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| 2 | How it feels to not get married and live a single life?you need skills: - time management so you spend enough time on yourself to be satisfied - kid raising skills so they arent shitty - vetting skills to find a good partner so that the marriage isnt shitty and doesnt fall apart - skills to maintain the marriage - skills to make enough money to be able to afford a family on top of what you want to do - the frame to be ok with living with yourself and not be forced into a marriage (many here will say this is a prerequisite for a good marriage) | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/23 02:51 PM |
| 6 | Forgiving your FatherI've never resented my father or had trouble with him, so this baffles me. Who knew men had daddy issues too. Trying to understand how it would happen. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/23 02:45 PM |
| 1 | I'm addicted to cold approach, makes me miserableMy man... focus on self improvement | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/23 08:23 PM |
| 2 | I'm addicted to cold approach, makes me miserableMy man... focus on self improvement | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/23 08:23 PM |
| 4 | Chapter 3: The correct and incorrect way to “become” an Alpha maleYou may be right. I've already realized how a few of my habitual cues come across as beta. The prospect of quick progress here does excite me. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/21 01:11 PM |
| 5 | Chapter 3: The correct and incorrect way to “become” an Alpha maleYou've convinced me. This will take a lot of practice to implement properly, but all such things do. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/21 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Need serious help in getting sleep, you guys are the one place I have always come to - please help me - dependent on sleeping pills and have no hope of getting natural sleep againHonestly dude, this sounds more like a mental/anxiety issue. If you're anxious, force yourself to do all the things you know you should be doing and are putting off. Only when you begin being successful will your anxiety melt away. Doing the shit you're terrified to do is the only way out of an anxiety hole. Godspeed | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Need serious help in getting sleep, you guys are the one place I have always come to - please help me - dependent on sleeping pills and have no hope of getting natural sleep againI don't know the linking policy here so I removed linky components here and in my original comment. You can figure out the rest. Link: hormetheus com/fatigue/ Seems like you really do need to get some sleep. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Need serious help in getting sleep, you guys are the one place I have always come to - please help me - dependent on sleeping pills and have no hope of getting natural sleep againI dunno. The guy I linked up there doesn't like supplements based on undefined and impure contents (i.e. valerian root), and he knows what he's talking about. Read his article on supplements. You can try the 400mg magnesium, 1g taurine, 0.25-0.5mg melatonin before bed that he recommends, since they have CNS depressing effects. He says that more than a gram or two of melatonin will fuck your circadian rhythm for days, and I can confirm. But, these won't magically fix your sleep - you need to let … | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Need serious help in getting sleep, you guys are the one place I have always come to - please help me - dependent on sleeping pills and have no hope of getting natural sleep againI read in bed. The idea is that it distracts your brain, and you should fall asleep very quickly after you stop and turn the light off. Your brain doesn't get a chance to start being anxious and filled with thoughts again. If you read in another room then it's not quite as quick. Well, give it a try. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Need serious help in getting sleep, you guys are the one place I have always come to - please help me - dependent on sleeping pills and have no hope of getting natural sleep againIf your mind is racing and that's the reason you can't sleep, try laying in bed and reading until you're tired, then just turning off light and rolling over. Repeat until it works | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Need serious help in getting sleep, you guys are the one place I have always come to - please help me - dependent on sleeping pills and have no hope of getting natural sleep againYou won't know what's working and not if you do a bunch of things within a few days of each other. And I agree with that other guy that less is better | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Need serious help in getting sleep, you guys are the one place I have always come to - please help me - dependent on sleeping pills and have no hope of getting natural sleep againTry your stuff for a longer time, it will probably take around a week for your body to adjust to each. Read all this and get your hormone levels checked out: hormetheus com/fatigue/ He talks about melatonin in the supplements article. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 01:12 PM |
| 1 | [Need advice] Friends do not support my goal of becoming a self improvement YouTuberTrying to make it as a youtuber is a very high risk career choice. I hope you understand that. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Still Not Over my Ex After 6 MonthsIt's fine, just give it more time and keep improving | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 08:49 PM |
| 0 | Girlfriend wants to know all of my whereabouts and activities on the days that I don't see her. How much should I tell her?"busy" | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Should I F a girl whom I'm not at all interested in given that I'm a virgin?Use it for practice telling her what to do during sex. Don't try to lie to yourself or sugarcoat it for her if you aren't enjoying her body during sex. If it isn't working, tell her to suck you off or do whatever. Worst case you can just leave | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Studying with 18-21yo girlsGood shit | /r/askTRP | 13/03/21 05:59 PM |
| 1 | An Unconventional Approach to Time ManagementOnly person that can hold you accountable is you | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/21 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Beyond willpower: a simple philosophy to stop struggling with your own mind, to stop living blurry days in a blurry life.Master-slave idea very interesting. But out of these, 7 is actually the most impactful to me. I will print this text and post it somewhere visible. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/21 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Does blue collar work lower your smv?Not necessarily | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Devestated about being rejected for my height, how to forget itIs this bait? | /r/askTRP | 28/12/20 01:46 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone else get random spurts of feeling depressed?I think if you keep chugging away at your goals, it'll stop eventually. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/20 04:14 PM |
| 3 | Worried about my brotherHe's focused on succeeding, which is more important than (and leads to) being good with women, but clearly you don't see redpill that way. If you're really concerned, you can set up something for him to get a but of experience, but don't shift his focus too much. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 05:43 AM |
| 5 | Worried about my brotherHe sounds like he's doing fine. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 05:07 AM |
| 0 | I have a serious baby face. What to do?Lose weight, chew two packs of gum a day, plastic surgery. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 05:04 AM |
| 3 | Sex started off great, but now my dick isn’t workingTry these | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Interview with an OnlyFans girlYou set my expectations too high.. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/20 01:07 AM |
| 3 | I think i will always remian a beta no matter how hard i try to become an alphaSidebar | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 04:05 AM |
| 5 | How would you reply to “yes one day soon.”That's not a "fuck yes". | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 03:58 AM |
| 2 | My supposed “close” friend, breaking the bro code. How to handle?I'm sorry to tell you this, but Ben is not your friend. Just part ways | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 03:51 AM |
| 3 | Why do I need Adderall To Be My BestI second this. I had therapy that basically amounted to meditation; it was designed to increase certain brainwaves related to focus, and it made a huge difference - more than drugs ever did. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 03:40 AM |
| 7 | Making $120,000/yr autopilot. What should I do with my life?Get over your dislike of people. Go out and talk to someone interesting. That means join a club you're interested in | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 03:22 AM |
| 1 | How do I get him to see me as more than a “plate”I hope you all realize this is a male | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Age disconnect issues?Your ex probably got "he wants to settle" vibes from you whereas she's still interested in riding the CC | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 07:50 PM |
| 0 | Is there a purpose for male IOIs?Read Models, read sidebar | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Ex Boyfriend blows up a new plates phoneI've read a post or two to that effect on here | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/20 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Gf said she will propose today.Sounds like your GF is very unhappy with the relationship and will likely swing soon. She wants certain things in the relationship and you didn't give her any of it - no kid, no marriage. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/20 07:18 PM |
| 2 | What are your absolute must read books other than those most commonly mentioned here?Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 07:29 PM |
| 32 | I don't want 100's ot girls. I just want to feel loved by one.You get confidence by investing in yourself and becoming someone that you respect, not from external validation from a female | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 06:04 PM |
| 1 | My "Zeroed Out" Story - Advice RequestedThank you for posting this. That woman ruined your life for no reason other than being a woman. It's really a shame they're this way. Let your story serve as an example to the young men of today. As for advice, you should look out for yourself first. Whether that means developing a career helping other men grapple with these issues, or something else, you deserve to put yourself first. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Do women care about men platonically?This is the only correct answer | /r/askTRP | 19/09/20 10:58 PM |
| 4 | Has any progress happened in the last ten years?It doesn't matter; you can't do anything about the world. You can change how you react to it. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/20 03:18 AM |
| 16 | After making great strides in my development, with a naked woman in front of me for the first time, I couldn’t keep it up and do the deed. How do I get past this?You've done an amazing job of faking this entire thing to yourself and to the world. You're going to have to start caring less about getting laid, in order to get laid. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/20 08:13 PM |
| 1 | i feel like my relatively new LTR is about to say "i love you" and im not ready to say it back.Seconded | /r/askTRP | 08/07/20 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Lose libido completely after masturbating. Don't even feel like meeting up with girlsReal advice up in this shit | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Why am I so fucking afraid of cold approaching a girl?Try aiming for failure. Then you'll realize failing isn't so bad. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 10:53 PM |
| 8 | « I don’t like muscles »I'm at the stage where I'm wanting to up my workouts from 3 days/week to more, but I don't know how to proceed. What would you recommend? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 10:32 PM |
| 5 | How to respond to girls who like to subtly brag about their sex life and or the attention they get from other guys?He spends a lot of time chasing skirts. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Am I being fucking stupid?I second the therapist idea. Or perhaps just some significant time allocated to self-reflection. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 07:49 PM |
| 3 | is anyone having a hard time finding male friends after you got muscular and better good looking ?I also find the roles thing very interesting, and want to hear more. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 04:47 PM |
| 6 | High Quality ProblemsI'm with this guy, it's a really astute description of party social interactions done well. I don't see why people are shitting on it | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/20 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Are there any of you who legitimately and permanently fixed their posture? If so, how did you do it?That makes sense. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Are there any of you who legitimately and permanently fixed their posture? If so, how did you do it?Need a bit of clarity on arms straight/bent and where exactly they're going | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Are there any of you who legitimately and permanently fixed their posture? If so, how did you do it?I'm curious on your point about the flat-footed shoes. Would wearing running shoes with high arch support fuck squat posture up badly? | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Are there any of you who legitimately and permanently fixed their posture? If so, how did you do it?OP watch this video, it has specific exercises for your neck to fix posture: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wQylqaCl8Zo As for your back issues etc. he might have some other videos for those. One thing that comes to mind in particular is sway back, he says you need to consciously shift your upright support muscles to be your glutes and abs, not just your hip flexors and lower back. Stuff like that. I think that's the source of your issue. You need to consciously shift your usage of various musc… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Blowing It UpI think this needs to be said more often here. Redpill is distilled and extreme, but if you apply anything in the extreme, it's bad. It's as bad as being 100% bluepill. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/19 03:09 PM |
| 5 | I'm 23 years old and in one month I'll be a manager at a large manufacturing site, what are some rp principles that would benefit my management style.All of this. Especially the last line. If it ain't broke, don't fix it. Also, learn eventually to plan contingencies and CYA. Just as a general rule. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Why you should quit porn. Porn is controlling you.Actually, yeah, I didn't say it explicitly. I agree with moderation in most things, but not porn. Watch ALL the porn! /s | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/19 01:41 PM |
| 10 | Why you should quit porn. Porn is controlling you.I agree with your general premise of moderation, but you're doing a shit job of arguing your point. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/19 12:41 PM |
| 2 | My relationship is on the verge of collapse and I am a former redpiller, but I am also able to look at all my failures from the red point of viewRedpill/bluepill extends to the female too. If you start as a red pilled man, and get a relationship that way, with a feminine redpilled woman, it will only last as long as you display red pilled behavior. You need to find a woman who is at least partially bluepilled and believes in commitment, not just attraction. This won't happen when you meet women with purely a redpilled approach. This still isn't a good approach, but it's your best shot | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/19 04:20 PM |
| 1 | I've never been a true red piller but I agree with a lot of the philosophy. Anyway, this pissed me off and I just wanted to share my story, what are your thoughts?Because you look like relationship material to them | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 12:45 PM |
| 1 | I became a BLUE PILL fairy!Read sidebar, all of it. Read it well and process it. It will take hours. Main sub's sidebar too. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 03:54 PM |
| 12 | Asking a girl to come straight over to study?Do it | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 01:23 AM |
| 5 | InsecurityProbably an extremely wide set of genes that would be difficult to remove without fucking up what makes a human human | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/19 11:26 AM |
| 4 | InsecurityWow. Extraordinary clarity of thought on this topic. Thank you. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/19 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Why is TRP Against Marriage?Seems like you understand well enough. I'm open to further discussion if you come up with anything else later. I am also developing my view on this. I am of the tentative opinion that it will be prohibitively difficult to find a woman who gets it. Extensive vetting would be needed, I suppose. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Why is TRP Against Marriage?I deleted comment because my other reply is better. *I meant skewed against the male, of course. As for love... I think that is outside the scope of TRP. Apply TRP where applicable. I can't help you with the love bit. Keep in mind that love is moralistic, and the woman needs to be capable of this kind of thinking. This is DISTINCT from infatuation, hormones, the "honeymoon phase". After the honeymoon phase ends, you become bored with your partner, etc. but you continue to live together, that's… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 04:27 AM |
| 10 | Why is TRP Against Marriage?It's not that we can't strive to be better than our animalistic brain. TRP is simply realism. It's a fact of life that animalistic desires influence people. TRP deals with recognizing that, and gives you the tools to manage it. Even if your goal is marriage, you will deal with shit tests from your gf/wife, jealous behavior, loss of attraction, so on and so forth. Even if your SO has the capability of recognizing these urges, and restraining herself (introspection is difficult, even for men, and … | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Why is TRP Against Marriage?Well, first off, marriage is just super skewed in favor of the highest earner in the relationship, which is usually the male. TRP deals with the part before marriage. Marriage is purely a moralistic construct. Not everyone in TRP is willing to put up with that or would even consider it to be a goal. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 03:43 AM |
| 1 | How can I stop hating myself?Look for role models that you admire. Strive to become like those people. After long enough, you will be able to admire yourself and what you've achieved, as well. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 01:25 PM |
| 33 | TRP teaching us how to get laid.This parody is spot on lmao. I just watched that movie a few months ago. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/19 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Why do normal women dislike me after I became muscular and lean?Mad V shape | /r/askTRP | 31/07/19 12:09 AM |
| 0 | Skinny boy in need of workout adviceI'd suggest stronglifts 5x5 to get started, it is dead simple and a short workout in the gym. The hardest part is preparing by carefully researching the proper form for each exercise. Stronglifts' website has thorough explanations of each exercise. Jeremy Ethier on youtube has some good videos regarding common mistakes for most of the exercises in Stronglifts. The second hardest part is the first week - actually hauling your ass to the gym, picking up the iron, and doing it. The third hardest pa… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Do masculine women have better genesI'm trying to figure out how to get masculine sons and feminine daughters without getting masculine daughters or feminine sons The genes responsible for secondary sex characteristics are from the X and Y chromosomes. Unless you're unlucky, your kids will have the ones they're supposed to. Social conditioning is your best bet. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Do masculine women have better genesNo. Social conditioning. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 01:48 AM |
| 3 | Failure to Launch - What should be my next course of action?This won't be very helpful, but... Applied for digital marketing jobs with a video application attached - no responses 4/5 (chasing up with 1 employer but they're giving me the run around) They won't hire you. If they wanted to, this would be much easier. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 02:18 PM |
| 2 | How to switch from aloof and quiet to outgoing and charismatic?Sit back and be quiet, but listen. Show that you're paying attention by asking brief questions, or sharing an amusing anecdote. Those small bits are enough to appear engaged. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 11:25 PM |
| 2 | I failed! LTR asks for permission to "have a coffee" with a fuckbuddy she used to date before. I didn't react well, how can I save this?I've always been confused on what a father should teach their daughter, but I see now. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 04:36 AM |
| 3 | A girl was clearly mean to me at the office, in front of everyone. Still not sure if I played it right and wtf actually happenedThis has to be a troll post... | /r/askTRP | 04/05/19 02:24 AM |
| 1 | ‘No More Mr. Nice Guy’ talks about The Integrated Male and one of the qualities being ‘he has a strong sense of self.’ What does that mean?I have no clue lol. If you get a job, you will be earning money, which enables you to survive while you think about your true path. If you can just mooch off your parents forever, then I guess you don't need to. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Jack of all trades but masters of noneThing is, self-satisfaction isn't an ambitious goal, and I think I should have one. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 02:46 PM |
| 11 | I find meeting and gaming women more fun than actual sex itselfSupposed to reduce systemic inflammation | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 10:49 PM |
| 2 | ‘No More Mr. Nice Guy’ talks about The Integrated Male and one of the qualities being ‘he has a strong sense of self.’ What does that mean?My father isn't dead yet, and is bluepilled with absolutely minimal expectations or guidance for me. So this didn't occur to me at all. Thanks for your input. Though, now I do recall that I disappointed him many times before I reached high school. At that point I guess I met his expectations, or he just decided to let me do whatever I wanted and I'd learn anything else on my own. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 09:55 PM |
| 2 | ‘No More Mr. Nice Guy’ talks about The Integrated Male and one of the qualities being ‘he has a strong sense of self.’ What does that mean?Could you give a bit more detail or recommend any resources on ego investment? This is something I should probably look at. Thanks for the suggestion. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 07:20 PM |
| 10 | ‘No More Mr. Nice Guy’ talks about The Integrated Male and one of the qualities being ‘he has a strong sense of self.’ What does that mean?Glad it helped. I'd encourage you to check out the book I mentioned. Not standard TRP fare but I found it useful. Another way to state what I said: you'll subconsciously bitch at yourself for not taking action when you know you should, which makes you anxious and jacks up your cortisol. Start listening to your emotions - if you're anxious, why? What were you too scared to do? Don't let fear hold you back. Fear of fucking up, fear of being excluded, fear of being made fun of. It will SUCK to … | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 07:12 PM |
| 27 | ‘No More Mr. Nice Guy’ talks about The Integrated Male and one of the qualities being ‘he has a strong sense of self.’ What does that mean?This is a pretty good answer, but I don't think it covers the entire problem. The other bit is knowing your Mission and pursuing it (as brought up in the other post by grwyscxle). But for this bit.. here's my thoughts: Once you make enough changes that your "heart", or subconscious mind, is satisfied with who you are, or once you're set on your path to where you want to go, and taking enough actions that your heart will be satisfied with the progress, then your heart won't bitch and complain a… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Jack of all trades but masters of noneThis is a good point. I became good at cooking, but I only cook sporadically as a hobby. If I make a career change to cooking, I might still be lacking those coping skills and crash&burn eventually. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Jack of all trades but masters of noneI am quite similar to you, OP. (USA, 24M) Like you say, I craved validation when I was young and continue to do so. I can only conclude that much more self-reflection is needed to determine my true goals. The skills I've chosen to hone (cooking and my scientific research job) were originally chosen for their ability to impress people. I do enjoy the knowledge, challenges, and mastery involved with both of them, but really they were just chosen so I can be validated. Today, I can demonstrate my s… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Workout question: as a man, how do I build an attractive butt?(Micro)biologist here. I'd be interested in the full explanation. Any sources for me to read? | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Agree and amplify: why it is such an important toolAstute analysis. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/19 04:31 PM |
| 9 | How to not care what others think?Wow. Highly applicable to my own mindset. This is quite elucidating. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 01:25 PM |
| 8 | I lost frame, what now? Including a fucking hilarious story insideNow this is the quality content I'm subbed for /s | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Why i randomly start to feel like i cant force myself to learn more?fluctuations in your blood sugar can cause attention issues and plenty of other problems, sure. If you want to try changing your diet for a more even blood sugar level, I suggest eating only complex carbs (black beans, kidney beans, garbanzo beans) or cutting out carbs altogether. Look up the "slow carb" diet, or the keto diet. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 03:34 AM |
| 1 | LTR HELP!Give her space / demote to plate (your choice), but don't give her any money. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 10:02 PM |
| 2 | How to internalize what you read?Check out the article "How to Read a Book: The Ultimate Guide by Mortimer Adler" on fs.blog . tl;dr, write in the margins to summarize or "argue" with the author. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on ONS wanting to do it without a condom?Try lelo hex condoms, they're the best and thinnest I've used. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 03:56 PM |
| 4 | Red Pill Men who don’t drink alcohol. How do you meet new friends ? Do you still go out? Do women act different towards you ?legbeards, that's a good one | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 02:13 PM |
| 10 | How much did this woman shit test me on this date? And does she like me?It sounds like you're just desperate to get laid. I think your chances with this woman are very low at this point. You've already established yourself as a weak beta, so if you attempt to pull any red pill things on her, she'll get angry or otherwise show resistance. I'd still encourage you to meet up with her, try red pill things, and see how she reacts. I suspect it would be better for you than just tapping out at this point. TRP may not be the right subreddit for you. TRP is first and forem… | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 02:53 AM |
| 9 | Blue pill fantasyYou don't need to fuck random girls if you don't want to. Take parts of TRP that enable you to build the relationship that you want, on your terms, and keep your woman loyal. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 02:41 AM |
| 29 | How much did this woman shit test me on this date? And does she like me?You got pulled into her frame. Once you submitted to her, then she started acting nice. You were played like a flute. Your frame is nonexistent. She's just using you. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Struggling with having A LOT of 6-7’s plates but feeling attracted to 8’s -9’s and bummed I can’t plate themThere have been some great answers already, just adding my thoughts to the pile: We established that you're pedestralizing the "bookworm" type girls who aren't actively involved in the sexual marketplace. My guess is that this is just because they're harder to get. As they say, "the grass is greener on the other side". Do you actually find these girls more attractive, or are you just tired of fucking girls who ride the CC? Something to think about. Also, if these girls who aren't involved in the… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Quitting my Obsessive Game AddictionIt's amazing how similar this is to my own story growing up. My addiction isn't quite as bad as yours though. I am very conscious of time wasted now, yet that still didn't break the habits, but it planted the seed I'm at this stage. When you come back in 30 days, let me know how it went and if you still think cold-turkey was the proper approach. And tell me about what other things you found to do in your spare time. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/19 05:42 PM |
| 1 | "I've noticed you always ask a lot of questions but never tell me anything about yourself"You're not gonna like this answer, but keep the thoughtful discussion to men only. Did you read the sidebar post named "women are the teenager in the house" or something similar? | /r/askTRP | 09/02/19 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Is it a green flag if she wants kids early?Neat. Go for it then. Just plan to get zero income from your wife after the first kid is born, if it still looks good then you'll be fine. I'd probably still wait a bit. Getting a few hundred grand ahead will make a big difference in the long run - well, you're an accountant, so you probably know that better than I do. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Is it a green flag if she wants kids early?I don't see any red flags in your relationship or her wanting to have kids (you want kids too). However, 21 is rather early for this. There's many factors besides just TRP tenets. How's your career/personal finances coming along? Having kids is very, very expensive. Personally, I plan to wait until I'm at least 28 before looking to settle down. Consider having your eggs/sperm frozen and stored for artificial insemination later. You'll run a lower risk of age-related problems with your babies. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 04:50 AM |
| 7 | Why do girls say my first name so much.Seems like a normal occurrence. More context needed. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 04:43 AM |
| 7 | No Nut 2019You're craving dopamine. Fap gives you dopamine. Instead of just denying yourself and feeling like shit, develop some healthy habits or productive hobbies to give you that dopamine rush. Thus, you develop a better routine and don't waste time fapping. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/19 03:53 AM |
| 3 | Should I continue education in my current field of work or learn something new ?What the chef said. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 06:36 PM |
| 1 | I just don't talk a lot... and I don't know how to fix itThe most important thing is to show that you're listening by commenting or asking an insightful question/clarification once in a while. Then just limit your long-winded talking to high-quality stuff. Works fine for me. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 01:26 PM |
| 3 | Is this a unicorn?I read OP's post and this is the best advice. Just be aware of the red flags, for the future. It sounds like your natural responses so far have been in line with what TRP suggests. But keep in mind that if you make changes (act more dominant, etc) then she may not approve of these changes and will then lose attraction. She may be comfortable with you now because she knows you won't go looking for other partners in the meantime. If you start doing that, or start 'dread game', she may see that… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 08:48 PM |
| 3 | What advice would you give a 25-26 year old who still lives with his parents and has a hard time finding a job?Abundance mentality applies to interviews as well. If you seem desperate, they won't hire you. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Intimacy issuesThis is the fallacy that I see much of TRP fall into. Some guys are fine with spinning plates ad nauseum, other people like you want to have a "fulfilling relationship". You could argue that from an evolutionary standpoint, this type of emotionally fulfilling relationship shouldn't exist, and is only a result of the bluepilled narrative on "true love". I think it's an inevitable part of the human condition. There have been stories throughout history of both kinds of men. Great leaders who had ha… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 03:13 PM |
| 96 | What is it with women and their frame recovery after a breakup?This, emphasis on game other women | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with angerfor example one with your friend, keep that justified anger and use it as a force to improve yourself, so you don't make those mistakes again. Once you're certain that you'd never make those mistakes again, maybe it'll be easier to move on from that. for 2, i don't really know. My mentality is super chill and this never happens to me. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 10:42 PM |
| 1 | How to tell when a low SMV girl is being rude because she thinks you're too high SMV or you're too smvCare to elaborate? | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 06:37 PM |
| 80 | I fuck a girl, now what?Your mission > pussy. Find one. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 03:47 PM |
| 4 | Which realisations have shattered/changed your world view the most? (Trp or not)The new immunotherapies they have for cancer now are far and away superior to anything we had previously. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Exhausted when I wake up earlyYou should get used to it eventually. If you wake up before your alarm then it's fine. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Does the anger phase last long?This is good advice | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Am I doing well for my age/situation? I have no friends and nobody to bounce shit off of.You're doing better than most, as far as "progress in life". You can shift focus to increasing your human interactions. Humans are inherently social creatures, so find some buddies to do stuff with once in a while. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 03:42 PM |
| 26 | What did you do to fix this posture?What am I looking at? lmao | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 10:32 PM |
| 5 | Why do women try to show off men they fuck? (advice)Some people on here would tell you to next her, since she is not acting monogamous to you. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 05:59 PM |
| 162 | I feel like unless I got a vasectomy, there's no way I could ever trust anybody in a relationship if it comes down to contraception. What to do?Wear a condom | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 05:57 PM |
| 6 | 3 year ex girlfriend broke me.About this relationship, it's over. 100%. There is no going back from what she did. Even if she does come back to you it will be temporary and your suffering will be unnecessarily prolonged. Believe me, many of us were there, many times. Delete/block her everywhere. Accepting this is the best place to start OP. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 11:43 PM |
| 1 | What are your essential smartphone apps?Okay, thanks! | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 09:53 PM |
| 1 | What are your essential smartphone apps?I like Feedly. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 05:32 PM |
| 2 | What are your essential smartphone apps?I have a decent amount of disposable income, and I've set up automatic transfers (30% of my income) to my retirement/investment accounts. I have an emergency cash reserve already. I tend to let my disposable income accumulate to a few thousand, then either make a bulk transfer to my investments or buy larger ticket items that I want. Do you think I would still benefit from this app? | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 05:29 PM |
| 5 | What are your experiences with introducing The Redpill to friends?I wouldn't recommend it, my friends have been surprisingly unreceptive to TRP despite a long history of enjoying philosophical discussions. As others have said, lead by example, and maybe disseminate tidbits in a slow controlled manner. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 04:33 AM |
| 2 | Should i drink a lot on my work night out?Drink well with your mates, not when women are around | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 10:14 PM |
| 1 | I kinda blew up on my mom... nearing a rock bottomThis is the solution that my friend has adopted, after many years trying to talk reason into his mother. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 05:03 PM |
| 5 | I kinda blew up on my mom... nearing a rock bottomI have a friend raised by a single mother. Your story reminds me of him. Your mother will NEVER fess up to her crimes as you see them (doing a shit job of raising you, being irresponsible with her partners, etc). In her self-righteous view, she did the best she could and you should be grateful to her and be her subservient child forever. Attempting to use logic to make her see her mistakes is an exercise in futility. That's how my friend's mom is, anyways. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Cheating wife tries to get husband to agree to getting pregnant through a "sperm donor"Y'know, that's not a half bad idea. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/12/18 12:57 AM |
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