The more I focused on game, the less action I took and more insecure women I would encounter by hiding my intentions.

The more I focused on being radically honest (within reason), the more success I had and more women I encountered who opened up with me too.

I've succeeded way more by ramping up the numbers game and aiming for someone being either a "fuck yes" or a "fuck no". I don't waste any time on "maybes" and just pump up the numbers I interact with.

I DO NOT read women's bios and find something witty to say because it leads me to overthink. I just copy paste the same line with minor variation and they either are down or they're not.

If someone saw my game, they wouldn't see it. But I still get laid purely from numbers and initial attraction and because I'm upfront I don't need to worry about shit tests. I'm below average looking but hit the gym and do all the fashion stuff that people ironically say doesn't make a difference.

When I see dating coaches or puas online and I see people criticizing their "game" (if you see JMULV's game it's pretty trash) but it gets the job done. He gets a bunch of number "leads" from different sources and then just moves the interaction forward. Admittedly he lies about his status which is morally questionable but it WORKS.

I'm not a natural but I also don't have game. I guess I'm like the average dude but I play the numbers game HARD and build up experience that way. The only difference is that I have self-respect and boundaries but no crazy frame battles and shit test competitions. My partner isn't my enemy.

Has anyone else found this to be the case for them? My "game" is TRASH yet I still have an efficient method of getting laid and dating women who are genuinely attracted in me and not timewasters.