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For sure. I'm not here to become better at seduction. I'm here to bust nuts until I find someone worth sticking with. I don't care if I die with trash game if I got the results I wanted. If I miss out on 3 high value women then I would have gotten 10 others on a date without wasting time from pumping numbers. Not risking anything? I don't get that. What do you mean?
/r/seduction17/06/21 01:53 PM
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Why does casual sex make someone a fuckboy? Does a woman have casual sex make her a fuckgirl?
/r/seduction16/06/21 08:21 AM
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Do you mean having a script? And yeah it depends what you want. For me, using a script to move from social media or online dating to the number lets me keep it moving. Like obviously it's contextual and I'm not going to spam these lines like a robot. There's back-and-forth but this is my "gameplan". There's always a progression. Keeping it direct lowers my "conversion" but screens for the women who are more likely to be honest and not play games since I was upfront from the start. Very little sh…
/r/seduction15/06/21 03:50 PM
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Ah that makes sense. Yeah I don't know your circumstances but at that point I'd focus on moving to a larger city. Small cities are hard mode if you're into casual sex.
/r/seduction15/06/21 03:45 PM
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I see where you're coming from and if that works for you then I won't judge you on that. I'm just speaking from personal experience . I find that I get more dates and save more time when focusing on efficiency and playing the numbers game rather than being a dancing monkey and trying to impress a woman that I haven't even met in person yet.
/r/seduction15/06/21 12:08 PM
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Conversation is natural on the date and afterwards. The whole point is to move off instagram and be direct without wasting time. Either they're down or they're not. A lot of the time if someone were to follow your advice, they'll end up overthinking one text conversation with a chick they don't even know when they could have dm'd 10 more. Dating is a numbers game. In this case, six texts bam bam bam. If they're down then cool. Then you can have that genuine convo on the date rather than wasting …
/r/seduction15/06/21 11:08 AM
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I mean if you mean having a process to get their number, go on the date, have sex, and go from there then sure. But to me that's more of a matter of being assertive, ignoring self-conscious thoughts, and taking action. The average guy gets laid and doesn't have "game". Sure, they might lack self-respect and not know how to lead but they get the "job" done so to speak.
/r/seduction14/06/21 02:41 PM
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It seems like the risk if you wrap it up is 0.2% for HIV with someone who has it per lay when you don't know. Do you think it's worth the risk? It's pretty low but still worrisome. I was a dumbass before and didn't do research or testing but now I'm way more cautious. So this might sound crazy but I'm considering taking PrEP during periods when I'm being more sexually active for the first time with someone on top of wrapping it up. Then 1-3 lays in (max), bringing up the convo somehow. I'm also …
/r/seduction14/06/21 07:48 AM
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I'm not necessarily just talking about the approach but also the date. For example, even something like her asking what movies I've watched. I'm not going to be a buzzkill but I can say something honest like "I haven't in a while. I prefer to watch reality shows" or whatever else. Or even with other opinions, just being solid on the truth. This is a simple example and comes naturally for people but the biggest issue in my game is the fear of consequence or reaction. The idea that making a social…
/r/seduction12/06/21 11:58 PM
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Have you cold approached?
/r/seduction12/06/21 03:23 PM
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That's what I've been using since it allows me to mass text and saves time. Still working on changing the opener but to me it serves its purpose. You could share ideas for other alternatives if you'd like. I'm open to trying new openers.
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:22 PM
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For sure. I haven't been able to push more than 10-20 approaches a month. Which is pretty low but the anxiety of going out and doing a few approaches is brutal and I haven't been able to brute force it despite what I've been trying. I take a few days to recover or otherwise my performance in other aspects of my life starts messing up.
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:19 PM
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Yeah online dating is brutal. But there's different routes to everything and novel ways of doing things or playing the numbers game. I met an autistic short average looking asian guy who only got 3 "lays" from 3000 cold approaches. After he figured out the issue, he'd just approach 20ish women on a night out and be on a date which he usually would close. If the odds are against you, they're against you. You either work around them and cope or you give up.
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:17 PM
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Depending on what you want to attract, of course status, money, and followers will help a lot but then that's on you if you want to attract those types of women. It's similar to a dating app in terms of image. Personally, I have 6 pics (still building up my profile) but I won't add many more. I'm not a self-obsessed woman who cares about clout. The goal is to just showcase certain types of value (ex. creating intrigue/curiosity, travel pics for status and mobility without any superficial pics, a…
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:14 PM
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That's a bit much imo. Personally, I'd be weirded out if I got one. Better to break the ice in a neutral way first.
/r/seduction12/06/21 12:57 PM
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So you don't cold approach?
/r/seduction12/06/21 10:51 AM
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Cold dm'ing vs. Cold approaching are the same thing. You find them both desperate?
/r/seduction12/06/21 10:50 AM
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Ah, gotcha. Cold approach is a great strategy as long as you have the stomach for tons of approaches regularly. And yeah everyone puts down new strategies. For example, did you think cold approach would work when you first tried it? It does depend on the culture though too. Also, do you know your specific stats? It seems like you got 0 dates from it but do you know how many dms you sent? I'm curious for research purposes.
/r/seduction12/06/21 10:30 AM
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This might seem random but it is neutral and starts conversation easily. Let's say you live in tampa. You literally just dm them "tampa?". Now let's say you get that message. What are you thinking? You don't know because it's vague af and also neutral. So what do you do? You go to my profile and you check it out. If you think I'm intriguing or are curious or I have your attention you'll respond. If you think I'm unattractive or weird or I didn't grab your attention you'll ignore me. There's noth…
/r/seduction12/06/21 01:35 AM
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6 solid professional pics, with a calculated intriguing aesthetic and indications of status very indirectly (ex. travel pic). My vibe is the "lowkey professor travel coder' aesthetic. Hard to explain without showing pics but it's something that makes them curious but also able to feel like it'd be safe to take a risk to meet up. Follower count's under 5k so I'm not going at it from the angle of having followers and I'm not dm'ing chicks with higher follower counts. Also no picture with fancy car…
/r/seduction12/06/21 01:29 AM
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Could you expand on what you mean by that?
/r/seduction12/06/21 01:27 AM
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Yeah it's definitely worth a shot. As long as you can build up your leads, your odds are increasing no matter what. My night game is trash. I just end up dancing and I do every very few approaches. If you're finding some success there it's worth it to keep trying to build up those experiences.
/r/seduction11/06/21 11:55 PM
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Do you mind telling me how many you dm'd in total? 5% reply rate makes sense (it can range from 1-10% if you're going in cold and aren't popular af in terms of status and money in your pictures or follower count). Also, no dates at all? Did you get any what's app or numbers? The goal is to be efficient with it and not stay too long on instagram. On top of that, did you have professional pictures on your profile to create intrigue? It's dope that you're putting in the work and I want to give sugg…
/r/seduction11/06/21 11:52 PM
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