaker than others, and that gives them the opportunity to acknowledge one argument but disregard the other for not being as strong, and then say that because part of the argument was disregarded, their position is still correct. This is the key to being a good lawyer. You don't want to present 6 poi…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 12:35 AM
6

This sounds like my ex-wife's lawyer. Every time she got involved in the process, it slowed everything down, and then it got worse for her client. Mediation was making some progress. The mediator would try to establish some common ground, and then build from that to resolve some disputes. Basic stuff. It was making a little progress. Then my ex's lawyer attended a meeting. I didn't bring my lawyer because mediation is non-binding, and I didn't really want to pay his hourly rate to talk through a…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 12:33 AM
1

1) sounds like you're still asking permission to buy the Harley. Just this time it's TRP instead of the wife. 2) make sure it's insured before it leaves the lot. It might end up accidentally run over six or seven times.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 11:13 PM
1

This article is just click bait. She doesn't say how it's going to happen, just that she wants it to happen.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 09:34 PM
2

A wife can do a lot of damage to you. An ex-wife doubly so. $2,000,000 is chump change to avoid that hassle.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 07:40 PM
-1

This just mirrors Ayn Rand's own flaws and shortcomings. Her hate of government was formed when the soviets took everything of her father's business. The whole idea of not paying taxes is flawed. Roads have to be built, garbage has to be collected, and children need to be educated. These are not ventures well suited to profit-making, and everyone benefits if the jobs are done well. So government pays what it costs, doesn't cut corners to make a profit (sans corruption, which is hard to be sans),…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 07:37 PM
2

I like the hamster contradictions that this woman lives with. "He was my own private Alexander the Great" versus "there were warning signs...He told me [he] was the alpha in this relationship". Why would you think anything else? He's Alexander the Great. You're his concubine. This isn't going to be an equal partnership, and that's exactly what you want. Then, "We were soul mates. We would never get divorced. Life without Elan was unthinkable" when talking about her postnuptial agreement to sudde…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 07:31 PM
3

This response is the most appropriate response for a huge number of things. You acknowledge what the person said, they feel appreciated. You got what you got out of whatever they said, but you may not have time to talk about it. It's also a classy response.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 12:36 AM
2

It's survival of the fittest, not survival if the strongest or tallest or fastest. 'Fit' can mean 'best able to provide for a mate'.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 01:06 PM
1

I love that this wasn't some simple thing. It was dedication and effort, focused on you. She came along for the ride, once she saw how fun it was going to be.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 05:44 AM
2

It's not about you. It's about her. It's always been about her. She's incapable of thinking about other people (it sounds like). Let it sink in. This is who she really is. She's not the unicorn that you thought she was when you were dating her. It'll make you feel better to realize this. Then you will have already moved on.
/r/askTRP14/09/14 06:45 AM
1

There's lots of ways to die in Australia, so... good on ya, mate! Embrace your freedom, and don't worry about looking like an ass. You're an American, so you're supposed to be an ass. Challenging yourself (and following through) is much easier said than done. Otherwise it wouldn't be much of a challenge. So, you figure out something cool that you'd like to do, or like to experience, then do it. Don't question, don't weigh the pros and cons, just do it. Fail miserably or succeed spectacularly. Wa…
/r/askTRP14/09/14 03:05 AM
1

Awesome
/r/askTRP14/09/14 03:02 AM
1

Because you should supplicate your wife's shitty behavior to get her to do the only thing you value. ugh.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 01:43 AM
1

My take on it was that this guy is PETRIFIED of talking. So This is a way to get HER talking, so he can sit there, being tall and pre-med, and her hamster can run.
/r/askTRP14/09/14 01:32 AM
1

Tag so I can read it on the big screen
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 01:30 AM
1

Just to give her more crap to talk about. You don't give a shit about the shoes, but SHE does. That's why she wore them to go out. She thinks that guys care about her shoes. The fact that you noticed gives her the feels.
/r/askTRP14/09/14 01:14 AM
1

We were all virgins once. Almost all of us made the first move.
/r/askTRP14/09/14 01:13 AM
2

From the start, you were perfect at "We are done." And you would have stayed perfect with "and I am leaving." She makes her choice. You don't care one way or the other really. If she decides she's not coming with you, then you were through. If she decides she IS coming with you, then it's on her to make it up to you. She has to acknowledge (even to herself) that she fucked up. Her behavior isn't acceptable, and you won't live with her if she wants to behave that way.
/r/askTRP14/09/14 01:10 AM
2

You shared a scary experience. If you had asked her for her number then, she would have said 'yes', even if she later changed her mind. Facebook contact is pretty beta at this point. But something really bold, like "I think we were getting tattoos together last night. I'm heading to blahblah bar at 8 tonight and would like to meet you there." Nothing more, nothing less. Don't ask questions, and don't be there by yourself. Other guys would be fine, a different girl would be better. Is that creepy…
/r/askTRP14/09/14 01:05 AM
2

Drinking lowers your inhibitions, so it kinda depends on how red pill you are naturally. I find it fucks up my judgement more than it lowers inhibitions. So while it might be liquid courage to talk to a girl I wouldn't have otherwise, I'll say stupid shit that won't be funny or have anything to do with what's going on.
/r/askTRP14/09/14 01:02 AM
1

What life altering risk did you take? Why did you remove yourself from your friends, if they are "good" friends?
/r/askTRP14/09/14 12:59 AM
1

Are you interested in her? Is she a nothing to you? Do you dream of her daily, nightly and ever so rightly? If you ARE interested, maybe a nice amused mastery response of, "Why do you ask? Do you like me?" might be in order.
/r/askTRP14/09/14 12:58 AM
3

"Fear is the mind killer. Fear is the little death that brings total obliteration. " "The only thing we have to fear is fear itself." You have nothing to lose. Go out and make a fool of yourself. Embrace your fear.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 07:00 PM
1

I did not know this. Thank you.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 03:46 PM
2

You are the man, she is the woman. Put her on a budget. She can spend what she wants within that budget. Don't tell her about your big bonuses. YOU make the big decisions. She makes the little ones. You make the decision of what the household budget is, but she can make the decision of how to spend it.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 03:44 PM
1

Women say "I only date tall guys" as a way of saying "I'm really hot". Given two guys, equally confident, she'll go for the taller guy every time. But she'll go for the more confident guy every time, given two guys of the same height. A big key is looking good compared to the other guys around you. Are they all taller than you? What if you're all sitting down, then are they all still taller than you? Maybe work on your upper body physique.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 03:39 PM
2

Why do you think you're never going to make any money?
/r/askTRP13/09/14 03:38 PM
1

As a man, you can only have kids until you're dead. Then you can have more kids if your sperm is frozen. Seriously, Pablo Picasso had his last kid at like 90. So, what's the hurry?
/r/askTRP13/09/14 03:36 PM
-1

Don't worry too much about what makes the hamster run. Maybe she was creeped out that you isolated her from her friends. Maybe she was cold. Maybe she was on her period. Maybe maybe maybe. Call her, or text her to set up the next date. Make the decisions, don't ask.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 03:34 PM
2

You don't "ask for alimony or child support". Your lawyer files papers and the court awards it. She should be paying you for the rest of your life. Of course she wants 50/50 of everything. This is only because this is FAR more than she could rape your for in court. Find other divorced men in your jurisdiction and through them find a good divorce lawyer. This is the single most important decision you will make in the next 10 years.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 03:29 PM
0

She's nice to you because she's nice to everyone. She's so far out of your league (in her mind), that being nice to you isn't hitting on you, because there's no way you could take it that way.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 03:28 PM
0

You need to come up with a specific situation, like "My gf of one month wanted me to buy her birth control pills, what do I do?"
/r/askTRP13/09/14 03:25 PM
1

1) Go to a bar. 2) Find someone you think is hot. 3) Go talk to her. "How 'bout that local sports team". 4) Another good line is "I was watching the game with my med student buddies in between study sessions" then ask her stupid crap about her, and say nothing more. 5) When she stops talking, ask her how she picked out those cute shoes. You lack confidence only because you fear failure. There are lots of women, and you would make the list of desirable for most of them. If the first one doesn't s…
/r/askTRP13/09/14 03:21 PM
46

She has hit the wall, and she's refusing to admit it. She's 30 and she still has a checklist of requirements for her potential mate. The fact is, you cannot have it both ways with feminism and chivalry. She's working on her MBA. I'm guessing, since you didn't mention that you're raking in the cash right now, that she's either making more money than you, or will be soon. So in the interests of feminism and equality, she should be buying you drinks. But she doesn't want to. The fact is quite simpl…
/r/askTRP13/09/14 03:34 AM
1

How much do you like angry sex? Start sex, get her good and going, THEN tell her, and hold on for as long as you can! Just kidding. For an impulse just think of this: What happens if you don't break it off now, and it goes on for another 5 years and then you break it off? What happens if she accidentally becomes pregnant in that time? Will that make it easier or harder? Do you think she deserves your respect enough for you to just tell her, "It's over. Time for both of us to move on."? Do you wa…
/r/askTRP13/09/14 03:22 AM
1

End result: perfect. You helped her in your frame, not hers.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 08:59 PM
5

You're having baby problems, I feel bad for you hon. I got 99 problems but that sure ain't one.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 07:48 PM
2

Supplicating is often thought of by the one doing it as being nice. But it's not. Caving in to someone else's desires in hopes of gaining favor is supplicating. Giving something to someone because you are in a position of power, and can easily afford the gift (be it time, material possession or simple cash) is being magnanimous. Especially if you don't hope for anything but simple appreciation. An orphanage writing letters thanking you would be simple appreciation. A woman who isn't attracted to…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 12:40 AM
-3

Not even 'expect', just "If I'm buying drinks and dinner, you're sucking my cock" "Oh? You're not a common whore? You're right, you're worse. At least with a whore I'm getting what I paid for."
/r/askTRP10/09/14 12:38 AM
2

The Feynman response: If I buy you dinner and drinks, will you sleep with me? Just flat out state it. You're not really expecting a yes. If you get a yes, then "Sex first, then drinks and dinner"
/r/askTRP10/09/14 12:36 AM
6

Totally unreadable on a mobile device.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 05:51 PM
1

How exactly are you going to prove who uploaded an image?
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 11:46 PM
1

We don't despise women. We love women. We think they're hot Hot HOT! The whole point of this subreddit is to UNDERSTAND women. Your girlfriend shit tests you? All Women Are Like This (AWALT). You need to learn: Hold Frame. Don't get emotional, just tell her how it is. This is what your mom's behavior was all about. If your dad had a firm hand, then none of this shit would happen. I've noticed that my sister doesn't shit test her husband in front of me. Know why? 'cause he wears the pants in that…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 07:26 PM
9

It gets better. The "be nice to women, and they will give you what you want" is kind of like religion. It's something that you are told to believe when you are young, and in spite of a complete lack of evidence to support it, you still believe it. When you lose that religion, you are very very angry. It's a phase you go through. It gets better.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 11:44 AM
2

Got me giggling like a schoolgirl again.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 11:23 AM
5

It's all in your head. Really. You know how fucking hard it is to get an acting job? You know how hard it is to get them consistently? You know how hard it is to get really good acting jobs where people are calling your agent ALL the time, and trying to out-bid each other for your services? Do you think that having a major scandal with scientology where your now-ex-wife takes your daughter away would perhaps diminish your market value? Tom Fucking Cruise does it, and he's really short. I mean re…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 02:00 AM
5

Not just the ones you missed, but also their friends that didn't talk to about how hot you were.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 08:42 PM
8

Going to the gym and lifting heavy weights over and over again is good therapy.
/r/askTRP06/09/14 06:10 PM
5

The ridiculous part of it is that they KNOW what implied consent is. They've given it many many times, or withheld it (I was unresponsive, I just laid there like a fish giving implied refusal).
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 07:18 PM
2

Exactly. It was a complete fucking mystery to me why my marriage melted down. I would buy her stuff and do everything she asked me to do. Little did I know that every time I did, it turned her off of me a little bit more.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 11:13 PM
2

I did. That was the whole point: I make the big decisions, and I frame her decisions in the scope that is appropriate for her. I built the sandbox that she gets to play in so that the sand doesn't get scattered to where it shouldn't be.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 08:01 PM
1

You don't understand the point, because you already understand what you need to do, and you're doing it. Maybe you had better models for parenting than I did. Maybe you've thought it through more than I have. Glad you're experiencing success.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 12:03 PM
4

When you give your child a choice, they have control within the frame, not outside of it. That's the hard part for you: picking the right frame and maintaining it. You determine the scope of the choice. You have to empower your kids. You're not going to be around forever to make their choices for them.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 04:09 AM
3

Step up your game. Grab some water, shake it off, and go back in there for round two! I'll grab the popcorn for round two of the story.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 03:25 AM
11

I came here looking to blame my ex for my divorce. I read a bunch of stuff and realized that the problem was mine, but I didn't know it.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 02:50 AM
5

Yes. It was linked from an askreddit about dating advice and what to say or not say. The girl who posted said something like, "ignore any advice from /r/TheRedPill". I visited and haven't left. When some random post that I read outlined the EXACT pattern than my now-failed marriage went through, I was hooked. They had it almost from first contact, dating, courting, marriage, kid, divorce.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 02:35 AM
-4

This is probably not a marriage of love, which is why the prenup is there. She will have a job to do, and she'll get paid for it.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 02:16 PM
0

Being in shape means you feel good about yourself. Feeling good about yourself means you're more confidant. This CAN lead to being alpha. But when he is posing, he's probably not saying, "Wow! Look at those biceps!" (or whatever muscles he thinks are perfect), he's instead probably saying, "I really need to work my triceps more, so that my arms are more balanced". So he's taken a big alpha thing and made it beta. On the flipside, imagine a big fat guy who approaches all the ladies with the swagg…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 03:17 AM
2

I'd like to take a moment to point out that Seth Rogen doesn't look like Seth Rogen any more: http://img2.timeinc.net/health/images/slides/seth-rogan-400x400.jpg
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 03:13 AM
9

She wants to be desired. This is VERY red pill. YOU are the prize. She wants to do everything she can to please YOU. Very Very red pill.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 03:07 AM
3

Judge her by her actions, not by her words. She's not into you.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 02:28 PM
11

Heh, "we're poly". Meaning, "I get to have sex with any guy other than my husband, after he's done doing the dishes and being my bitch.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 06:56 AM
5

I have low standards, this face isn't undateable. But the one mentioned just below is. (https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-VdujuZodIfU/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAAA/6NvTCoZF2DQ/photo.jpg) thanks /u/throway-aa2 I have low standards, but the second picture is a shudder-and-walk-away face. Why isn't it symmetrical?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 01:16 AM
7

I particularly like this one: "There is also an odd paradox in that Millennial women can be outright ambitious in their professional lives, but the same approach towards dating conveys desperation. “[Marriage] is a worthy goal,” say Mundy. “It’s strange that it’s stigmatized. When women work as explicitly hard to find romance and they do for their careers, they are seen as man-hungry. It’s a shame since studies show that marriage makes one healthier and happier. There’s no shame in wanting a gre…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 01:06 AM
1

I don't want to know how you gathered your data. The fact that it might be data instead of datum or anecdote is particularly bad.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 10:52 PM
1

What is the goal of your life? If it's not to pass on genetic information, then what's the biggest picture?
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 06:58 PM
3

I don't read ANY stories here talking about red pill failures. Understand shit tests. Understand your role as the man in the relationship. Everything good flows from that.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 06:14 PM
5

Denial Anger Bargaining Depression Acceptance
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 06:12 PM
3

If you hadn't left, and instead had sex, then you would be talking to the police over rape charges the next day. Heck, you still might.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 02:40 PM
7

When a woman talks about being fucked up as "having emotional baggage", you know that it's bad. She knows it's fucked up, so she invents a cute phrase to try to soften the blow.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 12:48 AM
1

You're not interested in talking about sex. You're interested in sex. So, why do YOU think she's putting it out there at the beginning? Is she trying to convince herself? Is she trying to convince you? Is she absolving herself for having any responsibility for her future actions?
/r/askTRP30/08/14 12:10 AM
3

[Serious] Why do you want to get married?
/r/askTRP29/08/14 11:50 PM
2

This is the real heart of the issue. The woman who says 'I just want to go to the club to dance' is lying. She wants to go to the club to dance in front of other men. She wants their attention and the emotional validation that they find her attractive. This leads to one of two things: she teases them or she fucks them. She can dance at home. She can drink at home. She can go yo the club with you.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 12:23 PM
1

The guy on the left in this video used to run crossfire, until he made the mistake of inviting Jon Stewart on to his show, and Jon eviscerated him (and the entire premise of the show), causing crossfire to be cancelled. I'm too lazy to include all the appropriate links here, but the evisceration was most epic.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 03:27 AM
1

It allows you to work your own schedule sometimes. Sometimes it requires back-to-back 100 hour weeks. You do what needs to be done as it needs to be done. You balance the work with your life when you can. When you can't, work wins out, because without it, you don't get to live the life you want anyway.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 02:46 AM
1

Men compete with other men on a regular basis. If you aren't pulling your weight, you expect to hear about it, you f*cking n00b. When women enter the space, and get called a f*cking n00b, they take some offense. Then they go talk to all the other women who have entered the space, and find out that they too were called f*cking n00bs! The thing is, that's just how that space operates. These women are actually being treated completely fairly, and with full equality. But they view it as being single…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 02:43 AM
1

Three paragraphs in, and she hasn't made any points. I stopped reading.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 12:41 AM
6

Anyone who generalizes her single situation to an entire subculture should not be trusted.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 03:12 PM
1

There's an article from The Onion many years ago that follows this exact pattern.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 03:08 PM
3

"She's my ex-gf and she called me saying she was going to kill herself" That's all you have to say, if questioned. This situation happens daily everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 03:01 PM
4

If you're alpha, you're looking to run your own business, not work for someone else your whole life.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 06:30 AM
1

Every VC says this. You have to have this attitude to be successful. If you thought other people knew what to do more than you, you'd stop doing your job and just take their advice. It doesn't mean she IS, but she damn well better have the attitude.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 02:00 AM
1

What do you want, her fucking resume? She doesn't have to prove herself to a fucking twit posting crap on reddit. Just like every fucking alpha venture capitalist doesn't have to prove himself. I have people I take advice from. These are people whose advice I actively seek out. I don't know what their resume is, nor do I care. I judge them on the words they speak, and how much sense it makes. If the founder of TheRedPill starts talking about TRP, I'm going to fucking listen. Not because he has a…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 01:50 AM
1

And the fact that probably everyone takes her on her word, and isn't disappointed. Just like if she were a man in an alpha position.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 01:06 AM
2

No, she's just the rare exception to the rule. Notice the clear logic behind her words? Notice the lack of emotion? Notice the expectation that she should have understood the culture (woman's sphere, after all) and acted appropriately? Nope, definitely a woman. Just not like the intern that was fired.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 01:05 AM
3

You don't post shit about the company that you work for, and expect anything positive to come of it. She's lucky that she doesn't have any equity, 'cause that would have been gone in a heartbeat. Didn't she sign a massive non disclosure agreement when she was hired? Did she read it? Ugh. Just ugh.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 01:01 AM
8

"We were perfect for each other, HE had a good job. HE was handsome" What does she bring to the table, other than a well used vagina?
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 04:43 AM
6

She's an AMERICAN woman traveling in EUROPE. Every single guy out there (and the married ones too) know that she's DTF. Take her to a crappy restaurant with low lighting (so you don't see how dirty it is), and she'll think it's the most romantic thing ever!
/r/askTRP27/08/14 01:40 AM
1

LA face with an Oakland booty? Nice face, small waist and a big behind?
/r/askTRP26/08/14 08:40 PM
-1

You are mistaking child support for alimony, or spousal maintenance. Child support is pretty reasonable, based on the cost of maintaining a young human being. Alimony is ridiculous, based on how much money the very successful person makes.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 07:06 PM
1

Time.
/r/askTRP25/08/14 06:11 PM
1

You are thinking that somehow the method will change the fact that she's hurt about the outcome. It won't. You can text her that it's through. You can cheat on her and let her catch you at it so she ends it. Or you can man up, sit down with her and have the talk. One of these is the hardest to do.
/r/askTRP25/08/14 03:38 PM
1

She would dump you in a minute if the situation was right for to do that. Her wanting things (moving in with you, trip to Aruba, new pony) is kinda like you saying you want a new truck or motorcycle or other thing. It doesn't mean anything, and you're not obligated to provide it for her. She brings up Aruba? Ask her how she's going to pay for both of you. She talks about moving in with you? Ask her if she's going to pay your rent too. Her happiness about the rest of her life is NOT your responsi…
/r/askTRP25/08/14 03:33 PM
1

Right, they try to save the people in the house, a noble goal, instead of either preventing the fire in the first place, or making certain that the sprinklers would douse any fire that did come up, or fighting the fire that did come up. All of these would be better that reactionary, after-the-fact futile attempts at self-sacrifice.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 02:48 PM
2

Get a fucking cell phone. Seriously, a big part of the red pill is following specific steps to improve your sexual market value (your SMV). One of those steps is getting your work situation solid. If you can land a job where you have to lift heavy things over and over again, then you don't have to take extra time to go to the gym. Or, alternately, you could stop spending so much money on food. Then you'd lose weight and have money for a phone, which would again knock out two birds with one stone…
/r/askTRP25/08/14 12:10 AM
2

While different fundamental makeup doesn't absolutely preclude loving in the same way and for the same reasons, it does suggest it. A red pill truth: A woman wants to find the absolute best father for her children. Best is defined solely as 'most like to pass along genes'. There is no other meaning to the word 'best' in this context. It doesn't actually matter if other women have found the same man, because he can pass his genes along to ALL of their children. But, if this alpha male won't (or c…
/r/askTRP23/08/14 01:47 AM
2

Prenups have different rules in differing places. In some places, the expire, slowly, over time. So while the prenup may be 100% in force up to 20 years, from 20 to 40 it slowly degrades, and after 40 it's null and void. But like definitely_hetero said: consult a lawyer, not reddit.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 01:07 AM
3

Men and women are not very much alike. From basic chromosomes to physical hardware, to reproductive processes, they are very different. Why would you think they think the same? Do you think that men and women are physically equal? Why would they be mentally/emotionally equal? Do you see that what constituted being a genetically successful male through history (from the advent of homo sapiens) is different from what constituted a genetically successful female?
/r/askTRP23/08/14 12:26 AM
1

My sister went to college for her mrs degree. She got it, and has been married since. Her oldest son is 24, so she's been married 24 years, 3 kids total. Because of trp, I feel she has completely fulfilled her end of the bargain. I totally respect that.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 03:11 PM
1

Where I got divorced, the student loan debt she secured before we were married wasn't counted. The debt after we were married was.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 02:55 PM
5

Reminds me of the movie, Better Off Dead: "I've been going to this high school for seven and a half years. I'm no dummy."
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 02:52 PM
2

Find other friends.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 11:20 AM
10

The real question is this: If two women get into an accident, is the man still at fault?
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 11:29 AM
-1

Agree and Amplify: "Were you hitting on the Bud Light girl?" "Yeah, she's coming over tonight after you go to sleep. You might meet her tomorrow morning"
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 12:43 AM
35

Alcohol makes people act more on instinct and less on intellect. A girl who is out drinking at a bar is ALL about instinct. Dread game hits her RIGHT in the instinct. She's never going to think "Hey, that bud light woman is getting PAID to be polite to my boyfriend." Instead she's going to instinct, "Bitch near man. MUST MARK TERRITORY!!!!!!11111one!!" Nicely done
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 12:41 AM
1

This is a path I'm on. Good to know the long effort paid off.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 05:02 PM
1

She didn't think of it as an ONS in the morning.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 03:01 PM
3

If she thinks you're cheating, but you're not, then it's just dread game. If she comes out and says "Are you cheating on me?" You can respond with a simple "no" and nothing more. Don't justify your behavior to her, and don't explain things she doesn't understand. Let her hamster run, and it will end up with her chasing you.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 06:45 PM
2

Hold Frame. Don't make stupid self-deprecating remarks. When you ask a girl out, don't negotiate with yourself.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 12:27 AM
0

Reading is an embarrassment to you? Absorbing information isn't something to be ashamed of.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 10:59 PM
3

I will tell you that when I divorced, I too thought my ex-wife would be a good mother. But I don't see it that way any more. I have a daughter, instead of two sons, and I DO see that as a fundamental difference between the two of us. But I no longer think that my ex is a good mom, or will continue to be. I think that she will teach my daughter that men are disposable, and that she doesn't need to treat them with respect. So guard against her beta-fying your sons. Go your own way. You probably do…
/r/askTRP18/08/14 10:57 PM
4

Can I claim PTSD for having gone through a warlike divorce?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 07:54 PM
1

He isn't an ex fuckbuddy, or at least won't be for long.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 07:50 PM
2

It sounds like you are trying to maintain as much of a relationship with this woman as you can. Why?
/r/askTRP18/08/14 05:28 PM
8

1) You are no longer one entity. Whereas before, you thought of yourself as married, and the decisions that you made were to the benefit of the couple, this is no longer the case. 2) This person, who has intimate knowledge of you, is in a position to do you great harm. 3) Your soon to be ex-wife swore to be with you until the end of time. She has broken that promise. Any (and all) other promises she has made or will make pale in comparison to this one. She absolutely cannot be trusted to fulfill…
/r/askTRP18/08/14 05:04 PM
2

This is a straight copy-paste from Dan Savage. Dan Savage is a gay advice columnist, but this advice is universal, and right up TRP's alley. "You're having a hard time getting girls. That sucks. I remember what it was like when I was a young teenager and wanted boys and couldn't get any. It sucked. But the sad fact is that most young teenage boys are repulsive—that is, they are half-formed works in progress. Girls mature physically more quickly than boys, which means most girls your age already …
/r/askTRP16/08/14 12:38 PM
7

"Some tips were good, but they were common sense shit: ..." This whole paragraph has stuff in it that people would write about 18-year-olds, but not stuff that 18-year-olds would write. "local gym", "clothes that semi-fit", "We made..." nope nope nope. Let's look at the time scale. This happened "6-7 months ago". That seems like maybe this story happens over a 1 month period of time? He and his friend read TRP a whole bunch, and sat around playing video games, then changed to working out at the …
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 01:23 AM
11

I don't buy it. 18 year old males don't talk about confirmation bias.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 11:15 PM
21

It's cheaper to just give him money.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 04:10 PM
5

This sounds like stage 4: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1x0gln/the_five_stages_of_red_pill_and_how_to_read_rtrp/
/r/askTRP14/08/14 02:39 PM
5

As a guy having an ex-wife with TWO master's degrees (public affairs, journalism), I have to agree.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 11:59 AM
0

How exactly do you measure diversity?
/r/askTRP13/08/14 01:25 AM
2

her: Where do you want to go to dinner? BP: I don't care, whatever you're in the mood for is fine with me. RP: I haven't decided yet. I'll let you know where we're going shortly.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 02:20 PM
3

No, I want it all.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 10:48 AM
4

Honey, I want to treat you like my little toe. I want to bang you on every piece of furniture in the house.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 10:48 AM
0

It gets better.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 10:27 AM
1

He maintained frame during a shit test with an extremely hot chick. This is a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 05:00 PM
3

The whole point for me is that it's not just "be a man", but it's more, "here's how to be a man, with specific anecdotes that show what happens when you become more manly"
/r/askTRP11/08/14 02:55 PM
4

OKC can be good. PoF, not so much, IMHO.
/r/askTRP10/08/14 11:57 PM
3

The overpriced part would mean that she EXPECTED to pay $50. And they're gaudy, so the fact that's she's nice a size 0 wearing day-glo spandex means cover is double!
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 09:27 PM
3

It's a shitty thing that her friend didn't just cough up the cover for her friends that weren't 'hot enough'. But it's a shitty thing that the girl made EVERYONE else leave because she wasn't hot enough to get in for free.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 09:20 PM
2

It's really funny that as soon as they won't let her in, it's a "shitty times square club", with "music that she doesn't even like". Bitch, if ya hate it that much, why are you there?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 09:18 PM
2

The woman is the most responsible teenager in the room.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 12:48 PM
3

That's all in the past. It's not like her history is what makes up her character, or her past actions are the best indicators of future actions. Amirite?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 12:43 PM
1

This female coworker responded "When my husband got his PhD" Great! We'll hire him then!
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 08:11 PM
2

She might have, except she said "making close to ... should have meant profit" That says she either misspoke, was misquoted or grossed half a million.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 05:44 PM
13

500,000 for a staff of 7 would be about 70,000 each, before spending any money on anything else. How could she think they were actually profitable?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 02:47 PM
3

Plenty of fish is FILLED with women who want you to pay for their dates.
/r/askTRP09/08/14 02:37 AM
10

That "aw shucks" Cub Scout play isn't going to work the same for Harry in the IT dept. I used to play a lot of ultimate frisbee. Being short and round meant I had to get my throws to be perfect. I started playing with a new group of people, and noticed that one guy (not round, not short) had really good throws. After the first game with him, I complimented him, "You have really good throws". He responded with a heartfelt "thanks". Nothing more. Just looked me straight in the eye and said that. I…
/r/askTRP08/08/14 12:53 AM
31

100 women surveyed were asked if they would sleep with Bill Clinton. 37 said "no". 39 said "yes". The other 23 said "never again".
/r/askTRP08/08/14 12:49 AM
7

Most just like sex. Some are really straight, and are just lesbian through college 'cause it's got a big attention-getting thing to it. Some are really just lesbian, but want a kid and someone to pay for half of it.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 10:21 PM
4

You have to understand... Most people are not ready to be unplugged, and many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependant on the system, that they fight to protect it. Don't bring up fuck tactics at work.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 03:21 AM
1

It's your choice: Are you okay with her doing other guys? Do you want to keep her as an LTR, or more of a plate? If she isn't already riding a new pony, she's at least cut him from the herd and is planning on it.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 04:46 PM
2

Arguing with children is like wrestling in the mud with pigs. You get really dirty and the pigs love it. From my parenting books: don't get into power struggles with children, but if you do, win them quickly.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 01:55 PM
2

This is situational depression, not chemical-imbalance depression. This depression is only with regards to how I see women, not how I see my whole life.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 09:33 PM
1

Thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you. I think this is the stage I'm in. Maybe I'm coming out of it, or will be soon. It's nice to know that it's probably not forever.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 06:40 PM
3

The mouse doesn't feel shame when it can't find the cheese, or always takes the wrong way. When it finds the best path, it sticks with it. When you're doubting yourself, go to the gym and lift. Don't dwell on the doubt. That will only make it worse. If you're telling yourself to man up outside of your comfort zone, it's not going to go well. Just get yourself to a place where you can comfortably handle situations that used to make you break frame. lift
/r/askTRP02/08/14 12:42 AM
1

"Your choice" would be a response that gives her an in to see you again. But this time, there's a cost that she must pay, not the other way around like it was before.
/r/askTRP01/08/14 04:34 AM
1

Communicating his feelings isn't going to solve the problem of her being attracted to Johnny. I'd be willing to bet that she isn't really being honest with her feelings about Johnny. But what if she does have feelings for Johnny? Do you think talking with her husband about them is going to solve anything? If, instead, he stays red pill, then maybe she'll realize which man she wants to be with.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 09:40 PM
1

Ignore is great. Whatever issue was being brought up isn't worth your attention. Do you have specific examples?
/r/askTRP31/07/14 05:56 PM
-1

More communication is never the answer.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 05:23 PM
30

Note the lack of anything that the woman actually has to offer here.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 12:30 PM
9

You are doing it almost exactly right. Every time your wife feels threatened, she has sex with you. The one time she doesn't is when you try to explain to her why you should be allowed to look at other women. Your non-answer is best. When you try to explain overly, you're asking permission, and beta-fying yourself.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 12:18 AM
3

The basic pattern is this: Girl: That was the worst pick up line I've ever heard. You: But it did get you to talk to me, didn't it! (BIG grin). Girl: I hate guys with blonde hair. (or whatever color your hair is) You: I do too. They just want to fuck you to screaming orgasms all the time.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 09:56 PM
1

Mgtow is men going their own way. If you don't like the women in your circles, then it might be time to just focus on bettering yourself.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 09:14 PM
1

First off: know that this is the first step on your journey. Everyone goes through the hate phase. But hate isn't the end of the journey, it's just a first step. Do you get mad at a puppy who poops on the carpet or do you train it where to poop? Same for women. If you reward the behavior your like and correct the behavior you don't, you'll be much happier. If she's getting what she needs (alpha, assertiveness, directions and decisions) from you, you'll get what you need from her. Notice I said '…
/r/askTRP25/07/14 09:11 PM
2

You hit a big point here: you can be chivalrous to women you're not attracted to. But if you do stuff like that for a hottie you're trying to bang, you quickly become an orbiter.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 08:56 PM
1

Ignore the words and focus on the actions. Her words are always prefaced with "right now I feel like..."
/r/askTRP25/07/14 03:37 PM
1

There's something to be said for the adage "don't argue with an idiot, people might not know the difference". Looking at the fundamentals: sexism is simply recognizing that the sexes are different. Feminism is then what? That women are better than men? That women need to be promoted into areas they don't currently occupy? Seems to me you probably have no basis for discussion, so doing so is about as useful as rewarding as herding cats.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 03:34 PM
0

No
/r/askTRP24/07/14 11:22 PM
1

Bold strokes, decisive action. Don't negotiate with yourself.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 09:04 PM
1

If she is asking you, then you have the right to say no. Don't make excuses or apologize. Don't justify your answer either. Simply say no. "Honey, can you get the box of kurmugeon from the attic?" "No"
/r/askTRP24/07/14 07:34 PM
1

Maybe you should retake 7th grade math. The boy's answer was correct. The girl's answer was not. He got points. She didn't. There were lots of other girls in the class who got full points. There were lots of other boys in the class who got no points.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 05:19 AM
1

There was no reason given. In general, no reasons are given because a reason can be argued against in a court of law. If several reasons are given, then if any of them are successfully fought, then there is grounds for a wrongful termination lawsuit.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 05:17 AM
2

No. I scored each student according to the math they did.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 05:15 AM
10

My thought was always, "If you want me to grade them on English skills, then you'd better start drilling math facts in English class."
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 03:05 AM
1

You miss the point entirely. I was teaching Math, not English. Girls in middle school are better at writing, and I was being asked to give points for English skills, not math skills. This is favoring girls over boys. I was also supposed to give a certain portion of the grade based on how well their binder was organized. Several boys got the minimum (60/100), no girl got under a 90.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 02:14 AM
16

You miss the point entirely. I was teaching Math, not English. Girls in middle school are better at writing, and I was being asked to give points for English skills, not math skills. This is favoring girls over boys. I was also supposed to give a certain portion of the grade based on how well their binder was organized. Several boys got the minimum (60/100), no girl got under a 90.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 02:14 AM
6

I came here from a thread asking how guys should not behave. The girl posting a reply said "don't do anything they suggest on /r/theredpill" and so I came here to see what all the fuss was about. And I stayed.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 09:57 PM
197

As a 7th grade teacher, I can confirm that the grading policies that I was supposed to put in place STRONGLY favored girls over boys. There was one particular question that stood out to me quite strongly. The students had graphed the amounts of money that two fictional people had, and then were asked the question, "At any time, did the two people have the same amount of money? Justify your answer using the graph." The grading rubric that I was supposed to use required me to give 1 point if they …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 07:27 PM
2

The details of my experience are different, but my reaction is similar, especially upon reading TRP. I didn't understand any of why my wife left me (but now, good riddance) before. I did what I had been told I should do. But that's not what would have kept my marriage whole. A little red pill would have.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 01:22 AM
5

...but then dismiss him outright because of the perceived social repercussions of being seen with a shorter man. You've really hit the nail on the head here. A woman doesn't form her own opinion, she takes her opinion from what other people think. So while a woman might be really digging on some short guy, she might turn him down just because her friends would say something shitty to her.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 12:29 AM
5

The difference, of course, is that the woman can choose whether or not she's a slut, whether or not she's fat. Short guy is just short.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 12:13 AM
2

It's mashed up in a treat right now. He'll swallow it, but it takes some getting over the shock of getting served papers first. My big goal is to get him to fight for half of her pension and income for the rest of her life, since, you know, she waited until he was unemployed.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 12:07 AM
5

Awesome. You confronted her shitty behavior while maintaining frame. She realized she's about to totally lose her shit over it and is forced to leave. Then she realizes that her behavior was shitty. You win
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 06:31 PM
1

I didn't read the email he sent. But I wonder how he presented the information, and what conclusions he drew. If he said something like "This changes when you return, or all your shit is in a box to the left." then kudos on him. If he said "whine whine whine you don't love me any more!" then he's doomed to failure (unless he finds TRP and works it all out).
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 02:58 PM
13

Woman who put man in doghouse find him next day in cathouse. --Richard Feynman
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 01:53 PM
2

If the guy had said "I listened to you talk, and I think you're smoking hot. Check out my 6-pack abs. Coffee, your place, you're buying?" we would never have heard anything on her blog about it.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 09:24 PM
1

She thinks that being female and a skeptic is better for selling herself than just being a skeptic. But she doesn't like the attention she gets from skeptics for being female.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 09:22 PM
2

The advice I've seen so far is great. Anything more would be great too.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 03:10 AM
20

A woman will NOT tell you how to be alpha. TRP will.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 04:10 PM
3

She wants to be viewed as a piece of meat when she is 59. Not as a smart woman who is wise in the ways of the world, but just as a piece of meat. Most of the population of women is younger and sexier. It's ridiculous that she's in denial of this fact.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 02:39 AM
4

Now you know why she is separated at 23
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 02:30 AM
3

Keep telling yourself that. Some day it may be true.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 05:29 AM
5

I take your intended insult of 'sexist' literally. I do believe that men and women are different, and its clear to me that rules for behavior for men and women are different. Do you not understand this?
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 07:16 PM
4

You are writing in TheRedPill, and you're accusing me of being sexist. You are a woman.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 05:04 AM
2

Magnus arena. Dicks Sporting Goods park. Coors field. You argue like a woman. I make a bunch of points that you can't argue with, and you then try to change the subject to talk about something else, and then pretend you've refuted any of my points.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 01:47 AM
3

There was another one I saw recently, talking about how much female managers got paid in a certain company compared with all the male managers. There was a 30% gap. What the statistic didn't tell you was that the average female manager had 10 years less experience than the male manager. They had been over-promoted in an effort to equalize gender inequality in promotions during the previous 20 years. So even when they got what they wanted, they still complained about it. The wage gap would have e…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 05:29 AM
3

Given two people with identical skill sets and in all other ways being identical, you should hire the one at the 33% discount. But they aren't identical in future risk. A woman can (and often will) get pregnant and go on maternity leave (usually paid). Then, after maternity leave is done, she might just decide that she'd rather be a stay at home mom instead of working for you any more. This means that all your training will be for naught. Hiring a guy doesn't come without risks, but women share …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 05:24 AM
3

Thanks for getting the relevant link!
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 05:18 AM
1

I absolutely could have been. But I was working, and very busy. By taking the time to help them, I would having been doing my paying customers a disservice.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 05:17 AM
1

|The only RP part of his post is the last sentence, the rest is just a story about his job: replace women with men and you will see how normal it all is. I disagree. It was about holding frame, and not helping two women just because they were women. |He even self shames himself out of reflex at the end: The 'better' was meant in the way the girl was implying with her behavior. 'better' for her was more supplicating. She was trying to shame me with the implication. I wasn't shaming myself, and I …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 05:14 AM
3

Don't let the door hit you in the butt on the way out. Please tell me what kind words you would have used to soothe these poor waifs, lost and destitute in a world so confusing.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 05:04 AM
2

Why are their feelings my priority? Does your girlfriend care about your feeling when she's fucking some alpha behind your back or with your knowledge? How is their situation not their fault? Whose fault is it, pray tell? I didn't blame them for anything. I simply said "no" and walked away.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 05:02 AM
5

You are wrong. I held frame by not becoming emotionally involved. When they initially asked for my help, I was receptive, thinking that perhaps their quandary was not of their own doing, but as soon as they said they didn't even know the name of the place, it was clear that it was going to take more effort on my part than they had put into solving the problem themselves. They didn't respect my time to even uniquely identify where they wanted to go. Had they been passengers, the meter would have …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 04:57 AM
1

Great. Is there some reason you need to ask a professional for advice while he's working to solve a problem you can handle on your own using tools you have available to you?
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 03:41 AM
12

It sounds like he'd be happy to date her. Make her dinner, hang out, chat, whatever. He just doesn't want sex. She should be fine with that, since undesired sex is rape. Is she a rapist?
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 03:27 AM
20

Sure, and wanting to be with a tall guy with defined abs is also a fetish.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 02:32 AM
11

I think that there was a female serial killer in Florida that used this hamster logic: She didn't have money, and she needed money to live. The only way she could think of to make money was as a prostitute. Since she didn't actually want to be having sex (she just wanted the money), she considered every guy she was with to be a rapist, and therefore it was okay for her to kill them for raping her.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 02:11 AM
1

The guy wanting help would respect my time and expertise, and sure as hell wouldn't then treat it like him asking me for help is somehow doing me a favor. That's why I call them bitches instead of assholes.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 02:08 AM
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When I read your post, it's like it's a mirror, staring right back at me. "Hey you! Faceless male drone! Do my bidding!" I bet she has a horde of orbiters who help her if she just mentions that she needs it. She's not fucking any of them, and probably doesn't know any of their names! When they do help, she might, if they are very very lucky, get a touch on the arm and a fake-heartfelt "Thank You". Most of the time, they just get ignored.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 07:42 PM
1

Maybe. Could have been Magnuss Arena, or McNichols. They're not particularly close to each other. They were in Golden, on a side street, not particularly close to (or on the say to) any of these places.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 07:31 PM
2

Please, do tell, what arena did you find? Are you sure it's the only one that satisfies the criteria I was given?
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 07:01 PM
5

But if you don't know enough about the place to uniquely identify it (e.g. Mile High Stadium, Football, Soccer, Lacrosse, Dick's, Baseball, Pepsi Center, Baseball), then it's very very very hard to give you accurate directions.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 06:56 PM
5

You misread the post. I was asking for the name of the place where they wanted to go, not for their names.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 06:53 PM
7

I was working at a job where I only make money on the amount of work that gets done. So taking the time to guess what help she actually needed was going to literally cost me money. Note that she was far more interested in taking more time to shame me than she was in actually getting help.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 06:38 PM
3

This is Denver Colorado. There are four different stadiums for 5 different sports, only one of which is currently in season. They aren't particularly close to each other, and directions to the wrong place aren't even vaguely helpful to anyone. If you don't have enough information to help me, then say so. I can guess, and I don't need you to guess for me.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 06:35 PM
13

They wanted directions to a place that was a 'sports stadium', with no other information. There are MANY different places where they might have wanted to go. They didn't have a name, or an address, or even what sport was being played, and I was working at a very busy time. They were in Golden, nowhere near any major sports stadiums.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 06:32 PM
2

They wanted directions to a place that was a 'sports stadium', with no other information. There are MANY different places where they might have wanted to go. They didn't have a name, or an address, or even what sport was being played, and I was working at a very busy time.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 06:31 PM
5

They wanted directions to a place that was a 'sports stadium', with no other information. There are MANY different places where they might have wanted to go. They didn't have a name, or an address, or even what sport was being played, and I was working at a very busy time.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 06:31 PM
3

"with my money". bwah hah hah. As far as she's concerned, his money is for all the family expenses, and her money is her allowance, because she's a teenager.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 07:03 AM
1

I came here because I was angry. But it was an impotent rage. Then I read, and read and read. Now I understand. Now I know what I must do. Now it's not a confusing mass of contradiction and double speak. I've swallowed the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 12:22 AM
0

I love that. "Hey, that skirt makes you look like you have a restless heart" sounds so much nicer than "...skank whore"
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 01:11 AM
6

I don't like skinny. But fat isn't hot. There's thick (/r/thick) and curvy (/r/curvy) but fat, not so much.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 10:00 PM
4

I keep going back to this one, because the double standard is there, but in the opposite way she thinks. "I'm 39 and I'm finding it impossible to get a guy under 30 to stay with me." She wants someone who is physically really attractive, but she wants him for more than just sex. And yet, "... I'm not attracted to older men at all.I do not find bald wrinkly men that resemble my father handsome. My tastes in men haven't changed in ten years." Maybe men are EXACTLY the same: their tastes in women h…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 08:16 PM
2

Giving credit where credit is due: Vimeo
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 08:04 PM
4

She just found the carousel. It's a fun ride.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 05:02 PM
18

If you've spent your 20's developing a persona instead of a personality, it doesn't get better.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 03:08 PM
1

When there's no filter, and the anger is about something long-term, emotions will be expressed.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 11:26 PM
9

That's why the Lance Armstrong bust was such a big deal. They kept his blood for long enough until their testing caught up with his doping. This sends the message that while you can do that crap in some sports, you can't do it in the Tour.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 03:38 PM
2

I think you are trying to do some mental gymnastics to justify the feminist viewpoint instead of seeing the simple truth of the red pill. We call this hamstering.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 06:21 PM
14

If you put a "right now I feel like" in front of everything she says, then it makes perfect sense.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 06:10 PM
12

I'll put my B.S. In math against your M.A. in public affairs any day. I view a masters as something that you spent more money on to prove to others that you really are smart, even though you're not smart, you're overeducated.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 09:57 PM
1

Every day, I talk to men who need the red pill. Every frickin' day. These are men who aren't going to fight the knowledge. They are going to drink it in like a man dying of thirst who had never tasted water.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 02:06 AM
-1

I love being of service. But I'm no servant. I'm of service to lots of hot women, but I'm not interested in any of them. If I were, I probably wouldn't be 'nice' or 'helpful' or 'such a good friend' to any of them. They do pay me for my service, so I guess that changes the dynamic a little bit.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 01:56 AM
1

Dress well: okay Dress well, but not overly well for the occasion Be ambitious. When she says it's not about the money, she's lying. Be feminine. NOT Be thoughtful, except "don't take it to the creepy extreme". So, be hot, because hot guys aren't creepy. Don't have lots of casual sex with other women, except that that just makes you more attractive. Be smarter than her. But but but but she's a smart independent woman! Be emotionally available. Dote on your woman, except that that's creepy. Unles…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 01:03 AM
10

Are you really overwhelmed with so many posts that you don't want to read stuff like this?
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 03:24 PM
28

"The story of the depressed fatass who lost weight and became a slut. Excuse me, empowered woman. What a hero" That there is some internet gold!
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 03:11 AM
8

It's like a Christian threatening an atheist with hell. Atheists don't believe in hell either.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 11:10 PM
4

I'm comedically short (my drivers license says I'm 5'6". It lies). I'll be your wing man. :-P
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 11:09 PM
4

There are plenty of jobs that always have openings. They always have openings because they're crappy jobs. They might give you a start, or let you get to know a lot more people. They might just give you insight into what's out there, so that when you do move on (your choice, or your boss's), it's to a better place. I worked in tech support for a software company for a few years. It was good money at the time. When I left that, it was a huge bump in my salary. When I came back to the same company…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 01:23 PM
1

There's plenty of anecdotes that add to the repertoire of a well-prepared alpha. Different shit tests, different field reports, different traps. Sometimes I read something once or twice, and it doesn't ring true, but then I read the same concept in a different situation and then it clicks.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 01:11 PM
4

Alphas don't get accused of date-rape. If that happens, then the girl can't go back to him, like she wants to.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 03:35 AM
1

The "not texting" and "didn't seem like [you] cared much" are excuses, and do nothing but try to reinforce bluepill. She had probably already cut her next stallion from the herd and was just waiting for a chance to go ride it.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 02:25 AM
6

When she does something you like, reward it once, but then not again for a few times, then again, then wait a few more times than you did before...
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 02:23 AM
2

I find that when I lift, I don't really interact with anyone else who is there. I might admire some nice arms, broad shoulders, a well defined V, but they're just body parts. They are perfection to be strived towards. They aren't part of people who matter a whole lot to me.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 01:32 AM
1

If trp was fight club, I'd be breaking rules one and two all the time. I tell guys I meet, when it's one-on-one, about reddit and trp. I tell them to read stuff, and talk to em about it. I drive a cab, and hear their stories all the time. I tell em trp might help.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 04:35 PM
8

You can't do the same thing. You're not the woman. You're the man.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 11:46 PM
7

The whole point of the red pill is to see things as they really are, not as you'd hope them to be. The fact that women are more caring, the gentler sex, etc. is just bullshit. When you're the man of the house, they expect things from you. If they don't get 'em, then that's the end of your being the man.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 11:43 PM
0

Great comments. It sounds like you have a lot of it figured out. I'm new to this, and have a long way to go myself. So I don't want to come across as preachy. What kinds of things does she bitch about? How do you respond, if at all? I think there's depth here, not just for you, but for all red pill men, that might be worth looking in to.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 11:40 PM
22

Women complain that men never open up to them emotionally. It turns out there's a really fucking good reason for that!
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 11:34 PM
1

It sounds like she's fuckably hot. That means she's a tasty plate, but not worthy of more.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 04:41 AM
4

I had the exact opposite upbringing to you. Single mom. Short version: dad was in a BAD car accident, suffered brain damage. It wasn't enough to put him into the dumb range, but knocked 20-30 points off his IQ. Mom stayed with him for 9 years past the accident, they couldn't stop fighting, blah blah blah. Every punishment that I experienced was based entirely on my mom's current emotional state. Do something wrong when she's in a good mood? Grounded for the night. Same action when she's in a bad…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 05:23 PM
0

It's not a fashion. It's biology.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 04:15 PM
8

Usually, where there is a male-only college, there's a nearby female-only college as well. You still get laid, but you don't put up with crap in classroom discussions.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 01:23 AM
3

I think you're exactly right. School is hard. Thinking is hard. Fucking the alpha male in the room is easy. Which one do you think she chose?
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 03:38 AM
11

I majored in math. The individual classes can be really hard. Everyone eventually hits a wall where the abstraction is too great. I had a professor say that his grading was as follows: A means you understood the material and could do something with what you learned. B means there was at least one major topic that eluded you. C meant that you did manage to master at least one topic in the class. D meant you were a graduating senior. F was unheard of.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 03:06 AM
5

It's not like you don't have any feedback when you're taking a course. If you don't know that you're failing a class, then that means you're probably in serious denial about pretty much everything. I'm reminded of the Jack Nicholson quote from As Good As it Gets. Receptionist: How do you write women so well? Jack: I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 03:02 AM
10

There's a bunch of links on the sidebar. You should read them. You should read all of them, and probably not post a lot until you have. There's a lot to think about, and your flailing around doesn't really do you any favors. The "Sorry haha" comment at the end is pretty blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 02:58 AM
2

When you're starting RP, you have to test it to see where it will take you. When it's someone you aren't interested in at all (your cheating ex) it's a no-lose situation.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 08:42 PM
2

Agreed.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 06:42 AM
1

You are exactly right
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 06:42 AM
3

I agreed to breakfast, she asked if I was going to pay, then started saying that a real man pays when he goes on a date with a lady. She didn't show. I had some coffee and left.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 10:24 PM
-1

I finalized my divorce a year ago. I got 1/3 custody of my daughter. This was my choice. I spend 2/3 of my time focusing on me and 1/3 focusing on my daughter. The CFI (child and family investigator) saw through all the bullshit my ex was spewing forth. I know I could have gotten 100% if I had tried. I didn't at the time, but that might change in the future. But I thought that for my daughter to develop into a good person who makes good decisions, this was the best for her.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 11:57 PM
1

So, they are saying that you're the kind of guy they should seek out when they are in the mood. This is a bad thing how?
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 10:56 PM
1

Once divorce papers are filed, ALL assets are frozen. Both parties.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 04:44 PM
1

What state do you live in?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 04:42 PM
1

Saving from my phone.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 04:35 PM
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