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Most feminists argue that men don't have to choose between children or career. They can have both. Therein is the male privilege they say. That's where I disagree and to that I say just be childfree. If you want a career so badly then don't have kids.
/r/MensRights06/05/24 10:54 PM
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Dude was getting cancelled already for being a quack, sponsoring unscientific products and general malpractice with being biased for profit, there are a bunch of videos on this. The fact that he's a serial cheater, a sociopath and a herpes spreader was just the cherry on top on a shit sandwich. Your boy is morally corrupt and untrustworthy all around.
/r/MensRights24/04/24 01:44 AM
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Huberman spread herpes and was a serial cheater. Why are you protecting him?
/r/MensRights23/04/24 05:44 PM
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Banning you for a not all men comment is cringe. But to run to a known antifeminist subreddit isn't a great look either
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/24 09:04 PM
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Yeah, most people didn't even vote. And the fact that there were a relatively high amount of white female voters for Trump actually caused a huge rift in the feminist discourse and a backlash against "white feminism"
/r/MensRights14/02/23 01:34 PM
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This thread shows a lot of support to end male circumcision in infants/children I think non-feminist Christians and people who just blindingly accept societal traditions will be more difficult to convince.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 01:29 PM
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Most people don't because the word itself is gendered
/r/MensRights14/02/23 12:51 PM
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I'm not clicking on any links you send me, thanks! In fact I'll just block you now to save you any more trouble
/r/MensRights14/02/23 02:57 AM
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I get to talk about it if I want to. Gender slurs should have no place in a movement that is egalitarian and pro human dignity. Calling people gender slurs is never okay.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 02:56 AM
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So you don't care about the feelings of others? That's how you live your life?
/r/MensRights14/02/23 02:51 AM
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Why should I listen to someone who calls me that? No, I won't. Thanks.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 02:50 AM
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I see. I still don't think we should use slurs that have a gendered or bigoted history of usage. There are ways to say that she was an awful person that doesn't require sexist slurs so that this space is less polarizing and more inclusive to allies. But I understand OC was just quoting someone. Could have used some quotation marks though
/r/MensRights13/02/23 10:07 PM
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You're not wrong about that, it's just that gender slurs hold a lot of bigoted baggage. Like I'm not going to use racist, transphobic or homophobic slurs on people that piss me off. So I call everyone assholes or "pos" instead, it's more gender neutral that way. And for this movement it would help introduce different genders to the cause if they aren't worried about being called a sexist slur if they disagree with something. Communication is the most important thing when it comes to political mo…
/r/MensRights13/02/23 09:41 PM
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Lol Idc if I sound cheesy. I think everyone wins when we establish a standard of civility and inclusion so that it becomes easier to find common ground. Everyone is too divided, and that kind of language only makes things worse and doesn't help anyone
/r/MensRights13/02/23 09:27 PM
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Words can be hurtful and using slurs can alienate people. When someone uses a slur, it signals that they don't care about another person's feelings
/r/MensRights13/02/23 09:13 PM
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If your mom abused you then it's because she is an abuser. Even if she was abused as well, the blame is on her, not you. It was never your fault. You were only a child. I am so sorry you went through that. What she did is horrible
/r/MensRights13/02/23 08:49 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/MensRights13/02/23 08:33 PM
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Read my reply here
/r/MensRights13/02/23 08:32 PM
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Still a gender slur, friend. We don't need gendered slurs in order to get the world to understand why men's issues matter. In fact, we do a better job of convincing others to join the movement for egalitarianism if we don't alienate others
/r/MensRights13/02/23 08:31 PM
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Male victims of domestic abuse are ignored, belittled and revictimized by society. I hope the younger generations are working to help open up the shelters for male victims. I donated this year to the men and families shelter in Toronto and hope that similar shelters are opened around the world
/r/MensRights13/02/23 08:01 PM
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You're right, inclusive language matters. Let me fix that
/r/MensRights13/02/23 06:46 PM
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Agreed, I think they might have made more sense in the past but now we are at a point where we need more gender neutral shelters. https://menandfamilies.org/familyshelter/ this one is a men's shelter and until there are more gender neutral shelters I support the opening of more men's shelters
/r/MensRights13/02/23 06:39 PM
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I love parties. I'm usually at ones where no one is using slurs though. People who use slurs are not my kind of people to party with
/r/MensRights13/02/23 06:36 PM
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Yeah, and both those things proved your conspiracy theory wrong. Enjoy your day
/r/MensRights13/02/23 06:28 PM
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Sounds like a really shoddy conspiracy theory though. Cases like Casey Anthony getting international fame, and a simple google search is proof that there's no secret society trying to protect you from knowing about infanticide. There are plenty of sources.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 06:24 PM
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This is great advice. Thanks
/r/MensRights13/02/23 06:09 PM
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Source for that claim?
/r/MensRights13/02/23 06:08 PM
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I don't think it's that deep personally, definitely not enough evidence to think they hate fathers. I think boycotting the NFL over this is a huge overreaction but to each their own
/r/MensRights13/02/23 06:07 PM
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If you believe this then I agree. If sex is all you're after then do not get into the straight dating scene.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 06:02 PM
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Ok but "bitch" is a gender slur and we shouldn't use slurs. Like we don't use the f word if a murderer is gay Edit: donate to this men's shelter here in https://menandfamilies.org/familyshelter/ And read up on gender slurs and how they differ by gender in this great article here. Hostility divides, empathy unites. Peace brothers
/r/MensRights13/02/23 05:54 PM
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Also let's not forget that men also benefit from abortion rights. Plenty of husbands and casual sex havers who are male and mutually agree to not have children (or postpone children for later)
/r/MensRights04/05/22 11:12 AM
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Its not attending that's the problem lmao what
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:44 AM
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For very few dudes, not all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:42 AM
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But true
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 02:41 AM
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glad you're childfree then because by keeping male nature a secret you'd be doing them a massive disservice lol kidding you'll probably just teach them the necessary shit anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:47 PM
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Nope I’m childfree for life Its this deliberate lack of engagement with hypothetical arguments to deny what literally every single person knows about male nature that i'm talking about. I know everything I need to know about you with respect to this conversation: you're not being honest about male nature. that is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:29 PM
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Well said. So many will always find a way to bypass the spirit of the law because what they're missing is the empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:49 PM
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So before that point he isn’t sure that he’s desirable? Yes. Honestly I feel some people here just get emotional at reading certain words, and lose all objectivity when they read it. Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:45 PM
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There's no point dude. Men will tell their daughters one thing, tell their red pill fellas the same thing, but argue with women an entirely different version of reality. The gaslighting and denial is part of male sexual strategy. You want all women except your kin to lower their guard around men. Its in your best interest to play dumb. Edit: reddit isnt allowing me to reply to user below so I'll type it here The important thing is for every woman to learn the generalizations, nuance comes second…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:43 PM
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It sounds like insecurity to me IMO. You sirs do not like competition and it shows
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:25 PM
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Yeah I bet that'll keep her safe 😊👍
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:23 PM
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That's going too far, statistically you shouldn't have to warn her about yourself but most girls gets warned about "uncles". Male nature is so dangerous most parents dont even fully trust their own brothers around daughters 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:22 PM
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Judging by the overwhelming male responses to my comment I'd say they also get gaslit by men who want to deny deny deny but i agree that falling for their lies comes down to naivety and stupidity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:18 PM
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Tbh they're not clueless at all, they just play dumb about it when its convenient. But when they all become fathers to daughters they start talking about getting shotguns and warn their daughters about the truth about men. Predictable behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:16 PM
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Exactly, because of what I said. "a good man who will stick around" and not abandon their own kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:14 PM
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Because things can be true and be a simplification. Men do tend to hide their emotions. Men do display more anger than any other negative emotion. These are both truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:57 AM
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And thats both a toxic and emotional response
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:45 AM
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Anger isnt just violent aggression and murder. Insults, mean jokes, raising of the voice, tone, cold shoulder, sabotage, thinly veiled and overt threats, among others are all extremely common ways men display anger, often with no repercussions at all. Theres a whole range in each of these too. So many men routinely display their emotions and don't even recognize it as such because anger in men is wrongly misclassified as not being an emotional response.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 09:42 AM
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Amazing. You'll be sacrificing your own kid's safety to be politically correct. Women aren't stupid because most of us have been taught about male nature as kids. What we're not taught we learn by observation. But parental protection and warnings go a long way, i hope for your sake you don't learn that the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:56 AM
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Yeah but thats not gonna protect your teenaged daughter at a frat party now is it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:33 AM
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Most men don't get to pick
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:21 AM
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🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:19 AM
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I'm not taking the angry man bait, if you want a thread on male nature create a post abt it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 07:18 AM
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Oh yeah definitely young Christian Bale was hot af
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:32 AM
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All the things you'll want to warn your daughter about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:08 AM
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No, absolutely not. Its a complete dealbreaker for me. Even an ex red piller would be a no because I would never be able to trust them. There's plenty of other decent people out there to meet, there's no good reason to do something so damaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:15 AM
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Because if he reached a high n count it means he has proof that hes desirable. The validation doesn't come from a single woman telling him hes "the best shes ever had", he knows hes the shit, how else would he have such a high n count?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:57 AM
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Truth is all women are lying. You say you don't want to wife up "hoes" but you do anyway because most of the time you're none the wiser. Most women live in cities because most people live in cities. Its extremely easy to go on dates, try a new dick out. You only know about the dumb girls who aren't smart about covering their tracks or fuck too many guys in the same social circle. Those ones are just plain stupid. But the average girl these days are fucking more guys than most guys are happy abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:48 AM
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I still wouldn't really agree since all the British men I know are with British women except for one, the minor dwarfism dude. Its a problem cause i wanted my husband to have at least one single friend for a single friend of mine but all of them are either engaged or in LTRs. Minor dwarfism dude has dated some foreign girls on his trips to South America but they never work out either
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:33 AM
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Unless they're incredibly naive or have a history as an abuse victim, i dont see how anyone else can get to age 22+ and not already know what they need to know about men's nature
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:26 AM
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Idk what you mean tbh, the only guys i know who care this much are either really young, really inexperienced or both. Also don't be so intimidated by women with degrees, its just knowledge, and it'll help you both raise a family someday. Also spend the money you're using on paying ppl to cheat on your math exam on a tutor and that'll help you get your degree way better im not kidding, cheating on your homework in HS will not help your future education
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:16 AM
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Yessir 😊 love of my fucking life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:20 AM
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Defs not sharing lmao, maybe yall put more effort with yanks idk all i know is i was floored, i didnt realize there are places where men routinely cook for themselves and it tastes good and aren't boring in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:23 AM
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Idk dude i think you're reading too much into what I'm saying. I'm oversimplifying shit because its a reddit comment, I'm not writing an essay on British sex culture. In my experience American men are shittier at sex, and cooking. Its not that deep. Would still love to see the data on sexusl satisfaction though! Sounds interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:01 AM
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Lmao yeah i know the stereotype abt British cooking but you're right abt Americans being uniquely terrible. I just want to get the word out to my fellow women that they can find competent and attractive men abroad. Its not just the accent either. I think British men are raised in a sex positive society and by the time they are 21 they usually have more experience and they fuck like they love seeing women enjoy themselves. Im down to see the data but in my experience Americans don't have shit on …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:54 AM
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Yeah in my experience British men can and do a hell of a lot more cooking than American men, they do it without you asking them to, and they do it well. Not comparing with French, Italian or anywhere else, only with American and Canadian men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:47 AM
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Idk what you mean but im saying OP is displaying classic insecurity that i dont see in "ladies men".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:43 AM
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As bad as you think British men are, American men are worse. Both in fatness and in cooking skills. And they're terrified of the word vagina lmao. British men arent all perfect by any means but they cook, are usually slimmer on average, and fuck well too, probably cause of a better sex ed idk all i know is that they definitely know how to please
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:40 AM
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Im not a British woman but most British men I know are in LTRs with other ethnically British women. The only British men I know who is a sexpat has actual minor dwarfism, hes really nice but he made the right decision to go abroad cause his face looks like a preemie and hes 5ft tall. But youre right, i found the female competition in the UK kind of a joke, but I was definitely impressed by the male stock, there's plenty of tall hot dudes to go around, they're not insecure sex negative Puritans, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:03 PM
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I know, promiscuity is correlated with cheating in men too. But so are a lot of other things like age, attractiveness, wealth. But if i were to only date ugly virgin dudes because im scared of them cheating that would still show insecurity in my ability to keep a man loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:56 PM
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Being a single mom usually requires more work and takes more of a toll on your career and finances than being a single dad. Until that changes, it will always be this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:19 PM
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I've personally never seen women fantasize about Patrick Bateman. the actor looks great but the character isn't hot. Its only hot if you're dominant but also in love with the female protagonist and wants to protect them. Edward Cullen is dangerous but wants to protect Bella and so he does. Most women like the hint of danger + ultimate protection, not straight up serial killing, thats getting way deep into male fantasy territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:10 PM
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Nope, reread my comment, he cares less because he knows his dick is too good to be "cucked". Tall, attractive, big dicked dudes are the last people you'll ever see crying about wOmEnS pRoMiScUiTy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:09 PM
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Lol fr ive never met a hot guy who would ever post shit like this lmao they're too busy working out and getting laid to gaf
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:59 PM
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Hah yeah i can. Its insecurity because higher n count men care less. Incels are obsessed with the most extreme end - virginity. Regular dudes have a higher "acceptance point". The higher the male n count, the less he cares about it. Why? Paternity insecurity. More n count in the female means more competition. Less n count means less competition. You stand a higher chance of being the best dick ever when shes only fucked 1-2 other guys. Your odds decrease with every new dick she experiences. Guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:58 PM
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He didn't answer because he knows it reveals how insecure he is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:54 PM
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Some do. Others are just dating around to test the waters before they find a good guy who's worth settling with. Most women (and men) do similar behaviours: sleep around in their early - mid 20s and settle down to have a family from age 25-33. Promiscuous people of both genders who are 34+ are usually red flags. But when you're young and fucking around its usually just to have fun, meet different guys, and settle for a guy whos attractive and eats pussy well. How are you gonna really know you lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:43 PM
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This is exactly it. Also British guys care even less than American men do. And they usually can cook too, and have sexy accents so you already know i had to bag one 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:38 PM
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When it really comes down to it, smart and attractive women have no problem banging a few hot dudes and marrying a good guy once that routine gets boring. As long as shes good looking, that is. Men only give a fuck about it if you're not discrete about it or if you're ugly. Also the guys who care about n count the most are the guys with a low n count and they're not desirable so red pill seething makes no difference to women's behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:35 PM
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The rabbit hole runs deep with him, check out the Wikipedia page. I find it interesting how conservative and religious fundamentalism targets men in particular for violence and slaughter. The idea of men as disposable and even as the enemy of other men and ideologies is as old as war itself. Women's lives are spared in war, albeit as sex slaves breeders for their enemies, they are valued nonetheless by the victors.
/r/MensRights05/08/21 05:04 AM
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FemaleDatingStrategy makes r/MGTOW look wholesome. They advocate for the cat lady lifestyle and "kween worship"
/r/MensRights05/08/21 02:05 AM
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I think you're talking about r/MGTOW? Just got banned from reddit for so called "promoting hate" aka thought crimes
/r/MensRights05/08/21 01:15 AM
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As in religious war, convert or die (only if youre male)
/r/MensRights05/08/21 01:04 AM
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Source? Edit : https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Umoja,_Kenya
/r/MensRights04/08/21 10:35 PM
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No one takes violence against men seriously. Republican Matt Shea literally said he wanted to kill all males who don't convert to his biblical agenda But did you see feminists talking about it?
/r/MensRights04/08/21 10:33 PM
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They're gonna need some blister bandages for that nasty burn
/r/MensRights04/08/21 10:24 PM
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Pick your gender : male Tess Holiday nonbinary
/r/MensRights04/08/21 10:21 PM
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The document asserts that all men must oppose abortion, gay marriage, communism, and occultism when biblical war begins. Otherwise, they will be murdered. “If they do not yield — kill all males,” the document reads. Section 5 of the manifesto asserts that during war, “numbers are inconsequential” and “God is with us, and the Battle is His.” Section 6 mentions circumcision and that the Biblical army may make sacrifices to achieve its goals. Section 11 includes a detailed organizational structure …
/r/MensRights04/08/21 10:04 PM
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Arguing that women are less important and that women would die without men but men would be fine without women is neither correct nor conducive to a hate free community. That is not equal respect.
/r/MensRights13/05/21 02:13 AM
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This sub isnt only that, but unfortunately theres a reason it has that reputation. I want mens issues to be talked about more, i think if we start to examine how capitalism and powers that be exploit men like your veteran family members, that would be amazing for humanity. Everyone would benefit from a real movement that fixes the way society treats working class men in particular like disposable and replaceable. My father suffered a really bad work related accident. I want very much for this mo…
/r/MensRights12/05/21 11:46 PM
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This is the kind if toxic rhetoric and lies that earn this sub the reputation it has as male supremacists. No, dude. Women work nearly as many hours of paid work on average plus more unpaid hours doing essential work for their families. Again, women are not inferior. This subreddit really supports this shit huh? Why is no one else speaking out against this? Women aren't your enemy bro so wtf is up with all this hate?
/r/MensRights12/05/21 11:41 PM
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They are saying that you can't love women if you understand them. You can either love women or you can understand them Misogyny here is rampant. This is why this sub has the reputation that it does. It used to be worse, reddit moderation in general used to be more relaxed several years ago. You would regularly see Return of Kings (Roosh V) and "repeal the 19th amendment" posts here. Men's issues are important and deserve to have a more progressive platform free of hatred and the baggage that com…
/r/MensRights12/05/21 11:28 PM
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Women are equal to men, they are not inferior. Im sorry you cant accept that
/r/MensRights12/05/21 08:49 PM
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This sub has always been anti woman. This thread is filled with men saying men dont need women but women wll die without men
/r/MensRights12/05/21 07:41 PM
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This is what i hate about MRAs. You say youre about mens rights but all youre doing here is diminishing women, arguing that women are inferior. Devaluing the work that women do is the fuel to male supremacy. You sir, are a male supremacist and everytime i come back here hoping you men have learned to respect women and see women as equals i am always disappointed but not surprised. Fuck male supremacists. This subreddit is a hate group. One downvote = one vote for misogyny
/r/MensRights12/05/21 07:36 PM
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u/sprungchain12 this comment right here, and the upvotes it got, is a great example of why r/MensRights is labelled a toxic misogynistic sub. Cue the apologists and downvotes, cue the "bbbbbbuh feminists >:(", bring on the angry comments that will do everything except admit that saying you can't understand women and still love them is misogyny.
/r/MensRights12/05/21 07:18 PM
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He says, posting in r/MensRights hahah
/r/MensRights09/09/20 03:18 PM
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So far what we have used to measure gender egalitarianism has no effect* Gender egalitarianism is still fair and just, however. The genitals you are born with should not be used as a way to pigeonhole you from the moment you are born into a fixed category with specific roles. And we have never seen a society as of yet with true gender egalitarianism, and never will until gendered socialization is finished for good.
/r/MensRights29/05/20 09:43 PM
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After controlling for confounds, only cultural individualism, historic pathogen prevalence and food availability remained. Sex differences in personality are uniquely correlated to ecological stress. Previously reported correlations between greater sex differences and socio-cultural liberalism could be due to confounding by influences of ecological stress https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886919302909
/r/MensRights29/05/20 06:23 AM
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So you don't think society is changing or that more change can be possible?
/r/MensRights26/05/20 05:16 AM
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If you raise your children, boy or girl, to be an adult. To expect that trust should be earned not given, that no gender should be trusted because they are that gender, or feared because of that gender. If you raise them with basic life skills. Raise both to know how to cook, clean, budget, critical thinking, how to pause on emotions and reflect (not just have a temper tantrum - real stoicism), how to earn something and not manipulate to get it, how to study, and and and so important... and how …
/r/MensRights24/05/20 06:50 PM
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That's what I wanna do, I just wanted to see this sub's take on this, because it seems a lot of people in this thread argue that not raising kids with gender roles is harmful or wrong and that the right thing to do is enforce gender roles on children.
/r/MensRights24/05/20 06:48 PM
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Thats just a consequence of progress. Change takes time. It doesn't mean we should abandon all effort for things to be fairer for men. If women had that mentality then they would still be wearing long skirts and being exclusively housewives who only take homemaking classes even today.
/r/MensRights24/05/20 06:44 PM
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Why not just let kids do what they want, dress how they want and let them decide?
/r/MensRights24/05/20 06:38 PM
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Im talking about raising girls and boys with the same standards. I.e. Expect from girls exact same toughness expected of boys. Show boys the exact same affection and compassion we show girls. Raise boys and girls to be equally dependent and independent (ask for help, but be independent when needed). Not spend more time or effort on a girl's appearance, raise kids to value practicality and also develop their own interests independent of gender. Personally I notice parents tend to not hug and kiss…
/r/MensRights24/05/20 06:37 PM
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If there are hard-wired differences, then why should socialization be different?
/r/MensRights24/05/20 06:29 PM
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There are MRAs in this thread arguing that we shouldn't abolish gender roles though, what's your take on that?
/r/MensRights24/05/20 06:29 PM
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So continue raising kids with gender roles then?
/r/MensRights24/05/20 06:28 PM
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On this account or an alt?
/r/MensRights24/05/20 06:44 AM
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Wow. That's hilarious. One time I got banned for saying the word faggot on a LGBT sub. Can you fucking believe it? my flabbers were well and truly gasted
/r/MensRights24/05/20 06:25 AM
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Did they say what rule you broke? Was it the "only women's issues" rule? Screenshot?
/r/MensRights24/05/20 06:14 AM
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It's a meme, don't be so offended and just get over it. The military sucks big ass balls. There's no shortage of remembrance day bullshit that glamorize state sanctioned murder. Quit your whining and go focus on more important shit nah mean?
/r/AntiFeminists19/04/20 10:57 PM
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But if people want to make personal attacks and degrading memes, I'm out. Wheres the personal attack? And LOL you draw the line at memes? Youre offended because it's a meme?
/r/AntiFeminists09/04/20 05:58 AM
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"They are literally disrespecting the military unbelievable." Why not?
/r/AntiFeminists09/04/20 03:27 AM
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I didn't see anyone disrespecting soldiers in OP but I would beat them down if they did! No real patriot would ever disrespect any aspect of the military with something as horrible as criticism! How dare they!
/r/AntiFeminists09/04/20 02:36 AM
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Exactly. The military is amazing and very ethical. What a divine institution. Every dollar spent on the military is a dollar spent wisely. War ❤️❤️💲💲❤️❤️💲💲
/r/AntiFeminists09/04/20 12:52 AM
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It's even worse, your actually get called anti-Semitic etc for suggesting that MGM is a moral outrage. Holy shit thank you for saying this. I've seen this happen a few times and it makes me so mad wtf there's nothing antisemitic about criticizing genital mutilation
/r/MensRights18/12/19 05:40 AM
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Thanks for finding this. Although the majority of survey respondents indicated that they are moderate-to-liberal in orientation, the group with which the largest proportion identify is the Libertarian movement (rather than the Democratic party, which is considered the default liberal party in American politics). It seems that there is potentially a Rubin-esque strain within the men’s rights community, wherein people who consider themselves “classically liberal” may be eschewing traditionally lib…
/r/MensRights18/12/19 05:15 AM
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Do you scrutinize MRAs who have commented a few times on TRP the same way? No? Why is it different? Also you didn't creep my profile hard enough otherwise you'd have seen the part where it was all a test to see how redpillwives and TRP react to men cheating vs women cheating. I'm not even married lmfao
/r/MensRights18/12/19 05:03 AM
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I assure you it's a lot more than just 1 person. Everytime I go against the circlejerk here it's all insults and hostility. I can show you screenshots later today when I have time if you'd like to see it? I think it's testament to how much most users here refuse to engage with ideas they don't understand, and the toxic hostility is a way of repressing dissent without having to respond to it reasonably and calmly. I wish it weren't like this but unfortunately that's what happens when reactionary …
/r/MensRights17/12/19 04:38 PM
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Yeah r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates is okay as well, but this sub can be a bit echochambery and toxic which is why so many men are seeking non-right wing male spaces. I just like male spaces that aren't anti woman's rights, antifeminist with zero nuance or attempt to reason with feminism and gender theory, and where toxicity isn't rampant. This sub has too much right wing reactionary misinformation and it's extremely hostile, as you've shown, to criticism.
/r/MensRights17/12/19 04:27 PM
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Variety, sure, but it leans Trump and anti Labour supporting which isn't leftist. As I said, in the only election thread I can find on this sub, almost all upvotes and commenta supported Trump in 2020 election, are you saying that that thread was manipulated by spam bots?
/r/MensRights17/12/19 04:16 PM
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Go fuck off Thanks for proving how toxic this community is and why r/menslib exists. You guys can't handle criticism without getting hostile.
/r/MensRights17/12/19 06:54 AM
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Ok idk I saw a thread where more than 80% of upvotes were favouring Trump in a "who would you vote for in the next election" thread. I can find it if you want but I'm sure you're not surprised given the usual conversation here? Also Bernie Sanders and the Labour Party in the UK are significantly more hated on here than Trump/Republicans/Conservatives.
/r/MensRights17/12/19 05:55 AM
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Link?
/r/MensRights17/12/19 05:40 AM
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Saying things doesn't make them true yknow
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/19 03:54 AM
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You're in the minority in this sub. You should look at r/menslib or r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates
/r/MensRights17/12/19 03:44 AM
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Yeah you're making no sense, sorry. You're all over the place. Stick to one argument. A law that bans women from working if they are married, but not one that bans men if they are married, is discriminatory against women. That's how that works.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/11/19 07:12 AM
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Good point
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/11/19 12:16 AM
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Theoretically speaking, you can't be intersectional unless you're intersectional. If you consider enforcing correct definitions to be part of no true Scotsman then idk, but I'm not gonna call an orange an apple if it's an orange. Are there people who argue that they are intersectional while not being intersectional? Definitely. But one can validly criticize these so called "intersectional feminists" for not being intersectional if all they're going to do is advocate for white people. That's my v…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/11/19 12:08 AM
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Stats that show that resources are being allocated a certain way don't actually show that intersectional feminists want it that way
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 09:44 PM
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Aren't women already going for men who make less than them? Isn't that the trend? Like not the majority of women of course but isn't that trend growing for several years now?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 09:43 PM
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I would actually take this a step further and say that we should raise girls to not just be open to but to live as though they will NEED to be breadwinners so that they don't grow up thinking they can fall back on someone else's income.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 09:41 PM
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All I know is that I'm an intersectional feminist and a POC and I've never wanted more resources to go disproportionately to white women, nor have I seen any actual intersectional feminists, especially POC, arguing for a disproportionate amount of resources to go to white women. If you have any examples it would be great to see it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 09:29 PM
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You can say that about most rules these days. Republicans don't care about being morally correct or consistent as long as they're owning the libs. Republicans are only consistent about being inconsistent. I love this video by Innuendo Studios that sorta touches on this issue You Go High, We Go Low
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 08:58 PM
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Your study actually says the data supports the idea that alcohol and wife abuse is linked but that its more complicated than that because it's not the only factor
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 08:53 PM
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Other people have commented some great stats but I just wanted to add that there's no doubt about it, there are definitely a lot more homeless men living and dying on the streets.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 08:50 PM
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Definitely workplace safety. Men's jobs tend to be more dangerous, and when women join the same workplace, the safety policies tend to increase. I think women complain more about safety hazards at work but I also think that the PR for a company that has a woman die at her job is way worse.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 08:49 PM
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Sexual harassment undoubtedly affects women more, yes. If you're looking at victims, not perpetrators. Every survey, every HR report, etc.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 08:48 PM
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nice
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 08:44 PM
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I'm not sure that that's true for actual intersectional feminists, but thanks for sharing your opinions with me
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 08:41 PM
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I understand. I don't think intersectional feminists are against affirmative action for black men though, so idk.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 08:35 PM
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I don't know what you mean but I'm curious to understand. Rather than white women understanding how good they have it compared to black men, it seems like black men are regarded as unworthy of societal help compared to white women, especially white college-educated women. What do you mean by this? What examples do you have of this kind of way of thinking? I've never seen intersectional feminists telling black men that they are unworthy of societal help, especially when a lot of intersectional fe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 08:21 PM
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Most of those that you see are liberal feminists. Socialist feminists tend to be a smaller subsection and more intersectional. They usually advocate on behalf of less privileged minorities like working class moms, women of colour, women from the global south and (ideally, but unfortunately not always) trans women. Theoretically if one is actually coming from a socialist perspective then it wouldn't make sense to argue for the elevation of college educated white women at expense of all other less…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 08:12 PM
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You're right, it might be worth a shot though because I've seen admin message mods before regarding complaints especially if they keep getting complaints often. But yeah, admin often doesn't do shit
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 07:01 PM
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Yeah that's really shitty mod behaviour IMO. I read your comments and even if I don't fully agree with them it wasn't like you were trolling or anything so this is just completely unnecessary. You might be able to report them to admin, technically mods HAVE to tell you what rule you broke when you get banned.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 06:57 PM
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Marxist feminism: Sees the source of women’s oppression not being due to the concept of patriarchy as such, but due to the unequal structure of a capitalist economy. For this reason it sees struggles for gender justice and economic justice as inseparable. They hold that only by getting rid of capitalism can gender equality be achieved. Socialist feminism: A fusion of radical feminism with Marxist feminism. It sees capitalism and gender oppression as mutually reinforcing systems with one making p…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 06:25 PM
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Excellent point
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 06:17 PM
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Just thought I'd add that there's such thing as socialist feminism. Mainstream white feminism does tend to be very pro capitalist though, but they are not the only form out there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 06:16 PM
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Yeah I agree, it infantalizes the daughters and requires this shitty outdated idea of the daughter's sexuality belonging to her father, and it also creates an atmosphere of distrust between men. It perpetuates a shitty gender stereotype of men as assholes until demonstrated otherwise. I don't think that's good for anyone's psychology and this tradition needs to die.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 06:15 PM
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You shouldn't have been banned over this, even if the mods disagree with your opinion, it doesn't look like you were breaking any rules.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 06:11 PM
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Let's try this again A law that bans married black people from applying but not married white people, is still racist, yes? A law that bans married women from applying to a job but not married men is sexist. What part of this extremely simple issue don't you understand?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 06:02 PM
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Please share the screenshots everywhere you can, you'd be doing me a great favour! Cheers pal!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 06:00 PM
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I disagree, I think these spaces have had plenty of venting and blaming the entirety of the world's problems on feminism and it often ends up just being plain antifeminism that's at the core of the philosophy. I've been in these spaces since 2010 and it's always the same hatred of feminism and the conversations rarely evolve to a wider discussion about society and its expectations of men. The singular focus on feminism is so bad that you see even other more forward thinking men's advocates argue…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 05:56 PM
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No I haven't seen it but I'm not frequently on twitter. I'm sure they exist though. Do you have any twitter links tho as examples? Just curious to read what they say
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 05:36 PM
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Nah that's because MRAs have brought that reputation upon themselves. r/MensLib, though imperfect, is certainly nothing close to being a hate group. There's a reason I post here and not on r/MensRights, there are some cool people there but it's hard to wade through the toxic cesspool. Also male privilege does exist, and so does female privilege, it's just that male privilege helps with males getting into positions of power over other people, and female privilege helps with vulnerability and symp…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 05:32 PM
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I'll be honest, I'm often in radfem circles (though not TERF circles, just felt I should clarify), and I never see an argument for more attention and resources on women's mental health (instead of men, usually they argue for advocacy for both, or highlight the issues of one or the other) these days. If anything, men's mental health issues is one of the least controversial issues in radfem circles. I often see radfems explain that women attempt more but usually in defense of the need to still car…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 07:43 AM
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Thanks for responding but I don't buy any of this defense of toxic and misogynist behaviour. I don't consider defending rape and the other stuff I quoted justified, excusable, or even remotely defensible, so we're just going to have to agree to disagree. I also just wanted to add that the comments on those articles, have been and continue to be absolutely horrendous and often a hundredfold worse in terms of blatant hatred, irrational antifeminist and regressive propagandizing than the main conte…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 06:54 AM
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Paul Elam: Jury nullification for men convicted of rape Should I be called to sit on a jury for a rape trial, I vow publicly to vote not guilty, even in the face of overwhelming evidence that the charges are true. [....] Voting not guilty on any charge of rape is the only way to remain faithful to the concept of presumed innocence. And any participation in the system as it stands, other than with the intent to undermine it as much as possible, is taking part in the destruction of that sacred pre…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/19 03:16 AM
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I think that's because they consider that a kind of "check and balance" in its own right. The same way that leftists tend to laud African American politicians. However not all feminists believe every woman in power is great. Most feminists hate Margaret Thatcher and plenty (but not all) American feminists voted Bernie Sanders over Hilary Clinton. Of course, you still have boomer feminists like Gloria Steinem that called Bernie voting girls "just doing it to impress the boys" which is pretty fuck…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/19 11:44 PM
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That's fair, I just think I've run in to more than my share of mens rights advocates that do the same hypocritical misogynist bullshit and in my opinion, often way more overtly anti-women's rights than vice versa. So to me everywhere I look I see pots calling kettles black.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/19 11:37 PM
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I agree with you, and that's pretty much where most of my disagreement with most feminists (on men's rights issues) lies. I think in reality, Feminism by itself can't solve men's issues for the same reason that I don't think class reductionists can solve racial issues. Having said that, most issues should theoretically be compatible if we are arguing from a left - wing male advocacy POV. I think a lot of feminists are waking up to realizing that men's issues needs more attention but there are ve…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/19 11:23 PM
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I think they can be wrong about some things and they obviously focus on women's issues, but I don't think they're generally hypocritical about their desire for greater justice. Here's my evidence: feminists tend to be a lot more supportive of policies that improve the social condition of all, including those less fortunate than them, more than the greater population at large. Feminists tend to be leftists, and leftists are by default for greater democratic justice no matter one's gender, sexual …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/19 10:56 PM
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I'm a feminist and I don't disagree with OP. Its disengenuous to claim that male abuse victims don't have their own unique challenges regarding being taken seriously and being empathized with. Everyone, even feminists, have a blind spot when it comes to seeing men as victims. It shouldn't be this way and I encourage everyone to actively challenge these preconceived ideas of gender.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/19 10:35 PM
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That's an extremely biased and limited definition of a feminist though. Plenty of feminists I know want equal rights and responsibilities. This is an alt right meme and holds no water. Also such reductionist views of feminism isn't really helpful to men's causes either since there is plenty of beliefs under gender theory that are compatible with men's advocacy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/19 10:32 PM
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I don't think of myself as useless, you do. I think people who can see both sides of issues like me are very important to men's issues. You have an irrational hatred of feminists and its showing in your conspiracy theories and bad faithed arguments.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/19 10:30 PM
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I already did and you haven't been able to argue against anything I said. The marriage bar existed for women, but not for men. This is gender based discrimination. Looking forward to hearing your rebuttal.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/19 10:26 PM
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You still don't get it, obviously, but it's already explained in my first comment. Married women (single women too) were discriminated against, how can you argue that gender had nothing to do with it when there was no such thing against married men. C'mon dude, think.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/19 02:20 AM
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These links don't work and the fact that you're calling someone who's sympathetic and even argues on behalf of men's causes useless just because we disagree on some feminist issues is petty
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/19 02:18 AM
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Hey how come you still haven't answered my questions? I'll repost them here so you can read them again. You don't think sexual harassment is possible? So that includes sexual harassment of men, I assume? You also implied that women have never been barred from working on the basis of gender in Western countries. I want to steelman your arguments, am I getting this right? Looking forward to your reply! :)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/10/19 07:21 PM
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Still don't see how that user is being misandrist and you haven't provided examples
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/10/19 07:18 PM
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Lol so your counter argument is that women weren't forced to marry by law so discrimination against married women (but not against married men) is not real gender based oppression? Sorry but that's nonsense and I'm sure you already know that too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/10/19 07:17 PM
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Done.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/09/19 11:41 PM
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Ok I understand that you're making the argument that the misandry is implied and covert, am I getting this right? But can you quote for me the specific part or summarize for me where exactly the misandry lies in their arguments? I think a claim like that requires an example and and an analysis in order for people who don't see it as hate speech to understand better where you're coming from.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/09/19 11:38 PM
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This is the most recent one. https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopinion/comments/czz2ge/circumcison_should_be_illegal/ez464d7/ But in the future feel free to use https://redditsearch.io
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/09/19 09:31 PM
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I wholeheartedly agree. I see this focus on gender as more evidence that it's more palatable for the general public to empathize with incarcerated women than with incarcerated men. It's shameful and depressing how much less empathy most people have with incarcerated working class men, even when they're serving disproportionately longer sentences for nonviolent crimes. This is wrong, its a step backwards for humanism in the way it disregards men, and a step backwards for feminism in the way women…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/09/19 07:54 AM
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You don't think sexual harassment is possible? So that includes sexual harassment of men, I assume? You also implied that women have never been barred from working on the basis of gender in Western countries. I want to steelman your arguments, am I getting this right?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/09/19 07:46 AM
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the rhetoric you wrote earlier isn't hate speech that seeks to defame and destroy men. Really curious what you're calling hate speech in what they said? I didn't see anything that looked like hatred of men at all, just a difference in opinion on history and power politics.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/09/19 07:42 AM
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It's possible that they're talking about the increase in uterine and breast cancer risk to some women, but I'm not sure about the puberty thing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/09/19 07:33 AM
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Oh right, Im not American myself but I know that a few states have recently passed laws that restrict abortions in a way that conflicts with Roe V Wade, and some have even made it possible for women to be imprisoned for having abortions regardless of whether they were raped. After a cursory google search I think Alabama, Georgia, Missouri, Mississippi, are such states. Kentucky has also passed more extreme anti abortion laws but with exceptions for rape and incest.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/09/19 07:30 AM
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This is why the answer to men's issues requires criticizing but not hatred of feminism as is so rampant in many men's advocacy spaces, especially more right wing ones. There's so much that academic feminists already agree with in terms of ways that gender roles is toxic to men and male presenting NB people. I believe there is a sizeable subsection of the left that is ready to embrace men's issues and having a more nuanced view on patriarchy theory that accepts female privilege and male issues.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/09/19 03:05 AM
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Women wanted the right to work. Maybe you should consider taking your anger out on capitalist propaganda and the corporate funding of anti union/anti labour lobbying instead of focusing your energy on lamenting the fact that women wanted the freedom to work?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/09/19 12:05 AM
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Being forced by law and social norms to do unpaid work at home is not a privilege. Women fought for the option to work, men never had it as an "option". Likewise, women fought for the right to work, men never had to fight for this right. Women can still choose to work, and men are still forced to work. Agreed, men should not be socially forced to be breadwinners, women should be equally understood to be capable providers for families and men should be viewed as capable as nurturers/stay at home …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/09/19 11:59 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriage_bar Obviously you're being careful with your words but it's very important to stress that most women were married, and laws and rules against married women working impacted most (and indirectly all) women. In many cases, married women were frequently barred from working, see "marriage bar". It's important to not downplay the restrictions women had in employment, obviously worsened when married, but no doubt these laws impacted single women's choices to st…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/09/19 11:58 PM
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That's odd, most recent studies show that mothers have a lot less leisure time, all things considered.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/09/19 10:29 PM
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Did you reply to the wrong comment? My comment is about the need for more male birth control options.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/09/19 02:35 AM
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Men are definitely under higher pressure to make more money than women. Boys tend to always drop out of school at higher rates than girls to work, likely as a result of the pressure to make money and because women's work tends to require more communication/academic related skills than male typical labour.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/09/19 01:57 AM
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Yeah it looks like from that graph women are still spending nearly twice as much time on childcare and housework.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/09/19 01:55 AM
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We need more research into men's birth control. The market has always favoured women's birth control for obvious reasons. We need a version of male birth control with as few negative side effects as possible so they it can be approved for public use. I think we should be pouring more government funding into this area as I don't believe private investors see this as a very lucrative product.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/09/19 01:50 AM
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Women were literally told they were oppressed by having some guy going out, working hard, and then giving them half the money. How were they stupid enough to fall for it? All you have to do to answer your own faulty question is to try and picture being a stay at home parent. Imagine not having your own income. Every purchasing decision you make you're told that you're spending someone else's hard earned money. Now imagine not being able to work due to legal and social restrictions, so in essence…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/09/19 01:45 AM
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I think menslib are as a whole still figuring everything out. In fact all of the men's movement is still figuring everything out. I think they're largely not acting as protectors though, they're being pragmatic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/09/19 04:11 PM
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The term whiteknighting is overused by right wingers and antisjws/antifeminists these days to the point where it hardly even means anything anymore. It used to be for when a man is actually being a tool and coming to a woman's aid regardless of whether its justified, primarily with the prospect of attaining sexual attention but not always. Nowadays these kind of guys use it anytime a man ever defends a woman or says anything remotely feminist or against antifeminism. I didn't think r/menslib sup…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/09/19 03:37 AM
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You might be demisexual.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/09/19 03:28 AM
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I'm PMing you
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/09/19 03:17 AM
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Fair
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/19 10:57 PM
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I do too tbh. Gender roles need to die. Both men and women need to be free from the pressure of having to fulfill a certain role based on their gender.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/19 10:56 PM
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I don't think they were arguing for a removal of due process. IIRC they pushed for higher AOC laws and longer length of time since childhood abuse for people to come out with allegations. For example, if you were raped as a kid by your priest, but you only went to the police at age 30, there are laws that allow you to do that and still have an investigation done. A lot of religious elites wanted to prevent these laws from being passed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/19 10:54 PM
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So basically you choose to only date people who haven't had any hook ups and you're having a hard time finding someone like that who likes you back. I don't think that's a sign that all of society needs to change. You've made it harder for yourself by limiting your dating pool. Accept that it'll be a more difficult process or evolve yourself to match with more people.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/19 10:48 PM
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You don't find their transphobia conservative sounding?They say all kinds of things that imply that they find men in particular who dress or appear as feminine to be "revolting" which is a pretty conservative view. Seems like they rip more on trans women who don't "pass" and it looks a lot like a really visceral reaction that is identical to conservatives. Think the way Conservatives viewed (and those who still view) interracial marriages as some sort of disgusting abomination. But on other issu…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/19 06:28 PM
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You said What about the lack of economically attractive women? Or at least ones that aren't an economic liability? I'm saying if that were the case then the rate of marriage wouldn't be at an all time low at a time when women's income is at an all time high
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/19 06:18 PM
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I agree that they were aligned on being against porn. But with the pedophilia thing I think one group was pushing for child sex abuse awareness whereas the other was panicking about satanic sex cults. Neither group was arguing that all or most men are child rapists or anything like that though, that I'm aware of.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/19 05:44 PM
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Love, compassion, and having studied men's issues in a few university elective courses and online.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/19 04:21 PM
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The misandrists Andrea Dworkin and Catharine MacKinnon were also at the forefront of the feminist sex wars and aligned on these issues with conservative "moral majority" types. What issues were they aligned on? The Satanic panic of the 1980s and 1990s was mostly an Evangelical thing, but it was enabled by some prominent feminists (Gloria Steinem (more of a libfem than a radfem), Catharine MacKinnon) because it fits with their worldview of a pervasive rape culture. What do you mean? What about th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/19 04:20 PM
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Exactly, which is why OP's tradcon/MGTOW agenda is not leftist.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/19 04:16 PM
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Not gonna happen. We already have some socially enforced monogamy. But in the past it used to be brutal. Judging others for their collapse in relationship is shitty behaviour because you don't know have the full scoop and why it didn't work out. In the past it didn't matter whether people left due to violence and abuse, youd still be shamed for being divorced. If someone is in a bad relationship they're gonna want out and society isn't going to revert back to the 1950s social morals and shame th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/19 04:16 PM
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That theory doesn't work because women are making more of their own money these days than compared with decades ago.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/19 04:03 PM
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Not everyone wants kids, or wants to be tied down to one partner. The left promotes choice. [the left is] making degeneracy a key value What even is degeneracy? I've only ever heard conservatives use that term to mean anything that isn't Christian/religious values, I don't believe that's a concept that the left should embrace.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/19 06:06 AM
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TERFs are often both extremely misandrist and conservative. Thanks for sharing this article. This was a pretty good read, better than what I was expecting for Vox
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/19 04:17 AM
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I think this is true but only one piece of the pie. A lot of it also has to do with the fact that it's an outdated institution that offers very little benefits to both parties and a lot of expenses. It's not that taboo to have babies outside of wedlock anymore so shotgun weddings are less of a thing. People are generally way less religious these days than 50 years ago. If the necessity isn't there, then the whole idea of being legally tied down to one person is altogether less attractive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/19 04:13 AM
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Good points. Wtf. That's insane and I wouldn't be surprised if this were a really common situation for men in that position. I wonder if he has tried to fight or appeal this decision. I hope some sort of go fund me gets started to help them, especially if this story picks up more steam. I'd gladly donate to help them. Poor poor man and poor little kids
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/19 02:40 PM
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They were probably being sexist then. I have no issues with being teased about all other aspects of myself or my playing. None at all. If that's all I got I would be very happy. That's all fine. It's when male gamers make me feel like shit specifically for being a woman that makes it really shitty to just exist. Also the fact that women's voices in games are three times more likely to attract negative comments than male ones. This is why most girl gamers play with voice chat off to cope. You sho…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/19 02:16 PM
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We're waiting on a placement through a shelter, but unfortunately here in southeast Michigan, there's not many shelters for men with children," he said These systems are outdated and shameful. Accommodations should be made to allow this family a safe place to stay. This is such a sad story.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/19 01:44 PM
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I believe in advocating for anyone who needs it, regardless of gender. So yes, both for men and women. I think most feminists and MRAs are too extreme and close minded in their views. Probably out of being on the defensive so much. I don't think this is a zero sum gsme. So I try to provide a balanced view everywhere I go. Also I've attended anti male circumcision protests and am a huge supporter of increasing more male primary school teachers, nurses, increasing funding for men's mental health, …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/19 07:10 AM
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I like the example that this sets. Discrimination against men is real and should be taken seriously.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/19 06:54 AM
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I don't think it's messed up if this was discussed and agreed on between the couple with both of their views being considered. Also it's not surprising at all considering that we tend to pick up social norms and expectations from the world around us. I actually remember reading once that daughters of stay at home moms are more likely to be stay at home moms themselves and pursue less education than daughters of working moms. Parents and society set the example and change is slow. I do think that…
/r/MensRights05/09/19 06:50 AM
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Personally I think it'll get better as the older people die out. Younger people are generally more compassionate towards drug users, addicts, and prisoners. So there's hope at least (I think)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/19 02:32 PM
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That's your take, I respectfully and wholly disagree with you. What I know is that what I experienced was real and I believe the women that have reported similar treatment in these fields. I've had a lot of great advice from other women in r/scientits r/girlsgonewired and women I know IRL among other women who discuss these taboo issues. I also believe men who report sexism against men in female dominated fields. Sexism is annoying and a tiresome subject for those who don't experience it, but it…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/19 05:41 AM
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I agree. Though I can also understand why people feel a tendency to care a bit more for nonviolent individuals than violent ones, even if the violent ones are victims themselves. It could be out of self preservation. I'd hope that with greater education however we could move towards a future where even violent men are deserving of sympathy. As it stands people don't even have sympathy for nonviolent people especially if they are thought to have been using or selling drugs. Indoctrination and pro…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/19 04:37 PM
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I think where feminists are usually wrong is to claim that it's only sexism and nothing else. However sexism is still a huge issue in these fields, and other male dominated fields. Whether there are incentives to get women to join or not it's still there and very large amount of women do experience that and sexual harassment. I'm very happy for you that you've had no issues with sexism. That's great. I haven't been as lucky, unfortunately. The sexism I've faced in my STEM degree has been pretty …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/19 05:28 AM
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Yeah but there's a difference between sharing a lived experience and just saying "well women are kept out of those jobs because of all the sexism." If that's their only argument then yeah, they're wrong. But I was responding to your saying that feminists are creating a self fulfilling prophecy. Im saying that's not the full story. Just stating that "sexism" is bound to happen if you are a woman who tries to enter one of those jobs is enough to put someone off, whether it's actually a valid conce…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/19 05:03 AM
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I agree with most of this and you're right that women talking about their negative experiences in these professions create a feedback loop where more women might be put off from working those jobs. But it's far from feminist's fault that it is that way. Just the fact that women share negative experiences in those professions will be enough to put some women off and create that feedback loop that you describe regardless of whether there's a feminist agenda or not. And just being a woman who talks…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/19 04:51 AM
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I think it's a bit of all 3.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/19 04:26 AM
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Works for me, maybe it's your browser?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/19 04:05 AM
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I'm just gonna chime in and say I've been following Futrelles blog, less so in recent years but since 2011 or so, I can't remember exactly. I don't see anything seriously wrong with that post. Sure he does cherrypick some of the nastier MRA stuff but I don't think he's wrong to do so either. There Is and has been a lot of extremely nasty and misogynistic and very violent rhetoric coming from prominent places like AVFM. Paul Elam himself has said some disgusting stuff about women. I don't think i…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/19 03:55 AM
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Instead I would argue that when there is seen to be a necessity for violence, it is usually men who are socially pressured into taking on that violent role. Agree with all of this especially this quoted part. Im personally a feminist and I think there's no doubt about it, people care about women's deaths more. Especially young, pretty women. I think there's some kind of evolutionary reason for that, personally. Doesn't mean it's right though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/19 06:36 PM
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It's a good thing you mentioned prostitution. No one cares about their deaths either. They hardly get investigated. A lot of serial killers target them because they're easy to kill, and they're marginalized in society. Theres a huge difference in the way our society treats the death of a middle class married mother of two vs prostitutes. People don't care about poor people doing criminal or stigmatized jobs like dealing drugs and prostitution.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/19 06:21 PM
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I loved this article. I'm not Japanese but I find reading about other cultures so good for helping to see similarities in the cultures I'm more familiar with. Reach out to the men in your life who you haven't heard from in a while. Even a simple "hello" and a smiley face can go a long way. A lot of men suffer loneliness in silence. Most people with depression do, but men tend to keep it to themselves even more. Reach out to your lonely friends and don't wait for them to reach out to you. Even if…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/08/19 10:42 PM
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I've always found the word misogyny to be overused, or at least defined in a confusing way. A lot of people will use it in a feminist context to mean everything from hatred, to discrimination, to benevolent sexism, which I consider to be distinctly different things. Thats not to undermine the negative effects that all three forms of sexism can have in society and women as individuals, but it's just not precise enough in my opinion. It's not all hatred of women in society. There's also a lot of p…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/08/19 10:26 PM
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Thanks! Enjoyed your take on things a lot. Shame that you've deleted this post so you won't be notified of my reply but if you read this, I really appreciate the openmindedness and willingness to read through all the stuff I wrote! Have a good one!!! :)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/08/19 04:54 PM
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Greater average strength, testosterone, gender roles and expectations. I think more kindness being shown towards men, by other men and women, would be good. By kindness I mean warmth. But also decreased wealth inequality decreases violent and criminal behaviour. So greater wealth distribution would probably help. Anti bullying campaigns. Mental health access, comprehensive care not just pill pushing. More male primary school teachers. More homeless shelters and affordable housing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/08/19 01:21 AM
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Your experience does not override scientific data and millions of other women's experiences. Also women and girls shouldn't have to avoid certain games in order to not have to face this. That alone is evidence that we can and should do better.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/08/19 12:48 AM
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Respectfully have to disagree with this take.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/19 08:51 PM
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Do you think this is fair to women and girls who just want to play video games and not be treated worse for their gender?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/19 07:57 PM
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Fair question as male advocacy is certainly not a priority for most feminists. But I'm in this sub for a reason. I have done so and will continue to do so. I mod for a sub I'd rather not name here for reasons and I always encourage people to talk about men's issues with more compassion and share statistics, sources and resources for men's health.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/19 06:24 PM
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Mhm. Thanks for reading my post. I just want to play games without people making me feel shitty for my gender. The science is pretty sound so far and all points in the same direction. There are other studies too if you wanna look it up on JSTOR or google scholar. I've made all the points I think I needed to make on this topic without making myself more upset at the state of how women are treated in one of my favourite things in life. So thanks for reading again. Bye
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/19 04:10 PM
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That's why we are not buying the stance at face value. Seems like a pretty childish stand off though. The real victims aren't the feminists, it's the women and girls affected by sexism. If men are having a hard time being heard the solution isn't to silence or dismiss women's experiences. I would say the same to a feminist. A more reasonable and facts based approach would be to acknowledge where they're correct and work on finding common ground. That's just me though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/19 11:16 AM
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Right, I've said my bit and added data, I respectfully disagree with your continued minimizing and mischaracterization of the damaging effects and frequency of aggragate sexism and harassment directed at women within the geek and gaming cultures. However I appreciate that you have read my comments in full and that you are coming at this from your own experiences which are clearly very different from my own. Cheers and have a nice day.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/19 10:43 AM
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Theoretically I am inclined to agree with the usage of the term egalitarian, however huge swathes of people who call themselves "egalitarians" tend to be very antifeminist and in denial of the reality of women's ongoing experiences with female specific sexism. For that reason I find it difficult to credit a movement that largely opposed any female complaints of sexism with the gradual abolishment of said sexism. They had nothing to do with the betterment of women in geek culture. They were stand…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/19 02:39 AM
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I agree that it is changing. I am happy to witness this change myself. It does irk me a bit how no one likes to admit its because of feminism. This is the natural consequence of giving people a voice and freedom. I don't want to presume, but I imagine that the trans community has also seen a massive improvement precisely because of "SJWs". Do they go too far sometimes? Yeah of course they do. But I think being on the left we should be able to recognize struggles for basic dignity against a domin…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/19 01:44 AM
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Yeah I'm not talking about those people that have nothing to do with the culture. I'm talking about the actual female gamers and fans of geek culture.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/19 01:15 AM
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It's not reality, but it's based on some real truth, as most stereotypes are. My point is that feminism didn't start this trope. Also it is gatekeeping and you're also making false assumptions about my involvement with geek culture. It's not cultural appropriation for women to join games, get upset by the barrage of harassment and sexism, and then speak up about it. My point is that men don't own geek culture. Women who enjoy geek things have just as much right to be a part of geek culture as an…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/19 12:15 AM
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I've never seen a feminist article that argues that, but I'm sure some random crazy people exist. Fathers deserve parental leave just as much as mothers. It should be up to each family to decide what works best for them and they should have equal leave options. Anything else, is like /u/LWMAFTW says, shameless. Backwards too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 11:44 PM
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I'm just saying that the trope exists and it's not just feminists that started it. I also don't find your gatekeeping of geek culture valid or accurate. The complaints I'm discussing does come from women within the culture.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 11:34 PM
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So you hear about the sexism in the sectors of law, medicine and construction every other week? I sure don't. I mod for gender subreddits and yeah, I do. All the time. Maybe you get more gaming or geek related news becsuse it's more of a hot button issue in geek culture. No, its not. It's one of the best sectors, because its by people who are not traditionally masculine mostly It doesn't work that way, gender ratio disparity and cultural factors negates whatever effect you think that that has. A…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 07:42 PM
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This is in the OP of that first D&D thread. He told her "he was glad they had this session without the girls so that there was no unecessary feminism." He wanted to play without girls so that he didn't have to include women in the game in a nonsexist fashion. Most women in that thread understood it in a similar way. Ok so this is what I've seen it to mean usually under the guise of being "historically accurate" female characters tend to get shafted, I've left games because the dm thought it was …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 07:21 PM
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Personally I don't believe geek culture alone gets singled out. People discuss this issue regarding all industries and spaces. It just so happens that it tends to be worse in traditionally male spaces like STEM and geek culture. No, I'm saying complaining will work because people will not believe the geeks if they try to defend themselves. OK so you don't actually believe that women in geek spaces as a whole are lying when they talk about these things amongst themselves and with others? So crime…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 04:34 PM
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You don't think that there's any significant problem with sexism and harassment of women in geek culture? You think women are only complaining about these things because geeks are unpopular? And yeah I'll give credit where it's due re: Ada Initiative but it's kind of important to consider why Ada Initiative was being proposed in the first place, no? Or do you think it was like Geek culture : absolutely no problems here whatsoever. Ada initiative: yeah but we're just gonna make shit up because it…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 04:23 PM
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I disagree with your characterization of those threads. There was no such evidence that pointed to the contrary, and the point of linking that thread was also to bring attention to the way that many of the women there discuss their own experiences. if you join a group expecting them to change in order to cater to your tastes. you are the problem. and they are not at fault for not wanting you to participate. I respectfully disagree. Perhaps you view the women as the problem because your priority …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 04:11 PM
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"feeling like you belong" is entirely subjective. that's the problem. Most things are. The issue is that the subjective experiences of minorities often gets undermined in favour of the dominant group's preferences. And this is a case of women's subjective experiences getting placed secondary to men's. Men don't FEEL theres a problem. Women FEEL that there is. Only one of those feelings end up getting accepted by the community though, and the other one is dismissed as illogical/biased/exaggerated…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 03:27 PM
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Not hatred, just a really angry and dismissive intolerance for women's requests for a reduction in sexism and sexual harassment within geek culture.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 03:07 PM
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You get to feel as though you belong in that culture, and that's one key difference. Just to clarify, do you think you're being fair to women who argue that they face issues with sexism and harassment in geek culture? You think you're really hearing them out and giving them all of your well intentioned considerations? Or do you think that there's a chance that your experiences have left you with a blindspot in this regard? Genuinely curious.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 02:45 PM
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More unfair and biased dismissal. Again, nothing new. None of those threads were from ideological based subs. You're being affected by your own ideological biases in dismissing and ignoring every single woman who complains about sexism in geek culture though. Sexist banter is still sexism. You probably wouldn't like it either if you were a woman with geeky interests and had to live through so much of it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 02:34 PM
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Yeah, I pretty much agree with all of this. Also second the paternity leave bit. It's so unfair that so many places offer maternity but never paternity leave. I know the historical reasons why, but this needs to change.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 02:10 PM
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You don't seem keen on understanding the women's perspectives and instead you're very keen on excusing any sexism claimed by a woman so I'm not going to waste any more of my time showing you examples. Not sure if any amount or quality of examples is really ever going to be enough to change your mind that women aren't just making this up. It's a real problem whether you choose to acknowledge it or not. But I'm not surprised, this is what a lot of women have to deal with. Just pure outright dismis…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 01:57 PM
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I agree, which is why I'm trying to get both feminists and (particularly left wing) MRAs to realize that both camps have more in common than previously thought and that there actually has been a lot of progress in recent years, thanks to some good online and IRL activism, for men's issues. There is still work to be done, but I think it'll get done better and faster if more people are engaging with real arguments, not strawmen, and that requires having some unfortunately very uncomfortable and of…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 01:45 PM
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Yeah a minor but very important thing I should clarify: I definitely don't think nor have I ever argued that all male geeks are sexist. However I'm also the kind of person who doesn't think all women are lying or exaggerating when they talk about sexism and harassment they've faced in geek culture. And I think that's a much better explanation for why feminism criticizes geek culture, as opposed to just "feminism hates geek men because we're smart and unattractive" theory that OP offered. At firs…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 01:18 PM
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Gaining popularity with women doesn't mean women are suddenly the majority in most groups. I'm optimistic that it's getting better though over the last several decades (in geek culture in general, not just d&d) However most D&D groups have very few if any women still. for example? You want me to link examples of women talking about sexism they've faced in the culture? Ok I'll do a few but you can look it up yourself as well if you want to spend some time down that fun rabbit hole and search "sex…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 01:07 PM
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I never said all geeks. i am a "geek" i play D&D in a group where women outnumber men 5 to 2. Women outnumbering men in D&D is pretty rare. geek culture has been nothing but warm and welcoming to the women I've known Not to the women I know. It's not usually all geeks that make women feel uncomfortable. There's more good ones than bad ones. But the bad ones are plentiful and they get away with a lot of "minor" sexist comments and behaviour that when aggragate, make a shitload of women feel less …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 12:42 PM
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Plenty of feminists, as youre ignoring in my reddit AskFeminists link, don't say "toxic masculinity is to blame for boys failing behind". In fact your article doesn't say so either. Poor students includes boys, in fact half of all poor students are boys no? And within the solution for improving education the answer to helping boys who are struggle shouldn't require the exclusion of girls who are struggling. That's a silly way to go about improving the education system. Here's the relevant sectio…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 12:13 PM
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Not true, feminists tends to argue that men still go for the highest and most employable degrees, and the ones who don't go to university tend to still succeed in trades careers. I don't see many argue that men are going to university less because of toxic masculinity. It's fair to disagree with their take but doesn't mean we should replace real arguments with strawmen. Theres also a huge overlap between feminists and people who think that the education system is not fair to lower income student…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 11:46 AM
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Being something of a nerd myself (albeit only occasionally involved in the nerd culture), for a long time I've wondered why feminists are so hateful toward nerdy men and so obsessed with transforming "geek culture" It's actually the other way around. Geek culture is not a fan of women, hence why feminism calls out particular instances of vitriol and sexism aimed at women stemming from geek culture. It's not very inclusive or women friendly, and it doubles down on any attempt to make it less host…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 11:34 AM
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I'm not sure what you mean? Also why is my last comment not showing up? Edit : in fact, several of my comments in this thread aren't appearing
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 11:16 AM
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I say that I want to see the ones that acknowledge the problems caused by feminist ideology before I can trust Personally all I see is you listing some old person's outdated ideas about gender that most of feminism has already evolved away from. You know the majority, if not all of academic feminists acknowledge that male domestic violence victims exist right?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 04:14 AM
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How when a million straight white male nerds get bullied, no one cares Because society tells men and boys to man up, and its shit. There are many anti bullying initiatives. Problem is our education system is underfunded and these proven antibullying measures get least priority when the country hardly allocates enough money to make sure kids have a roof over their heads, and the money they do get is misspent.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 04:02 AM
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That's a great quote of his. Looking forward to his AMA.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 03:22 AM
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I can understand why anyone would want to hear feminists disavow that part of this old woman's mid 1900s essay, but the truth is no one even knows about it. Maybe if they knew she said that then they could have a chance to say "we disagree with this specific position" but it looks like at the moment only MRAs are talking about this 10% reduction thing. Feminists aren't going around killing men and committing mass murders. There's no evidence to suggest they're planning to reduce the male populat…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 03:11 AM
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If you're a masculine man who fulfills a masculine role Agreed. serious inquiry into the double standards and biases present within the current movement. and specifically academia This has already been happening. There are more journals and articles on men's studies and men's issues today than ever before. And it's only going to keep increasing. Thankfully that's the benefit of academia, it's generally self correcting. The tide has turned and mens issues is rising up in salience in even the most…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 03:01 AM
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the idea that men are inherently the cause of the worlds problems....and yes. i would say that is just as prevalent in feminists So it sounds like you don't think feminists actually want to reduce the male population. If you're arguing that feminists think men are to blame for most of the world's issues, then yeah I agree with you there. But if you're arguing that they think their "solution" is to reduce the male population, then that would be wrong. I just wanna make sure that people reading th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 02:06 AM
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You believe there are as many feminists who are pro reducing the male population as republicans who are anti gay marriage? Or am I misunderstanding you?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 01:40 AM
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traditionalist ideas What kind of traditionalist ideas does r/MensLib promote? Also I saw that they took down the sticky about feminism so I think there might be some changes underway.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/19 12:57 AM
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Women have more research This isn't true as a huge majority of all medical research is done on male subjects, even when they are animal models, because researchers prefer the least amount of variation in an ideal subjects. Biological men don't have menstrual cycles, or a risk of being pregnant. Having said that there are definitely things that we should do to improve men's health. Theres good news though as the gender longevity gap in most western countries has been closing as things like smokin…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/19 11:49 PM
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/u/ThePigmanAgain - 45 posts, 395 comments on The_Donald. Big fan of Lauren Southern's "Borderless" propaganda doc. Did you have a change of heart in the last week or something? When did you become left wing? Do you still like Donald Trump and Lauren Southern?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/19 11:12 PM
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It's cute how you're still pretending to be on the left. So tell me, why do you like Donald Trump as a president? What has he done for mens rights? Edit: he blocked me for showing proof
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/19 11:02 PM
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It sounded a lot like you were saying that men killed themselves in higher numbers since feminism was established and that there's a link. I'm glad you're not saying that because I think the factors have a lot more to do with alienation under capitalism, strict gender roles, and cultural pressure to "succeed", lack of mental health support. I don't think playing blame games on male suicide is productive, but if you want to take it that way, I'm going to leave you with an old saying Its not calle…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/19 02:56 PM
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Other T_D posters and right wing that pretend to be lefties here
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/19 02:40 PM
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Same but I want to know if I'm reading posts by actual leftists who advocate for male issues. Otherwise what's the point of this sub
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/19 10:55 AM
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I didnt have that experience with feminism personally that I didn't also get from people of every single ideology or opinions/long held beliefs. Christians, MRAs, Conservatives, Liberals, Progressives, nonpolitical people, everyone. I also think that plenty of antifeminists say one thing - "I believe in gender equality" - and yet say completely contradictory things - "but women are getting too uppity at work and we shouldn't have given them the vote". I also think feminists tend to be held to a …
/r/MensRights19/08/19 10:26 AM
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I'm more trying to steer you towards, "You know what, since feminism's establishment, male suicide has increased. You're not directly saying that correlation equals causation but you're definitely suggesting that male suicide and feminism are linked. So you think that men started killing themselves more and that was influenced by women getting the vote, getting to go to higher education, being allowed to work... Etc? Or is your claim that feminism has only been driving men to commit suicide in a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/19 10:18 AM
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A few too many of the posts here, like yours, are giving me #Walkaway vibes which is why I said the sub not just one person.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/19 10:08 AM
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I think generally maleness grants some unearned authority, respect and other biases related to masculinity, but at the expense of being allowed to appear weak/vulnerable. I think femaleness grants some unearned protection and presumption of innocence at the expense of being treated like fully autonomous adult beings on equal footing with men. I think feminism needs an updating to move away from scare mongering numbers, and towards a more nuanced look on men's issues, and I think that this change…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/19 09:49 AM
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So the same basic MRA take on feminism. Thanks for being straightforward about this sub's position. This isn't going to be a great place for me then. It's a shame, i could really have used a better alternative to MensRights and menslib
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/19 09:28 AM
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Yup.
/r/MensRights19/08/19 01:49 AM
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Agreed, this is a direction that I hope we can all agree should be explored. Not as a childish "no, you!" in response to toxic masculinity though. Toxic femininity should be discussed in a mature and constructive way.
/r/MensRights19/08/19 01:38 AM
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Tell me please how you think that disenfranchising women and black Americans is helpful for the advocacy of men's rights?
/r/MensRights19/08/19 01:33 AM
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I think the very fact that we're still using words like "siding with feminism" reveals we don't actually believe that Feminism and men's rights are compatible at the moment. And I find that sad. Itd be nice if this sub could be more like a middle ground between MensLib and MensRights
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/19 01:20 AM
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I don't think hard work and self defence is seen as toxic behaviours.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/19 01:17 AM
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So this is a leftist sub that hates AOC?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/19 01:13 AM
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Anyone can be toxic, a toxic person is just someone who's overly negative and emotionally draining to be around.
/r/MensRights19/08/19 01:12 AM
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They've always been openly against rape against men. Don't believe me? Search "male victims" on that sub. Time and time again they're openly pro advocacy for men's ability to not be sexually assaulted. Admittedly they don't do much advocacy themselves, but that sub is almost unanimously agreed on this issue.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/19 01:10 AM
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That's why men gotta speak up about their issues and advocate for men's rights. So far I've only heard men talk about these issues online, I think a lot of men are too afraid of being judged for caring about social justice issues to actually talk about it in person.
/r/MensRights19/08/19 12:52 AM
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You sound friendly, calling me a snowflake. That's definitely not toxic behaviour at all. I love men having opinions, I just don't like the incessant name calling.
/r/MensRights19/08/19 12:49 AM
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Nah this is 2019, people aren't as interested in waging a gender war. r/menslib is one of the most wholesome and engaging subs for men's liberation from the tyranny of a sexist society.
/r/MensRights19/08/19 12:48 AM
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I'm sure it doesn't mean much but I used to think only women were oppressed. Now I've changed my mind on that considerably after a few years of reading men's rights stuff and researching it more. Now I think things like "how the fuck can a gender (men) not even be legally protected from rape and not be oppressed?" Change is happening. The youth of today are more aware of the nuance in these issues than our parents were. And this will continue to improve with time and education.
/r/MensRights18/08/19 08:46 PM
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Oh definitely I agree with you. I also think there needs to be a separate but adjacent movement for men. Just like there's an LGBT movement, a black movement, etc. I just think too many feminists and too many MRAs think that it's not possible to believe that both sexes are oppressed in our culture. Men's movement and feminism doesn't need to be oppositional to one another. I think people on "both sides" (for lack of a better word) are waking up to the reality that both movements have some great …
/r/MensRights18/08/19 08:36 PM
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I get what you're saying but Im definitely more optimistic. I've spoken with many feminists that are aware and advocate for men's issues as well. They tend to be the more academic types, not pop feminist twitterheads.
/r/MensRights18/08/19 07:05 PM
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It's worth actually reading what they have to say in response to this issue on subs like r/AskFeminists. It's not going to convince most people in this sub but there are valid reasons as to why it is this way and it pays to not be ignorant of their arguments. This avoids the dreaded strawman fallacy that plagues most advocacy/political subs. Indeed my personal opinion is that I think now that our collective consciousness is evolving towards the better, it's time that feminism works to rebrand it…
/r/MensRights18/08/19 05:27 PM
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They're 200x bigger than this sub lmao 124,000 vs 600 subscribers. Guess which one is a bigger issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/19 05:14 PM
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Being critical of something and being "enemies" are different things. You're not an enemy of everything you criticize. A lot of r/menslib users also post here and agree with a lot of stuff in this sub, they just don't agree with everything. And r/MensLib should theoretically be exactly the type of people OP writing about. They are feminists who focus specifically on men's issues and men's rights. That's why their name r/MensLib means men's liberation. They aim for men's liberation from the tyran…
/r/MensRights18/08/19 05:00 PM
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They criticize this subreddit for being toxic and overly critical of feminism (which in my opinion can both be true) but OP was looking for people who are both sympathetic to men's rights as well as being feminists and I think r/MensLib fits that bill perfectly. OP also said that they appreciate that this list would include "imperfect" men's rights advocates, so I don't see at all why r/MensLib should be so heavily downvoted except the fact that there's a rivalry between that sub and this sub. I…
/r/MensRights18/08/19 04:35 PM
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I know it's cliché but the old Facebook status saying "don't make people a priority when to them you're just an option" is a good way to live your life. When you find someone who makes you a priority then you can and should treat them the same way. But if they treat you like you're just one of many options, say your goodbyes or get yourself some other options.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/19 06:16 PM
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In that case, r/MensLib if communities are also allowed on the list
/r/MensRights17/08/19 06:11 PM
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I know I'm going to be downvoted to oblivion but I'd say r/MensLib should go on this list. Men's libbers are pro men's rights and feminists. Welcome! /r/MensLib is a community to explore and address men's issues in a positive and solutions-focused way. Through discussing the male gender role, providing mutual support, raising awareness on men's issues, and promoting efforts that address them, we hope to create active progress on issues men face, and to build a healthier, kinder, and more inclusi…
/r/MensRights17/08/19 06:02 PM
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We have to understand women's nature. They are the manipulative gender. Might wanna change your wording if you're not interested in generalizing women
/r/MensRights17/08/19 06:00 PM
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I don't think that should count
/r/MensRights17/08/19 05:57 PM
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Look at this guy lmao rage posting in a sub with 600 subscribers, it's too easy to trigger boys like you :D hypocrite
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/19 05:47 PM
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True. Abusive people are not worth the effort, ever. Get out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/19 05:34 PM
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r/MGTOW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/19 01:31 AM
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Average age for men's first marriage in US is 29
/r/MensRights07/08/19 12:00 PM
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lmao please quote the part where i said all you want is to smash? also sometimes people use comment/post interchangeably when its obvious what context you're talking about. you're still in high school so i think its understandable that you haven't learned that yet. anyway good luck kid. stay off mgtow forums, itll make you turn into one of them for the rest of your life. and you do NOT want to be one of them unless you really hate yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/19 07:48 PM
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I'd believe that but you're posting in r/FemaleDatingStrategy and telling women to "stop whoring around if they want a good man" lmfao. This kind of obsession with women and your bitterness about them shows you do very much wish you had a relationship. You just wish you could guarantee that she won't be unsatisfied by your sexual performance/actually love you. And also, pussy isnt the only thing men get out of relationships, buddyo, thats your lack of compassion talking again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/19 06:37 PM
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I'm not even interested in a relationship to begin with, also I am no kissless virgin Just a word of advice, maybe you shouldn't be telling people this? It kind of proves the whole "you're only mad at women because you can't sleep with them, and youre only slut shaming because you're insecure" thing. Sorry your life turned out this way. My condolences. Honestly I know you won't like to hear this but you should look into working on developing better self esteem and compassion skills. Like maybe j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/19 03:58 PM
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she constantly compares your sexual performance to all the other fish in the sea she smashed. Ouch is that what happened to you? LOL!! Yikes. Sounds like a personal issue you're holding onto and if I were you I wouldn't be repeating this to other people, its kind of embarrassing to you lol. In that case, sleeping around with literally every viable person with no regard to consequences, that's the kind of behaviour that won't land you a good partner even if you're a man. Extemely high promiscuity…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/19 03:47 PM
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Lol extreme r/niceguy logic. Delusional. If your definition of "whoring around" means having casual sex. Nowadays everyone gets married to people who have had casual sex. The only guys who say they wouldn't marry a woman who has had casual sex are "nice guys", and they're absolutely not Prince Charming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/19 08:41 PM
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Agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/19 11:45 AM
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Lmao you're a fucking retard if you don't think we live in a patriarchy. Women weren't allowed to vote without feminism. Women weren't even allowed to go to school, have their own bank accounts, or work. Don't bother replying, I've disabled inbox replies, just wanted to say your dumb ass should get off MRA forums and go back to school lmaaaaaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/19 05:22 PM
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That's actually really good advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/19 04:59 PM
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Lmaooo! No need for viagra, ever😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/19 03:04 AM
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It's a defence mechanism, which obviously everyone except the idiot in question already knows. But it's hilarious how some men are delusional in thinking it's anything but their fee fees getting hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/19 09:59 PM
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LOL sneakerheads are the worst. Speaking of sandals, I know this short guy who spent like hundreds on the stupidest Supreme sandals. It looked like garbage with everything he wore. What short guys do to flex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/19 03:09 PM
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You're too stupid to realize most of this is satirical to show people why they should give a fuck about sex worker safety. Thank you for that. Now spread the word. Give a fuck about women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/19 10:48 AM
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Same 🌸🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/19 06:06 PM
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I know we still have a way to go but damn, marriage for old ladies is actually just servitude. That's why when women are widowed they actually tend to be happier than male widows. Because male widowers don't know how to take care of themselves. It's sad, I don't blame them because it's the way culture made them, but seriously how hard is it to just do your own fucking chores lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/19 02:10 PM
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Can confirm, this is fun
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/19 01:07 AM
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Lol again you wasted your life typing out a whole damn novel that no one is going to read. I find it hilarious how mad I've made you lol you're too easy to troll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/19 01:06 AM
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Good point OP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/19 04:05 PM
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She was a stripper. And no, we're not seeing an epidemic of men being drugged by strippers and robbed. Personally I just don't care about guys in that situation because I think they're pathetic. I would care more if the man was just an innocent guy walking down the street, but that's not what he was. He's not innocent, he was a dumbass who got himself in that situation in the first place. No sympathy for idiots who exploit poor women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/19 03:49 PM
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No it doesn't happen to men all the time lol also I don't feel bad for men who exploit sex workers anyway. As long as they're not getting hurt, I don't care if sex workers exploit the men trying to exploit them. They deserve it for being scumbags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/19 02:50 PM
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You kidding me? She admits she stole things from a guy she intoxicated many years ago and people flew off the handle. She didn't even rape him, just theft. Gangsta rappers do worse shit like beat men up to a pulp, steal and even murder yet they're loved even more for it. Cardi B is a fucking boss and you're a bit of a snowflake if you think that's controversial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/19 02:07 PM
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Nah girl I'm on your side, that other guy wants to call you a bot and I'm pretty sure you're not a bot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/19 01:57 PM
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You're just mad because you just got served with logic Sorry Ben Shapiro, but pulling false statements out of your ass confidently doesn't make some thing logical lol. Gish galloping (especially when there is no evidence provided) is also usually frowned upon as a poor tactic. Provide sources, let's see them, we'll discuss them more thoroughly once you provide sources. For now I'm going to only look at one of your bullshit claims, one I'm more familiar with. rapists definitely get in trouble for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/19 03:36 PM
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Leftism is not the same as liberalism. Not my problem that you're misusing terms. IMO you're a centrist and a neoliberal with right wing and reactionary sympathies. I looked at a few more of the users you're calling bots and you're right, I have to give you credit here, wtf is going on. Im not familiar with r/TheFairerSex but it seems most if not all mods there are some kind of weird rad fem bots. The weird thing is I don't disagree with everything they say, and I'd consider myself a blackpilled…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/19 01:00 PM
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Smells like horseshit. So many antifeminist propaganda talking points here. You guys sound like the real NPCs. You're taking your anger at your shitty life situation out on women because it's easy: they've hurt your feelings in the past, and you would feel a lot more powerful if they would just shut up and be good girls who spread legs, cook and clean. You feel like women could give you the power and manliness that you crave, but instead they're squandering it complaining about their rights and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/19 12:39 PM
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No dumbass you actually did comment your accusation message on my post. Don't even bother claiming it wasn't aimed at me either, no one else has commented yet. So no, you don't do any due diligence before accusing people (I've checked other accounts you've accused too and they seem perfectly fine, no surprise there ofc). But like I said, you don't care if you're right. You don't care about evidence. Your job is to make people doubt the validity of the posters here, including mine, so as to dissu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/19 12:49 AM
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these are alts controlled by one person to spread a message. Proof? I obviously can see that you're a conspiracy theorist who's full of shit, you accused me of being an alt who controls other accounts who post on here and that's just hilarious LOL. So where's the evidence? Got any? Anything at all? Where's my other accounts that I supposedly control? Fucking lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/19 11:58 PM
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Friendly reminder to not take /u/REEEEEE1337 seriously, he's a right wing troll who likes to call women bots (or craft alts oOoOo) but provides no evidence for any of his claims. None. Ever. Not even once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/19 11:38 PM
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!isbot Radfem_extremist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/19 08:52 PM
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Yeah you're not on the left and you're repeating a load of right wing talking points. You're also accusing people who aren't bots of being bots and when people show you otherwise your other defence is bUt tHeYrE aN AlT aCcOuNt" which is stupid for reasons already mentioned. You don't care if they're a bot or not. You just don't want women to feel like this is a real sub filled with real people. Let me repeat: your only goal here is to delegitimize the posters. I've looked at some of the users yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/19 08:37 PM
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I'll admit that's a nice thing that you did by saying that black people who commit violence against white people aren't always motivated by race. So you're not straight up cancer when it comes to race. Cool. But you haven't said shit to anyone on r/pussypassdenied, r/MGTOW, r/theredpill, r/tumblrinaction, r/MensRights, r/unpopularopinion, r/the_donald, which are notorious for being populated by right wing sexists, racists, pushing political agendas, filled with bots and alt accounts doing the th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/19 05:53 PM
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Agenda driven spam. I've seen it before. There's always a few guys like you lurking in female dominated subs. You're here to discourage other women from joining this sub and discrediting the posters here because you'd hate to see a female TRP take off. Lol it's cute that you think you're doing people a good service. Here I'll let you prove that you post in good faith : link me a comment of yours where you do the same thing but in defence against minorities and women. Just one comment. I'll be wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/19 05:28 PM
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Cry harder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/19 05:25 PM
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Sorry thats not a rational argument. Alts arent disqualified just because you disagree with the content that they're writing about. Also get a better hobby mate. You comment on every post here with the same "these are bots and not to be taken seriously" spam. Your agenda is pretty naked for all to see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/19 05:04 PM
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Both are good for living the rest of your life LTR and marriage free, which is the right way to be. People make dying old and alone look like the bad option, but that's the best option really. Who needs a spouse and kids anyway? Children suck and wives are useless, I'm planning on fucking plates till I'm 60 and then die 5 years later. Living my best life.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/19 12:59 PM
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Women in the west wear high heels. Some women in the East bound their feet up to look like weird hooves while they were children in order for their deformed feet to fit into tiny shoes. It was thought that this made them more attracted. Their bones were so fucked up they couldn't walk, but that was considered a sign of wealth and privilege and thus also beauty for a woman only, not men. Women in order to be beautiful are supposed to look like their clothes are impractical, even their feet are im…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/19 12:53 PM
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Been there, left him in the gutter. Fuck that noise. Get yourself a man who feels like a man even if you're a strong and intelligent woman. Anything less than this is an insecure manlet despite their physical appearance making you believe otherwise. Good, strong, emotionally secure men don't need to tear down their SO's in order to feel strong. Leave that toxic shit behind before its too late.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/19 12:48 PM
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Not single so that's a really low iq thing to say. Also why are you in this sub except to argue with women? Giving you an argument isn't fruitful because that's not what you're here for. Yes some men do actually express their desire to see their wives or gf's dressed better even while at home. No, just because we're women, doesn't mean our testimony is worth less. Older men in particular are more likely to be one of these aforementioned entitled cunts, but also younger men who have a more machis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/19 12:45 PM
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Alts arent to be taken seriously? That's not how most people use alts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/19 12:41 PM
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Why are you subbed? Rage bait? Angry at women? Genuinely curious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/19 12:37 PM
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I wouldn't care if I don't find out and if he's extremely safe. But he's a man so I expect he'll cheat anyways it's just a matter of time. So I'm trying to make sure he never finds out. What you don't know can't hurt you. I only fuck other men far far away from my home and people I know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/19 01:46 PM
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Tell that to TRP, they seem to have missed the memo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/19 01:43 PM
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Sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/19 01:25 PM
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I mean don't get me wrong I think women including myself selfishly want men to not want other women at all even if we get their resources. But it's practical to also worry about the kids and whether their resources are being squandered. Their our kids and they should get the best we can offer them.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 11:58 PM
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I'm trying to maximize happiness, I guess I've used a combination of both male and female strategies as I saw fit. Worked on physical attractiveness, worked on at least keeping a very discreet sexual reputation, worked on being more feminine, etc. But plate spinning and various posts on TRP main subreddit have helped me a lot with understanding the psychology of sexual attractiveness. You'd be very surprised if you knew how much TRP advice works the other way too if you're a woman and want to ma…
/r/askTRP22/05/19 11:51 PM
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They're not you're version of RP maybe but I guess it's my version of RP. I'm trying to maximize what I'm getting while I'm young, hot and able bodied. I want a husband but I also want a side piece. I'm using TRP strategies to get things my way and so far it's been working. It's been long enough now and things are still really good at home and still really stable. I need to make sure he doesn't find out or else it won't be stable, but for now it's stable and I'm having fun. How can you get any m…
/r/askTRP22/05/19 11:23 PM
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Weird flex but ok
/r/askTRP22/05/19 11:12 PM
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FYI he's my short term rotting fuck toy and I'm his. It all works out hah
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 10:28 PM
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It's very important to me that he never finds out. So yeah you're right it'll be even worse if he finds out later.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 10:24 PM
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Yeah well I wasn't expecting him to drop off so quickly. But thanks for the words of wisdom, you're right that at some point we'll all have to put up with saggy old bodies. Sad but true.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 10:23 PM
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More like you learned something today lol. Well tbh I was hoping I'd get advice like how to not get caught, how to be safe, when to end it etc. I know better forums for that, but not on reddit since clearly the men are ever watchful
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 10:22 PM
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Exactly. Who cares. C'est la vie.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 10:05 PM
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Yup better believe it mate cause that's essentially a good description of my worldview.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 10:03 PM
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basic tenets of TRP I prefer a more nuanced and accurate worldview, I don't subscribe to absolutism the way you do. To Doctor-bro you are nothing but a physical receptor for his jizz. What makes you think I want anything other than his cock lol. I don't want his commitment I already have a committed husband. Why is that so hard for you to understand So far my husband seems pretty happy, he's getting his preferred amount of sex and I'm hotter than him by a few notches at this point. Eventually he…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 10:02 PM
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It's a short term thing
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 09:53 PM
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Why are you so concerned with me? Move on, stop thinking about it, it might drive you crazy
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 09:07 PM
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Think outside the box. It exists for me because morality isn't that simple. I take what I've learned from TRP and I apply it to my life in a way that works for me. And the way that works for me is not in a traditionally feminine way because traditionally feminine roles don't appeal to me. I like being a career woman. I like my job. I find passion in what I do. I love sex. It's way better to be a woman when you stop giving a fuck what people think. And as long as you stay fit, and keep up with sk…
/r/askTRP22/05/19 09:05 PM
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Interesting. Good to keep in mind
/r/askTRP22/05/19 09:03 PM
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Obviously you're just trying to hurt me. But clearly I've got two great men making me really happy so I'm not too worried about being wanted. I already know it's all downhill from here LOL that's why I'm doing it now! Can't do it when my tits are prunes. I still work out and look great for my age so I gotta use it while I got it :)
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 08:50 PM
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Fair points. Well tbh I would be more upset that he's using our kids money for other bitches. I'd be less upset if the other woman was a rich cougar helping him out with extra cash. Is that weird?
/r/askTRP22/05/19 08:48 PM
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10/10 reply, thanks so much this was great food for thought
/r/askTRP22/05/19 08:46 PM
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Men aren't generally as open to this kind of arrangement. It's extremely hard finding a man who is. This way I figure no one is getting hurt and everyone's happy
/r/askTRP22/05/19 08:44 PM
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Tbh I did want male perspective but I was hoping I'd get a more gender neutral take on it from men not a different version just because I'm a woman. Some red pill men accept that some women cheat and they're ok with cheating because they also cheat. I'm here to hear from those guys mainly but it's interesting to see everyone else's opinion
/r/askTRP22/05/19 08:43 PM
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Yeah I don't subscribe to that, I'm more of a feminist red piller. There's no reason why I need to be more moral because of my gender. Affairs are fun. If they're immoral then it's immoral for everyone but they're still fun to have and that's why both men and women have them even though people get hurt
/r/askTRP22/05/19 08:42 PM
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Thanks, same to you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/19 08:32 PM
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Nice fantasy tbf, but nah I haven't been "pumped and dumped" even once. Sorry but the world isn't like that. In reality some people have gravitas. What do I like about him? He's nice, funny, and great with the kids and a great partner for getting shit done. We make a good team. I'm just bored of fucking the same guy over and over again. Tbh if he cheats I would rather just not find out about it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 08:27 PM
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Well hes none the wiser anyway. So do you think men who cheat are disrespecting their wife? Cause its not about disrespect to me it's just literally for the thrill and fun
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 07:43 PM
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Hah you wish
/r/askTRP22/05/19 07:41 PM
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Woman like you are the reason men become serial killers. No, its cause they're violent psychopaths and you sound like a bit of one yourself
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 07:41 PM
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Well he was way hotter before he got bald and fat, but I wouldn't call him a loser, just an average middle class man.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 07:25 PM
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Not trolling, and no I have a small makeup and politics youtube channel but no planned sjw finger jerks yet, I'll send you the invite when I find any though
/r/askTRP22/05/19 06:51 PM
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Fair point.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 06:32 PM
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Security, the same reason why men who cheat still want a faithful wife
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 06:31 PM
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Well yeah, pretty much. Do you like monogamous sex with one person? Who actually does? No one does. Everyone would cheat if they had the chance and they'd never get caught, including you. As for vetting me, on paper I seem fine, there were no telltale signs I promise you. Most of the time it was just random one night stands, this is the first time it's an actual ongoing love affair.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 06:23 PM
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I just wanted to have a conversation about the philosophy of it. Can cheating be moral if theoretically the cheated on party never finds out? That's the only thing really. Like what you don't know or doesn't affect your can't hurt you right? Or am I wrong about this
/r/askTRP22/05/19 06:11 PM
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I've cheated on boyfriends too, it's not about marriage it's just individual people have different morals and priorities
/r/askTRP22/05/19 06:09 PM
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I thought I'd try. Anyway I'm asking other subs now and I'm gonna make a throwaway account too cause people are judging based on my gender and I just want pure thoughts on the morality of cheating regardless of gender
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 06:07 PM
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I don't have low value, I'm just not willing to date or marry a really high SMV male because even higher value women get fucked over by them. And I didn't fuck up tbh I'm kind of really happy and loving this arrangement. And I don't want to punish my husband, believe it or not I really love him. I don't want his feelings to be hurt so I've made sure he'll never find out, or at least it's really difficult to find out, and I still treat him really well. It's just fun, and life is about having fun …
/r/askTRP22/05/19 06:06 PM
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Ok thanks for your advice I appreciate it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/19 06:02 PM
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Sorry yeah that's what I meant. Can a think be moral if no one is getting hurt. I'm interested in the philosophy of it. Maybe it's cause I'm INTP but I like to intellectuallize my feelings, probably to an unhealthy degree, but still I find the topic really interesting
/r/askTRP22/05/19 06:01 PM
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They don't know. And the kids are really well taken care of.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 06:00 PM
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But he's a good father to our kids. Also can you not come at me with words like disgusting bitch that's not what this sub is supposed to be for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/19 05:51 PM
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Ok yeah you said that already, just go if you don't like what you're reading, no need for insults
/r/askTRP22/05/19 05:49 PM
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Cool beans
/r/askTRP22/05/19 05:48 PM
1

Sure bud, thanks for being polite and chilled out about all this. What would you like to know?
/r/askTRP22/05/19 05:47 PM
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Ok yeah anyone can read my post history, thanks for that sherlock. Why does my gender matter? How does that change things. Just make this gender neutral and give some gender neutral advice is all I'm asking for
/r/askTRP22/05/19 05:46 PM
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It's not a waste of his time because he's not going to find out about it. It's just for fun and it doesn't mean I don't respect him. I do respect him. He's a an amazing father to our children. And I don't want to mess up our kids lives. But this secret arrangement has given me life and happiness back and I'm glad so I'm just looking for ways to properly keep it a secret, when should I jump ship from the doctor to be safe and not get caught or leave any "footprints". Wanted to hear other stories …
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 05:45 PM
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Ok thanks for stopping by
/r/askTRP22/05/19 05:38 PM
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This is an amazing reply thanks so much for your insight
/r/askTRP22/05/19 05:35 PM
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weird I didn't say anything about my weight.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 05:34 PM
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Thanks I like this view
/r/askTRP22/05/19 05:33 PM
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Why do you think TRP is amoral and what brings you to this sub?
/r/askTRP22/05/19 05:33 PM
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I don't really care I just wanted to know what you guys think
/r/askTRP22/05/19 05:32 PM
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Not a troll and why should my gender matter
/r/askTRP22/05/19 05:32 PM
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Thanks for your honesty
/r/askTRP22/05/19 05:32 PM
1

Low effort comment, 1/10 bur thanks for stopping by
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 05:18 PM
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I can see that. Not sure why it's ok to cheat on your wife just because you're a man though but whatever floats your boat
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 05:15 PM
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You don't have to follow my advice, you can just get cheated on and take it and enjoy being a rotting fuck toy for the men you thought loved you back. Think of me when he's on his third college girl in your riper years
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 05:01 PM
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Weird, pretty sure the men at TRP would happily give other men advice on how to cheat on their wives (I've seen it myself). Methinks this sub is filled with men tbh
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 04:54 PM
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Are you a woman? Have you ever cheated before?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/19 04:53 PM
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That's true, I have been thinking about looking for new LTR but I also don't want to fuck the kids up with that kind of instability. And to be honest I don't think I'll ever be able to stay monogamous with anyone, I'm pretty adventurous but also possessive so I wouldn't want to be in a swinger relationship either. But if the opportunity presents itself and a meet someone better who's stable then yeah I'll go for it
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 04:33 PM
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I'm a hardcore leftist, yeah but that doesn't mean I can't catch a few extramarital O's. I've been reading TRP for 10 years and it's woken me up to the realities of the dating world so no, not trolling but thanks for stopping by
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 04:29 PM
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Yeah I wouldn't bet on that, if you actually understand male psyche you'd know that they would cheat on you with a hotter woman in a heartbeat if only given the chance, every single man, no exceptions
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 04:27 PM
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Oh so you're moralizing, great thanks but I'm not looking for help in that department. People cheat, it's a dog eat dog world, the men you're probs going to end up with will cheat on you at least once or at least he would if he could, that's life, you can either be a good little girl and pretend they love you and believe in soul mate bullshit or you can wake up and actually swallow the red pill
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 04:23 PM
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Yeah I'm not toxic, my husband doesn't think I'm toxic and neither do my kids. I want to have a bit of fun, I don't want to stay stuck with the exact same cock and boring sex for the rest of my life and if that makes me toxic to you idc, I value fun and great experiences and I'm not going to stop, thanks and have a nice day
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 04:21 PM
1

Honestly I would but I don't expect the high smv guys stay faithful or committed forever
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 04:20 PM
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You can believe that if you want but unless you're going to have any advice or share your own experience with affairs then that's useless to me, thanks for stopping by though
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 04:18 PM
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REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE Oh shut the fuck up and stop whining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/19 04:06 PM
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REEEEEEEEEEEE LOL FOUND THE MANLET
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/19 04:02 PM
0

Now THIS is epic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/19 04:02 PM
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Sounds like a pretty shitty thing to do imo, try just being civil and finding out what they actually believe like a civilized, empathetic human being talking to other human beings. Its a lot better for everyone that way and doesn't make r/MensRights look like a subreddit full of shitbags
/r/MensRights06/04/19 04:32 PM
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Alright so if you use removeddit.com we can see what this guy posted in his 10 short minutes on the feminism sub These are his replies: On a post titled "Death sentence for women': Alabama proposes law to make abortion punishable by up to 99 years in prison | The Independent" this so-called "egalitarian" said in all caps GO ON ALABAMA!!!!!! On a post about women's discoveries, this "egalitarian", and definitely not a misogynist wrote for every 10 "important" discoveries by women men make around …
/r/MensRights06/04/19 04:25 PM
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wtf is this lmao
/r/MensRights27/03/19 01:19 AM
1

Lol you deleted your comments 😂😂😂😂
/r/AntiFeminists21/03/19 01:54 PM
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Lmao you actually deleted all your comments on the antifa sub. You also changed your cringey description to something more tasteful. Looks like my work here is done love
/r/AntiFeminists24/01/19 03:19 AM
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OP IS A LITTLE BITCH WHINING ABOUT NOTHING AND HERES WHY: lol im obviously gonna get downvoted to oblion in this echochamber but here goes to anyone who actually isn't a fucking anti-SJW outrage zombie: OP is full of shit. OP isn't a typical antifeminist - hes just an asshole. he wrote 17 posts in 2 hours on there and every single one of them was shitty, calling them all crazy/stupid/insufferable/psychotic, saying men think women are inferior dolts and its their fault, calling them nazis, writin…
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/19 02:30 AM
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