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Living in San Francisco (and likely other urban areas) its not lonely at all, its actually super lively. The bonus to being single in your 30's is you hopefully have more $$ to do all the cool stuff you wanted to do in your 20's. As a guy, you can always have kids in your late 30's all the way through to your 50's, maybe beyond. So you're barely 1/3 through your life, why lock into something so quickly for the other 2/3s? You may be at that time when your friends are getting married and having t…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 05:30 AM
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Its a hit or miss technique. It depends on the kind of rapport you've built and how receptive she might be. One way to improve in this area: try to connect whatever the last thing you said that make her laugh to something you write in your txt message. You want her to recall that memory of you being funny.
/r/seduction27/10/14 02:36 AM
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Its called modeling and its recommended for more than just PUA. Sales, leadership, acting, etc. Binge watch youtube clips of whomever you want to emulate. Then practice in front of a mirror. Over time you'll be able to model your own mannerisms and possibly even speech characteristics after the people you're studying. I don't really see this as fake, it's a form of personal development.
/r/seduction27/10/14 02:27 AM
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There is no "better" regarding vague concepts of funny, weird, cool. Develop to be any one of these given the circumstances. That's part of what vibing is all about.
/r/seduction27/10/14 02:23 AM
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He should try hard to at least initially to break through all the other noise they're getting through that phone so they don't drop off. Until he breaks through to a meet, a kiss, a close, How many snaps, txts, IMs, status updates is she getting throughout the day? You gotta compete with that, at first. He said after a month they fade away, he's not being interesting/engaging to keep it alive. Also not escalating, escalating escalating.
/r/seduction25/10/14 01:48 AM
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Just examples of something I spent .1 seconds thinking about. And Not suggesting he use that example. I can't ghost write what he should say that would work for him. You say ramp it up, so what are some good examples of that?
/r/seduction25/10/14 01:44 AM
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If saying something more interesting than "how was your day" is too much of a facade for you, you're gonna have a bad time. Besides, once you make a connection (ie, bang), you don't have to keep that up.
/r/seduction24/10/14 05:43 AM
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Yeah and then regardless of outcome, , do this same thing 10 more times with 10 more women and you'll be fully cured.
/r/seduction24/10/14 02:05 AM
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Praying to God to change your personality for you. Good luck with that!
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 01:58 AM
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No, that is not what seduction is and it's why you're having such difficulty. Seduction is the art of persuasion. Your attitude is why you aren't getting laid.
/r/seduction24/10/14 01:55 AM
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1 How stuck are you in this area? It might be wise to keep you head down, save up some cash, and get out of there. Long term, it's gonna pay off big time. 2 Why do you feel the need to explain your academic theories? Why do you need to be fully understood? You expect them to be into your theories but you ask if you have to give a shit about a girl's interests? That's your issue right there. It's all about you.
/r/seduction24/10/14 01:20 AM
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Good morning? How was your day? That's really boring. Of course they'll drop off, it doesn't seem to escalate to anything interesting. Somethign like: OMG, this homeless dude just appeared at subway and starting peeing in the corner! I am officially the luckiest guy on the planet. I had the craziest dream last night. Midgets, koala bears, and Will Smith. Random shit (especially if true) is shocking/funny/interesting. Consider those clickbait headlines that stir something up so you just gotta fin…
/r/seduction24/10/14 01:11 AM
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They were dry humping dude on the first date, dude. That's not "hard to get" that's "last minute resistance" He's probably only one date away if he plays it right. But if he pounces to hard and too eagerly on date 2, she might back off even more if she thinks she's just a conquest. So yeah, play hard to get.
/r/seduction24/10/14 01:03 AM
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Yes. And guys should have this general attitude long before they decide to make a girl a part of their life. Yes, you have a full life of friends and activities that interest you and give you direction, purpose, and joy in your life. Yes, you find a girl that meets your standards and you decide she could be a great addition to an already great life. Your life's not great right now? Better fix that, cause a girlfriend isn't going to magically fix that for you.
/r/seduction23/10/14 01:53 PM
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If it's noticed like that, it's no longer kino, it's "trying to touch someone". I know it's hard to pull off at first without thinking about what you're doing. You'll get it soon enough.
/r/seduction23/10/14 10:42 AM
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Take the frame back from her. Play it cool on date 2 and don't push for anything. When it starts getting a little hot, push back a little. Act like she's the one that's pursuing the something physical/sexual, but you're playing coy, not so sure about it tonight. A little of that goes a long way though. Don't overplay that hand. Its like trying to grab a cat and making it sit on your lap, they just jump right off. Play it cool and the cat comes and jumps on your lap, then you push the cat off. Ca…
/r/seduction23/10/14 10:40 AM
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Cool. Well, remember good kino should not be "noticed" by anyone. Not you, not her, not the group. It should be natural. It's a subconscious message of rapport. To you, it should be like smiling and casually touching a relative on the shoulder while your're talking. It appears as nothing, but it means a lot subconsciously.
/r/seduction23/10/14 10:33 AM
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Simple: http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m6id59ZdCV1qkfmguo1_500.jpg
/r/seduction23/10/14 10:02 AM
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If a girl you're about to kiss addresses you as "bitch"... that's not a gray area.
/r/seduction23/10/14 10:01 AM
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I wouldn't send what you've suggested. One possibility: "what kind of trouble are you getting yourself into right now? ;)"
/r/seduction23/10/14 09:57 AM
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Then you have your answer... and you move on. Or do I need to cover every possible contingency?
/r/seduction23/10/14 09:55 AM
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My goal is a growth in my crotch extending toward my target.
/r/seduction23/10/14 06:54 AM
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Didn't have a moment. I suggest not waiting for one. Whatever aspect of fear you might have, you have to push through it knowing that you will get better at it. Every failure is a learning moment. Ever success is step forward. Then one morning you wake up next to someone new, you're not sure how you did it, but realize it's all starting to click. Rinse, repeat
/r/seduction23/10/14 06:04 AM
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Smile, approach, and her if you've got something on your face.
/r/seduction23/10/14 05:59 AM
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If I'm not mistaken, Tyler held that viewpoint and fucked Marla every which way. You can totally make the philosophy work for you - it's the I don't give a fuck attitude and it can initially attract certain types of bad boy seeking women. It's the I don't give a fuck about anything except finding a place to fuck you. It works for some, not all. If your philosophy leads you to feel you don't really want or need to get laid... well that's another problem altogether. Do you in fact what to have sex…
/r/seduction23/10/14 05:58 AM
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"Doesn't feel right." How does it not feel right? You don't feel right? They don't appear to feel right about your intro?
/r/seduction23/10/14 05:52 AM
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That's what many women find initially attractive, some more than others. After the "initial" is past, there's a unlimited variety of traits women can find attractive. Very subjective. Practical advice is to ask yourself out of this list which ones do you naturally embody. It may only be one or two, but that's fine. Make sure to amp those up so it's unmistakable that you possess these traits. Examples. Masculine. Do you go hiking or go rock climbing any time in the past few months. Well, talk abo…
/r/seduction23/10/14 05:48 AM
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Well if you're thinking about it this much, that could have shown during your interaction. General advice: don't take notice of where you're touching (smiling eyes to her) and make it brief. If you have to think about it or you're thinking about such a minor interaction after the fact, it can subconsciously affect you and how natural you seem when you're doing it. Specific to your description of what happened: if she didn't seem to notice, that's perfect. That's exactly what you want. What the o…
/r/seduction23/10/14 05:44 AM
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Get in a spot where its just you and her, is possible. Quiet, if possible. At some point when conversation drops and you're close enough to go in for a kiss: "You look like you're waiting for something..." Answer: Yes/maybe - go for the kiss No - "I dunno... you seem like you're having some very deep thoughts" And really, what girl doesn't have some drama going on in her head most times?
/r/seduction23/10/14 05:44 AM
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Details are a great contextual opener. Most women put a lot of thought into how they accessorize. In some cases there's a story behind their unique earrings or necklace or whatever and you can easily tease it out of them and use that as a basis for more game. You can always ask her where she got it because "my niece's birthday is coming up and she loves jewelry like that" Oh, from Thailand, that's awesome! I've always wanted to go to Thailand, what was it like?? Etc.
/r/seduction23/10/14 05:38 AM
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Point to her headphones - to pull them out. "You seem super focused and motivated, that's awesome. But I'm not really feeling it today, not sure why, just wondering what you're listening to?" It's a start. Gym game can be the long game because women are focused on their workout and apprehensive because they're constantly being checked out. Next time you see her you can ask her about her playlist again or report back on using her music to workout. Build some social proof when other women see you …
/r/seduction23/10/14 05:28 AM
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Don't over think it, it will show. Smiles. High fives. Clinking glasses. Hip bumps. Head bobbing. Etc. That can get you in if you're not stiff and overly concerned about your "moves". It's not Step Up the Movie... so don't treat it like it is. You'll be fine!
/r/seduction23/10/14 05:18 AM
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belive me you're not gonna tell me anything I don't already know. Nice... you seem to know it all already, yet asking for help on reddit. Social events aren't time sucks, its where you meet women who don't have their defenses cranked up to 11. It's not slow... you go to some gathering and start approaching guys and girls and talking. You know... like a normal human being who wants to meet people and doesn't view it as a complete chore in his hunt for puss. Day game opportunities could dwindle qu…
/r/seduction23/10/14 05:08 AM
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The most effective way? Have something on your mind other than "what to say to her" and then talk about that. Examples: Thinking about what to order, ask if she knows what's good at that spot. Love the song that's on, say it and ask if she likes it too? Think she's wearing a cool shirt, let her know it. Reading a good book, ask her is she reads books and then talk about the awesome book you're reading. Work with the context of where you're at, what you're doing, and whatever you're currently thi…
/r/seduction23/10/14 04:57 AM
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An entire year in college and can't "bother building a social circle"? That's the kind of general attitude that's not going to help you attract women and cure your blue ball problem. That advice you seem to already know people will tell you to join clubs and participate in activities, is good advice that you should take if you actually want to meet women naturally, get invited to parties, attract based on common interests, etc. Get over it and get out there.
/r/seduction23/10/14 04:47 AM
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Approach solo, almost always. If you're with a wing, he/she should swing by to give you some social proof and high praise. Return the favor.
/r/seduction23/10/14 04:32 AM
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